Karrine 'Superhead' Steffans posted an open letter on her website explaining how for the past several years she's been in an abusive relationship. Karrine says she's been choked repeatedly, whipped with belts, thrown about, berated, belittled, raped, disregarded, embarrassed and abandoned.
And she signed it Karrine Steffans-McCrary.
So is this her way of telling us that Eddie Winslow has been beating her ass and raping her?
Karrine writes,
I’ve been a victim of abuse all my life –– literally, for as long as I can remember. It is my norm. Whereas most people would run in the other direction the moment someone physically, emotionally, or mentally abuses them –– I stay.
It’s a sickness and just when I think I am cured, the cancer spreads.
For the past several years, I have been involved in a highly abusive relationship. I have been choked, whipped with belts, thrown about, berated, belittled, raped, and disregarded as a human being. I have been abandoned and embarrassed, then, loved and coddled.
I have been caught in a vicious cycle and have left on many occasions, just to return.
I have found little support from my friends and family because I complain, and I cry, then I go back for more. I go back knowing that, one day, he’ll kill me but he’s all I have. He’s the only one who understands because he’s stuck in this cycle, too.
When I try to confide in friends they ask, “Well, what did you do to him? What did you say to him?” They tell me, “You know how he is, he’s never going to change, so why do you stay? You know what you’re getting into. Don’t tell anyone because he’ll come out looking good and you’ll only make yourself look bad.” It’s always my fault.
No one understands – not even me.
So, I keep it all to myself and it continues. Then, we make up and vow it will never happen again –– then it does and I feel so foolish for ever believing he can change or that we can change. Then, I begin to believe again. I believe even now.
I love him though it pains me to admit. It sickens me to know that I will return to him in an instant and that the next time could be the last time and that breath, my last breath. Still, I hold out hope that one day we’ll learn how to love one another without pain. I pray that those who look on with smirks and judgments know one thing –– domestic violence is very real and, at times, very final.
If you, or someone you know, has been a victim of domestic violence, please contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at (800) 799-7233.
—Karrine Steffans‐McCrary
106 comments:
this bish is hella crazy.
If she was going through all that wouldn't she have wrote another stupid a$$ book about it?
illuminati should beat her til she STFU
I can't feel sorry for a woman that keeps going back for an a$$ whuppin' when she clearly knows she's in an abusive reltationship. This bish just wants attention.
Snitch, come on this is the best you can give us today? Nobody gives a project rat's a$$ about this dumb broad.
Its probably jz. Hes been screwing her on and off for a while now.
She is definitely implying that her husband is the one committing the violence upon her. But, I am sure she will say it is someone else from twenty years ago.
I saw the documentary on her. She is certifiably batshit crazy. And, she should not be the spokeperson for domestic violence. I don't think I need to explain why.
How in the hell are you going to give out the phone number to the domestic abuse hotline that you obviously haven't called yourself?!?!
I feel sorry for her children....not her.
If he is whipping her tail it's probably out of frustration because of her past, that he is having a hard time dealing with it, or because of her sassy ass mouth. I haven't read her book, but I've heard her on radio and TV and she didn't seem to take life as serious as she probably should.
...bish is just trynna capitalize on a new rage: women in abusive relationships. tomorrow she's gonna report that she had breast cancer so that errrbody can get they pity on. bottom line is, this ho's nothin' but a junkyard bish who need to set her ho-ass down!
How many children does she have? I knew about the son with the ex-husband.
#1 You can't rape the willing
#2 Bitch please!
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'choked repeatedly, whipped with belts, thrown about, berated, belittled, raped, disregarded, embarrassed and abandoned"
She calls it abuse, I call it S&M.
Didnt she say she use to fuck Eddie Winslow with dildos and shove anal beads up his hungry asshole? for real yall. talking about she got his ass dust in her hair? But she being abused? hoe probably loves it. sad, she's pretty too!
This doesn't make any sense. She has access to treatment and the ability to work and make a living. I guess she has a death wish. KARRINE GET HELP, YOU HAVE A SON--REMEMBER??
Wait a minute! She is implying that her husband is the one doing all this stuff to her. When Darius McCray broke up with her before getting married, wasn't she the one a that threw herself on the hood of his car when he was trying to leave her and didn't she even stalk him for a minute after that...?
So the man that was beating, choking and raping you left you and you begged him to come back...? Really?
