Tyrese Gibson sat down with Wendy Wendy to promote his new book 'How to Get Out of Your Own Way' and everything was going fine until Tyrese blurted out that men are expected to cheat...
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Why did he go there with her? Her husband cheating is still fresh!
Who raised him? Expected to cheat? I think not. A REAL MAN doesn't have to be immoral. He'd rather stay single and play the field. Relationships come with Expectations of fidelity. Maybe this is why his didn't work out. Peace.
This coming from the man who made a big deal about married women hanging out with their single friends. This "aurthur" needs to shove that book and his b.s. advice up his ass and stfu.
he was tellin the truth i cant tell yall how many times i have heard a older man tell younger boys that its good to be a player to date as many women as they can and than when i step in and say its not they say yes it is cuz at least you know the boy aint gay its good for a boy to date a lot of women. like if a boy wanted to stay with jus one girl thats unhealthy and his manhood has to be questioned.
she used to play the "oohh, how you doin'" soundtrack to his name whenever it came up in topic. this was when Artie was her sidekick. and ya'll know Miss or Mr. Wendy ain't ever wrong, ain't eva lied about the DL'ers
Co-sign with 2:28...A lot of men don't know how to keep their dxck in their pants, BUT there are some monogamous men out there (so don't listen to that BS Tyrese is pushing). You shouldn't get deep into a relationship unless you're ready to be 100% faithful!!
I think that men do what we allowed them to do yes most men cheat but with certain values and life change we can change that fact in to legancies from now. To me parent these days do not want to do the hard work when there children are little so what you end up getting is grown as monster instead of little monsters that can be changed.
I think when women fall short because of the actions of men we are destroying the world. When women choose not to have character and self respect and control we all might as well be whores men and women. I just wish that women would step up there game by not allowing the men to feel that this is achievable.
You're a dumbass if you believe that crap, what does a man sexing alot of women have to do with his sexuality? just because a man sleeps with alot of women doesn't excludes them from being a homosexual. I bet Mr. Cee was sleeping with a lot of women too and look what happened to him got caught with his dick in another man mouth. Smh black women please tell me you are smarter than this please don't believe a thing that tyrese says
My point is the guy is cheating with someone and the other woman in most cases knows he is with someone else but she thinks her stuff is going to be soo good he will leave the other lady. So women in our culture uphold this vicious cycle of dysfunction. It takes a family to make a community, if 80% of the homes in a community are broken how do you expect to have a good community.
I never saw what other women claim to see in this idiot. When he takes his behind to a real college and gets a REAL EDUCATION in Psychology, then he can talk to me.
He's always be an idiot, that's why Naomi took him to the cleaners. He has no leg to stand on! Cheat on me and you'd better sleep with one eye open for the rest of your LIFE, and that's after I get rid of you! This DUMB A-S-S! There are many men who are taught to be REAL MEN, and not some ravenous dog out in the street.
An older male friend once told me to be careful of a man who sleeps around a lot because a man who sleeps with a lot of women will surely sleep with a man because he's curious.
I have no idea about the validity of this person's statement, but in may ways I'm beginning to believe what he said
"Who raised him" is right! "Stay single" is right! Be in a open relationship, duh! Maybe men in shitty relationships with a negative women, or a dumb annoying or mean women are "expected to cheat" and it's not a surprise to anyone that they cheated because we all saw it coming, but no one "expects" a man with a supportive friend/lover to cheat just because that's what men do. Baby Boy was a movie, Tyrese get out of that mind set and grow up.
Men like Tyrese come a dime a dozen. Too many of them share this very same damaged and warped psychology. Ladies, be aware of whom you give your precious time to because youth cannot be reclaimed. And please don't bother with this "black love" nonsense. Your dating pool should not be limited to Black men only because they damn sure don't restrict themselves to Black women. Also tweak your gaydar and listen to your inner voice when you feel he's no good. In that case, scrape him off like a plate full of dried out bones and never look back. Life is to short for this kind of nonsense.
"Men like Tyrese come a dime a dozen. Too many of them share this very same damaged and warped psychology. Ladies, be aware of whom you give your precious time to because youth cannot be reclaimed. And please don't bother with this "black love" nonsense. Your dating pool should not be limited to Black men only because they damn sure don't restrict themselves to Black women. Also tweak your gaydar and listen to your inner voice when you feel he's no good. In that case, scrape him off like a plate full of dried out bones and never look back. Life is to short for this kind of nonsense."
he made a good valid point.. of course its not gonna cross over to the female listeners too well, but women be aware of when a man speaks.. sometimes its good to shut up and listen.. you can learn a few things about a man! Women need to let a man be a man and play your position to perfection.. its stupid for a woman to give up some puzzi cuz her dude cheated #slut
"play her postion" when you play yours then you can require a woman to play her...Men can't even stay in the home to raise the kids they help made or put food on the table but you want to tell me how to be a woman...I don't have children but I will speak up for the humble good mothers out here that deal with dead beat men...Men who have something to prove usually have something to hide.
well,since women the majority of the young men today....whats that saying...men on this thread dont even respond..Wendy/these new warped women of today dont want the truth....they want an Oprahfied version that goes well with afternoon tea. Tyrese wasnt speaking for all men he was speaking for a large percentage of men and women need to listen since yall want to play mother and father theses days.
all of y'all on here talkin bout he lyin are getting cheated on. period. ****************************** Trust so is the MAN...women can be sneaky too, cook your food and smile...and still fool around while you at work.
WENDY LOVE YOU ....FOR LOOKING OUT AND NOT LETTING HIM GET AWAY WITH THAT ...WENDY YOU WERE TOO NICE!!!! THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH THE YOUNGER GENARATION NOW!!! MORALS AND VALUES DON'T MEAN ANYTHING ANYMORE!!!! IF IT IS WRONG ...BUT IT FEELS GOOD (DO WHAT YOU WANT TOO DO )!!!!!!!!! NOW THAT IS A PROBLEM ..YOU HAVE TOO ., HAVE HIM BACK ON YOUR SHOW .....SORRY TOO MANY YOUNG , GIRLS ARE LOOKING AT YOUR SHOW!!! HE IS WRONG!!!!!!!!! THAT IS NOT OF GOD!!!!!!!!!!
Call it what it is...insecurity!!! You wonder why women choose status over potential. Money can't love you but if the man that I am with is that insecure that he has to cheat all the time...I would rather him be stable and good provider. Not broke and loser working minimum wage.
I miss the days when the only problems we had were racial inequality back when black men used to take care of their women and family and side family. Now days ain’t no family structure.
I honestly think that men are expected to cheat; but at the same time either the woman needs to do what shes got to do to keep her man, and if not, then she should leave him, its a shame that when a girl does all she can, she still gets cheated on, i swear just about everybody that i know, has been cheated on by their husband, its a shame 4real..
^^^^ That's why I will never ever ever ever get married. I was talking to my grandma yesterday she admitted how horrible my gradfather was to her...now she is a widow...messing with a 50yr old man with 4 kids...I think he is taking her money...she always talking about how she "lost"$40 out of a coat with a hole in it...umm humm...at 74 it ain't like you got much options...ladies pick wisely because you will end up trapped and miserable with a loser!!!
I honestly think that men are expected to cheat; but at the same time either the woman needs to do what shes got to do to keep her man, and if not, then she should leave him. *************************** A simple soultion would be to man up!!! How is it that you enter a realtionship not evenly yoked (alot of kids or didn't receive higher eduction) but you feel that you can cheat but I can't as if I should be miserable with a scrub circa 1999.
That is what is wrong with Black men they think a woman is "hard up" for a loser and wonder why the smart ones choose status over potential...I am not hard up on a broke insecure man with alot of kids spread out everywhere and averge in looks and junk size!!!
Men are not expected to cheat. They are just hardwired to be WEAK when it comes to succumbing to lust. Yes, women cheat and are often more sneaky and deliberate about it than men, but when we do stray, it's more often for emotional reasons and not sex! Does that make it right? You be the judge. My biggest gripe with cheating men, however, is the cowardice they show by not being strong and loyal to their partners and mostly, the potential for bringing home deadly and disgusting diseases. So think about it fellas: you cannot protect yourself or your wife from a mean case of herpes by using a fucking condom.
No answer to why folks think a woman is hard up on a average looking man with no money...proudly single...my male stripper *friend* irks me but at least he can walk the walk....very good looking and has a huge p****.
Women hate cheating cause men turn psycho...crazy possessive and paranoid cause they think you out doing something...a man that cheats will most likely not want sex as much with you, always secreative and combatitive...who wants to live like that...I can't be miserable and I don't care how fine a man is!!
A woman is more inclined to find ONE MAN to fulfill ALL of her needs, whereas a man will find MANY WOMEN to fulfull his ONE need. ************************* Who told you that lie...I got a computer man, Mr. fix it man and the beat and eat man!! Girl stop tellings lies to to fam!!!
@5:25 - You must be single. I was speaking for the married women ...
That what you talkin' 'bout - I found all that in ONE man. I don't need six separate mofos to do the job(s) that ONE man can do. Most women ARE satisfied with just one man in her life. Most men are NOT satisfied with just one woman in his life.
@4:39, No hunny I'd rather work and support myself, than limit myself to a worthless man, regardless of his status. Money can't buy me love. Money can't buy me period. My spirit and well-being aren't for sell.
@3:09, @3:17 & @4:00PM, PREACH!!!!!! 5:45 PM Cosign all that. Truth be told, a young man is an example of his father or what he's taught by any man in teenage years. If he's taught to be unfaithful @ an early age and is successful he will continue to live with that mindset.Tyrese is a prodigy of that mindset. Shallow,but truthful in only what he was taught and knows,and he doesn't really know Sh*t about being a Real Man. I'm a Real Man and I don't judge,but I see this in my family even. Sh*tty Dad or a bad example for one = this big head little head mentality. Thing is the little head runs the show....
Thank you 6:10.You prove that Real Men DO exist! Tired of people actin like yall are extinct. Rare, maybe. Extinct, hell to the no. Whicheva lucky lady gets you is a lucky chick.
5:25 the CDC is looking for you to come in and sign a statement to allow them to inform all the men you infected with aids ****************************** Sweetheart I am free of all three diseases...AIDS its counterpart KIDS and a insecure man. I don't affect anyone DL are doing that just fine...ain't that right Mr. Cee and MASE
5:25 the CDC is looking for you to come in and sign a statement to allow them to inform all the men you infected with aids ******************************* Honey a tranny that is sucking "straight" men off...that's going around telling people they aint gay needs to report to the CDC
That's why I will never ever ever ever get married. I was talking to my grandma yesterday she admitted how horrible my gradfather was to her...now she is a widow...messing with a 50yr old man with 4 kids...I think he is taking her money...she always talking about how she "lost"$40 out of a coat with a hole in it...umm humm...at 74 it ain't like you got much options...ladies pick wisely because you will end up trapped and miserable with a loser!!! 5:05 PM -------------------------------------------------- You need to pull that 50 year old to the side and tell him that if any more money goes missing from granny's pockets, you're gonna pop a cap in that a-s-s! Grannies are to be cherished.
That's why I will never ever ever ever get married. I was talking to my grandma yesterday she admitted how horrible my gradfather was to her...now she is a widow...messing with a 50yr old man with 4 kids...I think he is taking her money...she always talking about how she "lost"$40 out of a coat with a hole in it...umm humm...at 74 it ain't like you got much options...ladies pick wisely because you will end up trapped and miserable with a loser!!! 5:05 PM -------------------------------------------------- You need to pull that 50 year old to the side and tell him that if any more money goes missing from granny's pockets, you're gonna pop a cap in that a-s-s! Grannies are to be cherished. *********************************** I do agree with that.....It's my assumption and you know how women are when confronted about a man, they ain't doing shat until they ready...by her being 74 years old and her making excuses like we born yesterday well ...it makes it tuff for the folks who love her.
@5:25 - You must be single. I was speaking for the married women ...
That what you talkin' 'bout - I found all that in ONE man. I don't need six separate mofos to do the job(s) that ONE man can do. Most women ARE satisfied with just one man in her life. Most men are NOT satisfied with just one woman in his life. ****************************************** Stop contradicting yourself...you just said MOST!!! I ain't most...that man hasn't found me yet...I hate when people use the word most then get upset
Women are so crazy!bmost men cheat, but some cheat more compared to others. There are men who cheat constantly(I wouldn't advice you stay with him) and men who fuck up once in a while. It's just how men are. When you can come accpet it, your life will be so much better.This is from a female who works mostly in a male dominated field. I have been married for 9 years,I'm only 30, but I will never act chilhsih and believe that he hasn't cheated. Humans do get bored with each other sexually, even though the love is still there. I'm not insecure or desperate to keep a man, but I accept teh reality of situation. A reall man will never keep a mistress or disrespect you on that level, but he may fuck kesha or nicole once in a blue moon. Mena nd women are attarcted to each other, and shit can sometimes go down. I know women are going to attack this comment, but it's true,we just don't want to believe it. There are men that are 100% faithful, but they are not that common like men who fuck up or men who are just straight up nasty ass dogs.
