When word leaked out that Fantasia testified that she'd aborted her married lover's child at his divorce hearing, I wondered what could have made her admit she'd gotten pregnant, let alone had an abortion, knowing full well it could cost her millions in her Alienation of Affection lawsuit. Come to find out she had to admit it because Antwaun told his wife Paula everything and Paula's lawyer brought it up in court.
Transcript of Fantasia's testimony behind the jump.
From Radar Online
Lawyer: "See if you recognize this as being a letter you wrote to Mr. Cook on May 10th 2010" (inaudible)
inaudible) Fantasia reads the letter to the court. "I want you. I pray every night that I can be in your life forever, be your friend, lover, prayer partner, wife and MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN. As long as I can have you I will be the happiest girl in the world." (inaudible)
Lawyer: "Ms Barrino, when you wrote this letter, you said you wanted to be the mother of his children, is this right?"
Fantasia: "Uh huh."
Lawyer: "Were you pregnant with his child when you wrote this letter?"
Fantasia: "No, no."
Lawyer: "Is it true at one point you told him you had an abortion?"
Fantasia's Lawyer: Objection!
(ARGUMENTS BETWEEN LAWYERS)
Lawyer: "Ms Barrino, isn't it true that you told Mr. Cook that you had aborted his child?"
Fantasia: "When I wrote this letter I was speaking in future references. Like, one day, I would love to be all of these things that I wrote. I was not pregnant with his child."
Lawyer: "But did you tell Mr. Cook you aborted his child?"
Fantasia: "I did, yeah."
Lawyer: "When did you tell Mr. Cook you had aborted his child?
Fantasia: "I'm not sure."
Lawyer: "When did you abort his child?"
Fantasia: "It hasn't been too long ago."
Lawyer: "What's not too long ago?
Fantasia: "I'm not sure."
Lawyer: "I'm sorry?"
Fantasia: "I'm not sure. Probably when all this other stuff was happening."
Lawyer: "Is it your testimony that this summer?"
Fantasia: "I'm not really sure."
Lawyer: "How close in proximity was it to Mr. Cook leaving? In June 2010."
Fantasia: "It was right after he left his home."
Lawyer: "Mrs. Cook contends that she separated from Mr. Cook in June 16th 2010. How close in proximity to her date of separation did you contend that you aborted his child?"
Fantasia: "I'm not sure. Probably August when the other stuff happened."
150 comments:
first!
I really hope this situation gets better. I don't like to drown myself in other people's misery....if I don't know the person and they haven't done anything to me.
how do you not know the date of something so circumstantial? unless she did out of spite?
shes lying, she told him she aborted the baby but in all actuality she didn't. This is one of the oldest lies hoodrats tell to keep a man. First "Im pregnant" and when the desired response from said male is not what the hoodrat wanted "im getting an abortion" and when said guy doesn't care hoodrat goes onto say "i got the abortion I feel so bad about it"
Sound familiar? Yes Fantasia also participated in this hood conversation
Fantasia is a COUNTRY ASS BAMMA HOMEWRECKER WHORE, DUMB AS A BOX OF ROCKS.
Oh Fannie Mae, you really got yourself into a pickle, didn't cha?
uuummm..ive had 5 abortions..i dont remember the dates i had them....
and i damn sure dont remember the dates to all the FAKE abortions ive had..
PRAYER PARTNER hell i got to use that at the club shawty
4:37 is looking for drama (let's keep this post about Fantasia) why even reveal that type of information? God knows the truth and you will have to deal with him in the end.
Give it a rest ya'll. I wouldn't even waste my time with the hate. this is a bad situation. Yes we all agree that this is not the way to do things, yes we all know that it is foolish. And yes, some of yall are quick to judge and wish horrible things on her only cause the rest of the people reading your comments don't know that you have done way worse.
No body wants this in thier life. I don't wish this on her, I m not gonna kick her while she is down. she has always said that she pretty much has no skills when picking a man. I will say that the title of her show is perfect cause she is real no matter what, foolish decisions and all. I hope this goes a way and she learns a lot from it.
he and his wife may be working together to get that MONEY...hmmmmm food for thought!
she should have learned more about this man before sleeping with him 3days after knowing him!
What makes it so sad is when she had that football dude that was in her video who asked her out and she turned him down cause her heart was set on dating this Twan slow looking self.
She needs to find another man and stunt in both Paula and Twans face while they go thru their fake divorce.
I had a convo with male friend about how he hates when women have a male friend on the side...well hello this is why women do it. You never know what a man intentions are so you always got to have a back up plan.
SMH Mrs. Cook is about to get stupid Paid. How the hell you ain't gonna remember the day you killed a living fetus??? better yet how can you sleep at night after doing some shit like that??? then Antwaun be killing me acting all stupid and fake shy around Fantasia when deep in side he just really wanted the pussy But go caught. He was NOT separated from his wife
well, if they were seperated.. is it still fantasia's fault?
eat less salts guys...reduce your sodium intake!!!
I agree with 4:46
I luv some gossip and will crack a joke in a minute...but this right here I can't take part in no one pain. Nobody is innocent in this situation. We don't know the whole story and I can't wait until all this is over with cause this is too ugly for me.
I sure hope this 'man' loves her because she has put herself through a lot of mess for him. She has also proved just how dumb she really is. This is truly one dumb ass woman. Get it together, Fannie. You have a daughter to look after. sheesh
This was just an attempt to embarrass her. Men like Twan do these kinds of things to women and then go out and date and wonder why women are crazy. They just been hurt to damn much. That wont matter anyway men are going to continue to do what they are doing and as you can see once they get finished they just gone start dating other men. Getting bent over and treated like a bitch....yeah you know I am telling the truth
I'm not gonna waste my time saying how dumb she is, this is way more common than you think and it's only cause it happend to a celeb that every one is chiming in with thier 2 cents.
But let me say that in having conversations with other females i have met over the years, you would be suprised at the things people do when they have not been taught the right way, or given a good basic moral foundation. I don't think that when it comes to a man, she had a lot of feedback on how to go about things and it's showing. Keep your head up girl and learn from your mistakes. Ignore the hateful comments that don't have your instrest in heart.
Out of everything at the end of the day......@4:55 I damn sure agree! You already had financial problems tried to commit suicide and helped wreck a marriage.I am going to say what I want cause guess what if I did the same shit rather I was fantasia or the girl on the corner.Most likely my end result would probably be the same!YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE OUT! KARMA IS A BITCH!Need I say more!He wasnt the only man in the world. And she isnt soley to blame.But if a fire is burning, does it look enticing to you to put your damn hand it!!!!!!
@5:05
She hasn't had alot of feedback on how to deal with men. Have you seen her mom on the show? I'll let you make your own interpretation on her, but growing up her dad was very verbally abusive and her mom was like other moms (Katherine and Tina) there is nothing wrong with a woman who has a backbone you set a good example for your children. If you don't have a backbone your children will end up like Fantasia.
5:11
Guess what? its more fantasias out there than not. get the real low down on most of the people that throw hate her way. its like the pot calling the kettle black up in here. Thank God my mother is who she is, or I would surely be lost.
