Thursday, July 15, 2010

Part II of Mashonda's Interview


Swizz Beatz ex-wife Mashonda sat down with Vibe for her first post divorce interview and talks about the aftermath of her open Twitter letter to Alicia Keys and how and when Swizz admitted he was having an affair.
What about that Twitter message you sent her [Alicia Keys]?

I did not expect that letter to do what it did, I swear. I was in a state of insanity when I wrote that letter. I sat on the bed and I was like, ‘I can't take this shit anymore’ and lost my mind. I sat and wrote it all out on paper first, and then I tweeted it. The next morning it was on every blog and I was like ‘Ah! Oh my God, what the fuck did I do?!’ It was not intended to be that. And I kind of felt bad.

You’ve mentioned in the past that Swizz repeatedly denied having an affair with Alicia. Did he ever fully come out and admit to it?

My husband admitted to having his affair on Mothers Day 2008, six months after I found out. I didn't sleep for a whole year. I had to take pills to sleep because I'd wake up in the middle of the night crying. I couldn't even look at my son some days because I didn't have the strength and I never wanted him to feel my bad energy. It was a battle. They are just now going public, but this has been going on for a very long time. I refused to really break it down for people to understand because there was no way I could go around not making [Swizz and Alicia] look extra crazy and I didn't want to put that out there for my son. I didn't want him to see his father as a monster. But the shit is deep.

What was the last thing you remember doing to keep the marriage in tact?

I did everything I could do, but I knew there was no working it out when he admitted his affair to me… he was happy about it. After lying about it for so long and finally admitting it I was like ‘I can't take it no more!’ In the back of my mind I was like, ‘I have to fight for my family, this is my son's father. We were supposed to grow old together, we were supposed to raise this baby together, we were supposed to do all these things, I'm fighting for my fucking husband. I don't care who he's dating, I don't care how much money she's got, I'm fighting for my husband.’ And then I realized… I can't fight for him… he doesn't want to be with me. I'm not going to win this one.

Read the rest of Mashonda's Vibe interview here.

93 comments:

Anonymous said...

Swizz is a pterodactyl and Alicia will get hers..He's a cheater, plus deep down ALicia likes women's vagina..so hey whatever's cleva

Anonymous said...

The Wife says: Woooow.....

Anonymous said...

She is a women in a young girl state of mind. Your personal life is personal, But since she lack in common sense , this is why her whole life story is played out on the internet. Why go buy her book when you can read about it on the BLOGS. Swizz left her for a reason and the whole world knows why.Just read the blogs-She has no class and self respect....... Definition of a Hood Rat who struck gold and lost it...

Anonymous said...

"I'm not going to win this one. "

Revelations are great. Better late than never, sister.

I like how she is subliminally saying Alicia was down with the creep.

LOL @ "Ms.Woman Power" being the #jumpoff. :-/ Self esteem knows no financial limits!


DaShit

Anonymous said...

The gave her a story to tell,run with it like Flo-Jo ..

Anonymous said...

this is actually fukked up... i feel mashonda's pain and i'mma a dude. like dont get it twisted despite what truth may be told, the pain and rage she felt is definitely understood and validated. love will make you do some crazy shit and because they are in the media its only escalated things...i feel for her, swizz is a wild bul... i can understand and respect him for at least telling her.. but i aint gonna go and dog out mashonda... i wish her the best. as for swizz and alicia... i dont necessarily respect their relationship because i couldnt ever leave someone FOR someone else... hell na. ah well not my life to each his own.

Soulwriter said...

It's sad that Swizz didn't have the balls to be enough of a man to end the marriage first before deciding to creep. It's puzzling that most folks are saying that she should do this and be that, but what about what THIS BASTARD did to break up his family?!? We women are emotional creatures and hell yes, if we love our men and find out that they're sticking and moving behind our backs, we're going to have our less than rational moments about it!!!

Have I been cheated on? No. Do I condone everything she did? Of course not. But Swizz was also an adult who could've been less selfish and treated his wife and his marriage with the dignity that they deserved. If he had, then maybe this sh!t wouldn't have come to pass. Hope he's worth it, AK.

Anonymous said...

I feel bad for her but I can only feel so bad because he did cheat on her and got somebody else pregnant so she knew what he was all about. But I know love is blind. People kill me (anon 2:58) why does she have to be a hoodrat that struck gold? She's been with him a long time before he even had any gold. STFU

Anonymous said...

I don't blame her. what else is there to do when you hurting, no sense of just sitting there watching. People like alicia need to be put on blast. why should she and swizz be happy.

Anonymous said...

The Dream and Christiana Milian were married and preggers with child and NOW they are separated and that is the same shit that Alicia will be going through too, then she will be back to sucking coochie lips. If he was married and creeped on his wife that SUPERWOMAN BITCH is NEXT, cause Karma's gonna bite her in da AZZ.

ELove said...

@Soulwriter
PLEASE don't forget We ALL BASHED Swizz to no end for being MAN-Less and A COWARD and A Foolish-AZZ SIMPLE Negro... NOBODY Male or Female defended THIS FOOL !!!!!

