Thursday, March 11, 2010

Monica and Rocko Call it Quits

After standing by her man through groupies [click here] and jail stints [click here] and two kids, Monica and Rocko have decided to call off their years long engagement. They say Rocko's side chicks calling was the final straw. Monica's statement after the cut.
Monica tells Sandra Rose
I know there were many rumors. And Sandra, I appreciate that you never dug into them for the sake of both our families. I am going to rest today & go back to work tomorrow. I am going to do what I have always done. Focus on my children, my family & my career. Rock was put under a lot of harsh scrutiny during our entire relationship and I’m sure that was not easy.

However at this point our focus is being great parents. He is a great father to his children and, continuing forward, that is my only concern. With every breath in our bodies we will make sure that they feel as little pain as possible And continue to have the lives they had before with no attention dedicated to our separation. I will not be speaking on the subject further unless it is with God whom I believe does everything with reason. I love my children and their father and I’m truly grateful for those that loved and supported us through the good and the bad throughout the years.

76 comments:

Anonymous said...

Bout damn time. Tired of women standing by men and 'holding it down' when it's clear they are not valued in the relationship. You can't really hold 'it' down, all you're really doing is holding yaself down.

Anonymous said...

WHAT IS IT WITH THESE BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN AND THEIR NEEDING TO BE WITH THESE UGLY NO ACCOUNT THUGS?

Anonymous said...

BIG HEAD ROCKO GOT HIS RECORD DEAL AND HE'S READY TO SPEND IT ON THE FREAKS/HIMSELF AND NOT HELP MONICA PAY SOME BILLS.

Anonymous said...

What's wrong with his teeth . . . why is he holding his mouth like that . . . looks werid!

Anonymous said...

She could've been the NEXT Whitney Houston, but she just HAD to chose the ghetto route. Screw the street TRASH and get a well-heeled attorney in your life. You're a QUEEN dealing with a PAUPER! STOP IT!

Anonymous said...

@ 7:47 Can I get an Amen! a Hallelujah???

Hurray for Monica! said...

what's wrong with his teeth? Looks like he's rollin' to me. I heard he like to mess with them pills

Love Monica Again! said...

Sooooooo Happy! Now I can enjoy her song 'Everything to Me' without thinking about her singing to that loser ass ghetto trash!

HONEYGRiP said...

DIRT!!! I need some tea~

Rocko been on his hoe shit for YEARS!!!So what in the world could be the last straw...

Someone please tell me???

Anonymous said...

Stop dropping babies under the guise of "I'm engaged"! Get the ring and then have babies, there are enough Black children growing up in single-parent homes and this helps no one! Single Black Women need to do better and quit spreading your legs for every Tom, Dick and Rocko!

Anonymous said...

When he cant commit, you must acuit!!

shitorsugar said...

wow. she's class...he's ass (and might hard on the eyes) hope she finds someone who's worthy.

Anonymous said...

cosign @HONEYGRiP - Mouf Breever of the South had to have f*cked up something major for him and Monica to split. Probably got out of pocket with the fam or something.

♥ Bee said...

Everything happens for a reason.

Chalk this up and use it as a lesson for next time. She'll bounce back i'm sure..

Mo you know who tjis is said...

Call me Mo I'll take care of you now, and the kids. You know how to get at me. I'm still in the Cascade Hills S.W.
Holla.

Bee Gee said...

This negro always has the corny wangster look on his face in his pics.

Anonymous said...

Times must really be bad even the ugly one have the nerve to cheat. PLEASE!

Anonymous said...

lmao at 8:36...i know, right?

shaqua said...

I guess another positive paternity test has come in the mail...

I love Monica, but she does have a history of "holding it down" a lil' too long for them thug lovin' nukkas. Remember C. Murder? He had to get a damn life sentence before she decided to slide on over to Roc. This some PC shit and I'm glad in a way she kept it proper. But she's just giving these dudes the best years of her life, without nothing to show (except her children).

I wish her well though, because the sister is phenomenally blessed with talent.

Anonymous said...

He's supposed to wear his sunglasses so that we wouldn't see that fugly face of his.

Anonymous said...

@8:36
That's men though. An ugly dude with a beautiful woman has the same nerve to cheat. Look at Biggie Smalls. He cheated on Faith Evans with trashy ass Lil Kim.

Anonymous said...

@ 9:19
Biggie also cheated with Charli Baltimore. Biggie was one of the greatest but he was "heartthrob never, black and ugly as ever". I could definitely understand if Faith had cheated with Pac LOL

Anonymous said...

Dead @ 8:36. Monica, I say fuck it. Gone and get your money on, get fly and let that asshole burn up Atlanta with his sick dick.