Women who tell the world they got a good man...idk they could have that Gloria from BBW syndrome...(acting like her shit don't stink) are the main ones who miss the point of what women say...there are good men who exist yes!! But you still don't have all the answers...In the words of Ty E. Muhammad "we want you in the real and not in the fake"....life ain't a fairytale for everybody and what Tyrese is saying is the type of dude most women get and its unfortunate...
We live in a society that just suppress women period! Sexually and financially....take a anthropology class and you will different forms of marriage being practice around the world...polyandry is a form of marriage that has one woman with many husbands...usually fraternal polyandry...this occurs in Tibet, parts of India and Nigeria...a woman has multiple husbands so the men can all inherit family wealth...other societies don't have husbands...they live with the matriarch...take a Anthropology course and stop letting warped minds of Black men ruin you
^^^^^ Having more than one wife for what...hell most won't even go to the alter nor do they financially step up to the plate to take care of one woman most of the time...can we get mature men who focus on building a future for their family and not concerned with childish shit...a 30year old man should leave this shit to the kiddies.
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 For this is the will of God, that you should be consecrated (separated and set apart for pure and holy living): that you should abstain and shrink from all sexual vice, That each one of you should know how to control his own body in consecration (purity, separated from things profane) and honor, Not [to be used] in the passion of lust like the heathen, who are ignorant of the true God and have no knowledge of His will,
A real (wo)man controls his/her body instead of acting like an animal, humping whatever looks good to it.
If your bible is missing these books, then go get a new one.
A real (wo)man controls his/her body instead of acting like an animal, humping whatever looks good to it. *********************** And so should a real man...BOO! Tyrese himself said all mean cheat so now what BOO!
Tyrese is an example of a man who has fallen for TV's disgusting representation of what a "man" acts like and has takent it to be truth. Why should 1. anyone know how many sexual partners you have had? 2. Having more partners than another man doesn't make you "the man" it just increases your risk for disease, unplanned pregnancy and difficulties bonding with a female partner.
Since the coons like white women so much check what Ashley Judd had to say about HIP HOP
"I believe that the social construction of gender -- the cultural beliefs and practices that divide the sexes and institutionalize and normalize the unequal treatment of girls and women, privilege the interests of boys and men, and, most nefariously, incessantly sexualize girls and women -- is the root cause of poverty and suffering around the world." ************************ A sociologist believes that poverty is cause my lack of JOBS and institutional racism by banks and realtors...redlining creates hyper-segregation which PERPETUATES a cycle of poverty, crime and drugs which creates a mentality that its normal because that's all they know...
tyrese has latched onto the steve harvey self-help gravy train!
@7:59 I've taken many an anthopology class--you you've said nothing i(or anyone else) doesn't already know. what's your point though? Polyandry in Tibet was usually practiced among brothers so that the land would remain within the family. and among polyandry if a man wants to 'divorce' a women the man only need leave--no court hearing or alimony required.
women are free in the USA, so spare me your bullshit about how women are suppressed.
^^ TV and entertainment can really paint life in a messed up way. How many of us have heard of the wild west shootouts. Because of TVs and movies we believed that there were shootouts everyday with bodies flying down dead by the dozens. In reality the MOST murders to happen in any wild west town in one year was FIVE.
So don't believe this hype on "real men sleep with all these women blah blah". And ladies instead of trying to say "why cant we sleep around with all these men if men can sleep around with tons of women" we should be stearing away from me that are so promiscous.
My point is that men are saying that women can't cheat, why not are you insecure. Other cultures practice polyandry so its not cheating is just culture...and as far as saying women aren't oppressed...along with that Anthropology course take a WOMEN'S STUDIES course...if it wasn't for 2nd wave feminism you wouldn't have the rights you have today...women are still oppressed in the workforce...why is childcare a woman's issue and not a man's...why do men get tenure more than women....why do women get paid .70 cent on the dollar for doing the same job as a man? Why do women have to wear lipstick and high heels just to be noticed and if not considered to be plain and unattractive.
Aurthur struck a nerve on that one. Wendy leaned back and them titties almost stood up and boxed Aurthur off the couch.
His statement was naive and misguided. While men do have a reputation for cheating women don't go into relationships expecting men to cheat on them - that's laughable. He was right about the double standard but he tried to used it to justify his statement.
Men that truly want to be faithful simply don't put themselves in situations. The keep shit 100% platonic and professional with other females, and they let their lady what's goin' on with them. Men that don't give a shit about being faithful, you can find these niggas at the club, engaging in flirtatious relationships with female "friends" and females on the job, and frequently putting themselves in situations ripe for drama.
Of course, it's not always that cut n dry, but more/less, you have make a decision on whether or not you wanna be faithful and respect ya lady, and then come to an understanding of what it's gonna take to stay true to that. The "men are expected to cheat" is just one of those bullshit cop-outs that immature people (men and women alike) use when they need to justify whey they used to (or still do) fuck around. It aint that hard to figure out tho. The nigga that goes to work, behaves at work, and takes his ass home, and keeps his fam with him when he moves around, is much less likely to end up in some bullshit than the nigga that's supposedly in a serious relationship or marriage, yet still runnin with his boys and puttin himself in situations where he's surrounded by other females. A real nigga figures out his own tendencies and weaknesses and communicates with his woman so that those demons can't fuck with their bond. He's likely learned from his mistakes and used em to better himself. A little boy only pretends to communicate, and stays magnetized by every other piece of ass that walks by. He makes excuses for his mistakes and he might be good for a while, but it's just a matter of time before he goes out in search of the same bullshit. Kinda how I see it.
^^^^^ Ladies spitting that bullshit, you heard it from a man 8:55 so stop selling yourself short trying to look cool for men who behave like boys...stop making excuses cause it makes it hard for women who don't have low self esteem and wont take no BS from a man.
"The nigga that goes to work, behaves at work, and takes his ass home, and keeps his fam with him when he moves around, is much less likely to end up in some bullshit..."
Including the tease from the married but "man-hungry" neighbor outside gardening in a bikini.. LOL
@8:45 lol spare me your tired, liberal claptrap mantras about feminism. no one said you have to wear lipstick or heels. you're only regurgitating bs from progressive white female(probably lesbian) professors. when you learn to think for yourself get back to me.
In a recent book, Red Feminism: American Communism and the Making of Women's Liberation, (2002) feminist historian Kate Weigand states: "ideas, activists and traditions that emanated from the Communist movement of the forties and fifties continued to shape the direction of the new women's movement of the 1960s and later."(154)
In fact, Weigand, a lecturer at Smith College, shows that modern feminism is a direct outgrowth of American Communism. There is nothing that feminists said or did in the 1960's-1980's that wasn't prefigured in the CPUSA of the 1940's and 1950's. Many second-wave feminist leaders were "red diaper babies," the children of Communists.
Communists pioneered the political and cultural analysis of woman's oppression. They originated women's studies, and advocated public daycare, birth control, abortion and even children's rights. They forged key feminist concepts such as "the personal is the political" and techniques such as "consciousness raising."
In the late 1940's, CPUSA leaders realized that the labor movement was becoming increasingly hostile to Communism. They began to focus on women and African Americans. They hoped "male supremacy" would "bring more women into the organization and into the fight against the domestic policies of the Cold War." (80)
Communist women who made up 40% of the party wanted more freedom to attend party meetings. After the publication of "Women Against Myth" in 1948, the CPUSA initiated a process of "re-educating" men that we recognize only too well today.
For example, in the party newspaper "The Daily Worker" a photo caption of a man with a young child read, "Families are stronger and happier if the father knows how to fix the cereal, tie the bibs and take care of the youngsters." (127) The Party ordered men who didn't take the woman question seriously to complete "control tasks involving study on the woman question." In 1954 the Los Angeles branch disciplined men for "hogging discussion at club meetings, bypassing women comrades in leadership and making sex jokes degrading to women." (94)
A film Salt of the Earth, which critic Pauline Kael called "Communist propaganda", portrayed women taking a decisive role in their husbands' labor strike. "Against her husband's wishes, Esperanza became a leader in the strike and for the first time forged a role for herself outside of her household... [her] political successes persuaded Ramon to accept a new model of family life." (132) Portrayals of strong assertive successful women became as common in the Communist press and schools, as they are in the mass media today.
Communist women formalized a sophisticated Marxist analysis of the "woman question." The books In Women's Defense (1940) by Mary Inman, Century of Struggle (1954) by Eleanor Flexner and The Unfinished Revolution (1962) by Eve Merriam recorded women's oppression and decried sexism in mass culture and language. For example, Mary Inman argued that "manufactured femininity" and "overemphasis on beauty" keeps women in subjection (33).
The founder of modern feminism, Betty Frieden relied on these texts when she wrote The Feminine Mystique (1963). These women all hid the fact that they were long-time Communist activists. In the 1960, their daughters had everything they needed, including the example of subterfuge, to start the Women's Liberation Movement.
@8:45 "Why do women have to wear lipstick and high heels just to be noticed and if not considered to be plain and unattractive."
Attracting the opposite sex is not specific to homo sapiens.
Male peacocks display their iridescent feathers for prospective female mates. Females may check out the feathers of a number of different males before deciding on a suitor. The length and quality of a male peacock's feathers can indicate his age, vigor, and status.
Try reading some of Charles Darwin's eugenic works and you may figure out the answer to your own question.
History is never without flaws!!! The Civil Rights movement was born out of 2nd wave feminism...alot of good things came from that era....the Brown 1954 decision. Which ended the Jim Crow era and gave Black the right to vote. Which half of us don't even do today. You want to talk about Communism...Republicans are their long lost relative...which is not what Abraham Lincoln Republican party was !!!
Scratch that last part out Communism and Republicans is more like "socialism" but it still doesn't address my point of women being oppressed by society...Betty Friedan shed light on a issue of depression in middle class women because of their new roles as wife and mother, back then women were in the home or had gender roles in the workforce which we still practice today....nurse, secretary and teacher...Women are oppressed by a male white society I don't care what you say
I may have made a mistake with that last sentence but what you said made absolutely no sense!!! Communism is interelated to the Marxist theory that the proletariat is oppressed by the Bourgeois in society...if you don't think that is the case look at what is going on in the White house today!!! Look in AA communities why are they high segregated neighborhoods when we had a bill passed in the 1960's that supposed ended unethical housing practices Blacks and women are still oppressed in this society, through stereotypes, why did we need an affirmative action in the firt place if there was never a problem, institutional racism its called "discrimination with a smile"
@9:49pm Fuck you why don't stop writing essays? Nobody gives a shit what the fuck you have to say. You are TRYING to be a fucking know it all. Save that shit for someone who gives a fuck.
@9:46 you don't have to care what I say, but you're still wrong. Society doesn't make you or any woman do anything they don't choose to do. Being a wife and mother isn't a 'new role' women have been wives and mothers for many millenia--hardly a new concept. What Friedan did was help DIMINISH the role of wife and mother and convinced women that having a family wasn't as important as being a 'worker bee' for the STATE(Communism).
Today women can be anything they choose to be, so you clearly don't know what you're talking about.
Do you think you're the only person to take a Women's Studies class? I had my fill of condescending middle-class white women lecturing me about their 'oppression'--gtfoh
As Sojourner Truth said: "Ain't I a women?"
@9:37 Communism clearly resembles the democrat party--not the republicans. The Democrats are the ones that can't say no to entitlement programs.
@9:59 i didn't say women aren't oppressed. i said feminism was created by the Communist movement as a tool to take women from the family and make them worker bee's for the STATE.
entitlement programs wouldn't need to exist if this country wasn't founded on segregation and discrimination...The biggest issues with the inner city is lack of JOBS...back in the 50's a unskilled man could get a job to feed his family...NOT TODAY with no jobs in the inner-city and the Republican's cutting pell grants now your ass can't go to school without a high interest loan... what are hyper segregated Blacks suppose to do...inherit the "wrong" as the norm and perpetuates attitudes which breed teen pregnancy, violence and drug use.
Clearly you can't comprehend if my whole argument was that women are oppressed by society why the fuck you writing essay's if you agreed in the first place...that was my whole argument
@9:54 "if you don't think that is the case look at what is going on in the White house today."
please expound on that sentence. make your case so I can get your point.