The Recurring theme has been Mashonda THIS and Mashonda THAT and Here goes Mashonda and There goes Mashonda AGAIN... I KNOW you're getting the point **LOL**

WHO amongst us LUVS beating a Dead Horse to Death...

APPARENTLY Ms. Mashonda DOES... *** LMAO ***

Anonymous said...

Um, did y'all read the whole interview? This girl is a big ball of issues! She got raped by someone in the industry before Swizzy came along, so what does she do? First mistake: Not report it. Second mistake: She told Swizz, and this coward told the dude to stay away from her. No hood beatdown or anything, just a verbal warning?

Sorry, but after reading both interviews, Mashonda is just young-minded. I feel bad that a lot of stuff has happened to her, but the writing has been on the wall for her TOO MANY TIMES. She shoulda walked away from the industry when she got assaulted, but she didn't. She shoulda walked away from Swizzy when he DEMANDED that she name the side chick's child, but she didn't. She shoulda walked away when he cheated on her TWO YEARS AGO. And I BET she would still take him back!

I'm not saying Swizzy is fresh and clean (cause he will get his eventually), but Mashonda shoulda took ownership of herself a LONG time ago. Now did y'all read the last part about her trying to be a singer, songwriter, film producer, book author, interior designer and Pilates instructor? GIRL STOP. Pick one career and roll with it. Don't forget about that baby you raising.

Anonymous said...

^^^And to add to that, did y'all see the part about how she was living in her house and Swizzy stopped paying people to clean the pool, so she just let it turn into a swamp? That right there says it all. Girl if you don't get out there with that chlorine! Bish acting like she too busy to clean a pool!

Anonymous said...

I feel for her. I mean this woman takes loyalty so seriously that she has it tatooed on her hand. What SB and AK did was wrong dead wrong. I can't respect AK for that. The one who is gonna suffer the most is the children.

Anonymous said...

@3:40 Swizz knew how Mashonda was before he married her. She had her issues and he his (maybe he likes them with no self esteem and needy. Sounds just like AK). They both contributed to the divorce in some ways But he should of went to counseling if he was unhappy not spread his seed around like a John Deer tractor.

Anonymous said...

fuk alicia keys, that jumpoff flat ass BIOTCH! i want everyone to make sure they are not happy why arent the white blogs picking up on this humongous story. alicia career doesnt deserve to be existent, i hope he does the same thing to her! he had a baby on mashonda and left the woman to be with mashonda, and now mashonda is getting her karma....ALICIA ur next
i cant wait to hear this somber bytch album after swiss beaks leave her flat azz

Anonymous said...

its so easy to call another women stupid for being with a man thats not good for her. But at some point in all our lives we been through some type of bullshit. maybe it wasn't as bad as this and maybe it was worse. Some people act like they still a virgin on this board or a hypocrite.

Anonymous said...

ughhh...I hate that she had to experience so much pain. I've been there so I know it's not an easy thing to deal with. To be honest, I can't fault her for the way she's been handling the situation. A. Keys and Swizz had NO RESPECT for her, so why should she respect the fact that A. Keys has a bogus reputation to maintain? F that! A Keys and Swizz will probably never experience full happiness because there will always be an underlying sense of guilt, trust and believe. And honestly, I don't think ANY woman can make Swizz happy bec he's searching for something that only he can give himself, and that is a true sense of self worth and validity.

Anonymous said...

Now that she has aired her side its time to shut up. No more you hear me NO MORE. We all get it. Swizzle stick dogged you out, but you still have to deal with his shit for a long time due to the children. Trust when the relationship with AK sours it will start up again. Stay off twitter and raise you kids.

Anonymous said...

Assuming what she said is true, this is beyond sad. Dude was probably thinking that there were signs she should read. Or maybe he did leave the house physically and worked on the technicalities(lawyers)later.

Anonymous said...

I feel sorry for her, but it's better late than never to find out the truth. I hope she finds happiness.

Anonymous said...

How the hell any of yall can call her young minded is beyond me! she took a mature look at her self, realized that this was her issue and not thiers and then set on the road to pulling her self together emotionally. Some of yall really need to read and comprehend that article again with an open mind. but as you know misery damn sure loves company and most of you miseralbe asses want her to feel bad and roll around pulling her hair out. But she isn't, and yes she has moved on! she did the interview cause they asked her to. doesn't mean she is still sulking. Yall need to stop reading about this if you are really tired of her story as you say. But misery always tries to seek out company.

Anonymous said...

Why do yall keep feeling sad for her? she don't sound sad to me. she sounds quite happy and is moving on with her life and career.

Anonymous said...

@4:44 Mashonda is that you? Nobody ever does an interview "because they asked her to." She could have politely told Vibe no and kept it moving. If you know anything about how mags operate, PR reps usually arrange interviews with celebs when they have a product to promote. Mashonda has two products to promote: This so-called book she's working on ("Death of a Mermaid?" Girl please) and her career. Homegirl and her PR team are just trying to keep her name out there, it's all business. Where were all these interviews when she was still Mrs. Swizz Beatz and he was knocking up chicks on the side before Alicia? Oh yeah, that's right -- the side chick at that time was a nobody.

