Sunday, November 07, 2010

What's The Big Deal?

Real Housewives of Atlanta's Phaedra Parks can't understand why everyone is fixated on her husband's criminal record.

From Life and Style
"It's easy to criticize when you don't know someone," Phaedra tells Life & Style.

"He's my soul mate." The successful lawyer married Apollo Nida on Nov. 1, 2009, six months after he was released from jail -- he served almost five years for acketeering. "I know his character," says Phaedra about the man she's known since 1995.

"I knew he truly loved me for who I was and not for anything else. I respect him for the person I know he is -- and not for who the judge thought he was." The pair welcomed their first child, a son, over the summer. His birth will air on Housewives on Nov. 21.

85 comments:

Anonymous said...

that nigga with you for the money...he ain't stupid and he a down low too

Anonymous said...

Yeah, I'm more fixated on who yo baby daddy Is!

EssenceBeautiful said...

Lmao & watching the real house wives of Atlanta. What in the heck is wrong with Phaedra Parks thinking that a doctor is going 2 induce her labor when she's only 7 months pregnant not 2 mention she's saying the baby is 8 pounds at 7 months! I wonder does girlfriend knows that this is on TV... who in the heck is going 2 ...buy that! Lmao... 2 funny... unheard of, all of it.

Anonymous said...

So they got married in November 09 and she is saying she is 7 months pregnant in May 2010... Yeah its safe to say she probably walked down the isle with a gut full of human (not that there's anything wrong with that) and that's why she is lying about how many months she really is. Her saying people is judging Apollo without knowing... Isn't that what she does to Cynthia?

Anonymous said...

I like Phaedra but she is truly in denial.

And yes she is boughetto.Ol' Stuck up azz but I still like her though.She's so delusional and cute.She clearly believes her own hype.I love Phaedra.

LMAO cuz i'm numba 1

Anonymous said...

Somebody tell that hoe Phaedra nobody checking for that slow looking husband or his past.
We do want to know who her real Baby Daddy is.

Anonymous said...

^^^^LMAO!!!! Anytime a bitch life goes public, ppl want to know everything. If she wanted privacy she should've gotten on the damn show.

Hey Phaedra! It's really that simple stupid. And if you had some real connections we wouldn't know shit about him.

Anonymous said...

Clearly this itch is too stupid to know her career is based on her rep. Now if her client base consists of low lifes then she made the right move .

Anonymous said...

she represented ONE high profile celeb. so far on the show ive seen a regular hood nigga come in for drug charges and a washed up singer coming in to share her sob story. attorney to the stars my azz

and yes the only reason she got married is cuz she found out she was pregnant, she wanted an abortion but apollo made her keep it. watching her, u can clearly see shes not happy about becoming a mother

Anonymous said...

In the last episode he took that pickle in his mouth like a pro....plus that gay guy that does Sherise's hair said he knew him...CASE CLOSED.

Anonymous said...

Ooops I meant to say the gay guy that does Sheree's hair.

Anonymous said...

Hey guess she figures all the "successful" black men (IDIOTS) are marrying strippers and ho's who are only with them for fame and money so why she can't marry a thug ass pickle sucking faggot who want her money too...

Anonymous said...

I agree with Anon@ 1:24am; don't nobody care about her husband, or her due date. She apparantely don't know and it up to me to keep up with it. At this point, I don't even wanna know who her raggedy baby daddy is...

Anonymous said...

I hope he gets all ten of them pennies you got stashed in the bank.

Anonymous said...

12:37
NO ONE'S SHOCKED BY YOUR ADMISSION ONE BIT, I'M SURE YOU TWO WOULD BE THE VERY BEST OF FRIENDS

bogart4017 said...

I'm wondering why anyone would fixate on this show.

Anonymous said...

Amen@@@7:38am...it.seems.the.sluttier.a.woman.is.the.more.the."successful"blackman.wants.her...Or.They.chase.down.white.women.until.it.is.embarasssing...We.as.race.have.long.road.ahead.

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IF.they.do.date.and.or.marry.an.accomplished.black.female.they.(blackman)works.overtime.to.tear.her.down.due.to.his.own.insecurities.

Anonymous said...

well considering 25% of black men are in jail, on parole, or on probation, it is what it is... dont think you wont fall for a brother who has a past. because you might. as long as he has a job and is treating her well, i dont care. there are enough people out her who arent being treated well for us to worry about.

