tells Shaun Robinson in a new book about female empowerment, "I [used to] ingratiate myself to him [men] and then sleep with him [them]. Afterward, I felt disgusting- really gross and nasty ... and I hated myself. That feeling was so horrible, I decided I would never do that again."
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so what does that mean. she doesn't sleep with men anymore? i know we all heard the rumors. well, whatever her preference is, queen is still the bomb in my book. she's a triple threat, and she came a long way!
why the hell doesn't she just admit to being gay already? folks won't love her any less. we already know anyway.
People are going to assume what they want about her anyway so why bother?
Anyhoo what I think she meant by that statement was "ewww boys are yucky!"
Gotta love King Latifah.
well then then that explains everything, I think....
@ 10:41, you silly as hell. king latifah. that made me lol
Queen looks like an offensive guard for the Detroit Lions. Hey Bitch, how come you never busted queen out for fucking chicks?
ALL I HAVE 2 SAY IS 3 THINGS
1.ANOTHER FUNKIN BOOK...DAMN,DAMN,DAMN...
2.AND THOSE HAD 2 B SOME BIG ASS MEN 2 FUCK WITH TIFAH..
3.AND WHO GIVES A PLUCK!!!!!
...WWF for real she look like she can body slam a brotha...
I appreciate the queen...especially since she stopped dressing like a dyke.
Gay folks ok with me; I just hate when men dress as women and vice versa. It just irks me.
Loved her first album.
Who would have thought that she would be here so long, doing so well?
LMAO @ 10:41
A lot of dudes like the challenge she poses. I think they have the fantasy of being with her and her gf from Set it Off. Her or AmberRose. Same thing.
Didn't Snitch post about Queen buying her hairdresser girlfriend a car about a year or two ago?
she is saying she always was a dyke and she has come to terms with that!
808
Is that the Muppet Baby Jermaine Dupree she is standin next to? That nigga in the back look shook!
...speakin of JD I heard he closed his nightclub because Elton John (who lives in the neighborhood) came in there with some friends because he thought it was a gay bar....
Oh my. She makes Jermaine look like a sock puppet in this pic.
Uh-huh.
OK, Queen.
To have said, "I prefer pussy," or even nothing at all would have garnered respect.
I can't hate on the Queen for remaining relevant and scoring a big contract with Cover Girl. Since she never tried to get with me, I ain't got no beef with her, regardless of her preference.
queenie needs to stop acting like anybody is going to care if she's gay. we know she's gay. i think she can't admit because she still not sure if she would sleep with a man again. i can see her in a year with a man.
I don't know if anyone ever really cared who or what QL slept with, how it felt, or if she'd do it again. I've been sitting here combing the dark recesses of my mind and can't come up with a single instance where this subject was ever a concern of mine.
I'm not quite sure how to catalog this information.
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@ The Prince
Now you don't just think of Latifah as a rapper/singer/actor, but also as a 'sexual being'.
Or even her 'being sexual'.
12:06 PM
I hope it's sincere and not a bearded situation.
Interesting. She used to pump all dat empowering "be real, strong, and true to yaself" strong Black woman type-shit, but da whole time, she was livin' fake as fuck, tryna be somethin' she wasn't.
Interesting.
Well if it isn't Yogi and Boo Boo.......Where is the picinic basket?
Bee-Gee: that's right. can't believe shit these oprah-ass muhfukka's be trynna pass on as truth. fuck em. all they're doin' is tellin' errbody how GREAT they are and how inadequate all y'all are. bullshit. strait up bullshit. like i said earlier, fuckin' for tracks has been around since the dawn of the music industry! that's just the way the shit is, right Dallas (Austin)?
Somebody would actually dig in them guts? I bet that would be one helluva deep sea diving adventure.
king latifah
classic!!!!!!!
808
Most people in Hollywood are fake (and greedy). How else would you explain Queen Latifah being both the voice for Pizza Hut as well as the Spokesperson for Weight Watchers?
Which Is why she went the other way. I ain't mad.
yeah shes a dike, what grown willing woman jacks off and then gets fucked and says ugh. pussy is power!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She is gay but does it really matter? Will you not enjoy her music and films any less because she chooses to sleep with women instead of men? In my opinion I don't think that she is in the closet at all. It is commoon knowledge in the music industry that she is gay. I have even seen her with her partners are televised events (The oscars is one that comes to mind).
I love her music and some of her films and will continue to support her.
If I blew her back out she wouldn't be on that gay shit.
i think she's confused. she still enjoys men flirting with her. she still has that craving for the real thing.
more likely she is secure her position in the gay community
so they take her seriuosly
this mean no more woody she
is scorn she was going both way
in the low
Who remembers when Dana (Queen Latifah) Owens had a talk show?
Queen is 2 old 2 b confused...Just like the other fuckers that get cought up doing the deed they come out with some Bullshit like this 2 kinda tell the truth be4 some1 else beat them 2 the punch.Queen Latifah got cought with her head in some bitches Pussy and now she wants 2 come clean..She was a Carpet Muncher back in the day and shes still a Carpet Muncher now,But I do know 1 thing. I dont want 2 she another Celebs book,talking about all this crap we already know about.So if she was getting the DING DONG back in the day she was lucky because from what I always heard they didnt fuck with FAT GIRLS..
@12:58-I guess I just see her as an artist. I think she's a great actress and I really liked her series Livin' Single. I guess I don't think much about anyone else's sex life but my own.
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fuck you i dress how i want.
still a lady, bitch.