I agree with 4:41pm,it doesnt make sense keep bashing and judging her.She dont seem that much of a bad person,It's a classic situation of a guy playing both sides of the fence playing both females just sleep with the other bcus the other has a name out there and she got more bread then the one he said "i do" to.It was her fault after realizing he was married and still pursuing you cant help how you feel i guess for her part but its logic over feelings at the end of the day and that's what fantasia should of stuck with but she's not a person that use logic.I just hope she can get over that loser low life of a man that would lie on his marriage for some ass.I feel bad for the wife being betrayed and fantasia falling for this clown,I hope the best for them
Did anyone see the smirk on this man's face on her show. He Fantashia, that he had moved into a one bedroom apartment, and that he was happy being alone (single). What was it that she missed when he made that statement, while having a sly look and smirk upon his damn lips. Look I an a resident of North Carolina born and raised here, and Fantashia has pissed me off. We have supported you through your career and even have been rooting for you through this mess, only find out you had an abortion!!!!. For God sakes what is the problem? Even a deaf man knows that North Carolina carry these grandaddy slave as laws about breaking up a person's marrige and what the outcome could be. I can understand wanting a man outside of the industry, but wanting a married man, somebody else problem,I just don't get it. Fannie I love you, but my prayer for you is that you get your shit together and start loving yourself before you try an love someone else. And to Fantashia's father Mr. B, you need to help your daughter to heal, because her problems started with you. The decisions that she has made with her choice of men, tells me that she is looking for that love she did not get from her you.
Everyone excuse my broken writing above, but this Fantashia saga has me upset. I was tryign to say that her father need to step up to the plate in the healing process of his daughter. She is in search of a man who can give her the love she needed from her dad.
Now they need to put the other tramp that Antwan slept with so they can show that Fantasia WAS NOT the cause of the demise of the marriage. This guy admitted that he lied on national television, so how is she responsible for the failure of the marriage.
Fantasia reminds me of this dingbat that I knew who was always caught up in some s/h/i/t because she let emotions get in the way. Once a man lies to you, DROP HIM! So this b/i/t/c/h a/s/s/ wen tand told his wife everything huh. Fantasia, sweetie, they set you up and you fell for it like an idiot, and your mother is the dumbest b/i/t/c/h on the planet, trying to look fly with her USELESS a/s/s. It's a shame that Debbie Allen had to come in and rescue this girl because Aunt Bunny and Momma want to look sexy. Aunt Bunny running her mouth on camera about you and Antwan didn't help you either,,,,what an ignorant lot her family is...UUUUGH!
@ 5:18
I agree with you, it is some hypocrites on this blog who clearly don't grasp the concept that their own drawls are shitty but want to talk about someone else. I supported Fantasia all along but I'd be lying if I didn't say she has upset be a little bit because she is a mother and she is acting this way....none the less I hope this gets resolved cause unlike everyone else I'm not trying to drown myself in her misery.
Why indeed did he tell his wife that? If she was as mad as she seemed to be, why is he giving this info up to her? was he trying to get back with his wife? NO NO My Dear Watson, something is def rotten in Demark! And it smells like a scam.
Co-sign with 5:32
It's like I like Fantasia but damn...she has upset me too even after I was riding with her and all this mess is coming out. If I was her I would just settle or try and prove he slept with other women during the course of his marriage prove that they are extorting her...throw that ish right back in their face.
...danm fantasia got a wide mouth...
I think that Antman and his wife are trying to "come up" off Tasia. The both look a little broke. Not broke broke but rich broke if you know what I mean!
good thing her album faired well- she'll be forking over that dough to antwan and her ugly azz wife- and they'll be laughing at her azz all the way to the bank.. with her money- ha!
hope the dick was good dummy
Fanny is really backed in a corner. She clearly had no idea that the other side had this much info, or she would have not gone to court. We called this a scam from day one, it is really looking that way. Twan and is wifey looking real dirty right now! hope the real truth spills out and fanny learns a lot from this.
5:39 PM - you got a point there- too bad she's too stupid to figure it out-
Fantasia gurl gurllllll . You wrong to keep messing around wit that sorry ass nigga you feening over. This fool has put in you in a bad sitution ma and he don't mean you no good. You might have to cough up a few bucks to the missus for her (uh you know heartache).I really like you but you gone have to do better booboo
5:32
I understand you should leave a man once he lies but what does that prove if he himself hasn't change. If we start holding men accountable for their action then we can expect better results. Let's be realistic if you left everytime someone hurt you I would be married to myself. So what do you do, I tell you what you do stop blaming everything on women and hold men accountable for their actions...or are we scared that if we put our foot down that they will just leave you for a white woman or man for that matter...you will be surprised at what some women will put up with due to fear of being alone.
All Twan is going to do esp. if he is good looking is go to the next unexpected woman and to the same damn thing!!!
Twan got away with it cause he wasn't bad looking she got exploited like many women do who have been thru what she has.
SNAP*
NOW I SEE WHY HE SAID HE NEEDED A DRINK BEFORE HAVING SEX WITH FANTASIA.. TO CLEAR HIS CONSCIENCE.. HE AND HIS WIFE SET FANTASIA UP FOR EXTORTION- AND HE HAD TO MAKE FANNY BELIEVE THAT THE ISH WAS REAL....wowwowwOwowwo- this is deep....I thought he needed to be drunk becuase her body looked wack! that should have been the firwst sign fanny- I mean damn- how low is your self esteem.. I pray for her daughter
LMAO @ 4:37pm...RIGHT ! you know how we do ! at least how I DID when I was young (early 20's) I would tell a man I was pregnant and if he wasn't talkin right then I say I had an abortion to make him feel guilty , lol yep I'm guilty ! soooo glad I'm now older, wiser and more mature......
GOD BLESS HER 4 DOING THE RITE THING & NOT BRINGING A CHILD INTO THIS SITUATION!! MY PRAYERS R WTH HER, YOU GO FABOOGIE
Question:
How did Paula Cook's Lawyer get a hold of that letter ?
Answer:\
Antwn GAVE the lawyer the letter !!!
Conclusion:
Paula Cook & Antwn SET Fantasia up !!!!
I feel sorry for her now......She going to get racked for MILLIONS !!!
I hope the d--k was good.
I hope she had MULTIPLE ORGASMS !!!!
5:32
I understand you should leave a man once he lies but what does that prove if he himself hasn't change. If we start holding men accountable for their action then we can expect better results
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In my case, I HAVE TO LEAVE, otherwise the liar's brains are going to be all over the sidewalk. Most of these punks don't want to be men. The men from my generation are nothing but TRASH! They think it's funny to run around sleeping with tons of women instead of creating a legacy, so them accepting any sort of accountability is basically a lost cause. Women need to be smart when it comes to men..I mean Fantasia has no real support because her whole family is STILL in her pocket. She needs someone to call her on her crap in PRIVATE!
The bottom line is: Fantasia didn't WRECK this marriage, this jerk was a hoe WAAAAY before he met Fantasia, but she did throw a monkey wrench in any plans for reconciliation. Oh, and YEAH: They set her up.
how about this, fantasia would only have to replace the lost income that his wife would have recieved from him being her husband if they were staying together. he did not make that much, so no I don't think that she will rack up millions and millions from fanny. He literally is not worth that much. if she does win, it won't be for the rediculous amount that people think it will be.