AA communities aren't 'highly segregated' -except by choice. What communities are you speaking of? If you mean Urban communities, urban communities are typically inhabited by AA's; just as rural communities are typically inhabited by whites. it's not a matter of segregation, but of choice & income. I CHOSE where i wanted to live(based on income, neigborhood, aesthetics, etc... If any race is segregated it's because they choose to be or can't afford to move. I grew up in suburbs and now live in a very diverse city--i'm not buying into your bullshit.
Deprogram yourself of the white liberal bs you've been taught.
@10:15 that cutting pell grants lie is BS--My mother works at a university as a Financial Aid counselor. no pell grant funds have been cut.
now we will see what happens with this govt shutdown going on NOW and what will result--but as of now, anyone with low income that wants a pell grant can get one--I know that for a FACT.
@10:15 "what are hyper segregated Blacks suppose to do...inherit the "wrong" as the norm and perpetuates attitudes which breed teen pregnancy, violence and drug use."
isn't that what many blacks have been doing all along? Pell Grants have been available since 1973. it is now 2011 --and black people are just realizing they need to wake the fuck up? don't make me laugh. i refuse to feel sorry for people that refuse to help themselves.
Read articles by Douglas Massey and Nancy Denton honey they can do all the talking. The underclass in which we speak of is affected by segregation and discrimination.
I am a Sociology major...I am embarrassed by your ignorance as of the history of racism and discrimination in this society. For your information we don't live in a residential integrated society because White's don't want it that way. Hence banks redlining area's forcing Black to hyper-segregate in one area where there are no upward mobile Blacks, job and lots of drug use and violence.
Sorry for the essay...but that uppity Negro got on my nerves.
This powerful and disturbing book clearly links persistent poverty among blacks in the United States to the unparalleled degree of deliberate segregation they experience in American cities.
American Apartheid shows how the black ghetto was created by whites during the first half of the twentieth century in order to isolate growing urban black populations. It goes on to show that, despite the Fair Housing Act of 1968, segregation is perpetuated today through an interlocking set of individual actions, institutional practices, and governmental policies. In some urban areas the degree of black segregation is so intense and occurs in so many dimensions simultaneously that it amounts to "hypersegregation."
The authors demonstrate that this systematic segregation of African Americans leads inexorably to the creation of underclass communities during periods of economic downturn. Under conditions of extreme segregation, any increase in the overall rate of black poverty yields a marked increase in the geographic concentration of indigence and the deterioration of social and economic conditions in black communities. As ghetto residents adapt to this increasingly harsh environment under a climate of racial isolation, they evolve attitudes, behaviors, and practices that further marginalize their neighborhoods and undermine their chances of success in mainstream American society. This book is a sober challenge to those who argue that race is of declining significance in the United States today.
If a couple wants to achieve it, they have to both MUTUALLY strive for that goal and see the value in it. Men think about sex & want to have sex NATURALLY more than women (thank testosterone) but that doesn't make men INCAPABLE of fidelity. In this day and age FIDELITY is not expected or respected as it once was. Men and women BOTH cheat for hot nasty sex. If a couple is going to make it, they have to have open, honest communication, the same value system and a steady desire to satiate their partners emotional, sexual, spiritual & financial desires.
Well at least you said humans and not MEN...women have desire's too not every woman is sexually satisfied with her husband of 10 years who has grown a gut that overlaps his dick or has the personality of a can of paint because she never thought his jokes were funny to begin with. Men confuse love with lust a woman may love you but that doesn't mean she doesn't lust for other men who are aesthetically more pleasing that you.
THIS GENERATION OF BLACKS WONT ACHIEVE LONG TERM (25+ years of marital monogamy) MARITAL BLISS. It was hard enough for generations past but this generation of degenerates barely value commitment let alone true partnership. This generation is straight up fucked up.
lol I don't know if 11:13 is the same as 11:06 but you go me rolling!! And I do agree my generation won't make it because of greed, brokenness and poor values.
It's the truth 11:13pm men don't take care of the home unless you a baby mama even then he may not be in the home, he is out dating with no money thus no pride...as if Black women are hard up for a insecure man with no pride. We going dutch like we roommates and you wonder why Black women have a superiority complex and always hollering they don't need a man most likely cause they don't
I love it when people think men were more faithful back in the day. Please,they had more shit going on than you could shake a stick at. I am a female and I know of the women who stayed...what else were they going to do though? They were pretty much trapped like the sistah with the grandma and hoe ass grandad. Today,these same women are teaching girls the dame shit and it pisses me off. I often say that I am not wanting to get married and I mean it. Maybe a live in partner. I just don't want to be that wife who has the husband that turns out to be a phoney. I am in college and wouldn't depend on him 100%,so if we needed a divorce,I would have my money and all,but men can be spiteful too now. I don't want a real husband for half 25 years and for the next 25 he just leaves. What a waste of fucking time that I could have spent with someone else. So many women get divorced and have kids and alot of men don't want to date a middle aged woman and with kids too,but women seem to want the middle ages man who appears to be a good father. (I am approached by a good amount of older men30's-60's and I am in college and I just ask some why they don't date women their age. I admit that some are very handsome,but no. They seem to think that they are too good for one age group,so I just usually say ewwww aloud. It is a huge double standard because some of them look beyond their age. ANYWAY I would feel betrayed. Some men just want the kids and then want to fool around I suppose. Why are people so cruel.
entitlement programs wouldn't need to exist if this country wasn't founded on segregation and discrimination...The biggest issues with the inner city is lack of JOBS...back in the 50's a unskilled man could get a job to feed his family...NOT TODAY with no jobs in the inner-city and the Republican's cutting pell grants now your ass can't go to school without a high interest loan... what are hyper segregated Blacks suppose to do...inherit the "wrong" as the norm and perpetuates attitudes which breed teen pregnancy, violence and drug use. ----------------------------------------------------------- How long are black people going to harp on the bullcrap from the past? As I recall, there was racism and segregation in Dr. King's day, but that didn't stop him from obtaining a PH.D. People can do whatever the HECk they need to in life if they'd stop waiting on someone to GIVE them a JOB! Negroes sit on the internet all day long and post photos and comments on Facebook and other blogs, you mean to tell me they can't think of an internet business to start? As a person who built an empire for nothing, I have NO PITY for lazy Americans who sit and WIT for someone to bring them a job...figure out how to create jobs for others and the government will pay you, or offer tax breaks at the very least. All of this racism crap is a bunch of BULL. the internet doesn't involve you showing your face unless you want to, so create a business online. there are tons of ways to make money on the net.
We live in a society that just suppress women period! Sexually and financially....take a anthropology class and you will different forms of marriage being practice around the world...polyandry is a form of marriage that has one woman with many husbands...usually fraternal polyandry...this occurs in Tibet, parts of India and Nigeria...a woman has multiple husbands so the men can all inherit family wealth...other societies don't have husbands...they live with the matriarch...take a Anthropology course and stop letting warped minds of Black men ruin you 7:59 PM
------------------------------------------------------------ One man is a pain in the derriere, why in the HELL would a woman even DARE deal with more than one self-serving jerk, I mean husband..LOL
@1:19 it is alright dear, Beyonce is probably asleep. What da hell does Beyonce have to do with any of this? I know you are a hot mess and just wish you looked a tenth as good.
@10:48 there will always be 'enablers' that come up with plethora excuses why blacks can't succeed. get off your ass and change your life, if this comment applies to you. stop having babies you can't afford, if this applies to you. get an education, if this applies to you. keep your legs closed, if this applies to you.
the original topic of the post was basically about sex and men cheating. somebody said it up top and i agree with it: a woman will feel inclined to find one man to fulfill all of her needs; a man will find multiple women to fulfill his one need. for a woman, its mostly about stability and companionship and emotional fulfillment, so she will find herself one man to fulfill all of those needs. a man doesn't particularly care about stability, companionship or emotional fulfillment; a man mostly cares about sex and so he will seek out multiple women to fulfill that sex need because, as we've all been told, men love variety and they can't be with just one woman. even if a man is married, he is still prone to cheating because if his wife won't give him head, he'll go and find a woman who will, thus leading to the statement that a man will find multiple women to fulfill his one need. that's the message i got from the previous poster who made the statement and i appreciate that because it makes a whole lot of sense, to me.
let me add to that statement: women go after quality, men go after quantity. and if there is a woman out there who seeks quantity rather than quality, then she must be the hooker who's getting paid to do what she do and she'll take a dollar from every man, no matter what they look like, whether they're married or not.
@10:40 Hate to break it to you, but a degree in Sociology is hardly something to brag about. **************************** I guess you look down on Mumford, Frued, Weber and Marx too...they were sociologist!!! Black people this is why kids think school is bad and drug dealers are good...coons who hate on other individuals....for your info...I like quality and my niche is Black poverty...I love reading and talking about it and hopefully I can be apart of the solution.
@10:40 Hate to break it to you, but a degree in Sociology is hardly something to brag about. ****************************
LOL! This is one ignorant mufukka, yall, so please don't lower your sensibilities, your common sense and your academic sense to jawbreak with a dumb, unlearned, unschooled piece of trash. He/she is obviously one of those type of people who, when other people are having a serious conversation about serious issues, comes in with some dumb ass, silly shit that brings the discussion to a halt and makes people scratch their heads, wondering -
THIS IS WHAT I BELIEVE WOMAN CHEAT AS WELL, WE ARE JUST BETTER AT NOT GETTING CAUGHT, IF MEN ARE BORN TO CHEAT WHO ARE THEY CHEATING WITH? LONG LONG TIME AGO SOCIETY, BOTH MEN AND WOMEN WERE TAUGHT A MAN SLEEPING WITH COUNTLESS WOMEN IS A PIMP, PLAYA, THE MAN, HOWEVER A WOMAN IS TAUGHT SHE IS A WHORE IF SHE ACTS THE SAME, THIS WAS A TOOL DESIGNED BY MEN TO KEEP A WOMAN FROM GIVING AWAY A MANS GOODS. MAKE A WOMAN ASHAMED SHE WILL BE RELUCTANT TO SLEEP AROUND. PRAISE A MAN TO SLEEP AROUND AND FOOL EVERYONE THAT THIS IS WHAT MEN DO NATURALLY. IT IS SO CRAZY ALOT OF WOMEN BELIEVE AND ACCEPT THIS. AND ALOT OF MEN ARE CONFUSED AND BELIEVE THIS AS WELL. I BELIEVE IN GODS PLAN FOR US, THE MAKER OF ALL BEINGS THE KING OF ALL KINGS, EXPECTS A MAN AS WELL AS A WOMAN TO CHERISH THEIR BODIES AS TEMPLES OF GOD. DOES IT MAKE ANY SENSE FOR A MAN TO SLEEP WITH MANY WOMEN AND MARRY A WOMAN WHO IS A VIRGIN, HE HAS BROUGHT ALL OF SEXUAL DEMONS INTO HIS WIFE AND FUTURE CHILDREN YES SEX KEEPS DEMONS IN YOUR BODY "BOTH MALE AND FEMALE" THIS IS WHY WE STILL CRAVE AND WANT SOMEONE WE HAVE SLEPT WITH. PLEASE WAKE UP PEOPLE ONLY SATAN PROMOTES PROMISCUITY, GOD WANTS ONE WIFE FOR ONE HUSBAND PERIOD. "PROMISCUITY IS AN ACT OF SATAN"
"not every woman is sexually satisfied with her husband of 10 years who has grown a gut that overlaps his dick or has the personality of a can of paint because she never thought his jokes were funny to begin with. "
@ 11:12 Thank You.Men got to keep it tight too. Can't fall apart and expect their woman to be OK with that!
Nothing coming out of Wendy or Tyrese's mouth is worth getting bent out of shape over. They are in the entertainment business, and if they don't entertain you, move on.
The reason men cheat is because they "can"!! To many women have allowed men to use them a door mats and refuse to hold them accountable for their actions.
There will always be women available for men to cheat with.....the danger is "every women" is now capable of being an unwilling victim of catching HIV-Aids!!
@2:23am & 2:16 & 3:53 Surely, you're not comparing yourself to Freud and Weber are you? And Freud certainly influenced Sociology, but he was a Psychologist.
and actually I do look down on Marx-- and Sociology, since you aren't sophisticated enough to understand, is an antiquated field. And unless you plan on getting your MA or PhD, you'll never become a Sociologist--you can always become a professor though. In class, you're simply spoon fed liberal theories that further pollute your mind.
Sociology degrees are the EASIEST most non descript, degree you can seek. I initially got my Bachelors of Science in Biology then went back and got my MFA in Film.