Anonymous said...

For "acketeering"? It's racketeering... oh I tell you. SMH

On topic: The man was incarcerated for 5 years? That just screams homosexual activity. Sorry.

Anonymous said...

Wow. I see the BBC (Bitter Bi**h Crew) is in full effect. Here we go with hatin on black men again.

Anonymous said...

does he look GAY? yes he does

is he actually GAY? don't know but the prison term doesn't sway me to think HE 100% ISN'T

some women just like men they can control in every way they want to and if they happen to be GAY... then so be it, these type of women want what they want by any means necessary!

i'll end by what my aunts would always tell younger females that would listen to her for advice... if you're a straight woman and want to live a sexually healthy then know & understand the ONE THING...

GAY DICK ISN'T GOOD DICK FOR YOU!

TruthBeTold said...

I do not like this woman.

Anonymous said...

i know why people care either. its her life.

Anonymous said...

oops, i meant to say i don't know why people care either. its her life. just because a man (black) is in jail doesn't mean he can never have a life again.

Anonymous said...

She'll be on Oprah just like Terry McMillian looking a damn fool, just like Terry Mcmillian.

Anonymous said...

In a way I understand cause she is an attorney. But on the other hand it's typical of African American to be hypocritical. Everybody need to mind their own damn business. She is the only one that is married to him and the only one that has to wake up to him in the morning. Get a life...worry about ur brother or uncle that has been locked up for the last 5 years. mmmk

Anonymous said...

So she has known him since he was 15 *sideeye*...cause he clearly said on the show he was 30. #beyatchplease

Anonymous said...

Wow. I see the BBC (Bitter Bi**h Crew) is in full effect. Here we go with hatin on black men again.
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I am normally the president of that club!!! But I judge on a case by case basis. I think everybody needs to mind their own business. The girl is in Atlanta I mean is their really a whole lot of men to choose from? If she was dating Man Man from Crenshaw you would complain about that. Now that she is dating a dude that doesn't look like a thug and got into some minor trouble we still give her flak. Hell maybe Black straight attorney men aren't into Black women in Atlanta, so let the girl do her.

Anonymous said...

11.50
its not an african american thing, its a black thing. blacks from other countries are the biggest hypocrites out there

Anonymous said...

11.50
its not an african american thing, its a black thing. blacks from other countries are the biggest hypocrites out there
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The moral of that story is that everybody needs to mind their own business. If we took this blog and started pointing out everything thing about you, you wouldn't like it. Half these people on here got babies by a man that got 4 or 5 other kids. Hell half the men on here got babies by women with 4 baby daddies and yet we judge her like y'all GOD. Granted she is a classless bitch, I will grant you that but when it comes to who she chooses to be her husband that is HER BUSINESS

Anonymous said...

Half of y'all ain't even married and yet want to comment. Who gives a f** who she is married to? She is married to him not U.

Anonymous said...

How bout everybody just mind their own damn business. Alot more important things to worry about than this useless "reality" TV.

I'm from Atlanta and these wannabe's definitly don't repesent Atlanta women.

Anonymous said...

12.03 the moral of my story is stop saying its a african american thing, when we all know thats not true.

Anonymous said...

How bout everybody just mind their own damn business. Alot more important things to worry about than this useless "reality" TV.
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Thank U

Anonymous said...

Everyone is saying oh but look at her job title. Don't you think ur title is important too, you have put up with ur share of a man's BS and yet we judge her like we are so holier than thou. Half of y'all don't know who your daddy or your baby daddy is and yet y'all judge this tacky bitch so much. Judge her on her stank attitude and less on who she is married too

Anonymous said...

I have never seen the show so she must not be very relevant....

V...

Anonymous said...

Phaedra had something to do with his incarceration. She worked at Geico he did time for vehicle frauds. They got married to cover her ass. Can't force anybody to testify against their spouse. They are both criminals.

Anonymous said...

12.19
how about you get a life.

Anonymous said...

@12:21, 12:19 and dumb ass 12:03.
No matter how shady someone elses life may be we at least have the common sense to not appear on tv for the world to judge us. So if my lifes a litte f'd up I at least keep my shit in the in my home. So if you are so concerned about people minding their own business tell the hoodrats to stay clear of cameras and we won't even know who the hell they are.

You put your nasty drawers out to dry we are going to talk about it.

Anonymous said...

