Oooh, all of the men on his floor are up primping, getting their hair braided, shaving and recollecting all of their Switch songs. Just for him.
He's still around?
Don't drop the soap nigga!
Damn, I love me some DeBarge. They had such beautiful songs. Sad to hear about El. I hope he gets it together.Off topic right quick: I posted a comment about this at another blog site (Bossip) anyway I said lately they been talking an awful lot of shit about people and trying too hard to be funny. Do u know them niggas edited my comment to make it sound like I said I liked them?!? Fuck Bossip! RWS is the shit!
Addiction is not funny. I'm not trying to tell anyone what to say, who to be or how to feel, but we are all just a couple of degrees from addiction. Whether we are an addict, or know someone who is, it kills families and the positive relationships some may have once had.Maybe we can pray for the brother. Maybe we can pray for those afflicted or affected by addiction sometimes instead of laughing at them or dehumanizing them. *steps down from soapbox*
I hear what you're saying Anon, but sometimes you've got to laugh to keep from crying. What with everything going on in the world, the country, our neighborhoods and in even some of our homes.Besides prayer only goes so far. If El wants help, HE has to get help. No one can make him. I would love to see him and his family do some small venues to make themselves and their families some money. But do they want to be on top again or wallow in pity?
I hope he doesn't spend the two years hiding his @$$ and tossing salads....please get some help El, you're too gifted for his sh!t. Can someone PLEASE tell me why 90% OF THE DEBARGES ARE F***ED UP LIKE THIS----THEIR PARENTS MUST NOT BE SH!T, DAYUM!!!
Well EL(when you get out)All this Love is waiting for your, my baby, sweet darling. My Baby, Sweet Darling.
But haven't yall noticed that every man who has fucked with Janet Jackson something bad has ended up happening to them?You know, they never did find her ex-husband, Rene E...
And I hear you too serafina. I totally agree: one has to WANT to stop in order to do so. No two ways about that one. I also agree that one has to laugh to keep from crying. I am seriously one of those people are firm in that belief. "But do they want to be on top again or wallow in pity?" I wish it wer that black and white, but we all know addiction has a humongous gray area that is just not so cut and dry. It just transforms people so much. IDK, something about his story touched me today. I'm usually not this invested in one particular celebrity over another. I guess because I have relatives who are addicts and I miss the "old" them and I'm projecting.
HE BETTA SHYT ON HISSELF SO MOFOZ THINK HIZ AZZ CRAZY....THATS WHAT I WOULD DO....WWW.MYSPACE.COM/ITALIANA1986
Poor El; I hope he gets it together; I wonder what made him fall; I recall back in the day when he was getting married or engaged and praising God; see what happens when you don't put God first??
he's going to come out even fruitier than he is now. poor bastard. i don't promote drug usage at all, but damn dude if you're gonna do that shit, keep it at the crib.
@ PeachizzRemember on the fade out of that song he was like......"As the sun has its place up in the sky...I love you...So dearlyAnd all the same there is no need to wonder why....I need you...please hear me."Real talk, the way he sang that shit, that is the most beutifullest thing in this world.(NO HOMO)Word to Keith Murray
ROCKZ? WHY DO PEOPLE DO THAT STUFF I NEVA UNDASTOOD. EVEN WHEN I WAS ON THE MOUND PITCHIN THEM HARD BALLS I WOULD BE THINKIN WHY YALL LOVE THIS SHIT SO MUCH.www.myspace.com/thagrindaholicNEW TRACK UP "NEVA DROWN"
BluntblazerI always wondered how anybody could pump work that they knew was destroying people.
@ Chicagorilla said... That's my shit...I love you so dearly.. Damn El get cleaned up, i go to the concert...
niece soulwriter said... Can someone PLEASE tell me why 90% OF THE DEBARGES ARE F***ED UP LIKE THIS----THEIR PARENTS MUST NOT BE SH!T, DAYUM!!! Neice. It's not that cut and dry. You can teach a child to be the best they can be and be an upstanding citizen and they do just the opposite. Then there's raising a child in corruption, filth and despair and they grow up showing the world they are a leader full of positivity.
