Wednesday, August 03, 2011

Queen Latifah on What Makes a Woman Attractive



In a recent interview Queen Latifah gives advice to women trying to attract a good mate...

From the upcoming issue of Sister 2 Sister Magazine
Queen Latifah: …I just like ladies who have class. Period. And if it’s “T and A” you’re sellin’, that’s fine, as long as that’s what you’re selling. But you don’t have to show everything, you know? You can hold some back and just be yourself and let your personality shine and let your individuality show. To me, that’s sexier. A confident woman is a sexy woman, in my opinion. And I think guys find that to be the same way.

Jamie Foster-Brown:
Right.

Queen Latifah: You don’t have to show everything; you don’t have to put it all out there to attract a guy. Because what kind of guy are you gonna attract? What is he really looking for? If you wanna be a booty call, I guess you can throw it all out there. (laughs) But if you’re looking for a relationship with someone who respects you and respects things other than your body—your mind, your spirit, your personality, your smile—then you have to kind of exude that more so than just yo’ booty and yo’ titties.

43 comments:

Anonymous said...

Has she come out?

Anonymous said...

True! Ladies be yourself and nothing less!!

Ann's Assistant said...

What's attractive to the Lord is women who obey His commandments.


Rom 1:22 Professing to be wise, they became fools,

Rom 1:23 and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and crawling creatures.

Rom 1:24 Therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them
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Rom 1:25 For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.

Rom 1:26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural,

Rom 1:27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.

Rom 1:28 And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper,

Rom 1:29 being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice; {they are} gossips,

Rom 1:30 slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents,

Rom 1:31 without understanding, untrustworthy, unloving, unmerciful;

Rom 1:32 and although they know the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, they not only do the same, but also give hearty approval to those who practice them.

Anonymous said...

JUST COME OUT THE CLOSET DANA! I'm a Christian and I will still LOVE you! Jesus loves the sinner not the sin.

Anonymous said...

If u like your own sex then there is something wrong with you. Just like if you sleep with cows. It's not illegal but biologically it makes zero sense. It should be considered a mental disease in my opinion but you should have the same rights and you should be allowed to marry as well. But don't be mad if someone says you are sick.

where's my stimulus? said...

ha,ha da Queen say:
"If it's T&A you're sellin', I will always have more than you do..next?!."

Anonymous said...

She keeps poking her head out the closet door....

ms mac said...

Is that how she attracted Jeanette?

Anonymous said...

I think she can just live her life. She knows who she is and she does not have to make an announcement about her life. I wish more people particularly gay people would stop thinking they have to make a statement all the damn time. Just live your life.

I also agree with her in the sense that you don't have to do all of that. If a man is a attracted to you he is just attracted to you and you don't need to show everything that is not meant for the whole world to see.

Anonymous said...

"Queen Latifah on What's Attractive in Women"
Her fingers.
A strap-on.
Bratwurst.

Anonymous said...

What's wrong with Booty & Tittays ???
I LOVE me some Booty & Tittays !!!!

James Brown Said:
"Cause you got to use what you got. To get just what you want-a, hey huh" ...

James was RIGHT !
MEN wants a SEXXY WOMAN !!!

We ain't trying to have a meaningful conversation....

MEN WANT TO FUCK !!!
Men LIKE to FUCK !!!
and guess what..WOMEn like sex JUST AS MUCH as men do !!!
ALL women don't want to settle down.
A LOT of Women want & APPRECIATE "Booty Calls" !!


Latifah don't know what the hell she's talking about !!!

Anonymous said...

She knows that we already know that she's a lesbian and who her partner is. She's describing the type of lady that she's attracted to but also telling straight women not to reveal so much to attract a guy.

V...

Anonymous said...

So this lesbo is trying to tell me how to get a man? Girl stop.

Bee Gee said...