Mashonda if you really want A. Keys to suffer, then stop riding off her name and take ownership of YOUR name.

Anonymous said...

@ 4:50
How many interviews were you ask to do? Oh. you sounding a little miserable there. Want some company?

Anonymous said...

@5:03 I'll gladly take your company, boo. Since you took the time to comment AND speculate on my mental being, come right on over. And the media ain't knocking down your door either!

Anonymous said...

@5:06
Never claimed to be an export but since " you know how mags operate" I was just wondering how many interview you turned down and told them to keep it moving? How many? Oh. what type of misery are you? Would you like Bon Bons and a box of tissues or Hard Liqueur?

Anonymous said...

@5:14 Girl, you a stupid "export." They trade you overseas? Never mind, you might not get it. Anyways, it's common sense with journalism. It doesn't matter if it's Vibe magazine, the local TV news, the campus newspaper or what have you. If a writer contacts you and asks for an interview, YOU CAN SAY NO. Some things are better left unsaid. It's not against the law to say no to an interview. She could've moved on, and Vibe would have to find someone else to talk to. No need to drag it out.

Is it that hard to comprehend for you? Let me put it in hood terms so you can understand: If Tanisha from MLK Blvd. calls you on your Metro PCS phone asking how good your baby daddy is in bed cause she wants to holla, and you don't want to tell her, then say no and hang up. That's how journalists work, they call you and ask if you want to speak on something. You say yes or you say no. I'm saying Mashonda shoulda said no. That's all there is to it.

Anonymous said...

@5:12
Misery should not cast stones in glass houses. It will only give you something else to be miserable about.
No one ever said that she did it JUST becuase they asked, she has to be a willing party as well. DUUUUHHH! She has the right to be as quiet or as verbal as she chooses to be. Not what you think she should be.
Let me break it down for your ghetto ass:
IF Rodney wants to sell your food stamps to buy crack, you have the option of saying no and decide to feed your 6 bastard children. unless you like getting high off crack too.

Anonymous said...

@5:33 Yeah, you lost me. I'mma just go ahead and concede this debate and let you take it, cause I can't argue with stupidity.

Anyhoo, Mashonda is talking to Twitter, Vibe, the media, Alicia, Swizz...seems like she's talking to everyone except a counselor, or better yet the man upstairs. But based on what I've read, she'll always be a lost cause.

Anonymous said...

@5:41
"Lost Cause"
Ooh looks like some one is looking for a friend with the same qualities.
This was fun!

Anonymous said...

5:33 and 5:57, you sound ignorant. I agree with 5:41 and I do hope that she did have a little talk with Jesus before she went running to the tabloids.

Anonymous said...

^^^^If any of you, silly bitches bothered to read the article in it entity then you would know. She clearly states that, she does not confide in so-friends and so forth but she wakes up at 4 am to talk with the Lord. Her words, not mine. All of you sound childish and off point to me, typical of black women.
She was in pain but through yoga, her new projects and so forth it is coming together for her. Read the article.

Anonymous said...

^^"My man cheated on me multiple times, had a baby on me after I miscarried and then got the biggest R&B singer in the world pregnant. You know what, lemme do some yoga and I'mma be all good." GIRL BYE!

Anonymous said...

@3:34 and 3:40 EXACTLY. Am I the only one that notices that Mashonda is sorta coming out as an airhead? On another note, time is SUPPOSED to heal all wounds, and if after a certain amount of time, you STILL haven't packed those tears away then I truly believe something is wrong with YOU. And why does it seem like those muslim men believe in all kinds of ethic/moral codes EXCEPT for fidelity to their wives???

Bee Gee said...

... so I put the over/under on when she slits A-Keys throat about bout 1 year.

Who got action?

Anonymous said...

@ 3:50 on point. I don't know what it is that makes everyone jump on the bandwagon and just talk shit about the injured party. To everyone talking that shut up go away crap, get real. They came to her for the interview which means someone wants to hear it. If that person isn't you then get of the blog. Nobody is holding a gun to your head move on to the next one sense this is beneath you. @ 6:48 It's that wanna hurry up and say some slick shit on a blog that misconstrue the truth of the matter.

Anonymous said...

Its amazing at how many people want to see her fail dispite the fact that she states in one form or another that she is ok now, its like yall didnt even read the damn article. If she says the sky is blue for her, you gonna read into it that she got grey skys. Well at lest yall loyal to being true haters, yall hate to the end.

Anonymous said...

^^^Thank you, 7:49pm that all I am trying to say at @6:42pm. Really. She is on a road to recovery that why they have classes and subject matters called Divorce Recovery.

Anonymous said...

@ 7:49 Loyal haters they are to no end. They could take some notes from Mashonda.

Anonymous said...

