After having her face cracked by her boyfriend's baby mama on Twitter [click here if you missed that] and then finding out everything the baby mama said was true [click here if you missed that] Royce Reed addresses the situation, and her boyfriend's baby mama, in a blog for VH1...
Royce writes,
We, Reality Stars, are put in a very vulnerable position when we sign up for these shows. No matter what we go through, the good, the bad, the ugly, when we walk outside we get recognized and judged. I’m not going to put on a front like I’m okay. My heart hurts.
Do I think Dezmon loves me? Yes! Do I think what he did was wrong? Absolutely. Are we done…forever? Honestly, I don’t know. Readers can say I’m dumb if I go back, but with relationships come mistakes. I was lied to and lesson learned…I entertained it on Twitter. I let the drama get to me despite being told to ignore it. That was my immaturity in this experience coming out. I admit that. Yes, I’m embarrassed, humiliated and broken. But I’m strong. Regardless of what happens I will be okay. Do I love him? Yes. Is that enough to stay? At this point, no. I entertained the mother of his son because I trusted what I was told and I stood by him as I should have. Was I the fool? Yep! Do some find it funny that I have egg on my face? Sadly yes, but that means they are lacking happiness and love in their own lives hence them basking in another person’s hurt. Ignorance is bliss but it’s also dangerous.
As far as the logistics go…”At the end of the day” (Jen voice) he will not be with her. So the rant she went on and my responses change nothing for her life. Not only do I look like a fool in love, but she looks like a bitter, jealous and angry “Baby Momma.” That’s worse. Fact is, they were never an item. They were never a couple. But for just under a year, she has been angry that he has been with me. Her twitter name was @dezbriscoejrmom…That was her identity. If you go thru her page (she obviously wanted followers and a platform, so I’m giving it to her) you will see how angry she was that we were together. She spoke about the cruise we went on, him saying he loved me, wanted to marry me, etc. If she didn’t care, why talk about it? If you didn’t watch the show, why do you know every minute of our scenes as if you were commentating? I’m sure she wonders why she was never “the one” to marry but just “the one” to do before he met me. I can’t imagine what Dezmon is feeling right now because, again, I was with my son’s father for four years despite the drama we are going through. So I can’t imagine having a child by someone who never claimed me or never had me front and center at some point. My son puts a smile on my face everyday so no matter what happens I know as long as I’m a good mother that in itself completes me when he wipes my tears, I clean his boo boos, and I get that hug and kiss.
Open letter to Christina…
Christina,
Do you feel better about yourself? Denying a man his child through texts (why didn’t you post those?) because he is with someone else. Stating in direct message he will never see his son, or that I will never meet him, that you’re going to file for custody when you’ve had several court order that had to be given to you for you to “let” him see his child never looks good to a judge. Trust me! When you have proof on your side you have nothing to worry about. That’s why I can be worry free. You on the other hand, shouldn’t be. The position you just put yourself in, I hurt for you as a mother because you have pretty much signed away your son. I dread that court date for you. I tried to speak to you respectfully on DM and you just “didn’t get it.” I tried to HELP you. But your jealousy got the best of you. Now you’re asking for an apology? For what? For ruining a relationship you were jealous of because he didn’t want you? You still lost. I feel sorry for you.
44 comments:
Royce you would have taken the high road had you left his baby momma out of this. Yes, she informed you about "her cheating baby daddy and your man" but truly you are stupid, if you believe that he won't go back to this women. Trust me when your VH1 spot light ends, he will be right back with her because he proved that he still loves her and wants her. Let it go and be single for a minute and work on loving yourself and your child.
He's too young for her...point blank
look at the ratings for the show. they have been falling steadily.
THIS is ALL a publicity stunt to get you to watch, trust me.
Hot mess... All of it... Just nasty and messy but the children of these people that's who I feel sorry for. Smh
She's the one that looks stupid, yet she still takes shots at the ex. She didn't even have to address the other female (there's also a third female that got in on it). The BM is not the one that lied to her, Dezmond did. Anything she has to say should be directed to him. I like Royce, but it's hard to believe that she's 30. This is some high school ish. Fighting over a man is bad enough, but on a public forum...no ma'am!
people forget that when you put mess on the internet, IT LIVES FOREVER! one day the young ones involved in these messy situations will see all of this crap. smh...
so highschool. just lost a minute of my life, and that was with skim reading.
i don't mind the age thing, some men are very mature in their early twenties but they only live on Pluto, not on earth, so...