Lmao @ the name: Ann's Assistant

Hold up.. wasn't Big Tif' tryna get a room fulla females to lap dance and strip for her big ass a ways back? Anyways, it's always funny when a bulldyke tries to give women advice on how to carry themselves. As if she's ever felt like a lady..

Anonymous said...

@ Ann's Assistant---AMEN!

Anonymous said...

@7:04: LOL!!
@Ann's Assistant: Let the Church Say, Amen

She will never come out of the closet, because she knows it is wrong!!

Anonymous said...

THANK YOU TO Ann's Assistant! And people wonder why we live in such a corrupt world...

Anonymous said...

Oh sweet fucking Jesus, here come the Bible thumpers...

If I want advice on how to live written by crazy old Jews, there's a bagel shop on my corner.

Anonymous said...

People want to tell people what is normal and what they don't want to see. Fact is the person you broadcasting to about your dislikes don't want to see your atrocious heterosexual shit either! This rings true for any public vicinity. Always ramming yall straight shit down people throat! Me and my boi tripped one night after seeing a man and woman kissing and being inappropriate in the theater we gave it back to them. LOL! they stopped then! Not one of them would step to us either because in my pack it is some hard niccas that don't play!

Anonymous said...

How this carpet muncher know what men like?

NubianGoddez said...

Good advice Queen, now loose the yt look. damn you Bewoulf must all black women in entertainment look like them duppy yt's?? damn you creole crawfish!!!

len said...

@7:24 "As if she's ever felt like a lady."

that was very sexist of you BeeGee. How could you presume to know what that women 'feels?' As if there is a particular feeling she needs to feel in order to be a woman. If she's ever had PMS then she has 'felt' like a woman.

#punk

Anonymous said...

@len
Come on now YOU know beegee is an expert on everything that is womanly. He gives himself away with every comment.

Anonymous said...

10:21

I don't know who played you. I'm straight and I hate PDA of all kinds. Rent a room and keep that shit to yourself. Gay or Straight.

Anonymous said...

Queen? Fuck the HATERS! Like you said, and have been doing all your life??? 'DO YOU' You dont owe these hating lonely BITCHES & BASTARDS
a dam thang. As long as you clocking your dollas with Cover Girl and the Cover girl QUEEN collection, Your Music, and Movies? Fuckem against the mother fuckin wall!!

Anonymous said...

Don't be fooled; a lot of these dykes take the dick now.
It is the rare dyke (mostly bulldaggers) who are totally sworn off dick.
Listen to King Latifah, she dresses up womanly, so she take a dick every now and then.

quianaj27 said...

@Ann's Assistant- Thank you thank and please tell it like it is.

Bee Gee said...

@10:38 - Don't you find it funny how you come at me as being sexist, and then in your next statement, you dumb down "feeling like a woman" to having PMS? Lmao - I'll let you clean that mess up.

I never assumed to know how it feels to be a woman, that's you jumping to your own conclusion - to each his own. I simply said dykes like Queen (who is obviously the dude in the relationship) sound funny tryna give women advice on being a lady. It's like Ellen Degeneres pulling the same stunt. They're just as much of a dude as any other man, so just because they faked being a lady part of their lives doesn't mean they have perspective on what "being a lady" is. Butch bitches know what I'm talkin about. Why you think Queen comes across as a straight up homeboy and was so good in "Set it off"?

Having blood run from your vagina every month doesn't make you a lady in the sense that we're speakin', momma. That's one of the most sexist things I've ever heard.

#bitch

@10:52pm - You should go back into hiding. You were doing so well lately..

Anonymous said...

So many "Christian"s posting, so much judgment and hatred. THAT'S what's wrong with the world today, not someone who's trying to give advice on relationships based more on respect than sex. Tell you what, when you get all bent out of shape on non married folks doing the do or heterosexuals getting married because they were bored and because they "could" the same way you get bent out of shape when a same sex couple is involved in alonger relationship than most celebrity marriages (possibly even YOUR reletionship) THEN you can gripe. Are you mad because these same sex people can get a man/woman and you're behind is single, or because they can attract a better man/woman than you because (like in this case) some demand respect and you've got your puss for what? One person, just one, tell me what it hurts you, personally, when a same sex couple is in a relationship. Anyone? Anyone? Thought not. How does it affect you directly? Not the world, not the church, not God, but YOU. I'll wait...

