Thursday, December 22, 2011

Is Kobe Bryant the Next Tiger Woods?


OMG the stories are starting to leak out about Kobe Bryant's cheating and if we can get some of the skanks to talk, this could get messier than the Tiger Woods scandal...

According to next weeks National Enquirer Kobe Bryant's wife Vanessa retained the services of a private investigator who brought back evidence of Kobe's cheating spanning 10 years! They say the investigator told Vanessa that Kobe had been averaging 10 affairs a year with different women over the course of their marriage and put the number at around 105 women. One of the jumpoffs, who Kobe had been seeing since 2008, sat court side and flirted openly with Kobe at Laker games and there was an 18-year-old Lakers cheerleader Kobe was sexting with.

Confronted with the evidence Kobe allegedly confessed, promised to change his ways and showered Vanessa with expensive gifts.

Supposedly Kobe's cheating during the lock-out, when the private investigator caught Kobe red-handed and presented Vanessa with incriminating photos, was the straw that broke Vanessa's back and made her a very rich woman.

107 comments:

Anonymous said...

105! I thought he mean 1,005!That bitch better pray to the god digger god that she didn't inherit any std's. Just nasteeeeeeeeee!

Anonymous said...

I'm a true believer that men wouldn't be able to cheat if we women wouldn't allow it. Women get money hungry, fame hungry, don't give a fuck, or just desperate. I know Kobe's mom is laughing her ass off! told ya! and I know Vanessa's mom is cheering, she trained the little Taco Bell dog well!

Anonymous said...

If you wanna run around with all those different whores do it but why get married

Anonymous said...

Vanessa needs to sprint to her Doctor for an STD test!!!

Anonymous said...

I understand men cheat, but damn! this is beyond reasonable!

Anonymous said...

If you wanna run around with all those different whores do it but why get married
3:33 PM
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THIS!!!

Anonymous said...

Pleeze, kobe's. Image wasn't as tiger's.

Kobe is popular cos he wins championships and his skills didn't diminish unlike tiger's

The rape claim didn't kobe in the long run just his divorce won't hurt

Just like, vick's dog killing didn't prevent the eagles from signing him to a $100 million contract or Nike RE-Signing him

Let the heffas come out the woodwork, it just shows how willing they were to fuck a MARRIED MAN,just like SaNaa shaking her ass in front of him.

Anonymous said...

I only came in here to say fuck him and his south of the border chick. Nigga only fucks with non black females, so I haven't rooted for the lakers since he got with her ass. I don't support any black males that dont show love to black females. YT always got their women back while our men shit on us. Fuck him, Idris Elba, Tyrese, Michael Jordan, Terrence Howard. Yall seen what happened to wesley snipes career after he talked shit and hated on black females. You guys are next!!

Anonymous said...

@3:30

There's no such thing as allowing men to cheat. A man will cheat if he wants to. You could think you're living in a perfect situation. You could be the chick that takes off his shoes at the door and rubs his feet but if he likes other chacha on the side he'll do it. Same goes for women. Don't buy into anyone's excuses when they're cheating on their mate.

Anonymous said...

Why is this even surprising? Broke, unknown men cheat. You think a rich superstar athlete is going to be faithful? Please. And I agree, men AND women are the cause of cheating, but what gets me is: why do these men take these vows, knowing they can't be faithful? Men aren't naturally monogamous.

Anonymous said...

all this is pure BS & smoke and mirrors. She knew he was a cheater from day one. This divorce has NOTHING to do with that child he fathered overseas and got served paternity papers with after a game, right? hmmm

Anonymous said...

Whatever, she's a golddigger and got what she wanted, he'll still be rich in the end and LeBron STILL won't have any rings. Next!

Anonymous said...

Well, I agree that men of all walks of life cheat. It is up to women to stop accepting it. Too many women tolerate infidelity.

I'm gonna be real - I am married with three young children and if I found out my husband cheated his ass is OUT. Fuck it. Yes, I will have to struggle as a single mother with three kids but OH WELL. I refuse to be a doormat. If he wants to roll the dice and risk losing his family he deserves to lose everything. And my ass will be right at the courthouse filing for child AND spousal support the very next day.