The real damage will not be to her pockets by way of being sued, it will be by way of her rep being damaged wich will eventually lead to her pockets.
@ 6:01
I am 5:32 and I am like you I leave the relationship if I not getting the respect I need. However it does get tiring. I'm single now but it's like I don't want to always be this way. But the way things are going now it's like what do you do? You are right men are trash but they also need to be held accountable for what they do if we want better results.
I HAVEN'T read ANY COMMENTS Yet but I WILL over the weekend regarding this post (Real...)
I'm NOT A FEMALE so I think this LAWSUIT is Ridiculous & Mrs. COOK is Beyond STOOPID (IMO) and Females I KNOW would handle Mrs. COOK Street-Justice style... Trust THAT TRICK wouldn't LIVE LONG Enough to enjoy WHATEVER Monetary Settlement that Court system in NC warranted (Just Being Real Here...)
@ 6:01
I am 5:32 and I am like you I leave the relationship if I not getting the respect I need. However it does get tiring. I'm single now but it's like I don't want to always be this way. But the way things are going now it's like what do you do? You are right men are trash but they also need to be held accountable for what they do if we want better results.
6:17 PM
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My question would be: How do you hold these bastards accountable if everything starts out with a lie, and when they get caught in a lie they try to reverse the lie back to you? I understand your point.
6:15 PM
Thats not true.. fantasta already offered her 100 thousand.. but paula and antwan didnt take that first offer.. they know they stand to get much more
@6:27
My question would be: How do you hold these bastards accountable if everything starts out with a lie, and when they get caught in a lie they try to reverse the lie back to you? I understand your point.
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You got any older brothers or cousins...well there is your answer and while your ex-bf is on the ground getting his ass whopped get your licks in then :)
As women we need to let men settle things with other women instead of jumping to our man defense. Let him get his ass kicked a few times and to straighten him out a little bit. You will have a whole new man :D
Correction as women we need to allow men to settle things with men. What I would do to have a older brother to deliver a beat down to a few ex bfs.
Mr Cook not only told Mrs Cook about all the trips, gifts, and money that Fantasia gave him.. he also recorded a few of Fantasia's conversations... this will come up in court later on- set back and enjoy the show.. this is only the tip of the iceberg!
And yes, correct, Mr Cook is still involved with Fantasia, because he wants to be the first to know any and all moves that she makes.. he doesnt want her to get smart and try to build a case against his wife.. its cut and dry - Mr and Mrs Cook will move out of NC once they get their millions.. they're looking in Florida.. bet cha wondering how I know huh? haha
I want to take a comment back that I had made. Twan is not cute I only made that claim giving the few photos I had seen of him. I went to vh1.com and saw the latest esp. of him and he was ugly. He has a pimply face and he looks slow.
Tasia be done with this man please.
@ 6:44
U aren't to bright to be posting that ish on the blog. You can't erase what u posted only the administrator.
Clearly it's a set-up and GOD don't like ugly, Mr. Cook or Mrs. Cook aren't anything to brag about, and who knows what he has up his sleeve. You can't trust a liar and a manipulator believe that.
Tasia barely has any money to eat and album sales are low. So I'm trying to figure out what money is the wife trying to get. Sounds like Antwaun and the wifey set Tasia up for the okey doke.
Well she just admitted she was fucking him while he was still with his wife....I would have kept saying I can't remember or I don't recall like the seasoned white liars do.
@6:59
Clearly none of the MF's are bright. Of all the celebs to extort money from why would you pick Fantasia who is got as much money as my ass do. I like Tasia but come one...u get my point. Then you got some dummy on her posting the Cooks business thinking they got one over one somebody. It's laughable they got plans to live in Florida...for how long. She a school teacher which means she is damn near unemployed herself(school teacher don't make chit) and he works at T-mobile...I mean come on. Don't think you gone be living the high life cause that money will come and go as soon as they got it. Trust and Twan will be gone for good!!!
So the Cooks gone be living the high life as a school teacher and a Tmobile sales man ahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha that is the best damn laugh I have had all day. They gone be back in the projects before you know it and Twan will be onto his next victim believe that.
6:34
100,000 is a far cry from millions and millions. If fanny's lawyers thought she would stand to loose that much she would have offered more. The money situation aint that deep. the real damage will be to her name.
Its a known fact that Fantasia's latest album has favored high on the billboard charts. No one told her to take Mr. Cook's bait. And just so you'll know- the plot was to inform her that he was in fact a married man before intercourse. This too, will be revealed in court. She brought this on herself. You ask, why Fantasia?? She has more revenue that you all think. Mr. Cook will go to great lengths to care for his family- that too, is a known fact!
7:06
your pockets deep like tasia's? GTFOH! Sit Down.
PRAYER PARTNER? Wow...wonder how much praying they were doing before she sent him back home to his wife.
@7:09 PM - She initially underestimated Mrs. Cook and tried to offer her 100,000.000. After thorough research, she found out that Fantasia is worth over 5 million. Mrs. Cook is asking for 2.5 million in emotional damages
So he didn't move out the house till June and Tasia writing him love letters in May....that's proof right there she was already knee deep while he was still living with this wife.
@ 7:11
Although Tasia has upset me with this case. I am a true fan. I clearly made a joke about how much money she has BUT as I was saying when I think of "money" I don't think of Fantasia...sorry. Where is she getting money from? She ain't doing coonye numbers sales and everyone knows reality t.v.don't pay that much money...so again where are you coming from???
Mr. and Mrs.Cook are asking for 2.5- they are guaranteed at least 1 million- Fantasia will loose this one- the lawyers will negotiate a settlement of 1 million and that will be the last time she sees the Cooks-
Clearly we have a extortion case on our hands...I hope her lawyers can dig this info out. Go and supeona people that are close to the Cooks. Fantasia do your homework on these people.
If the Cooks are going to get 2.5 million, trust it will be taxed and gone before Twan can step foot out the front door. With two kids and a greedy husband and wife that money won't go too far.
7:13
That dont mean she will get it. the law shows that if found guilty she should have to compensate for lost income that would have come into the house if they stayed together. He wasn't bringing no where near that much home. just cause the person being sued is rich, don't mean that you deserve that much in settlement or in court. being guilty is not enough of a reason to get that much. her lawyer bill will be higher than what the cooks will get.
the case in her state that awared millions to the ex wife was becuase her man was bringing in major dough like that, and when calculated it showed that if they stayed to together she would have gotten millions from him, so him and the mistress had to fork it over. just because fanny is guilty of being with him, it is not a sealed and shut case, they still have to prove that she was the main reason why their union fell apart. not so easy when your man a cheat from the gate and yall had problems before.
Fantasia is slow and ghetto as all hell- we literally almost passed out when we found out that she actually got the tattoo than Antwan suggested. He picked out the sleeveless dress with the kriss cross front ( I even think he paid for it) We were in total bliss once we saw her on magazines with that "Cook" tattoo- that's when we knew we had her- hell f*&K Fantasia's triffling ass- she NEVER should have cursed out my cousin like that.. she gonna pay, no doubt
7:20
stop counting her dollars, you have no way of nowing how her money is invested or what type of returns she gets. you have no way of knowing how much she makes from the things she does. but do know that girl friend aint hurting money wise by no means, just her heart is broken.