Eldra, may you find your redemption, sobriety and clarity...Two years is no joke. That family certainly has some kind of issue that only the Lord can heal. Sheesh.
co-sign, brownbabymilitant. I'm 'bout to drop his "Heart, Mind & Soul" CD in the player right NOW! We're praying for you, El. p.s. There are folk getting paid that sound a LOT like El. ::sneezeRobinThickecough::I ain't hatin'... jus' sayin'
@dee truthHaa on da robin thicke comment. Instead of puttin' him in prison, they need to put dat nigga and da many like him, in lockdown rehab for 2 years.
what happened to rene elizondo?
meanwhile....his hair is breautamous...
@ SerafinaLMAO I am going to bust my fucking gut laughing....For Him Priceless
@ CHICAACTUALLY MOST OF ME REGUALRS WAS WHITE FOLKS THEY GOT THE BREADwww.myspace.com/thagrindaholicNEW TRACK UP "NEVA DROWN"
BluntblazerFasho. Fuck them bastidz. Glad to see you stepped off the mound.
YEA MAYBE I DID MAYBE I DIDNTJUS NOT BASEBALL NO MORE MORE LIKE TENNIS AND HOCKEY NOWwww.myspace.com/thagrindaholicNEW TRACK UP "NEVA DROWN"
Tennis aint never hurt nobody. But that hockey is a bitch.
this was beyonce's old flame. (beyonce's really old). anyhow, tina knowles arranged e.debarge with beyonce during her destiny's child days, because he is creole, and Mrs. Knowles wanted her daughter to get with a Creole, not some camel lookin' mofo.
Google the Debarge family. I did and came across a site that was dedicated to the family and featured a family memoir my "Mother Debarge". It spoke on how Daddy Debarge poss molested some of the kids. Ho0w he (white guy) met the mom (black girl) and how he was kind of mean. It has family pics. Told about Chico, and the other one whowent to jail. It was so said that I was about to cry.
this is very sad, hopefully he comes home a better man, no put intended.
I heard from a friend of El's ex-wife that child molestation was a big problem in that family. After the divorce, El's ex said she wouldn't let her kids near any of their uncles. So sad. That craziness ruins lives for generations. Pray for El.
Bad choices. My man has a gift from God
If I were El this is what I would recommend. Once he finishes his sentence and parole he should would take his family (wife and kids) out of the country. Go to London or Switzerland...revive his career they have excellent musicians in London he could collaborate with. Because as long as he stays here the police are going to be looking for a reason to bust him....he won't get any peace...That's deep about El's ex wife...WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!
The more I listen to El, the more I realize that this brotha was/is an unaparalled musical talent in our time; his voice is immediately idnetifiable! Years from now we will recognize this when our children are singing his praises and his songs. To me, he is on par with Michael Jackson and could have been much larger than we know. Music critics still say he has what it takes to comeback and be even better. At least he is still alive to make music, find healing and sobriety. I somewhat selfishly wish him recovery so that I may once again witnees his God-given talent. As far as his personal life is concerned, if what his ex says is true, than he/they are all victims of something they werent in control of. Very sad indeed. Pain often produces beauty in our lives.
He is out of jail now got out in october on early release, also janet was never married to El.
He is out of jail now got out in october on early release, also janet was never married to El she was married to james. El cahnged after his jail time and him and his wife reconciled.
El and his siblings were abused by their parent and dad Debarge a white man ashamed og his black family because of prejudice thats what happened and also james Debarge was married to Janet and as black people we should pray for El to release the demon that generational curse of incest and abuse
Love you El praying for u that God helps u through this mess u will make it u have to for u and your kids love always.
el's ex wife tracy didn't raise her kids around him or them because she obviously didn't need to. i don't tink she was afraid of the brothers. i have seen pictures of her kids with chico and she's from michigan too. it looks to me like she split from him and took the kids and kept moving because it was smart. at least she isn't running around here exploiting her kids like his other baby mamas. everyone knows he never got over tracy.i bet they end up together in the end. i saw her on an interview on and she sidestepped the question about el politely and said they still share a fondness as friends. i thought that was classy. these other hoes, now thats different. he tangled himself up with some straight up prostitutes.
bunch of sick bastards....
and I mean the comments on here, so f*$&7 cruel. any humans left in this world!!!