Forget yall! Shanda should get her own book, production company, Album, work out video,Roll on deodorant, Bag of chips, nike sneakers, hair weave company, Tampon product,chain of fast food restaurants or what ever the hell else she wants. she aint hurting over yall uneducated haterifick wanna be a PHD comments.

Anonymous said...

Singing, Jill Scott- Hate on Me, Haters cause Mashonda and I, both, are going to do...You know the rest.

Anonymous said...

@ 5:21 The fact is she said yes because she can. She don't have to say no because you think it's a bright idea. It was a chance to set the record straight- if you bothered to notice Swiss stories sounded bogus. From where I sit (just me), she's being real. It's a form of taking up for yourself. She's letting people know what it really is.

Anonymous said...

I agree, she does have the right to put what ever she wants out there. At least yall can't speculate on what she must be going through,cause she already told you. no need to guess. and judging from the flood of responses, its a whole lot of people who claim to want her to go away and continue to hang on to her every interview at the same time....weird.

Anonymous said...

Mashonda needs to thank Alicia Keys, because without this situation no one would be look for her to give interviews, for her to pose for pictures, and most certainly nobody is looking for her to sing.

Now she can make a career out of being a martyr, because she surely doesn't have one otherwise.

The problem is (maybe not for her, though) that the more she talks, the more it seems like she has nothing in her head. Wronged aside, she comes across as one of those women who think their looks and sexual activity are going to maintain a relationship with a man - and are offended when it isn't enough. Relationships end, and they typically don't end on a happy note. Public scrutiny? Mashonda has put more of this in the public than either Swizz or Alicia, and she is keeping it going and going (and going and going) because she is (justifiably) angry, and because it brings her attention that she obviously doesn't have the talent or brains to generate otherwise.

At this point, most people don't know that Mashonda has any other career, activity, etc. besides complain about how wronged she has been. She is obviously hoping to flip her sorrow into a real career, but unless the new career involves her chattering on about how she is 'handling it' and 'over it' then she is out of luck.

ms mac said...

Team 3:34 and 3:40 all the way!! Really Mashonda? You let your pool go to pot cause dude stopped paying the bills? Do you know the kind of negligence it takes to get the bottom of a pool covered in swamp shit?????????? And did anyone else catch how the interviewer was saying the the front lawn was so bad weeds was up to her knees? Not to mention, Mashonda herself was saying she's been packing for a year. WTF? Hate to see the inside of that house! She sound like she don't mind living in filth which is a no-no. And for all that strength she now claims she has, she still sound stuck on stupid to me. She lost me at naming my man's other woman's baby. But good luck with that.

Anonymous said...

@9:18

OMG!! Yet another one that just wrote a novel about an article that they did not read or fully understand. NEWS FLASH: she aint angry no more, she worked on herself to heal, and she listed like 4 or 5 things she has planned for her future. Damn people READ FIRST then comment. The Shit people makeup is unreal: Who the hell got that she was trying to keep him with looks and sex, how you know what her education level is. just cause she didnt make it big does not mean she does not have talent! the country is full of people like this. look at how many talentless people we got raking in the dough. You dont like her fine, but dont start ranting about shit when its clear you did not read the DAMN ARTICLE! If you read it go back and read that shit again PLEASE.

Anonymous said...

@9:18PM

And the church says Amen. TBH, she isn't the first woman to have her heart broken and she won't be the last. There are plenty of women who have been in her position (or worse) who have found some means to cope with her tragedy and has moved on (like a journal).

The reason why some people may be "annoyed" (I'd rather use that word than the overlyused "H" word) by her is the fact that she's milking this ish for all it's worth. Part of me can't really blame her because seeing as how she's getting some shine from her failed marriage (and not her singing career), she's riding that bish until the wheels fall off. But the other part of me still finds this interview a little unnecessary, and like 5:21PM's OPINION (which many on here seem to misunderstand that and the nature of a blog in general), I agree that she said more in her "open letter," twitter rants, and mag interviews that Alicia/Meerkat Beatz have ever spoken. We all know it's her right to speak publicly about her anguish (SMH @ some of y'all), but is some people's OPINIONS that her public diatribes may not necessarily be for the better, especially when their kids grow up and will wonder what kind of people their parents were back in the day.

Good luck with all that guurrrrlllll.

Anonymous said...

Mashonda ain't worrying about Beatz. She has a new piece of man meat now 2 months and going strong.

Anonymous said...

Wow, who knew Mashonda had Stans? You go girl.

Anonymous said...

The interview was not necessary. We knew this female was a bird and she just confirmed that fact for those who had doubts. Yes, plenty of people have forgiven their partners indiscretions, but once your child is dead because of your partners "mistakes".... Leave. The miscarriage was her out, and she failed to take it. That was her biggest mistake. staying after the baby died and then marrying him.

Swiss is scum, and unfortunately there are more scum bag males to choose from than decent ones. Many males view forgiveness as a weakness, and a license to continue to fuck up, even though they require their women to be "forgiving" of their sins against their relationship.

I believe that
Alicia Keys knows who and what she is dealing with. And, that she is gay and her arrangement with Swiss is not based on love. He is simply a sperm donor. I doubt they will ever marry.

