Friday, April 10, 2009

Monica vs The Other Women

While Monica heaps scorn on the ladies who have no qualms about sleeping with her “fiancĂ©” interestingly enough, she places none of the blame on him.
Go Figure.

109 comments:

V. Loren said...

If Rocko is the best she can do, that says a lot about who she is.

AnRnBThug said...

Love is Blind

libramd said...

and makeup is your friend if you are going to be on camera early in the am. Let radio be radio. do we need film of the radio show

Anonymous said...

Not surprising. Women never want to see the truth. It's easier to swallow if they blame it on the "others", than someone that they care for.

Anonymous said...

Co-sign V.loren! If anything she need to be getting w/ him on all of tha bullshyt!

Anonymess said...

Typical Southern woman mentality.

quesha said...

wow, delusion, sad, un-worthy...that interview says alot about her. if her man is never to blame, he has alla the reasons to keep straying...it's never his fault anyways. women like that baffle me. i am not sure how she is willingly giving him an excuse. and she sounds sincere.

Anonymous said...

Monica's "man" for lack of a better word simply looks like he is all about nothing. With all her plans dreams and ventures he somehow manages to still be irrelevant. He gives off that vibe like he would have no problem slipping his number to a chick right under her nose, as she is standing there defending all that she thinks they have, imagine all the tricks all over ATL, listening to that laughing at her not to mention if there is one more reference to tiny tim being on the l dont know... cant stand short men period stay away from them

Anonymous said...

Seriously, I really don't think anybody wants "Rocko" that bad. He is not attractive and his attitude is STANK. He boney. His pants hang low and you KNOW what that means. Maybe that is just in Atlanta though.

Anonymous said...

This coming from a chic that dated C-Murder. Okay Monica. You disappointed me with this.

~antisocial~ said...

It seriously slays me when broads place no blame on their cheatin' azz men, yet more times than not, they want to beat the brakes off of the other woman [or in some cases, women], when she/they don't owe you jack shit!! Your man is the one who is in a relationship with you; therefore, HE is the one who owes you something...NOT his bust it baby [or babies]. smh

Anonymous said...

WHAT BOTHERS THE FUCK OUT OF ME IS A WHOLE LOT OF WOMEN WILL PUT UP WITH ANYTHING JUST TO SAY THEY HAVE A "MAN"....BITCH, A CREATURE WITH A DICK BETWEEN HIS LEGS, WHO PRODUCES A COUPLE OF CHILDREN AIN'T QUITE QUALIFIED AS A "MAN".

WAKE UP LADIES, YA BEING PLAYED!!!


JUST BEING TY!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Rocko is a closet queen anyway! don't nobody want him besides Monica's boney ass!!! She need to check them dudes that her man be slipping away with!

Anonymous said...

I love Monica. She lost me on this one though. Get at ya man Monica. AND, keep the radio out of your relationship too. You airing dirty laundry Boo.

~antisocial~ said...

^^Exactly and making herself look like a damn fool in the process.

Anonymous said...

It's a sad day for the world with all these men getting their back doors knocked down then hiding behind their big bad scary women who will die for them- literally.

And other women do have a responsiblity to stop messing with these low lifes just because they can. Some people have way too little standards and many more have none at all. For those that dont care just because it is not them and their households getting messed with KARMA is moving at record breaking speed. Keep ego tripping thinking you doing something because you got some creep layin up in your bed.

Anonymous said...

Monica please, obviously he feel's the same as the women,, who dont care that he has a woman and children at home. cause if he going with them he dont give a shit then either.. and baby girl, you can sing, get more self esteem about yourself and demand better. and on a side note.. try drinking ensure or boost, they have them for gaining weight. girl you look like you walking on stilts, is o.k to be small, but girl damn you boney. cute face just need some meat on them bones.

Milly said...

This is very sad

Anonymous said...

I disagree with the general statement: Typical Southern women metality. No it is not!!! Not all of us are willing to settle. Trust.

Anonymous said...

Dumb bitch...i swear this is why i hate females (I am one)

Anonymous said...

^^ or a better weight gain program is put down the nose candy.