@7:26
Is why Black women need to mind they own business (if what you are saying is true) they are married let them handle their own problems. Why you all up in it like you married to slow looking Twan with the pimply face.
You can be mad at Fantasia all you want the problem is still Twan. Why would any woman want a man like Twan anyway? Working at T-mobile like he got mad game....nucca sityopimplyfaceassdownsomewhere
7:26
give your hateful ass fingers a rest, your cousin prob deserved every drop of that curse out.
So Fantasia cussed out a bitch who was setting her up anyway...so flucking what??? You sound crazy, cause what you said makes no since to me.
Claps @ 7:32 1st
Exactly her damn near unemployed cousin (school teacher) got cussed out by a chick she was extorting money from. Sounds fair to me. Everybody in this situation is dumb
7:35 PM
That would be rich and dumb, thank you! And all my big cousin had to do was give that ol bumkin bitch some dick???? For a million dollars! Ha! Now that's dumb! And I'm sure my big cousin will ne laughing all the way to the bank! Free of charge! So say whatever you want about a T-mobile salesman! He will have enough money to buy his own T-mobile store! And trust, that dumb ass bumkin will take the bait again, if givin the opportunity. I've had conversations with Fantasia. She is not very bright to say the least and she is ADD
Hey Fannie is just dealing with the real world. Everyday a bitch tries to hook a brotha . It don't matter what he do or what he got, she just do shyt like that. A man can get what he want from a woman if his game is tight and she will still try to lock him down with a baby. I don't feel sorry for Fannie she just did what a bitch will do and this time he azz got caught up. Lesson 101 in doing some mean shyt.... if you gonna fuck another woman's husband keep your mouth close don't be saying dumb shyt to the wife. This what really pissing her off. When I do my shyt I shut the fuck up cause I know that somebody husband gonna pay double.She should have learm from the way her first baby daddy got over on her. All that need to be said right now is ' PAY UP DUMB BITCH" cause if there was a baby he would be paying.
Go get that Fantasia album. Lmao
@ 7:53
Are you mad Fantasia didn't give you no pussy? You are so emotionally invested in bringing another woman down. Your dumb ass cousin is so slow looking that he can't get a real job like a man that he got to extort it from a woman, and you co-signing the BS like a bumkin rat yourself. Do you have your own man/household to worry about, cause you all in his acting scorned like she forgot to break you off some p***y. When it all comes out, he is the one that is going to be looking bad, Who is going to hire him after this not to mention date him...at least no respectable woman will want him after this.
SCAM AND SETUP. SHE FELL FOR THE OKIE-DOKE...SHE'S BEEN BAMBOOZLED!! He gave the letter to the wife's lawyer? SETUP....THEY BOTH SET HER UP!!!
Looking more and more like Fanny was set up. She's going to end up paying. I'm surprised she didn't pay her off to avoid having to admit to an abortion. Gosple has always been a fall back for her but I don't know if you can admit that and still be accepted.
What is the difference between a hoe that sells her p***y clients in a hotel room and one that sells it on the streets...nothing they both hoes. You making urself out to be better than Fantasia and your aren't. You jealous and bitter and you taking it out on another woman, it makes you look stupid and if you are making all of this up you crazy.
LOL! maybe some of us females need to learn to not trust everything a man tells us. maybe some us nasty and stupid ass females need to gt sued and our wages garnished so that we can understand that if you willingly have an affair with a married man, you should pay the price. If her attroney can prove that she is not at fault, she walks away scott free with attroney fees, but if she shows that she knew, yep, she is going to pay BIG TIME! they need more laws like these. I divirced my husband two years ago when I found out that my old hairstylist had been sexing him the whole time we were married. If i could have suded them both, i would have. Wrong is wrong, and people just don't respect marriage anymore. If you going to fuck around with a mrrie dman, be prepared to get physically hurt if you get caught. I saw a bitch get hit pside the head with a bottle and went into a coma for a few days, she almost died over some dick. The bitch knew he was married, but h=his wife cam eto the club abd laid her down on the flor knocked the fuck out and almost dead. Ladies, men are dogs, have some class and keep your stanking legs closed. just because they got condoms and birth control does not mean you free to fuck anybody. Fantasia may have fallen into a trap, but she the dumb bitch. people with money don;t fuck around with regular 9 to 5 ers.
I really don't undrstand how anyone can come to Fantasia's defense! Smh. She had sexual intercourse with someone's Husband! Granted he put his game on her, be Anywan NEVER lied to her about Paula. The line was crossed when she took it upon herself to play on my cousins phone and she went as far as to curse her! She said horrible things to my cousin! Fantasia is not how you all think! She is a hoodrat bamma broad! Oh and Paula and Antwan are still married. After they snatch her money, he won't need to get a job!
The only reason some of you guys feel sorry for her country ass is because you know your ass cheated or had affairs. That just shows you how low life women are now a days.
U just as low life wishing bad on another woman that was intentionally led on by a man. U think u better than anyone else. U sound like a scorned woman willing to take down your own when you should of handled whatever personal problems you had in your own relationship and stop taking it out on Fantasia.
Ladies, men are dogs, have some class and keep your stanking legs closed. just because they got condoms and birth control does not mean you free to fuck anybody.
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And you need to tell that shit to MEN who cheat. Whenever ever u get thru with ur rant...YAWN. I knew u was scorned!!!
ALL THIS IS JUST A HOT GHETTO A$$ MESS. NOBODY'S HANDS ARE CLEAN. ABORTIONS, ADULTERY, LYING, CHEATING, SET-UPS,.......ETC. NONE OF THIS IS OF GOD AND GOD AIN'T PLEASED. EVEN IF TWAN AND HIS WIFE GET SOME ENDZ FROM FANTASIA, GOD IS NOT GOING TO BLESS THEM IN THE END. IF THEY ARE TRULY SETTING HER UP AND TAKING ADVANTAGE OF HER MENTAL SLOWNESS, THEY WILL REAP WHAT THEY SOW.
IT'S A SAD DAY AND TIME WHEN PEOPLE HAVE TO DO THIS TO EACH OTHER JUST TO MAKE A BUCK.
WHATEVER HAPPENED TO BEING A REAL MAN AND JUST GO GET YOUR OWN DOUGH?
FANTASIA NEEDS TO BE SMARTER THAN THIS.
Is pregnancy part of the reason she skipped out on a few "Color Purple" shows?
I don't condone cheating at all but this law ain't gone scare nobody. Men have been cheating from the beginning of time because dumb ass women always blaming the other woman instead of their "husband or bf" men have lost children, income and homes and yet that hasn't stop men from cheating. So get it out ur head that you really proving a pt my exposing Fantasia cause you not. A man is gone be a hoe regardless of what he has to loose, society says it's okay so he will keep doing it
IT'S A SAD DAY AND TIME WHEN PEOPLE HAVE TO DO THIS TO EACH OTHER JUST TO MAKE A BUCK.
WHATEVER HAPPENED TO BEING A REAL MAN AND JUST GO GET YOUR OWN DOUGH?
FANTASIA NEEDS TO BE SMARTER THAN THIS.
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That was my whole point. You have a married "man" going out exploiting women for a buck. Fantasia might be slow but so is Paula and Twan. Who would do this to somebody and then act innocent.