Anonymous said...

Yall need to stop with all this bashing on Shanda. She aint stupid....Ill tell you what stupid is:

I know a girl that still gets with a nig on the same block and got 3 kids by him. he calls her names in front of his friends, slashes her tires when he feels like it, wont watch his own kids, wont give her money, tells her to her face that they aint together and aint never gonna be, and gets other girls on the same block pregnant while she pregnant. AND SHE STILL LETS THIS NIGG FUCK HER. NOW..... THATS STUPID.

Shanda gave him a second chance, he messed up they split ways. she raking in money from him and articles. how you gonna be mad cause she ridding this cash cow for all it's worth? GTFOH!

Anonymous said...

@ the first 10:24,

You posted this shit yesterday word for word. Stop it I say, Stop it right now!

Anonymous said...

For those who keep saying that the "haters" hang on to Mashonda's every word...people only read interviews to find out new information. Mashonda has told us nothing we haven't said before (and shame on Vibe on hyping this up like they bout to win a Pultizer or some shit). It's like with Letoya Luckett and Kelly Rowland...notice every time they do an interview, they ALWAYS speak on Beyonce and Destiny's Child? That's why people are asking Mashonda to give it a rest already because what more can she say? No one is defending Swizz or Alicia, but like people have said, Mashonda claims to be so "over it" yet she's the main one talking about it.

Anonymous said...

"Let me put it in hood terms so you can understand: If Tanisha from MLK Blvd. calls you on your Metro PCS phone asking how good your baby daddy is in bed cause she wants to holla, and you don't want to tell her, then say no and hang up."

"Let me break it down for your ghetto ass:
IF Rodney wants to sell your food stamps to buy crack, you have the option of saying no and decide to feed your 6 bastard children. unless you like getting high off crack too."

"My man cheated on me multiple times, had a baby on me after I miscarried and then got the biggest R&B singer in the world pregnant. You know what, lemme do some yoga and I'mma be all good. GIRL BYE!"
_____________________________________________________

Forget the movies, the comments in here is enough to keep everyone entertained.

Viva la RWS!!!

Bee Gee said...

I'm not a negative person, but Mashonda just isn't convincing to me. I think this shit still haunts the hell outta her. It's obvious. And it's only gonna get worse as she sees/hears everybody celebrating Toucan & A-Keys' parenthood. I'm sorry though - with the shit she dropped in that last post about naming that nigga's child with some otha female... I'll always think she's missin more than a few lego blocks. I am pulling for her though - hope the sista comes out ok. She seems like she is always lurking on twitter though, and that can't be healthy.

Anonymous said...

Uh bee gee, don't be so shocked by her naming the kid, its way more common than you think. women often try to accept the other kid to keep things going with thier man. seen it way to many times. some the chics on this blog is guilty of it in one way or another. They just aint saying. I wouldnt do it but I try to understand other people. every body cant live like me. And no I don't think shanda need help or feel I have to hope she will be ok. She aint as stupid or desperate as some of the post have pointed out. She's fine.

Anonymous said...

This is leading up to a book and possibly a movie script - damn! all over a broken heart - please Mashonda - nobody cares - hell my husband cheated on me with my best friend - and me and her go way back 6th grade - I'm 25 now. yes, I thought about doing some shiety shit to the both of them but then again 25-to life didn't appear to be worth it so I moved on....guess what? he now has a baby by her and her sister. you gotta love it!

Anonymous said...

Oh I think we ALL know that the relationship between Swiss and AK is nothing more than a passanger on the titanic.

Anonymous said...

This is a world that over produces everything that it can gets it hands one but a person can not speak there piece and tell there story with out people bashing them it is her life to tell and if you don't like it then stop getting informed on it. I mean we can watch the same boring porno over and over again but a person can not speak about there misfortune and life issues more then once. We are really becoming a dumb nations that same woman can show her azz on the face of every mags that will show her but if a person is in pain they need to go some where off in the corner and deal with it alone. Are we human or robots?

Anonymous said...

@827---Very well said.I really don't understand human beings.Everyone handles situations differently,just because you got over something quickly, does not mean everyone else does.Like the old saying goes, never judge someone until you walk in their shoes.I use to be the type of female if my gf's would tell me something about their dudes dogging them out and mistreating them I would call them names and belittle them.Easy to give advice when your not the one experiencing it right?? Well guess what, when I got married my husband cheated on me and I was devastated.I could not tell my friends because all the trash I talked to them about being weak minded and etc, would now apply to me right?I forgave my husband,but that situation humbled me.Until things actually happen to you, you can't say what you would you do @ that moment.

Anonymous said...

@7:52am It is God good all the time.

Anonymous said...

i just need to respond to the person who called her a hood rat. Now why would u call a woman who was married to that ugly dude for 10 years a rat u sound just as dumb as Alicia and beeks about they so called relationship. I condone Mashondas actions. That was a FAMILY. They were married!!!!!!! Beeks is lucky thatd all she did. And Mashonda no class? and i guess Alicia got all the class sleeping with a married man. Lol NO WONDER U ARE TEAM ALICIA AND BEEKS ALL TRASH STICK TOGETHER!!!!