Do you know her story? Karrine's mother openly rejected her and was extremely abusive toward her. This girl did not stand a chance once she bounced out of her mother's womb.
For those of you who have know the love of a parent, if only one and dodged the daily, ultimate rejection of a present parent, you were lucky, it was not of your doing.
Some women should never be mothers just as some men should never be fathers. These narcissistic, hateful people breed more mental issues in their offspring than the law should allow.
You can blame her and put her down, and yes, at the end of the day she is ultimately responsible to resolve her issues.
Understanding context is everything.
^^^
You can blame her and put her down, and yes, at the end of the day she is ultimately responsible to resolve her issues.
But have some compassion.
lol she still signing with his last name when he dont claim ur ass lol
She's probably trying to get back on Oprah before the show switches networks.
Oh boy :( Karrine is one of those women that you cant 100 percent believe. She seems to be a imbalanced.I do believe that she was abused as a child. She has a lot of the traits promiscuity,drug use, self punishment and a history of abusive relationships etc.
When is she EVER going to go all out for her kid??
She complains about abuse but yet subjects her kid to it?
@1:45..So you are saying "because HE CAN'T DEAL WITH her past and her sassy ,ass mouth" she deserves it!!!??????? Like u said "he can't deal" so he should,LEAVE,LEAVE LEAVE.He should leave her not beat her!!!!
This crazy hoe been saying that nicca was beating her ass..then he did an interview saying she was the one always abusing him..either way who gives a flying f*ck about hookers from the point and eddie winslow dumb ugly @ss! why are we even still talking about this cum disposaler?aint it about time for those rappers to carry out that hit on her life? enuff time has went by to where they wont be a suspect...
@2:01
hell yea that slut whore bag cunt deserves it!
eddie winslow said she be beating her lil boys ass...i dont feel sorry for this bish!
@ 1:50 she doesnt have an ex husband only a baby daddy who was MARRIED while she was fucking him and had a fight with his wife
So I guess most of yall feel a woman dressed LIKE A HOE DESERVES TO BE RAPED.AND A WOMAN who is a hoe can never be raped? CAVE MAN MENTALITY! MISOGYNIST!
She's a GD lie.
no wonder i haven't seen his ass on the young and the restless lately. they will slowly write him out.
@11:53 I was thinking the same thing. That shit probably turned her on. That was probably "four-play" why do i prefer Karrine (as crazy as she is) to rat stacks.
OT: What happened to RazB and his allegations against Chris Pokes And MH? And what happened to Pleasure P being accused of child abuse? These things pop up out the blue and disappear just as quickly as they arrived.
2:04 PM Thankd. I stand corrected. She wasn't whining when she was letting Bill Maher use her ass up.
I don't know if I believe her completely on this. She has been caught in lies many times. She lied about damaging Darius' car before he provided security camera footage which was proof her doing it. Then that documentary that guy Norwood Young made exposed plenty of her other lies she has told to gain sympathy and fame. I agree with what someone else has said earlier, she's probably trying to get attention off of a popular issue right now which is domestic violence. She already exposed all of her hoe escapades so this may be her last attempt to stretching her 15 minutes. However if she is telling the truth she should take her own advice and call that hot line she wrote at the end of this letter.
^Thanks.
He don't have the aura of a woman beater.
Some women believe that it's better to have an abusive man than no man at all. While he's an abuser...she's an enabler. She is just as responsible for her pain as he is for invoking it.
No sympathy vote here.
V...
I've heard her talk smack. I could see her provoking someone into knocking her around, or at least wanting to do so.
I'm wondering if she called the number that she gave out? I have no sympathy for her while she was trying to educate women on being a HOE she should have been trying to go and seek help from Eddie Winslow. Peace!
atleast she understands she has a problem and can admit to it, alot of people have her issues and are in denial about it.
trying hard to remain relevant
When was she ever relevant in a real sense?
I wonder if he's going to beat her ass after reading this. I hope not...
All seriousness though, she needs to get out of the relationship and the both need help.
Ignore this attention seeking bitch, if her life is that abusive the police would have interveined by now, and plus Eddie has a new job and I'm sure they would not tolerate this type of abuse.
Karrine has deep deep deep mental issues that she needs to see a therapist for.
Kat Stacks and other groupies taking her groupie shine.