I hope you,"cousin," know that you are making Fantasia's defense on a blog. You are HURTING your conniving cousin, not helping. In fact, you're actually affirming that this was a scam and a set up...on the internet...which is public information. I sincerely hope for the Cooks sake that you are not really related to them. If you are, then wow...sure can't choose your family. Your rant, which should probably be kept to yourself anyway seeing that this does not personally affect YOU, is probably better off AFTER the case is closed. YOU have no idea how this will pan out. Are you some sort of legal scholar? Judging by your words and tone, I'll take NO for $1,000. Family, I tell ya. They are worse than perfect strangers off the street sometimes.
Fantasia, get on your legal team ASAP. Oh and leave the TRASH in the garbage. There is no benefit to the environment to keep recycling this male (not man) and his spouse, who are behaving like a country Bonnie & Clyde. You will feel the personal and professional ramifications of being involved in this mess to begin with (that's your fault), but the legal aspect should be clear given the sudden appearance of your letter to him, among other revelations from deude's big mouth ass "cousin."
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The only reason some of you guys feel sorry for her country ass is because you know your ass cheated or had affairs. That just shows you how low life women are now a days.
8:54 PM
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I guess you have never heard of compassion, empathy, wisdom, and grace. You know, the same characteristics that many of us would show you if you were caught up in this situation. Anyone with half a brain can see that she is being set up, and that she does not have anyone in her family or circle of friends who could have taken her aside and told her so. Stop being so judgemental. It makes your skin wrinkle.
*deep sigh* Let Us Pray
*bows head and pray*
10:05 where have you and everyone else with common sense been all damn day (I understand if you work-I'm just saying(lol) I ask because I thought it was just me that this "cousin" was a f*** trip, up here acting like it's cool to extort a woman for money because the world old them something. The world don't owe the Cooks chit and there day will come too, they aren't totally innocent.
Singling Fantasia out will not solve anything. They just want to set and example out of Fantasia and it wont work. So stop with the personal rants ur situation was unfortunate but this public raping of Fannie it will not take away what happen to u!!! Hollywood men have been forking over millions of dollars in a divorce and yet it has not stopped married men from cheating across the world. Men have always cheated because they can get away with it. All this will do is bring everyone neg. publicity. Wait a few months and men will still continue to cheat regardless if they are married or not.
@10:10 pm
anyone with sense would say to themselves, wow, I'm fantasia, a ghetto super star that went platnium. he is a regular working 9 to 5 brotha with a wfe and kids. I will look bad in the media's eyes if I have a torrid sexual affair with a very married man. Compassion is for those that admit that they were wrong, not always trying to kill themselves and gain public sympathy. the bitch admited to renting a hotel room with this fool, because she knew he had a wife. Wisdom should have told her to keep her legs closed! I don't feel sorry for women that try to play innocent. She knew she was fucking a married man, now she pays the price. She evn tated this dude on her chest. I'm sorry she is a simple minded female with low self esteem.
See even Alicia didn't get this rachett!
fantasia deserves everything that coming to her, set up or no set up. wanna know why? because she makes piss poor decisions and she brought it on herself. all this could've been avoided had she closed her legs to married men. period, THE END!! there's 6 billion people in the world, there's no reason she needed to fall for the bullshit of one who was already attached and with baggage.
ladies, do your homework about the company you're keeping BEFORE you become emotionally invested and start thinking with your heart instead of your head, making foolish decisions. especially when you have children; your decisions affect more than just you when you become a mother.
phANONmenal b
This man seems like scum, and it also sounds like he and his wife may have been in cahoots all along. Why would a man give his wife his lover's letter or leave it lying around where she could find it? Either he is completely stupid or in cahoots. There is no other plausible answer. I agree with those who say we should not judge. I just bet most of those who are judging Fantasia so harshly is guilty of far greater sin. If Paula Cook is not in it for the money only, then she is doing what most women do, and that is holding the other woman accountable for her husband's behavior. I say this because I read somewhere that Mrs. Cook blames Fantasia for luring her husband away with money and trips. If he was not scummy in the first place, if something was not terribly wrong in their marriage already, then nothing would have made him stray. I hope like hell Tasia doesn't lose this case.
Damn this shit is deep, Fanny you need to get it together and leave this man alone girl because he's nothing but trouble.
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What woman hasn't been cheated on. I don't need to be scorned to know that the bitch was wrong! you guys are just defending the wide foot country bitch because you know you could up on teh stand in court just like her tacky welfare looking ass. Keep saying it's a set up, be glad someones wife aint sued your whore ass yet.
For those that are just saying the man is wrong, get a reality check. He couldn't have fucked that ugly big mouth country bitch if she didn't spread her legs big and wide and let that dirty nicca in. They are both wrong, and that's the end if the story.
@5:45 PM
You ain't neva lied. and to cosign with folks who said Fannie was set up.
@10:05 PM
Cosign to the 9th power!! to the "cousin" you need to place the cold steel against your temple, I got a few hollow points I can lend your sorry ass. while I don't condone Fannies fuckeries this pathetic couple attempting to extort money from her, makes them scum. I would be tempted to get in on this, but Fannie need to learn a lesson on self love and self respect. as for Mrs Cook, her sorry ass hubby is filthy ass whore and her dumb low self esteem will still end up getting a divorce in the very near future. slow ass looking twan will bring her ass home an incurable std and spend any money he get's on other ho's. no good will come of this little scam of there's. I can't believe your sorry ass is on a blog bragging about this hoodrat s*it, you sound like a sorry ass muthafukka who needs to die asap!!!
@11:14
hand claps!b thank u !
Co-sign with NubianGoddez lamo at this "cousin" gurl let the chit rest. No one Let me repeat No one is saying Fantasia is right But neither are the Cooks, they will reap what they sow in the end. They look like scum, who are extorting this chick for money.
As far as Fannie being ugly, she couldn't have been to damn ugly. Usually when men fuck ugly women on the side its because who they usually with is just as ugly so what's the difference.
To add, yes I have been cheated on and lied to, but the minute I stopped being mad at the "women" and started being "mad" at the person I was calling my man, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders and all the anger I had went away. Being mad at the woman but keeping that sorry ass man around won't change chit, get rid of that said sorry mad will make u stronger as a woman. Trust!!!
When my hsband cheated on me I was upset at both the him and the other woman. She claimed that she didn't know, but how could you not see the kids toys and my heels in the back of the vechile.I questioned her over the phone, and I noticed that deep inside she knew, but she was in denial. I forgave her, and dumped him.Sometimes women are so into a man they close their eyes to the reality of the situation. I still believe it takes two to tango, and fannie was stupid to fall fir it.
It's hard for me to feel bad for Fantasia because she had a whole damn year to break up with this man. I remember when she was exposed by YBF last year for messing around with him, but then the story died down. The black blogs put her on blast again about the affair this year when she showed up on the red carpet with his name tattooed on her shoulder and those vacation photos of them together but the scandal had died again so she still had time to leave the dude alone. So she actually had 2 warnings to break up with him. However she kept seeing and when Nancy Grace reported what she was doing all hell broke loose because it made mainstream news. It's her own fault for getting into this mess, she could have left him a long time ago and this current court mess would not have been happened. I think she kept the affair going because she was looking at Alicia, Sanaa, Gabrielle and other female stars not being exposed by mainstream media so she thought she could get away with it too. Let this be a lesson to her and other people that just because you see other people doing something wrong doesn't mean you should do it too because you never know what you're consequences will be. Fantasia has almost lost her house twice and facing other finanical problems. I hope this is the final wake up call for her to get herself together. She has so much talent and potential to waste on such dumb decisions. I hope she also changes her management or whatever PR team she has because they are sorry as hell. There's no way it should have slipped out that she had abortion. Her reputation was already messed with the affair but the abortion really damaged her image.