Anonymous said...

For the person who said it was personal and Mashonda should have been quiet you sound like a real dufus because that is exactly what Alecia would want! No if Swizz abandoned his wife and son let the world know and if Alecia's an adulteress then let her fans know! Don't listen to this hypocrite say "Black woman power" "A woman's worth" and all of that crap when she turns around an dumps not only on a Black woman but a Black child as well.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous7:52 am: Don't try to act all hard like your husband dumpong you for your bestfriend did not crucify your soul! You sound like a liar or eiether a hoodrat who cheated as well. Noone says "Get over it my husband cheated with my best friend." You really sound like a liar! Keep it real because if that really happened you would not be so cool with it unless you were nasty and cheating yourself!

Anonymous said...

I don't understand why people are watering down her situation like it wasn't nothing serious and she needs to go some where. It's a little deeper than get over it and go away. That's like saying she doesn't count. Mashonda didn't make this public; it's only public because AK was the other woman. She was just trying to handle her business. The dude played both of them. He was back and forth in his home and it took a minute b4 he admitted it. When he did he was happy and then she realized she couldn't do anything and so she moved on. As sure as I'm sitting here he played AK to she just isn't saying it. I applaud Mashonda for taking up for herself. Your name is really all you have. I'd put the truth out there to if someone was putting me in a false light.

Anonymous said...

People can defend Mashonda all they want, and she does have a right to air Swizz out for doing her wrong. It's just the fact that she's airing herself out as well, and looking just as stupid. Yeah, stupid. Get mad. Getting raped and not reporting it? So that same person can go out and rape someone else, while you just chalk it up to "the industry"? Sorry, I can't roll with that. I really can't roll with the naming the other kid either. Yeah, it happens, but it doesn't HAVE to happen. Stay strong Mashonda, but please consider having a therapist come visit your dirty ass house.

Anonymous said...

@8:12
I know thats right, Ima sit back with my popcorn and watch the show as it unfolds.

Anonymous said...

cosign 1102

this portion of the interview is better, too bad the part about her naming the jumpoff's kid was posted first cause that's mainly what threw everybody off, into thinking Mashonda is beyond dumb..

Anonymous said...

10:22. How you gonna call 7:52 out her name without being in her situation. You DRIP-ON-THE-TIP-DICK-TRICK! She was way more than a woman to have left. I suppose your ghetto ass would rather be in "WOMEN BEHIND BARS" after killing either your Husband OR the Bestfriend then to walk away. SO WHOS THE HOODRAT with HOODRAT thoughts?
7:52? You did the right thing. And if it was a lie than guess what? It was still the right thing to do. Maybe foolazz 10:22 will take some pointers and stay HIS or HER stupid ass out of jail.

Blue_Danube said...

I banged a bitch like Mashonda once. I used to call her Twisty. Pussy was good but the bitch was like two-sided tape...I couldn’t shake her off. This one time, after I had broke up with this ho for the 47th time, I went to bed, alone. So in the middle of the night I woke up feeling a pair of nekkid titties on my back. Someone breathing heavy as fuck down my neck. The room was dark so I didn't know who da fuck them titties was attached to. But since my dick was already hard, I was thinking "mayne I might as well roll over and grab these titties." I aint give a fuck! So I rolled over and start squeezing the titties. Then I heard this bitch Twisty go "Hello baby!" with that disgusting 3:00 am Chewbacca growl that would make a nigga wanna snip his own urethra with a fuckin vise grip.

Anyway, I jumped up and turned on the light and was like "Twisty?!?! You crazy bitch! Didn't we break up today? Didn't I splain to yo ass, that I just cannot fuck with yo mental-case ass no mo?" Bitch was like "but I love you baby I feel like I cant breathe without you." I said well muthafucka you gon have to get a oxygen tank or some shit, cause I cant be yo air, ho! Then I looked at her and was like, how in da fuck did you get up in my apartment anyway? She said "I picked the lock." I said, you crazy ho! I kept thinking to myself. What sane bitch pick a nigga door lock, take they clothes off and come deposit they titties on his back when the nigga sleep?

Well Ms. Psychosis upped the ante. Bitch took a pair of scissors from her pocketbook and held the shit up to her neck saying she was gonna stab her self if I aint take her back. I said, you crazy bitch! Do a nigga a solid and stab da fuck out yo self, please! Do it! Do it you gotdamn retard, make it quick! She was like what, you wouldn't stop me? I said bitch, not only would I not stop you, I'll call you mama and tell her you went down valiantly, like a champ. Bitch got mad and was like "fuck you, I’m done!" I’m like well fuck you too. She was like "I hated yo mama anygotdamn way." I said dont make me no never mind I don’t like her ass that much either!

She started grabbing her clothes to leave and as I watched Twisty big ample titties just...swangin, bouncing, up and down, from side to side...