We have got to show our girls better than our moms showed us! Women do not have to tolerate cheating!!! We don't have to just accept that our husbands are fucking other women. That is disgusting and disrespectful. His dick is supposed to be for you and you alone - not 100+ hoes all over the world!

Chile, let me go get some water this post has my pressure rising...

Anonymous said...

3:48, LMFAO! Co-sign.

Anonymous said...

@ 3:42 PM

co-signing and ridin all the way wit'cha!

The black man sure can embarrass the black race with foolishness like this.
Them white folks gon get their wish and are happy the black man is slowly breeding out his race. It's a win-win situation for them.
And the black on black crime is outrageous, adding to that all the extreme measures that are taken to depopulate the Earth. Such as adding hormones to our food sources, necessary shots for children that are poisonous, instead of helpful, and the list goes on. But the point is it is a sin and a shame how the black man knowingly or unknowingly participate in this fukked up agenda.
We are in bad shape. And this is just SAD.

Anonymous said...

I don't care what anybody says...slutty men are WORSE than slutty women! And they are reason that std's are rampant!

Anonymous said...

No amount of money would make me sleep with either kolby or tiger to me they both look like a couple of fucking sea monkies.

Anonymous said...

She better be at that Doctors office ASAP. That pussy is infested. What about his "secret babies" from a couple of his jump offs. Did the PI finds those?

TRUTH HURTS said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. Bitter Black Women.

Anonymous said...

@3:33 and anyone else that questions why. He married her because he was fooling around with her under age ass and her parents put the screws to his nuts, either marry her or your career is over. He keeps her because being married kept the chicken heads at bay. It's clear from this post he never loved her. And rest assure her golddigging momma was in her ear telling her what to do. It wouldn't surprise me if nessa had a few dicks on the side as well.

Anonymous said...

Dead @ "sea monkies" and Lebron still not winning "rings". Only on RWS.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. and Racists.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life: death. taxes. bitter BROKE black men.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death, taxes, niggas spitting fake ass philospophies in the comment sections of gossip websites thinking people will listen.

Anonymous said...

Vanessa played it correctly: Lie low then strike while the iron is hottt! She's young enough to pull another balla!

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. DL niggas in Atlanta.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. Black women not wanting to get their hair wet.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life: Death. Taxes. Your Jailbird Baby Daddy Got Plugged.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. Aretha Franklin's pussy smelling like castor oil and expired salmon.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. Some Nigerian nigga promising you $3 million if you send him your SSN and bank account number.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. Niggas marrying a white girl soon as he gets a lil change in his pocket.

Jay-Z said...

3 guarantees in life. Money. Cash. Hoes.

TRUTH HURTS said...

Hey 436 it looks like you and other whores heard me fine. There is a saying that you can tell how a man is doing by looking at his woman. If youre wondering why Mr Black Man is so fucked up, just take a look at his black woman. If you want to know why the black woman is constntly complaining that the black man is astray and with edomite women, its usually because she wasnt doing her part and pushed him there. Black women are the reason our people havent moved much in 50 years. Complaining moneyloving never satisfied promiscuous whores. If you dont agree just turn on your tv set and see black women in action.

Anonymous said...

Whoever said black women are bitter needs to scroll up and look at that picture. Matter of fact, look at damn near EVERY picture of Vanessa Bryant and find one with her face not all screwed up. She stayed bitter for 10 years because she married a whore.

Black women are just more public with our shit. We don't smile in your face and pretend we are happy which is why black men hate us. They don't want to deal with our disappointment in them so they go to other races who play that "nice and pleasant" bullshit while they are wiping their boogers in your sandwiches and spitting in your coffee!

That's why black men are so SHOCKED when their asses leave you and take your money with them:

Damn, Becky, I thought we were cool! I thought you were OK with my being a whore and fucking your sister!

No, Jamal, I was NOT OK with it. In fact, i have fucked the entire neighborhood while you were slaving away to keep my fat white ass from having to work. Now I'm ready to move on to phase 2 of my life on your dime. Thanks, brother!

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. Rihanna not getting a No. 1 album.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. niggas roaches & flies

nba is fixed said...

I bet you that Kobe’s jumpoffs have Gloria Allred’s number on speed dial. They will call her because they want their fifteen minutes of fame. They also want to get paid just like Vanessa. We will be hearing alot more from Jessica Burciaga and Carla Dibello very soon. ALL HOES ARE THE SAME. Don’t believe me, ask Rachel Uchitel, Jamie Jungers, Jamie Grubbs and that old ugly porn star Joslyn James!

