Poor Norma. She and Tyrese's one and half year old daughter just cannot get by on the $6,300 a month, plus rent and car note, plus $65,000 lump settlement she received in the divorce after her 10 month marriage to singer/actor Tyrese, so she's taking him to court to challenge the pre-nup. And to help her do it, she wants an additional $80,000 from Ty for her legal fees.
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Wow! So pre-nups are not binding?
Greedy...Fucking....Bitch..Ihope she gets pimp slapped like 50's baby mom's
This Fucking Bitch!! Pre-nup don't mean shit anymore... I mean If She was on Her own would She be making 6k a month? He need to Hire 50's lawyer cause that MF'er Ethered His Baby Mama.
This Bitch getting Over 75k a Year plus Bills paid...What else you Fuckin' need???
This shit is disturbing to me
..for 10 months that's damn good...
I went with this one girl for 10 months and all I got was a leather 8 Ball jacket, lucky it was around a holiday....
(C-Style as in the 'Burgh is drafting a Center-HA!HA!)
He is betta off w/ a bytch who has a 9 to 5. smh
i smell the women vs. man about to happen any minute. i'm staying away from this one.
ditto c style. $6,300 isn't enuf? why? buy something on sale. re-wear something. i am sure that she can scrape by.
On the real fellas...When you get a New Chick.. Just slut them out cause they will flip the Mother Fuckin Script on ya ass once they got ya nuts in their hands
- Real Talk
Yea, you can contest an pre-nup, especially if some kind of agreement was broken....sooo that is why her story is a little different, not like 50s BM:
Ty was manipulative and she gave up a lot to be with him (taking care of her mom, and school in London) He said he would take care of her and got her accustomed to a certain lifestyle and now she has a child. I would take that nigga to the cleaners too, for breaking the vows (cheating and living with ANOTHER woman) and making promises that he had NO intention on keeping. Get that money girl!!
Yea, you can contest an pre-nup, especially if some kind of agreement was broken....sooo that is why her story is a little different, not like 50s BM:
Ty was manipulative and she gave up a lot to be with him (taking care of her mom, and school in London) He said he would take care of her and got her accustomed to a certain lifestyle and now she has a child. I would take that nigga to the cleaners too, for breaking the vows (cheating and living with ANOTHER woman) and making promises that he had NO intention on keeping. Get that money girl!!
I don't care If He was Fuckin' the Next door Neighbor...It's His Fuckin Money!! She didn't earn a GOD DAMNED RED CENT.. Why is She entitled to it?
This shit got my pressure up!!!
^^^@ 11:20 Living with another woman yeah he deserves this NO VASELINE
if there was no "infidelity" clause, she should get what she get. she signed it. if she wins, contracts just mean nothing. people cheat, it sux, but it happens. that doesn't mean that u earn money off it...like that was a job.
No center's stim..not at least in the first round. I must concur with RnB..I gets my smut on..we goin all out while I got you here.
even if he was a complete dick, that is more than enough money to live comforably on if she's getting $6k a month AND he's footing the bills for everything. i would have felt sorry for her, but this is just making her look greedy.
the broad needs to go get a damn job. gimme a break already.
Ty Ty u needed The Massey Pre-Nup
(If you don't know what it is Google it)
Unh, unh. This bitch need to be told something *eye roll*
I hope no judge has sympathy for this shit. The women’s movement is set back <---thata'way every time one of us says we should get paid for "being accustomed to a lifestyle." GTFOH with dat.
Tyrese aint put no gun to that whore's head (at least not before they were married). Take care of your own responsibilities. If that Black ass nigga dropped dead 5 minutes ago today she would have to, so why not just because? Rhetorical.
That is one kid; not two or three. And Tyrese barely cleared a million last year.
Tips from a single mom:
*Set up an eBay account and sell summa that shit lil'beige dont wear but once or twice.
*get a job...video model, face of something. I mean, you meet all the Ciroc/Puffy requirements. Use what you got to get whatchu want- Ronnie Hoe Quote #1
*write a tell-all/How-to manual. That Bitch will read it and post her thoughts so we can roast your ass. Result? You stay relevant!
*Stop doing this: “…spends over $300 on toys, over $1000 on the baby’s jewelry and over $250 on grooming supplies for Shayla a month...” Do I really need to say why?
Im juss saying...
Hey man...still want to get married?
RnB- i usually agree with you, but when emotions are involved you go for the juglar. Yea, he made the money, but he also married her, so it became THEIR money. If all he wanted to do was have sex with her, trick on her a bit, give her a seed while he had other women that is what he should of done, stayed f*ckin single and she couldn't say shit right now. I am sure no one put a gun to his head to marry her, but he did, so now he gotta pay, point blank period. Like i said before GET THAT MUTHAF*CKIN MONEY!!! lol
She may be acting a little greedy, but he's a fool, and a fool and their money always part.
Damn I just re-read that...Im a lil salty this morning huh? Sorry ya'll. My Thurs feeling like a fukkin Mon.
RnB Thug why does this get your pressure up? I'm not saying she deserves the settlement but Tyrese did not go into this marriage blind. He knew that he lived in California with pro-golddiggin laws when he married her. He knew he was the breadwinner when he married her. He knew spouses contest prenups all the time and he still married her. Guys know these things and still choose to cheat on the wives, kick the wives in the stomach while they're pregnant and in general not cherish they're wife and expect them not to do whatever they can to get what they feel they deserve.
...but damn,I'm gonna sue yo'ass..
oh yeah, I need you to GIVE me the money so I can do it....