...yup, you guessed it. I had to fuck her one mo 'gain! :)

Anyway, long story short. Twisty and I dated for three years after that!

Anonymous said...

People my people. Some of you take blogging to a whole new level of ignorance.
Just got on here and dam already its filled with name calling,suck this and kiss that. whew.
Mashonda? Girl you rocking them shoes 100. Also girl,"I see ya Rocking that DIAMOND RING too."
AKATRIPPY: (:

Anonymous said...

KARMA is coming AK

Mrs. Danube said...

Blue_Danube is my future husband! You don't fool me nigga. I know you are smart, and if you don't write, you should. Your shit is better than anything Tyler Fairy has ever concocted! Love u baby...No seriously tho, I would go half on a baby witchu boy!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Anyway, long story short. Twisty and I dated for three years after that!


FLATLINED AFTER CTFU!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I am way to intelligent to respond to some of these bloggers but when a story as moving and touching as Mashonda"s comes across I just have to add my 2 cents.

First of all - Mashonda comes across very intelligent, she said she has gone through a spiritual journey, and she has learned alot from her marriage to Swizz. And she never throws Alicia Keys under the bus for destroy her marriage and breaking up her family.

IF yall naysayers actually read the article you may actually learn something.

As far as the date rape - she did not have to disclose this information but Mashonda understands she can help alot of people with her story. Many women like myself never speak of what happened to them when actually we can help so many people by just telling our stories.

As far as Mashonda telling her story to Media outlets. She has every damn right to talk about what she has gone through...how she has healed from this..and how her story can help others. Her story is actually uplifting and inspiring.

Mashonda if you are reading this the analogy of the Mermaid in the swimming pool is brillant. Intelligent people will buy your book. It seems like it will be a good read.

What yall fools need to understand is that
Mashonda has moved on. She has nothing to be ashamed of for telling about her failed marriage to Swizz. People do want to hear story and she has a story to tell.

1 bit of advice Mashonda.... your story may actually make a great made for TV movie. See if you can make that happen.
Take care and god bless!!

NubianGoddez said...

@My husband admitted to having his affair on Mothers Day 2008, six months after I found out. I didn't sleep for a whole year. I had to take pills to sleep because I'd wake up in the middle of the night crying.

I feel like kid fury right now, really Mashonda really?? I wish kid fury would do a YouTube video on this fuckery and put his own spin on this mess like he did the lil kim and nicky whatever the hell her name is mess, that s*it had me in tears!! is this the same man that went out, had a baby with some other broad, while with you and then got your simple ass to name the baby?? this wouldn't be the same guy would it? because I'm saying if it was, ahhhhhhhh why were you shocked he "oops he did again". this s*it is turning into another damn trapped in the closet saga, how many chapters to this fuckery is there? gawd!!

Its like my friend cheated on his wife, had a baby outside, she found out when the other broad called her on her job, to let her know they had a 7 month old, she forgive him demands they go to marriage therapy, the whole time this dude had another chick knocked up, who also ended up having another baby by this fool, which he's still hiding from the wife. now my question is should wifey be surprised when she finds out about them two other kidz. its like a girlfriend of mine, married to the same ass clown for 20 years, keep in mind the dude never lived with her, always out hoing, while she had six kids by him, this fool had 11 kids outside the marriage, and she would complain to anyone who would listen as to how this dude is the worst husband, (secretly I think she got a kick out of playing the martyr) she actually told me, I kid you not if he has one more child outside the marriage, I'm going to leave him, because its something with that number 12, its like the twelve tribes of israel. you could have knocked me over with a f*cking feather!!! at that moment I knew I couldn't remain friends with this dumb ass any longer, some people will just give you a stoke listening to their stupidity and since I'm allergic to stupid people her ass had to go!!

ELove said...

@BeeGee
>>> HERE AGAIN !!! <<<

And THESE Females that can't see that and make ALL KINDS of rationalizations to justify siding with her are on some "I AM Woman, Hear me Roar" BULL-SHYT because FEMALES quickly (Very Quickly at that...) routinely side with the female's situation ESPECIALLY when it involves some perceived Heartache-n-Pain scenario revolving around Marriage because we all KNOW that FEMALES WANT TO BE F-ING MARRIED (Real...)

And the very reason I CALL Bull-Shyt on that sort of reaction is we also ALL KNOW that Females are the MOST DIVISIVE Segment on the PLANET EARTH (MF-ing Real...)

You CAN GET 5 Total MALE Strangers to meet in prison lockup for the VERY 1st Time and they can form a TRUE-n-SINCERE Bond and Friendship that will last longer than ANY Group of FEMALES that actually KNOW & have grown to KNOW Each Other for an extended period of time BUT CAN'T TRUST EACH OTHER FOR SHYT !!!!!

Someone earlier mentioned she has a New LUV... Well HE isn't doing a good job at all because if he was THROWING All-She-Could-Handle and NOTHING BUT GOOD-AZZ DYCK ALL UP INSIDE OF HER She wouldn't have the Time-or-Energy to be worried about Swizz-BEAK & A-Whores (Real...)