Someone needs attention..........
It sounds like an excerpt from a book or maybe a short story. I doubt that the same woman who wildly chased after her "husband" when he tried to leave her would admit habitual domestic violence on his behalf. Hopefully, this is just a story and way for her to help a woman or man in an abusive relationship.
baby girl needs help.
More importantly while she getting beat down and raped where is her son?
Okay girlfriend you need help! Stop being around men that abuse you and sexual expolit you! I am so tired of this same old crap from her.
I have read her book on the Vixen Diaries. Let me tell you this trick went through a lot stuff by her own doing and the men she was involved with.
The men is attracts to is a reflection on herself. I do not know if her husband did this to her or not. But she needs a therapist ASAP!
Here come book #3, she look like the type who won't stop til a nigga put they hands on her. Now she done made a 911 blog call and got off the net to go suck and soothe it over while people discuss poor her. F*9k her she likes it we love it pretty sure she will come up with brand new ways to guzzle with no teef.
Sometimes the sins of the fathers/forefathers/mothers are visited upon the children. Maybe this is why she is suffering.
Only God Almighty can release her from her spiritual bondage, but she has to take a step towards Him.
There is hope for her, but she needs to repent also of her sins ( her sins add-on to the sins of her fathers, and cause her misery), because God helps those who at least try to help themselves.
* ( her sins add-on to the sins of her fathers and cause her misery)*
@2:28 what the fuck kind of aura would a fuckin womenbeater have dummy ! dang Niggas kill wit dumb shit.
basically what i'm reading is that it is okay to hit a woman. fuck each and every last one of you.
ann's greatest flaw? her lack of compassion. missed the boat on that one, jesus freak.
This might just be another way for her to get media attention. If it isn't true she needs to be ashamed of herself. The negativity is bad for his career and could affect him getting work in the future. She never really had a career.
Ann shut the fuck up talking about "her sins" like you ain't got none. "those without sin cast the first stone" meaning we all have sinned, so who are we to judge other peoples sins. Sit your fake preaching ass down you phony ass hypocrite!
@4:45 PM
@4:40 PM
What then? shall we sin, because we are not under the law, but under grace? God forbid.
Romans 6:15
THESE ARE NOT MY WORDS. THIS IS STRAIGHT OUT OF THE BIBLE.
whetha shes crazy or not is not the issue,its the sorry assd nigga thats beatin on her.being a man with a wife,a mother,and a daughter,i neva could undastand how a grown assd man could beat the shit out of a woman.my first thought is "nigga,if u wanna fight so bad,try some fuck shit like that with a real man".how much of a man can a muufukka consider himself to be cuz hes able to knock his woman out.im the kinda nigga that WISHES a muffakka WOULD put his hands on my daughter or sister.Got no respect for the nigga.....and thats all i have to say about that(forest gump)
4:39
No its okay to hit KARRINE!
you teach people how to treat you. if you accept abuse, it will never end. and if you are a mother and allow your children to see you be abused by a man and don't leave--shame on you, you're a disgrace!
If she was telling the truth when her book came out, then it would make perfect sense that she would fall back in love with someone that is abusive, her baby daddy was abusive, she received abusive treatment from several guys she was messing with. So yeah, she falls in to the pattern of women who always seem to go from one abusive relationship to another. She is a super whore, but that doesn't mean that she does not need help
and To 1:36 women stuck in the cycle of abuse always go back to abuse regardless of the outcome until they are either killed or get help. its a mental sickness.
WOW!!!! Ya'll are harsh on people geezzzzz! Something sad and traumatic has happened to this woman no matter how you see it! Have some compassion and if ya'll keep saying "ignore this attention seeking bish" while your reading and typing a post about it...you sound stupid lol!
Old Eddie Cain is her Handler, thats why she hasnt left yet. Remember he has been in the industry since childhood, I wouldnt be surprised if he was making her do something strange for a little change!
Compassion my a$$!! I don't have those feelings for a grown woman with her own who continues to talk out of both sides of her neck. One minute she's trying to give the young girls a heads up on how the dirty music industry works the next she's giving tips on how to give head. This chick is NUTS!!! She probably has the papers to prove it.
@1:58 lol. who hasn't had a fucked up mother? my mother is a straight up abusive bitch, but i learned(on my own) that i deserve to be treated with respect. no one will violently put their hands on me without serious legal repercussions. i damn sure wouldn't keep running back for more--and yes i've been in situations where i could have. at some point you have to take responsibility for your own life and your own happines.