AND, i don't know why people getting so upset about this chick, it’s not like she was out there writing books about how much dick she sucked and doing a tell-all, she is getting a divorce and wants a little paper. so the f*ck what?!?! This shit is not a new phenomenon, females been doing this FOREVER! Black women get a lot of heat from this shit, white women? Not so much. I don't get that shit. She is not going to court asking for nobodys lil money up in here so whats with the anger lol....AND it ain't trickin if you got it.
*leavin this discussion*
AND it ain't trickin if you got it.
point is he dont got it.
so she fell for his game and left her responsibilities that she chose to take on for money... or whatever her reasoning was...
and its not her and her daughter cant get a break. leave their daughter out of this cause little momma is taken care of by her daddy. chick needs to get a job or budget better. blah! popping out a kid by a wealthy man does not make you wealthy!
@ 11:48...You don't know what that man got, but re-read what I said about a fool and his money. It resonates with him.
@birdsofafeather: I know what u mean, but she didn't just pop out his kid to get wealthy like a lot of chickenheads, the difference is she MARRIED him. There is a huge difference between a babymama and and ex-wife that has your child. Being that it holds up more in court and you get more than just a stick of bubble gum once you part.
@ 11:57 We all know what he got cause we read his financial affidavit. public records and the internet. its really a new phenomenon
11:20 AM $6,300 a month plus car and rent getting paid isnt enough? guess you gold digging whores have to unite. I get $102.90 a month for my daughter and I was with her father for 6 years. 10 months and $6,300 with the perks seems she made out like a bandit to me. Next time I have a baby(If I ever do) it's gonna be for money because love aint cutting it obviously
DaShit you are not salty. Calling the baby lil beige? I almost fell out lol.
Another thing fuck the Fl Dept of Rev and child support judges! A man misses his child support for 4 months and all the do is send out a delinquency letter. WTF?! Okay I'm done
she is getting a lot more than a stick of bubble gum and her being married for less than a year does not define who he is in his career and how much money he makes for himself and his family... she is nolonger his family so... she needs to take what the court gave her (which for just 10 months seems damn generous) and kick rocks.
And... when she ends up trying to make it off the 2000. a month she can be the third example of when to know when to walk away. Ask Sheree and Shaniqua
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@11:57 AM
Black Ty's money matters where posted the other day cause they went to court or something. google it.
@Bella LOL Gurlllllll you betta check back a coupla posts where I went off on the FL DOR and the bootleg ass Child Support Enforcement with their welfare-to-work ass staff! Those illiterate mofo’s! Offense meant!
I didn’t call that baby beige did I? *feigns ignorance*
My apologies. I meant it in the best way.
this is one greedy bitch. get a damn job instead of laying on your back. when will these men freaking learn??
i hate bitches like this because they give real women a terrible name. 6300 a month she cant live on or 65000 she gets in a lump sum. unless she got a bad ass drug problem, that shit is enough coupled with when she gets a damn job. stupid bitch
...here's some deep shit I didn't know...
the admiral of the US ship that rescued the captian who was held hostage by the Somalian "pirates" was a BLACK WOMAN...Rear Admiral Michelle Howard....
A marriage involves a contract of sorts. And there are certain rules within that contract that the law will uphold. Cheating falls under "fraud" in the marital contract and you can sue for that and you can also challenge the prenup because you can claim that you signed it under false pretenses and whoomp there it is! Perhaps Tyrese should have been tending to his own business instead of consoling and defending Chris Brown since he too is a card carrying member of the "kick a byatch's azz" club. I don't understand why Black Men-who ain't got shyt- get so upset when they read about these kinds of stories. It ain't your money. And if men don't want to get "stuck for their paper" then they need to abide by their vows or stay single, but either way, get it girl!
greedy ass bitch. take what cha got hoe. see a woman like me was lenient on a nigga and said oh at least he does come pick up his daughter and she loves him and i did not get enough child support to buy groceries. i mean 20 or 30 dollars and sometimes less than that or none at all. but i was happy he saw his child. see bitches like her always get the brothas thats willing to do what is right financially and then some. a decent good woman can't get a break. i ate greedy ungrateful bitches.
it does not have to be a clause for infideility. you are NOT suppose to fuck other people while you are married in the first place. that is a cause for divorce and not only did you break the mrriage vows you broke the pre-nup also.
DaShit I'm sooo done with them! FLDOR can kiss my ass. CSE is a fukkin joke. This ho yes I said ho makes all of us look bad. She only has 1 kid. That money should be way more than enough for her. My mom raised us 3 with no child support what so ever. She worked at a dry cleaners during the day and as a Cna at night. She even had to pawn my earrings and some of her jewelry to pay the rent. So lil beige's $1000 is ridiculous to me. Bitch needs to take her down to the piercing pagoda and get $30 earrings or something
She must of read what TI's babymomma got and now she wanna follow suit...greedy ass bitches. My momma was with my daddy for 12yrs and aint get shit, these bitches want 65,000 dollars for 10 months. Bitch get real!!!!
that will eventually get lost next wk and $300 on toys? Please they like playing with the boxes more than the toys at this age
Wow,
You can really tell who has kids by losers on this board, LOL.
Some women get pregnant by Ray Rays with little to nothing to their name and some women get married and pregnant by music and film stars. It's not about what she can live on, it's about what her lawyers can get.
A lawyer is paid (usually an astronomical amount of money) to advocate on behalf of their client and get the most for their client. If Tyrese didn't want to end up in court with his pants around his ankles he should have tried to keep his marriage together. Period.
Stop using YOUR circumstances to judge another person's. Living in Los Angeles (on the westside) is hella expensive. She does not need to get a job - she a is full time mother. Plenty of women with children don't work. Some actually CHOOSE to not work. She does not need to get a job and leave her kids with a stranger (nanny). I am shocked at how many people keep saying that women need to go " get a job" after a divorce. If you're not used to working for a living, it's not so easy. Especially since this woman isn't even from the United States.