A REAL MAN WOULDN'T STAND FOR THIS KIND OF FOOLISHNESS

Anonymous said...

Bee Gee, stop comparing men to women. this only demonstrates how much you cannot really connect on the female level on this situation. Just know that you aint gonna never get the female angle on this. leave it be and stop writting novels trying to prove your point.

Anonymous said...

you too E-love

Anonymous said...

nubian goddezz,

I did not read anywhere in your comment about how well your marriage is working so well and what advice you can give to making the marriage work.....oooh I get it you actually do not have a husband ....really do not know how to keep a man yo damn self......and probably the single friend giving bad advice to the married friend...who should have never been seeking advice from your No married...no having a man ass..
PS
Keep your opinions to yourself about marriage until you get a husband!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

@e-love
The gospel according to e-love.

Anonymous said...

move on girl this is a broken record how many more times we gone here this ish !!!

Anonymous said...

12:09 with Twisty, sadly your are funny. Write a good hood book or do comedy.

Anonymous said...

It's called EMPATHY PEOPLE! You have to put yourself in her shoes to understand where she is coming from. In life you will realize "everybody can't be like me" in other words I can not expect people to react the way I would in any given situation. She is going back and time and telling you how she felt about the situation. This is not where she is today. She is over it! But that doesn't mean she shouldn't tell her story. It's a beautiful story. A uplifting story. So don't nobody go feeling sorry for Moshonda she's going to be all right. Real talk....Still we rise.....her story is Real she is as Real as you people claim every other entertainer is not...... So why you mad at Moshonda and how you gonna act like she wrong for capitalizing on this moment. Shit she got son to raise and a life to live... Now its on her terms. She went through the fire....and rose like the Phoenix. lol Read the article....you will see this is not a pity party for Moshonda we celebrating a regular woman who went thur what we have or will go through cause 'EVERYBODY PLAYS THE FOOL, THERE IS NO EXCEPTION TO THE RULE". Believe that like you believe in KARMA cause its real....

SECRET-C

Bee Gee said...

3:22

So basically yo dumbass would name ya husband's lovechild with some other broad too. Thanks. I don't need to connect to the female psyche to know when somebody has lost their marbles, homegirl. So stop reading my "novels" if you got a problem. It's sistas like you that keep niggas like Swiss Cheats in bidness. Have a good weekend.

Bee Gee said...

7:26 Get the fuck outta here with that. I have never heard of a female naming her husbands lovechild from an afair with some other woman. Common my ass. You're either the same sorry sap that posted at 3:22 or you're dumb as hell just like her and are tryna claim it's common because YOU are a victim of the same stupidity that led Mashonda to name that niggas stray nut. Sit down.

Anonymous said...

"I am way to intelligent to respond to some of these bloggers..."
1:34PM

^^^
Your pointless diatribe should have ended there.

Anonymous said...

Why does it seem like everyone on here is getting mad because she is airing out they shit. She need to put Alicia bi-racial ugly bumpy skin ass on blast and that sorry ass nigga. People kills me on how they condone muthafuckin wrong. Wrong is wrong. She should have beat that whore black and blue and beat Swizz ass until she saw blood muthafuckin whoremongers

Anonymous said...

Good to see that she's come to grips with the break up of her marriage and divorce. She's handling it better than she did in the beginning, but I'm sure she's still hurting and will be hurting for a while. Her ex-husband and Alicia apparently have no shame. Watch them put their child over the children he had before Alicia came along.

Anonymous said...

Damn.. yo man gon'..
She wouldn't be mad had she secured her shit.
Ladies, let this be a lesson..get your own power.
Can't really feel that bad 4 that cause if it was all that bad she woulda left him..she's mad cause he left her for AK and her shit is together.
I bet you dat azz wish she woulda grinded in that studio wit her man instead of interior decorating. Then no matter what happened you will be straight anyway.
Aww..Squandered opportunities and now Jupiter is so far away from the sun.
Guess Mashonda will be watching TMZ this weekend like the rest of us..

cake boss said...

F*ck Moshonda & her pain...this bitch needs to get a sprite & quench her thirst!! Get off Swizz & Akeys dick & MOVE ON! For all stating that she is expressing pain & this or what ever else a dumped person feels...she needs to move on! PEOPLE GET DIVORCED EVERY SINGLE FUCKIN DAY & THIS BROAD IS NO DIFFERENT! Hollar at me when this bitch's interviews have NOTHING TO DO with those 2 and we will see how many she gets. If Moshanda declined to talk abt this ish, then those mags would take their business else where. They are using her to get the dirt & making her look like a complete fool in the process, which she has no problem falling into position for. SHE HAS NOTHING ELSE TO TALK ABOUT, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

Anonymous said...

@Blue_Danube That shit was funny!

Mashonda is crazy just like Twisty! Swizz couldn't wait to get the hell away from her.

You know niggas do not like their business in the street....

Mashonda = Retarded! Crazy! In Sane! Annoying! Talk Way Too Much!!!!!!!!!!

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