"You put your nasty drawers out to dry we are going to talk about it."

LMAO! True. Celebrities put their lives in the public eye to be talked about. That's one way they make money. If those mofo's don't like the negative attention they got two options:

1. Straighten up and stop acting a fool publically.

2. Exit stage left.

Anonymous said...

@7:32 AM: "In the last episode he took that pickle in his mouth like a pro....plus that gay guy that does Sherise's hair said he knew him...CASE CLOSED."


Lawrence said that a friend of his is friends with Apollo and that's how he knows Apollo. So, because Lawrence is gay that means that the friend he spoke of must be gay too...?


And if that friend is gay then Apollo must be gay by association...? Gay guys can't have straight male friends...?

Anonymous said...

why is single starting to sound like the way to go these days

Anonymous said...

Why the fuck she worried about what people think, bitch live your life and ignore jealous bitches that don't have a man.

BTW apollo is a handsome man

Anonymous said...

well Ms. PhaePhae how is that you are such a judgemental bitch towards everyone else but you can't handle when it's done to you. Funny thing is folks are just pointing out the facts. And since when did white collar crime become better than all the other crimes out there?

Anonymous said...

Please STFU @ all the people saying "mind your own business." This is a gossip blog folks!

Phaedra is one stuck up b*tch if I've ever seen one..and this is coming from a stuck up Cali b*tch LOL..so no sympathy for that a$$. And, for the record, Cynthia is a bad b!tch and Phaedra knows it..

I'ma need the church to say Amen @ 7:32
Thank you..the man was in PRISON for six years..come on now! And he is super pretty, so you know he was getting the business!! I don't care how fine a man is, if he was locked up for several years, I'm looking sideways and exiting the building!!!

Anonymous said...

Beautiful couple, I bet they have a beautiful baby. That is all.

Anonymous said...

Phaedra is a bish but seriously Apollo is a lucky man to have her love given his past and now they have a son. I say we need to stop dogging them out due to the child. It's not his fault that his parents are a trip. The odds are against this family, but I pray that things work out for them. For their son. Black love is beautiful and I wish them the best. Seems like they both are trying to make lemonade out of lemons

Anonymous said...

So what he was in jail!! So a chick who is a lawyer cant marry a guy cause he was in prison???? So if a man goes to jail that means he not marriage material anymore for the rest of his life? People do things some get caught and they serve their time and life goes on. Alot people go on to lead very good live. At least he aint a drug dealer, rapist or a murderer.

Anonymous said...

My dude could go to jail for 10 years and not be attracted to another man!! All brothers who go to jail for a long amount of time does not mean they was getting it in while they were there. People do have self control.

Anonymous said...

@3:34
So how long you been out? LOL

The Real Fedup said...

Oh fam holding me back, cause I am going to say what I really feel for "Fakedra" in my comment.


First of all "Fakedra" needs to shut the fuck up and just disappear from the show. She is an embrassment to her family and her husband.

Perhaps if she was not so judegmental at everyone on the show and Americans as a whole, perhaps people would not been so harsh on her husband's past! I love NeNe on the show for calling her fake ass out!

If you ask me, Apollo seemed very respectable and had more manners on that show than "Fakedra's" entire pinky toe put together. She was rude, crude, and down right ghetto underneath all the bullshit she was trying to promote!

She constantly paraded her law degree as an excuse for her to stick her nose down at folks. Meanwhile during the show she displayed hoodrat and typical ghetto behavior that was no different then some sisters in the hood with no college degree! Her law degree didn't amount to shit at the end of the day!

What respectable lawyer would marry a convict? A ghetto one who is desperate for a man to walk on! Apollo appears as a weak man who got no balls to stand up towards his wife attitude. This man was in jail in ATL! Out of all places he was exposed to the highest degree of gay males in this country besides San Fransciso. Lawerence said he knew Apollo through a friend.
*blink blink*
So Fakedra is going to pretend her man did not dip into another man's booty hole that entire time?

GTFOH Fakedra! She had the nerve to talk about her man is clean! HOW THE FUCK WOULD SHE KNOW? Fakedra was not in jail with this man 24-7!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Then to add insult to injury the bitch couldn't even lie right. She couldn't even tell people when her due date was! As Nene said either the baby is not Apollo's or she got pregnant before they got married. So if she got knock up before she got married, what was the big deal????? Fakedra can drop the motherfucking act!