Anonymous said...

her man is the one that holds the responsibility to be responsible to her not the other woman. what a shame. this mentality has to change. start holding cheaters( men and women) accountable for their actions

Anonymous said...

if monica is reading this, i want her to know that she is one of the dumbest broads out there when it comes down to a man. she asks the caller would you marry the other women, he said there would never be another women. she doesn't even undertand that language. she should have avoided the subject of her man, because that's not why you have the few fans you have.
she turned me off with her way of thinking.

ANON1 said...

Wait a minute. Scuuuuuurp! Wasn't she sidelining herself? She was talking about the women and her man. Guess she forgot about the men and her man.

I don't understand this type of mentality. Like you have to have a man at any costs. She's blowing up the other folks sleeping with 'her man' and doesn't make him accountable for his dick.

ANON1 said...

These are the women I call dicknotized. She's under dicknosis.

Anonymous said...

@ 10:45 I'm from the south and that is not my mentality that is "Typical Stupid Woman Mentality". It is always the person who claims to love you and the person you sleep with at night.

Hershibarr said...

i refuse to be 2nd place in a relationship to anyone or anything except god (if he believes in him). not your mama, not your other kids, not your career.... i dont think people care about that "what goes around comes around" rule any damn more. men will sleep with other women, and women will give it to men regardless of marriage/fiance/relationship as long as their body parts work and they dont have any morals...

SickaDisMess said...

Oh Monica. Being a woman does not mean accepting bullshyt all the time from a fool that is obviously trife. If I recall, didn't he put his fists on a female at the club in the ATL? Furthermore, you are much too talented and have so much to offer the the music industry.

On the real, I don't want to know your business about your baby daddy. It sounds a bit drama filled. Life is too short. There is plenty of Real Men in the world. Don't settle on any old thing.

Just sing please. I could listen to you do that all day.

Sadiqua P said...

@anon 12:09, i hope what the other anon meant was that southern mentality that "men cheat, its in their "nature", as long as he is taking care of home, deal with it"...some of my female relatives have that mindset and i truly cannot deal with it! its a crock of bulls*it and i have always disagreed LOUDLY whenever i hear it discussed. hell i can take care of home by my damn self, instead of playing second to a man with no values and a woman who has none either.

Anonymous said...

"fault" I forgot to put it after night.

Anonymous said...

Ya know... with her sounding all kim Porterish wonder is she already knows hes a lesbo and its all good with her and she does her thing. All them women in relationships like that defend the obvious to the end. It is the man who is responsible for his relationship however, if some of these lonely, low self esteem women would stop getting excited everytime someone come along and tell them something they just really needed to hear and had the courage and guts to make him bust a U and go right home and tell his women that same line families would start to heal. Oh, but she cant cuz then instead of being lonely and depressed 95% of the time it will just be an even 100% all the time. LUZERS mess with other womens husbands and men. Funny is that when a single or available man comes along instead of doing something with him he is some how not what she looking for.

Anonymous said...

It's not the womans problem if she is single and she is messing around with a taken man. It's up to the main chick to let it be known that is not accepting this type of behavior.

BirdsOfAFeather said...

aaaahhhhhhahhahahahahahahahaaaaaa....

I wonder what her Blog BFF SR has to say about her dumb ass now.

wwhoooo... this was good enough for another latte this morning.

Anonymous said...

If women can't feel comfortable with being single they will continue to sell themsleves short. women seem to be so scared of sleeping alone,a man will not make you feel compelet. I have been single for most of my life, and that is mainly because men always want you settle for some bullshit. I have dated seriousely, but I never took it to the next level! they werent worth it. Some women do it for the mone and bragng rights, others do it because they can't stand to be alone.

Sadiqua P said...

12:18, but as a woman you are supposed to have enough self respect to not go that far with a man that is taken! i mean, i understand that sometimes people meet and fall in love but if you find yourself in love with a married/taken man, you have to pump your brakes BEFORE YOU SLEEP TOGETHER and let him know that he cant be with you while he is with her. then you leave it up to him to either follow his heart or stay where he made a promise to be! that way, you have respected yourself, you have given him guidelines where he is respecting you both, and the main squeeze is treated fairly too by not being cheated on.

Anonymous said...