Let her lawyers get the best deal FOR HER AND HER CHILD. Stop hating because you weren't able to get pregnant by someone of means and still have to work and raise your children. I am not saying that is the case for anyone on this board, but I have found that women are extra salty towards chicks like this because of their no good ass, broke ass men.
I hope Norma gets whatever is going to make her life comfortable with her child. I hope Tyrese learns that he should honor his marriage vows and respect the mother of his child. I hope that baby doesn't grow up and read about her parent's divorce and see people calling her mother a greedy whore.
Oh, and I also hope for world peace.
ok...why would a man wanna get married with this court system in place? this type of mess will help destroy future marriages. becuz if a dude thinks, "ima just be a credit card if this doesn't work out." why would anyone wanna get married? a man could get less headaches if he just moved her in.
she signed a pre-nup...sorry. she gets no love. she is getting $6300 and a lump sum payment! how much is 10 months of your life worth? why are ppl so quick to put a price tag on their kids?
real women doing their own thing, bringing in their own money hate to see this kinda crap. handout needing women will applaud. independence is a powerfully awesome thing. getting ur own and being a productive citizen is great. otherwise what is ur damn purpose...just to leech offa society?
Fat ugly chicks about to make a come back for real. Feed them and they be so happy. These men want to be like YT, anybody ever see Tom Jones wife? she dont give him no problem. Time to stop seeking out the porcelin doll wives and find somebody that actually care about you.
I think she is MORE than comfortable w/what she is getting! SMH
I hear ya... Everyone is different... this is just my opinion and I am very comfortable that I wont ever need a lawyer to help me get someone else to pay for my choices.
my daughter is 3... WE work so that she can be in an early-learner pre-school and WE provide for her very well in a very nice area in California. (what i look like making my 3 year old sit up under me all day) Now if HE decided to leave or I decided that I nolonger wanted to be with him; thats on us.. has nothing to do with her... and I (emphasis on I) wouldnt need or want anything from HIM. ...and if after that I choose to be a full-time stay home mom... that would be MY choice and he should not have to pay for MY choices.
preach quesha preach!
HB sometimes we don't found out the truth about our men until we get pregnant. In my case my ex and I were together for 6 years and I never knew he would turn out to be a loser. But trust and believe when he graduates medical school in 2 years I'm going to "pull a Norma" my damned self
AMEN BOAF!
and nothing makes sense of him paying her legal fees because she is making the choice to go back to court. JMO
OK she needs to go sit down somewhere.
If you can't make it on THAT when people are making it on way less,
something is wrong with you.
I don't see how women who work are "real women" and women who don't aren't??!
Most men like Tyrese do not WANT their wives/girlfriends to work regular jobs. It is an embarrassment to them. They like looking as if they can provide for a family. If he wanted an "independent" woman he would not have scooped up a foreign college student, got her pregnant and married her within a year. He wanted to appear like he was "Big Willie" - giving this young woman the life she couldn't have on her own. That was also HIS choice. Since HE had the means to do so, he CHOSE to bring her into HIS life and into HIS lifestlye.
Some women do not see anything wrong with having their three year old "sit up under them" all day. Some people home school, others just aren't comfortable with their kids being around strangers. You can judge that if you want, but it really is no one's business how others choose to raise and educate their children. As long as they are not a burden on taxpayers, we have no real say.
I know plenty of stay-at-home mothers who if they were to get divorced would ask for spousal support so they can continue being stay at home mothers. The dads have no problem with it when they are with the chick - they only bark about it when they are no longer sleeping with the woman due to divorce. Some men get mighty "brand new" when they can no longer get pussy payments.
Lord forbid something was to happen to this man....THEN WHERE WOULD SHE BE?
@ Hollywood Blackout...I think you make too much sense for some of these folks on this post right now. They don't get it. Callin her all out of her name, and takin up for him. GTFOH
Stop talking about her like she is the one that got married, cheated and moved in with another chick (while married) and stopped seeing his child. Damn, women get no love these days. If i was her, I would take that $6300, but she's not me. Her and her lawyers obviously know they can get more, so f*ck it.
And NO, it is not a new phenomenon. Because of the internet, you hear more stories like this, but for you to think that this is new, is straight up delusional.
(sigh) He is a no good negro with a little bit of money, just pay up Black Ty...Just because some of u ladies didn't get paid from your broke negro, doesn't mean the next chick gotta suffer. Be happy for her, shit, if that's possible.
The internet is kinda like a mirror of sorts and what it reflects is most ugly. It shows that a lot of Black Women are focked up! Some of the most vile disgusting and disrespectful comments posted on the web, as it pertains to another Black woman will be made by other Black Women. We seldom like to see another Black Woman attain ANYTHING and if she does, then she's a greedy, goldigging, selfish byatch. Why? Some of the comments I read from other women about Beyonce would shame a sailor. Why? Beyonce is representing Black Womanhood in a fierce fashion and grown Black women still hater her. That is hatred and it comes from self and it proves that a great large amount of Black Women are hateful miserable beings. Misery loves company and the internet has become one big hatefest against Black Women. Now I have no idea why so many are calling this woman everything but the child of God, and totally jumping over the fact that she has been lied to and cheated on and probably smacked by Tyrese's raggedy azz. This is not his first wife. As the mothers of the race, Black Women need to check themselves and their self-loathing ways.
HWood Blkout:She does not need to get a job - she a is full time mother. Plenty of women with children don't work. Some actually CHOOSE to not work. She does not need to get a job and leave her kids with a stranger (nanny). I am shocked at how many people keep saying that women need to go " get a job" after a divorce. If you're not used to working for a living, it's not so easy. Especially since this woman isn't even from the United States.