Anonymous said...

@1038

PMS makes you feel lady-like??

#serioussideeye

Boucoupthick504 said...

Oh ok. I just wanted to make sure that that was HER preference of what she wants in a woman.

bogart4017 said...

Reading through these comments i'm just now realizing with most of these people (especially anonymous ones) everything is either black or white. Where are the gray areas folks??

Anonymous said...

She will not come out of the closet because of these judgemental Christians that are so concern with who she shares her bed with. Jesus said it best when he wrote in the sand, "let he without sin, cast the first stone. Everyone tries to be so holier than thou, when it comes to other peoples sin, but somehow turn a blind eye to all those sinful skeleton bones in your own closet. latifah is keeping it real for herself. Either you like it, or you don't.

Anonymous said...

No one is turning a blind eye to other sins. But we will push back against the gay agenda and its lifestyle. You will stand up for gayness in a minute, but you have no idea where that spirit comes from. It comes from white supremacy. The idol of America is white supremacy. When a people turn to idolatry, the culture is cursed with homosexuality being the foremost sin. No one is trying to be holier than thou, but we are not going to call evil for good and good for evil.

len said...

@7:47 1st off, I was kidding about the PMS thing. But since you want to go there--yes, part of being a woman and feeling like a woman IS menstruation and ovulation. that is what readies a WOMAN to have children--a biological function men will never experience. And I as a woman can tell you that.

and you were the one talking about how Latifah 'felt,' so YOU did presume to know.

I don't get the same impression from Latifah that you do. She is a pretty woman and doesn't do the butch 'look' except in films were she is playing a CHARACTER, so you just come off sounding like a sexist when you call her butch, Beegee.

len said...

@8:29 i'll put a hex on that side eye and leave you cross-eyed.


where the hell did I say "lady-like."

I said 'woman'--and yes PMS/Menstruation is one of the biological functions of a woman--or didn't you know that?

len said...

@7:45 Beegee oops, my 1:30am comment is for you

Anonymous said...

White people "push the gay agenda & lifestyle" most black people that are gay/lesian {unless you live in ATL} lead quite lives.

We have families...jobs...attend church...and mind our own business. We are not asking you to accept what we do, we just want to quietly live our lives, without the constant reminder from people that we are going to hell when we die.

justcorey. said...

@806a - THANK YOU.

That's the problem with these so-called "Christians", too concerned with what others are doing and not focused on their own lives. Whatever happened to live and let live? Why are so many people concerned with who other people date and choose to spend their lives with?

If Dana wants to spend the rest of her days w/Janette or whomever else, guess what - GREAT FOR HER and I wish them well. As long as she's not coming for you - why do you care/how is it REALLY impacting your day to day life?!?

There are too many other, more important things going on in the world that we choose not to focus on (wars, economy, jobless rates, EDUCATION, etc.) but we'll (black folks) tear someone down in a minute if we suspect they're gay/lesbian - which is sad, truly sad.

So for Dana, if you're reading this (which I doubt you are), GOOD FOR YOU/CONGRATS and I hope you find someone that truly makes YOU happy; as I have found the same thing - 13 years strong!

And for the rest of you, focus on yourselves FIRST before worrying about someone else.

Anonymous said...

@10:09 amen sister. Congradulations!! 10 years strong for me and my boo.

Anonymous said...

^^^So what, you an a fuckin' prize? Lots of heteros last for 10 years and more. Go suck a strap on plastic dick you fugly ass carpet munchin' cell block H bitch

Anonymous said...

^^you want a...

Anonymous said...

@10:23 you are so jealous and probably a retard too!!

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