Thursday, August 02, 2012

Bow Wow Neglecting His Daughter?


You know how they say what's done in the dark always comes to light? Well Bow Wow's baby mama's sister just put the spotlight on Bow Weezy...

Najah Chavis, Joie Chavis' sister,  spilled the tea about how Bow Wow has never bought his daughter anything and how his mom has only seen the baby three times!




86 comments:

Anonymous said...

No surprise here.

Anonymous said...

if they dont deserve to be 'kin' to her then stop harassing them.

Anonymous said...

Little Girl STFU! Take that mess up with the courts!

Always lying on mofos trying to assassinate their character! Next time tell your sister to stop being a groupie and DO BETTER, for your niece sake!

Ole stupid bitties!

Anonymous said...

And this is news because...?

Anonymous said...

Smh.....and the cycle continues...

Anonymous said...

I mean after reading those tweets, who would want to deal with her poor @$$!

Twitter = FAMILY COURT SMH

Anonymous said...

its her own fault she chose to be a groupie,fucked many rappers, and happened to come up on a positive with bowwow. i bet she thought she was hitting the jackpot.

Anonymous said...

@ 12:27 EXACTLY! stupid bish!

Anonymous said...

DAMN MISS, TELL'EM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL!

Anonymous said...

@12:23pm TRUE! I am not saying he is right by any means but why do these woimen expect so much from men that they know won't shit before the baby was born. When a no good man has a child he does not automatically transform to a good man. People can change but when u get pregnant under certian circumstances and you make the decision to keep the child you need to be PREPARED to do it alone and HOPE that the father does what he suppose to do, but you can't COUNT on somebody who you hardly know, doesn't love you, and who doesn't handle buisness in other areas of his life to suddenly to step up and MATURE cuz he got you pregnant!

Anonymous said...

12:31

how is it her own fault? last I checked you needed two to make a baby. a baby made by two going raw on each other is never just the fault of one person. and it will never be an excuse to be a dead beat zombie ass father!

Anonymous said...

@12:27pm THANK YOU --these girls kill me my bf baby momma tries to slam him on facebook and to his family (SN:and he is in the child's life she is keeping the baby from him) the first thing she says is "we don't need you", "u are missing out" "you are this and that" and I feel the same way if all that is true and that's how you really feel then leave him the hell alone! and how u looked getting knocked up by a man like u describe him as. and you shluld have seen how pressed she was to get pregnant and have his child...its a mess

Anonymous said...

12:36

I dont think any body is asking him to be a good man just a basic father. so when you grown enough to pull your johnson out and dont use protection, you better grow up fast just to be a father period. her expectation of him has nothing to with it. for every action there is a reaction, some great and some small.

Anonymous said...

HOW OLD ARE YOU POSTING THESE DUMB COMMENTS?? ONLY FOOLS BELIEVE THAT A PARENT SHOULDN'T TAKE CARE OF THEIR CHILDREN!! YOU ALL ARE SO DUMB HE WAS THERE HAVING SEX WITH HER HE MADE A BABY WITH HER AND HE HAS NO EXCUSE AS TO WHY HE SHOULDN'T TAKE CARE OF THE BABY!! SMH SOME OF YOU ARE IN FOR A RUDE AWAKENING WHEN IT COMES TO WHAT RESPONSIBILITY IS...WHO THE HELL SAYS A FATHER SHOULDN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS KIDS BECAUSE OF HIS "JOB"?? ONLY DUMBASSES, KNOW- NOTHING STUPID ASS PEOPLE DO!!

Anonymous said...

She looks just like her daddy..is Bow Wow still making money???????

Anonymous said...

This is what happens when you screw for fame. Why would you tell the world he is a dead beat father. Actions like this can be used against you. As far as I'm concerned she is not better then he is.

Men stop making deposits and women close the damn bank. Your past transgressions will bred the next generation of whorish behavior.

Yep, yeah, So what, I said it!!

dreadee said...

You would think since his dad wasn't around he would at least be a basic dad. But there are two sides to every story, let's see which road Shad takes.

Anonymous said...

Being a good father to this groupie and her family means:

Splurging on THEM
BEING HER MAN
SPLURGING ON THEM

repeat...........

How do we know her and her silly family are not allowing him to see her. Yall know how the scorn baby mothers operate, take a look around!

But again, if he is so bad, why is the sister crying out to him and his mom?? What solution is she providing to the twitteruniverse about the situation.

She sounds like a groupie herself!

Anonymous said...

Some of y'all sound trifling as hell blaming the mother. She's doing right by her child and still can't catch a break. I don't get how other women attack this mother who chose to keep and love her child. Granted she was a groupie, but damn, some of y'all have f*cked and s*cked worse so don't act like a saint.

