A stipulation of the primary child custody agreement between Pilar and Deion Sanders, prohibits Pilar from hitting their children with anything besides her hand...
From Rumor Fix
Deion’s attorney, Rick Robertson, tells RumorFix exclusively that [Pilar], who is not allowed to go within the fences surrounding Deion’s residence, was also ordered not to use “corporal punishment” on her children other than the use of her hand on their buttocks.
Robertson tells us, “This is important because there was all sorts of evidence of use of a belt and disagreements about how the children should or should not be punished.”
51 comments:
This is just getting silly Primetime and his trophy need to settle this sh*t out of the media!
Snitch I love you and all but can we ban all turtle lookin coon news please!!! That would be Deion and Tyrese. Thank$
I am so sick of her and that soon to be dumb ass ex husband of hers. Two years ago they were acting like the king and queen of dallas. On the football wives show acting like there SHIT DON'T STINK!!! And also on Pilar and Dion pretending to be so in love and God fearing people. Talking about how they could never see themselves without each other. I also remember his older children being on the show acting like they just loved her as there stepmom. His daughter even said that Pilar was more like a mother then a stepmom. As far as him putting stuff out in the street...NIGGRO can you act like a damn man and not a bitter bitch. Taking pictures and saying that they jumped me oh my...help help police. Give that former video girl a house, car, and some child support and she will be done and gone out of your life. The Judge will probably tell her that she is even lucky that you are being so nice and order her to get nothing. Remember she signed a prenup. Keep it moving. I'm Just Saying!!!
WTF
The DEMISE-n-Downfall of A PRACTICING Disgusting TRICK
AND I BLAME Deion "SHAM of A MAN" Sanders for THIS CREATION Though
Mary J Blige addresses the Burger King commercial!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6OJBjCJLx4
“This is important because there was all sorts of evidence of use of a belt and disagreements about how the children should or should not be punished.”
In other words, their mother believed in spankin that ass with a belt? Damn, they need to hang her from a noose! I can't believe she uses a belt on her children, wtf?! She should definitely do jail time and never be granted custody again - that shit is inhumane!
Yehanyway..
i find it interesting when society tells parents that basic discipline techniques such as the belt on buttocks is corporal punishment...
it puts children in a false sense of power and entitlement which is the goal because once they become adults, they will not understand boundaries and become prey for the social and judicial systems...
who gives a fuck? them kids are near grown anyhow. if beating them by hand won't do it a belt won't do any better.
Should've added : Don't degrade the father within the children's presence.Calling your daddy a bitch ain't never good.
@Bee Gee,
Ha ha. Love your incredible sarcasm.
Okay this is just even more ridiculous now. She's being punished because she spanked HER CHILDREN with a belt? Just wow.
Dark n' Lovely, NOBODY wants to see your big ol' belly! That shit is NOT cute, ok? Yes...you got FUCKED and somebody spat some sperm up in your pussy. Now be fucking gone!
@Akhenaton - You speak the hella truth. See how fast the police beat that azz with a nightstick and get called a hero.
Frankly I think the judge should make both of them sit in jail cells across from each other until they can start acting like grown folks.
I'm just mad them nipples is cockeyed.
TWO BAD ACTORS DRUMMING IT UP FOR THE CAMERAS GUESS THAT FAME SHIT IS ADDICTIVE.
@Akhenaton I wholeheartedly agree thats exactly whats going on now.
I cant stand this golddigging bitch and she's getting exactly what she deserves. Dont think for a second that she dont see those kids as 18yr baller plans.
Deion will be awarded full custody watch n see.
I can only use my hands on their buttocks?? I'd be socking the hell out that sciatic!!LOL...trust.
I hope Deion IS awarded full custody, but they need to see their mother on the regular. Deion, put a lil taste on a two bedroom CONDO for this jump-off-that-stayed-long-and-wore-out-her-welcome, and keep it pushing.
She should have been using some of that NFL money to further her education JUST IN CASE she needed a lifestyle adjustment.
Lesson for all you "dime pieces" that are luxuriating on your husband's dime...Make it work for your future. It's better for you AND those kids.
Oh and, to Dark and Lovely.... can you enjoy motherhood WITHOUT forcing us to see those owls?? Someone should ban that kind of cruelty.
Dark and Lovely lets see more angles pls!
Dark and Lovely dont ignore me either I wanna see that fat ass!
Belts cause welts and red marks on a child. Hitting a defenseless child is already WRONG, but adding a belt(weapon) to he equation is PHYSICAL ABUSE.
Why does a grown adult need to physically beat a child....are you too stupid to use logic and reason? Or perhaps your child is too stupid to understand logic and reason and in that case no amount of beating is going to help you or the kid.
