Saturday, September 26, 2009

Word to Alicia Keys


The next time your lover's soon to be ex-wife tries to have a sit down with you, do it. That way she won't be reduced to airing y'all's dirty laundry out on Twitter. Last night Swizz Beats' estranged wife Mashonda wrote an open letter to Alicia Keys on TwitLonger and she aired that ass out.

Mashonda vows to Re-Tweet her diatribe everyday until she gets a response.


On Saturday 26th September 2009, @MashondaLoyal said:

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I've never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I've reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK's last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying " why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken". Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would've handled things more carefully. I'm not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don't have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what's real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the "people", this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don't understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I'm not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.

(image lifted from Whudat)

214 comments:

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Anonymous said...

This B*tch is crazy. She sound so stupid. The man has moved on, now you need to move on already, this story is so OLD. Yes women men do leave, get over it. And nomatter what people feel about AK, this chick will never be able to meaure up to AK, and to say that she wa on JRecords doing what, back up singing. It's been going on two years, I just hope this chick don't get a hold of a gun, she's clearly CRAZY! for all the women who have been dumped, yes it hurts but you will feel better once you HAVE MOVED ON, there are more men in the world. TRUST!

Anonymous said...

The sad part, when him and Alicia have children she will no longer be able to use HER son as leverage, women are so pathetic!

Anonymous said...

Okay, pyscho if this wasn't for the people why did you have to post it on twitter? You are truely crazy and your son father really do need to look into getting you some professional help for real..................

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what's real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the "people", this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

Love Rules said...

Fuck that. If it's worth fighting for, I say fight for it. And if there's anything worth fighting for it's your family. She ain't no baby mama. This is his wife. She said she didn't even know her marriage was broke. She says they were celebrating the birth of their child and AK took her man. They took their vows before God, for pete's sake.

where's my stimulus? said...

sombody twitter me monster mash's address
imma have to fed-ex her a whole case of leaf sour grape bubble gum and a bb kang greatest hits cd...

Anonymous said...

Hey AK since you're mama didn't teach you or perhaps you didn't listen when she tried...if he does it WITH you he will do it TO you.

As for the SB, he should have handled all of this better.

and Mashonda needs to send shit certified letter, but I know it must feel good to put BOTH cheaters on blast (over and over again).

AK really needed to keep all her ish on the low at least until the divorce was final. I mean YAY for you that you got him, but damn he IS still married and was MARRIED when you start screwing him. She may not owe his wife and son a damn thing, but her imagine as a strong woman and a supporter of other sisters is tarnished.

Anonymous said...

Swizz is the one to blame! damn, get divorced FIRST! sorry bastard!...and nobody can keep a man from his child, if he's doing that then he's a Double sorry bastard!...but there's 2 sides to a story and the scorned wife's side will always be a little suspect.

Anonymous said...

Why doesn't Alicia just reach out to the chick so she can shut the hell up. I don't think she's crazy I think that she is extremely hurt and I don't blame her. If she asked her to back off that's what she should have done even though I'm sure this chicks husband was in hot pursuit. Mashonda is not gonna let this go Alicia might as well face her.

Anonymous said...

I agree with 1:18. Let's just see how long this lasts. Swizz already lookin like he knows he made a mistake.

~antisocial~ said...

How dreadful. smh

Anonymous said...

for someone who claims to have peace and has worked things out with SB, she still sounds very bitter!

Anonymous said...

You are right about the "if he does it with you, he will do it to you". Karma is a grandmother. BOTH will reap what they sowed. I don't just look at one person. AK was not the one she took vows with and she did not force this man to go with her. He was going to leave if it were with alicia or not. It happened so....move on like you said you have. I know it hurts. Considering you were one of her biggest supporters and you find out your husband is sleeping with her. Some people have no morals....what can I say. Your husband is one of them. HE KNEW he was married as well. SMH

Don't just look to blame AK. Or bring up what she could have done. It is what HE SHOULD have done. He knew how he felt as well. The breakdown of the marriage did not start with AK. apparently, it has been broken for a minute. He just did not confide in you and let you know how he was feeling.

Ironic . said...

What I got from this, in BLURBS --

This whole thing was just a bait for AK. No I'm not choosing sides, it's just the face that who puts their private affairs on TWITTER? How messy can you get?

At this point, Mashonda sounds like a bitter woman that just needs to get on with her life, and stop playing the victim. She needs to grow and learn from this experience.

AK doesn't owe Mashonda two vowels. However, Mashonda does need to take some of the AK, and realize that Swiss has something to do with it as well. The only thing that needs to be worked out with them is their Son, and I'm sure that won't come along until the papers are finalized and Swiss put's a ring on AK's finger.

Ironic . said...

fact* my bad people.

Anonymous said...

I am not mad at her for putting AK on blast. This is her husband and she asked AK to back the fu*k up. I have no respect for AK. If it were meant to be she could have watited until after the divorce and would have been more proud to show off her man. AK has a song called Karma(I didn't know that) I can't wait until it comes knocking at her door. LOL.

Anonymous said...

Okay, didn't AK invite her to his party that she put together for him. Something isn't right, why would AK invite her to the party and this psycho goes to the party but then puts her son to sleep, gets back up and decides to twitter AK several weeks later. Girlfriend, give it up, AK probably wanted to step back but SB didn't want to step back, he probably told AK, she is NOT the one I want, I want you. And from the bitterness of this letter, he has moved on but she hasn't. Damn, I wish he would hurry up and get a divorce so the scorned ex-wife can REALLY move on, but something tells me, every time she sees AK or SB, it's going to light a fire on her little finger tips to get to rambling on twitter...she needs a stiff drink and a stiff...never mind..I'm done!

Anonymous said...

I think AK & His Wife looks to good to be with him, I think both of them can do a lot better. Swizz Beats is not that serious, I'll see if it was Blair Underwood, Then I can see them putting on war paint and going to war, but Swizz Beat, I don't think so.

Anonymous said...

messing with married men taught lauryn hill a thing or two. she was all on that "positive black sister" soapbox too. whatever.
i cant imagine going through not only getting a divorce, trying to maintain a career with a young child in tow but have it all take place under the harsh scrutiny of the public eye. when you got money and fame the world is pretty much at your feet so why mess around with somebody going through some unfinished (well-publicized) domestic drama that could effectively tarnish your "above-it-all positive black sister" image? why?

lily said...

I applaud Mashonda for wanting to talk to AK. I would before I sent my kid over there. This trick interfered in your family. Since AK laid down with her husband, she oughta be woman enough to sit down with the wife. She knew a kid was involved.

What AK should have done is told Swizz, look if you're unhappy, holla at me when you're divorced. AK, herself, don't look comfortable with this shit. The wife sounds like a woman. A woman says let's hash this shit out, even though it ain't pleaseant.

She ain't callin' AK out to roll around in the dirt like some ghetto trick. Why should the wife pretend she ain't hurt. Some of you ppl pretending that you would move on are ridiculous. Moving on HEALTHILY requires work, not false bravado. There are consequences for your actions.

Quiana said...

WOW!!!

Anonymous said...

I feel sorry for her, it's apparent she truly loved her husband. Why in the hell does something have to be wrong in a relationship for a man to cheat? They are testosterone driven...couple that w/a man that works a lot--isn't home all the time, and an attractive woman that's hot pursuing him AND you have real problem. Men lie & I don't think his wife knew. When she found out, it devastated her.

AK could have her pick damn near....but she chose a married man w/a family. She is self absorbed and not the image she portrayed to her fans, as being an icon of strong black women & positive black love. They both flaunted their affair and expected for wifey to take it. You reap what you sow and when it don't work out, he'll want his wife back. I hope to hell she don't end up being a fallback girl...but she loves that piece of shit.

Anonymous said...

I wouldnt say anything to her or him. He'd be looking for me and his son! I would not go to their party. Or read their twitter page or whatever. Nada. He'd be filling out a missing person report and sending my checks to a p.o. box.

Anonymous said...

Oh. And what's that about he's too scared or confused to see his son. Yeah right. He's too busy screwing around shirking his responsibilites!

Anonymous said...

What the fcuk is it Mashonda wants to work out with Alicia?? Sounds like all she wants to do is bring drama and vent. It is what it is Mashonda, Swizzy is GONE, get over it. Alicia AIN'T GOT TO SAY SHYT to you.

Swizzy does NOT have to introduce you to his new woman, and you do not have the right to APPROVE which woman and who is around him when he has HIS SON. He has the right to be a parent, and you DO NOT have the right to withhold time with his son, and his son time with his father, BECAUSE OF YOUR FEELINGS MASHONDA.

Mashonda, you are trippin and I say that as a lawyer.

You are lucky that Swizzy is so nice. Because of this shyt you pullin, not letting him be with his son because YOU ARE BEEFING over him having a new woman, HE COULD TAKE YOU FOR FULL CUSTODY, do you not realize that?? And NOW YOU'VE DOCUMENTED WHAT YOU'RE DOING ON THE INTERNET, FOOL!!!!!!!! You just need to quit Mashonda. JUST STOP!

I'm all for keeping the marriage vows, but THE ADULTERY ISSUE MASHONDA KEEPS DWELLING ON IS PAST, OVER, DONE WITH, H.E I.S. ALREADY GONE!!!!!!

This shyt is irritating as hayle! Swizzy, go get your son and stop being a damn pushover!! Chick will get over it!

Anonymous said...

Good for her. I swear half the people up in here have never been in a relationship that didn't end well.

How would you feel if you had just had a child and you know your husband was sleeping with another woman? What she's jut supposed to say 'oh okay, I'm over it.' Her divorce is not even final!

Anyone who doesn't get where she's coming from, I hope if any relationship of yours doesn't work out, and you were wronged by the other party; that you get over it immediately, otherwise you might be thought of as "bitter".

This woman was married for years and asked Alicia to back up while she tries to work it out. So she's not supposed to feel mad about this? Is it so wrong for a woman to try and keep her family together?

Now if I recall she did put Swiss on blast so I doubt everything was aimed at Alicia. Bottom line it takes two to tango. Obviously the man is more at fault as he is the married one, but if the woman was sleeping with him knowing FULL well he's married; then she is wrong as well.

Anonymous said...

what the eff is mochanda supposed to do? she's hurt, a bond called FAMILY was created when she bore his son. this ain't no damn girlfriend boyfriend highschool mess.

no! this is a broken family because another man maded a decision with his lower head. and newsflash ms. keys, how you get them is how you keep them, what are you gonna do alicia if swizz meets another dime while your on tour or something and falls in love.

men are fickle and inconsistent. there are no real men anymore. if you don't love your wife or your girl anymore then have the effing balls to tell her and leave without cheating. damn cowards.

Anonymous said...

Well well well,,finally the truth of it all,,Ms Keys KNEW Swizz was lying and sneaking off on his wife but as some young women thought that was falttering but true enuff karma is a mofo!
She cant stand for empowering women by this shady shyte at all!
It takes two to tango so Sizz AND Alicia are wrong,,its not like Alicia dint know this nicca was married and just had a son,,,this is nothing but hood shit,,ghetto melodrama and I heard two songs off that new one and it aint that hot to me,,,shrugs*

Anonymous said...

Can't put every man down. All i know is I would not go out with a married man. I'd wait till he's divorced. No matter who he was. I just think that's nasty.

Anonymous said...

Mashonda is better than me beause after I clowned his narrow azz and took all he got$,,I would go right to the media and clown that bitch too. She wanna do bitch shit ,,lets do it!
If she was back in Harlem fucking wit somebody's man correction husband,, she know what it would be!

AnonMoron67 said...

I can get her being bitter, pissed, and heartbroken about her marriage ending. To me that is not a joke. However, airing out someone's business to get back at them ('cuz yall know that what she was doing) is so childish.

Clearly, Swizz teatz had made the decision to end his marriage to be with someone else. Yes it's hard, but puttin' shit out on front street is not cool. It just makes you look tired and desperate. The only thing she should be doing is preparing on being alone until her next mr right come along. I get where she's coming from, it's just how she's handling it is what makes her look like a fool. Karma is a bitch and what they (AKeys and Swizzy) dish out they'll have to take back.

and preach @3:48 and 3:49! Write your/their business in a diary or something and take his ass for what he's worth.

Anonymous said...

Mashonda has every right to want to talk to Alicia.That chick is going to be around her child.Let's keep it real.Only someone I trust can feed my cat if I'm out of town.So much more for a child.


Alicia knew his situation.She could have told him that she would have to wait until he's divorced.She wasn't trying to hear that.No matter how u slice it she contributed to the downfall of their marriage.His attention was on another willing woman, therfore taking from effort he could have been putting into his marriage.Homewrecker.

Swiss Beats...foul.One minute you in magazines celebrating the birth of your son..next this?He knew he was wrong.But he felt the grass was greener.

u reep what you sow......

Choznwarrior

Anonymous said...

this woman is crazy.....if she was so concerned about her son......why in world ould she go public with this desperate letter....she should be embarassed.....!! her focus should be else where....not on AK....the needs therapy....she's raising a child.....that should be her focus....not worrying about a relationship..!! DAMN.......SOUR GRAPES....is all.....she need to get some business !!! damn shame !!!!

Bee Gee said...

I'ont blame Mashonda for feelin' the way she's feelin', but this is not the internet's bidness, and she does not need to be checkin up on Keys and fuckin round on homegirls twitter page.

Some women get so consumed by the misery of a situation that they can't see the hurt they continue to inflict on themselves. Who cares what Keys gotdamn way? If Mashonda is dumb enough to follow "advice" to go to homegirls page then she's obviously consumed beyond immediate repair. You get your closure with the muthafucka that cheated on you, not with his desperate sucka fa love ass jump off.