Wow no disrespect but you sound like you are a Norma. So you're telling me a grown ass person with a child should not work b/c she's a FT mother? What does being from the US have to do with a damn thing? Carmelita that cleans the bathrooms at my job can't even speak english but she's working and she has children (not just one child). Having a child doesn't mean you are done working for life. What if a spouse dies and the widow is a FT mother you telling me she still shouldn't work?
Oh and before you call me a salty baby mama, I'm neither. Maybe if some people think twice about bringing innocents into the world just to cop a check less children will have to be the pawn in their parents games.
*Note to Norma next time ur bf kicks you in the stomach while prego (if that really happened) don't marry him a couple of months down the line and wonder why he doesn't respect you.
Quesha I disagree with you on this one. Dude not only cheated on her but he beat her as well, now while I do agree that the money she was previously awarded is a nice sum if she feels like she needs more under these circumstances so be it. I have worked all my life and have never taken handouts but if a dude convinced me to leave my home then once he got me here he alienated me and whipped my ass I might go the same route.
SAY IT 1:07!
Yea I know she is getting more than a stick of bubble gum because she is an ex-wife not a babymama!!!! That is my point. Thats what happens when you marry the father of children instead of play house with them, you get extra shit.(well most of the time anyways)
And don't get me started on that independent woman bullshit. It is the reason so many act the way they do now, acting like they don't have to do shit.
I believe in being self-sufficient tho! But if I wanted to be 100% with no man in my life but to just give me a child, I would become a lesbian. My man should play his part as a man, and I will pay my part as a woman. But thats just me obviously.
it's not like the bitch was married to him for 10 years. It was 10 MONTHS! Bitch better get a damn job and move on. She doesn't derserve shit more after only 10 MONTHS!
I am all for her getting help(money) from him but what happens when his career(or lack there of) fades away and he can no longer provide what he has been providing! That is why @ tha end of the day DO YOU! I hope that she can get back in school and get an occupation so when tha time come she can provide for HER child as well!
@ 1:09. *fist in the air*
I concur....
@ 1:09. *fist in the air*
I concur....
@ Anon 109 I hear what you are saying and I don't bash I just state the truth. This case has more to do with accountability and less to do with black women bashing each other. Norma is basically teaching her daughter to rely on someone else when she needs to learn to rely on herself. She had complete control over getting pregnant by Tyrese, she chose to leave her mother and move to the US. I'm not taking sides b/c Tyrese has his faults too. My whole thing is like I said accountabiliy, she has to woman up to her actions and secure her own future. Black Women today can bring home the bacon, fry it up all the while taking care of her children and looking damn good while doing it. It's time to drop the excuses.
i dont have any kids. and i have never been married. so most of my opinions are just opinions. no problem if folks don't agree, the ultimate judgement comes from the courts, whatev.
i just think that when women as for ridiculous amounts of money, they look greedy. if he beat her, then why did she CHOOSE to marry him? why did she leave her home for him? i don't get it...shouldn't she have filed some charges? she made the decision to marry him. now she has to wait on a judge.
ppl cheat all the time. it is wrong, i know. but i don't think that it is against the law. and i dont think that u get paid for it.
@TaterNuts
I am saying that being a full time mother is an actual JOB. For some women running a household and taking care of a family is a full time job and they are fortunate enough to have that family with a man who can provide all of the financial needs for that family. Not every stay at home mom is even married to a man with a lot of money. Some just budget like crazy and live a modest lifestyle. It is a personal choice that all women should have a chance to make. It sucks that so many black women can't even FATHOM not working while they have young children because they are either single mothers or they are with a man who does not make enough money to provide for a family.
I have noticed that black women are the most vocal AGAINST stay at home moms and tend to call those women lazy, stupid, greedy, etc. I had a stay at home mom until I was in high school. So did Michelle Obama. So did other black children. I don't know when black women became so anti stay at home. I think it has a lot to do with so few black men being worth shit that they just figure it is not possible to have that kind of life.
I didn't say she had to be unemployed forever, but I don't think there is anything wrong with her not working while her child is young. Running a household (well!) is a full time job, especially when your partner has a very demanding career and is gone a lot.
Why is she some evil baby make r just trying to "cop a check". Did she throw the kid in the garbage after it was born? Did she abort it? She is the primary caregiver!! If anything, Tyrese is the one who wanted a "family in a box" situation.
And you comment about her being assaulted is indicative of your true feelings toward her and other women like her. I hope you're never in an abusive situation.
Possible Situations: Tyreese kicks his next chick's ass... Next chick dont play that shit and kills him...
Tyreese gets into some sort situation that does not able him to to maintain same amount of money as he has been making...
Tyreese decides to fuck off all his money... do nothing to make more...
.... uuummmm what is ex-wifey gonna do then to support her daughter and lifestyle?
We gotta/should start thinking in the future for our families... not just in the now.
she black?
And if we couldnt vote for pres.Obama just cause he black why we got to be onboard with this mellow yellow heffer who dont look shit like the black women we know
i am with taternuts. it is not about bashing BW. it is about BW handling their biz. i swear to goodness if you say anything other than someone else's opinion, u r automatically a hater.
i love black folks. i just think that we need to learn how to stand up. and taternuts hit the nail on the head. how can she teach her daughter how to handle her biz, if all she can really do is collect a check. dependency is sad. old ppl, kids, and the physically disabled are the only ones with an excuse to be completely dependent on others.
Okay let's go at this in another angle: How do you feel about Juanita Jordan getting 168 million in her divorce settlement and Robyn Gibson set to receive a reported 500 million. In both instances the men cheated. Does it matter the length of time they were married and does that make them gold diggers like Norma?
JUST BECAUSE A MAN TAKES BACKSHOTS DO NOT MAKE HIM GAY!!