11:48
I agree with everything u said but because the Cooks were trying to extort her for money, I believe he lied thru his teeth to get her to stay telling her he was "separated" when he was in fact still married. I too hope she learns from this and neeevvveerr does this again, cause I am tired of defending this heifer this story is getting uglier and uglier by the minute. I like gossip but I don't like this chit right here...
I just don't understand why Fantasia won't hire a private investigator?? I can't stand Beyaki but you best believe if this was her this was happening to that Matty would have been on this like a line of coke sitting on the dresser. Fannie need to get Matty to rep. her in this case if she wants to walk away with a little decency.
"Well if anyone knows Twan they would know that he will do anything to take care of his family"
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Clearly not being a sales clerk at T-mobile. He running around being a gigolo when he could have easily gotten a 2nd and 3rd job like most men do to provide for there families. He and his wife are two sorry ass excuses for real. They need to take their little money and live under a bridge somewhere. I believe the truth will come out one day they were having financial problems and the Cooks tried to extort her for money. We ain't heard all the facts folks!!!
On Fantasia's reality show, the episode where she discuss her attempt for "peace and quiet" via fake suicide.
I don't know what was worse while she was describing her ordeal, that damn THREE STOOGES wig hanging over her greasy forehead & them damn crocodile tears were as glossy as that nectar she had smeared all over them soup-coolers of hers.
Again, she kept saying she wanted peace & quiet. She could've just sat her ass in that closet a longer without that imaginary pill bottle.
What' really make her a real dumb ass, that fact she does regret attempting suicide or that fact of abandoning her daughter, Zion.
^^^^^ I meant, she "doesn't" regret.....
Now to this cuzzo bitch the one talking all that shit. You will find your ass up in the court house for running your mouth on this damn blog. Do you think because you signed in as anonymous that you can't be found? Oh you did not know that North Carolina Courts would ask for these statements that you made on this blog. Oh they have no problem getting a court order to trace your country ass. You need to watch your damn mouth fool. There are people in this music industry that will hunt your ass down. And your cuzzo ADHD Antawn is a punk ass low life uneducated fuck. It is clear that his wife is the one that wears the trousers in his house. There is no way his ADHA ass could have planned anything such as this. If I was his wife, Fantashia would have been viewing his ass from a box. She did not put a gun to his head to make him do shit. Bitch with all the mouth put your damn name up here on this board since you got so much mouth. And yeah they need to move but not to Flordia. You telling people that he will be two states over from NC.Stupid Bitch
Well look at this.. You niggers will call beyonce and willow names but when it come's to a cheating, stupid, "you sure is ugly" fanny mae, yall defending her... The black community has issues...
This ugly half dim whitted cheese mouth fanny deserves what's coming to her.... She knew twan was broke.. She is so stupid, still checking for hood nigger's. I know why, no one in hollywood wanted her. She had no choice... But she did have a choice to at least not let the hoodman be married. Did you see her last show? Did you see twan's television outfit?... Those pants and sneakers were busted. Damn bro there is something on the market called majic shave...This is a come up for him no matter how you look at it. Mrs. Twan is finally getting someting from this broke ass husband of her's. She took care of the family.. No way no how they could live in that house on his teen mobile salary. No way around it... Fanny you did it to yourself.. Yeah she shoulda picked the video guy, but he was not broke enough.
As a matter of fact she did date young Dro.. right, right, hahah he took her for her money too.. She is a stupid dum country hick.. this is not hre first time going through this type of relationship. This is her second time. count it 2nd time... Ahhhh she need's better people around her. awwww hell she will never learn..
Duuhh I don't know my name is Fan-tisy ooohh umm I mean fan-tasia hehe yeah dats me... I can read and sing dteh colors perpule... hahahahha lmfao
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Anonymous said...
HEY GUYS I HAVE A SPECIAL CHORE/GAME FOR ALL THE
FANTASIA AND BEYONCE FANS TO PLAY.I CREATED THIS
GAME JUST FOR YOU GUYS. YOUR WELCOME IN ADVANCE
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4:02 AM
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You's a fool for this one.
So am I for reading it...... LOL
Well look at this.. You niggers will call beyonce and willow names but when it come's to a cheating, stupid, "you sure is ugly" fanny mae, yall defending her... The black community has issues...
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No clearly you have issues, you feel the need to "go in" on Fantasia cause you don't like the way you look. Just because she may be unattractive doesn't give everybody the right to treat her worse because of it. That is exactly what is happening. AK didn't even go thru half the crap Fantasia is. Beyaki and Rihanna get alot of undeserving praise. Nobody like them because they are fake and put on this good girl image to fool the public and they don't fool me at all. We live in a superficial world we are giving Fantasia the benefit of doubt just like another celeb would have gotten (Beyaki or Rihanna) stop pretending you something special because the way you going at Fantasia you look more like her than you want everyone to believe..take that to the bank.
Because of that one poster I will write a open letter to Beyaki and Rihanna
Dear Beyaki and Rihanna
I understand that life has been good to you partly because we live in a superficial world and based on your looks you are able to "pull one over" on people and pretend to be someone you aren't.The goody two-shoes chic. That won't work for me, I know you hoes are evil and manipulative as they come. We don't see we only hear of those tack ways because you pay PR double time to keep "that side" of you hidden from the public.
Rihanna we heard the stories of you making fun of Nicki Minaj ass and Keyshia Coles boots, but you crying when people make fun of your cold sore on your lip...GTFOH
Beyonce we know how your father harassed the members of Destiny Child and drove one lady to drink herself to death. You hoes don't fool me, there are plenty of women who deserve empathy and it ain't y'all. I always fight for the underdog so while these blogs are on ya asses...count me out!!
TEAM FANTASIA! {{{Keep your head up!}}} It happens to the brokest of us!!!!! Live your life!!!
So she actually had 2 warnings to break up with him.
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She.also.had.the.offer.by.OprahWinfrey.to.mentor.her...She.turned.that.down.
After.she.could.not.make.the.ColorPurple.performances.on.time.
She.has.a.poor.work.policies.and.lack.of.self-control...it.is.just.sad!!!
"GOD BLESS HER 4 DOING THE RITE THING & NOT BRINGING A CHILD INTO THIS SITUATION!! MY PRAYERS R WTH HER, YOU GO FABOOGIE"
God doesn't bless murder. What would be better is for her to grow the hell up, act her age and be a decent woman and mother to her current child and stop laying down until she is ready to handle ALL that sex offers. If you aren't ready for children, you aren't ready for sex.
that ho was not pregnant.. she said that to keep him.. no lady forgets when she had an abortion.. that is a traumatic experience unless you just don't care.. I had an abortion in 1997 my first and last.. I remember it all like it was yesterday and believe me i wanted to turn back but it was too late, A shot had been given and it was to make my uterus contract and the medication had already begun to kick in.. see, lying to keep a man or make him come back has come back to bite her all up in her ass.. nicca told his wife.. he knew what he was doing when he did that..