@Sadiqua P

I agree with you sistah, but the problem is that so many women don't care anymore. It's just really sad. If more women in relationships put down the law when they caught they men cheating most men would have to eventually do something about it. Most men are just trying to get a easy screw from the "other" woman. If the other woman is single why should be concerned about his wife, it's not her problem. I'm not saying it's right, but that's how so many other women think. I don't know where this mentality came from. I'm seeing more women dressing and acting like whores right infront of their own daughters. It's up to the female to allow the sex to happen, that's why I feel it's up to her to end this nasty ass behavior.

Anonymous said...

i'm starting to lose faith that there is even such a thing as a good man. i see my girlfriends and my sisters with men that i wouldn't think twice about. they can't even do nothing for them, and they have demands on what they want done for them.

dreamajeanie said...

I couldn't even listen to the whole thing. A person can and will only do what you allow them to. If he's cheating- he's not a real man. If she puts up with it- she's not a real woman. Maybe they deserve each other!

Anonymous said...

My ex frienemy gets off at the thought of someone elses man checking for her and after listening to her convince herself she is all he ever needed and what a man he is for taking care of home but meeting her needs I thought wow must be true because she seriously has no other friends, no life, low paying job (now she's unemployed) she could be talking about anything else in the world and will make a way to bring him up after a while i felt bad for her I knew karma was gonna bite her in the face for declaring how much she didnt give a f*ck because it is not her being cheated on women like that turn me completely off, watch who you entertain with that kind of mentality especially if you are in a relationship because bet they do not want to see you happy and chances are all you could possibly be doing is helping them out with their strategy the one that always seem to fail in the end lets see if he helps get her a job or just continues t come by and throw crumbs from his womens table at her to keep her hungry.

Anonymous said...

Monica always wanted to be gangsta. whatever Monica, he's also a woman beater.

Anonymous said...

Consider the crowd she runs with,they all not married( or close to it) they happy being babymamas, that mentality is stupid in itself. Now at one time they said she and dude was married, dont know about that BUT the point is no matter married or not when two people are in a committed relationship both parties are responsible for keeping that promise. He is a grown ass man and he knows excatly what he is doing and the results if its found out. We as women gotta start valuing ourselves more, men dont take shit off a chick but we ALWAYS making excuses....thats some bull.

SickaDisMess said...

I. Just. Will. Not. Ever. Share. D*ck.

It is foul. If a man wants to trollop all around the earth with his stank. Do it, just not with me being a part of that garbage. If a woman wants to spread her goodies all around the planet, do it. Just don't be thinking every male will put up with that skank behavior.

Monica is talking like a silly female. But um, if she like it, I love it. That is "her man".


That's all.

Anonymous said...

^ well she is raising two more future unproductive males that will grow up watchin their mommas do all the work while daddy doesnt do much or contribute sh*t to the pot so they think that is the way it is supposed to be.

where's my stimulus? said...

...I wonder what the "other women" thinks about Monica?....

Hollywood Blackout said...

She won't be saying this shit when his ass brings her some HIV/AIDS,

Her dumb ass probably sleeps with him as if they are in a monogamous relationship (no condoms).

She sounds like a desperate, moronic LOSER. Sorry, she just looks so stupid theere defending that piece of shit baby-maker with no career.

If you are going to ACCEPT cheating please be like Pauletta Washington and get a RICH ASS MAN to MARRY YOU so you will be set for life.

If you're going to be a doormat, but a SMART doormat.

Anonymous said...

If you are gonna do it or tolerate it then fine, but please dont try to put it into words to make sense of it because it is ridiculous to share a man with another female Not sharing no man either.

Anonymous said...

Sad part about it is she is very pretty....... If u lie w/ dogs you will get flea's!!!

Anonymous said...

If you wallow in mud with the pigs you get covered in sh*t ! Worse part about her flapping her country mouth is she the bread winner in this one and in every single scene you see them in its obvious, if she was Mel B he would be mellon head the bag carrying door man that rocks her world.

Anonymous said...

She is a few words short of calling him the King of Rap! thats when you know he went in! Please see Whitney to on how this ends up in about 5 years Roco the Mo will be having babies with somebody she used to hang out with and she will be proclaiming how much she never really wanted him

Anonymous said...

