In the new issue of Jet Magazine Gabrielle Union addresses long standing rumors that she broke up Dwyane Wade's marriage...
On why she didn't publicly defend her reputation against rumors she cheated with Dwyane while he was married:
"The kids. For the people that hire me, it's a non issue. But at the end of the day, Dwyane's kids are going to be the ones who really suffer. They're 10 and 4 and a half. They're old enough to understand the mean things that strangers can say."
On feeling bullied by her fans who believed she was "the other woman":
"I think people mistook me taking the high road as an admission of guilt. Dwyane and I made a decision very early to not react to the negativity. And I kept feeling liek the truth would come out. The problem is, when it did, nobody cared. What I discovered on social media is that people don't read the entire story."
On handling Siohvaughn's lawsuits alleging Gabby as a homewrecker and detrimental to her kids:
"I fought it. My life is just too easy to track. So, we were submitting plenty of proof for the times she said I was in Miami. So, it was like, obviously you're not telling the truth. And then the courts dismissed the case."
On her current relationship with Siovaughn:
I've never had one. I wasn't involved then-because I wasn't involved with their marriage--and I don't have one now.
On contemplating breaking up with Dwyane because of the divorce turmoil:
I did a lot of talking with girlfriends and sorting through my feelings about the madness. This kind of love is a gift. It's so consistent. There's no way that I would trade it for people who refuse to simply acknowledge the truth.
67 comments:
Have a seat ho
Chile....we so fukking off "dat".
#WhoGIvesADamnTheDivorceIzFinal
#StopBRANGINUpOldSHyt
She is so freakin ugly to me. And ppl swear she hot shit when she wear that same middle part in every picture. Get a new hair style damn
**yawn**
You didn't say anything about cheating FOR THE KIDS but you can't have at least a cordial relationship with the mother FOR THE KIDS? Shit don't sound right Gabby!!
For the record let me say: NOBODY can break up a marriage! If you break up it’s because: you had other problems, weren’t meant to be Married,
one person doesn’t love the other or it was over ALREADY. For these NUTTY Women like Siovaughn, Mashonda or who ever else to look for blame for the misfortunes in their marriages is beyond pitiful. When you have low self-esteem and you make an excuse you actually pick the worst case scenario to YOU. This was it to Siovaughn.
Ole fruit basket
Damn she foine! OW!!
Didn't anyone notice she did not mention anything about Dwayne filing court papers before they started to date. She just said they proved she wasn't in Miami.
I'm old school legal separation means still married point blank. If she "wasn't involved in their marriage" she should be able to build a relationship with the mother.
this ho makes me sick. she is the reason i dont go see most tyler perry movies....why she got to be in all of them. there are so many other black women who can act, talk, walk better than this heffa....
she is so smug...like she thinks she is so much better than everyone.....
NAW FORGET THIS STORY:
Am I the only one that says Nicki Minaj perform on the Today show? yo she got to shaking and the tittys got loose, you could see nipple and bottom half of her outfit looked like she was wearing a big ass diaper from behind! you gotta check that shit out! LMAO!
my bad: i saw nicki perform
gabby better seal the deal with a ring or some babies stat...
she runs the risk of being ball-less...
Her looks have always been overrated to me
I can't wait until wives start shooting mistresses. She's a chitlin circuit atress anyway, but WHY is she not talking about what's left of her career instead of hi old crap. Dwayne will trade her shady old a-s-s in soon anyway..LOL! Like he's being faithful to the sidehoe anyway.
SIT YO TALENTLESS BEHIND DOWN GIRL BEFORE GOD STRIKES YOU DOWN FOR DISOBEYING ONE OF HIS COMMANDMENTS!
Her black is fine,if she was high yellow you would be speaking another tune.
She's very attractive I don't see why ppl try to refute that... her morals are another story
RnB I respectfully disagree fam. Marriages where both people love each other are broken up all the time. And it's usually because there's a weak nigga like D Wade in the marriage.
This shit is simple.
He became an insanely famous star athlete, and instead of dumping his now "less-than-worthy" black wife from his meager upcoming for a blonde haired blue eyed trophy bitch, he dumped her for a blonde haired blue eyed trophy bitch wrapped in a brown-skinned "black" actress named Gabby.