Karrine, needs to learn that talk is cheap. She is in no position to give anyone advice. Only a weak woman would keep going back for more abuse. Real love and intimacy between a man and a woman doesn't hurt. Karrine needs to seek professional help ASAP.
blah, blah, blah...girl BOO...NEXT !!!!!
She chose the name "Superhead" because "Hollywood's Most Notorious Piece of Used Toilet Paper" wouldn't fit on her monogrammed towels.
She is most likely broke and staying with Winslow because she needs food and a roof over her head—which is what you do when you bottom out with no talent and no marketable skills.
Yes, she could hit the track again, but she thinks she's better than that now. So she's blogging for attention instead. PATHETIC. Remember when she texted that Pig Perez for "protection" when Winslow beat her ass that time?
The crickets have never chirped as loudly as they did THAT night.
We thought she'd died or fucked off back to islands since we hadn't heard from ass in a minute.
^her ass in a minute...
at the end of the day,no matter what she did
its not right. Ed Winslow is living fowl....
they raisin kids in this shit....Hells no
I just knew when I saw the post that I would click on the comments and see all kinds of ignorant, hateful comments.
I hope her son got a good choke and a kick in
Bet money she has a manuscript in progress about her abusive relationship
This psycho purposely lives her life in bad situations just to have something to write about and sell
all she does is set men up to give her writing material
"Ignorant," 5:53?
Nope. Folks on the blog are well aware of SH's reputation, thank you. Mostly from THE SHIT SHE HAS WRITTEN ABOUT HERSELF.
"Hateful?"
OK, that one Imma give to you.
Time to turn the page to a new post. This one has run its course.
@6:04
I'm not the previous poster (5:53)
But so what? I kmow her rep as well and have read her first book but no one deserves to be abused.
GTFOH
Igorant and hateful both apply
Did Karrine say something?
Cuz I couldn't hear a damn thing over the sound of her pussy lips flapping in the breeze.
Like a 747 preparing for takeoff.
ROFLMAO @ 1:35 second post. I smell a book in the making. This is a page out of the book and if you get caught up in the drama and believe it's about her you will buy the book. Watch this trick come out and say later it is a story about a woman that is in love with her abuser.......
She is so tired.
You read her first book??!
Then send the ho a dolla or help her ass get to safe house since you so invested in her drama.
^@6:25 PM
Has this suction cup ever heard of a restraining order?
@6:36 LOL..OMG I'M ROLLING HERE. YA'LL FUNNY AS HELL!!AFTER A HARD DAYS WORK, WHAT A RELIEF..
This semen vacuum said..
"For the past several years, I have been involved in a highly abusive relationship. I have been choked, whipped with belts, thrown about, berated, belittled, raped, and disregarded as a human being. I have been abandoned and embarrassed, then, loved and coddled."
= = = = = = = = = =
I'ont know if she's complaining or bragging. I wouldn't believe a single word that comes out of this bitch's mouth if Jesus himself co-signed on it. She's made a living selling the over-dramatization of actual events.. kick rocks, slut.
No she talking about all the rappers and singers been beating and raping her ass-I can only see eddie winslow hitting her ass a few times. he always looked like the type to smack a bitch up
Yall need to ignore this bullshit and keep it moving. I generally would never say a woman deserves to be abused but I also believe that she cries wolf and is an attention whore. She'll do anything to get put on and this years anthem is the battered wife or girlfriend. She needs to sit down and shut up.
She better watch her step. Even if she's lying, and she most likely is, it won't take too many of her "cries for help" for Mr. Winslow to find himself out of a job.
No questions asked. CBS will have his role recast by lunchtime.
And then he really will want to kick some ass.
Two sidenotes: What kind of man would marry a whore? Only one whose self-esteem is lower than hers is, which means ANY kind of shit can go down between them.
And how stupid do you have to be to post a number for a hotline and not use it yourself—if you are really in danger??! Too stupid to take care of yourself, let alone a child.
She's an ATTENTION WHORE fo sure—we all know that—but watch this mess backfire on her ass.
@@@7:26pm...amen,if.he.loses.his.job.in.behind.this.sh*t...Causes.if.I.am.not.mistaken.it.has.been.a.mighty.long.minute.between.jobs.for.him.
she needs some meds for her ass and a good psychiatrist......