She's a contradiction of her own statement. She keeps mentioning the child as the most important entity here, but obviously, her entire statement is about her obsession with THE OTHER WOMAN. She even crazily states that her and Swiss Treats are cool, lmao. So for whatever reason, she has put a large part of her pain on Keys and feels she needs closure with that bird.

It's real simple: Someone that HAS to get atchu but keeps saying "I'm cool", "I'm happy", "I'm blessed"...is feeling anything but that. Mashonda can't get over the fact that her turkey-lookin' husband left her for some emotionally confused famous r&b chick.

If she thinks some magical conversation with Keys is gon' bring closure, she's probably mistaken. Cuz everytime she gets on the internet, she'll see or hear about homeboy with his new love.

If I was Keys corny ass, I would NOT even come within 100 yards of Mashonda, cuz she's speaking cordially and all that, but those are the types of woman scorned that'll put lead in ya fuckin brain. Either way, Swiss Treats and Keys will get what's comin' to thatass, all in due time. Mashonda needs to holla at a real nigga and take care of her son. Please don't kill Keys when you see her, momma. And don't kill Swiss Cheats either.

Anonymous said...

Mashonda sue for ALIENATION OF AFFECTION if you can.

So What? said...

Alicia, what are you doing? The poised, deep, sista-supporting woman that you present in interviews is just that, a presentation. If a man is in love with you then he'll do anything to be with you, including officially finalizing his divorce before entering a relationship with you.

So sad. That's desperation, sleeping with another woman's husband. Your gross.

Anonymous said...

@3:48 PM you are NOBODIES lawyer, oh my bag, maybe a jail-house lawyer. Let's see your vocabulary #1, is very street vernacular ei.; beefing? ain't? trippin? oh well you tried @3:48pm. You must be like the Lil Mama super-homo with X-RAY vision able to ride Swiss Beats d*ck in a single bitter memory, able to show up behind closed doors & I quote see & hear how "NICE" Swiss Beats is being to his wife & child, ummm? And I would hope any responsible Mother would be aware & mindful of who her child is around, whether it be Alicia Keyes(and by the way you should never be impressed with a public persona to the point of assuming their private behavior, especially if publicly the behavior is irresponsible & questionable in PUBLIC) and both parents have a right to know the atmosphere their child will be exposed to, see @3:48pm contrary to your "SO CALLED,LOL" lawyering skills, children have been fondled, molested, exposed to unhealthy social behaviors many times because the parents weren't mindful but in AWE of, money, job descriptions etc., ex. (teachers,preachers,fame etc). Look snitches all I read was that a woman in the mist of a divorce to a very public husband & SUPER public mistress, wants to have a decent one on one to gage the mind state of who her child will be spending quite a bit of time with their father for QUALITY time, not SHOW-TIME, if they weren't famous she'd still be irresponsible NOT to want to know the person with whom her child will see as his fathers other half, especially since Swiss & Alicia spend quite a bit of time together. Anyway you can be cautious & moved along at the same time. Mashonda just has the advantage of having a husband with a mistress that is very well known for putting out an strong IMAGE of support & empathy for the troubles unique to women, SUPERWOMAN remember that with the little talk show rounds from Ms. Alicia 'Karma' Keyes herself? Money & fame does not equal a healthy happy home, ask Michael Jackson, Robert Blake, OJ Simpson, R. Kelly, the senator of South Carolina, Minnesota & Phillip McKenzie the Mama's & the Papa's daughter. so don't listen to this jail-house wanna be lawyer. Check on your kids snitches, it might be more than meets the eye & maybe not, but you will never know unless you act like adults with a civil give & take relationship, whether it be the mistress or the right hand man of Swiss, I am sure Mashonda expects some access to who her child is dealing with in close quarters on regular occasions, I just think Alicia is a little embarrassed to be one on one with Mashonda & we know that a man is not going to paint a pretty or accurate picture when he has been lying & cheating on his wife then drops the 'OH didn't I tell you? I got somewhere else to be for the rest of our lives' lol. My sister is has a very good understanding with her husbands ex. wife, my sister accepts his baby girl as he accepts my two nephews, the ex. and my sister take all the children to outings & appointments separately or together whatever is necessary. By them being responsible the little girl got a couple new Aunties, Grandmother & Father, that love her unconditionally and my two nephews have a (step)father that doesn't feel pressured into taking sides or drama, it can be a beautiful thing, Snitchessssssssssssssssssssss!

Anonymous said...

I don't think Mashonda is crazy. But I do think she is one of those women who are not to be f**ked with. SwizzBeats and Alicia have been trying to mess with her for too long (remeber that bullshit he tried to have his lawyer serve her).

She said she had a woman to woman with Alicia. So Alicia was given notice. Mashonda wasn't some sorry groupie/baby mama. She was his wife. Swiss and Alicia are responsible for the break up of a marriage. This THE OTHER WOMAN DOESNT OWE THE WIFE NOTHING is bullshit that has gotten to much play over the years. People are totally responsible for their actions and they went in to their relationship with full knowledge that a marriage and vows would be broken. This is what is wrong with America today, no accountability. If jump-off adulterers were forced to pay fines you would see how quick that shit would slow down.

So what if Mashonda had the nerve to go the party Alicia threw for Swizz beats? It didn't hurt anyones marriage and child. The worst it did was make few people (Alicia and Swiss) feel uncomfortable.It didn't bother Alicia to have the nerve to have a married mans penis party in her.

Anonymous said...

I feel bad for Mashonda. However, she should have leashed her fury towards the Pencil (SB) because she married him and not Alicia. I think that Alicia forgot her song "Karma" completely. "What goes around, comes around", remember that lyric, Alicia?

Anonymous said...

^ Mashonda gonna get SB. She is gonna hit him in the wallet. That is the best way to get a cheating husband back. Don't get physical, don't get fat, GET PAID.

Anonymous said...

^^^ Should be unleashed not leashed.

Hottestchickinthegame said...

Pathetic! JUST PATHETIC!!! Get the fuck over it Mashonda!!! It wasn't meant to be and stop dragging yourself and especially your innocent child into a relationship that doesn't involve you! It's done!!! Your husband stepped out on you and found what he was looking for! 2 years is a long time to still be holding on to something that is so obviously over! Honestly, from what I can see, it was never meant to be between you in the first place.

SMDH @ her stalking Alicia's twitter page and responding to tweets and things not directly address to her!!! Someone say STALKER!!!

Alicia, it's time to resort to carrying that blade and getting a gun permit because this chick is strait obsessed!!!

Anonymous said...

He is showing blatant lack of respect for his child and both women, especially his wife. I don't know how or why he's worth having by any of them, including his child.

Anonymous said...

It was on both of them,ak knew what was up and swiss knew too.Someone could of said no, until he was free and divorced.Everyone so into give me the ass, give me the dick, we in love, and not considering anyone elses feelings.so what goes around comes around.They dont have shit.

Anonymous said...

girl let it go, hes a grown man, if it wasnt AK it would have been someone else. here you are at home writing a letter about a man who doesnt want you any more while they are some where having fun. people are blaming ak, but hes a grown man who made those choices and i will bet money AK was not the first one. she is just looking and lusting after the past. girl, he doesnt want you any more, stop living in the make believe past and get you another man.

Black Walnut said...

Mashonda just need to let it go and move on because clearly SB has. Her wanting to confront AK is just plain stupid. Putting your personal business on a fucking twitter page??? I mean come on. I know she's hurt, hell at some point everyone has been or will be hurt, hell it's a part of life. Shit you have women that get divorced or separate from their kids father everyday and with time, are able to move on. With her prolonging this situation, she's only hurting herself.

Anonymous said...

@ hottestchickinthegame, ok we get it, whores need to support other whores.



anyway, it's not a matter of it's meant to be or not meant to me, it's a matter of a man ignoring his duty has a husband. clearly he wasn't being honorable. and alicia is an unhonorable woman despite her millions and fame, she help ruin a vow made before God.

but mushonda needs to rid the poison of bitterness. girl start of somewhere, it's gonna take baby steps but start taking those steps in moving on, let God handle immoral behavior, people reep what they sow, trust!!

Anonymous said...

Alicia Keys how you got Swizz Beats is how you'll lose him. It's called Karma baby!

Tam1257 said...

She says that she is done with the situation, but she is still talking about it , and worse tweeting about it. I understand she is still hurting but clearly their were some kind of issues in the marriage. We we'll never find who is at fault, and we're not suppose to. Just because these are well-known people doesn't mean we have to know everything. It's done! Have some class about yourself, if not for yourself do it for your child.

Anonymous said...

Lil' Mama = Stage Crasher
Alicia = Marriage Crasher

Didn't Alicia clown Lil' Mama for crashing her and Jay-Z's performance? I wish Alicia was asked about Mashonda instead of Lil' Mama, when she was on The Today Show after the infamous stage crash. There will be more and greater disappointments in life, Alicia.

Anonymous said...

If people keep making it ok to cheat without consequences then dont cry about there are no good men left,,Women are the ones who allow the game to be played and not televised.
All these single bitches saying Mashonda need to get over it,,wonder if they would say the same thing if it was them and their husband,,Hell No,,They would be at that bitches door with a Cheaters camera telling that bith and that nigga to come out and get that ass beat

Anonymous said...

i wouldnt be so judgemental of alicia keys if she wasnt on that "sista-supporting" schtick. now she comes off as nuthing but a record label created FRAUD and husband stealer without dignity or morals. you can ignore the talk but for so long, girl..everybody aint lying on you, hating on you or crazy.

Anonymous said...

Ok now if Alicia was soooo ok with moving on with this married dude at the time how come she has yet to address the issue. she can address the Lil Mama shit,,why not say say straight up. Listen this man came after me and I was down,,,I mean like how long is she gonna hide the fact that dude was married when she agreed to fuck him?
If it is ok then be proud of what you do!

Anonymous said...

Mashonda should divorce him, get child support and move on. She can say whatever she wants to say to AK, but it ain't gonna change a thing; he doesn't want her anymore and there's nothing Mashonda can do about it.

MONIQUE said...

TBQH SHE NEEDZ 2 GET OVER GONZO

LOL Y R PPL LEAVING SUCH LONG COMMENTS

Staten Island Girl said...

she needs to move on. she looks pathetic. if a man doesnt want you anymore there is NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO MAKE HIM STAY OR COME BACK. the best thing for yourself is to move on and focus on you and your son. its easier said than done but with effort it can be successful. its better than constantly making a fool of yourself

lily said...

@6:59_ You are so right! Cheaters Camera's OMG, you made me howl!! LOL.

Anonymous said...

Mashonda is obviously hurt, and is making how she is dealing with it public knowledge. She's hardly the first person to do this and won't be the last. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, but I don't believe she's necessarily going public with her marital business because her husband and Alicia are public or famous people.

Part of the reason some people go public is simply because things like the Internet, mobile devices, and television, have given them the avenues to do so. One doesn't have to be rich or famous to go on TV, set up a blog, or send out tweets. Web sites like "DontDateHimGirl" and television shows like "Cheaters" also allow people to put others on blast. Mashonda is just using whtever resources she feels she needs to use in order to express herself. Whatever decisions and actions she makes and how they are received are what she has to live with.

Anonymous said...

i agree @ 7:36

Anonymous said...

"Mashonda, I know you're upset about the failure of your marriage, and Imma let you finish, but Tameka and Usher's marriage is one of the biggest busted marriages of the year."

Anonymous said...

people are coming down so hard on mashonda but until you are in that situation you don't know how she feels. some people take longer then others to get over certain things. i am true person to that testament. from the outside looking in you can criticize her but as a woman who has went through it. you feel humiliated, hurt and then mad all in one. and you do seek revenge to hurt the people meaning both and you want them to feel they way that you do. at least my embarrasment was among friends and family hers was in front of the industry and the world to see. so talking down to her will not get her anywhere. what she needs is prayer that is the only way she will get through it.

PROVERBS 3:5-6

Anonymous said...

IT IS SO FUNNY HOW ALICIA KEYES PORTRAY HER SELF AS THIS DIGNIFIED WOMAN AND SHE RESPECTS SO MUCH ABOUT HERSELF. BUT I GUES D**K DOES THAT 2 YOU. BUT YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW. I HAVE LOST ALL RESPECT FOR HER WHO DOES THAT WHY DIDN'T YOU WAIT UNTIL THEY WERE DIVORCED. I HATE B**TCHES LIKE HER AND HIS A$$ IS TRIFLING TOO

Anonymous said...

Do you honestly think that this man has not been with another female beside AK? He has!! and if it wasn't AK it would had been someone else. He is in the industry and whether he's a looker or not women/groupies follow people like him which makes it nearly impossible not to cheat. She is truly PATHETIC!! She is really making an ass out of herself, AK does not owe her anything. She is stalking this girl. It appears from the start that Mashonda is envious/jealous of her. Dam get some dignity and move on.

Anonymous said...

ok... i've been on the other side of the coin where i was cheated on and lied to during a period in my marriage to my husband whom I have filed for divorce from..
With that being said I have to say that Mashonda needs to hang it up.Alicia does not owe her anything, her husband made the vow to her before God- not Alicia.
Perhaps Mashonda is searching for closure; closure will come once the divorce is final and she starts getting her child supprt checks.
Mashonda is clearly envious and blames Alicia. No where did I read in that 'tweet' that Swizz's ass was at fault. She stated that she THOUGHT everything was fine. Imma give her the ol' Bitch please here...
As far as her using the songs that Alicia has sang to try to hold her to is bull. Alicia is an entertainer and the songs that she has sang does not equal the bible...something that we should live by.
Get a grip Mashonda and move the fuck on already. If it wasn't Alicia it would have been another woman; point is your HUSBAND no longer wanted to be with you. What you need to do if anything is direct your questions to him, because as stated earlier..Alicia owes you nothing.