12:48
I wouldn't say she didn't remember, she probably just didn't want to talk about it. Really it isn't anyone business but Fantasia so she really didn't need to talk about it.
You mean she is getting Brittney-ed!!
Lawyer: "Ms Barrino, when you wrote this letter, you said you wanted to be the mother of his children, is this right?"
Fantasia: "Uh huh."
^ She couldn't even answer a question with a yes or a no in a court of law? She sure has a long way to go. She may be able to afford some of the finer things in life for herself and her family, but money can't take the place of everything. Get a clue, Fanny.
All I know is this lawyer slow-roasted her ass. Who prep'd her for this, her lawyer's cousin Vinny?
She said she wanted to be the mother of his child(ren), yet she gets knocked up, presumably with his sperm, and aborts the child. Can't have it both ways, Fantasia.
For all the people who are saying that they are setting her up and why would Antwun give him wife the letter. First off we do not know these people, nor do we know how smart or dumb they are, Antwun was still living at home for a while how do you know that his wife did not find the letter on her own? Maybe Autwun is not a good cheaters, maybe the wife is way smarter then you believe her to be. I know most women and when we feel that we are being betrayed we look for the answers unlike men. I don’t want to be stupid or in the dark for no one I seek knowledge and I pray for truth because this situation goes way beyond the cheating party because it not just about you too. You can tell that most if ya'll don't have common sense and can't read between the lines because you to busy trying to justify a life that you live through Fannie situation. At the end of the day no one can caught you up when you are guarding yourself property. Why do side women think that they can even blame the wife because the classless actions? You choose to lay with you and that man not the wife. I do think that men should get a harder when it comes to cheating but women will never take such and intellectual stand against being played and treated like a sexual commodity.
Ya'll love to say that the wife is not taking care of home when the truth is you are not a good judge of character and think for some reason you are going to get it any better. Getting gift and money from a man who wants to play games with you is nothing compared to wasting years of your life and getting into a legal and costly situation like this one. People love to make reckless decisions and then want to be able to just part ways just as quickly as they entered them but that is not real life. I don't blame Paula and since she taken a legal stand it really doesn't matter what other people think. When will these loose women and men see themselves for what they are parasites they swear that they will get good in return for there evil deeds. I find that it is very hard to have class and good morals in this world people try to taught you and bait you so that they don’t have represent a better person in themselves if everyone is doing dirt but why be a follower. I am learning to not like men games and people actions to hold me back because I have the power and free will to make good choice in my life. Knowing you worth will always be more valuable then random dick and picking up company that will never value you beyond a quick FK.
Bee Gee
I think Paula got her chit together and it is Fanny and her legal counsel who is sleeping on this situation. They are surely slow roasting her ass.
*siping my tea and thinking...* anyone besides me believe this dude and his wife set fantasia up? bet when paula wins the case and get her money, dude will be back with his wife or get a cut. trust
@ regardless of what the "cousin" put on the internet is circumstantial evidence without hard stone facts (although sounds good) is nothing more than "hearsay"
@5:27 yup! He was smirking like crazy and lying his arse off couldn't even look her in the face.
Conartist to the fulliest. Faye got got. She is no different than the adverage joe who get got. If the rich can con the rich why not her her? Dude ran game and got sum pussy out of the deal. And the real trip about it is, She'll allow another joe blow to screw her over as soon as this shit clear. Shes too weak and no one in her family is worth shit as far as help. Their all money hungry too. The dam Daddy sued her. Brother fucked her house up and ect. She'll e back in the news over another lawsuit. And I smell Bankrupt.. If her lawyers were smart thats what they'll do. Most celebs do it in order to NOT get sued. But im sure after the lawyers get sum of her money and drain her ass dry then they will scream BANKRUPT. Watch this episole un fold.
Everybody wants to get into their own damn feelings on here. This is not about you this is about a couple who set a woman up who willing went for the bait. This law ain't gone stop people from cheating. People cheat because they just don't care yes they need to suffer consequences but lets not inject our own feelings in this case.
If you ain't over your own damn issues then you need to go to counseling and move the hell on. This is coming from a woman who has been hurt by men. When I started placing the blame on MY MAN and not the women cause they are just nobody's (the worst thing you can do to a nobody is NOT PAY THEM ATTENTION) the anger I had towards the women only made me bitter and it stress me out. When I placed the blame on the man I began to find out they were narcissistic so I really able to move on because if you know about narcissism they lack empathy and it is classified as a mental illness. It not U with the problem it's THEM...so let them go and move on with your life.
Conartist to the fulliest. Faye got got. She is no different than the adverage joe who get got. If the rich can con the rich why not her her? Dude ran game and got sum pussy out of the deal. And the real trip about it is, She'll allow another joe blow to screw her over as soon as this shit clear.
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That is what is wrong with society now, you say that with out compassion. No one deserves to get used. No man deserves to do this to a woman yes she was wrong but given the circumstances she was set up. Had she not been set up I would totally put the blame on Fantasia.
Bitter ass women refuse to grow up. When you support other women this type of crap won't happen. U keep acting the way you are then there will always be competition among women instead of unity to fight off manipulative ass men and their wives.
I really hope Fanny gets used. The bitch was acting grimy on another woman and the shit backfired. I'm glad.
Bitter ass women refuse to grow up. When you support other women this type of crap won't happen. U keep acting the way you are then there will always be competition among women instead of unity to fight off manipulative ass men and their wives.
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Well if you were not so willing to enter situation like there there would be on bitter women no I do not have compassion for a women who obviously has not compassion first. This is the after mass of the affair not the beginning. I would rather be bitter then a whore with no sense jumping on every dick because she is in denial about her character and choices. I can deal with the emotion of bitterness then losing money, class, love and children over a empty azz situation. Compassion that is laughable when does any cheater every have some compassion wheather it is a man or a women never.
12:02
U clearly missed the pt. U want to be miserable and bitter your whole that is on you. I'm 24 and proud. I get to live my life happy instead of wasting it on emotions on a man and woman who have move on and could care less that your ass is bitter.
Not being bitter means not carrying around stress and anger at a woman who means nothing. You were in a relationship with that man, that is who ass needs to be chewed out. Not to say that Fantasia wasn't guilty but when you focus so much on the other woman you are just bringing out inner emotional problems of feeling like you aren't adequate enough. I too was in your shoes until I saw the light.
I suspected my ex-bf was still messing with his child mothers even thru his denials. She wasn't much to look at by for 2 yrs I spent everyday being angry at her and even wanted to reconcile with the ex bf. Then I finally woke up and realized the man in question is a manipulative jerk who isn't a "real man" is a liar, depressed cheat that is still sucking off his parents titts cause he lives in a house he can't afford. I don't need that kind of man let his sect 8 ugly ass baby mama put up with his ass and since she is codependent she ain't got no choice but I do hahahaha. Shifting responsibility to him and not as much her gave me my independence back and I have been happier ever since.