I'm glad the aunt put Bow Wow on blast with his deadbeat ass. I guess he's too busy laying up under Superhead to give a damn about his own daughter. Damn shame. Keep blasting his ass.

Anonymous said...

12:47 no one is saying he should not take care of his kids!!!

We are just simply implying that there is possibly more to this story and calling out groupies for who they are and the situations that THEY CREATE due to hidden agendas!

Anonymous said...

@ 12:42 pm...do you know this for a fact or is that what he's telling you? you should be very careful what you say. what makes you think you are exempt from this treatment if you and him have a child together?

as for the other comments there isn't any reason a man should not be in his child's life. if they really wanted to be there the mom could not stop him from doing so...that is when he should get the courts to intervene

Anonymous said...

The baby mama got her monthly check for the next 18 years. Dont have babies with men that don't want you.

Anonymous said...

File the child support order and keep it moving.

Anonymous said...

Some of you people are as ignorant as the day is long. There is never any reasonable excuse for anyone, man or woman, to not be in their child's life both physically and financially. Kids deserve a mother and a father, not just one or the other but both. I don't know when the game changed the rules and said that it was okay to walk away from your child and people would excuse it. People call this girl groupie this groupie that and say she got what she deserved...maybe she did but what about the baby? Does she deserve a deadbeat parent? Does she deserve to not know half of her family? Does she deserve to not know where she comes from? People need to get their priorities and lives straight before making ignorant responses and blaming a woman for an independent man's actions.

Anonymous said...

@12:43 I agree with you. In my eyes a good man= a good father my whole point is as far as the mother is concerned he has already shown you who he was so don't get shocked/ or expect anything better then what you already knew of him

Anonymous said...

@ the first 12:27

exactly some females kill me, saying the baby daddy aint shit, they can do bad all by themself,etc but why you keep harassing the man then?

Anonymous said...

@12:56 u raise a good point--yes I know he is involved b/c he can only see the baby at his mother's house and I go with him most times and I hear the phone calls and see the text messages and I know the $ he gives her (I myself have purchased items for the child), she is one of those "if you are not with me we can't be civil" types but in all actuality I know where you are coming from and that is why I am on birth control!

Anonymous said...

12:54

Groupies cant create situations like this on their own. please dont forget that most of these men know exactly what they doing, and how much these chicks been passed around. its not quiet as kept. so to point out a so called groupie and say she should know better is ignorant to the fact that he also should know better cause nobody put a gun to his head and made the men sleep with them. he should at least know how the human body works and that there is a chance she can get pregnant.

Anonymous said...

i have a hoodrat cousin who is just like that.saying her baby daddy aint shit, hes broke, no good, etc etc yet she drives by his house and job everyday and calls him on many different phone numbers, since he keeps blocking her. you already have the man on child support, and as legally thats all the man is responsible for.

Anonymous said...

Be out of the baby mama life not the child....I just don't get it...Black men love baby mama drama thats why they continue to do stupid things...next women aren't just not gone care if they see they kids no more esp if she isn't a mother herself....nobody got time for drama wit the mama politically incorrect but oh we....do better.

Anonymous said...

@1:15 the WOMAN should know better cause at the end of the day whos gonna get stuck with the kid? HER. there are day after pills and there are abortions. you not dating the man, not married to him, dont know him, just met him, yet expect him to stick around for a kid? um no.

this girl is a KNOWN groupie whore who fucked with many rappers looking for a comeup. too bad bow wow is broke,and thats why shes mad.

Anonymous said...

I believe that both parents are responsible for there offspring but making good decisions usually come from seeing a mature and consistant patterns when picking life partners or parents for your children. You can call a grape seed an orange for life but it will never change into a grape. At some point common sense should play a part. I come from a single mother household and if I don't want to repeat the same behavior I need to have more patience and critical thinking skills then my mother showed or possessed in the moment. I am trying to align myself with better stands so I wait and learn me a little bit more so that I don't create the same legecy or teach my offspring that this kind of behavior is there normal.

Anonymous said...

1:08

She cannot expect more from him as far as thier relationship goes. that is true. but this expectation is completely different becuase it is your child. and thats the problem with men and women. you need to be adult enough to know that your relationship with the other parent has nothing to do with your relationship with your child.

and for everybody calling for him to be left alone, thats bullshit. this is a living child with feelings. he should not be able to be a fair weather father especaily since he saw what his mother went through and knows what its like to not have your father in your life.

jay_llie said...

Joie didn't even say anything about Bow Wow, Her sister who doesn't have any say so said those things... Some women and men need to realize they need to stop saying stuff about the other on the internet, because kids grow up and see this Bullshit!!