^5 QUESHA
"Black Women today can bring home the bacon, fry it up all the while taking care of her children and looking damn good while doing it. It's time to drop the excuses."
It is this kind of thinking that black women are "strong" and can "do it all" that has lead to the disastrous family situations we see in the black community.
A woman should not have to be the provider, protector, nurturer, etc. all on her own. Especially when single black mothers are the poorest demographic in the united states. Clearly, it is not so easy for black women to just "bring home the bacon" and not be in poverty.
Perhaps black women should stop trying to take on every aspect of family life and find partners who are willing to HELP in all areas. It is NOT ok for black women to be "doing it all". The results seem to indicate that this is not the BEST way to go.
@HB...i am all for staying at home with my (future) kids if my (future) husband's income allows it. the difference is i can handle things if need be. trust me, i don't wanna work like i am right now...but what if he loses his job? what if gets into an accident? i can handle things. i honestly don't think that most of these dependent women can handle things, if they had to budget when money was tight...that is why i feel no sympathy.
@ Birds being a stay at home mom is thinking about the future of your kids just from a different perspective.
Jordan money dont compare to Tyrese money. Ditto on Tyson.
Nobody is knocking Norma for her child support. We are saying that that IS enough to care for one child...MORE THAN ADEQUATE actually.
She should hope she dont meet up with "...[an] extra salty.." lady judge (cue Judge Hatchett) who went to school/work and became INDEPENDENT cause her ..."no good ass, broke ass men..." left her when he was tired of her.
Im just sayinggggg.
And what is she "teaching" her daughter that is so terrible? If anything it is you folks on the internet calling her mother a lazy whore who are doing more damage. The child is too young to even understand what is going on.
She has a mother who is with her full time and helping her grow up - what more is she supposed to be getting? Is it better for her to see her mom go out and sit at a desk and answer phone calls and push papers across a desk? How do you people even know WHAT she is going to TELL her daughter about relationships/marriage/family etc?
Why are we not asking what TYRESE is showing his daughter about how men should treat women. Women learn from their dads, too. How about we ask how Tyrese is going to explain to his daughter why he and his mother went through a bitter divorce? Is he going to be there to ensure his daughter gets a good education and understanding of the world so she isn't as vulnerable as her mom was years ago?
Is he going to help his daughter see how fucked up men can be when they spot an easy target?
Or will he continue making babies and cutting checks?
Hmmmm.....
Jordan money dont compare to Tyrese money. Ditto on Tyson.
^5 DaShit......NOT EVEN CLOSE! THAT IS LIKE COMPARING APPLES TO ORANGES!
I am an advocate of handling your family issues OUTSIDE of the courts. Why would you want a third party in your private business?Rhetorical. Shes gonna go back in there and find someone not so sympathetic in this recession!
I just think Norma shouldve cut her losses with this fool. Im inclined to think that in her case and 50/NeNes case that they are just looking like women scorned.
SMH I would wanna burn his ass too! I wanna slap the shit outta my co-worker too but some shit you.just.dont.do.
I mean, how much more could he tell her that he didnt mean her and her's no-fukkin-good?????
Kick you in your stomach WHEN YOURE PREGNANT WITH HIS CHILD?!?!?! Come the fukk on...that really makes me think this union was going be blessed *eye roll*
God takes care of children and fools. Thats all.
so ur saying that she isn't teaching her daughter to just marry someone with money and he will finance you for the rest of your life? that is the lesson i am learning. i guess that works for some. not how i was raised. like i said before, i would LOVE to stay at home. or work part-time, if our household finances provided. i am not demonizing that. i am against greed. and that won't change.
@ 1.32 I'll bite. IMO these are two completely diff scenarios. Juanita and Robyn got married to their husbands before they were famous. They struggled with their husbands and I think the should reap the fruits of their labor. Norma knew what she was getting into when she married Ty. If Paulette got divorced from Denzel(no matter how much I love him)she should get her fair share as well
"i honestly don't think that most of these dependent women can handle things, if they had to budget when money was tight...that is why i feel no sympathy."
That is your opinion. Do you know any "dependent" women i.e. stay at home moms? And for the record, a man is just as dependent on his homemaker wife as she is on him. This is why most men get another girlfriend or remarried soon after they get divorced. THEY see the value in a woman's role in a relationship and they are not willing to go without it. Just like women can see the value in a man providing for them and will work to keep that in place. If she went out and got another man, that would not be best for her very young child. The BEST option is to continue being with the child and keeping the financial resources in place.
I think it is very interesting that "indepdent" women see non-working women as these idiotic, stupid, bon-bon eating drones. Trade places with the daycare workers that watch the children of "working mothers" all day. Or trade places with a homemaker and see ALL the things she does to keep her family on track.
It is much easier to judge other people who you haven't been in their shoes.
And for the last time, stay at home moms aren't idiots! Many have degrees and are educated. SMH.
And all you folks buy computers, pay for internet, buy clothes, cars, etc and support greed EVERY DAMN DAY. If greed is so against your morals, please log off, quit your job and move to Amish country. We all support greed, it is part of life.
Yet you are so "moral" when it comes to a woman getting paid in a divorce settlement?? LOL. Especially when the man was an abusive asshole??
Oh, how high and mighty we get when another woman is getting what we could only dream of!
@HWood:
And you comment about her being assaulted is indicative of your true feelings toward her and other women like her. I hope you're never in an abusive situation.
I have which is why I said if he kicked you in the stomach while you were pregnant DONT marry him a couple of months down the line b/c it just might end up the way it is now. Speaking from experience and if I can keep another person from going through it then I didn't go through it in vain.
Also I have no problem with stay home mothers but like you said if they aren't given the choice then they have to do them. Her choices are being limited so she needs a plan C.