I discovered that people majoring in Sociology are very foolish and easily manipulated. In other words--you can't think for yourself and are a follower rather than a leader. Not to mention the fact, that you'll never make any real money.
That's my opinion(well not just my opinion)--I prefer Hard Sciences rather than social sciences, but I can understand how a lesser mind would be drawn to Sociology, as all the work has already been done for you, so all you have to do is regurgitate theories researched by people smarter than yourself.
I'm not trying to knock your education, by any means, just perhaps you should pick a major that will actually help you find employment or become an entrepreneur.
^^^ The other poster you're referring to might have other degrees as well. The fact that you're downgrading a Sociology degree means that you probably don't have any social skills and probably have problems being social and making friends. Your degrading statememt proves that because it seems like you can't talk to a person without being condescending and dismissive of their achievements. You sound exactly like a person who has no social skills. And that type of person is typically a sociopath.
#FAIL --well, if that's what the study of sociology is telling you, you obviously get straight F's because a sociopath is the exact OPPOSITE of all the characteristics that you just claimed I have. LMAO! #FAIL
You definitely need to find a new major, dear. --And I say that with love.
@3:18 it saddens me that you are unclear of what sociology is. Diagnosing mental disorders is the 'job' of a psychologist/psychiatrist--not a sociologist. You should be focused on studying groups within a culture/society, as that is what a sociologist is trained to do.
but nice try. I should slap you with a malpractice lawsuit. (just kidding)
Signs of a Sociopathic Personality
Charm The most useful tool of a sociopath is charm. Sociopaths are able to turn on the smile or take advantage of social situations to lure people into their web. Ted Bundy, for instance, would sometimes feign an injury like putting an arm into a sling to elicit sympathy. This charm is why some sociopaths, despite the personality disorder, can have marital relationships.
To say men are expected to cheat is the hugest cop out there is to date! Especially people who claim to be christains! Where in the bible does it say it's okay to commit adultery, and sleep around if you're a man?... Last time I checked it was wrong for both MEN and women. Everyone walking the earth is faced with temptation to sin and things that are not always right, but to say I'm a man therefore it's expected of me and I have to just give in to my temptations is RIDICULOUS! And it starts early. The same way we teach our daughters when they're young to keep their legs closed, we need teach that same message to our sons as well.
The fact that a person has to demean or dismiss someone else's academic degree to make their point - coupled with the perceived angry feel that I sense in your comment - gives me the impression that you think you are better than everyone else because of whatever degrees you have.
A person who operates in life with some kind of superiority complex typically has trouble making friends and keeping relationships going because they feel like everyone is beneath them.
And if sociology is so beneath you (as you've implied) then why did you feel the need to run to a dictionary and look it up? So you can be in a hurry to try to prove a point to me? And you saying that a sociology degree is nothing to brag about, why do you feel like that? Is it because you think your biology and filmmaking degrees are more than what someone else has? If yours is special to you, then let what the next person have be special to them. You aint gotta like it, but you aint gotta talk bad on it, either.
@4:58pm I didn't have to look anything up about Sociology. I was required to take a intro sociology class to fulfill my social sciences credit requirement. Sociology is not so complex a subject that I would need to 'look' it up.
And I apologize If I offended you or anyone else. I was just annoyed with the person going on about how great feminism is and wanted to give a different perspective.
Cheating is nothing new. And it's so hard to find someone that you can perfectly mesh with which is why men are always on the prowl.
America/Western culture has become obsessed with easy sex and it seems everybody wants to live like a rockstar/rapper and bed as many women as possible--which is why I marred a guy from another country not so plagued by cultural mores that make cheating acceptable.
Bill Clinton pretty much opened the door for all men to get away with cheating. I'm sure many women felt that if Hillary 'got over' Bill's cheating then they could get over their man's cheating too. That whole Bill & Hillary fiasco triggered a mass psychological manipulation/deception of women that has hindered interpersonal relationships between the sexes.
What kind of jobs are open to a person with a degree in Socialogy ?? This is far more interesting than hearing about a man screwing around on his wife {yawn{ boring.
@ 2:27 PM, There are habitual liars from all walks of life. Putting race and gender in such a statement serves only as an attempt to incite and antagonize others, for no constructive reason.
Yes, men are expected to cheat. Society rewards this kind of behavior, always has.
Men give other men a pass.
Many women give their sons, brothers, husbands and boyfriends MANY passes.
The side women get called all kinds of names, get beat up and the wife/main woman will be at home cooking spagetti for her cheating man directly after she beats her competitor's behind.
Women will keep a man who molests her children.
Yes, people expect men to cheat.
But here is the thing, women don't have to accept it.
While you cannot stop a man from cheating if that is what he wants to do, what women CAN do is choose a man who does not exhibit that kind of behavior AND let him know you can and will be should he decide to wander off. And NEVER be totally financially dependent on him.
None of this is a guarantee, but you can make it clear that you will not tolerate being yoked with a promiscous man and CAN AND WILL walk away if that is the kind of man he wants to be.
No accpeting him back.
Right now, the cost is not high enough for many men to stop spreading his seed around.
^^^ TYPO ALERT While you cannot stop a man from cheating if that is what he wants to do, what women CAN do is choose a man who does not exhibit that kind of behavior AND let him know you can and will LEAVE HIM should he decide to wander off.
Focus on the man when the real issue is your sista gurl gettin it in behind your back. Cheating is about women in the context of creation and oppertunity. Your attitude creates the gap ya gurl creates the oppertunity. Don't confuse a cheater with a liar. A liar is a liar and a cheater is a liar who hasn't been caught. If he's getting it in with ya gurl, don't give her a pass, she played you to. Funny thing is a man won't cheat under one circumstance, it's when you got him "wide open" but ya'll think that shit is funny and don't recognize the value of it. The first thing you do is go run and tell, "I go that nicca wide open" so now he's a sucka cause he's taking care of your ass, really? anyway's therea million reason whya mawfuccka will bounce but real talk, take a look at yo shite first. No, No , No, whine, complain, whine, yeah go head with that cause ya gurl is riding me balls deep.
A woman is more inclined to find ONE MAN to fulfill ALL of her needs, whereas a man will find MANY WOMEN to fulfull his ONE need. ************************* Who told you that lie...I got a computer man, Mr. fix it man and the beat and eat man!! Girl stop tellings lies to to fam!!! ******************************* LOL
His stylist needs their ass kicked cause that grey suit got him lookin all kinds of ashy. #notdoinghimjustice Should have went with a blue, even coral or black. Geez, your stupid comment might have been a little more digestable if you wasn't lookin so grey Ty Ty. Luv you doe...
A woman is more inclined to find ONE MAN to fulfill ALL of her needs, whereas a man will find MANY WOMEN to fulfull his ONE need.
and -
I don't need six separate mofos to do the job(s) that ONE man can do. Most women ARE satisfied with just one man in their lives. Most men are NOT satisfied with just one woman in their lives.
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A dumb ass bitch said in response -
Who told you that lie...I got a computer man, Mr. fix it man and the beat and eat man!! Girl stop tellings lies to to fam!!!
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Another Anonymous said -
the original topic of the post was basically about sex and men cheating. somebody said it up top and i agree with it: a woman will feel inclined to find one man to fulfill all of her needs; a man will find multiple women to fulfill his one need. for a woman, its mostly about stability and companionship and emotional fulfillment, so she will find herself one man to fulfill all of those needs. a man doesn't particularly care about stability, companionship or emotional fulfillment; a man mostly cares about sex and so he will seek out multiple women to fulfill that sex need because, as we've all been told, men love variety and they can't be with just one woman. even if a man is married, he is still prone to cheating because if his wife won't give him head, he'll go and find a woman who will, thus leading to the statement that a man will find multiple women to fulfill his one need. that's the message i got from the previous poster who made the statement and i appreciate that because it makes a whole lot of sense, to me.
let me add to that statement: women go after quality, men go after quantity. and if there is a woman out there who seeks quantity rather than quality, then she must be the hooker who's getting paid to do what she do and she'll take a dollar from every man, no matter what they look like, whether they're married or not.
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The dumb ass bitch poster then said -
Stop contradicting yourself...you just said MOST!!! I ain't most...that man hasn't found me yet...I hate when people use the word most then get upset
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This poster says -
Bitch, if you aint MOST women, then why the fuck did you open your mouth? The comments wouldn't even apply to you. You only made yourself look really dumb. The topic involved the things a woman looks for in ONE MAN: stability, companionship, emotional fulfillment, not that shit you talking about (computer man, fix it man, etc.) If you aint found your ONE man yet, then shut the fuck up and don't respond if you don't have anything intelligent to say. And like somebody said: the CDC, HHS and the WHO are looking for you.
@8:09 I totally feel you on that. Why do women feel as though the "other" woman in these instances is exempt from being held accountable? IF she knew about you, she's a hoe just like he is for cheating on you. I HATE it when two women find out that a man has been playing them and after fighting with each other they come together to fight him together. Problem is ONE of those tricks knew about the other but still continued to sleep with him behind the others' back. It's pathetic how some women play the "girl power" card when they see their ho shit isn't successful. Some of yall know damn well if you could fuck someone's man (probably your friend's) and get away with it you would. Bitches don't come together til they feel they need each others' moral support, other than that yall are fucking each others' man's brains out and thinking NOTHING of it.
This goes out that Feminist Sociology major from the Tyrese post several days ago. Please stop repeating the lies of your white feminist professors. They only seek to indoctrinate you--and they are wrong.
There Is No Male-Female Wage Gap
A study of single, childless urban workers between the ages of 22 and 30 found that women earned 8% more than men.
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Why did he go there with her? Her husband cheating is still fresh!
Black men are habitual liars!
Who raised him? Expected to cheat? I think not. A REAL MAN doesn't have to be immoral. He'd rather stay single and play the field. Relationships come with Expectations of fidelity. Maybe this is why his didn't work out. Peace.
Doesnt make it right... but he has a point.
This coming from the man who made a big deal about married women hanging out with their single friends. This "aurthur" needs to shove that book and his b.s. advice up his ass and stfu.
he was tellin the truth i cant tell yall how many times i have heard a older man tell younger boys that its good to be a player to date as many women as they can and than when i step in and say its not they say yes it is cuz at least you know the boy aint gay its good for a boy to date a lot of women. like if a boy wanted to stay with jus one girl thats unhealthy and his manhood has to be questioned.
If he don't go suck elephant's asshole with that bullshit!!!!
she used to play the "oohh, how you doin'" soundtrack to his name whenever it came up in topic. this was when Artie was her sidekick. and ya'll know Miss or Mr. Wendy ain't ever wrong, ain't eva lied about the DL'ers
Well, I guess any jackass can write a book.
but, I guess it was his opinion..
LMFAO @ Wendy!!
Co-sign with 2:28...A lot of men don't know how to keep their dxck in their pants, BUT there are some monogamous men out there (so don't listen to that BS Tyrese is pushing). You shouldn't get deep into a relationship unless you're ready to be 100% faithful!!
she cut him off and what he was tryin' to say was:
"Men are expected to cheat....when they can't do the PASO DOBLE...."
I think that men do what we allowed them to do yes most men cheat but with certain values and life change we can change that fact in to legancies from now. To me parent these days do not want to do the hard work when there children are little so what you end up getting is grown as monster instead of little monsters that can be changed.
If that is the case a woman is expected to cheat too tyrese sit your bald head ass down men are expected to cheat? really? tell that to std's
I think when women fall short because of the actions of men we are destroying the world. When women choose not to have character and self respect and control we all might as well be whores men and women. I just wish that women would step up there game by not allowing the men to feel that this is achievable.
Agreed @ 2:44
@ 2:35
You're a dumbass if you believe that crap, what does a man sexing alot of women have to do with his sexuality? just because a man sleeps with alot of women doesn't excludes them from being a homosexual. I bet Mr. Cee was sleeping with a lot of women too and look what happened to him got caught with his dick in another man mouth. Smh black women please tell me you are smarter than this please don't believe a thing that tyrese says
My point is the guy is cheating with someone and the other woman in most cases knows he is with someone else but she thinks her stuff is going to be soo good he will leave the other lady. So women in our culture uphold this vicious cycle of dysfunction. It takes a family to make a community, if 80% of the homes in a community are broken how do you expect to have a good community.
I never saw what other women claim to see in this idiot. When he takes his behind to a real college and gets a REAL EDUCATION in Psychology, then he can talk to me.
He's always be an idiot, that's why Naomi took him to the cleaners. He has no leg to stand on! Cheat on me and you'd better sleep with one eye open for the rest of your LIFE, and that's after I get rid of you!