Anonymous said...

"Getting over it" is easier said than done.

Anonymous said...

@5:34 it's me again, the lawyer. Yes dear, I am a lawyer licensed in 3 states and have been practicing law for 20 years. My main concentration is family law.

I am also a sista who loves entertainment and has an opinion. I'm not writing a brief for the court on here, this a damn BLOG fool; I don't have to use the kang's english on here.

I happen to handle custody cases FOR A LIVING. I get paid VERY WELL for my work, and I know how harsh the system really is when it comes to custody WHEN THE FATHER CONTESTS IT, especially when the MOTHER IS BLACK.

Mashonda is totally misguided from a legal perspective. If she was my client I would be beside myself right now, she is totally damaging her case..

The way she's acting out her pain is foolish and counterproductive. This is EXACTLY the kind of woman that gets TOTALLY PLAYED in family court especially when it comes to CUSTODY. In many states, THERE IS NO PREFERENCE IN FAVOR OF THE MOTHER. NONE. THE FATHER HAS THE SAME OR EQUAL RIGHTS. EVIDENCE THAT ONE PARENT HAS BEEN IMPEDING VISITATION WITH THE OTHER, especially because they don't like the father's girlfriend, JUDGES DO NOT LIKE and they will take the child.

Swizzy needs to man up and get this damn divorce over, dragging it out is not helping anyone not least of all Mashonda, who needs a SEVERE reality check. Your family as you knew it is OVER M, it's time to move on. You made Swizzy A PARENT, HE HAS RIGHTS AS SUCH. You CANNOT CONTROL how your son's FATHER parents HIS CHILD on HIS TIME, OR WHO HE CHOOSES TO HAVE AROUND HIS CHILD UNLESS THERE IS VERY STRONG E.V.I.D.E.N.C.E. OF HARM TO THE CHILD. NOT YOUR FEELINGS. E.V.I.D.E.N.C.E!!!

People who have not been through the process ARE VERY unenlightened about how divorce and custody actually work. They operate in a very counterintuitive manner that can cause DEVASTATION for the unwary. (How ya like me now 5:34?)

Anybody ever heard of K-Fed or Anne Heche?? These chicks lost custody of their kids and have to pay the baby daddies. It's happening out here, one of the newest trends is the DAD'S SUING FOR CUSTODY--END RESULT, 50/50 TIME AND NO CHILD SUPPORT. If the man wants to accomplish this, one the main ways they twist things around on the mother is to label her crazy, jealous, stalker, mentally ill.............

So Mashonda?

Move on with your life cause right now hunny, YOU ARE PLAYING YOURSELF.

As for the rest of you, that'll be my standard consultation fee, lol.

veronica said...

I feel sorry for his wife, but at the same time she should be relieved that she no longer has to deal with this cheating bastard romantically. As far as AK is concerned, sure she has him now but if he was willing to leave his wife right after she gave birth to their son, what does she think he'll do to her? I can't believe this is the same chick that sang "A Woman's Worth". Sounds to me like she has yet to discover hers.

Anonymous said...

Uh... it still sounds like this chick aint puttin' no blame on her husband. I hate when woman do that - ur husband was the 1 who made vows in front of god with u not AK! It was his job 2 stay home & not creep around with other women. I aint sayin' AK is completely right, but don't act like the fault is hers alone. If u gonna put AK on blast on twitter, put ur husband on blast as well!

Anonymous said...

yay!!!!!anonymous post came back!!!!Thank you!!!!
Thank you!!! Thank you!!!

Anonymous said...

This is total bullshit. Why is she reading Alicia Keys twitter page? Why is she keepin tabs on her soon to be ex husband's new relationship. They ahve a child, so fucking what. Focus on your child, I doubt that child has a clue about a twitter account! Take care of your home. Alicia didn't force you man's d*ck into her vag! He is a grown man, making grown man decisions. He doesn't love you anymore. It may be hard to accept, but that is the truth that GOD has written for you. Move on.

The same way the other woman is never to contact the wife.... the wife should leave the other womean alone as well. You man cheated on you, all that "woman to woman" bullshit is just that. Bullshit. If your man cheated with 50 different women would you have beef with 50 women? Or, would you finally grow a brain and come to the realitization that YOU made the mistake of marrying an asshole?

He broke his vows between you him and God.... that speaks volumes about the kind of man YOU chose to spend the rest of YOUR life with. He changed his mind about you and the value of your marriage to him, and moved on, please take a moment to do the same.

Anonymous said...

As a female who has been wronged, the s*** hurts. HOWEVER, Mashonda is clearly delusional and needs to get over it. It is not healthy for her or her son. There are 3 sides to every story-his, hers and the truth. If SB wanted to leave, he was going to regardless of who it was. I have to question someone who is constantly out in the media talking when the other parties are not responding. She is hurting her case more than helping it. She is turning into a stalker. Obviously, she doesn't want to give up the lifestyle she has grown to love. Give it up. This is starting to remind me of that Steve McNair crap. He doesn't want you. As for blaming AK, let it go. Her husband made the vow. Yes, AK was wrong however, if she can make peace with SB then move on. He isn't coming back.

Sheryl said...

I am SO disgusted with my black people, defending infidelity and attacking a wife and mother. Alicia Keys is a whore and a hyprocrite, and just because she 'didn't take vows to Mashonda' as so many like to point out does not absolve her of all responsibility. What ever happened to morals and decency? What ever happened to married men being off limits? The state of SB's marriage was IRRELEVANT. He was, and is A MARRIED MAN. There is absolutely nothing 'crazy' about Mashonda and I suspect those of you who continue to label her that way are the very same type of whore as Alicia Keys is;f#cking a man no matter WHAT his marital status. If SB went after AK, her place AS A WOMAN, was to reject him based on the fact that he is MARRIED and put him in his place. And she had no business approaching him due to the fact that he is a married man. And he will continue to be a married man until the ink is dry on the divorce decree. Separated doesn't cut it. You're either married, or you're not.

Anonymous said...

he changed his mind, he don't love you no more, just move on, it's your fault that you married a man that cheated on you. it's fate that your husband no longer wants you. Oh grow the hell up people, don't blame the victim. i guess it's also the woman's fault for walking across a lonely street and being raped by some stranger.

i bet it's people in their twenties talking all this immature "oh well" ish. well, she cared about her family, you can't hang the woman for that. and the reason why she's bitter is because alicia is acting like some of you dumb broads being all nonchalent as if she didn't have a hand in this.

but ya'll will be singing a different tune if it was your daddy that cheated on your momma and left ya'll to run off with some other woman or when you decide to make a family of your own and some chickenhead decides that the married meat is the only meat available to her. so let mushonda write how she feels and put them on blast.

if they're embarrased, good. swizz and alicia should be embarrased and ashamed but they ain't.swizz is rich enough to make his divorce proceedings go quicker, so what's the hold up?

yes,shonda needs to move, and in due time she will, but she was married to the man for six years and known him for almost a decade,so her getting over him and the woman he left her for will take quite a bit some time.

and just like ya'll saying alicia owes her nothing well then mashonda ows them nothing as well, including being civil. put the bastard and his whore on blast.

Anonymous said...

Mashonda shouldnt have put this ish out on the front street. I think AK & SB are DEAD WRONG for what they did to that women and her family but I think she saouldnt have made it everyone's business. I can understand why she did it but really..her only purpose what to humiliate AK&SB...Oh well this is her life..we have no right to tell her how to live it since we are on the outside looking in.

Anonymous said...

This sad chick needs to let it go. Your man chose someone else. As fucked up as it may seem, that is your reality. Alicia doesn't owe you any explanation. Get your divorce and keep it moving. He didn't want your ass anymore.

Anonymous said...

She is right about one thing God will deal with them both. Now that's what I believe without a doubt. In the meantime why bother with AK or your soon to be ex for that matter? He was not and is still not hers, There will be nothing she can do different that will make him be nor stay faithful to her in the long run. Anything a woman gets without Gods blessing is destine to fell.At some point Ms, Moshonda move forward and don't look back or otherwise you will be like the woman in the bible, who look back when god told her not, and she was turned into stone.

Anonymous said...

the way he/she met you is the way he'll/she'll leave you!!!

Anonymous said...

MARRIED MEN SHOULDN'T PERSUE ,AND MANIPULATE...SINGLE WOMEN...A MAN WILL SELL YOU A DREAM TO GET THAT PUZZY......MARRIED MEN TAKE RESPONSIBILITY,DON'T BLAME THE WOMAN..COME ONE! HE TOLD HIS WIFE "I LOVE YOU" HE TOLD HIS MISTRESS "I LOVE YOU" LEADING THEM BOTH ON....TELLING ONE, HE'S LEAVING ,THE OTHER ..KNOWING IN HIS DECIETFUL HEART, HE WANTS BOTH OF THEM.....THE OLDEST STORY IN THE BOOK ....LOL

Anonymous said...

Is Mashonda 12 years old? Why in the hell is se spending so much time on f-ing Twitter?? She needs to get a damn job and a life. I'd be damned if she was collecting alimony from me all busy with this Twitter nonsense.

Anonymous said...

*she*

ELove said...

SB really has himself ina FUCKED-UP Situation that he CREATED all by himself... He's dangerously close to Steve McNair DEMISE territory -- TRILL
;-)

Anonymous said...

Swiss and his b*&tch AK absolutely DO owe this woman something. She is his WIFE! That means something in this country legally as well as morally and biblically!!!! If he doesnt want to take his vows seriously and he found a skank who is willing to live life with his scheming, selfish azz, that is fine. But as a mother I completley understand her desire to have a relationship with this woman because everybody knows that when a man with children is no longer with the mother and spends time with his children, it is the woman that he is with who is the actual caregiver; and I dont care what a judge or nobody else says........MY children wouldnt be going around nobody I cant pick up a phone and hold a conversation with MYSELF concerning their care. I would be going through his sorry azz and trusting his judgement. If he was any kind of father with good judgement he would at least consider his wife and child in the decisions that he makes that could potentially affect them. Had he even remotely done that, he wouldnt have even fallen prey to this homewreckin' hoe cause the door of opportunity would have never been open in the first place. Yes Mashonda sounds bitter; and so she should. I do pray for her to let it go so that she can move on and find happiness else where. Swiss doesnt deserve her love.

Anonymous said...

You either have character or you'll compromise...

Anonymous said...

I am a nicca, and no Mashonda baby you are not crazy. There is a true saying that says "In war and love everthing is fair game". You didn't put that bitch on blast, everyone already knew what's up, twitter or not. AK know you were married to that turkey ass looking nicca and that both of you had just had a son, it was known to all the industry people and abroad. AK is a stuck up bitch with a lot of dough who wanted your husband no matter what and she pursued him, he made mention of that in one of his latest song on how she has been very explendid with him. He probably wanted to hit and run but AK got her claws on him because of who she is. That nicca is a punk for leaving a beautiful chocolate woman like you and his new born son in the first place. Both are guilty as hell and believe me whatever starts out wrong will end wrong. Her cover has been blown with the pure image she has been trying to sell for years and now the whole world knows that she is full of shit. It will never be the same for both of them now. Mashonda concentrate and your son and re-build your life, as much has it hurts is someone out there for you and this too shall pass. Peace.

Anonymous said...

For the lawyer who is saying that you are compromising yourself on twitter, is a known fact that SB is the one who is cheating, not you.

Anonymous said...

He is a jerk for walking out on wifey and man-man.

Anonymous said...

I doubt that Alicia and Swizz are necessarily proud of the situation, but they have a right to be happy. Yes, ideally he should have waited for a divorce, but long before the paper is process, the relationship ends.

Swizz can't stay in a relationship just because Mashonda wants to stay in the relationship.

A friend of mine was in an unhappy marriage. He regretted it, they weren’t compatible, but only he cared about something better.

He talked with his friends, about his guilt, staying for the kid, and we discussed how it was IMMORAL to live a lie, and MORAL to want truth in love. He had a right to be happy in a relationship because he is a good person, wanted to be with the right person, and deserved not to waste his days unhappy.

He spoke to his wife about their problems over and over again. Her attitude was that she didn't see a problem as long as he agreed with what she wanted, she didn't care how he felt. She didn't need or want what he did in a relationship, she was fine with surface things. So he, after a lot of soul searching, decided to end it.

His wife played victim to everyone she met. She didn't know why he wanted to end it. It was the other woman (who came long after the problems) to blame. She didn't see any problems. She claimed he was a bad father, when she was simply using the child to hold on to him. She claimed he was cheating, when he told her he wanted to leave and stopped having sex with her.

His hurt at staying in an unhappy and incompatible relationship wasn't any less valid that her hurt at ending a relationship.

Of course, she cried to everyone she knew that he abandoned her and their child. His 10 year old child even notices the father is happier and that happiness extends into his child’s happiness....

Anonymous said...

...It was truly hard for my friend. He had a lot of guilt, and he had a lot of people criticizing him. People who didn't really know about the relationship he and his wife had, people who were in their own miserable relationships that they didn't have the courage to end, people who liked quoting the bible about keeping a marriage, but didn't see anything of God in the need to be truly happy in the right relationship which itself would be a glory to God and good.