Obviously, If the things her Aunt said wasn't true the baby will grow and probably have animosity towards them if said claims are false.
Women we have too many birth control, but her and Bow wow were comfortable that they ass didn't use protection and they were dating then.. The baby is here now, so they need to be adults and talk it out for Shai's sake..

Anonymous said...

1:06
No the babies does not deserve it but in the real world no one cares and yes even baby have to grow up in a loveless situation due to the choices of the parents. Sins of the parents always usually falls on the children and that is why potential parents need to mature and not in the moment because u can't make someone stay around. Do you have a clue on how many children have already faced this situation and mothers bless there heart want a reward but the biggest reward comes from good choices because it bring no drama or heart aches. If women acted like they knew that there were more valuable a man actions would be the least of there worries.

Anonymous said...

@1:08 some women can't seperate the two (realtionship w/ them vs. relationship w/ a child) at the end of the day this whole situation and similar situations are not ideal for anyone but once they happen ppl need to put the emotions aside and do what is best for the child

Anonymous said...

Man....the baby ain even old enuff to be neglected....lol....neglected how, none payment of child support....leaving the child unattended??...Child support neglect...when the child only 6 - 12 months can't be that serious. And i very much doubt Bow Wow left his child unattended somewhere in bad care...so what neglect could be significant at this time...the girl was born last year??!!

GTFOH....hungry azz blood thirsty hoes. Let the man live!

Anonymous said...

1:19

what a dumb ass response? The mother does not always get stuck with the child. plenty of mothers have brought a kid to the fathers house and rolled out,keeping it moving, never to return. who's responsability is it then?

only dumb as men think this way. but the law doesn't, thats why so many men be crying like a bitch when its time to pay up. why becuause A FEMALE CANNOT GET HER SELF PREGNANT! and if a man does not want to have kids, he needs to think long and hard before making a seed deposit in her bank!

Anonymous said...

Basic bitches at their finest. I guess you all forgot how bowwow was all over the net professing his love for his child. Writing those letters to a baby that cant read when he had an album or movie to sell. There is never an excuse to not be apart of your Childs life.

And to the GIRLFRIEND on here talking about her bf baby mother. Mind your business because you can easily end up in that girls shoes. Once upon a time they cared enough for each other to lay down and make a baby just like he lays down with you. Keep your BC stacked.

Anonymous said...

1:15

So true the men create there own world of havoc and that is why they r dealing with so much drama. As for the solution is real easy be anxious for nothing and cautious about everything. Have patience can keep u out of a lot of chit and life struggles.

Anonymous said...

OMG@ 1:30pm you hit the nail on the head @at the end!!! if women would know there worth that would cut out a lot of this mess. Cuz for one there would be no GROUPIES/ HOES b/c women would have higher standards and not give the vagina away to just anyone

Anonymous said...

1:33

OMG! How stupid do you sound right know? Im gonna guess that your mind is extreeeeeeeemly young.

just so you know, a child bonds to thier parents from the moment of birth. not being in your childs life early on can cause issues latter in life. its been tested an documented. thats why you have so many women going from man to man trying to fill the void left behind by an absent father.

Anonymous said...

@1:33 this is the gf you are right "once upon a time..." that was the case ...and if it was me I would have the maturity to recognize it

Anonymous said...

..was over and move on cause you are only holding youself back when you look back

Speak said...

Please. Step. Away. From. The. Twitter...

Anonymous said...

At 1.38 which 1.33 are u referring. Neither comment goes with what u said. Neither comment believes bow wow shouldnt be in that Childs life. I made the second btw.

When his daughter ends up on a vh1 show love and hip hop the stripper edition he'll wonder where he went wrong.

Anonymous said...

It goes without saying that he needs to take care of his child.

But as a society we need to stop giving these girls props for getting pregnant by men they aren't even in relationships with. I know shit happens but as woman you know the deal.

This comment is for the groupies and the one night stands. If a man doesn't have a bond with the woman then how is he going to have a bond with the child. And when you do this twitter shit then that makes it worse.

The woman carries the baby and the bond is instant. But I think the family needs to stay out of it and let them work bonding as parents. He needs to emotional bond with the little girl but that is hard to do when you resent the mother.

If he pays child support, chill out on all that bitter emotional drama, and push an emotional bond between your kids and their fathers.

NubianGoddez/ Auset Ra Amunet said...

Shad take care of yo seed.

Anonymous said...

At 1.39 just focus on you and him and let him focus on his drama with his baby mama. You have no dog in the fight and drama has a way of finding itself where it doesnt belong. A girl was recently thrown off a terrace BC she got involved in sodme man baby mama drama. Bm had a restraining order on dude so the new gf took the gift to the party while he waited in the car she never made it out of there alive.

Anonymous said...