Suprise, suprise they got this same thread going on Sandra and amazingly most of the people are sayin how real Mo is and how right she is, unbelievable when SR likes u, she really likes u. Killin it @ how Profound what Mo is sayin like damn is that the glamma bama site or what?? Even dissed Boz for her comments which she outta stick to pro activity in domestic violence perhaps, call Rihanna and tell her she understands instead of dogging out people we all know she done been through the wonderful ringa by dudes that Monica can only hope she will one day be able to make an honest man out of by buying them stuff and keeping them on the map.

malika the m.i.l.f. said...

i'm on the fence as far as how i feel about guys screwing around on the side, but monica is a hoodrat, pure and simple. she's ghetto. you'd think that with all the money and exposure she's had, she would be a tad classier, but she's still straight outta college park. i love my girls from cp and i'm from cp myself, but most of them have a very limited view of life and they see the whole world as their immediate existence. monica's mother would have done her a world of good to raise her around more well-rounded people.

Anonymous said...

CTFU @ "SMART dormat". LOL

VOD said...

She's one of those women-hating women who always stick up for men. And dude is wack, so what's the big deal? Where are all these women who want him so bad and sleep with him?

Anonymous said...

What is a smart door mat? Maybe paid doormat would of been a better choice of words as opposed to broke doormat but smart?? what a day on wives vs. jump offs you can always tell who is mad as hell and not taking it anymore and who is waiting for that phone to go off to make them when and where plans.

Anonymous said...

T-Boz is clowning folks on www.boz-bizz.com too. She clapping back at folks left and right. Hilarious.

Anonymous said...

If that man is not married or engage to you; he is considered to be single and up for grabs. He hasn't made no commitment to you so you are in the same perdicument is the so call other woman.

Sadiqua P said...

@anon 2:01 you know technically you are right...if he hasnt cared enough to marry you, or you havent cared enough to tell him you want to be married and not be shackin up, then yeah, your man is up for grabs. now if u dont mind him basically taking his freedom into his own hands and staying single so he can do who and what he wants, then so be it.

i personally refuse to be with a man who is not 100% single. u can have exes or baby mamas, but dammit im not stealing you or helping you hurt someone else.

SickaDisMess said...

Fact is don't nobody want no raggedy boy if he is with someone, married or not. If he is with someone, I DON'T WANT THE RAGGAMUFFIN.

If he will step out on his woman, he will damn sure step out on me. That shyt ain't cool!

Damn, if I have to choose between a "man" that has a woman and a broke down single man with no real bright future, well hell, I am headed to the nearest Hush Secret Naughty Thangs store purchase some items and work the shyt out!

I might call broke down just to entertain his azz with what Ima do to myself tonight.

*gigglin*. Shyt is funny. Too many men to be calling out other women over Rocko Monica!

Anonymous said...

I agree with 12:26. Too many women out there are afraid to be single and independent, waiting for the RIGHT guy to come along - so instead they grab the first thing they think will do the job they want.

Well those kinds of men will never last long-term. They might make you happy for a while, support you for a while, give you a couple of beautiful kids...but you could never live the rest of your life with them.

If you want the right guy - be picky, and don't accept anything sub-standard.

For the record I think Rocko is plain ol ugly anyway.

Anonymous said...

she must like be talked about in a negative way, because why did she even mention him.

Sadiqua P said...

@sicka lol im with u there!

what most of these women want from a man they can get themselves...protection? get a gun. money? get a second job. sex? get a jump off or something that runs on batteries. feeling of belonging? call ya girlfriends up and hang out with them. someone warm in their bed? get a dog. unwavering solid love? adopt a kid.

need i say more?!

Anonymous said...

All she needs to do is strengthen her relationship with God. A good man will come in due time. You gotta have patience though.

BellaLuna said...