This DUMB A-S-S! There are many men who are taught to be REAL MEN, and not some ravenous dog out in the street.
A mofo who can't even spell the word "author" should not even be talking - especially about romance and relationships.
She's better than me because I would've summoned security and had them escort him out IMMEDIATELY and never mentioned his name AGAIN!
An older male friend once told me to be careful of a man who sleeps around a lot because a man who sleeps with a lot of women will surely sleep with a man because he's curious.
I have no idea about the validity of this person's statement, but in may ways I'm beginning to believe what he said
@ 2:28
HIGH FIVE TO THAT STATEMENT.
"Who raised him" is right!
"Stay single" is right!
Be in a open relationship, duh!
Maybe men in shitty relationships with a negative women, or a dumb annoying or mean women are "expected to cheat" and it's not a surprise to anyone that they cheated because we all saw it coming, but no one "expects" a man with a supportive friend/lover to cheat just because that's what men do.
Baby Boy was a movie, Tyrese get out of that mind set and grow up.
Men like Tyrese come a dime a dozen. Too many of them share this very same damaged and warped psychology.
Ladies, be aware of whom you give your precious time to because youth cannot be reclaimed. And please don't bother with this "black love" nonsense. Your dating pool should not be limited to Black men only because they damn sure don't restrict themselves to Black women.
Also tweak your gaydar and listen to your inner voice when you feel he's no good. In that case, scrape him off like a plate full of dried out bones and never look back. Life is to short for this kind of nonsense.
@ 3:09 this rings with truth. i've also heard maybe he's trying to convince himself he's straight.
"scrape him off like a plate full of dried out bones and never look back. Life is to short for this kind of nonsense. "
I heard THAT!
Yvette... come and get Jody! LOL
My book would so be left under the seat when I leave the show.
"Men like Tyrese come a dime a dozen. Too many of them share this very same damaged and warped psychology.
Ladies, be aware of whom you give your precious time to because youth cannot be reclaimed. And please don't bother with this "black love" nonsense. Your dating pool should not be limited to Black men only because they damn sure don't restrict themselves to Black women.
Also tweak your gaydar and listen to your inner voice when you feel he's no good. In that case, scrape him off like a plate full of dried out bones and never look back. Life is to short for this kind of nonsense."
THIS IS INDEED MUSIC TO MY EARS. I LOVE IT.
he made a good valid point.. of course its not gonna cross over to the female listeners too well, but women be aware of when a man speaks.. sometimes its good to shut up and listen.. you can learn a few things about a man! Women need to let a man be a man and play your position to perfection.. its stupid for a woman to give up some puzzi cuz her dude cheated
#slut
I am just dying for an STD! It is what I always wanted! Something to contract and end my life or prevent me from having kids!
TOO THINK I WAS GOING TOO BUY THAT BOOK ...DISAPPOINTED IN YOU TYRESE ..FOR REAL!
@3:17 and 3:09:
The Truth, I can't say more!
Hope Wendy had her Dr. Scholl's on for this interview...
@ 3:30 I did listen to a man... My dad. He told me to stay away from fools like you and find a man that respects me enough to be faithful. It worked.
@ 4:00
Cosign :)
damn wendy williams got a nigga dick hard as chinese arithmetics shit i want that ass like right now
all of y'all on here talkin bout he lyin are getting cheated on. period.
Co sign with 2:27, 2:44 and 2:57 and 4:00PM
"play her postion" when you play yours then you can require a woman to play her...Men can't even stay in the home to raise the kids they help made or put food on the table but you want to tell me how to be a woman...I don't have children but I will speak up for the humble good mothers out here that deal with dead beat men...Men who have something to prove usually have something to hide.
well,since women the majority of the young men
today....whats that saying...men on this thread
dont even respond..Wendy/these new warped
women of today dont want the truth....they
want an Oprahfied version that goes well with
afternoon tea. Tyrese wasnt speaking for all men
he was speaking for a large percentage of men
and women need to listen since yall want to
play mother and father theses days.
all of y'all on here talkin bout he lyin are getting cheated on. period.
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Trust so is the MAN...women can be sneaky too, cook your food and smile...and still fool around while you at work.
i heard lil jody sucked melvin's dick off set
WENDY LOVE YOU ....FOR LOOKING OUT AND NOT LETTING HIM GET AWAY WITH THAT ...WENDY YOU WERE TOO NICE!!!! THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH THE YOUNGER GENARATION NOW!!! MORALS AND VALUES DON'T MEAN ANYTHING ANYMORE!!!! IF IT IS WRONG ...BUT IT FEELS GOOD (DO WHAT YOU WANT TOO DO )!!!!!!!!! NOW THAT IS A PROBLEM ..YOU HAVE TOO ., HAVE HIM BACK ON YOUR SHOW .....SORRY TOO MANY YOUNG , GIRLS ARE LOOKING AT YOUR SHOW!!! HE IS WRONG!!!!!!!!! THAT IS NOT OF GOD!!!!!!!!!!
Call it what it is...insecurity!!! You wonder why women choose status over potential. Money can't love you but if the man that I am with is that insecure that he has to cheat all the time...I would rather him be stable and good provider. Not broke and loser working minimum wage.
I miss the days when the only problems we had were racial inequality back when black men used to take care of their women and family and side family. Now days ain’t no family structure.
I honestly think that men are expected to cheat; but at the same time either the woman needs to do what shes got to do to keep her man, and if not, then she should leave him, its a shame that when a girl does all she can, she still gets cheated on, i swear just about everybody that i know, has been cheated on by their husband, its a shame 4real..
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That's why I will never ever ever ever get married. I was talking to my grandma yesterday she admitted how horrible my gradfather was to her...now she is a widow...messing with a 50yr old man with 4 kids...I think he is taking her money...she always talking about how she "lost"$40 out of a coat with a hole in it...umm humm...at 74 it ain't like you got much options...ladies pick wisely because you will end up trapped and miserable with a loser!!!
I honestly think that men are expected to cheat; but at the same time either the woman needs to do what shes got to do to keep her man, and if not, then she should leave him.
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A simple soultion would be to man up!!! How is it that you enter a realtionship not evenly yoked (alot of kids or didn't receive higher eduction) but you feel that you can cheat but I can't as if I should be miserable with a scrub circa 1999.
That is what is wrong with Black men they think a woman is "hard up" for a loser and wonder why the smart ones choose status over potential...I am not hard up on a broke insecure man with alot of kids spread out everywhere and averge in looks and junk size!!!
Men are not expected to cheat. They are just hardwired to be WEAK when it comes to succumbing to lust.
Yes, women cheat and are often more sneaky and deliberate about it than men, but when we do stray, it's more often for emotional reasons and not sex! Does that make it right? You be the judge.
My biggest gripe with cheating men, however, is the cowardice they show by not being strong and loyal to their partners and mostly, the potential for bringing home deadly and disgusting diseases.
So think about it fellas: you cannot protect yourself or your wife from a mean case of herpes by using a fucking condom.
No answer to why folks think a woman is hard up on a average looking man with no money...proudly single...my male stripper *friend* irks me but at least he can walk the walk....very good looking and has a huge p****.
Women hate cheating cause men turn psycho...crazy possessive and paranoid cause they think you out doing something...a man that cheats will most likely not want sex as much with you, always secreative and combatitive...who wants to live like that...I can't be miserable and I don't care how fine a man is!!
A woman is more inclined to find ONE MAN to fulfill ALL of her needs, whereas a man will find MANY WOMEN to fulfull his ONE need.
"Leave and cleave" - thats what the Word says.
But does anybody read the Word anymore?
A woman is more inclined to find ONE MAN to fulfill ALL of her needs, whereas a man will find MANY WOMEN to fulfull his ONE need.
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Who told you that lie...I got a computer man, Mr. fix it man and the beat and eat man!! Girl stop tellings lies to to fam!!!
Say what you want I refuse to miserable...I am 24 with no children and live on my own I will not be miserable with no MAN that ain't equally yoked!!!
@5:25 - You must be single. I was speaking for the married women ...
That what you talkin' 'bout - I found all that in ONE man. I don't need six separate mofos to do the job(s) that ONE man can do. Most women ARE satisfied with just one man in her life. Most men are NOT satisfied with just one woman in his life.
Is that any clearer for you?
"Leave and cleave" and "Forsaking all others."
Come on, now ...
@3:09, @3:17 & @4:00PM, PREACH!!!!!!
@4:39, No hunny I'd rather work and support myself, than limit myself to a worthless man, regardless of his status. Money can't buy me love. Money can't buy me period. My spirit and well-being aren't for sell.
*Sale not sell
@5:25 the CDC is looking for you to come in and sign a statement to allow them to inform all the men you infected with aids
Tyrese is an idiot. I would have respected him more if he'd simply said "men cheat because they can... because too many of y'all accept it"
A Real Man just Saying:
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@3:09, @3:17 & @4:00PM, PREACH!!!!!!
5:45 PM
Cosign all that. Truth be told, a young man is an example of his father or what he's taught by any man in teenage years. If he's taught to be unfaithful @ an early age and is successful he will continue to live with that mindset.Tyrese is a prodigy of that mindset. Shallow,but truthful in only what he was taught and knows,and he doesn't really know Sh*t about being a Real Man. I'm a Real Man and I don't judge,but I see this in my family even. Sh*tty Dad or a bad example for one = this big head little head mentality. Thing is the little head runs the show....
I guess his mouth was still in the way....
Thank you 6:10.You prove that Real Men DO exist! Tired of people actin like yall are extinct. Rare, maybe. Extinct, hell to the no. Whicheva lucky lady gets you is a lucky chick.
from 6:22. excuse me, I meant Terrance.
Terrence :-)don't like nobody misspelling my name either.
NO Trust, no Loyalty=NO LOVE. Black men need to get it together. For the brothers who are making it work with their WAGS, all the love.
5:25 the CDC is looking for you to come in and sign a statement to allow them to inform all the men you infected with aids
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Sweetheart I am free of all three diseases...AIDS its counterpart KIDS and a insecure man. I don't affect anyone DL are doing that just fine...ain't that right Mr. Cee and MASE
5:25 the CDC is looking for you to come in and sign a statement to allow them to inform all the men you infected with aids
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Honey a tranny that is sucking "straight" men off...that's going around telling people they aint gay needs to report to the CDC
That's why I will never ever ever ever get married. I was talking to my grandma yesterday she admitted how horrible my gradfather was to her...now she is a widow...messing with a 50yr old man with 4 kids...I think he is taking her money...she always talking about how she "lost"$40 out of a coat with a hole in it...umm humm...at 74 it ain't like you got much options...ladies pick wisely because you will end up trapped and miserable with a loser!!!
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You need to pull that 50 year old to the side and tell him that if any more money goes missing from granny's pockets, you're gonna pop a cap in that a-s-s!
Grannies are to be cherished.
That's why I will never ever ever ever get married. I was talking to my grandma yesterday she admitted how horrible my gradfather was to her...now she is a widow...messing with a 50yr old man with 4 kids...I think he is taking her money...she always talking about how she "lost"$40 out of a coat with a hole in it...umm humm...at 74 it ain't like you got much options...ladies pick wisely because you will end up trapped and miserable with a loser!!!
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You need to pull that 50 year old to the side and tell him that if any more money goes missing from granny's pockets, you're gonna pop a cap in that a-s-s!
Grannies are to be cherished.
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I do agree with that.....It's my assumption and you know how women are when confronted about a man, they ain't doing shat until they ready...by her being 74 years old and her making excuses like we born yesterday well ...it makes it tuff for the folks who love her.
@5:25 - You must be single. I was speaking for the married women ...
That what you talkin' 'bout - I found all that in ONE man. I don't need six separate mofos to do the job(s) that ONE man can do. Most women ARE satisfied with just one man in her life. Most men are NOT satisfied with just one woman in his life.
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Stop contradicting yourself...you just said MOST!!! I ain't most...that man hasn't found me yet...I hate when people use the word most then get upset
There are good dawgs and bad dawgs, but all men have a bit of the bow-wow in them.
Wendy's question was loaded because men don't know why they cheat. Like the funk master sang, "why must I feel like that, why must I chase the cat!"
Men wish they knew why they chased women, then they might be able to control it--or so they think.
I like the battle between the sexes because when it comes to sex, women rule--especially sistahs.