Check her stats. She aint nuthin but an athlete chasing California-raised valley girl who came up in one of the wealthiest small "cities" in the entire country. When Wade blew up you'd see that bird and other hopeful dick magnets like Sanaa Lathan lurking around D. Wade just like Sanaa just happened to be in a dick's reach of Kobe when he was still married but at the concert.
Wade just one of them niggas that chose to go the weak route and when his black wife bugged out over the separation/divorce, it was easy to paint her as a "crazy black bitch". I'm not sayin' Siovaughn didn't have her issues, but this supposedly deeply spiritual nigga (that bought his recovered drug addict momma a church) took the same vows most married people take. He just chose to get him a bitch to match his newfound level of fame rather than to honor the vows he took with his wife. That's how I see it more/less.
Fuck Gabby and him too. If they were wrong, they'll be dealt with, whether the truth is made public or not. Karma don't miss nobody..
She's a gorgeous lady, and a good actress. I wish she was doing better than being in Tyler Perry movies, but I guess she's happy to be working.
Keep up the good Ms. Union!
@ 11:50 ALL. OF. THIS.
@ 11:50. Trying mighty hard to get the ladies to agree with you.
i am quick to compliment another female but i have to go w/ yall she is BASIC for a second in "Two can Play that Game" I thought she was doing it but --she isn't any different than anybody else/ as far as the marriage I blame Dwayne all day--that is on him. If he wasn't happy he has a right to be so LEAVE your wife then go elsewhere. I think its wrong and degrading to your self to be involved w/ a married man but I can't judge her (or anybody else)-- alot of yall say u wouldn't do it but come if Dwayne Wade stepped to you - u wouldn't give a damn and Siovaughn u would go for it!
^*about
@BeeGee: That's some real stuff you're kicking. EVERY (smart) woman knows a lot of men are looking for the next best thing. Everyone knows the sweet, faithful girlfriend who stays with her bf when he's struggling with school or his career, only to get dropped to the side when that dude "makes it". EVERY man doesn't toss away the woman who helped him build, grow and become a better person, but there are quite a few who will push a decent woman aside for what may be considered a "trophy". That's all this was.
Unfortunately, that's something you have to look out for. That's why we all - women AND men- should strive to be on our A game and truly learn the ppl that we love. If they don't think you're the greatest thing since sliced bread they most likely aren't going to stick around or keep you around when the money and success come and go.
@Bee Gee
I think you misunderstood me. If a Man and a Woman are in Love and have a REAL Bond NO ONE can come in between them, Period So, His Marriage to Her was not complete & total. If He loved His Wife Then it wouldn’t matter that another chick came around and was jockin’ Him.
and same goes for HER. If My Lady walks away with another Dude..Guess what? I can’t BLAME HIM??!! She ain’t love me and/or She ain’t wanna be with me. Also, keep in mind She has a History of flipping out too Dogz. Mental institutions,
erratic behavior & wild accusations. We really don’t know what went on behind closed doors BUT I can probably assume She started to develop anxiety, low self esteem & paranoia in extreme cases. Whether for valid reasons are not He ain’t wanna be with Her or I guess Love Her anymore. This is LIFE, People sometimes grow apart or shrink apart…
My problem is when you fight the inevitable with lies and innuendos.
Gabby is like the black Angelina Jolie to me. She has a thing for chasing married or otherwise attached men.
Gabby you are a smart woman girl and just DO YOU and tell the haters to go phuck themselves! There aren't many African American women who can keep their heads up with class these days so I am very proud of you for thinking of the children's well being who seem to LOVE YOU with their daddy.
Besides, I saw on Oprah once with the WHITE Jim Carey's ex had said that they were seperated long before the MEDIA found out and just waited until everything was clear before telling the media.
In other words, people don't know what in the hell goes on behind close doors so stay the hell out of grown people's business especially when your are NOT contributing!
Yes, I know first hand living in a big ass house with my ex who treated me like shyt but everybody thought that we had the PERFECT marriage until they found out the he was a dog that even the judge was pissed off at his azz.
Again... Gabby keep your head up and phuck these mofos! Love ya my fellow Scorpion!
HUMMMMMMMMMMMM? LESSONS LEARNED TAKE NOTES PEOPLE...
HUMAN BEHAVIOR IS SO PREDICTABBLE... LIKE I SAID SOME OF THESE COMMENTS ARE LESSON'S LEARNED WE SHOULD ALL BE TAKING NOTES...