WOW
a) i dont know about that "blowng the back out" thing. maybe if she blew your back out, you'd come out the closet.
and onwards...and upwards...JD looks like a true midget.
Looks like somebody made the queen feel icky and she never got over it.
i know she is gay..but in her cover excuse me defense, she could mean "causual sex"
let me explain something:
lesbians hate penetration to the farthest degree, and a lot of real honest to god lesbians hate it so much, it's almost like a fear.
I see women claiming to be lesbians all the time, but still f*cking with dildos, etc...that doesn't make you gay...it means you are bisexual, and i can understand you like to be phucked, but you just don't want a man doing it to you.
personally, a man will ALWAYS get the job done for me. there is never and never will be for me, a substitue for a sexy man putting it on you.
You guys r so funny I looked @ the Picture once and I didnt even c JD over Queens big ass.He is a lil Monkey,Janet,Janet,Janet...Dont get me wrong she is nice looking. but she is a big girl and I'm talking about height...
nothing compares to a man, sorry dikes and lesbians.
as for that little statement, if she's feeling a dude and he's really feeling her, i doubt she would turn the dick down, i'm just saying.
^^^ Then you are heterosexual. And so what?
Your preference is your own nature. You didn't do anything to get it and neither did they. Apology not needed. But it was kinda classy that you took that dick out your mouth long enough to say it.
The penis probably wasn't any good, so she decided penis wasn't worth the hassle and moved on.
Sex with HIM or sex with them? *side eye* Did she just come out?
Would it really matter at this point if she did or if she didn't? And who cares? Your orientation/life/whomever you are sleeping with does not matter to me. If you are good people, you are good people.
Then you are heterosexual. And so what?
Your preference is your own nature. You didn't do anything to get it and neither did they. Apology not needed. But it was kinda classy that you took that dick out your mouth long enough to say it.
^^^
Who said it was out of my mouth? I can talk with dick in my mouth, so let me repeat myself:
nothing compares to a man, sorry dikes and lesbians.
as for that little statement, if she's feeling a dude and he's really feeling her, i doubt she would turn the dick down, i'm just saying.
^^^i just choked
Queen Latifah is about as gay as Clay Aiken, some gayness you just can't hide. Now the real question you should be asking is, who in the hell were the gay ass bulldagers to wanna sleep with Dana in the first place? Men of strong stomach lining my friends, strong lining indeed.
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let me explain something:
lesbians hate penetration to the farthest degree, and a lot of real honest to god lesbians hate it so much, it's almost like a fear.
I see women claiming to be lesbians all the time, but still f*cking with dildos, etc...that doesn't make you gay...it means you are bisexual, and i can understand you like to be phucked, but you just don't want a man doing it to you.
personally, a man will ALWAYS get the job done for me. there is never and never will be for me, a substitue for a sexy man putting it on you.
6:11 PM
^^^^^^you sound really stupid. Penetration doesn't make you gay straight or bi. It just feels good to some people. I don't think a woman who gets it from a nother woman is straight. I don't think a straight woman who prefers oral is gay either.
WOW
So, if you like being filled up you're straight? oh. so if your man likes his butt hole played with, is he gay?
^^^
Another question.
What are you if you're celibate?
Is this an intro to "coming out"?
^^^ Probably as close to a coming out as Queen is ever liable to have. She's intending that people read between the lines here. "Emotional Trauma caused by a man/men" (which may not even be true) is supposed to suffice for the reason she doesn't date people of the opposite sex.
Meanwhile, Dana continues to live her private life just as she pleases. She has absolutely nothing to gain from going public. As long as middle America doesn't raise an eyebrow over a female personal trainer/assistant/dietician, then Queen is in the clear.
I think she saw all the mess Jersey homegirl Whitney went through with Robin back in the day, and decided to do things a little differently.
That doesn't mean marrying a Bobby Brown to kill the rumors, but it doesn't mean outing herself either LOL.
I wonder what happened to Whitney's Robin?
LOL @ the mini-tampon standing beside her.
Well if you don't like dick, you must like pussy. What else is there?
^Celibacy.
I love QL. So what if she's gay, it's her choice to love who she wants to love.
Perhaps if the "Christians" weren't such hypocrites a person in her position would not have to hide who she really is.
QL is determined to live her life on her own terms and to hell with you "haters"
I will certaintly buy her book.
Fat hog
Alot of your readers need to learn what "ingratiate" means before they comment. The definition is: to establish (oneself) in the favor or good graces of others, esp. by deliberate effort. She did not say she did not have sex with men anymore she said she won't demean herself just to please a man anymore. I know way more than half of the women in this world have slept with a man just to get something but at the end of the day you felt like trash. Re-read the little bit that is in the blog, get a dictionary, then re-write your comment. Just some friendly advice.
She was outed in the Kwame Kilpatrick text msg. scandal RIF he was at the restaurant texting his sideline ho saying QL was there w/ some skrippers.
Bee Gee
Some people have a tough time coming out. Men and women have lost their life over it. She was probably fed religious texts, that condemned homosexuality. Resulting in a denial of her feelings for women. In this day in age, the life style has gone more mainstream. It's easier to come out compared to yesterday, you have national support groups, and successful icons like Ellen D. Being black, in a traditional religious background is hard when your gay. Queen meant well in regards to the female empowerment. and stayed true to herself *IN THE END*
How does that quote equal her coming out? I totally understand the decision to respect yourself and be celibate rather then have sex and feel like shit. As far as her having women friends...men don't often understand nonsexual relationships. Its probably just easier being with women...less drama too!!!
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