She can still booty pop for Clipper tickets,them seats should be hot to get right now.
Go Clips,fuck da Lakers...yea,I said it!!!
She should not have posted this..point blank..especialy the part addressed to the BM.. #fail #keepitclassynexttime
An enabler is what she is. Lets see who the next damaged black man she'll entertain us with.
She is thirsty as a camel in the Sierra. Men hone in on thirsty, needy women.
Mystery and silence is intriguing.
Her weakness is like blackjack to a fucking roach. A plain turnoff. She needs to handle her shit in her own space and privacy. Dont expose this shit for the next trifling negro to manipulate.
Guess her daddy didnt teach her that. Stupid hoe.
Royce you are wasting your time...put your energy into your child....love will find you....you shouldn't fight for love.....
i feel for her, and i think she kept it classy(considering how classy one can be when airing your dirty laundry on the internet)... and the same ones on here talkin about she shouldn't have addressed the bm are the same ones who've probably put a brick thru some chick's windshield.
SHE SEEMS SILLY TO ME, TOO MUCH ENERGY GET ANOTHER MAN AND FALL HEAD OVER HEELS IN LUV IN THREE MONTHS. TALKIN RACKLESS " WE ARE FILING FOR FULL CUSTODY" FOCUSED ON YOUR OWN SON
@11:00PM, sadly i agree with you. Which is why i suspect that this is all for ratings. I can't imagine that the same Royce that knows how to pop-lock-and drop it and is a "Baby Mother" herself, i shudder at that word, Black women need to start becoming "Wife" or nothing at all, would allow herself to get played by a nigga who probably still needs lessons on how to wipe his ass correctly so no streaks are left in his diapers. Jus sayin'
Hey I dated dezmond's brother and all those briscoe men are cheaters.
So, Royce you entertained the nonsense and should have let it be. You can't sit there and call someone out and you did the samething, when you were putting your child's father on blast...
Royce is so dumb and ugly she always look like something stinks probably her breath she stay wit dif men now I bet she feel dumb af yet another man she took around her son and wont be in his life for the long run dumb ass !!!
She's supposed to be in her early thirties, but sounds like a straight 20 year old bird.
Thank goodness there are women like HER for no account men to get with and leave me alone.
Does she really believed she embarrassed his ex? Seriously Royce??? It must be that southern stupidity in play here that I hear about all the time.
All of this over some young ass dirty dick nigga? I love gossip as much as the next person, but this shit has me embarrassed for them, Royce get it together, your such a beautiful sista but your self worth sucks SMH.
Royce is the only one who looks stupid.
Nigga knew he was lying and then still offered up his baby mothers phone number to u to call and ask...that was childish and a tell tale sign that he aint shxt.
Oh boo fuckin' hoo! This bitch needs to get it to-ge-ther, get a grip on reality and grow up! She wants a long everlasting relationship without the work it takes to build one so as long as she continues with that immature mind set, giving her all to anyone that will take it,she will fall short of that goal time and time again!
I find it funny how you always hear people talking about children who grow up without a father and how fucked up they turn out! It's true, all children need both parents but it's not a guarantee that they are going to turn out any better than if they were raised with one or none even by having both!
Not all parents are GOOD parents but even under the BEST of circumstances, some people are just born needy know-it-all type people and have no desire to take any type of guidance or advice no matter how much you pray and talk and teach them. Not until they are ready which for some isn't until much.....MUCH later in life!
More people than not in this world choose to use relationships to shield them from the reality that they need to acknowledge that they need to work on themselves! I have never understood why so many people in the world can't stand to be alone, not even for a little while! Do you find yourself that intolerable? If so, maybe you are!
if this is a publicity stunt then it is a major FAIL , i still will not watch that show
damn everywhere you look everyone is breaking up or cheating, faking pregnancies, is the media tryna wean us off love?
*Sigh*
Royce is my gurl!!!! She's right; the jilted baby mama came at her because after her 'son's father' has sex with her, he was hugged up with another in front of a tv camera and she couldn't take it. She had sex with him but they are 'not together'. If Dez is such a cheater then why his sons mom want to put him on blast like that? Only Ho's kiss and tell. If she wanted to tell Royce, then contact her but don't get into no battle over no negro on twitter!! One thing about it, as long as she keep spreadin them legs, Dez will be right there.