@HW...r u skipping over the part where i say that i wouldn't mind staying at home? i am not hating on that lifestyle. u r getting all up in arms about the wrong point.
most of my family has 2 parent households where the man is the primary bread winner. actually my mom is a stay at home mom for my little brother. (so i have nothing against stay at home mothers!)but best believe, if something happens to her husband's income, my mother would take up the slack.
she got paid...how much is her 10 month stint in marriage worth? why r u so mad that i think that is too much? it is all opinion.
oopppsss.. my other blog family is poppin right now... gotta run but ummm
again, .. i hope tyreese stays in good wealth and health to continue to support this woman since she cant/wont do it on her own... (sigh)
for the record... i dont think ALL stay at home mom's are idiots... there are working mom's who are idiots... i never wrote that. I also beleive that there are stay at home moms that can support themselves without depending on the father of her kids to stay wealthy as long as she lives... read the blogs on the women who choose not to work or get educated and are suffering with their kids now because their baby's fathers are being laid off in this recession... not the father's faults!
Juanita was a jump off turned baby momma turned "got that nigga caught up in a marriage"... blah on that... she was never blind to what MJ was doing. She used his money to get MD put after her name while they were married. ... totally different type of relationship.
me- I made the post about Black women bashing other women and now that we've moved beyond the name calling we can talk. Working like a government mule and paying all of the bills and handling the kids and everything else in between is NOT an idyllic life for Black Women. Yes, you are strong and yes you are a survivor and what must be done must be done but we should not laud it as some sort of triumph of spirit. And the majority of women don't like it hence the hate when they read a story like this. This man has violated her in every way possible and we are tripping over how much she gets? That doesn't make sense. I would love to be a happy homemaker. Fock working. I do it because I am single and 40 that is just what I have been doing forever. My grandmother was a housewife for my grandfather didn't want her to work and she was a superb homemaker. I would much rather be at home cooking and cleaning and working in my garden and tending to the kids and my man and making our house a home and writing books. But for Black women, that isn't always a realistic aspiration. That is where the hate against stay at hom Black moms come from- many wish that they had it like that. Because that is all that we know, we think that we are SUPPOSED to do everything and we are not and it is tiring and exhausting and self-depleting to be trying to do it all. Most of the time when women get focked over they don't get shyt but a bruised up body mind and spirit. I really don't care if she breaks his azz and sends him back to his mama because he certainly deserves it.
"Black Women today can bring home the bacon, fry it up all the while taking care of her children and looking damn good while doing it. It's time to drop the excuses."
It is this kind of thinking that black women are "strong" and can "do it all" that has lead to the disastrous family situations we see in the black community.
@HWood I'm glad you quoted me b/c not once did I say we can or should do it all. I made that statement to say when we are put in a position when we do have to do it all we can rise up to the challenge. I praise all women and men that raise their families with or without a spouse. Sorry I'm not the one to look at my sisters and say what they CAN'T do I'm all about talking about what we CAN do. I have no time for negative thoughts and feeling sorry for myself and neither do a lot of other people.
Hollywood Blackout I swear there isn't one word you said that i disagree with.
"It is a personal choice that all women should have a chance to make. It sucks that so many black women can't even FATHOM not working while they have young children because they are either single mothers or they are with a man who does not make enough money to provide for a family"
Hit the nail on the head with that one...That is why a lot of women feel this way toward this "gold-diggin whore" smh....
Juanita was married to Jordan for years and was with him while he built a career. This bitch stepped in for a blink 10 MONTHS, not 10 YEARS SO bitch was well compensated for her 10 MONTH.
SAD PART ABOUT IT
1)They can't take NONE of it w/them when they leave god's green earth.
2)MORE THAN LIKELY THIS WHOLE SITUATION IS HURTING THE CHILD MORE THAN THEM!
They have black Amish people?
wow this is going to be a 200 comment post
@HWood most of us except some Anons understand your point, I know I do. But what Quesh, BOF are trying to say is if and when the fairytale doesn't pan out you have to go with your plan B and we never said SAHM are idiots or lazy.
I am well aware that being a mother/taking care of home is a FT job which is why I didn't apply just yet. I'm waiting so that I have $$ saved and will be comfy (not rich or wealthy but we can dream right) then I can start my family. Reason being is b/c I don't want to have to deal with this type of mess. I also plan on staying home until my child is in school which is why I rec'd a degree in something I can do from home if need be which is what a lot of SAHM have done, at least the ones that I know. If it doesn't work out he can pay child support and call it a day but I will have already put a nice piece away for me and mine.
It's all about planning for sudden changes in your life, men suck, women suck that's life.....plan for it.
i'm not going to defend her because i don't even think tyrese has that much money. sometimes women don't want to see you move with another women, so they try to make you as broke as possible. i had a friend that use to say she going to take him for everything he got. i kept telling her over and over again he don't have nothing, the house is in both your names. in the end she ended up owing on the house just like him.
WTF? She can't get by??? Get a job lady. He's not with you anymore, so his only obligation is to the child. Chicks make me sick with this. Stop looking for a man to 'take care' of you. Give me $6,300 a month and watch me make it do what it do. A nigga wouldn't hear from me again. This chick is greedy and like I said....GET A JOB!
^^^ have u been reading the posts? We been talking about chicks like u lol
She MARRIED him, so she is entitled to a bit of spousal support. It is not crazy or unheard of. She is not a babymama, but an ex-wife. Theres a difference.
that's what you get when you marry a groupie.Groupieism is alive and well in the "09" and guys are still thinking with their dipsticks.Tyrese,you wifed a chick that's been passed around the block how do you feel. Tyrese: i feel like taking my life or moving to europe or anyplace where i can restart over
^^^^ HaHaHa but wait theres more!