^ I'm with you Sadiqua but she's the insecure type. Some women just have to have a man in their life and she probably doesn't want to raise her kids by herself. Didn't the dude she was with before Rocko commit suicide in front of her or something? That might be the reason she's like that.She shouldn't be blaming the other women but her man. Although some women get off(no pun intended) on sleeping with another chicks man. Heck some of my friends are like that and the excuse is "if she was taking care of him he wouldn't be coming to me". True but be women enough not to put yourself in the middle of it. I myself have been cheated on and I wouldn't want my worse enemy to feel the way I felt.

Anonymous said...

celebrities should stop reading the blogs, they are to sensitive

malika the m.i.l.f. said...

bella, she was a hoodrat long before that. she grew up in a neighborhood with some friends of mine. as a matter of fact in that interview i read about dude killing himself she mentioned how when she saw he was about to shoot himself in the car, she pulled out her own pistol and shot the window out to get to him, but it was too late. yep, she's ghetto as hell and packing heat too.

BellaLuna said...

dang Malika that is rough. Why did dude shoot himself? Money doesn't buy class as we can see. She should just cut her losses and move on with her kids and I wonder where her mama and brother are while she's making her self look like a damn fool

Anonymous said...

Dayum.......she holds heat too??? SMMFH

Hollywood Blackout said...

I am an advocate for REGISTERED gun owners - especially women. If she chooses to still dabble in the hood element, she should protect herself. I hope she is legal though because illegal firearms are BAD BUSINESS. But if she has a concealed carry permit and she is trained on gun safety - more power to her. I wish more black women would take up arms. If you're going to let Ray Ray sell drugs out of your apartment, protect yourself and your children.

Anonymous said...

She's weak.

While settle for someone who WON'T settle for you?

Anonymous said...

she is weak. If you notice, trifflin' niggas hate strong women because they can't play a strong woman nor run circles around her but they love the naive, ride or die, or innocent types so they can keep them in the dark.

malika the m.i.l.f. said...

in the interview where she talked about the incident she said that she's registered to carry guns and that her father taught her how to shoot them. family bonding at its finest.

~antisocial~ said...

@ 2:01

I didn't get that when I was younger but now that I'm older and wiser, I'm able to TOTALLY agree with you [but a lot of women don't be tryna hear it]! lol

@ HB

No one should be having unprotected sex these days...even if they THINK they're in a monogymous relationship [or married] because the HIV/AIDS epidemic is out of control. I have NO comprehension as to why folks still insist on having sex without using condoms and based on the nonchalant attitude so many people have regarding protecting themselves first and foremost as opposed to being more concerned with their partner knowing they trust them enough to have unprotected sex, it's definitely not gonna get any better. smh

Anonymous said...

@2:16 VIBRATOR is the way if you have a man or not.Ophra had a show april 9 2009 about when to talk sex with your child ,and the doctor actually recomended introducing(to a 15-16 year old) a vibrator,a clitoral one, so women can learn to please themselves instead of giving in to the first or any male that touches us.This is to teach girls that we don't have to have sex, to soon with a man cause we ache for male attention!we can long for attention while not being sexually weak,then left alone ,again, if we give our sex up too soon.

Anonymous said...

THANK YOU ANON 3:33 FOR SAYING IT!!!!

Hollywood Blackout said...

Antisocial,

I totally agree. I think that in the black community the rate of HIV transmission is going to get worse because more and more women are getting desperate and don't want to "rock the boat" by insisting on condom use all the time no matter what.

Even in non-black communities, people are throwing caution to the wind. Look at Eliott Spitzer's nasty ass wanting fuck a prostitute without a condom. Now, he may not have been having sex with his wife but I am sure they tried to "rekindle" every now and then. Think about what he would be exposing her too!

People are just off the chain and it is getting worse.

I think there will be a cure for AIDS in my lifetime but it won't be for at least another 20 years and by then people will be dead.

Protect yourself, folks. Married, single, fay, straight, whatever.

We are no longer just dealing the with CLAP and some antibiotics.

Anonymous said...

I saw the whole video, and not once did Monica say it was okay for the man to cheat. I'm sure she would hold Rocko accountable for that shyt too!

All I know is if I catch my man cheating, it's gonna be her(and his) @ss!!! Real talk!

I liked the interview, Monica seemed real kewl and down to earth. T-Boz seemed kewl too..

SickaDisMess said...