Good luck with that.
^^^6:10 either:
A.) Doesn't have kids.
or
B.) Is a cracker whose kids run them.
As a parent, you sacrifice for your children. Sometimes that means that you hide your pride, present a united front, and deal with your issues quietly.
I definitely don't think beating kids with a belt in this day and age is necessary. They speak English and understand it well. The question is: Do you?
Pilar prolly takin' out all her anger on them kidz. And Deion prolly buying their opinion. Either way, it's toxic and it's sad.
Spare the rod spoil the child...that is all.
Yeah, Parents(the Romans) also fed their children to lions in the Bible and slavery was condoned.
That is all.
@6:21 There is a reason why many black kids are running wild in the streets and do poorly in school while most white kids graduate high school and go to college.
Stop beating your kids and perhaps you'll give them something else to think about --like a successful future.
Just sayin'
@6:42 - and part of that reason is money and privilege.
I wouldn't walk around with my son and daughter on leashes and pulling them like dogs when they stray too far away. Shouldn't no one be telling me how to raise mine and I won't comment on how you raise yours.
Ok so she "degrades " him by calling him a bitch ! Ok so whats he doing by fucking a trick up in her bed and letting the kids see and probably hear..I guess y'all call that respect??? WTF?
Anyhow , the kids sound like a fucking nightmare and I bet he would disrespect her in front of them all the time and when she said no he would turn around and say yes ...this typa nigga needs to die alone!
@6:42 you are entitled to your opinion but do not try to categorize everyone who whips their children because you do not know what you are talking about!
As a child I got whoppings when I did something bad, belt, house shoe, ruler, whatever and I grew up without an arrested record or teenage pregnancy, and I earn an honest living. It is not about beating till the white meat show (RIP Bernie) but a child needs to be disciplined and to each his own.
I was hit when I was kid but then again I'm an 80s baby. It seems that kinda fell off in the 90s and as a result we have a bunch of misfits today.
@6:42 - That doesn't even approach making sense. The problem with what you're speaking on is classism in America, not spanking kids vice time out. Not sure how you came to that conclusion, but to each his own. I know some fairly successful, highly educated black AND white people that all got they asses tore up when they grew up. As others have stated, I feel like this generation didn't get hands put on thatass enough, that's why you have parents taking their bad ass kids to the doctor to be diagnosed with whatever fuck the doctor feels like diagnosin' em with, and ending up slaves to the pill industry. If you have time, download "Generation RX". It'll give you a glimpse into that whole debacle. Parenting is an all-inclusive thing, and the belt can be an effective part of that. To each his own..
7:37-8:39, my sentiments EXACTLY! 6:42 sounds silly and uninformed.
I agree that 6:10 probably doesn't have kids. They're always the ones with the 'expert' advice. I don't use belts or switches on my son, but he will get smacked when necessary. That time out shit doesn't work. My mother beat me growing up and contrary to what was said at 6:42, I was NOT running wild in the streets, did NOT do poorly in school, and graduated from high school and went to college (and graduated) with the white kids you speak of. There's a difference between discipline and abuse. Black eyes and bleeding is abuse, but ain't nothing wrong with a child getting popped to get that 'ack right' realigned.
what about when the NUNs were whipping kids with rulers and anything else they can find. White parents paid for those whippings. WTF
Deion should pull a Halle and have a chaperone present @ all times when the kids go see Pilar.The chaperone would be some bi-racial Mariah mulattoe heffa wearing clear heels,tank top and booty shorts with natural hair falling past her butt.She'll be half Pilar's age and would document the pick-up times,nature of the activity,etc.All she will need is a clipboard and phone.
For blacks, spanking has ties to slavery
Recently, a study found that spanking has a negative effect on toddlers, particularly those from low-income households. Precious, the new movie by Tyler Perry and Oprah Winfrey, is the story of a black teen mother who survives physical and sexual abuse from her parents. While the movie strikes a chord with those who were victims of abuse in their childhood, it also reminds us of the prevalence of beatings as a child-rearing tool in the African-American community, a practice which hearkens back to the days of slavery.
As Dr. William H. Grier and Dr. Price M. Cobbs remind us in their book, Black Rage, black folks learned to beat their children from slavery. The book cautions:
"Beating in child-rearing actually has its psychological roots in slavery and even yet black parents will feel that, just as they have suffered beatings as children, so it is right that their children be so treated. This kind of physical subjugation of the weak forges early in the mind of the child a link with the past and, as he learns the details of history, with slavery per se."