Anonymous said...

Yes I believe Vanessa was a gold-digger from the gate but the problem with that is now, because of Kobe's arrogance and sheer stupidity, it no longer matters. He committed divorce settlement suicide and Vanessa and her kids will be the heir. Now his serial cheating will surely eclipse Vanessa's gold digger ways.... #whataloser

Anonymous said...

I do however feel his kids deserve all of it. #thatisall

nba is fixed said...

I said it before and I will say it again. Ladies if you marry a rich powerful man, HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU! There are hundreds if not thousands of women who are prettier than you, who can fuck better than you, who can cook better than you. Most men can not resist the temptation of new pussy! Nothing makes a man feel like a man more than sexually conquering as many women as possible! Ladies remember that the next time you chase after some millionaire athlete, actor or rapper. WHAT YOU WON’T DO, THOUSANDS OF OTHER WOMEN WILL!

Bee Gee said...

Aw shit.

105, gotdam Kob', the toilet seat at Gabbie Sadibi's house doesn't get that much ass!

It's a shame how many people want to make this a one-sided and an absolute issue. Men cheat because we're visual creatures easily led by our lust-filled dicks. But the notion that women don't cheat and that plenty sistas aren't out there right now juggling relationships with men that are "spoken for" is pretty fuckin' ridiculous. How the fuck can infidelity be a one-sided issue when plenty of women know EXACTLY what they're jumpin' into...

..AND...

...Plenty of women purposefully seek out men in relationships. So whether you're male or female, if you hollarin' that one-sided bullshit please shut entirely the fuck up and open your mind. And TRUTH HURTS, you oughta be ashamed of yourself if you a brotha spillin' that garbage out. Just like the black woman is the backbone of the family, us men are supposed to be heads of our households and stand for something, not out tryna run dick into women and forsaking our relationship "committments" and marital vows.

But talkin' about things like committment and vows is like talkin' about an old folk tale that may or may not have existed but is just something of legend.

"You must use the DARK skin slaves vs. the LIGHT skin slaves, and the LIGHT skin slaves vs. the DARK skin slaves. You must use the FEMALE vs. the MALE, and the MALE vs. the FEMALE." --Willie Lynch

One thing is clear: We are fucked up and Willie Lynch is somewhere laughin' his punk ass off. This RWS shit is just a microcosm of a much larger reality. Black men and women are too busy pointing the finger at each other to ever really figure out how we got here.

Anonymous said...

I don't care what anybody says...slutty men are WORSE than slutty women!
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Amen!! I thought I was the only one who cant stand a hoe ass man.

Anonymous said...

@4:45pm LMAO!

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death, taxes, niggas spitting fake ass philospophies in the comment sections of gossip websites thinking people will listen.
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*faints*

Anonymous said...

Bee Gee...shut your colorstruck ass up. You the main one throwing dark people under the bus. Lay down and log off

Anonymous said...

Bee Gee great comment bro but you know 95 percent of Rhymes is women and a high percentage of those are too ignorant to listen to something good when somebody posts it.

The REAL Sugar82 said...

Anonymous said...
I only came in here to say fuck him and his south of the border chick. Nigga only fucks with non black females, so I haven't rooted for the lakers since he got with her ass. I don't support any black males that dont show love to black females. YT always got their women back while our men shit on us. Fuck him, Idris Elba, Tyrese, Michael Jordan, Terrence Howard. Yall seen what happened to wesley snipes career after he talked shit and hated on black females. You guys are next!!

3:42 PM
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Co-sign like a mofo but you forgot Taye Diggs black ass, as well. Carry on.

Bee Gee said...

@5:22 - When have I thrown dark people under the bus? Oh ma bad. I've done it for years but unfortunately, ya black ass won't be able to name one single time. You shut the fuck up.

Bee Gee said...

@5:24 - Thanks and you're probably right, but there's plenty of intelligent sensible sistas in here. Oh well, this type o'shit usually makes way for interesting discussion and commentary.

The REAL Sugar82 said...