He met someone, before the divorce and was torn. It was big drama, and lots of tension all around. He was so focused on trying to be peaceful with his wife in ending things, that he let her drag out the ending process. She wanted to hold him hostage in the relationship, and he was a perfect hostage - a good and guilty person, not wanting to hurt her, but wanting to stop his own misery.

Eventually, he had to choose between going forward into something better or staying stuck (and backward) in something deeply wrong. He almost lost the new person because she really didn't like the situation at all, but also felt strongly for him. We all had our moral views, our idealistic views. But I saw my friend happy. Truly happy, and I hadn't seen that for a long time. He had a companion, someone he could talk to, share with, and it impacted his life in a positive way. His work got better, he laughed more, he tried new things, he began to be the person we knew. He was happy and had a relationship that was compatible and enriching. Even the most 'bible-quoting' among his friends had to admit that GOD was present in his joy, and it was the DEVIL present in his misery.

Of course, his now ex is still causing misery when she can. We don't doubt her hurt, but really a lot of her emotion is clearly jealousy at the new woman, at him being happy, at him having a 'happy' she can't control, at losing free access to his income and lifestyle, at being embarrassed that he left her (she was very used to being wanted by men), and lots of emotions and ways that weren't about love. She will still say she was betrayed, cheated on, scorned, and tried really hard to make everyone hate the new woman.

It took some time, but even those who criticized him, those who were sane and around, saw that his life was better and that his new relationship had substance, depth and they HAD to respect it, because it deserved respect. IT was the relationship that honored love, and it is the relationship that once they marry at the end of this year, will be a true representation of marriage.

Let's not pretend that every marriage is the same, and every 'cheating' situation is the same. Let's be adults and instead of clinging to fake symbolisms, let's look at love as something far deeper. Folks should be reading Khalil Gibran "On Love" and "On Marriage" for some insight.

Anonymous said...

....I doubt that Alicia Keys wasn't torn about the situation. But if she thought she found a soulmate, thought she found love, then YES, she is living just what she was singing about. What may upset many women about this situation, aside yelling about how terrible and hypocritical alicia is, is that a man may actually decide to leave you for someone of substance, and your clothes, your hairstyle, your ability to push out a kid, etc. don't keep a man. Women complain about men not valuing love, but what if Swizz made his decision because he does value love?

Mashonda is hurt, with reason, but it is clear she also wants control and vindication. Alicia Keys has to answer to her? Uhmm, No. Mashonda sounds mad that Alicia Keys didn't abandon Swizz to his unhappiness with Mashonda. My friends ex-wife hoped that he wouldn't find anyone and would decide to stay with her to avoid loneliness and because 'he can't do better' than her - as she thought. Alicia Keys didn't destroy Mashonda's marriage. Mashonda's words are meant to guilt Alicia, maybe the same way she tried to guilt her husband into staying in a relationship he didn't want. It is manipulative and arrogant of her to speak to Alicia that way.

Mashonda's words are very much like my friend's ex, in a conversation we had when I went to drop something off for their son on a day when they were in high drama. She wanted an audience, she wanted to insult the new woman, to insult him, and she blamed the woman for destroying what they had. That B.S. works on people who don't know the relationship, but not on people who truly know. If she had a twitter account, lord knows we'd have never heard the end of her proclamations on how she was wronged. Oh she said the "God bless them if they are happy" part and she did the "Karma" speech.

But see, what happened to her and her husband, isn't likely to happen to my friend and his new woman, because the relationship is far different and far more substantial. Karma is getting back what you give. He decided to end a fake relationship in favor of looking for, and eventually finding, a real one that is full of love, respect and compatibility. There is nothing but good Karma in doing that. It was his good Karma that got him out of a bad marriage and into a good one. Technically, bad Karma was what he must have been experiencing to have been in a bad marriage for even one day, much less years.

Mashonda is using an audience to inflict revenge and generating bad Karma for herself. Yes, anyone who has been 'left' is unhappy about it. But how many of us women (and men) can look back on being left as the best thing that happened to us because it allowed us to be free for the better love that came afterwards? How many of us are in great relationships now that would have never existed had we stay in incompatible (bad) relationships that we thought we could never let go of?

My friend decided not to let other people (mis)use morality to control and cripple his life. He made an honest decision about who he loved and who he didn't. It was painful to all involved, but it was the right decision, a decision that RIGHTED a wrong that was made when he married the wrong woman. He wasn't out to do his ex wrong - he never mistreated her, he just didn't love her. Many folk choose to stay 'out of morality' but instead argue, withhold, manipulate, cheat repetitively, make their lives miserable, have the kids grow up in a tense environment, talk about how marriage and love aren't real, and generally live in mediocrity and discontent, grabbing at a few moments of good and okay, here and there. People keep the marriage, fake the relationship, and their children inherit the damage for their relationships -- but they keep quoting the bible, and what is moral, etc.

People who live miserably, especially secret misery, will see that affect their lives and turn them into people they don't want to be. Desperation breeds very bad things. Fear and misery aren't what GOD and LOVE are about.

Anonymous said...

I wrote all of this as a tribute to my friend -- I know he is reading this -- and because I think it needs to be said.

"Be bold and mighty forces with come to your aid" - Goethe

""I need no warrant for being, and no word of sanction upon my being. I am the warrant and the sanction." - Ayn Rand

"When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden... " -

From "On Love" by Khalil Gibran.

I suggest people read the entire "On Love" and "On Marriage"

Anonymous said...

@ 3:03 AM you sound like a damn fool, regulating children & women to a push out, like an animalistic beast, hopefully you are a man because we know they are not good critical thinkers and many are just what is between their legs, and the heart you speak of is weak and not strong enough for the real human condition, responsibility, which would men neither woman is dealing with a man at all, but a mere boy in a mans years and size. You don't even know LaShonda or Alicia, you just pushing your misogynistic agenda of men count women are vessels, get a clue and a life, nicca plezzzzzzzzzzz

Anonymous said...

I knew it was only a matter of time before somebody came up in here whining but what if it was true love, they love each other.

then tell me what is LOVE if swizz apparently felt that much to ask mashonda to marry her, wasn't it the same Love he now has for alicia that he felt previoulsy for the mother of his son? Cause if that's the case, swizz's LOVE is not stable, not guaranteed, not even when he makes an oath of it before the almighty. HE IS NOT A MAN OF HIS WORD.

now nobody held a knife to his neck and forced him into marriage. excuses, excuses, each case is different and in this case if swizz really did just happen to fall in love with alicia, then the noble thing to do would have been to hold off sex with the new grass, get a divorce and do it clean.

but no. gonzo chose to enjoy the insides of both women until the rightful wife tried to put an end to the affair. so please spare the love talk.

Anonymous said...

I am slow. Most kept typing SB, I thought it meant Son(of a)Bit*ch. LOL. In reading the comments it does work and make sense.

Anonymous said...

oh please people. mashonda can say whatever the fuck she wants. we are shunning her and she was the spurned wife. we are mad at her for saying what she felt. when you MARRY someome it is not that easy to just say fuck it. she was not a jump-off or a baby mama. she had papers on a brotha who stood before god and promised to be a husband, lover, friend, provider, protector until death do they part not until a new piece of pussy comes along. as for alicia that bitch was straight up wrong. she KNEW he was married. if YOU KNOW a man is married why bother with him. what does that say about you?? it says you ain't shit and can't be trusted. women with class don't fuck married men. i bet their marriage was good at one time. swizz ain't slick he sees fucking alicia as a oppotunity to make more money. money mashonda and her son will be spending. stupid asses. i know a man who claimed oh i love my wife and blah, blah, blah, then he got a new piece of ass and all of a sudden his wife was no longer a good woman. he no longer loved her. she had fault after fault. we all have faults. he talked about her terrible to his mistress. even his mistress talks about her too and they don't even know each other. another woman's man ain't your soulmate. if he cheats on her he will cheat on you. alicia ain't but 2 so yes her dumb, young, full of cum ass swears it is love. i really don't get it. the wife is the bad guy because she spoke about another woman fucking her husband?? wow the world has changed. the mistress gets cred while the wife gets nothig but crap from everyone else. mashonda move on. don't say one more word to that ho.. let it go and let his ugly ass go also. only deal with him where the kid is concerned. you do not have to deal with her that is a myth. just let swizz know its all about the child. don't have a conversation with him or go to his home. just deal with the child. god don't like ugly and both will pay for this and you will sit back and say OH well. swizz will one day regret all this. when he sees you happy without him all hell will break loose. he will be pissed to know another man has taken his spot and is in the house with his SON.. woman like alicia always get theirs in the end. her and swizz will stay together just to save face. and when it all ends or comes tumbling down she will look to you for comfort and she will be worried about her soul going to hell for fucking a married man.. ask marla maples why she called ivana after donald left her and their daughter for another woman?? he had left ivana and their 3 kids for marla but whn the shoe was on the other foot she called ivana and said oh now i understand. ivana said she did not have too many words for her. she ain't feeling her like that and i don't blame her. whats wrong is now right and whats right is now wrong.. we are in the last days...some of you are some sick people. no one respects marriage anymore.

Anonymous said...

@3:14 you ain't never lied. all these women on this positive sister soapbox and can't take their own advice. lauryn got a house full of kids by a married man. a man who denies he is married and also denies that he is with lauryn. he does not even live with lauryn and those kids. i think she had all those kids to keep him.everytime he'd leave she'd be knocked up.. karma is a bitch. i bet lauryn is feeling it hard.. akaicia will feel it too even harder and that will be mean if he tries to get mashonda back and it ends up plastered all over the internet.in situations like that the man is likely trying to get at the ex.

Anonymous said...

and @3:14 AM you obviously don't have a neutral or unbiased opinion of your and I quote "FRIENDS" relationship. He did intend to hurt his "WIFE", you admitted he cheated "BEFORE" the divorce. Also you have the very misguided fantasy that being responsible & free are equal partners. Now here's a little jewel for you; if a person needs to meet someone else to leave someone, the situation wasn't truly about being happy because he was unhappy, 99.9% of the time it is about being 'CO-DEPENDENT', having to have someone to validate the 'Man in the Mirror' whether they like misery or contentment, afraid to face yourself because you probably don't even know yourself. Now you seem to have been ALL UP IN THEIR BUSINESS, what in the world could be so important that you needed to bring it over in the middle of the couples crisis, many men manipulate and push buttons at the "Planned" time or place to validate their bullsh*t, it's an old trick, the best 'TRICKS' know some of the best tricks. You weren't behind closed doors in that marriage, you all up in their financial business etc., LMAO. See NO ONE can make you stay in a physical location (I didn't hear anything about the wife putting a gun to his head any given day or hand cuffing him). I will give you a BIG clue to what a responsible persons would in as much as possible in said situations do; #1, talk & listen explain your discontent to spouse #2 then leave (physically), extra clue they have had a standard of living with a 10yr child, so don't be an azz and vindictive if you are honestly leaving for the sake of clarity, maintain that life style for wife and child as much as reasonably responsible. #3, don't send your friends around to instigate or interrogate your wife on the low, stay out of their business, PERIOD! #4, if you are leaving once again for clarity don't cheat, have some self control until separated or don't broadcast and flaunt your new side piece, there's a child listening and watching also. #5,Get a legal divorce and abide by the courts ruling as far as child support and alimony and keep it moving. #6, reverts back to #1, DO all this BEFORE you f*ck around. KISS=Keep-IT-SIMPLE-STUPID, excuses, excuses, excuses, cheaters and side pieces got a million of them, nothing new here to see, same sh*t, different names and degrees of fame, snitchesssssssssssssssssssssssss

Anonymous said...

CORRECTION; I am @3:14am & 4:37am, I was responding to the "Jail-House Lawyer @3:48pm & the "Jump-Off" Poet @3:00am/3:03am,lol my bag snitchesssssssssssssssssss

Anonymous said...

I don't know anyone that would go away quietly and just accept the fact their spouse had an affair, ruined their marriage and to top it all off now it's tabloid news for the whole world. Most people couldn't handle it if their spouse even winked at the opposite sex, but Mashonda is supposed to just say ok to all this fuckery?

It don't feel to good to be shit on by someone that professed to love, honor and cherish. This is why folks go postal, all she did was twit the bitch. I lost every ounce of respect for alicia keys. She can have almost any man, but chose to be a homewrecker. Mashonda tried to be civil, but AK ignored her like her shit didn't stink. sickening.

Anonymous said...

Mashonda is most likely feeling violated like a crime victim, and rightfully so. She and her son are being robbed.

Anonymous said...

IM SORRY BUT AK AINT SHIT.. FIRST IF SHE KNEW THIS MAN WAS MARRIED SHE SHOULD HAVE RESPECTED BOTH AND STEPPED BACK UNTIL HE HANDLED HIS BIZ,IF YOU ALL ARE TOGETHER AND YOUR THROWING BDAY PARTIES AND SHIT THE MAN NEEDS TO GET A DIVORCE.BUT I PERSONALLY LOST ALOT OF RESPECT I HAD FOR HER,BUT AS THEY SAY BE CAREFUL CAUSE WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND AND THE SAME WAY YOU GOT THIS MAN,YOU WILL LOSE HIM..................

Anonymous said...

I would never date a married man, i don't care how much problems he is having in his marriage. The fact that there's a kid involed made AK look even more desperate. There is to many problems between him and mashonda for any women to want to be bothered with swizz. I blame AK.
mashona is clearly not ready for her marriage to be over and swizz should have dealt with that before he brought a high profile celebrity into his marriage.

Anonymous said...

No excuses for Alicia "Cook" (AKA stage name Keys). She could have gotten with a single man, just like she got with a married one.