3:49, Don't get me wrong. I said if I had to make a choice out of someone who is in a relationship and Mr. Broke Down.

Real Talk? Nothing, NOTHING beats the real thing put on me properly. ESPECIALLY when it is proper. Feel me?

Damn, where is my phone...gots to call him riiiiggght now.

Anonymous said...

"if she was taking care of him he wouldn't come to me" gurl a man will cum to anything that has a hole.of course a cheating man will act like he ain't getting it at home! It's part of his game -don't be fooled.MEN CHEAT MAINLY CAUSE THEY LIKE A VARIETY OF PUZZYS, thats all, it's that simple, to them. a man once told me this.most men won't say this in front of women.I was the cool, laid back other woman, when I was told this. I was like WOW!

Anonymous said...

3;55 OH ,I overlooked "if I had to make a choice"-but a vibe, not dildo, is ok, whenever, to me.peace out

Anonymous said...

^^^ me from 3:57 obviously he had no respect, to tell me this, when he wouldn't say it to his wife,thats the life of the other woman -NO RESPECT

Anonymous said...

^^ yea I left his butt after that and since then, I refuse to play the other woman....

~antisocial~ said...

@ HB

PREACH and I'm not tryna be funny but as a Black woman, I could honestly care less about other races and how things such as HIV/AIDS affect them. I'm more concerned with what this disease has done [and is doing] to my people and even though [for the most part] it's by our own hands, that doesn't take away from the fact that it saddens me because it truly DOES NOT have to be this way. At the end of the day, though, we are only responsible for ourselves, which is why my puzzy has been on lock since I got divorced. I have ZERO interst in giving my azz away and that feeling is compounded by the fact that nowadays, a woman really doesn't know who/what the hell she's getting, so since it's so crucial out there, I'm cool on the sex tip.

Anonymous said...

3.53 But what if the women didn't know about you. i wish a women would step to me over some sorry ass man that i didn't even know had a women. that would be the end of her . so think about stepping to a women over your man, you not going to always win.

Sadiqua P said...

@4:51, if she doesnt know about me, and i HONESTLY believe she didnt know about me, then my issue is with him and him ONLY. now if he screwin my bff, well thats a different story, and a different set of felonies lol! i would never step to the other woman, even though she is a whore if she knew he had a family, she is only part of the problem. as soon as she is out the picture, its time for him to replace her, so if u dont put your foot down and give him an ultimatum, u are just helping him get the fresh stuff lol

Anonymous said...

5:00
if your man is sleeping with other women, then he's not your man. it makes a women sound desperate to say she would attack another women just because she sleeping with your man. what does he get, a blow job.
what if he told the women, he don't want you and that your a ho.

if a women can take my man, then he's not my man and he never was. i would never even have a conversation with the other women, because it would only escalate things. i would deal with him and him only, even if i found out it was my girl, she just wouldn't be my girl.

Anonymous said...

Is that Monica? She looks hard as hell!

Anonymous said...

Ok lemme say dis i am very young right um only 20 but even i know dat any woman should always feel like she is a gift to the world becuz lets be honest if u werent u wouldve never been born i hate how womem like her try n defend they're men bs its not neccessary its better out there and da dick can't seriously be dat good becuz if it were we wouldnt have diehard lesbians and another thing a woman is only a woman when she has learned to be responsible have self esteem be independent and has a healthy sense of self conciousness i wouldnt care if she went 2 da bahamas everyday if he doin other women leave him da hell alone now i will be honest there are reckless no home training whores out there but a man can sense these things so if he chooses to be seduced apparently you dont matter...becuz honestly a man will not let a woman do something he dont want her 2 do trust me i know cuz used to threaten to kick dis dude ass and he would never try n stop me so right den i knew if i was to engage him he prolly woulda let me do dat 2 even with havin a grl cuz he didnt care dat much about her and i knew dat but i still didnt do it cuz i knew it was wrong lol... but monifool need to get it together b4 she be another lauryn hill with eight kids
shamira aka shy

Anonymous said...

She knows all this and still wants to marry this clown? Then she gets on the radio and tries to rationalize that nasty foolishness? The money he's blowing on random ass out in the streets could be spent on the household. They're wrong for raising children in that type of environment. I'm sick of dumb broads like this.