Anonymous said...
@3:30

There's no such thing as allowing men to cheat. A man will cheat if he wants to. You could think you're living in a perfect situation. You could be the chick that takes off his shoes at the door and rubs his feet but if he likes other chacha on the side he'll do it. Same goes for women. Don't buy into anyone's excuses when they're cheating on their mate.

3:43 PM
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Thank you 3:43- it's "accountability" and that other mess is called "head games". LOL, don't you love how some men only want to make their own decisions when it suits them??

Men and women cheat because they want to for whatever reason. If you choose to STAY with them then that's on you. But bullsh!t action doesn't absolve another one. If you think any other way then PLEASE don't EVER wonder why you're getting sh!tted on in life...

Anonymous said...

uh - there is a saying: "Fidelity is only for the ugly..."

Anonymous said...

*Gives 3:48PM (So Very True!), 3:50PM (Real Talk!) and 4:45PM(LMAO!)a standing ovation*

Anonymous said...

One thing i can say is that these Kobe vs Vanessa posts are really interesting how people are feeling about this situation, like this post isn't the majority of people sounding super dumb. And overusing the word Hater/Stan!!! I feel most ppl have okay points.

Anonymous said...

@3:50 i am right there with u, matter of fact that is what i did. cheaters never change. got divorced, been struggling financially ever since, but you pay for what you get and you get what you pay for. i'd rather struggle than be disrespected and infected!
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@4:45 TRUE!
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6:00 you mean" a man is only as faithful as his options"
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if you want to know who a man is, look at his friends. as far as i know Kobe had none. he is the Aretha Franklin of the NBA. no one ever told him that "that's not a good look" (cheating)
i only feel for the children. maybe by him being on the road so much, it wont be to big of a difference him not being there all the time, however i do hope that he stays in touch and is there for them because they do need him. problem is narcisist such as him, Tiger, MJ, etc...only really care about themselves.
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p.s. who DIDNT think there would be more after Colorado...that was one who TOLD b/c his cheap azz didnt want to pay her off and she got offended! as Phaedra Parks would say..."everyone knows that any self-respecting Hoe would get her money UP FRONT" lol!
and remember how he all squealed on Shaq, tombout he pays them off...i bet he wishes he would have done the same now....smh.

Anonymous said...

And you think the bitch was 100% faithful! oh the truth will come out! she had her some fun too!

Anonymous said...

@6:19pm
Some of the folks on RWS will sleep good tonight. Now that you gave them your stamp of approval.

Anonymous said...

Welp, his ass shoulda stayed with Brandy.

Anonymous said...

105 loser ass hoes f*cking for NOTHING!!
How sad and broken is your life when you're f*cking a married man just to do it.
The hoes that's winning right now in the media f*cked for fame, easy money, book deals and Vibe covers,
I doubt Kobe is offering any of his 105 skanks those type of opportunities, I doubt Kobe even paid them one years rent, that's a damn shame when you hoe with a married rapist for free, is sex with a a-list celebrity THAT SERIOUS, is it that serious when you're the only one who knows because he made you sign a gag order-Like, what's the point of hoing in silence with no pictures for the scrapbook.

Anonymous said...

This would not get messier than the Tiger Woods scandal because nobody's surprised about Kobe's cheating. He fucked a bitch in Colorado. Nuff said. Tiger was scandalous because of his timid, dare I say it...unattractive appearance and demeanor.

AngelycAries said...

Hot damn! Why get married? Just, why get married? Kobe is a dumbass.

Anonymous said...

3:50, you betta preach!!! First 4:45, yo mama suck dicks that glow in the dark. It takes a person with the intelligence of ass crack lint to come on a black blog and insult black women. You must've been lonely standing in the class room corner all those years.
Human shit pile.

Anonymous said...

4:15 PM, Bitterness comes in all kinds and does not discriminate.

Anonymous said...

YT won't care about Kobe and Nessa 'cause regardless of what folks are saying about dude marrying outside his race, chick is still brown/ethnic. Caucasoids only care if a kneegrow screws over their ideal snowflake (Taylor S, Elin) or animals.

Anonymous said...

I honestly don't give a shit when i see a black man with a white women. They always look so insecure when they see me. I could say hi and they look like they would rather me role my eyes. BLACKWOMEN if you have a problem with mixed relationships then teach your son better. We are the ones raising the men. Teach them how to find a good black girl. Its time to get over these self hating black men of today. Start a new generation of men. Let these coons go.