Regardless of anything anybody calling Gabrielle Union ugly is just Jealous because she'e a dark skin black women living a light skin/white women's life. Dissing Dark Skin Beautiful Black women because there dark is/was a Slave Mentality Haters move anyway.Time out for the BS because "In The Beginning There Was Darkness" You see D Wade knows who makes his d ick hard! Who stimulates his mind! They look Beautiful and they are happy together. There relationship is Real AND anyone who know's them know's this is true. D Wade's ex/wife is Good and Rich she will be fine. At least he didn't leave his ex/wife broke and heart broken from being broke crying on Youtube. Now thats a Dam Shame.
Baby mama's that try to run a man's life still want this man that don't want them. Gabby don't have to talk to her to be there for the kids. All Gabby owes her is respect for being a mother and nothing more. Ladies don't take abuse from a mans baby mama, sister, aunt, mama or any other female that is hating cause they need to get a man of their own.
If Gabby is ugly then what the HELL do you call the ex wife? Gabby is very pretty, classy, and educated. How can people say is ugly?
Sometimes men are using you as a come up don't be mad at the next chick because she demanded more from the dude. Some women latch on to man for the ride waiting for the come up. Ladies we have to start being accountable for our choices with men. YOu can't control nobody but you. If Gabby did something wrong she will get hers.karma is a bitch.
There's nothing ugly about Gabby. She a black debutante like Lark Voorhies and Stacey Dash. That's how I like my Sistas.
Bitch PLEASE!!!!
Snitch,you're funny... 1-2 weeks ago,you posted on 3 triflin negroes in 1 day.Now, you're spotlighting Homewreckas like Reece and Keys. SMH
Somebody's sensitive about dark skin......
Gabrielle is fine as hell. I bet her pussy is all blood-pink inside.
I can see BeeGee and RnB's points. On one hand, D-Wade is indeed a clown and Gabby chases ballers for a living. They didn't give a fuck about Siovaughn. On the other hand, Sio was indeed a crazy ass bitch. To try to put her STD on D-Wade is foul as hell, and to allow that nigga to bring you to a level where u would lose your children......no maam. Both Sio and Dwyane are to blame.
Hopefully as the Heat progress through the play-offs,we'll see Gabby gets some facetime on the t.v.camera.
@R N B Thug...I read your first and second posts and my personal opinion is that Bee Gee understood and responded accurately. (I know nobody asked for my opinion but...so? lol)
@ Bee Gee
CO SIGN
Sanaa,Gabrielle, the Kardashians, and the likes stay looking for ballers. Sanaa probably got mad because she couldn't get Kobe's attention that's why she tweeted that slick shit about him. Gabrielle is a bold faced liar. There were pics of them posted everywhere while he was still married. So have a seat whore. She is just like Alicia PLEASE and Angelina HOE-LIE denying sleeping with a married man. I guess she gets props for not getting pregnant before the divorce was final like they did.
RnB, I understood you fam, I just think that love isn't always the unbreakable bond that we'd like to think it is. Most of us in here probably know someone that squandered what was a strong marital bond over fuckin around outside the marriage. Sometimes even a tiny slip up or issue of disrespect can begin the process of eroding that bond..
I definitely agree that you should never check "the other dude or in Siovaughn's case, the other woman", but I think for the most part this was about Wade allowing his image to drive a wedge between he and his wife..
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@ 11:50. Trying mighty hard to get the ladies to agree with you.
12:29 PM
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Right. That's exactly what I was doing. That's what I always do.
BEE GEE
STOP REPLYING TO THESE JEALOUS HATIN ASS BIRDS. THE LADIES USUALLY DO AGREE WITH YOU. SO.....
what?....this old shyt don't have anything to do with this girls appearence, and if you calling this girl ugly you're probably jus hating...YEA I SAID HATING, cuz she's not ugly and this topic ain gon change that shyt, the chitlin circuit ain either....im sure Gabriel ain taking time outta her life to read this shyt anyway, but even if she did it wouldn't be while she was bored as hell with life and wanted to gossip to make the day pass her by. She ain Broke, she dating a rich ball player, and you right she getting plenty grocery money from Tyler Perry for those movie roles, and she has NO KIDS! #Standing ovation GOOD JOB GABBY!!! Not to mention this girl was viciously RAPED before she became famous at a young age while working at her job...she deserves some fukking PEACE, damn what the fukk does looks have to do with ANYTHING the FUKK the interview was about...huh?