How can a woman who is pregnant for the first time behave so a loft is beyond me! She acted so stupid on this show! Then to lie to the other castmates and viewers on TV talking about she going to induce in 7 months! GTFOH FAKEDRA! YOU ARE 9 MONTHS and trying to hide it from folks!

As a healthcare professional, I know she is full of shit! There are no gyn doctors in this country that would automatically early induced without no medical reason to do so!

She must think Americans are stupid to fall for her bullshit. I am so glad folks is not falling for her bullshit and calling her ass out!

Fakedra BYE GIRL!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

LOL @ 3:42
Seriously, a man does not have to be attracted to another man to have sex with him. Dudes in prison use sex as a means to control and manipulate other men. It's all about power. And, from the looks of Apollo, I'm thinking he was a bottom!!
As soon as Lawrence said he knew him, that sh*t was a wrap!!

The Real Fedup said...

^^^^ 401 yep...homeboy was getting it and giving it! Trust....look how he was sucking the life out of that giant pickle!

Anonymous said...

@3:42 u silly and i was thinkin the same thing, a nigga named apollo and he isn't a wrestler,ole pretty boy ass faggot!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

ole phaedra yelling out she's a christian and was raised in the chruch, but why are they the ones that act the sluttiest of them all,babies out of wedlock,taking care of niggas! failbitchfail!

Anonymous said...

Yeah,he.is.still.a.nice.looking.man.

Anonymous said...

@ 12:47

Clean up on aisle 4, instead of day dreaming get back to work.

U ain't nothing but a hypocritical jealous bitch. His past is his past. U stank ass don't need to comment on it just cause it's out there. U a catty bitch and you just like to keep people down. Worry about ur own life and your own man that's if u even have one. Which I highly doubt, you too busy in everybody else business.

Anonymous said...

@ 12:43

Why don't you get one yourself, u hating ass bitch

The Real Fedup said...

For those of you who miss Fakedra's ridiculous statement on yesterday's episode here it is:

http://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-atlanta/season-3/videos/season-3-episode-6

Anonymous said...

@4L34

Shut the fuck up

Alwayz Real said...

I can't stand this bitch for some reason so I rather stay seated. To break this shit down...she ain't shit and Apollo was "Booty Warrior's" cellmate. You Tube "Booty Warrior"

Anonymous said...

4:59

So suck a fat one you hating ass bitch

Anonymous said...

@ 4:59

Is why Black men don't want Black women always in somebody else business, no life having ass ho. How old are u to even be e-fighting with somebody, u probably around my mama's age. Shouldn't you be picking the lint out of ur depends and watching Dr. Phil?

JeminiBish said...

her man sure can handle a pickle I wonder if later that night if Phaedra inserted it into his ass im sure it was wide open with his fag ass No MAN spends 6 years in prison and don't allow a man to pleasure him every once and awhile and he looks like a pretty boy too! yes he is a BOTTOM smdh Follow Me On Twitter: @iLuvJeminibish

Anonymous said...

Nov. 1, 2009, six months after he was released from jail -- he served almost five years for acketeering. "I know his character," says Phaedra about the man she's known since 1995.

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first of all- I dont buy that she's known him for that long.. 2ndly- he gonna do whatever she says- since gthey have a "fixed" marriage and that baby aint his- that why apollo dont work- that was part of the agreement.. he's a kept man and she pays the bills, ect.. also he's bisexual!

Anonymous said...

I wonder why she ditched the REAL baby's father! Are they gonna air that episode?

Anonymous said...

OOOOHHH- now I see why she lied about her due date.. cuz she said she married the conflict in nov of 09.. that would have only made her no more than 8 months pregnant.. she was more far along than that and

A: either she got pregnant before she got married

B: the baby aint his

either way.. she is a lair! movin on.....sips tea*

Anonymous said...

This b*tch comes off fake as hell anyways. I wouldn't be surprised if they do have a fake marriage and Apollo is a kept DL brother. She seems like the type who would get with him to have a "pretty" baby. Some people are all about appearances.

pizzle said...

um thats not his son

Anonymous said...

She is fake! What a publicity stunt to have Latoya from Destiny's Child to come into her office. Then she said, SOMEONE, "COUGH" Beyonce' and father were talking about this and that!!! That was funny! Did it anyone peep that bull shit?

The Real Fedup said...