Anonymous said...

i just pray mashonda just leaves this all up to the courts to decide. i know she is hurt. she needs to just not say shit to alicia. her and husband should do the talking. leave that ho out of all this. her son does not have to deal with alicia. she and swizz can have court ordered supervised vists where alicia will be nowhere around. i say just make sure he takes care of the child. allow him to see him. do what is right by the child. fuck alicia. that skanky bitch will get hers. bitches like her make it bad for decent women. living good is the best revenge.. when you go into something with dirty hands it never works. even if only one has dirty hands it still won't work because the other's hands will become filthy as well.

Anonymous said...

beware of woman who talk all this uplifting bullshit...

Anonymous said...

^ Too true. All I know is I don't have any respect for a woman who will cheat with someone they know is married - and with kids too?! Not cool Alicia.

Anonymous said...

9:33 AM - Beware of ANYBODY that spends much of their time talking about positivity and being uplifting. They have their own personal issues to deal with and they know it, just like everyone else. They just come off self-righteous to try to make it look like they have their act together, when in reality their life is just as problematic as the next persons (I'm looking at you, too, Jill Scott, Oprah WInfrey, Lauryn Hill, Iyanla Vanzant, etc).

Anonymous said...

This my personal quote: ''It takes more discipline to be a lady than not to be one''..

I'll say that!

Anonymous said...

When they start prosecuting folks like they do in the military I bet nigaas find a way to wait and get a divorce (him and her)

Anonymous said...

thanks Mashonda for not getting her get away with that mess
note to AK, when you choose the "spark" you might get burned, take the S off your chest and put on that scarlet A, that's more fitting. I wouldn't be so outraged if it was someone who wasn't selling women's empowerment, I expected more from Alicia, I really did.

Anonymous said...

Well, I've been "the other woman" and I actually ended up getting pregnant. First off, my dude was married, but there were no kids involved. Even though I was wrong for messing with a married man, I would have had to move on if there were kids involved.
Anyway, being that I've been the other woman AND I'm a mother, I see both sides of it. I hurt another woman in ways that I'm horrified to know. I watched Why Did I Get Married, and I cried my eyes out knowing that Jill Scott's character was so much like his ex wife. As the new woman, its strange as hell when I meet family and friends that are used to his exwife being around and I'm the new chick. As the new chick, women can act secure and shit, but believe me, you keep a close eye on his ass because you know what he's capable of one he gets bored.
When you first get with the dude you know its wrong. Your friends and family tell you that its wrong. But if you've been in a lot of bad relationships and you finally get a man that treats you like a princess, its hard to give him up. Of course now I realize that he treats his man chick like shit, and he treats his hoes in the streets far better than he treats the woman at home waiting with a warm meal.
On the other side, if Swizz wants a good relationship with his child, he needs to man up and have them sit down and air everything. I don't want my child's father letting the baby hang out with any of the chicks he randomly fucks, but if there's a serious relationship on the horizon, she and I need to hash it out so that I feel comfortable with her. But if she's too much of a bitch to see or talk to me, dude isn't taking my child anywhere. If he wants to see the baby, he needs to come to my house alone.
In the end, I blame him for not being a man about it. Granted, he was dirty for sleeping around when she just had a baby and stepping out of his vows. However, if he was kind enough to make the transition easier on his ex, it would obviously mean a lot to her. My child's father at least tried to remain friends with his ex wife. Swizz is the turkey in this and the real men around him need to let him know that he's messing it up for all parties.
Sorry about the long post.

Anonymous said...

^
well at least you admit you were wrong. it appears that AKeys wants this whole thing swept under the rug with no repurcussions. um no heffa. you took another woman's man. now suffer the consequences.

and you better hold on tight aliica cause when swizz gets bored with alicia the mega star and you just become alicia his girlfriend, it's a wrap, his eyes will be wandering.

Anonymous said...

This is the person from the 12:02 post. I also wanted to add, that no matter what folks wanted to say, once dude and I had our child, we were family. There were a bunch of hoes that got mad because they weren't in my shoes and I fought hard to let those hoes know that I was the mother of his child so I was going to be in his life forever, whether they liked it or not. Some chicks were trying to tell him that it was okay for him to go out while I was home. Since they didn't have any kids they didn't understand that both parents are needed in the home.
I tried really hard to keep us together, at least for the child. Its amazing how scandalous some chicks get, even when there are kids involved. At the same time, I let him make his own decisions and I had to realize that he's gonna do what he wants so if he wants to run the streets, all I can do is woman up and let him while I take care of my child.
Dude's exwife tried real hard to hold onto her marriage and I'm not mad at that. However, he had a foot out of the door long before I came into the picture and eventually everyone saw it but her. There comes a point where you have to maintain your dignity and that's what Mashonda needs to do.

Anonymous said...

Whether you are the perpetrator or the victim, deceptions, cheating, omissions and lies never have a good end for anyone involved…and that includes Mashonda, Swizz, Alicia and the child. Methinks this is gonna get a lot worse if it ever gets “better.” Mashonda may never get the answers she truly wants/needs even with a private sit down meeting. The unfortunate thing is this…in her heart of hearts, she may want/need to run up on Alicia and give her that good ole beat down to inflict some pain on her. But in the end, she’ll still wake up the next day and be in a world of hurt in her heart, because her marriage will STILL be over, and Swizz won’t have clicked his heels three times and come home like nothing ever happened. All she’ll have to do is to heed the advice of her so-called friends and open any given innanet site/twitter post and see the evidence that her ex Swizz Turkey Neck is running about with Alicia, or, the new flava of the week if he’s grown tired of her and chosen to move on…

Anonymous said...

Mashonda is a dumb azz...you NEVER let another woman know that you give a damn or that you can't find another man...

V...

Ebonicle Chronicles said...

Cosign with 3:33
Ive never been married but when Im involved I like to think of my partner as being mine in everyway and especially if the relationship has been exclusive for a while. But in this case she was married which gives her more of the right to say this man belongs to me and we're married!!!!

Both parties are wrong; Alicia and Mr Beats.

The wife has every right to feel pain and be pissed about how things are going even if her husband was messing with a non celeb she would still have the same right to be upset. She was well spoken she could have called Keys all kinds of bitches , sluts , home wreckers and everything else and possibly could have aired out dirty secrets. Its obviouse Beats is a cheater so that should be enough for wifey to understand he is a lost cause and yes she should move on but she felt she should try and salvage what was left before she was sure. Some people take their mariage vows seriously

Oh and just because wifey is not a celeb doesn't mean she dont measure up to Keys, you dont know what kinds of qualities she has as a woman and mother

Keys should have took her own advise in her songs
"A REAL MAN KNOWS A REAL WOMAN WHEN HE SEES HER"
Well if Beats was a real man he would have broke up with his wife properly and got separated first

"A REAL WOMAN KNOWS A REAL MAN WHEN SHE SEES HIM"
...a real woman wouln't even want another womans man!!!!!!!!

If love is worth fighting for than you fight for it !! I believe Mashonda wanted to keep her family, not give it up because some new new came on the scene.
People always make is seem like the one who is being dumped is the enemy and contradict everything they say and think " well their broken hearted and scorned there going to say anything to make a point"
I dont know all the details about the Beats and Mashondas marriage but in my opinion when a man is married he is off limits . If I cared about him I would remain friends and keep him on ice until his divorce is final.

Anonymous said...

Alicia played herself for a man. Mashonda is going to have't to eventually get over it, i don't see how they can get back together it's to much in the public eye. But, stranger things has happened.

Anonymous said...

11:23 AM, I beg to differ. I've seen men in the military get women (other than their wives) pregnant, the wives complain to their superiors, the womnen they fornicated with go to court for child support, and nothing happening to the men. They pay the child support directly out of their paychecks and keep on marching. Sometimes they stay married and sometimes they don't.

I personally know of someone that was in the military and got into trouble by fornicating with a married person. The only reason they were brought up on charges is because they were caught in the act (by the spouse), and as a result violence ensued and more problems escalated from there. Otherwise, nothing would have happened to either of them and they could continue with whatever they were doing until they got caught. No facts, no case.

Anonymous said...

any relationship whose foundation is built on lies and deception is doomed to fail,,it reminds me of that K-fed and Brittany mess.
The karma of that mess was too hardbody

Anonymous said...

SWISS CHEATS AND ALICIA SLEAZE-THEIR OFFICIAL NEW NAMES.

shitorsugar said...

i thought her "letter" was pretty honest and up front. someone out there trying to tell me that it's unreasonable to be angry at your husband and the woman he banged?? Her words were reasonable and she has tried to rise above this in a fairly dignified way. the husband was wrong do'er #! but alicia was #2 and their choices do have a long lasting impact on many people but clearly they were both not thinking of anyone else and focused on their own nasty genitals...

krazy ass malika said...

why was mashonda looking at ak's twitter page anyway? if i was looking at my ex's twitter page, i sure as hell wouldn't go public with it.

Anonymous said...

my husband had an affair with my ex bestfriend. I had known her for years and I shared some of my deepest secrets with this trick. After four years of marriage we ran into a little bump that turned into a very big bump. After the birth of our first child things in my life changed because I was a new mom. My husband still wanted the same amount of sex and attention, but I was only born with two sets of hands and obe vagina! i mean duh! We began to agrue over silly things and the next thing you know started coming home late with all the excuses he could think of. The affiar went on till our son was almost two years old! It was finally revealed to me that she was defending my husband more and more during our relephone conversations. A good friend of mine threw me a clue that my So called bestfriend was the other woman. I asked the whore upfront if she was fucking my husband, she denied it so well. She even went has far to call my husband infront of me and make me look stupid. I couldn't shake it loose that this bitch had something going on with my husband. I stood infront of her house one day and watched my husband go in and not come out till after midnight! A few more days later I followed them to a hotel. I went over my husbands dining out bill and relaized his usual 20 bucks for a late night dinner was now $60 bucks. Not only was this whore fucking my husband, but she was spending "our" money! I never forgot the day I confronted them at one of my gavorite places to eat, she denied it and I smacked the shit out her ass. To make a long story short my husband left me for this woman, and even had her child with her recently.Because of the son that I share with my husband we sometimes have to attend school functions together, and she never once was woman enough to evercome up to me and apologize. She wasn't even ashamed to bring her big pregnant belly at my sons 5th birthday party. I don't understand how ceratin women can walk around with no shame on what they have done. I 100% understand where mashonda is saying! why did you do this? did you know that you helped destroy my marriage? all I get from the whore is the cold shoulder and no eye contact when she comes around me. Not even a "I'm sorry" can come out her dirty ass mouth.I know when day she will feel the deep pain and shame that I felt when my husband walked away from his wife and son, maybe then she will walk up to me and apologize!

Anonymous said...

This is so sad. The more the generations pass down, blacks seem to lose thier morals. This is why blacks have such a lowest rate of marriages. This man is married, AK had no business dealing with SB point blank. As for true love, if it is infact that, it will still be there after the divorce. Ladies please get some pride about your self and respect the boundaries of marriage.

KKL said...

open letter to the other woman? why??? the other woman didn't commit to or deceive you. AK has no allegience to Mashonda whatsoever. Mashonda needs to air her issues out with Swizzy. At this point Mashonda needs to just accept the facts of her situation b/c after a certain point your "my husband left me for another woman" angry outburst card expires. and i really need for Mashonda to stop pretending she had the perfect little marriage until AK came along and wrecked it. gtfoh we all KNOW it doesn't happen like that!

Anonymous said...

@3:52 PM in that case Sharrise Jackson had Kevin Federline's babies, but she never really had him. Shar and K-Fed were basically reproducing without any real or legal commitment. He didn't have a wife until he wifed Britney Spears.

That whole scenario was so messy on so many levels, from start to finish, and the paparazzi helped make it even worse. None of them were prepared for, or mature enough, to handle what they got themselves and their children into. I'm glad things have since quieted down in their camps, especially for the sake of the children.

Alicia and Swizz Beast have really crossed the line between personal and professional. No wonder some people have issues with their spouses working closely with members of the opposite sex. I know the job is not to blame, but having to work closely together like they do presents plenty of opportunities for extra-marital activities.

Anonymous said...

Mashonda's trying to sound all grown up and civil but she's still pissed. Y'all don't have to get along in order for your son to have a good life. She needs to stop talking about this publicly because it makes her sound really pathetic. Yeah, Alicia fucked your husband and he left you. You're not the first or the last. Go find you a new man and keep it moving...

Anonymous said...

@4:27...I feel your pain. My ex is now married to someone I used to work with. I made that last comment, so I'm speaking from experience. Some people have no conscience...Mashonda has tried and gotten no response. She should let it go.

Anonymous said...

"Swizz Cheats" is the real psycho ass in this situation. However, Alicia Keyes should have stepped back and waited for him to get a divorce before she started dating him. I don't think neither one of these women are holding Swizz accountable for his actions in this matter. If he is not playing an active role in his child's life then he is to blame...no one else. It sounds like he has been playing both sides of the middle!

Wild Safari said...

^^^who cares if she apologizes! I doubt that would make you feel better. Personally, I would have shown tha fcuk out at that birthday party if she had brought her trifling ass to my son's event. No ma'am!

@3:48 as a lawyer you should also be familiar with "alienation of affection" and "adultery" statutes. I think Mashonda could come out a winner here.

@5:42pm and 8:03am co-sign 1000% Mashonda does have the right to want to know the character and habits someone who will be spending time with her child. So far all she knows of AK is poor character and bad habits. I also believe AK is avoiding any communication because of shame and/or cowardice. Personally, I would have said all I had to say when I found out about the affair. From then on out they would be persona non grata to me, but that's just me.