Anonymous said...

I meant to add:9.25
Also look at the self hate in their friends. Alot of fathers are raising there son to hate black women. Keep your son away from that type of friend. I knew a guy told me his son only likes spanish girls. i said your son is ten, how can you label what your son like. keep your son away from those type of friends he will be all fucked up mentally by 16

Anonymous said...

However, needs must and it's either run or bust. As a regular park wanderer I've noticed these joggers lord zebeddeeing along to ipods and wondered what they all listen to. I figure it's probably an even split between the men listening only to Jay-z and the women only Beyonce, or any similar artist with the whole 'look at me, i did it, rags to riches, I'm fucking mega me!' attitude. Luckily, i was fortunate to find an ipod earlier this year so i decide to make a random playlist of upbeat tunes and give it go. I tie up my new Adidas, put on a semi offensive t-shirt and smash out the front door and down the road to Trans AM 'Liberation'. The first songs got a pounding, almost hypnotic robotic beat, my feet are smacking the floor in between patched up over dubs of some guy ranting about the Iraq war, i feel charged and powerful, like I'm in the intro to an 80's cartoon such as Mask or Jayce and The Wheeled Warriors. After crossing the road four times without looking or checking the lights i hit the park. Trans Am are still beating away and I've settled into a good steady rhythm, i even get cocky and start to over take a few people here and there. I take the opportunity to check my ipod and see whats coming up cos i don't want any surprises now I've got going, this is when disaster strikes. I flip off the hold button but the bouncing motion of my running causes it to shuffle, suddenly A Hawk and a Hacksaw leap into my ears and unfortunately it's one of their Balkan gypsy numbers called 'Wicky Pokey'.

Anonymous said...

Yes, Kobe and Tiger are both well paid athletes, fathers of young children, and have a history of committing adultery, BUT...Tiger married a Nordic blonde and Kobe married an enchilada. White folks saw Elin as one of their own being mistreated by a Caublinasian (Tiger's word, not mine). YT will never see that in Vanessa and Kobe. The racial element or connection just isn't there. "Her kind" would probably suggest to her that what she's going through is the price she pays for marrying a nigger, so take the money and run, don't walk, away from his ass.

signwithclass said...

9:40, no disrespect, but what does that have to do with the price of tea in China?

Anonymous said...

Let's keep it real. Black people don't hate black people. Let me repeat myself. There is much love between us. Black women are beautiful & black men are beautiful. Stop trying to put a wedge between us because of some fool's fuckery.

Anonymous said...

105 ??
Well, like tiger, that much fucking didn't hinder his ability on the court.

Still,I expect better from someone at his apex.

Wilt da stilt fucked 200,000

I wonder what numbers these guys put up:


Hugh hefner

Rick james

Derek jeter

nba is fixed said...

If Kobe doesn't stop his debauchery, he might end up like John Holmes! I am not joking!

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. and niggas that cheat.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. Spending too much money on lace front wigs so i look cute for the holidays.

Anonymous said...

3 guarantees in life. Death. Taxes. Weirdos in Wal-mart.

Anonymous said...

This "union" was uneqally yoked from the beginning.

TRUTH HURTS said...

This is sad
3 guarantees in life:

1 Angry, vendictive black bitches on blogs
2 Bitter, jealous black bitches on blogs
3 Loose wombed, big mouthed black bitches on blogs

If Kobe had stepped to any one of you gold diggers you would allow him to fuck as soon as humanly possible. This is why a broke ass baby maker with no job and no life can have 5 black women at the same time if he only can convince you sore scabs that he has money and is going places. And don't let him be light skin'd with good hair neither or you won't even care about what his financial and educational situation is. You will allow him into your womb based on nothing more than his light skin.

Black women are the reason black men seek out women of other races for reasons 1 2 and 3. And most of you posting on rhymeswithsnitch know just what I'm talking about bcause I'm talking to your broke bitter vindictive loose womb big mouth angry jealous excuse makers.

Anonymous said...