#YallMfBeHatingTho
#SometimeThisBlogShytAinCool
@Bee Gee
Well, we agree on some points but I still say: If some chick come running around and you And you not only cheat but DISS & LEAVE your Wife
Then She isn’t for you, then there were already underlying issues that have festered and the marriage was irreparably broken. If not Gabby then someone else.
- Bee Gee Hating on Gabby Casue He can't see Her Feet, LOL, Have a Nice Easter!!!
I don't care what anyone says Gabrielle Union is the most if not one of the most beautiful women ever. Just look at that face OMG. If God made me change my face and body, I would have Gabrielle's face and Yasmeen Ghauri or Tyra's body(Too Funky video).
RNB, now you have to admit that ya'll men are pretty stupid when it comes to looks. I mean lets keep it real, Gabby may or may not be a whore, hoe, etc but she looks better than D-wades wife, so in D-wades simple mind, he figures go with the trophy despite the woman who may or may not be a pyscho holding him down. My point is, since the beginning of time, men with power, money, status and fine goodlooking average men have always dated trophy type, arm candy time looking women.
I think what Bee-gee is trying to get at is that D-wade made his final decision based on who was getting his dick harder at the time. I hate to say it, but yes, ya'll men are just that simple. Otherwise, the porn industry, Nicky Garbage and her diaper ass, hustler magazines,etc.. would all go out of business.
Now as beautiful as i've always thought Gabby was since before she became semi famous in that movie Bring It On, Gabby does have a track record with Athletes.
They were dating before the divorce was final = cheating
Plus his X was not that bitter for nothing.
@ Bee Gee
Yeah, we usually do agree with you and laugh at a lot of your comments. Good Job LOL. We appreciate you!
ON TOPIC
I just wanted to say 3 things...
#1 Gabby is beautiful (even the haters know this) and D Wade is sooo fine!
#2 What they did/ are doing is WRONG and they will pay for it. It is just a matter of time.
#3 I think many of the black woman commenting on this are glad (to some degree) that Wade at least cheated with a Sista (even if she is a valley girl with a rep for chasing ballers)
BTW Question....How many of you all can honestly say that you have not participated in this same type of behavior (on some level) at some point in your life?
If you have KNOWINGLY slept with someone else's boyfriend/ husband or girlfriend/wife before...how can you talk. It was just as wrong when we did it. The only difference is we are not celebrities.
Marriage should be respected point blank. Even if a married person disrespects their spous and the vows they made before God by cheating...it doesn't give anyone the right to assist them in doing this for selfish reasons.
Been there done that and it's NOT worth it.
^^^^spouse
@3:56 & 10:02 - Thanks
@RnB - Lmao, you a fool, man. Yeh her toe game could be much better :)
I dated a married man who had. Been seperated for. 6 years. It was no secret that they were not together. Now his wife had the nerve to say I stole her man! I defended myself against that bullshit. Even my family who knew her and the hubby before me l we she was lying and defended me tooth and nail. When you are not a homewrecker you will defend yourself
Gabby you know he was with his wife when you came in the picture. Stop using the young kids as an excuse.
Many women have been raped & violated but still have morals & standards. Pray for these lost souls. Gabby -just on the strength- could have benefitted everyone by stepping aside until DWade was completely free of all obligations. That girl Sio was really sick behind their shenanegins & Gabby came off as cold & heartless...much like her character in Love & Basketball. I think she is absolutely beautiful; however, after her cut throat gold digging move she has shown herself to be a very ugly & self-centered person with an atrocious sense of entitlement.
BeeGee- your posts are always on point because you stay neutral & rational in your breakdowns. Thanks for that Brother - as you have def schooled me a time or two.
WoW!Such Noble people in RWS today.... Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah...Wonder what they would do in the same situation? Would they say "Oh no Mr Wade your married, come back to me after your devorce is Final" LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL Yeah Right! Bull Shitzzzz Noble Liar's!!!
WoW!Such Noble people in RWS today.... Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah...Wonder what they would do in the same situation? Would they say "Oh no Mr Wade your married, come back to me after your DIVORCE is Final" LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL Yeah Right! Bull Shitzzzz Noble Liar's!!!
5:52a/5:55a - You consider yourself a Christian who believes in Jesus & God? Praise the Lord & keep the ho-isms coming!