@6:03 while agree it is unhealthy to check up on the other woman like that AK is the one who is obsessed. She was pathetic enough to peep someone else's family situation and pull a single black female to replace the wife.

@2:48pm I have read Khalil Gibran many many times and nowhere in there does he say to start a new relationship before you are out of the old one. I'm not trying to be harsh and I am happy for your friend, but perhaps he would have been better served taking some time out to reflect on how he ended up in such a messed up marriage in the first place and working on his self-esteem and judgement. That goes for anyone who is/has gone through a really nasty breakup. Relationships on the rebound are rarely a good idea. Snitchesssssssssss is right. Perhaps you don't have enough perspective on their relationship.

Mashonda has every right to be angry and hurt and to call them out. She should realize that at some point she needs to get tired of all that and move on. For now, let her vent. She put a decade into their relationship and he threw it all away for some gravel voiced starlet of questionable sexuality (so I've heard). He was no prize anyway.
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Wild Safari said...

I really don't understand her saying she and Swizz are cool and have aired out their differences. How can that be possible if she still has beef with Alicia? She is letting him off the hook because she obviously still loves him. So sad.

As for people saying Alicia didn't owe Mashonda anything I beg to differ. Alicia owed her to respect any of us in civilized society owes another. Marriage is to be respected morally, legally, and spiritually.
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CosmopolitanChic said...

@Lily:

Giving Lily and her comment a HOT-DAMN standing ovation!!!!!

This world is SERIOUSLY going to hell in a hand basket when the world attacks the WIFE and defends the MISTRESS....just WOW! Yes, BOTH adulterers are equally to blame, but Mashonda already said she spoke with Swiss; and her motives for wanting to speak w/ Alicia is because she will be a part of her son's life--she sounds crazy, NO idiots, she sounds like a real MOTHER who is looking out for the well being of her child!!!!

Mashonda needs to move on----yeah, she does, in DUE TIME when her wounds have healed. It DOES NOT happen overnight. Mashonda sounds bitter---YOU THINK?!?! But Alicia knows all about Karma--wrote a whole song about it and sang the shit out of it!

Anonymous said...

Both Swizz and Mashonda's Wikipedia pages have been updated with references to Alicia and her alleged intimate relationship with Swizz. I'm guessing it wasn't Alicia or Swizz that did the honors. By the way, where is no mention of it on Alicia's page...at least not yet.

NubianGoddez said...

Mashonda needs to let this go and move on!! I don't understand her wanting to reach out to Alicia, Alicia is a carefully crafted image , much like Whitney Huston by mass Clive Davis. never for one moment bought her strong, down for my people, hold up the black family spheel. she's a fraud, talented sure but a fraud non the less. this is the best thing that ever happened to MaShonda and her lameass, mediocre career. I have been where she's at and it take two to wreak a marriage, her marriage was already broken and he was gonna leave her ass anyway. I hate when women play the victim, she's using this to garner fans of the scorned abandoned wife. Alicia don't owe her s*it, she needs to accept the situation and move on. what does she want to know from Alicia, where they had sex, how many times, what he said to her in bed? why torment yourself, it happened they have both moved on and so should she. everything happens for a reason, Alicia just may have done her ass a favor, and their may be a better man waiting in the wings. seriously who was checking for this Moshanda chick till this hotass mess, all three of them are a hot mess and what in the hot monkey hell are these two beautiful women haggling over this mf who looks like a cross between Kermit the frog and Grover from Sesseme St?? I just don't see it. ain't no d*ck that good to have me humiliating myself on of all places twitter. hell when I found out my ex was cheating and got another chick pregnant three weeks after my son was born, I never reached out to her, she on the other hand was calling my house harrasing me, I made him go get her and bring her ass to me, and told that mf to choose, he choose me, but I discovered in the long run I did not want his cheating, deceitful ass anyway, it was not so much the cheating but the lies, and she took him and know what, he beats her ass and cheats on herself I laugh whenever his family give me the drama about them, his own mother told me not to let him do me like his dad is doing her. so this chick just needs to chalk it up as a lesson learned to make better choices in men and fix her damn issues, because he's not entirely blameless. women always want to blame the men, like they don't have a hand in the relationship ending.

Anonymous said...

@3:03 AK is that you? cuz you are sure writing a fucking book with all that bull shit about a friend. For the records, if you are unhappy in your marriage I agree with you ending it, but not move on to a next relationship before you are legally divorced and have taking sometime to start another one. Nice try in an attempt to explain all that fuckery about hapiness and falling in love. SMDH

Anonymous said...

you all are come cold mo'fo's forreal. The woman is another single balck mother raising her baby all alone & Alecia is a half white woman writing Black songs and getting rich off of a lie. Superwoman and strong Black woman that contributed to hurting a real Black woman. I am sorry but this changed my view on Alecia because I thought she was so pro-black woman.....She must get this from her mothers side

Anonymous said...

I think Mashonda loves her husband and wants what so many Black women do not have and that is a complete Black family. Alecia is very lowminded because she could have dated any single man in the world but her character is so flawed she went with Gonzo.I hope it was worth it because hell is a mighty long time

Anonymous said...

its funny that she put her on blast. she definetely got her back, alicia even lost my respect. Her new album sucks anyway. i like her older music. Nowadays you scared to have girlfriends.

Anonymous said...

He could have been carrying on like this before they married or before he got with Alicia. Some people don't let "little things" like shame, commitment, marriage certificates, wedding bands, wives, or children get in the way of them doing "their thing". Also, Alicia deserves no slack for her role in this. Verdict? Guilty!

BellaLuna said...

I cosign w 6.59 and 7.01. I feel really bad for Mashonda. Sometime's it's just hard to let go of something you've built and someone you love,especially when there's a child involved. If you've ever been cheated on you know how much it hurts and I pray that she'll be able to get thru this

Anonymous said...

For all of you who don't know....Mashonda was not stalking AK's twitter page, a friend of hers read it and told her to go over there. Mashonda responded b/c Alicia Keys wrote this on her twitter page and asked this question to all of her followers:

"LOVE IS IT BETTER TO GO 4 THE CHOICE THAT IS 'SMART' OR THE CHOICE THAT HAS 'SPARK'?"

This would rile you up too!! Alicia needs her big ASS kicked! And I think what Mashonda wrote was dignified in light of this bullshit.

I don’t know of any celebrity relationship that worked out after an affair….and they have lots of em. Even farrah fawcett and ryan o’neal got their wake up call…RIP farrah…and everyone thought they were made for each other. I lost all respect for alicia keys. the man was married….and that means off limits. I see alicia has no boundaries, just selfish like the rest of them hoes. She wrote songs to empower women and about real black love…and she just a fake.

She’s just another product of the clive davis machine!! she’s talented yes, but everything else is illusion. I feel sorry for Mashonda, but I think she handled herself well. For all those saying she need to move on….you try it and see how "easy" it is to forget your husband banged some chick, flaunted the affair, destroyed your marriage and left you and your child for her.

Ebonicle Chronicles said...

Wow @ 4:45
I know you had to be really strong to get through that I couldnt imagine. My childs father left me and married some chick, and she flaunted him in my face, it hurt so bad, so many things were done to me during the duration of thier marriage I was too hurt to fight back or say anything I just held my head high and kept on moving. Now the silly bitch is trying to contact me apologizing and shit because he divorcing her ass (sniggle)(giggle)(laughing)

I wish people would stop saying GET OVER IT MOVE ON!
I agree to moving on, but one can only move when the healing process starts and with some situations the anger has to run its course before the healing takes place .Sometimes it takes years to get over pain. Theres no time limit on an emotional wound!
Keys aint no random bitch from the street, you cant look her phone number up in the yellow pages, you wont find her hanging out at the local salon or pumping gas at a gas station. Mashondah had to call her out, hell she probably wont to get Keys alone so she could woop that ass!!!!
There are so many things she want to say to Keys till it aint funny, cuz yall know good an well if you ever caught your man slipping you confronted that bitch too and it went something like this..


Wifey(W) Other Woman (OW)

W : Bitch are you fucking wit my man???

OW : No

W : Bitch why you lying??

OW : Look he said he was breaking up with you

W : Bitch where are your morals why you cant find a man of your own


I dont think Alicia is all that talented, she sing like she yelling all the time, cant carry a note unless shes screaming AND SHE SOUND LIKE SHE TAKING A SHIT ON THE TOILET, like she got to push out a big one!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah if you didnt notice I kinda lost some respect for her too. People being cordial with this home wrecker

Now for the people who are saying Keys dont have nothing to do with it , she does because if she had of just falled back a little mashondah and Beats could have possibly worked on something successfully or not with Keys being out the way to cause distraction

Anonymous said...

@4:45 pm

That is horrible when someone you trusted stabs you right in the back. You need to move on and let go of the pain honey. She doesn't want to apologize because your ex friend don't feel sorry, she thinks that she is the better woman. Most relationships that start dirty end dirty honey! so take care of your son and fuck her. Her showing her face at your son's b day was off the chain, that was just stupid.


I don't feel Alicia keys owes Mashonda anything. Alicia knew exactly what she was doing when sleeping with a married man. Her actions speaks for itself. She basically told Mashonda"fuck you bitch, your man wanted me more" end of story ladies. I wouldn't want my my child around Alicia, because a former mistress should never be allowed around your child. Mashonda needs to move on and just let go. Alicia got a dog ass nigga for life, you are blessed to have that man ou of your hair. Take that child support money and do big things!

I'm 35 years old with a nine old daughter and can say I have never knowlying fucked nobodies man or chased around a married man. Wrong is Wrong in my book!

Anonymous said...

I lose interest in Alicia keys after her second album. All that screaming in each song makes no sense. When she wants to hit a higher note she screams louder!Who knew a screamer could win so many awards.

Anonymous said...

She took your man fair and square.

Anonymous said...

I had an affair with a married man for two and half years, and the sad part about is that I didn't feel sorry about my actions till recently. we were old college buddies that attended Hampton together. He had actually dated one of my old dorm buddies. He introduced me to his wife at a dinner party and we got along very well. She was short, overweight, and had a stuttering problem, I couldn't believe he had married her. She wasn't ugly, but you wouldn't except a man like him to get with her. He was always telling me how he wished his wife was thin and kept better care of herself. He loved how well I took care of myself, and the affair seem to develop from there. I truely believed that I was the better woman, and that he would leave his frumpy wife, but years went by and his excuses were always the same. I felt like she wa sa mistake and I was the right woman for him. two year into the affair I found out that I was pregnant. he wanted me to abort the baby, but I flat out refused. I really believed the baby would make him leave his wife. The wife called me on my cellphone and let me know that she knew about the affair and that she wasn't going to divorce him. I let her know that I was the better woman and that we were excepting a child together, I never forgot how she screamed in horror and hung up the phone. She left him ASAP! and he moved in with me a few months after our son was born. He refused to marry me and claimed that he needed time to recover from the first marriage. We are exceptig our second child and I have to deal with his cheating all the time. I relaized that karma is a bitch! his ex wife lose all her weight and married some Italian dentist. The crazy part about the story is that we currently work in the same building and bump into each other every so often. She looks happy, while I struggle to keep a smile on my face dealing with a dog ass man. I give birth to my daughter this fall, and I fear that I will be a single mother of two because of my bad decsions. It's never worth being the other woman. Look what happend to me!

ELove said...

Far too many LONG Comments to read all of them ...
But I did read some of THOSE and @WS I AGREE COMPLETELY !!!
;-)

Anonymous said...

I had an affair with a married man as well , we worked together . He started to flirt with me and after 5 months and then I gave in. He was the sympathetic type the kind to talk down about his wife to make you feel sorry for him so you would fuck him " she dont give me none" " man she crazy i think she got mental problems because of her family"

Anyway his wife was , is gorgeous has a good job and seems to be very smart. She just not a freak in the bed room . Ayway after getting with this guy ( i knew he would only be a fuck buddie) i had no intentions on stealing him away. We had made love only once but after that I started noticing his actions, he was a pure flat out jigalo whore hoping nigga. This guy was having all kinds of affairs he had let it slip to me that he fucked a girl around his birthday. Since he confided in me alot I guess he thought I wouldnt mind. BUT I DID me and him made arrangments to be lovers and I would only except him being with his wife, well this nigga had her and about 2 more other bitches!!Plus me . Long story short Im glad Im not his wife I feel sorry for her, some one should tell her. Although me and him used protection I know he is probably not that safe with his other whores, he the type of man that does what the fuck he wants in a relationship, arrogant as nigga type. I got out before it got too deep I saw the signs . In the beginning I wasnt feeling guilty because Im single and I can do what I want, but after I found out about his other women I felt guilty and sorry for the wife. I repented and asked the lord for forgivness. It took me a long time in my life to have an affair with a married man I was always against it. i let it happen because if you all haven't noticed there is a shortage on good men!!!!! Everybody has there life experiences this is something that i pray to not ever do again in my life. I pray that the lord forgives me and not let it happen to me . But Ive been treated less than what I deserve in mostly all my relationships, I had low self esteem and gave up on love. I felt like i just wanted to have sex and skipp the love and a married man was the way to go. I dont have to feed his ass wash his clothes and deal with the bull shit , sad to say I was wrong! An affair is not the way to go you hurt so much when you find out!

Anonymous said...

umm ok is Alicia suppose to be the smart? or the spark? this bitch thin she gods gift to man

Anonymous said...