This is TERRIBLE whether it's true or not, If she does not stop with these allegations, her son is gonna end up like those little kids in "FOR COLORED GIRLS" that movie still scares me until this day. We as BOTH black men AND women go through SOOOO MUCH in life its a DAME SHAME. Hopefully the CYCLE will be broken in the future, I HOPE!!
PRAY FOR THESE PEOPLE!!
Uh huh, just like Kool G Rap beat her and abused her. Just like Eddie Winslow tried to run her ass over, when security footage revealed her dumb ass chasing him, swinging on him and trying to jump on his car.
Once, and she's a battered woman. But if you either A.) keep picking muh'fuckas who abuse you or B.) keep pushing niggas to the point where they gotta lay hands on you or even C.) keep lying about being abused, it's prolly you. Crazy Bitch. Then again, the nigga ain't leave her alone the first time she tried to make him look bad, so maybe he gets some blame in this too.
I think some females have a sort of abuse victim version of Munchausen Syndrome, where they live off the attention they get from being an "abuse victim" so they either instigate it, are attracted to men they know will do it, or exaggerate it. Maybe all three.
And nahh, please ladies don't think i'm condoning some punk bitch hitting on a woman, never that, but i'm saying, sometime what it look like, ain' really that.
I hate to say it this bish need to get help, or just kill herself cause she lives with waaay too much damn drama inflicting that shyt on her kid
ummmvhello people how many times do i and others have to tell you, she is a VIRGO, A VIRGO =
1. selfish
2. physchos
3. liars
4. mean
5. jealous,underhanded nut jobs
6. sluts, whores,
7. narcissists
8. you have to do for them before they do for you
9. and even if you do for them they still won't do for you.
10. horrible
11. horrendous
12. gossiping, fakes
13. neurotic nut jobs.
14. would do anything for attention
and if you don't believe me, CHARLE SHEEN virgo, crazy white heffa on bravo housewives-Camille, virgo, porn actress whore-jada fire, beyonce and her sneaky fake ways, virgo!
"Who's Beating Karrine Steffans?"
Answer: Who the hell cares?
KAT STACKS SYNDROME....*sigh*
RWS Always trying to start up shit!!!!!
tHE DAM GIRL HAD A FUCKIN VH1 Behind the scene and personally told us how and who beat her. It was that FAT FUCKA in the music business whos son she had.She also told us who rapped her. Her mothers male friends and half the music industry.
ROTFLMAO @1:42p
But for real . . . ya'll stop getting ur panties in a bunch?! that's not even her letter?! She's posting someone else's to get ya'll talking about her and it worked?! #NEXT!!!
p. s. if someone else said this, i co-sign . . . just didn't feel like reading the rest of these comments after getting off the floor laughting from the first 10 or so, SLMAO!
@11:25p ANON
DAYUM!!! Did a Virgo break ur heart or something???? Sheesh?! My madea is a virgo so "u needs 2 watch yo mouth" lol #WWJD?
I saw her at a resturant with McCray a few months ago..she was pregnant.
What's that I smell???????
A new book.........
Ho sit down!!!
@11:25 PM
Chile you ain't neva lied, them Virgo muthafukkas are a trip!! a bunch of users who use drama to stay in your life, I don't know how many of them heffa's I have to kick to the curb and they just popped back up, like oh I got cancer I'm dying I need come see you and suck your energy like the damn vampire I am, I dodge them bishes like bullets!!!
the real question is who has bot beat her ass, this bitch been wit' everybody.and pretty much all of em' are lined up to beat her ass.
i meant "not"
Okay another reason to have 15 minutes of fame, I feel sorry for her child, that boy WILL BE A MESS.
I know women like this and, trust me, these broads need a whole LOT of attention, are extremely territorial/competitive with other women, and INTENTIONALLY seek abusive (mental and physical) men.
in other words: very INSECURE!
FUCK this broad!
I do feel sorry for her son though. Although it's very likely she is grooming to be the type of "man" she puts up with)
typo: "grooming HIM"
ha-ha, she got her ass beat by eddie winslow!
Since when does superhead keep her mouth closed about anything? She talks constantly. Now she wants to keep secrets about who is kicking her a#$. GTFOH!!!
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