Wild Safari said...

@Hollywood Blackout I totally disagree with people keeping firearms in their homes when they have children. That is just stting the stage for tragedy. The odds are much higher that your children or their friends will discover the gun and play with it and/or fire it than that you will ever have to use it to defend yourself in a home invasion. There are other methods of self (and family) defense that don't present that risk.

I am totally on board with most of what you, antisocial, and sickadissmess said. Women do need to take a more active role in protecting themselves, feelings be damned.

@3:49pm anon holy [&#!^}!!! Are you serious? I don't watch Oprah anymore so I had no idea she was featuring that topic. It took guts for that doctor to come out and say that. Dr. Jocelyn Elders (former U.S. Surgeon General) was fired under Billy for much less.

Anonymous said...

LOL! something is better then nothing ladies. That's how women deal with men now a days. i don't know when our standards went down, but they did. Like I said in my last post. I have not been in a real relationship for most of my adult life because of the bullshit that I saw myself dealing with if I got into relationship with these men. There is a mr. right. but that does not mean he's mr. perfect.

Caribbean Goddess said...

:-0 ????????

KKL said...

Pssssssstttt not surprising. Monica ain't nothing but your every day chickenhead - who happened to get a record deal.

Anonymous said...

ugh! Hate when the women dominate the comments. This sh*t is like the Tyra Banks Show.

Anonymous said...

long story short monica is a dumbass no self respecting woman would ever tolerate that bullshit hold your man accountable for his actions not the other woman women like monica disgust me SMDH

Anonymous said...

Some women are not lokking for anything serious. They like being taken out to dinner, and excepting expensive gifts. The problem is with your man.

Anyway, you should marry than have children, not the other way around. Because some women will say he is not married, so I'm going to do me.

Anonymous said...

...good to see there's still a lot of stupid bitches to take advantage of....

Anonymous said...

I had major respect for Monica until now. I mean, I was the main one talking about how well she can sing and look forward to her bursting on the scene again with another hit record. Now, I can careless. She is stoooopid and hell.

Bee Gee said...

Hoodrat.

And get this bird a blood transfusion cuz she looks embalmed.

Anonymous said...

I dont believe the one about some women only want to go out and deal with a man sometimes..What woman does not want a good man in her life? Men and women belong together that is the way God intended for it to be. Women put the guns and knives away, pick up the real weapon the Word Of God, read and find out what God has to say about it start praying and warring against these jezebel spirits that rise up in your marriage. Technically a man that is not married to a woman is a free man, but that is an excuse to hide behind because if he operating like he free but the other person in the relationship is being deceived -just so jezebel can be happy then keep playing nobody is going to make it and be happy off the strength of someone elses heartache and distress - if he is so free and wants to be with you let him tie up loose ends where he is so called "unhappy" and come be with you then you can worry and know all the signs and tricks when he tells you the okie doke.I personally do not even entertain no female and her ho tales because if she would screw a man knowing he is "supposed to be in a relationship" she will screw yours! Ladies, you are created by God to be queens and if you are going to be a fool, be a fool for him. Monica said something like her foot steps are ordered or something to that effect didnt listen to the whole mess but, knowing how she is willing to get down her "man" wouldnt put her in any position to HAVE to use it in the first place before her steps are ordered straight to jail for putting a man before God because if she thinks she is jealous - then she need to go to the word and see what he says about NOBODY coming before him! Some of you are gonna mess around and step to the wrong womens husband one that know how to deal with this kind of thing and you will see the destruction and heap of coal that comes down on you. Stop disrespecting peoples households.

where's my stimulus? said...

...so what you tryin to say?! cause I didn't have time to read it....

Anonymous said...

of course the man in the relationship carries a lot of responsibility to be faithful to his woman/wife, but woman should still strive to be good honest women. What every happened to being respectful? so what if you don't know the wife? that means its ok to willingly help a man cheat? because a man can't cheat if he has no pussy to play in (unless he's gay).

I think the other woman does share some responsibility if she KNOWS dude is involved with someone else. These whores better understand that karma will fuck them up worse than anything they ever imagined.

Anonymous said...