You REALLY have not lost a thing...

Anonymous said...

and i'll say it again: why do these beautiful black girls lower their standards and self esteem and settle for these ugly thug guys? i mean what gives?

Anonymous said...

@9:50
Low self-esteem. These beautiful black girls feel they don't deserve any better than some ugly, deadbeat cheating ass thugs. It's saddening. I personally wouldn't be caught dead with a man like that smh

Anonymous said...

Sounds like publicity stunt. Toni dropped her man, now she got an album coming out. Usher dropped his man, now he got an album coming out. Now Monica drops her man? Okay.

Anonymous said...

how in the world did her pussy get hot looking up at this fugly wugly guy when she was sucking his dick?

panamanianbeauty said...

isnt this the same chick that was on V103 talking about jumpoffs aint taking her place and sideline chicks need to get in line? GIRL STOP!..IT FINALLY dawned on you after 2 kids and no marriage yet that you need to move on? ladies...ladies..come on.When you raise the bar a good man will follow! but giving everything to a man easy is not the way.

panamanianbeauty said...

@1014..supposedly STRONG black women always wanna call on GOD when they arent living up to what their supposed good book says..which means marriage before kids..sad sad..

Anonymous said...

Damn you 10:11. I spit out my chamomile tea

Quiana said...

It's about time she left his ass. Damn when will women learn ring before kids.

Anonymous said...

Why does he always have that dumb ass grin on his face? He looks retarded. The kind of face you see looking out the window of a little yellow bus.

malika said...

10:07 you are WRONG!!! LMAO!!! dang it, leave tameka outta this!!

Anonymous said...

She and her children are better off without that loser sorry excuse for a man.

malika said...

and for honeygrip, according to mediatakeout, one of his jumpoffs and his girls started calling her and that was the final straw.

AnonMoron67 said...

*dead* @ 10:07PM!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

WHEN WILL THESE DAMN GIRLS TAKE A NOTE FROM WHITNEY HOUSTON AND LEAVE THE UGLY NO GOOD THUGS ALONE?!

huhwhat said...

Well now maybe she can get a man with a real name and who doesn't dress like a 12 year old.

Must Be Nice said...

When his album drops and bombs, she'll take him back - regardless of who she may start dating. His head is gassed up because of the record deal and he's on that I can do whatever I want and I don't need her. Good luck with that Rocko!

That's bold that the jumpoff feels comfortable calling her phone bragging about sleeping with him. It's no joke in Atlanta.

Bee Gee said...

panamanianbeauty speak on it...

Vizion said...

if ure gonna be a weak-minded bird that has no sense of self-worth, then u deserve to be with horrible terrible men...play pussy, get fucked...

good for Monica if this is an improvement to her life...

Anonymous said...

What did she finally catch to make his millionth side chick the last straw?

Anonymous said...

Phone calls, smole calls bet this bum got one of them knock offs preggos and that was the final straw either way prisons pop the gate everyday she will find another man

Anonymous said...

Monica your a beautiful young lady. Keep your head up. God is good. You have two beautiful kids to take care of. Time will heal the pain. Because God is good. Everyone can say what they want. When you are in love, looks, ect... does not matter. Time will heal the pain. You are going to find your prince charming. Just be patience. God is good. Keep your head up!

Anonymous said...

About damn time! It looks like it's something wrong with him, ugh, what an infant! Monica is a pretty, young talented woman who will definitely find someone who doesn't sign important documents with crayons. Love makes you do and choose people who are suspect to say the lease; however, she will bounce back and eventually find someone worthy.

Anonymous said...

I bet Sandra Rose was grinning all up in her face!
She's been hoping to hook up with Monica and she's used to looking at a fugly face next to her!

Anonymous said...

It's always sad when a family breaks up

Anonymous said...

@ 8:26 lmao! prison pops the gates. lol.

Anonymous said...

Good thing she never used that 'thing' she always bragging about carrying- not for this bird the way his 4'9 ass be carrying on instead of breaking up, would be some sentencing going on. What a joke she's on the radio and tv defending it trying to make him relevant and him and his napolian complex is like whatever, I'm small, I gotta disrespect you. Can you say OOps, Whitney all over again. Only one not going for this monkey sh*t is Oprah, she giving out allowances in small increments and making them sign confidentials on it! LOL gotta find someone equal to you because you being greater- never works

Anonymous said...

@ 7:47 attorneys cheat too, probably even more...

NubianGoddez said...

@7:42 PM
Cosign!!

@panamanianbeauty said...
girl you ain't neva lied, I head that fuckery finest radio with her and that other illiterate t-boz talking bout they will beat some groupies azz for their menz, ladies please stop selling yourself short for these bums. that is all.....