Of course, slaves were personal property and were supposed to be obedient. And slave masters could do with them as they pleased, without repercussions, including beating them. These masters could justify the harsh and brutal treatment by pointing to Bible passages such as Ephesians 6:5, which reads, "Slaves, obey your earthly masters with deep respect and fear. Serve them sincerely as you would serve Christ." Further, Exodus 21:20-21 states that, "When a man strikes his male or female slave with a rod so hard that the slave dies under his hand, he shall be punished. If, however, the slave survives for a day or two, he is not to be punished, since the slave is his own property."
For the ancestors of today's African-Americans, the physical violence of slavery -- including whipping, beating and other acts -- served to humiliate them, break them, and keep them in control. And even after slavery up until today, many black parents have disciplined their children by giving them a "whoopin" or a beating every now and then, some more often than others. Everyone has heard the story about the child whose grandmother directed him or her to go to the backyard and select a "switch", a branch or stick from a tree that the grandmother would use to whip the child. In fact, many black people experienced the switch scenario firsthand. That was the traditional way that many children were raised. Spare the rod and spoil the child, they said.
As a society, we experience much violence and trauma in our lives. Children experience that trauma. Adults have more stresses than ever as they try to make ends meet and pay the bills with a shrinking paycheck, perhaps even a second job. With less money, no spare time, and more stress with few outlets, parents raise their children under a great deal of pressure. Feeling powerless, sometimes parents will take out their frustration on whomever is available, including a spouse or a child. Then, children are struck simply because they are there. These children later grow up to abuse their own children, and the vicious cycle continues.
The good old days were not always so good, and some practices are better left in the past. After all, slavery, spousal abuse, and even lynching were once acceptable. Today's children do not need more violence. Rather, they need love, support and encouragement from their parents. Children need structure, boundaries and guidance, and a community that will nurture them. Let's throw away the switches.
12:13am here
The only people that are "silly and uninformed" are the black parents beating their children. You don't even realize the psychological dysfunction you are passing on to your children.
There is a reason why black children have he highest rates of foster care placement in the country, as well as high violent crime rates.
Children learn violence in the home and all those whoopings you're giving your kids are simply teaching them to be violent.
Of course you won't believe it, so keep doing what you do. My children are Honors students and have never been hit, much less whipped.
To each his/her own indeed.
Say what you want but in the year 2000 and beyond if kids come to school with belt marks and bruises that are visible teachers have to report that then cps come knockin. Shit happened to my baby mama beating my son with a belt and left marks on his legs. I whip my kid but only on the ass I believe in ass whoopins but its not the 80's.
Somehow I think her crazy ass just go off on them kids for nothing she doesnt seem like the rational type.
There is a reason why black children have he highest rates of foster care placement in the country, as well as high violent crime rates.
^
There are a variety of reasons why black children are in the predicament that they are in, and it has little to do with whippings/beatings.
But leave it the new age gurus to blame it on discipline.
I hope your "honor students" don't wind up with unwanted pregnancies and doing drugs without "whipping" them.
@DARK AND UGLY YOU ARE A MAN WHO JUST GOT BREAST OR JUST BIPOLAR CUNT!!!!
12:13 / 12:23 How are you argreeing with bee gee saying "to each his own" when you are flaming the entire black races for spanking their children? GTFOHWTBS!!!!
^ Lol.
12:23AM - I still don't see your point. The pitfalls you speak of don't have anything to do with spankings. Now, straight up physical abuse is another thing, but baby that's apples to oranges. My son is an honors student that has taken his fair share of ass whoopins, and I'm sure there are plenty others.
Hell I've never met a brotha or sista that wasn't THANKFUL for getting spankins during their upcoming. Like I said, abuse is a whole other issue, but gettin that ass and them legs tore up once in a while....nah. There's no correlation there..
All I know is a child kirked out on my morning metro ride and the mom just stood there like she wasnt involved. This younger generation dosent spank.Hence all these unruly kids running around. I spanked both my children if they cut up....Pilar and Mr. GooberHead though are using the children as pawns in their divorce. I think this no spanking comes on the heels of that fight they had and the son locking himself in his room n not coming to Pilar when she called him. Their children are using the divorce to play them and they ,so caught up in the antics of a public divorce ,are letting them. Hence this order.
no I do not believe anyone should beat their kids..ESPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE A BLACK BELT..smh@ Pilar
stop feeding kids processed foods
Well Beegee, a majority of Child Psychologists disagree with you.
And if you think beating a child will stop them from doing drugs, you are truly misguided. No amount of beatings will stop a child or adult that has genetic predisposition towards drugs and alcohol.
Education, Education, Education!
DID DION KEEP ALL OF PILAR'S CLOTHS OR SOMETHING. EVERY PICTURE OF HER FOR LAST TWO WEEKS SHE IS WEARING THAT SAME PINK AND GREEN TANK OUTFIT....WHATS UP?
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