Also while your ass is sitting there being bitter...the has yet to stop for you. You carrying around anger and stressing yourself out trying to make everybody pay only hurts you because for the rest of us life goes on. I have a exam on Monday and trust I won't be thinking about ur bitter ass....get the pt now???
You will gladly take his ass back 3 or 4 times before you get rid of him. While you talking. Being mad at the woman is just insecurities you have on your own part. Getting rid of that no good man and helping other women stay away from no good men is the only way you will truly be happy. Men aren't ever held accountable for cheating and they will continue to do it all while you are being hell bent on getting another woman who can give two shits about u.
I did not say that I was bitter I said that I would rather take on that emotion over being a cheater. I am not talking about my personal like why you are also taking it to heart. Women lie to themselves and let random men invade there lives. At the end of the day you can not change everything nor you caught everything but the average cheater bring this chit on themselves all day long and they are no compassion people because they specialize in selfish but always want some kind of pass that they never give to others.
I think that both sides should be held accountable the same. You got all of these women on here waiting for you to blame the man but what does that really have to do with your actions. So many women want to act like they should not not get the backlash but yes you should you enjoyed all the moment and told yourself anything to believe it. You know who never gets any real sypathy the wives now lets talk about them the hard working women trying to keep her family is healthy places and place while the cheaters never value you anyone else but themselves. I am get tired of women yelling stop blaming the other women let her blame who she wants let you fked who you wanted. She has no control over you body and choices and you have no control over how she feels and sees the situation.
@1:07 THE REASON WHY PERHAPS THE WIFE IN THIS CASE IS GETTING LITTLE SYMPATHY IS BECAUSE SHE'S MARRIED TO A DOG.
SHE KEEPS TAKING HIS ASS BACK.
SHE'S WEAK MINDED.
SHE'S GOING AFTER FANTASIA BECAUSE SHE'S FAMOUS AND HAS MONEY.
I'VE BEEN THE WIFE AND THE OTHER WOMAN AND PLEASE BELIEVE THESE CHEATIN ASS MEN PLAY BOTHS SIDES UP THE MIDDLE JUST KIKE MR. COOK.
99% OF THE MEN I MEET ARE MARRIED OR HAVE A GIRLFRIEND SO I WILL ALWAYS PLACE MOST OF THE BLAME ON THE CHEATING ASS HUSBAND!
NO WOMAN CAN TAKE YOUR MAN IF HIS CHEATIN' UNFAITHFUL ASS AIN'T WILLING TO GO NOUT HERE AND CHASE OUTSIDE PUSSY!
IF YOU KNOW YOUR MAN'S A DOG, GET HIS ASS A LONGER LEASH!
MOST MEN CHEAT.
MOST MEN HAVE NO DICK CONTROL.
THAT'S WHY I HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR WEAK ASS WOMEN WHO ALLOW THEM TO KEEP THIS DUMB SHIT UP AND THEN WANT SOMEONE TO FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.
MR.COOK MARRIED HER BECAUSE HE GOT HER PREGNANT. SIMPLE AS THAT. HE WAS ALWAYS A DOG. HE TARGETED FANTASIA AND FANNY HAD TO NLEARN THE HARD WAY LIKE EVERT OTHER WOMAN.
SORRY 4 ALL THE TYPOS BUT I JUST GOT MY TIPS PUT ON.....LOL
@12:38 I'M SO HAPPY AT A YOUNG AGE YOU GET IT! GOOD FOR YOU BECUASE THERE ARE WOMENB MY AGE WHO NEVER WILL.
BOTTOM LINE LET THAT LOSER HAVE HIS CODEPENDENT, WEAK ASS WOMAN. HER WHOLE LIFE REVOLVES AROUND HIMN BECAUSE SHE HAS LOW SELF ESTEEMN AND LOW SELF LOVE,
IT KILLS ME HOW WOMNENB JUST HAND OVER THEIR LIVES TO SOMNE BUM ASS FOOL WHO WILL STICK HIS DICK IN OTHER PUSSY IN A MINUTE!
WOMEN NEED TO BUILD THEMSELVES UP. MAKE A LIFE FOR THEMSELVES. DEVELOP SELF ESTEEM AND SELF CONFIDENCE AND MOST OF ALL KNOW THAT GOD DIDN'T PUT YOU HERE TO BE A DOORMAT.
@ 1:17
Thank U my whole pt. was if you are going to be mad at the other woman whoop her ass and move on but don't let the anger consume you and you just turn into this bitter hateful woman. Then you have the nerve to blame the woman but take that cheating ass man back and if you do move on you let him do this to the next woman because you didn't give him his dose of medicine.
Bitter women don't fool me if you are so focused on the other woman she must have something you don't have and that is where the anger lies. When I really looked at my ex- baby mother I had to slap myself because I spent so much time hating her when she was nothing to me. She was so ugly I though she looked like a man, she had no job or education and she was codependent to a dog.That bitch ain't got shit on me so why be angry at her just move on with my life and not waste emotion on her. My anger should have been to my ex-bf and although I have moved on I'm still waiting for his karma to come.
LEAVE FANNNIIIEEE ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She was never with child...this was a lie to keep Twuan interested...untill the ish hit the fan in the press about the entire fiasco
business in the streets again. Like something out of As the World Turns.
ITS FUNNY HOW PEOPLE PAST JUDGEMENT, THERE IS ONLY ONE PERSON FANTASIA HAVE TO ANSWER TO FOR HER SINS AND WHY EVERYONE IS GIVING THEIR 2 CENTS THEY SHOULD BE WORRY ABOUT THEIR OWN LANE, THERE IS NOT ONE PERSON ON THIS EARTH WHO HAS NOT SIN, THINK ABOUT SOMETHING YOU HAVE DONE IN YOUR PAST OR WILL PROBABLY DO IN THE FUTURE, ALL SHE HAVE TO DO IS ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS AND THE WIFE OF THE CHEATER PROBABLY HAD PROBLEMS BEFORE THIS SO REALLY IT SHOULDN'T BE ABOUT THE MONEY BECAUSE ALL THE MONEY IN THE WORLD WILL NOT CHANGE HIS CHEATING ASS, SHE DIDNT FORCE HIM TO DO ANYTHING SO WIFEY YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT THAT.
CON'T FROM 2:29, ALSO IF LAWS WOULB BE RE-WRITTEN AND STOP AWARDING MONEY TO EVERY STUPID CAUSE, PEOPLE WOULD STOP THE STUPID ACTS. MONEY IS ALWAYS THE END PRODUCT THAT MOTIVATES PEOPLE ACTION, HAD IT BE THE WIFE COULDN'T COLLECT ON HER CHEATING HUSBAND WHAT WOULD SHE DO THEN. GET THE HELL OVER IT AND MOVE ON, BUT NOOOOO THERE IS A HUNGRY ATTORNEY THAT WILL INSIST SHE COLLECT AND HE WALKS OFF WITH FATTER POCKETS AND WHAT DO YOU HAVE A BROKEN HEART, FANTASIA MOVE ON FROM THIS GIRL PEOPLE DONE WORSE THINGS, THIS IS NOT ANYTHING THAT HASN'T BEEN DONE BEFORE AND IF SUEING YOU HEALS HER HEART THEN LET IT BE BECAUSE WHEN THE MONEY ALL GONE THE HEARTLESS PAIN WILL STILL BE THERE.
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