11:18, I'll be damned if you didn't tell my exact story, down to me moving in with the man a few months after the baby was born. The other woman a was fat and frumpy and he told me how much he liked that I was smaller. My guy wanted me to get an abortion also, but I refused.
She ended up divorcing him because she knew he and I were still messing around after he told her he was cleaning up his act.
Since then, she's moved on with her life, bought a nice car, and bought a condo while I'm carless and stuck living with this dude.
I'm currently trying to find a job so I can get my son and move out. He's had all kinds of hoes he's messed with and I feel like an ass because I'm stuck. I don't normally do this, but if you want to talk, you can hit me at ladywithsomethingonmymind@yahoo.com.
Our only difference is that i only had one child with him and i pray that continues to be the case.
I hope you hit me up, it would be nice to chat with someone that understands what I'm going through.

Ebonicle Chronicles said...

look after all this shit her permoters gone tell her all this negative attention is not what you need if you want to continue to have record sells, she will leave him pretty soon. But she has to realise that all the other women in the industry is looking at this bitch like , stay the fuck from around my man!!! lol Mary J Blige, Marriah Carey and who ever else Beyonce are all looking down at this girl

Anonymous said...

MARRIED MEN WHO JUST LEFT A MARRIAGE WILL Not WIFE YOU , they are free from bondage and want to feel like they still got it, so they fuck around, the side chick becomes the shoulder to lean on, food, roof over the head type broad that he will get all his support from after his marriage is over. He only fucked with the side chick in the first place because he could do shit with her that he cant do at home with his wife. A married man not ever looking for a reason to leave they just want to escape reality for a hard minute then go back home to where its warm and cuddly. They feel a little guilt with the side chick hoping she dont look down on him and keep messing with his ass so he throw in a few lies to her to make her feel like he all worth while saying shit like " you know I wish it was you instead of her" they get your mind all clouded up and your really thinking this man love you, but in reality he just telling you what you want to hear !! Arrrgh niggas make me sick sometimes

Anonymous said...

^3:27 Well said... It happens, I hope Mashonda finds some way to get past this, shutting it down and taking it all to God will make each day a little better wearing it on her sleeves and hoping to touch some part of their compassionate side will not work, nothing worse than pity love. Dude should have been a man about it ended his married in peace and dignity and given his wife the opportunity to come to terms with what it was about to be. but the good news is it will not last, there will always be a cloud over that 'relationship' everytime i see something like this i think of Brad and Angelina I never seen a man look more miserable and guilt ridden, this chick saddled him down with a ton of kids and he dont look happy for one hour and she looks like hell, you cant come step between a man and his wife and think its gonna be all good and you cant walk out on your family and think you will walk into the sunset and it's gonna be all good. I feel for the girl, how she handles her grief is her business as long as she dont live in it forever.(any second over the 15 min mark is an extreme effort mostly on Alicia's part)One day before its all over he will apologize to his wife and his son.

Bee Gee said...

Bitches like Keys are magnetized to fucked up relationships and the drama that comes with it. Birds like her aren't hard to diagnose at all cuz she stay sick with the same shit. Swiss Cheats might just be pussy whipped enough to wife her too though. And she's definitely dumb enough to spit vows at him.

Anonymous said...

my cousin about to go through the same thing her husbands ex wife went through. he was going through problems with two small kids and she went in for the fill. NOw after 5 years she is about to go through the same thing. Nobody has any sympathy for her, i hate him even more

Anonymous said...

This topic seems to cut deep for a lot of people in different ways. Alicia's PR team needs to pull her aside and deal with this, like Jennifer Lopez's people supposedly did with her after she was with Sean Combs when he got into trouble. JLo's "people" allegedly feared she would not get mainstream acting gigs if she was seen and known as a "bad girl". She cut him loose and ended up on the big screen. Not that I care about celebrity careers...just saying. Look how Eddie Murphy can't seem to get his career back on track after publicly denying and dismissing his child. At the same time, some people do get a pass for bad behavior *cough* R. Kelly *cough*

Anonymous said...

let me answer this shar jackson and kevin federlone shit. they were in a relationship. living together, making babies together. that is a committment sorry. they slept next to each other every night. just because she di dnot marry him does not mean shit. he was all up in her house and in her pussy.when you LIVE with someone it is the same as being married. anyhow he and brit got their just deserts. ha ha. the marriage did not work out. that ho lost custody of her kids. she's a drug addict. kevin weighs about a ton and is still hanging around shar. god don't like ugly whether you are marrried or not he and brit are suffering.. shar is till looking good and taking care of her kids. the best revenge is living good and shar is doing it.she's not in the tabloids. kev and brit are.. ha ha.. karma is a bitch and a mother fucka..

Bee Gee said...

2:58am - Memoirs of a jumpoff. Appreciate you sharing and I feel.

Anonymous said...

damn @11;18. i feel bad for you but like you said karma. the other woman always thinks she is the better woman and ole boy told you all that shit about her being fat to make you feel that way. he would have never left her. if she did not leave he'd still be there. funny how she lost the weigh after leaving him. he probably drove her to over eat with all his drama. i am fat and gorgeous if my man leaves he better well know just like i got him i can get someone else. he knows what it is.. i hope you do what is right and take care of kids. you are a strong woman. you CAN be alone. get that chld support you will be fine.. focus on you and thise kids. good luck mama..

Anonymous said...

How about focusing on raising your son to NOT be like that piece of shit father of his. Although she is right about a son needing his father in his life, a son can also be raised successfully without one. I think she is wasting entirely too much energy on trying to "patch" things up. Hit him where you know its gonna hurt the most.......not his balls but his pockets and keep it moving.

Anonymous said...

Yup living with someone is the same, there is a commitment that should be honored, low life chicks ALWAYS love to hide behind the excuse ' he's not married' please, if that was your man (for real) you would not like it, but if women keep the standard low things will never change. At this point its a little late for AK,we not FALLEN for it at this point. F%ck her, being a singer does not make her exempt be funny if he start messing with her stylist dont it always happen like that?
I have an ex girlfriend she messes with some one elses live in boyfriend all I told her was I didnt want to entertain it with her she assumed I was judging her- which she has to do what she had to do but then she would do things like call me right before he rang her bell, so I could hear him, not sure what her point was cuz i liked her but didnt want to hear about her ho tales, what a loser but I just cut her off. Dont entertain women like that in your home, they have no conscience its bad enough you have to watch the women you dont know its ten times worse when you know them or called them a friend. These days sometimes its best to keep your girls at short distance.

Anonymous said...

^ short distance? uhm don't you mean wave hello and keep it moving?

Anonymous said...

i messed with a married man once. it was only sex and i knew he was married but i also let him know that his marriage can't be all that because why is he over my house. he tried to front like the marriage was good but people who knew them knew otherwise. they were that couple that loved to say "I'ZZ married" she woud be cussing him out. we all heard her. she was leaving him with no money and she was calling all the shots. she had him trained like a puppy and it was funny as hell. we all laughed and threw it in his face. he was so embarrassed. she would talk shit and have him do the dirty work as to not look like the bad guy. he would get drunk and act a fool also. anyhow years and years later the marriage ended in divorce. she never knew about me because i was not out to take her man or hurt her. she did nothing to me. i broke it off with him years before their marriage ended.actually we were only a 2 month thing. he tried to come back years later and make us official when he saw the marriage was doomed. i was like no. i also found out at this time how crazy he was and how much of a drunk he was. he was stalking me and shit. crazy like i said.. his marriage was doomed from the start. number one when they met he was homeless so they met on tuesday and she moved him in on wednesday. so knowing he had no place to go she used this against him. this was why she was allowed to call all the shots. she knew without her he'd be on the street. so they deserved each other. she took advanatage of a vulnerable person. thats why she ended up with a crazy drunk.. better her than me.

Bee Gee said...

9:35 - why WAS he over your house? Desperate chicks are the funniest kind. They talk like they got the game sewed up, but what's REALLY goin' on.

Anyway, say word on a lotta these comments.

Anonymous said...

This is why men get away with all the shit they do because WOMEN refuse to respect other women's relationships. Yes SB was a low down motherfucker who was able to cheat on his wife because other women were willing to cheat with him. He should hav etold Meshonda he was doen and bounced!!! If WE (yes i am a woman) respected one another's relationships then MEN would be forced to be MEN and let their significant others know they are unhappy and want to bounce as opposed to them playing both sides. If you KNOW dude is MARRIED when he tries to holler then yes YOU DO owe that female respect whether you know her or not, JUST like YOU would want someone to respect your RELATIONSHIP!!

Granted if he is willing to cheat then he is not that into you and not WORTH YOU any way but wouldnt you rather find that out because your man had to MAN UP and tell you because wouldn't anyone take his foul ass, while he was still attached??!!!

Bitches stop letting these niggas play you and you will stop getting played, Easy f-ing PEASY!!!

Been there done that

Females its not all about YOU get your head out your asses and realize what you are worth. If dude does not think you are worth leaving his other relationship for to be with you BEFORE he lays down with you then WTF ARE YOU WORTH??? Some side dick???

Bee Gee said...

^ and say word on that one too.

Anonymous said...

My heart goes out to Mashonda, but she says her and her husband came to some understanding and thats all she needed to do for the sake of their child, dont worry the earth goes round and round , their "thing" will come back and bite both in the face - he could be using AK for his own reasons, dont sleep there are some gold digging men too, bet she pullin the strings in that one and no man likes that but for so long on day he will look at her one day and think " you effen bee, i cant believe I left my family over your trifling *ss" he will the day always comes, then he will be doing everything he can to make her feel and look bad.

Anonymous said...

At first I was one of those people saying Mashonda should move on because Swizz and Alicia will get theirs and for own peace of mind and I still do believe that, but reading other details of this situation I agree with her whole heartedly on this letter which concerns her child. Alicia is obviously ignoring her because she knows she's guilty as hell. I don't blame Mashonda, she would not be ignoring me like I don't exist, that's just disrespectful and I would put her on blast too. I know firsthand where Mashonda is coming from when the new woman has no respect for the ex, chances are the new woman won't have respect for the children from that ex either. I've know of a family member who'd wife ignores and disrespect his 2 children from a previous relationship. One time she didn't even speak to his son during a holiday visit, the family member's mother made the family member and his wife aware of what she did was wrong, but this did not stop the wife from disrespecting his kids from a previous relationship again. The wife deliberately bought tickets to a theme park for one of the children, but not for the other child. While he is away at work he leaves breakfast for the wife and his son, another family member comes over after he leaves and notices the wife is in the room eating her breakfast while the child is in the kitchen eating the breakfast cold with wrinkled clothes on and he's just 5 years old at the time. The trifling ass wife made sure her food is warmed up and clothes are ironed, but not her step son. She's done some low down things to these kids' mothers as well. So with all that said I applaud Mashonda doing what any concerned parent and soon to be ex should do which is make sure you can communicate effectively with the new partner your ex is going to be around and let them know we can be civil and don't try any shady bullshit around my child. If Alicia is so in love, she would know that real love is patient and she should have waited until the marriage was officially over. The shit is called adultery for a reason, she knew exactly what she was doing and so did he they just didn't give a damn. I can't even look at Alicia Keys the same way or hear her music the same way and don't think I ever will. She knows all about karma since she wrote song about it, well she should expect to meet it for this situation she rudely involved herself in soon.

Anonymous said...

urhmmm, I'm missing something here, "Mashonda" - girl, why do you need to REACH out to Alicia?

Get it thru your head! The MAN dont want you, move on. Tweet & Twittering about this is so "High-school" nature like.

Wow, this chick is really crazy. This marriage was LONG over & Mashonda is Bitter.

no, there is no need for her to be petty about needing to get to know "Alicia" for her kid's welfare, Everyone knows Alicia would never neglect or abuse that child.

She is just a Baby-Mama with Drama who is seeking long-term security.

Next season, look for her REALITY show with Nivea.

Anonymous said...

How the fuck you know^^^^ are you Alicia's long lost cousin or some shit??? You don't know what the hell Alicia would do!! She obviously was thinking about the child when she was banging lil shorty's daddy shortly after being born by his WIFE, which she is NOT!!! *exaggerated eyeroll* STFU!!! people stupid acting like they know celebs!!!

Been there done that

Anonymous said...

^^^@ 11:33 Spoken like a true mistress since when does a baby mama take vows and recieve a ring? Also how do you know what Alicia would or would not do to a child up untill a few years ago we all that she was the strong woman who told us to know our worth come to find out she was just a sideline hoe.

Anonymous said...

And Why MASHONDA acting like her and Swizz were never ever Separated?

She is not telling the truth! He Left her! now if he put her whining azz on blast, she will STFUP!

They Split a long time ago, so what he's your husband by law, but do you know how many people are LEGALLY separated and are allowed to date?

Damn, girl get over him.

Anonymous said...

11:44 & 11:46 (Move on)

Bottom line, SWIZZ dont want her!

...wait, "MASHONDA" is that you?

Again, Next Summer check out the "Mashonda & Nivea" show.

oh, and as for a "babyMama", that's her new title after the divorce because she's doing a damn good job for starters by posting/tweeted ish' like this.

KKL said...

people talking nonsense about women 'respecting' another woman's relationship. um, if ur man doesn't even respect it how do u expect someone else to? half the time these dudes be lying to the mistresses anyway. most of these dudes come with the "we're seperated & about to get divorced" excuses and the mistress dumb azz believes it. face it yall both getting played like fiddle sticks, take that sh!t out on the dude not each other.

you can't control anybody but yourself so what is the point of dwelling on 'the other woman?' at the end of the day SB and AK are together now so wtf else is there to discuss? get thee to a therapist's couch asap! at some point you have to work thru your issues on your own. the situation is fugged up, unfair, all of that - but what can she do about it now except move forward?