Women are so crazy!bmost men cheat, but some cheat more compared to others. There are men who cheat constantly(I wouldn't advice you stay with him) and men who fuck up once in a while. It's just how men are. When you can come accpet it, your life will be so much better.This is from a female who works mostly in a male dominated field. I have been married for 9 years,I'm only 30, but I will never act chilhsih and believe that he hasn't cheated. Humans do get bored with each other sexually, even though the love is still there. I'm not insecure or desperate to keep a man, but I accept teh reality of situation. A reall man will never keep a mistress or disrespect you on that level, but he may fuck kesha or nicole once in a blue moon. Mena nd women are attarcted to each other, and shit can sometimes go down. I know women are going to attack this comment, but it's true,we just don't want to believe it. There are men that are 100% faithful, but they are not that common like men who fuck up or men who are just straight up nasty ass dogs.
Women who tell the world they got a good man...idk they could have that Gloria from BBW syndrome...(acting like her shit don't stink) are the main ones who miss the point of what women say...there are good men who exist yes!! But you still don't have all the answers...In the words of Ty E. Muhammad "we want you in the real and not in the fake"....life ain't a fairytale for everybody and what Tyrese is saying is the type of dude most women get and its unfortunate...
We live in a society that just suppress women period! Sexually and financially....take a anthropology class and you will different forms of marriage being practice around the world...polyandry is a form of marriage that has one woman with many husbands...usually fraternal polyandry...this occurs in Tibet, parts of India and Nigeria...a woman has multiple husbands so the men can all inherit family wealth...other societies don't have husbands...they live with the matriarch...take a Anthropology course and stop letting warped minds of Black men ruin you
Tyrese is an idiot and very immature He sounds like he was raised by a pack of wolves.
We aren't to cheat... we're meant to have more than one wife. Check the record *ahem* I mean bible.
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Having more than one wife for what...hell most won't even go to the alter nor do they financially step up to the plate to take care of one woman most of the time...can we get mature men who focus on building a future for their family and not concerned with childish shit...a 30year old man should leave this shit to the kiddies.
^^Um no boo. We're under New Testament rules now.
1 Corinthians 7:2
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 For this is the will of God, that you should be consecrated (separated and set apart for pure and holy living): that you should abstain and shrink from all sexual vice,
That each one of you should know how to control his own body in consecration (purity, separated from things profane) and honor,
Not [to be used] in the passion of lust like the heathen, who are ignorant of the true God and have no knowledge of His will,
A real (wo)man controls his/her body instead of acting like an animal, humping whatever looks good to it.
If your bible is missing these books, then go get a new one.
A real (wo)man controls his/her body instead of acting like an animal, humping whatever looks good to it.
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And so should a real man...BOO! Tyrese himself said all mean cheat so now what BOO!
We all shouldn't fornicate either BOO! Have you done that...we all shouldn't lie, cheat and steal or disrespect our parents have you done that BOO!
Who gone check me BOO! I just had to say that...BOO!
Tyrese is an example of a man who has fallen for TV's disgusting representation of what a "man" acts like and has takent it to be truth. Why should 1. anyone know how many sexual partners you have had? 2. Having more partners than another man doesn't make you "the man" it just increases your risk for disease, unplanned pregnancy and difficulties bonding with a female partner.
Since the coons like white women so much check what Ashley Judd had to say about HIP HOP
"I believe that the social construction of gender -- the cultural beliefs and practices that divide the sexes and institutionalize and normalize the unequal treatment of girls and women, privilege the interests of boys and men, and, most nefariously, incessantly sexualize girls and women -- is the root cause of poverty and suffering around the world."
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A sociologist believes that poverty is cause my lack of JOBS and institutional racism by banks and realtors...redlining creates hyper-segregation which PERPETUATES a cycle of poverty, crime and drugs which creates a mentality that its normal because that's all they know...
tyrese has latched onto the steve harvey self-help gravy train!
@7:59 I've taken many an anthopology class--you you've said nothing i(or anyone else) doesn't already know. what's your point though? Polyandry in Tibet was usually practiced among brothers so that the land would remain within the family. and among polyandry if a man wants to 'divorce' a women the man only need leave--no court hearing or alimony required.
women are free in the USA, so spare me your bullshit about how women are suppressed.
^^ TV and entertainment can really paint life in a messed up way. How many of us have heard of the wild west shootouts. Because of TVs and movies we believed that there were shootouts everyday with bodies flying down dead by the dozens. In reality the MOST murders to happen in any wild west town in one year was FIVE.
So don't believe this hype on "real men sleep with all these women blah blah". And ladies instead of trying to say "why cant we sleep around with all these men if men can sleep around with tons of women" we should be stearing away from me that are so promiscous.
@8:39
My point is that men are saying that women can't cheat, why not are you insecure. Other cultures practice polyandry so its not cheating is just culture...and as far as saying women aren't oppressed...along with that Anthropology course take a WOMEN'S STUDIES course...if it wasn't for 2nd wave feminism you wouldn't have the rights you have today...women are still oppressed in the workforce...why is childcare a woman's issue and not a man's...why do men get tenure more than women....why do women get paid .70 cent on the dollar for doing the same job as a man? Why do women have to wear lipstick and high heels just to be noticed and if not considered to be plain and unattractive.
Aurthur struck a nerve on that one. Wendy leaned back and them titties almost stood up and boxed Aurthur off the couch.
His statement was naive and misguided. While men do have a reputation for cheating women don't go into relationships expecting men to cheat on them - that's laughable. He was right about the double standard but he tried to used it to justify his statement.
Men that truly want to be faithful simply don't put themselves in situations. The keep shit 100% platonic and professional with other females, and they let their lady what's goin' on with them. Men that don't give a shit about being faithful, you can find these niggas at the club, engaging in flirtatious relationships with female "friends" and females on the job, and frequently putting themselves in situations ripe for drama.
Of course, it's not always that cut n dry, but more/less, you have make a decision on whether or not you wanna be faithful and respect ya lady, and then come to an understanding of what it's gonna take to stay true to that. The "men are expected to cheat" is just one of those bullshit cop-outs that immature people (men and women alike) use when they need to justify whey they used to (or still do) fuck around. It aint that hard to figure out tho. The nigga that goes to work, behaves at work, and takes his ass home, and keeps his fam with him when he moves around, is much less likely to end up in some bullshit than the nigga that's supposedly in a serious relationship or marriage, yet still runnin with his boys and puttin himself in situations where he's surrounded by other females. A real nigga figures out his own tendencies and weaknesses and communicates with his woman so that those demons can't fuck with their bond. He's likely learned from his mistakes and used em to better himself. A little boy only pretends to communicate, and stays magnetized by every other piece of ass that walks by. He makes excuses for his mistakes and he might be good for a while, but it's just a matter of time before he goes out in search of the same bullshit. Kinda how I see it.
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Ladies spitting that bullshit, you heard it from a man 8:55 so stop selling yourself short trying to look cool for men who behave like boys...stop making excuses cause it makes it hard for women who don't have low self esteem and wont take no BS from a man.
"The nigga that goes to work, behaves at work, and takes his ass home, and keeps his fam with him when he moves around, is much less likely to end up in some bullshit..."
Including the tease from the married but "man-hungry" neighbor outside gardening in a bikini.. LOL
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You're right PREACH to the uninformed.
@8:45 lol spare me your tired, liberal claptrap mantras about feminism. no one said you have to wear lipstick or heels.
you're only regurgitating bs from progressive white female(probably lesbian) professors.
when you learn to think for yourself get back to me.
In a recent book, Red Feminism: American Communism and the Making of Women's Liberation, (2002) feminist historian Kate Weigand states: "ideas, activists and traditions that emanated from the Communist movement of the forties and fifties continued to shape the direction of the new women's movement of the 1960s and later."(154)
In fact, Weigand, a lecturer at Smith College, shows that modern feminism is a direct outgrowth of American Communism. There is nothing that feminists said or did in the 1960's-1980's that wasn't prefigured in the CPUSA of the 1940's and 1950's. Many second-wave feminist leaders were "red diaper babies," the children of Communists.
Communists pioneered the political and cultural analysis of woman's oppression. They originated women's studies, and advocated public daycare, birth control, abortion and even children's rights. They forged key feminist concepts such as "the personal is the political" and techniques such as "consciousness raising."
In the late 1940's, CPUSA leaders realized that the labor movement was becoming increasingly hostile to Communism. They began to focus on women and African Americans. They hoped "male supremacy" would "bring more women into the organization and into the fight against the domestic policies of the Cold War." (80)
Communist women who made up 40% of the party wanted more freedom to attend party meetings. After the publication of "Women Against Myth" in 1948, the CPUSA initiated a process of "re-educating" men that we recognize only too well today.
For example, in the party newspaper "The Daily Worker" a photo caption of a man with a young child read, "Families are stronger and happier if the father knows how to fix the cereal, tie the bibs and take care of the youngsters." (127)
The Party ordered men who didn't take the woman question seriously to complete "control tasks involving study on the woman question." In 1954 the Los Angeles branch disciplined men for "hogging discussion at club meetings, bypassing women comrades in leadership and making sex jokes degrading to women." (94)
A film Salt of the Earth, which critic Pauline Kael called "Communist propaganda", portrayed women taking a decisive role in their husbands' labor strike. "Against her husband's wishes, Esperanza became a leader in the strike and for the first time forged a role for herself outside of her household... [her] political successes persuaded Ramon to accept a new model of family life." (132) Portrayals of strong assertive successful women became as common in the Communist press and schools, as they are in the mass media today.
Communist women formalized a sophisticated Marxist analysis of the "woman question." The books In Women's Defense (1940) by Mary Inman, Century of Struggle (1954) by Eleanor Flexner and The Unfinished Revolution (1962) by Eve Merriam recorded women's oppression and decried sexism in mass culture and language. For example, Mary Inman argued that "manufactured femininity" and "overemphasis on beauty" keeps women in subjection (33).
The founder of modern feminism, Betty Frieden relied on these texts when she wrote The Feminine Mystique (1963). These women all hid the fact that they were long-time Communist activists. In the 1960, their daughters had everything they needed, including the example of subterfuge, to start the Women's Liberation Movement.
damn BeeGee you spittin some serious! PREACH BABY.
@8:45 "Why do women have to wear lipstick and high heels just to be noticed and if not considered to be plain and unattractive."
Attracting the opposite sex is not specific to homo sapiens.
Male peacocks display their iridescent feathers for prospective female mates. Females may check out the feathers of a number of different males before deciding on a suitor. The length and quality of a male peacock's feathers can indicate his age, vigor, and status.
Try reading some of Charles Darwin's eugenic works and you may figure out the answer to your own question.
I'd call you foolish, but that would be rude.
@9:25
History is never without flaws!!! The Civil Rights movement was born out of 2nd wave feminism...alot of good things came from that era....the Brown 1954 decision. Which ended the Jim Crow era and gave Black the right to vote. Which half of us don't even do today. You want to talk about Communism...Republicans are their long lost relative...which is not what Abraham Lincoln Republican party was !!!
Scratch that last part out Communism and Republicans is more like "socialism" but it still doesn't address my point of women being oppressed by society...Betty Friedan shed light on a issue of depression in middle class women because of their new roles as wife and mother, back then women were in the home or had gender roles in the workforce which we still practice today....nurse, secretary and teacher...Women are oppressed by a male white society I don't care what you say
@9:08 shut your ignorant ass up. you're clueless.
I may have made a mistake with that last sentence but what you said made absolutely no sense!!! Communism is interelated to the Marxist theory that the proletariat is oppressed by the Bourgeois in society...if you don't think that is the case look at what is going on in the White house today!!! Look in AA communities why are they high segregated neighborhoods when we had a bill passed in the 1960's that supposed ended unethical housing practices Blacks and women are still oppressed in this society, through stereotypes, why did we need an affirmative action in the firt place if there was never a problem, institutional racism its called "discrimination with a smile"
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Why don't you shut your ignorant ass up to sit there and say that women aren't oppressed by society you the only ignorant one on here
@9:49pm
Fuck you why don't stop writing essays? Nobody gives a shit what the fuck you have to say. You are TRYING to be a fucking know it all. Save that shit for someone who gives a fuck.
@9:46 you don't have to care what I say, but you're still wrong. Society doesn't make you or any woman do anything they don't choose to do. Being a wife and mother isn't a 'new role' women have been wives and mothers for many millenia--hardly a new concept. What Friedan did was help DIMINISH the role of wife and mother and convinced women that having a family wasn't as important as being a 'worker bee' for the STATE(Communism).
Today women can be anything they choose to be, so you clearly don't know what you're talking about.
Do you think you're the only person to take a Women's Studies class? I had my fill of condescending middle-class white women lecturing me about their 'oppression'--gtfoh
As Sojourner Truth said: "Ain't I a women?"