LOL @ Terence Howard, whose non-black, soon-to-be ex-wife called him AND his children NIGGERS, and thanks to ALL of the media outlets that put the story out in one way or another. His wife may be ACTING crazy, but Terence is LOOKING crazy. Thanks to her for telling him and the rest of the world how she REALLY feels and exposing her serious case of Post Traumatic Negro Marriage Syndrome AKA PTNMS. Regrets? I'm sure she has plenty.

Gizzard said...

Kobe's averaging 25.3 points and 4.7 assists per game and 10 women a year for 10 years without getting caught? Those are Hall of Fame numbers.

Anonymous said...

@1:18 so what the fuck r u? u keep talking about black women being all of these things but your comment seems to be the most angry/vindictive than anyone else on this post...and if u r a woman (i hope so cause that sounds like something a BITCH would write) I would detect a little jealousy also because you are obviously more concerned with us than anyone is with you...

Anonymous said...

Vanessa is a very pretty woman, and smart. Is it a coincidence that after 10yrs she hires an investigator? In California 10 yrs of marriage = set for life.
And I do not feel sorry for Kobe. I always believed in giving someone a 2nd chance, but from experience now I understand once a cheater always a cheater. I put a lot into my relationship with my fiance and after 3 yrs of promises and cheating I had to say goodbye, and I was with him when he was struggling now he has finished med school and someone else just reaps the benefits. I hope Vanessa gets all the money she deserves and find true happiess..

Anonymous said...

Divorce may cost these rich celebrities lots of money, but they sure look happier when the marriage is finally and officially over. His divorce drama will certainly bring him more publicity, if nothing else...not that he needed more publicity and especially not this bad.

Anonymous said...

@Truth 1:18am your feelings must have been hurt.
You sound like an angry, vindictive, bitch off his meds. Please keep your mental health appointment. Your Dr. need to increase the dosage of your meds.

Anonymous said...

Wonder if Nessa will still go to South Central looking for **** That trick ain't innocent.

Anonymous said...

1:18

I am starting to believe that one way to loose all the ill feelings in 2012 is to stop coming to blogs. I have only found two positive blogs in my life and one talk’s about real life issues and the cover ups and lies that we are facing in this world and the other one is a spiritual guide. I have never felt such hate until I introduced myself into the blog life. I have never heard men talk so badly about black women on people period until I expose myself to blogs. I think it is time for me to stop because I don't want poisonous comments like yours putting seeds in my mind any longer life is hard enough. There are a lot of good black women out her who are positive, attaining there goals with some kind of moral fiber and standards but I am sure that you are only connected to drama. This is why the company that one choice to keep is so much more important then having a toxic opinion. You need to read the 12 laws of karma and the 12 universal laws because this should give you a deeper perspective of life and how to change your heart and your circle. You should also read the 48 laws of power to see how manipulating and hateful some people can be to keep you limited of thought, understanding and power. Get it together brother and yes I really think that you are a man... Life has the potential to be way more beautiful then your feelings right now love not hate because the only reward that that offers is bitterness and a lack of information, faith and hope and hope deferred makes the heart sick...

Anonymous said...

@ 709

While you were observing how badly black men talk about black women on this blog did you stop to observe how badly black women talk about black men on this blog? And if you really pay attention you might find that most of the negativity towards black women on this blog comes sadly from the black women. I have been posting here more than a year and I have never heard a more negative bunch of women in my life. If not for the guaranteed humor in the commentary, I would have been long gone. Happy Holidays.

Anonymous said...

Monogamy mainly came from rulers of ancient societies who kept harems. They had unlimited access to women who all were virgins, and they wanted to reduce their risk of competition. So they passed laws to make it illegal for any men to fuck their supply. The penalty in many of the civilizations for breaking this rule was death, and sometimes not just your death but the death of your family and maybe even your village or tribe. The leaders worked with the religions to reinforce this notion; holy books were changed so that monogamy could be presented as coming from God, an even higher authority. Women promote monogamy because having to compete with other women for a man's attention is not advantageous to them. Why would they want to run the risk of having a husband divide his attention, time, and finances with possible outside children? All of these factors combined to form out modern-day unrealistic view of marriage. Being totally 100% is really not important to a marriage. Marriage is not now and has never been about that. Marriage, for most of its history, was about a exchange: dowry or cattle or land for a wife. It strengthened two families or clans through this process of uniting. Then, later, we adopted this idea that it's about the sharing of two lives; a totally equal union. It became about partners, passionate endless love (also known as lust), and mutual respect, none of which really has anything to do with a stable domicile and raising children.