Anonymous said...

Those kids do not look like Rocko.
He is the FATHER, right?
Really, look at those kids.

Anonymous said...

MONICA ERKS ME IN THE STOMACH.

MONICA IS NOT IMPORTANT, WHY IS SHE TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT HER AND HER DRUG DEALING MAN, SHE IS NOT RELEVANT, SHE'S PATHETIC.

GO AWAY MONICA, GO AWAY MONICA, YOU ARE NOT IMPORTANT!

MONICA IS NO BETTER THAN THE AVERAGE PERSON OUT ON THE STREET LAYING UP WITH A DRUG DEALER.

GO AWAY MONICA, ALWAYS BRING UP "GOD", DID GOD TELL YOU TO MESS WITH A DRUG DEALER.

Anonymous said...

Who cares Monica, who really cares.

Black Admiral said...

He left her cause he finally got a record deal...He's wack thou so he'll lose it...You never let a jumpoff get wifey's #..unless you want her to know...

panamanianbeauty said...

Monica cant be mad he is gone...she gave too much and didnt expect anything but the minimum back.

How you gonna talk about a separation when you were never married.Hell to me you are in the same position as the jumpoffs, just a longterm play house mate that just happened to have his kids.That doesnt make you different from the other women he is sleeping with monica.Learn from this, let the next man work for it, and if he is dressed with his pants down his ass, he is NOT MARRIAGE/FATHER ETC MATERIAL.

Anonymous said...

@ Panamanian

I totally agree. House mate don't equal house wife by any stretch of the imagination.

Anonymous said...

LMAO @ 8:26

Anonymous said...

So sick of all these comments about getting married first. When exactly did married men stop cheating? And for the record, I came from a 2 parent household, but it was more like 1 cuz my father was not active at all in my upbringing. Marriage doesn't guarantee anything. Even if she was married before, she would be in the same position now...SINGLE! So GTFOH with that 'marriage before babies' crap. It means nothing!

Anonymous said...

Man have y'all ever heard that dude speak? He sound like he slow as hell!

Anonymous said...

@Anon 7:26 pm ----------You are so right. If you get married that means all cheating stops. A man will cheat with or without a ring. Lets not fool ourselves.

Anonymous said...

ladies, it doesn't matter if it's 5 years later, 20 yrs later or 60 yrs later. this is how a relationship eventually ends up when you accomodate and compromise with a womanizer. and if the wife stays, if she even gets to wife status, it's for the money, as in the case of Ellen'becky went buck wild' Woods, Naiomi's billionaire boyfriend wife and all the other losers.

panamanianbeauty said...

@7:20p hunny, you got it all wrong..

Your parents shouldnt have been together let alone get married then have kids if your dad wasnt up to par. That was your mom's bad choices and your dad not being active says volumes about what women will ALLOW. marriage before kids is always better always! look at the asians, their communities are strong due to family is first, that starts with the husband and wife, it sets a foundation for children. Lets not mistake peoples bad choices in partners to say that marriage dont matter.Monica didnt need to be with that stank negro with that dumb ass grin on his face ring or no ring! YUCK! just the thought of fucking a man with that retarded look on his face and im sure he is in his mid thirties with his pants down his ass like a fucking 15 year old delinquent! that SURE IS FATHER MATERIAL! ESP TO ALOT OF BLACK WOMEN..SOME REALLY KNOW HOW OT PICK EM!LOLZ

IF we learn how to better ourselves and pick better partners good marriages will be the result! dont blame your bad choices on the instituion of marriage! and if you couldnt see yourself with the person for life why create life with that person so your child is stuck with a loser for a father?

Anonymous said...

cosign with everything panamanianbeauty wrote!

@ 7:20
proceeding with your logic: why bother with an education since it does not guarantee you anything; in fact why even take care of your health since it does not guarantee you a long life. there are no guarantees in life, but unfortunately it is just tortured logic and attitudes as your that has left much our community littered with uneducated, unhealthy and unmarried mothers.

Anonymous said...

12:03PM... LOL!

Exactly what every "good man" is looking for: a worn-out 30-something with a bunch of kids! Birds (or chickens) of the same feather flock together -- and Monica was with her kind.

Anonymous said...

@panamanianbeauty 1:14 AM
Good God from Zion, I pray you are who you appear to be: a black woman with sense. This is the Internet after all, so who knows.

I agree with everything you wrote. If you make the bad choice in any situation, then you will have a bad outcome. If a man or woman picks the wrong spouse, then the marriage is probably doomed. People are usually set in their ways. I am amazed at how other people's BAD CHOICES translate into marriage as a failed institution.