U kno wat um sure yall read in my last post i got no words for miss monifool she got some nerve singin about dont be a dumbass broad but she is one like i said um 20 but my mother always say dont depend on nobody cuz they will fail you problem is men dont care to get married plus condoms and antibiotics make fwb ezer
becuz everybody wanna act like they are celebs tryna be cool n live beyond theur means in our society honesty dont matter da politicians lie and make books about mofo doin bogus shyt not even facin consequences anymore and nobody wanna deal with divorce its da plague of the generation 1920's-50's honesty mattered den it was da fake ass moon landing and everything went down hill was bogus is its only gonna get worse and she jus dumb ass hell shy-

Anonymous said...

^^^ Your typing priviledges(msp?)need to be taken away...you are hurting my eyes..lol

jill said...

oh god you ppl are cruel.

Anonymous said...

OMG!!! as much as I love her alility to sing her conversation has never changed since THE DAYS WHEN she used to hang in the strip club down here. monica is so so so shallow when it comes to rocko she literally said "the women down here be oN her, man don't they know he has a woman and two children" she was so so so serious. FIRST, THIS ONE HIT WONDER OF A LAME AND TRYING TO STAY REVELANT HAS NOT TAKEN YOUR HAND IN MARRIAGE, FORESAKEN ALL OTHERS YET. SO WITH THAT BEING SAID HE'S STILL FAIR GAME. BELIEVE ME WHEN I TELL YOU OR SOMEBODY PLAESE TELL THIS YOUNG LADY TO STOP BEING BITTER BECAUSE EVERY MAN SHE GETS CHEATS ON HER I GUESS SHE THOUGHT IF SHE HAD CHILDREN BY THE NEXT DUDE THAT COMES ALONG AND SWEEP HER OFF HER FEET HE WOULDN'T TIP OFF. I HATE TO SAY THIS BUT LOOK WHAT TYPE OF DUDES YOUR ATTRACTED TO THEY ARE THE TYPE OF DUDES THAT STILL RUN THE STREETS. who still run the streets monica WOMEN AND MEN STILL LOOKIGN FOR FUN FLAT OUT THAT'S WHAT'S GOING ON DOWN HERE. NEED I SAY MORE. IN FACT I THINK SHE LIKES THE FACT THAT OTHER WOMEN SLEEP WITH EVERY MAN SHE HAS EVER SLEPT WITH IT MAKE HER FEEL GOOD ABOUT HER SELF BECASUE SHE ALWAYS FIND A WAY SPEAK ON IT. STOP MONICA AND FOCUS ON THE DAYS WHEN YOU WERE REVELANT AND YOUR MUSIC WAS ENDLESS PLEASE MAKE SOME MORE "ANGLE OF MINE", "NOW I'M DONE", "WHY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH", AND MANY MORE OF YOUR OLD JAMS IF NOT YOUR EXISTENCE IN THE MUSIC INDUSTRY WILL BE OVER IF YOU KEEP DISCUSSING WHO AND WHAT ROCKO IS DOING WITH HIS LAME UGLY #$#!!! THAT'S MY WORD

VOD said...

Anonymous 12:58 (right above me) - NAIL ---> HEAD.

Anonymous said...

Lol Monica can sing, all yall hoe's is hatin on Monica...damn shame.

Anonymous said...

All u stupid did not hear what the show was about, she never said it was ok, she taliking about the young females of today are being trained to be hoes and go out hoe themselves out knowing a man is not available to them. She never said her man was doing anything of the sort u fools, they were on the show for over an hour talking about positive stuff and this came up because The Beyonce movie is coming out and they were giving away tickets to the movie. Did anyone hear her say her did anythinglike that or she is accepting of that behaviour. fuck yall judgemental bitches like you all are angels and god or something, yall must be doing the same thing to not want women to take responsibility for their actions.

Anonymous said...

if the man isn't available then he wouldn't be sleeping around aparently he's availble because he spllaing around wake up please it's not were being judgemantal judgemantal is condining a person not saying a person is a whore or a cheater if a peson is a known cheater or whore that's reality not judgemental judgemental is saying the cheater or the whore will always be just that not that a person can be reformed

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