Anonymous said...

4:45 <--- Pure Comedy! and truth. I know many brothers who were SHOCKED when their non-Black women flipped on them. Foolish men, who assumed that their partner's race would guarantee a certain outcome.

People of all races lie, cheat, etc. People of all races also love, nurture and provide.

I'm all for personal preference, but we (collectively - Black men & women) really need to stop placing greater value on non-Blacks. It reeks of self-hatred. You can love all races, including your own.

Anonymous said...

7:32

Yeah I observe the ignorance on both side but also don't feel that I represent that with myself and my comments. Also I tend not to levitate to women like that so I guess I not bothered by them as much plus they are not putting out black hate just being destructive towards themselves but the men to me take it a step further. It like they want you to hate yourself and your skin color and that is deeper then women bickering over ignorant things. All that I am saying is that none of us are all the same just because we share the same race and some of us come from households that have giving us a lot more then just destructive habits and patterns.

Anonymous said...

7:32

Which brings me back to the point that blogs tend to be negative we can all change our circle and mental environments. I understand the hate and ignorance that the men are feeling from the women as well but if we selected better we will also feel better. There are a lot of ignorant women on here indeed but what does that really have to do with your heart, choice and understanding. The ignorance in this world is at an all time high and right now it speaks louder then the idea of standards, belief, focus, discipline and self-control at least in the media circus but there are a lot of good hearted people left they are just not on the blogs because they keep themselves in good place and spaces and that is fighting the good fight of faith we all must do it. Protect your mind and heart with all diligence of the issues of life and people will start to plant there seeds of discord within you. I also fight this same fight on the daily just trying to create strong foundation for myself to stand on with deeper belief.

Anonymous said...

I see the "others" didn't get the message. Blacks don't hate blacks. Much love between us. This really bothers you. Get over it.

Anonymous said...

It's just ignorant to hate what you are and what you came from if you parents has made your stumble as a child then look for higher grown. This is why I don't have children yet because I refuse to have children for the world but hurt is hard to get over and parents are not protecting there children. I want to create a family from a deeper sense of love and standards so I can take my time and be patience. People are mad because of there choices and not there situation because nothing just happens you create them.

Anonymous said...

ATTENTION PEOPLE!!!!KOBE MAY BE ARRAGANT, BUT THE BROTHER IS PACKIN!!!!HAVE YA SEEN THE PICTURE OF HIM SLEEP??? I'M A GUY AND THAT BROTHER IS PACKIN!!!, ASLEEP, MIND YOU!!!I'M TEMPTED TO SHAKE MY ASS IN FRONT OF HIM!!! LMAO.

OPEN YOUR EYES said...

That's what his I-like-to-bend-bytches-over-chairs-in-hotels having ass gets!! I hope she empties everything out of his pockets but the lint. Old fish-eyed fool *in Aunt Esther voice*

Anonymous said...

^ nicca you gay!

and dammit people need to learn to spell in this muthafucka

Anonymous said...

I'M A GUY AND THAT BROTHER IS PACKIN!!!, ASLEEP, MIND YOU!!!I'M TEMPTED TO SHAKE MY ASS IN FRONT OF HIM!!! LMAO.

9:43 AM
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He probably goes both ways so you probably have a shot.

dreadee said...

I love this blog, because people keep in here keep it real. So you got people who are negative, so what? That's the real world. I read it, react, and keep it pushin.

Gossip Blogs were not created for shiny, happy, moments, they were created for us to look at these rich scandolous people and shake our heads and be thankful we are not caught up like that. It's called an escape! But the problem is that our lives are absorbed with it 24/7 so some people are emotionally involved.

Now as for Black women, we are attacked 25/8, but we are also copied by women of all races, whether it be lip injections, butt injections, breast implants, etc. They don't like us because we are blunt, we don't hold our tongue, somw of us refuse to put up with that bullshit that America is dishing out. So we get treated as the villian. Okay...I'll take that, so be it. But we do have a lot of rotten apples in our barrel, but so does everyone else.

cns said...