An honest, faithful, person is like that ALL THE TIME: at work, at school, in marriage, etc, etc, etc. Because that this core of who they are: honest.

The main problem is that men and women are making the wrong choices because they have no training in picking a good mate. There is a lot more to it than how a man makes you feel. There is more to it than a woman's big butt and smile.

quesha d( o )b said...

co-sign 100% PB...i love to see other folks on that "build a foundation, create a helathy marriage, and then have kids" plan. warms my heart that there are summa us around to combat alla these disfunctional households. and there are alot of them...i know of a few of them personally.

Anonymous said...

@ 1:14 & 8:41
Using the "people choose the wrong spouse" argument is grade school logic. You can't attribute a 50% divorce rate simply to bad choices. People can often change after marriage (for the worse) and people do not value the institution of marriage anymore since divorce is acceptable & easier to go through than it was in the past. Also why do you blame the women only for choosing bad partners? Men choose bad partners as well. When they choose good partners, it doesn't stop them from fooling around (Tiger Woods~hello). Tiger said he felt he had a right to cheat, even though Elin is a good wife & mother. Let's not make this a "blame the female" type of argument. It's biased and holds very little truth.

Anonymous said...

I agree with 8:41. People show you who they are. It's up to you at that point. People don't usually change drastically. A loving and kind person will rarely become selfish and cruel, and vice versa. As for Tiger, he chose the wrong one. It's obvious they aren't emotionally or sexually compatible. They should have remained friends. And so should Monica and ole boy. In time she would have realized that a friend would have more compassion and respect for you...which would have squashed this so-called relationship a long time back.

Shayla said...

@ 2:51

And you are WRONG again. If you would have finished your "research", you would have discovered that most marriages end up in divorce due to FINANCES.

Also, YES divorce is usually a result to BAD CHOICES as well. If you marry a LOSER, he will ALWAYS be a loser! Hence, he won't be a father to the child nor a husband to you!Choose better partners damn it and stop blaming marriage for your idiotic choices! So save that "marriage ain't all that" argument for these ghetto birds. They obviously believe the same thing you do.

How is waiting until your married to have someone else's kids grade school logic? How is strengthening the black family grade school logic? I'm sorry, but I would not suggest any woman go through 9 months of pregnancy and the pain of childbirth for some "nigga" who won't even marry her or properly be head of the household.

And lastly, yes women have a lot of the blame here. Why? Because women ALWAYS choose the MAN. And you can disagree with that if you want but every man knows that it's the truth. Men pursue women and end up with the woman who decided to CHOOSE him. If he has to work hard to be with her, he will never stop working. My parents are proof of that becuase 25 years later my Dad still work his ass off to make my Mother happy!

You have a lot to learn, especially if you co-sign women playing house for these no good "niggas." Yeah, keep on popping out kids you can't afford for these thugs and see how you end up ladies.

Propers to Panamanian Beauty for speaking some real wisdom up in here! No anonymous poster can take away the TRUTH that you typed in these posts!

The Queen said...

@11:55 Good Point. "I would not suggest any woman go through 9 months of pregnancy and the pain of childbirth for some "nigga" who won't even marry her." Can you say that again 12 more times?!

Anonymous said...

Gawwwwwwwwd, he is dead dog FUGLY!

Anonymous said...

Gawwwd, he's dead dog FUGLY!

Anonymous said...

He's got a mouth just like Puffy .. turned up top lip from.. you know!

Anonymous said...

I must agree with the marriage thing.... I myself is married I have two kids and yes they are by my husband... I love the look in my oldest eyes when he looks at his mom and dad.. its a warm feeling and I love to see them happy.... My husband and I have been together for 6years and of the 6 years we have been married for almost three years of the three years we have been through hell... But as a wife I feel that a marriage is worth fighting for .... now I cant say the same as far as it was to be just a boyfriend.. I wouldnt have even tried... But lets be REAL here ..... one can not say what he or she would do till u are placed in that situation.... everyone is stating that he is ugly... maybe but its something about him that she LOVE.. LIKE and felt to have his babies..... Those kids are well taken care of and thats all that matters... Why do we have to put someone down to prove OUR points.... The main point is that everybody is human and what and average person gets put through so do the famous dont mean that we all just sit here and bad mouth anyone........ SO TO MONICA all I wanna say is that I am sorry that you are going through the hard times but ma..... u can and u will get through it... Take care of them BOYS they are a BLESSING and deserve nothing but the best.... Best wishes....... JEN

Anonymous said...

@panamanianbeauty:
the crap you're talking 'bout would be nice if this were a perfect world...get a grip STUPID!

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