@9:37 Communism clearly resembles the democrat party--not the republicans. The Democrats are the ones that can't say no to entitlement programs.
@10:01 obviously you 'give a fuck'--or why did you comment, dummy.
@9:59 i didn't say women aren't oppressed. i said feminism was created by the Communist movement as a tool to take women from the family and make them worker bee's for the STATE.
so stfu since you can't comprehend what you read.
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Girl go take your meds and check your black ass back into the mental hospital. Your ass is crazy. Bitch Bye1
10:05
entitlement programs wouldn't need to exist if this country wasn't founded on segregation and discrimination...The biggest issues with the inner city is lack of JOBS...back in the 50's a unskilled man could get a job to feed his family...NOT TODAY with no jobs in the inner-city and the Republican's cutting pell grants now your ass can't go to school without a high interest loan... what are hyper segregated Blacks suppose to do...inherit the "wrong" as the norm and perpetuates attitudes which breed teen pregnancy, violence and drug use.
10:10
Clearly you can't comprehend if my whole argument was that women are oppressed by society why the fuck you writing essay's if you agreed in the first place...that was my whole argument
@9:54 "if you don't think that is the case look at what is going on in the White house today."
please expound on that sentence. make your case so I can get your point.
AA communities aren't 'highly segregated' -except by choice. What communities are you speaking of? If you mean Urban communities, urban communities are typically inhabited by AA's; just as rural communities are typically inhabited by whites. it's not a matter of segregation, but of choice & income. I CHOSE where i wanted to live(based on income, neigborhood, aesthetics, etc...
If any race is segregated it's because they choose to be or can't afford to move. I grew up in suburbs and now live in a very diverse city--i'm not buying into your bullshit.
Deprogram yourself of the white liberal bs you've been taught.
@10:14 what a weak come back. clearly you can't refute my point--because it's TRUE.
go get a real education.
@10:15 that cutting pell grants lie is BS--My mother works at a university as a Financial Aid counselor. no pell grant funds have been cut.
now we will see what happens with this govt shutdown going on NOW and what will result--but as of now, anyone with low income that wants a pell grant can get one--I know that for a FACT.
@10:15 "what are hyper segregated Blacks suppose to do...inherit the "wrong" as the norm and perpetuates attitudes which breed teen pregnancy, violence and drug use."
isn't that what many blacks have been doing all along?
Pell Grants have been available since 1973. it is now 2011 --and black people are just realizing they need to wake the fuck up? don't make me laugh. i refuse to feel sorry for people that refuse to help themselves.
10:28
A Uppity Negro I see...girl bye!
Read articles by Douglas Massey and Nancy Denton honey they can do all the talking. The underclass in which we speak of is affected by segregation and discrimination.
I am a Sociology major...I am embarrassed by your ignorance as of the history of racism and discrimination in this society. For your information we don't live in a residential integrated society because White's don't want it that way. Hence banks redlining area's forcing Black to hyper-segregate in one area where there are no upward mobile Blacks, job and lots of drug use and violence.
Sorry for the essay...but that uppity Negro got on my nerves.
This powerful and disturbing book clearly links persistent poverty among blacks in the United States to the unparalleled degree of deliberate segregation they experience in American cities.
American Apartheid shows how the black ghetto was created by whites during the first half of the twentieth century in order to isolate growing urban black populations. It goes on to show that, despite the Fair Housing Act of 1968, segregation is perpetuated today through an interlocking set of individual actions, institutional practices, and governmental policies. In some urban areas the degree of black segregation is so intense and occurs in so many dimensions simultaneously that it amounts to "hypersegregation."
The authors demonstrate that this systematic segregation of African Americans leads inexorably to the creation of underclass communities during periods of economic downturn. Under conditions of extreme segregation, any increase in the overall rate of black poverty yields a marked increase in the geographic concentration of indigence and the deterioration of social and economic conditions in black communities. As ghetto residents adapt to this increasingly harsh environment under a climate of racial isolation, they evolve attitudes, behaviors, and practices that further marginalize their neighborhoods and undermine their chances of success in mainstream American society. This book is a sober challenge to those who argue that race is of declining significance in the United States today.
NEWS-FUCKING-FLASH
Humans are NOT NATURALLY MONOGAMOUS!
If a couple wants to achieve it, they have to both MUTUALLY strive for that goal and see the value in it. Men think about sex & want to have sex NATURALLY more than women (thank testosterone) but that doesn't make men INCAPABLE of fidelity. In this day and age FIDELITY is not expected or respected as it once was. Men and women BOTH cheat for hot nasty sex. If a couple is going to make it, they have to have open, honest communication, the same value system and a steady desire to satiate their partners emotional, sexual, spiritual & financial desires.
Well at least you said humans and not MEN...women have desire's too not every woman is sexually satisfied with her husband of 10 years who has grown a gut that overlaps his dick or has the personality of a can of paint because she never thought his jokes were funny to begin with. Men confuse love with lust a woman may love you but that doesn't mean she doesn't lust for other men who are aesthetically more pleasing that you.
NEWS-FUCKING-FLASH
THIS GENERATION OF BLACKS WONT ACHIEVE LONG TERM (25+ years of marital monogamy) MARITAL BLISS. It was hard enough for generations past but this generation of degenerates barely value commitment let alone true partnership. This generation is straight up fucked up.
lol I don't know if 11:13 is the same as 11:06 but you go me rolling!! And I do agree my generation won't make it because of greed, brokenness and poor values.
It's the truth 11:13pm men don't take care of the home unless you a baby mama even then he may not be in the home, he is out dating with no money thus no pride...as if Black women are hard up for a insecure man with no pride. We going dutch like we roommates and you wonder why Black women have a superiority complex and always hollering they don't need a man most likely cause they don't
I love it when people think men were more faithful back in the day. Please,they had more shit going on than you could shake a stick at. I am a female and I know of the women who stayed...what else were they going to do though? They were pretty much trapped like the sistah with the grandma and hoe ass grandad. Today,these same women are teaching girls the dame shit and it pisses me off. I often say that I am not wanting to get married and I mean it. Maybe a live in partner. I just don't want to be that wife who has the husband that turns out to be a phoney. I am in college and wouldn't depend on him 100%,so if we needed a divorce,I would have my money and all,but men can be spiteful too now. I don't want a real husband for half 25 years and for the next 25 he just leaves. What a waste of fucking time that I could have spent with someone else. So many women get divorced and have kids and alot of men don't want to date a middle aged woman and with kids too,but women seem to want the middle ages man who appears to be a good father. (I am approached by a good amount of older men30's-60's and I am in college and I just ask some why they don't date women their age. I admit that some are very handsome,but no. They seem to think that they are too good for one age group,so I just usually say ewwww aloud. It is a huge double standard because some of them look beyond their age. ANYWAY I would feel betrayed. Some men just want the kids and then want to fool around I suppose. Why are people so cruel.
entitlement programs wouldn't need to exist if this country wasn't founded on segregation and discrimination...The biggest issues with the inner city is lack of JOBS...back in the 50's a unskilled man could get a job to feed his family...NOT TODAY with no jobs in the inner-city and the Republican's cutting pell grants now your ass can't go to school without a high interest loan... what are hyper segregated Blacks suppose to do...inherit the "wrong" as the norm and perpetuates attitudes which breed teen pregnancy, violence and drug use.
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How long are black people going to harp on the bullcrap from the past? As I recall, there was racism and segregation in Dr. King's day, but that didn't stop him from obtaining a PH.D. People can do whatever the HECk they need to in life if they'd stop waiting on someone to GIVE them a JOB! Negroes sit on the internet all day long and post photos and comments on Facebook and other blogs, you mean to tell me they can't think of an internet business to start? As a person who built an empire for nothing, I have NO PITY for lazy Americans who sit and WIT for someone to bring them a job...figure out how to create jobs for others and the government will pay you, or offer tax breaks at the very least. All of this racism crap is a bunch of BULL. the internet doesn't involve you showing your face unless you want to, so create a business online. there are tons of ways to make money on the net.
We live in a society that just suppress women period! Sexually and financially....take a anthropology class and you will different forms of marriage being practice around the world...polyandry is a form of marriage that has one woman with many husbands...usually fraternal polyandry...this occurs in Tibet, parts of India and Nigeria...a woman has multiple husbands so the men can all inherit family wealth...other societies don't have husbands...they live with the matriarch...take a Anthropology course and stop letting warped minds of Black men ruin you
7:59 PM
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One man is a pain in the derriere, why in the HELL would a woman even DARE deal with more than one self-serving jerk, I mean husband..LOL
matthew knowles cheated for on tina and many of the women who he slept with were darker skinned than tina.
@10:40 Hate to break it to you, but a degree in Sociology is hardly something to brag about.
@1:19 it is alright dear, Beyonce is probably asleep. What da hell does Beyonce have to do with any of this? I know you are a hot mess and just wish you looked a tenth as good.
@10:48 there will always be 'enablers' that come up with plethora excuses why blacks can't succeed. get off your ass and change your life, if this comment applies to you. stop having babies you can't afford, if this applies to you. get an education, if this applies to you. keep your legs closed, if this applies to you.
@1:32am
JUST STFU BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You can best believe this applies to your black ass.
the original topic of the post was basically about sex and men cheating. somebody said it up top and i agree with it: a woman will feel inclined to find one man to fulfill all of her needs; a man will find multiple women to fulfill his one need. for a woman, its mostly about stability and companionship and emotional fulfillment, so she will find herself one man to fulfill all of those needs. a man doesn't particularly care about stability, companionship or emotional fulfillment; a man mostly cares about sex and so he will seek out multiple women to fulfill that sex need because, as we've all been told, men love variety and they can't be with just one woman. even if a man is married, he is still prone to cheating because if his wife won't give him head, he'll go and find a woman who will, thus leading to the statement that a man will find multiple women to fulfill his one need. that's the message i got from the previous poster who made the statement and i appreciate that because it makes a whole lot of sense, to me.
let me add to that statement: women go after quality, men go after quantity. and if there is a woman out there who seeks quantity rather than quality, then she must be the hooker who's getting paid to do what she do and she'll take a dollar from every man, no matter what they look like, whether they're married or not.
@ 1:24
Neither is being a baby mama...I hate to break it to ya. If you married what did you do trap him first cause you already had a outside kid.
Having a degree in Sociology means the world to me you hating ass bitch!!!
@10:40 Hate to break it to you, but a degree in Sociology is hardly something to brag about.
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I guess you look down on Mumford, Frued, Weber and Marx too...they were sociologist!!!
Black people this is why kids think school is bad and drug dealers are good...coons who hate on other individuals....for your info...I like quality and my niche is Black poverty...I love reading and talking about it and hopefully I can be apart of the solution.
@10:40 Hate to break it to you, but a degree in Sociology is hardly something to brag about.
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LOL! This is one ignorant mufukka, yall, so please don't lower your sensibilities, your common sense and your academic sense to jawbreak with a dumb, unlearned, unschooled piece of trash. He/she is obviously one of those type of people who, when other people are having a serious conversation about serious issues, comes in with some dumb ass, silly shit that brings the discussion to a halt and makes people scratch their heads, wondering -
"Who the fuck is this clown?"
THIS IS WHAT I BELIEVE WOMAN CHEAT AS WELL, WE ARE JUST BETTER AT NOT GETTING CAUGHT, IF MEN ARE BORN TO CHEAT WHO ARE THEY CHEATING WITH? LONG LONG TIME AGO SOCIETY, BOTH MEN AND WOMEN WERE TAUGHT A MAN SLEEPING WITH COUNTLESS WOMEN IS A PIMP, PLAYA, THE MAN, HOWEVER A WOMAN IS TAUGHT SHE IS A WHORE IF SHE ACTS THE SAME, THIS WAS A TOOL DESIGNED BY MEN TO KEEP A WOMAN FROM GIVING AWAY A MANS GOODS. MAKE A WOMAN ASHAMED SHE WILL BE RELUCTANT TO SLEEP AROUND. PRAISE A MAN TO SLEEP AROUND AND FOOL EVERYONE THAT THIS IS WHAT MEN DO NATURALLY. IT IS SO CRAZY ALOT OF WOMEN BELIEVE AND ACCEPT THIS. AND ALOT OF MEN ARE CONFUSED AND BELIEVE THIS AS WELL. I BELIEVE IN GODS PLAN FOR US, THE MAKER OF ALL BEINGS THE KING OF ALL KINGS, EXPECTS A MAN AS WELL AS A WOMAN TO CHERISH THEIR BODIES AS TEMPLES OF GOD. DOES IT MAKE ANY SENSE FOR A MAN TO SLEEP WITH MANY WOMEN AND MARRY A WOMAN WHO IS A VIRGIN, HE HAS BROUGHT ALL OF SEXUAL DEMONS INTO HIS WIFE AND FUTURE CHILDREN YES SEX KEEPS DEMONS IN YOUR BODY "BOTH MALE AND FEMALE" THIS IS WHY WE STILL CRAVE AND WANT SOMEONE WE HAVE SLEPT WITH. PLEASE WAKE UP PEOPLE ONLY SATAN PROMOTES PROMISCUITY, GOD WANTS ONE WIFE FOR ONE HUSBAND PERIOD. "PROMISCUITY IS AN ACT OF SATAN"
"not every woman is sexually satisfied with her husband of 10 years who has grown a gut that overlaps his dick or has the personality of a can of paint because she never thought his jokes were funny to begin with. "
@ 11:12 Thank You.Men got to keep it tight too. Can't fall apart and expect their woman to be OK with that!