Mentally and emotionally mature men with high moral standards don’t cheat on their beloved wives. Someone mentioned that athletes, actors and rappers with money will cheat. Well that’s a given. Most men that have those types of careers are not usually mentally or psychology developed, so they would not be a good reference for all (most) men. These types of narcissistic men need women to think that all men will cheat. If most women believe that monogamy is not possible, and then they will fall into the trap of thinking they have no other options but to tolerate this bad behavior. Most women who have wealth and education no this and will only association with men of the same, not deadbeats who cheat. These women have learned how to vet men. See definition below. To vet a man properly you need to find out important information before you give into your emotions and they give him your body. If you vet properly you will avoid a whole lot of unnecessary nonsense. But ladies you have to have something to offer other than your sexual skills. You need to have an education, a successfully job or career earning your own money. These skills will attract the right type of mature man, but beware these attributes will also attract deadbeats and scallywags looking for a come up. LOL. Please safeguard you heart, soul, body and mind.


VET- Investigate (someone) thoroughly, esp. in order to ensure that they are suitable for a job requiring secrecy, loyalty, or trustworthiness.

Anonymous said...

He may have been "out there" but I believe he wasn't too caught up to have private detectives clock her movements 24/7.

And believe me, if Mr Bryant had even the SLIGHTEST inkling his wife was cheating, she'd a been drop kicked to the curb ASAP!

AIDS is real and ain't nobody's sex worth dying over.

--Dee Truth

nba is fixed said...

Kobe Bryant is the ultimate Captain Save a Hoe!

Anonymous said...

You can't be mad at her. When men cheat they're sloppy with it. Any woman with half a brain can point it out. Kobe may have thought he was getting over, but my, my did Vanessa give it to him!! That's some revenge!

Anonymous said...

Nobody needs to make an attempt to convince anyone that there are "good Black men and women" in the world. Everyone already knows this. They also know that there are not so good people out there from all demographics, and yet they deliberately choose to focus on the negative, because that is what ruffles feathers and stirs up controversy. Some people like to keep stuff like that going to entertain themselves on blogs. Don't get bent out of shape over it. Just know that you know better, and so does everyone else.

Anonymous said...

When u marry what u really don't like but u think it's cute...u cheat...say in and day out!!!!

Anonymous said...

No amount of money would make me marry ooutside my race......

Anonymous said...

I want to commet to the dumb chick who keep writing about blk man and white women, 1st of all we in 2012 and there is no such a thing anymoer your problem is you prob ugly and with a bitch ass blk woman attitude thats why blk man dont wanna fuck with you.
Kobe is a dog we knew it but no one speak about the secret child he has in italy.
Vanessa deserve all the money in the world, she has been publically insulted one time this time she need to mouve on and trust me she will do better then kobe in the long run.
Kobe is a talented individual when it comes to basketball so what? there is planty of kobes out there who havent been discovered, so the problem is you fucking stupid ass americans who keep letting kobe punk ass make millions and buy his shit...stop letting this nigga make money so he can start be a little more huble...but you stupid ass country tollerate people cheating and doin shit...so untill you people dont start changing your principals and morals nothin will change...I am happy for Vanessa...you go girl..she gonna have a great life an she will find a man who will love her and not dog her like kobe..CChiChing....fuck everyone else and all this bitter blk bitches who keep using the racial card...get over and stop having a bull shit attitude and maybe you blk men will be different...stop heating and work on your blk ass.....

Anonymous said...

^ @5:27 CANT TAKE ANYTHING YOU SAY SERIOUSLY BECAUSE YOU SOUND STUPID AS HELL...u can call me bitter all you want but at least I know how to fucking talk

ThatBKChick said...

"Vanessa retained the services of a private investigator who brought back evidence of Kobe's cheating spanning 10 years!"...I wonder if that is the investigator that helped Elin and Tiger-Naw, honestly for 10 years this bish has had him tailed. Can someone say "GOLD-DIGGER" to the 100th Power. This bish has been scheming for 10 years on his trap. I can't hate, these nuccas, always stay hoping on white chicks or anything that is not black! To hell with this coon. Every person linked to Michael Jordan cheating has come to haunt them, but yet, Tiger nor Kobe (the chosen one per Your Royal Airness)....both of these coons never followed Michael's lead...pay your hoes and seal up your prenup and eject/evacuate when all else fails....SMDH!

Anonymous said...

the anger and blatant racism on this site is just sad

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