@1:04am....even if he was separated god still saw them still being married. You should've left him alone until he divorced,u lucky you didn't die in your sin otherwise god would not have wanted to hear it from you. He meant wasn't he said no adulterers will inherit the kingdom of heaven nor will fornicators!!! So u might wasn't to workon living holy being fill with gods spirit & leave these attached men alone separated or not!!!!
Gabby I see you coming on here defending yourself,you ain't slick!!!!! physically you're not ugly but you're not fine as hell u more like next door girl pretty but as far as lela rochon fine,hell no,not even close!!!!! And both of u are dark skinned !!! & sure your friends was there lifting u up all of u bare the same afflictions & u all blind so how can 1 lead the other. U & your friends are weak and if u dont repent & turn from your wicked ways theres a special place in hell for adulterers,thats not what christ wants for u,leave him so god can give you the husband he has for u!!!
Just like she stated in her interview..."folks don't read the whole story". If you all followed his divorce proceedings, you would no that he filed for divorce in Nov. of 2007. He met Gabrielle in Feb. 2007 for the first time when they hosted a superbowl party. His wife gave birth to the their 2nd son in May 2007. Wife was having an affair with another man that she hooked up with an apartment and car in MIA. Not saying Dwyane was innocent in all this, but Gabrielle wrecking their marriage is ridiculous! Marriage was already a wreck before they even met! It took 3 yrs for the marriage to be dissolved because Siovaughn kept dipping and dodging ie the lawsuit against Gabrielle! Why shouldn't he move on. And if yall took time out to READ instead of JUDGE you would no that he had a wave of other woman before he and Gabrielle started dating. Do you blame him...he was tied down to one woman since he was a teenager, now he got millions and living in MIA why wouldn't he EXPLORE. Give some of yall the same opportunities and yall would do the same thing. Calling her a homewrecker and ugly just shows how immature yall are. I'm sure anyone of you given the opportunity to meet her or Dwyane would jump at it, so don't go hiding behind your computers with your self righteous attitudes, when yall don't no what the heck yall talking about! Get your facts straight before making an azz out of yourselves on the blogs....team Wade/Union :)
Gabby is one of the most NATURALLY beautiful women in Hollywood. Most of those chicks are straight busted without makeup and the proper lighting. Anyone who says differently needs optical care STAT. As for Dwayne's ex, from what I've heard she was no saint in their marriage and she definitely wasn't one upon it's dissolution. D-Wade did not dump her as soon as he became successful. Check the timeline.
Quite a few of you have extremely short memories. It was a know fact that Gabrielle and Dwayne were dating during his marriage. His infidelity is what ended his marriage. There were many times where D-Wade had to warn Gab that Sivoughn was coming to whoop her ass because it was a known fact she was sleeping with her husband. Sivoughn was ride or die for this nigga since she was a teenager. He lived with her family because of his broken family situation. She was there when he had absolutely nothing!!! This isn't the first marriage Gab has interfered with. But trust, she is getting ALL of her Karma, because he's cheating on her ass too!!!
@ AnRnBThug...you sound stupid. A marriage is a commitment before God; an institution. You think He sees it that way? No. And legally speaking, if they're married and they start effin other people - everybody involved is wrong. Who cares if emotionally they've stopped effin w/ each other. That's not what matters. How can anybody move on until all ties are severed? Don't get married, dumbass.
Men ain't shit! Point blank period
Shame on you both and same on you for taking these children from their mom.Now you have had her arrested? As if cheating wasn't enough you both deserve nothing but the worst it's coming this you can count on.
Did she say she took the high road or the whore road?
Sorry Gabby you can't wash your hands in dirty water and come out clean. It's more than clear to everyone with half a brain what happened.You will forever be remembered as a homewrecking twit!
Ok really so when did u all become their convictor they answer to noone but God..our sin is no greater than theirs..i guarantee we dont really know 2/3 of the truth cuz the media hypes everything up..i guarantee u wade isnt going to let just anyone be around his kids..im sure she isnt gonna cook them up and eat them.please yall let go of the drama..yall feed into anything and everything..who cares what they do..do they pay any of ur bills? No! So let them be! Let them heal and work it out..God does forgive so stop saying karama..thats the point of forgiveness..so wade and unuion do ur thing..much love...shunt from jax fl
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