Nothing coming out of Wendy or Tyrese's mouth is worth getting bent out of shape over. They are in the entertainment business, and if they don't entertain you, move on.
Damn y'all ... this joint was jumpin' last night! This thread is perfect with my cup of coffee this morning.
The reason men cheat is because they "can"!! To many women have allowed men to use them a door mats and refuse to hold them accountable for their actions.
There will always be women available for men to cheat with.....the danger is "every women" is now capable of being an unwilling victim of catching HIV-Aids!!
@2:23am & 2:16 & 3:53 Surely, you're not comparing yourself to Freud and Weber are you? And Freud certainly influenced Sociology, but he was a Psychologist.
and actually I do look down on Marx-- and Sociology, since you aren't sophisticated enough to understand, is an antiquated field. And unless you plan on getting your MA or PhD, you'll never become a Sociologist--you can always become a professor though. In class, you're simply spoon fed liberal theories that further pollute your mind.
Sociology degrees are the EASIEST most non descript, degree you can seek. I initially got my Bachelors of Science in Biology then went back and got my MFA in Film.
I discovered that people majoring in Sociology are very foolish and easily manipulated. In other words--you can't think for yourself and are a follower rather than a leader. Not to mention the fact, that you'll never make any real money.
That's my opinion(well not just my opinion)--I prefer Hard Sciences rather than social sciences, but I can understand how a lesser mind would be drawn to Sociology, as all the work has already been done for you, so all you have to do is regurgitate theories researched by people smarter than yourself.
I'm not trying to knock your education, by any means, just perhaps you should pick a major that will actually help you find employment or become an entrepreneur.
^^^ The other poster you're referring to might have other degrees as well. The fact that you're downgrading a Sociology degree means that you probably don't have any social skills and probably have problems being social and making friends. Your degrading statememt proves that because it seems like you can't talk to a person without being condescending and dismissive of their achievements. You sound exactly like a person who has no social skills. And that type of person is typically a sociopath.
That's what the study of sociology tells me.
@3:18 lol
#FAIL --well, if that's what the study of sociology is telling you, you obviously get straight F's because a sociopath is the exact OPPOSITE of all the characteristics that you just claimed I have. LMAO! #FAIL
You definitely need to find a new major, dear.
--And I say that with love.
@3:18 it saddens me that you are unclear of what sociology is. Diagnosing mental disorders is the 'job' of a psychologist/psychiatrist--not a sociologist. You should be focused on studying groups within a culture/society, as that is what a sociologist is trained to do.
but nice try. I should slap you with a malpractice lawsuit. (just kidding)
Signs of a Sociopathic Personality
Charm
The most useful tool of a sociopath is charm. Sociopaths are able to turn on the smile or take advantage of social situations to lure people into their web. Ted Bundy, for instance, would sometimes feign an injury like putting an arm into a sling to elicit sympathy. This charm is why some sociopaths, despite the personality disorder, can have marital relationships.
http://www.ehow.com/about_5085250_signs-sociopathic-personality.html#ixzz1J3hSxhHk
To say men are expected to cheat is the hugest cop out there is to date! Especially people who claim to be christains! Where in the bible does it say it's okay to commit adultery, and sleep around if you're a man?... Last time I checked it was wrong for both MEN and women. Everyone walking the earth is faced with temptation to sin and things that are not always right, but to say I'm a man therefore it's expected of me and I have to just give in to my temptations is RIDICULOUS! And it starts early. The same way we teach our daughters when they're young to keep their legs closed, we need teach that same message to our sons as well.
The fact that a person has to demean or dismiss someone else's academic degree to make their point - coupled with the perceived angry feel that I sense in your comment - gives me the impression that you think you are better than everyone else because of whatever degrees you have.
A person who operates in life with some kind of superiority complex typically has trouble making friends and keeping relationships going because they feel like everyone is beneath them.
And if sociology is so beneath you (as you've implied) then why did you feel the need to run to a dictionary and look it up? So you can be in a hurry to try to prove a point to me? And you saying that a sociology degree is nothing to brag about, why do you feel like that? Is it because you think your biology and filmmaking degrees are more than what someone else has? If yours is special to you, then let what the next person have be special to them. You aint gotta like it, but you aint gotta talk bad on it, either.
I'm out.
@ 3:18 Touche
@9:54am
You're so right people are going off the deep end.
@beegee 1000% cosign
@4:58pm I didn't have to look anything up about Sociology. I was required to take a intro sociology class to fulfill my social sciences credit requirement. Sociology is not so complex a subject that I would need to 'look' it up.
And I apologize If I offended you or anyone else. I was just annoyed with the person going on about how great feminism is and wanted to give a different perspective.
Cheating is nothing new. And it's so hard to find someone that you can perfectly mesh with which is why men are always on the prowl.
America/Western culture has become obsessed with easy sex and it seems everybody wants to live like a rockstar/rapper and bed as many women as possible--which is why I marred a guy from another country not so plagued by cultural mores that make cheating acceptable.
Bill Clinton pretty much opened the door for all men to get away with cheating. I'm sure many women felt that if Hillary 'got over' Bill's cheating then they could get over their man's cheating too. That whole Bill & Hillary fiasco triggered a mass psychological manipulation/deception of women that has hindered interpersonal relationships between the sexes.
^^^married
What kind of jobs are open to a person with a degree in Socialogy ?? This is far more interesting than hearing about a man screwing around on his wife {yawn{ boring.
@ 2:27 PM, There are habitual liars from all walks of life. Putting race and gender in such a statement serves only as an attempt to incite and antagonize others, for no constructive reason.
Okay so when a man dogs his daughter and cheats on her I guess he's gonna tell her "you should've expected it". GTFOH!
Tyrese is telling the truth, sorry to say.
Yes, men are expected to cheat. Society rewards this kind of behavior, always has.
Men give other men a pass.
Many women give their sons, brothers, husbands and boyfriends MANY passes.
The side women get called all kinds of names, get beat up and the wife/main woman will be at home cooking spagetti for her cheating man directly after she beats her competitor's behind.
Women will keep a man who molests her children.
Yes, people expect men to cheat.
But here is the thing, women don't have to accept it.
While you cannot stop a man from cheating if that is what he wants to do, what women CAN do
is choose a man who does not exhibit that kind of behavior AND let him know you can and will be should he decide to wander off. And NEVER be totally financially dependent on him.
None of this is a guarantee, but you can make it clear that you will not tolerate being yoked with a promiscous man and CAN AND WILL walk away if that is the kind of man he wants to be.
No accpeting him back.
Right now, the cost is not high enough for many men to stop spreading his seed around.
^^^
Those who make the rules set the standards.
Men have ruled and that is why they have justified and codified their behavior, however damaging it is to the women and children involved.
^^^
TYPO ALERT
While you cannot stop a man from cheating if that is what he wants to do, what women CAN do
is choose a man who does not exhibit that kind of behavior AND let him know you can and will LEAVE HIM should he decide to wander off.
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Focus on the man when the real issue is your sista gurl gettin it in behind your back. Cheating is about women in the context of creation and oppertunity. Your attitude creates the gap ya gurl creates the oppertunity. Don't confuse a cheater with a liar. A liar is a liar and a cheater is a liar who hasn't been caught. If he's getting it in with ya gurl, don't give her a pass, she played you to. Funny thing is a man won't cheat under one circumstance, it's when you got him "wide open" but ya'll think that shit is funny and don't recognize the value of it. The first thing you do is go run and tell, "I go that nicca wide open" so now he's a sucka cause he's taking care of your ass, really? anyway's therea million reason whya mawfuccka will bounce but real talk, take a look at yo shite first. No, No , No, whine, complain, whine, yeah go head with that cause ya gurl is riding me balls deep.
The fact that he was quick to say he wouldn't give his woman a pass if she cheats lets us know he knows the shyt is WRONG.
He wouldn't put up with it but a woman is expected to. Nygga have a muthafuckkin seat.
God would not give us laws on morality if he made us all immoral. God does not put anything on us that we cannot bare. People CHOOSE to cheat
A woman is more inclined to find ONE MAN to fulfill ALL of her needs, whereas a man will find MANY WOMEN to fulfull his ONE need.
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Who told you that lie...I got a computer man, Mr. fix it man and the beat and eat man!! Girl stop tellings lies to to fam!!!
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LOL
His stylist needs their ass kicked cause that grey suit got him lookin all kinds of ashy. #notdoinghimjustice Should have went with a blue, even coral or black. Geez, your stupid comment might have been a little more digestable if you wasn't lookin so grey Ty Ty. Luv you doe...
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Is having a cheating husband worth it ?
A poster said -
A woman is more inclined to find ONE MAN to fulfill ALL of her needs, whereas a man will find MANY WOMEN to fulfull his ONE need.
and -
I don't need six separate mofos to do the job(s) that ONE man can do. Most women ARE satisfied with just one man in their lives. Most men are NOT satisfied with just one woman in their lives.
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A dumb ass bitch said in response -
Who told you that lie...I got a computer man, Mr. fix it man and the beat and eat man!! Girl stop tellings lies to to fam!!!
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Another Anonymous said -
the original topic of the post was basically about sex and men cheating. somebody said it up top and i agree with it: a woman will feel inclined to find one man to fulfill all of her needs; a man will find multiple women to fulfill his one need. for a woman, its mostly about stability and companionship and emotional fulfillment, so she will find herself one man to fulfill all of those needs. a man doesn't particularly care about stability, companionship or emotional fulfillment; a man mostly cares about sex and so he will seek out multiple women to fulfill that sex need because, as we've all been told, men love variety and they can't be with just one woman. even if a man is married, he is still prone to cheating because if his wife won't give him head, he'll go and find a woman who will, thus leading to the statement that a man will find multiple women to fulfill his one need. that's the message i got from the previous poster who made the statement and i appreciate that because it makes a whole lot of sense, to me.
let me add to that statement: women go after quality, men go after quantity. and if there is a woman out there who seeks quantity rather than quality, then she must be the hooker who's getting paid to do what she do and she'll take a dollar from every man, no matter what they look like, whether they're married or not.
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The dumb ass bitch poster then said -
Stop contradicting yourself...you just said MOST!!! I ain't most...that man hasn't found me yet...I hate when people use the word most then get upset
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This poster says -
Bitch, if you aint MOST women, then why the fuck did you open your mouth? The comments wouldn't even apply to you. You only made yourself look really dumb. The topic involved the things a woman looks for in ONE MAN: stability, companionship, emotional fulfillment, not that shit you talking about (computer man, fix it man, etc.) If you aint found your ONE man yet, then shut the fuck up and don't respond if you don't have anything intelligent to say. And like somebody said: the CDC, HHS and the WHO are looking for you.
Thank you very much!
@8:09 I totally feel you on that. Why do women feel as though the "other" woman in these instances is exempt from being held accountable? IF she knew about you, she's a hoe just like he is for cheating on you. I HATE it when two women find out that a man has been playing them and after fighting with each other they come together to fight him together. Problem is ONE of those tricks knew about the other but still continued to sleep with him behind the others' back. It's pathetic how some women play the "girl power" card when they see their ho shit isn't successful. Some of yall know damn well if you could fuck someone's man (probably your friend's) and get away with it you would. Bitches don't come together til they feel they need each others' moral support, other than that yall are fucking each others' man's brains out and thinking NOTHING of it.
Oh yeah and cosign Beegee. Spoken like a REAL man.
This goes out that Feminist Sociology major from the Tyrese post several days ago. Please stop repeating the lies of your white feminist professors. They only seek to indoctrinate you--and they are wrong.
There Is No Male-Female Wage Gap
A study of single, childless urban workers between the ages of 22 and 30 found that women earned 8% more than men.
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704415104576250672504707048.html?mod=WSJ_hp_mostpop_read
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