Wait for the right man Royce; if this jerk has to lie about screwin' his sons mother then he will lie about any and everything.
this I need a man or I'm nothing-chick gets on my last nerve. you all on tv laying up on his ass with next to nothing on, and now you find out this is what he does and not just with you. girl take so time to love yourself, you more worried about who your next dude is going to be.
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She could have omitted all the things about his baby mama. That is definitely a recipe for bitterness and looking dumb. Why offer her advice, let her reap the benefits of karma.
sit your azz down, still trying to make it look like you were wrong but she looks worse at what she text. you both look silly over this dude. and you come across really needy royce, a good tactic for running a man off or into anothers bed.
Women should never speak on another woman's past relationship with the man they are dating. The fact is, Royce's "man" still fantasizes about spreading her azz cheeks. They only have the "man's" version of the story. What did Royce expect him to say, "I loved f*ckin her once but then she got pregnant and I decided I'd rather f*ck someone who didn't have kids."
Look at dude's character. Liar and manipulator. Didn't he say, "I only told my baby mama those things so I could see my kid." AND he ain't paying child support.
ROyce a dummy.
des shit happen every day....and those of us females up on here claiming high road antics. You are lying,what Royce did was exactly what most of you would have done if the shoe was on yall's big feet. Females being classy with the ex...that dosent happen in the female world...at all. But if lying on this page makes you feel better,so be it. Royce did the right thing,she broke up and sprayed that nigga with some "Bish be gone spray".They where public with their mess,why cant she be as public with the rebuttal. Game,set match....TeamRoyce.
Yea alot of us MAY have done what Royce did, but MOST of us would not have done it on twitter, so miss me with that bullshit. The bigger person in this fuckery is the one who ignores this shit and keep it moving. No sympathy for anyone who puts their business out there for the whole damn world to see and then claim everybody in their business. *cough cough - beyonce*
Cool story, Royce. Now back on ya knees and say "aaahh"..
@ Bee Gee, we know under ANY circumstance, that is what you do when your "Daddy" commands you to hum on his ashy, funky nuts but not everyone is like that.
Stop projecting your twisted actions on others. Not everyone would slob on a knob for a pack of hot cheetos and a pepsi, motherfuka.
I really feel bad for her cause she is young acting and we have all been there where we played the fool for a fool.
It's just me says:
Well Royce it's time for you to chill awhile and then make that list of what you want from a man as well as what you are willing to do in the relationship to make it work. Seek advice. Don't settle for a boy when you are looking for a man to do the job. Come on girl, I'm rooting for ya. TeamRoyce.
I thought she was going to take the high road too...frankly my opinion has always been don't let them see you trippin over the situation...i would have written a blog about something totally different...also i wish she wld have left the baby momma out of it, although i can understand her fustration cuz i am going through something similar my man's bm tld him he couldn't see his child if he was w/ me etc. it causes a strain on our relationship b/c i don't want to cause him problems also woman to woman i know her pain she is going thru no one plans to be apart from their child's father but at the same time she does some very childish and desperate things that i don't agree with. at point i wanted to walk away cause its too much but i love him and like royce said he assured me even if he was not w/ me --he wouldn't be w/ her ....sometimes it just doesn't work out and u only hurt yourself by staying stuck and and depressed over a situation that is over and done with
@11:15 - You sound upset. You sound as if my statement to Royce struck a familiar nerve. You should be embarrassed to reveal thatchu suck dick for pepsi and cheetos, trollbitch..
Bloop!
@10:11 - Boom!
Royce get over yourself you made a complete and utter JACKASS CUM TWEETING OUT YOSELF YOU SHOWED US HOW A SLUT YOU ARE AND ATENTION HO YOU ARE SO YOUR LETTERS DO NOT MATTER ..QUESTION IS "HOW YOU DOIN" ..BOOM BEYATCH HE USED YOU DIG YO AZZ A HOLE AND SIT THE HELL DOWN,, YOU SAY HE HAS A NICE TONGUE BUT I BET HE SAYS YOU SLOBBED HIS KNOB BETTER..
For a young girl, Royce's face be looking real ol' skool like she's the stunt double for the Paula Abdul looking chick from Kut Klose, LOL. The other Manly looking chick from the group looks like R. Kelly, hahaha
http://www.covershut.com/covers/Kut-Klose-Surrender-Front-Cover-27254.jpg
grape soda? yes thank you. seems bitches are thirsty today.
#ChiiiiLEeee
#BOo
#&BYe
...smh fukk all of em, this shyt ain my damn business no way!
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