^^^^ @ 6:45 Oh yes I did! Latavia let the cat out the bag! It was Beyonce who told her " I was told by somebody in the group, that you don't do enough in this group to have an opinion!"

It was no one else who told her that. It was Beyonce all along who dog them girl out from the jump.

ms mac said...

Am I the only one who notices that they're both wearing "Prison Orange" in that photo???????? Subliminal! :o

Anonymous said...

Phaedra is on some other nonsense. For a college grad she sure comes off dumb as rocks.
No one really gives a sh%t about his record in regards to him, had he been dating Kim drunk a$$ it would have been important for only a minute, but since you "Phaedra" act like you God's only daughter, better than all other humans of earth, it's weird that you married a defective.

Anonymous said...

Yall are killing me with the RHOA comments and cracks...Phaedra is fake as a two dollar bill. Who in the hell is she fooling that her husband committed a crime no different that "Martha Steward". I about dies when I heard this educated woman who is educated in law say such a horrid thing! Not to mention he looks DL/Suspect. So many bro in ATL are DL, and the way he was sucking that damned pickle, I cannot get it out of my damned mind.--ThatBKChick

Queenie Beanie said...

Cute couple. They'll probably have a cute baby- IF it's his baby. I'm w/ everyone else, F the fact that she married him fresh out of prison, WHY the hell does she keep lying about her pregnancy? Something is definitely up. And kinda off topic but when LaTavia came into her office, I'm sorry yall but that touched me- really. Now I see why people hate Beyonce so much. I might join the "I hate Beyonce" club too then damnit. I never did get to hear LaTavia speak. LaToya didn't say much because she made a successful comeback despite what Bey did. But it's like how can you love someone who shits on people and then moves on to live their life happily as if they've done absolutely NO wrong? And then make a song called "survivor" as if YOU'RE the victim? How heartless and reptilian is that? ::Shudders:: I come from a family full of people like that; they have that "So what I hurt you get over it" attitude, and sometimes they become the victim AFTER THEY do the vicitmizing. It's horrid. I may be a bleeding heart but I'm all for the victim/under dog. I just hope LaTavia does get her shine. Some people think the story is old and dry but I think it's long overdue to her. That is all.

Anonymous said...

^^^^ @ 6:45 Oh yes I did! Latavia let the cat out the bag! It was Beyonce who told her " I was told by somebody in the group, that you don't do enough in this group to have an opinion!"

It was no one else who told her that. It was Beyonce all along who dog them girl out from the jump.
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I saw that too, funny how RWS didn't put that clip up as a post, then all the Beyaki stans will see what the hell everybody else sees a conniving phony bitch hiding behind that donkey hair.

Anonymous said...

@ 10:09

Real Talk I thought I wrote that. U really made me feel so much better cause I damn near cried when my cousin left me a nasty voice message on my phone. I just gave my moms side of the family proof that she has Narcissism. And now they act like they don't want to believe it and get mad at the fact that I don't want nothing to do with her. Like u said I also come from a family that feels like "so what I hurt you get over it" I say f** em. GOD don't like ugly, he knows our struggles and see how people treat us you hang in there.

Quiana said...

Lord this woman is lying through her teeth. I think the baby is not his at all.

The Real Fedup said...

@1009 The scene touch me too! It just confirms Beyonce was a dam lier!

The Real Fedup said...

@1012...child the minute I saw that I put that clip up right on Destiny's Rehab. lol

Anonymous said...

In her defense. She "could" be telling the truth about her baby. My cuz had to deliver early and her baby was fully developed. That happens when you have gestational diabetes,a diabetic pregnancy.

Anonymous said...

@ 10:37

lol

Anonymous said...

@ 2:35

Personally I think she was pregnant before she got married. She was married in November and delivered her son in May. During that Mothers day episode that we say, clearly she was 9 months pregnant and came up with the stupidest lie she could find. So what she got pregnant before she got married she didn't have to make herself look that damn stupid either.

Anonymous said...

FUCK AROUND AND HE GOING TO BE WEARING YOUR PANTIES AND HEELS LIKE HIS LIL GAY ASS FRIEND WHO OUTED HIM ABOUT BEING IN JAIL. YEP THEY FUCKED. YES YOU ARE A VICTIM OF ANOTHER FAGGOT ASS NIGGA THIS SHIT HAS TO STOP!!!

Anonymous said...

She got some sexy ass lips. That is all.

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