"Tyrese: i feel like taking my life or moving to europe or anyplace where i can restart over"
Norma: What about Disneyland, Ty? I mean you've sanctioned for lil beige to go to"..Disneyland every other month..." It works for her lil' spirit; why not yours?!?
LOL Im sorry. Im so wrong for putting that chile in this.
Father, forgive me; I know exactly what I do and I.just.dont.care.
@ Hollywood you are very level headed for your age. You have to remember some of the people you are arguing with are young or don't have kids or are brand new mothers.
Your head is on right and I agree.
Break Bread Tyrese. Its for your fuckn daughter. If the mother is mishandling the gwap, it will catch up to her eventually and she'll get dealt with. Hollywood, give up homie. lol. Only1Nikki is right.
" and I agree."
But WHY Nikki???? Nobody is saying Norma dont deserve to get paid. We are saying that Norma needs to be realistic and held responsible. She married this abusive asshole AFTER he kicked her pregnant ass; not before. And then, they were only married 10 months. Im all for child support relative to income. I just cant get onboard with raking him over the coals financially cause he is an asshole! They're ALL assholes.
"...with are young or don't have kids or are brand new mothers." Im not young, I have a gang of knuckleheads, and I cant even remember what it was like when I wasnt a parent. Yet, I dont agree that Norma should be back in court for more money for that one lil girl who doesnt have any real bills to speak of...and wouldnt miss Disney a bit if she didnt go every other month...
BTW who filed for this divorce? Was it Norma? Maybe she not as sily as I thought...
Send that greedy broad back abroad.
Married 10 months? So how the heck did she car for herself 11 months ago?
Bitch please.
Making the rest of sisters look terrible. *spit* She sees her child as a meal ticket. Get a fucking job.
@Quesha adultery is indeed against the law in many states and is grounds for divorce as the anon said.
@3:21 she wasnt a groupie she was a student. He chased her and flew her back to the U.S. I haven't read ANYWHERE she's been passed around.
@DaShit I think HE filed for divorce. He just stopped coming around then moved in upstairs (or down, I don't remember) and took up with some other breezy. She still wanted him, even after the preggo kicking, mental abuse, neglect, etc. she still wanted to be with him (or his wallet, same thing).
I think Hollywood Blackout Only Nikki and Anon have made some good points. I can also see where DaShhh and Quesha are coming from too. But Quesha I think you are far too sympathetic towards men and fathers. becuz if a dude thinks, "ima just be a credit card if this doesn't work out." why would anyone wanna get married? a man could get less headaches if he just moved her in." Men are not the only ones who end up paying alimony. If you don't want to pay alimony, marry a woman who makes as much or more than you do. Simple. Either that or don't cheat and leave.
After all, the parent that usually walks away from it all scott free is the father. It is usually (not always) the mother trying to make $1 out of $0.15.
I think she should be able to make it on what she is getting. 10 months is a short time. I don't think she should have married his (fine, chocolate) ass, esp. if he showed her he was abusive and tried to harm the baby. He is the one who set up that ridiculously materialistic lifestyle. Now he's paying for it.
If she gets more money I won't feel sorry for him. If she doesn't I won't feel sorry for her either. At this point it is just a game. I would have been done sold all those clothes, toys, and jewelry. Personally, I would be right back in school finishing my degree and investing in a business, but I'm not Norma. Maybe she's just not savvy like that.
yes an ex wife is entitled to some compensation especially if she has children by her ex husband but when greed factors into the situation then you are allowed to call her every gutter name in the book. come on man, in this economy, people would kill for 6g's a month.
and to the anon who went blah blah blah about black women and haters, beyonce doesn't even represent the ethnicity of black women, i think you were speaking from the perspective of a deranged stan.
Anybody see tha details of this prenup?
Who in their right gotdamn mind would co-sign some shit like that?! She's a victim of her own stupidity right now.
tyrese needs a hitman
Is she for real! she wants him to pay her so that she can sue him for is money to get some more of his money? what the fuck! I swear the bitch got high yella bitch fever! how extreme, I'm wondering if she knows this nigga don't really have much and she'll eventually have to get a J-O-B
This should tell him that SHE WAS ONLY WITH HIM FOR MONEY! Leaving her was the best thing he could have ever done because the longer he stayed...the more he would have paid.
V...
This heffah ought to be happy with what she got, since she was only married for 10 damn months. How long did they date?
Tyrese is paying for the roof over her head and a vehicle to get around in, while putting roughly $77,000 worth of SPENDING money in her pocket. People keep looking at the 6,300 figure but what about the value of the house, the car, medical expenses and insurance on the house and car. For that kind of money, she can afford to bring her sick mother to LA, go back to school and save some money. We are talking 77,000 undesignated dollars thats good money. she was married 10 months she couldnt have got all that accustomed to living large, shit she was living average for most of her life, regular is what she is more used to anyway.
I mean, the best thing in the world a person can do is be fair, my question is this. Is the money that she is getting right now fair, all grudges, hatred and biased feelings aside, is it fair? Everyone can sit up and say that Tyrese is a dog, a cheat and for the most part he is but the reality of it all is this, he is a human being with flaws, it is easy to sit here and SAY what we would or would not have done but that not realistic. If you are not a singer and a movie star, you dont know what the fuck you would do in their shoes, money and status changes everbody and I do mean everybody.
chick is greedy as hell.. 75k a year plus rent and a car note? there's college graduates that don't make 75k a year.
And if he did beat the woman he needs to be dealt with. Now nothing changes after this question but I just want to know, did he beat her ass before they were married?