Anonymous said...

@9:35 number 1 i was in my 20's when this happened young.. i am now forty and would never go that route. why would he not be at my house at that time??? didn't you read? he was cheating on his wife. so yes he was at my home while she was none the wiser. my shit was sewn up because i wasn't the one who ended up with a drunk crazy husband. she did. i saw what she did not see or didn't want to see. i was on the outside looking in. like i said being as that he was homeless when they met she used that to her advantage. even when he did get his act together it was too late he had already allowed her to boss him around and take all his money.. and they had no kids at all. like i said oh well better her than me. i didn't end up with a stalker, crazy, drunk. she did. i am not telling a sad story of how a married man duped me. i knew what it was i went in eyes wide open. sorry to the ladies who were duped. plese don't be offended. i was not looking for a husband or a relationship.. i was not trying to hurt his wife or mess up what he had at home. shit they did that themselves. honey don't hate because my story did not turn into misery for me..

Anonymous said...

Thank you God for my home and everyone in it.

KKL said...

and why the hell is mashonda following 'the other woman' on twitter???

Anonymous said...

good luck to all the "other women" knowingly screwing married men. look how fine angelina is and Brad has still not wifed her after two children and three other adopted children. god don't like ugly.

Anonymous said...

Look AK dont owe this women nothing, she was married to him not her. If she has moved on I sure as hell cant tell. It just seems to me that its easier for her to blame AK, and make it seem to everyone that he was forced by her to leave...BS....She needs to accept the fact that although she didnt have a problem he did he just didnt let her know. I understand that she feel like Ak should have step back, but it sounds to me that the only person trying to save this marriage was her, and she cant do that on her own. We all have played the fool thats life we just have to grown from it and move on. She needs to realize that you cant keep anybody that is not tryna be kept, thats not AK fault she is not to blame for what her husband did. We as women always want to place blame on the other women instead of accepting that its the mans duty and responsibility to be faithful and keep those valves!

Anonymous said...

1:01
AK PLAYED THE HO ROLE. IT WOULD HAVE BEEN ALL GOOD IF SHE NEED A FAN BASE.

missdrea39 said...

There was really no need to air the dirty laundry, but I do understand Mashonda's POV. She wasn't a baby mamma, she was that man's wife and AK sould have respected that. I've lost all respect for her for that. She could have waited until it was all over. Swizz is to blame as well. Why get married if all you're going to do is cheat? Too busy running behind a piece of azz.
just like he cheated on his wife, AK will get her just due, he'll cheat on her too and she'll be left in the dirt. just can't stand these slut-whores that go after married men.

Anonymous said...

@3:07

Girl, you need to leave him before baby number two pops up! You are never going to be happy with him! I'm telling you that now! He claims that he loves me and that he's not cheating, but actions speak louder then words. He is currently unemployed and got his car taken since his dumb ass didn't pay his carnote for four months! I have a great job and a nice house that we purchased together. He was always a great provider, so I put up with his cheating, but it still hurt like hell. The straw that broke the camel's back was when he told me that he wish he would have stayed with his wife! I couldn't believe he said that crazy shit! after everything we went through! he picks me up late from work, he takes my car and just comes home super late, he even picks up our son late from daycare. He claims he's looking for a job, but my girl saw him at the cheesecake eating it up with a young girl, she even took a picture of the young lady. He's been seen with this woman twice. I found gum wrapers in my car, my man doesn't chew pink gum! Now I know exactly how his wife felt. I feel betrayed and straight fucked if you really want to know the truth. I don't need him money wise, but I do love the fool, and the extra baby on the way doesn't make things any better. You need to look over your life and write down what you are going to do. I asked him a few days ago to go stay with his brother, because things are just too complicated right now. His eyes got all big, he knows I'm fed up. He still in the house walking around looking stupid. I know I deserve better, but right now I gotta think about my children. If I'm not happy that means I can't be a good mother. In order for me to be the best mom his got to go. I think GOD blessed his ex wife, because he took a cheater out of her life. I was the mistress so I got what I deserved. I just want to live a moral life! I'm titred of this sin! I want better! and "you" deserve better. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and once I get resettled I will start fishing.

Anonymous said...

OK DEEP BREATH!! SB is an asshole and should get Bitched slap for bing a punkass nigga and not being MAN enough to let his wife know that he wanted out. POINT BLAMK PERIOD. AKeys acted lie a TYPICAL hoodrat and for this point on will NO LONGER get any play from me, she LOST ONE HERE!!! Damn Ladies is it that hard to find some single dick that you gotta chase some married or otherwise spoken for dick. Yes I feel that Alicia should have had enough pride in HERSELF and SELFWORTH to know that she was worth a WHOLE man not a MAN with all that EXTRA shit going on. She played herself for real. Even if you dont think she owed Meshonda she owed herself to DEMAND more from a man and if ALL WOMEN demanded more then all this shyt would CEASE!!!

If you willing to except shyt then prepared to get that SHYT!!!

Been there done that

CosmopolitanChic said...

I get so sick of hoes using the excuse for being with someone's husband as "I was in my 20s"....you say that to mean what? In our 20s we don't know that adultery is wrong and sinful?!!!! Did I mention the fact that knowingly sleeping with someone who is sleeping with another is just plain NASTY!!!

And to the idiot who is trying to compare Shar Jackson/KFed/Britney to this situation, guess what...it is NOT the same. Britney was led to believe KFed was single and how could Britney know any different, they WEREN'T married!!!

If a man refuses to marry you, then guess what---both of you are single. And a single person has a right to move on if he/she feels he has found someone that is a better match--that is the PURPOSE of being single---to find the RIGHT one before settling down for LIFE. If women want to continue to lower themselves to just a uterus, thinking a baby is enough to keep a man, then fine for those women. But make no mistake about it, living together out of wedlock is sinful and is NOT and never will be the same as a marriage which is honored by GOD.

Anonymous said...

@345 YA'LL SOUND JUST LIKE THE PPL THAT JUDGE A WHOLE RACE OF BLACK PPL BECAUSE WHAT 10 MAY DO.FIRST OF ALL, WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES AND DONT HATE ON LAURYN HILL, IS SHE DOING IT NOW.DO YOU KNOW FULL DETAILS.TO DISCREDIT US SISTAS WHO DO WHAT WE HAVE TO DO, SAY WHAT WE HAVE TO SAY, AND DONT USE THE WHITE MAN AS AN EXCUSE TO NOT MOVE FORWARD.LAURYN HILL IS A STRONG SISTA WITH ALOT TO SAY.I KNOW PLENTY LIKE ME WHO NEVER SLEPT WITH ANOTHER MAN, AND STAND TALL FOR THE CAUSE OF HER PPL.DO YA'LL LOOK FOR REASONS TO PUT ALL SISTAS DOWN, YES, MUSIC, MOVIES, ENTERTSINMENT HAS TAUGHT YOU THAT.IS THAT THE MOST CONSTRUCTIVE THING TO SAY.WHAT IF THAT WAS YA'LL MOM TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY DADDY STEPPING OUT AND WE JUST CREATED A FAMILY.HALF OF US COME FROM SINGLE HOMES.BLACK WOMEN ARE THE GLUE .SO STOP BEING HATEFUL BECAUSE ALICIA KEYS IS A HOMEWRECKER WHO SINGS HER OWN FATE.

THIS IS WHAT HOLLYWOOD IS TEACHING THE COMMUNITY.SHE IS A FRAUD,GAY,AND SHE SMOKE TREES, SO DONT FRONT ALICIA, THE GIRL THAT WAS HER ASSISTANT SHE WAS FUCKING.

MASHONDA DO YOU BABE, I REALLY WOULDNT CARE WHAT PPL THINK.IF THATS WHAT YOU FEEL YOU HAD TO DO THEN DO IT.I MEAN SHE DID MAKE A SONG CALLED "TEENAGE LOVE AFFAIR", WHEN SHE WAS F*N MASHONDA MAN.AK NEED TO SEAT HER ASS DOWN AND TALK, CAUSE I WOULDNT JUST LET MY KID GO WITH HIM AND THE MISTRESS .WE IS THAT SWISS AND AK IS WRONG, IM PRETTY SURE SWISS AND MASHONDA TALKED, NOW ITS AK TURNED.I KNOW IN HOLLYWOOD THEY BRAINWASHED TO THINK THERE GOD AND CAN HAVE EVERYTHING THEY WANT, I GUESS THAT MEANS MARRIED MEN.SHE AINT THE ONLY ONE,THE MAN WRONG AS WELL NO BETTER FROM GABBY TO WADE, TO ANGELINA ND BRAD.THEY CAN CARELESS ABOUT NOTHING BUT THEMSELVES.AK I WILL NEVER SUPPORT HER.FUNNY HER LAST ALBUM WAS TITILED I AM, THEN BEYONCE I AM SASHA FIERCE.SHE IS PART THE BAPHOMET TOO, NO LOVE FOR HER .I CAN'T BELIEVE SHE WROTE THE SONG KARMA. LOL. MASHONDA THAT SONG FOR YOU, AK GO ALWAYS LOVE TO GET SOME CAT TIME TO TIME, SHE SO GAY!!!

BAPS

BellaLuna said...

Damn I went back and re-read some of the posts and y'all got some STORIES!!

krazy ass malika said...
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SugaFree said...

there are movies on lifetime just like this. i don't understand why bitches are always trying use a kid or kids. that's pathetic. don't blame someone else if you can't hold on to urs. And that's real...trying to paint a picture that they was happy and ish and Super Alicia comes along and disrupted a happy home. WTF ever. She don't have to talk to her. There is nothing left to be said.

SugaFree said...

There have always been "clean up women".

Anonymous said...

Cosmo where do u get your info??,,Brittany DID know Kev was shacking and havin babies with Shar,,,And she was fucking another married Background dancer before him-Get your facts ummkay!

Anonymous said...

Wait a minute this thing is about to hit 200 posts and 50's, T.I.'s, Nas's baby mamas aren't meantioned nor is "she who shall not be named?"
Damn, this is a learning lesson for some of you kiddos in here. Do things right the first time and have very few regrets when you reach your late 30's or 40's.

Anonymous said...

343 STFU, What a fucking ass, with the name suga free you aint pimpin,theres a child involved, i guest that dont matter, dumb ass patheic loser, just like a dumb jigga to say that, and the clean up women, your SAD!!!!

Anonymous said...

343 this aint lifetime its real life, stupid ass dude that watch lifetime.i bet you only date hoes what women would want a loser who will never understand relationships which is why theres so many single moms rising ungrateful fools like yourself.

Anonymous said...

^^ Amen!!

Anonymous said...

^^ @ 2:40 Don't believe for a second that Britney didn't know K-Feds situation. Shar was pregnant at the time. She did it before with the Star from Stomp the Yard (I forgot his name) and guess what!? When she got with him he had a pregnant girlfriend aswell. Now see what Britney is reaping. Messing with children's homes got her children taken from hers. YOU DO REAP WHAT YOU SOW.

Anonymous said...

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MICHAEL JACKSON NEVER SEEN B4 INTERVIEW!!!!

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Anonymous said...

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Michael Jackson The ANGRY BLACK MAN!-INTERVIEW MUST SEE, PLEASE YOU GUYS WATCH THIS!!!THIS WAS DONE 4 DAYS B4 9/11

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DaShit said...

I wasnt going to say anything...then SugaFree said ..."i don't understand why bitches are always trying use a kid or kids. that's pathetic. don't blame someone else if you can't hold on to urs..."

Nosey me has never seen SugaFree post before so I checked out her profile and she says that she is interested in Family Structure. SHAM FUCKING WOW. Thats all.

Anonymous said...

SUGA FREE A GIRL TALKING LIKE THAT, WOW.

Wild Safari said...

@4:42 Britney dated Columbus Short? When? I didn't know he had dirt like that in his closet. Do tell!

There are some scandalous assed people on this board. These stories are better than Tales of a Groupie.
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I Support Mashonda said...

Mashonda,

Keep putting this mutt slut on blast. Women like her won't stop doing what they do but at least you can publicly humiliate her the same way she humiliated you. Don't listen to the other whores out there that say that she doesn't owe you anything.

She is now fucking the father of your child and will be around YOUR CHILD and spend time with YOUR CHILD. She absolutely owes you EVERYTHING or she should not have ANY access to YOUR CHILD. If Swizz decides that his "relationship" with er is more important than the relationship with his child than you can't do anything about that but THANK GOD he will not be in his son's life. If he chooses Alicia over his son, you are the recipeint of a BLESSING, not a curse. If he cannot convince her to MAKE AMENDS with you for the sake of his child then he has shown where his loyalties lie.

If she cannot own up to what she has done and look you in the eyes and promise to respect you and your relationship with Swizz for the sake of YOUR CHILD then she is the lowlife, gutter piece of trash we all know she is.

I wish you luck, sis. Women are the greatest beings on earth but can also be the worst. While she may have "won" the battle, you WILL WIN THE WAR. Your conscience is clear and your motives are pure - YOU HAVE ALREADY WON.

But don't feel guilty for exposing this tramp to the world. I am sure other women appreciate your candor and are supporting you. Don't let her get away with it and then have access to your child. Don't let her travel the globe as some ambassador of goodness when she is working for the devil.

These half-breed whores do not respect the black woman. They think they are better than us and we don't deserve what they have.

Anonymous said...

SHAM FUCKING WOW DaShit???? LMAO ---------->KONA RIGHT NOW!!!!

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