@ Bee Gee, I just peeped the Prenup. If I signed some shit like that and was gettting what she is getting, I would stay the fuck away from a ourthouse. Under the guidelines laid out in this agreement, she is entitled to a swift kick in the ass. The way that shit reads she was supposed to get thrown out on the damn streets when they filed for divorce or got legaly seperated. The judge that gave her the cheese that she is getting must have felt sorry for her. She might need to go back to school because she aint that bright.
This b*tch is strictly out for the money, ladies if a man is a dog, the best thing you can do is have him pay child support and then move on. Life is so much simplier, this ignorant gold diggin itch needs a go back to school and then get a job. I can't believe females on the post approving her behavior - whether he cheated or not. Get a d*mn divorce and move on, you are not entitled to take of grown *ss people, she's clearly not concerned about their child - this appears to be more of a ME - ME situation. Tyrese she's really not that attactive - come on now.
i don't think it's about the money, I think she just wants to make tyrese life miserable. she scared that he has found someone else and spending his money on her. she know that she lucky she got that much, considering she signed a prenump. she going to end up with nothing. i don't think she was spending more then that when she was with him.
Hollywood Blackout must be one of those lawyers making big money off these divorce cases. Stay at home moms and fathers are not stupid. They do a lot of work to take care of their kids. But, when the financial arm that allows a woman or man to be a stay-home parent is gone, get your ass up and find a job. (If your car gets repo'd, you're telling me you're not going to take the bus? Its called adapting.) Cause if you don't, then you are surely stupid. She was in this marriage for 10 months and will not get much more out of Tyrese since she was not there before the money (I understand he fucked up bad, but so did she, knowing how stars can be (i'm sure she on the blogs) and not starting a business with his money instead of buying expensive jewels and dresses). I don't care how expensive it is to live in LA, if you don't have the money to stay around those broke, vain, "look like i got money" motherfuckers, use your intelligence and move. There are many safe places to go that cost much less. And who says you have to leave your child with a stranger or nanny, take that 65 or 75000 and start a damn business from home. 10000 alone would get her business well off the ground. Stop teaching our kids that opportunity is free. It isn't, especially when you have Black skin. You have to work hard, and I don't care if it's from home or a 9-5. Show your kids that you are more than a socialite.
And stop telling people not to compare their situation. Poor or rich, you can't continuously be a fucking idiot. Her personal wallet is gone, but she won't adapt? That's like saying a poor person just won the lottery, but stay living in the deepest of the hood. Intelligent people adapt.
Shame on Black Ty for mistreating his lady. Shame on his ex for blindly thinking a marriage with an R&B star would be golden and not taking advantage of the time she had. (And by the way, it's 2009, so don't tell she didn't know there was at least a possibility shit could go wrong)
^^^ have u been reading the posts? We been talking about chicks like u lol
LOL my ass. Chicks like me?? WTF does that mean? A chick that doesn't consider a man a meal ticket or a come up. I know they were married. For less than a year mind you, and he wasn't even living with her the entire 10 months. There is a thing called the law dummy. Each state has its own statutes establishing how long 2 people have to be together in order for spousal support to even be considered. And the chick signed a pre-nup, so sitting on here arguing in her favor is a waste of time. She sealed her own fate. Chicks like me...bitch please. You sound like a bird who a nigga can get with for a few dollars. A chick like me doesn't take from nor take care of men. A chick like Norma marries for money and gets played. Like I said in my first post, she should be happpy with the $6300 she gets for child support and get a job. Point blank.
I was once married to a football player and yes i was dumb enough to sign a prenup. We had a daughter and I would say after almot two years of marraige I filed for divorced. I had contracted an uncurable STD and I was just 100% through with the marriage. I did recieve spousal support because of this incident, I also recieve 10,000 a month in child support. I was smart enough to have eraned my degee and I have a stable career. Any real woman will get up and work or themselves. I lived in aa 2 million dollarhome and ended up in a 250 townome. I adpated to the change. The sousal support was money that I saved for m healthcare needs. She just needs to get up on her ass and work!
10:56 said it all. Amen!
Danielle
@ 3:05pm
Hmmmmm. Sounds like you got that Mike Vick Shawty!!!!!!
@3:50pm 250,000 townhome and $10k a month sounds damn good to me. Excuse me while I get my violin to play a concerto for you and Norma.
^^^don't forget the spousal support in addition to the 10K monthly. Sounds like you got paid sistah. Herpes is forever but they have valtrex. (Still wouldn't trade places with you.)
@11:20 AM
please EVERYBODY who was every with someone gives up a lot, and this gold digging *tch ain't no different, females get your game tighter then what they are, I'm sick of men thinking we all are gold diggers, some of us have our own hustle and it's NOT hustling men.
PAY HER YOU FUCKING LOSER AND MOVE ON. THIS IS WHY WOMEN DO NOT FIND YOU SEXY.
5 stacks and he can get her knocked off... i dont know whats wrong with some peoples math...lol
@ vizion. I know someone who'll do it for 4 stacks.
Danielle
Yes, baby girl get that money.
I got love for baby boy Tyreses but fellas you gots to pay when you lay.
Women pay the price with the daily duties of full custody if they take parenting seriously and really put a child's needs before their own.
hard to tell. is the additional fee bitterness or a real need?
Least he got a Black woman.
Thank you! Get you money!!!
*your*
I know SHE mad!
This is a shame no one really knows what happened between him and his ex wife but them and God!! if he beat her and cheated on her when they where only married for 10 months he had to have been doing it !! He said from his own mouth that he filed for a divorce,and in other words she knew what she was getting into than to to add insult to injury she signs a prenup I mean really I was in a abusive relationship for 4 yrs which the last 2yrs was the abuse I did not marry him after the fact i stayed to long yes I did but I left and I HAD A CHILD which is crazy but to marry some one doing harm to me is just insane this whole story is shady...........
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