I don't think anybody here has said that it is ok for men or women to leave their children. In fact, that goes without saying. But, we all are sick of seeing women who, on purpose, go after men and then complain later when they saw what other women go through. And, yes the men are wrong to but we don't see them complaining. My thing is you went after a man for whatever reason. Now, you got your situation. Take it to the courts and shut the fuck up about it.

I am not talking about wives or long term relationships. I am talking about people have kids and they don't even know each other but want to complain to the world about it.

Mona said...

Stupid heartless black-americans who desert their children...no wonder they are all turning gay...do the world a favour and stop procreating...you're all damaged individuals who lack happiness...my happy childhood makes me evn more certain that African parents are the best ever!

Mona said...

Stupid heartless black-americans who desert their children...no wonder they are all turning gay...do the world a favour and stop procreating...you're all damaged individuals who lack happiness...my happy childhood makes me evn more certain that African parents are the best ever!

Anonymous said...

All of this sounds dumb,,,its the 21 century and no female gets preganant these days unless she wants to,,,so if you do it with someone named lil bow wow that has Snoop as his "uncle" dont expect SHIT. My lil sis could NEVER spill my business on Twitter

Anonymous said...

1:44
its for number 1, there are 3 1:33's. its on the subject of neglect. so the resopnse makes perfect sense.

Anonymous said...

what some of you are failing to realize is that it's not even the mother who is making these accusations it's her sister so why would she take time out of her day to put HER SISTER'S baby daddy on blast if it wasnt' true??

And for those that are saying they should leave him alone... HELL NO! IF this is true his ass should be put on blast.. it's ok because he's a "celeb"?? A child should never be a responsiblity you can just walk away from without any consequences and that mentality of "just leave him alone" is why sooo many men still get away with it now!

Anonymous said...

2:05

I dont care if its 2089! this will always be an issue. all females are not properly educated,and when you broke, you cant afford protection. also last a checked getting raped still counted as a form of getting pregnant against your will. so what are you talking about. its not all on the female, never will be.

in this 21st centry men should know how to step away from females they dont want to take a chance on being tied to for the rest of their life. you cant put the spot light om one and not the other!

Anonymous said...

@1:51 that is some real advice I appreciate that, be blessed

Bee Gee said...

Bitch, mind ya bidness and let your sister speak for herself. He probably don't come around because you keep tryna suck his dick and get a baby up outta him too..

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry but this child's mother is clearly neglecting this baby's hairline. *blank-stare*
Why is this childs hair pulled so hard in those 'bow-rettes?

Anonymous said...

I dont care if its 2089! this will always be an issue. all females are not properly educated,and when you broke, you cant afford protection.
**************************
Stop it, you the same ones walking around with a ratted blue and green Milky Way quick weave, nails did and pair of Jordan's....styling better than a mother of 2 working 40hours a week. So u can gone somewhere with that being broke mess. Clearly you know taking care of a child is not EASY so put yourself in that situation...kids are not babydolls and will not keep a Black man around for the long haul.

Anonymous said...

why IS this news? most guys dont want kids, they'll never tell you that, but it's true. most guys with kids didn't strap up or the condom broke, that's why they're fathers. but yeah, this isn't news.

If guys could fuck and squirt without getting a chick pregnant, there would be way less children and baby mamas around.

Anonymous said...

Sis needs to mind her own business
Period

Anonymous said...

*yawn* another video hoe thinking she hit it big by getting knocked up by a (hasbeen) rapper, only to find out hes struggling financially(his home was short saled).now shes bitter and angry. no sympathy.

Anonymous said...

Doesn't look like a photo of a deadbeat. It's a really heartwarming photo.

Anonymous said...

Wasn't he denying her and the baby from day one? OK so why are we here, again?

Anonymous said...

Why is the groupie's thirsty sister telling her business? If it's true that bow doesn't have a relationship with his daughter then that's for them to deal with and for the groupie mother to tell.

Sister gurl needs to mind her own and move on.

Anonymous said...

2:24pm

Im not talking about the women in your family.there are areas with extreme poverty where all they do is have sex cause there is nothing else to do and they dont have money to do anything. A huge amount of females dont fall into your narrow ass views.

Hottestchick said...

That baby looks slow and white....

He lookin' like "What's wrong with her"? Lol!

Anonymous said...

@1:59 PLEASE GO SIT YOUR SIMPLE GENERALIZING UNEDUCATED ASS DOWN SOMEWHERE!!! Please & thanks!!!

Anonymous said...

Again this is why you get MARRIED before you have children. I do not feel sorry for any of these people, it's like they enjoy being statistics.

Anonymous said...

@4:03

The same could be said for you and your narrow ass views....I know exactly how the inner city works....we had programs for free use of gyms and nutritional cooking classes, free resume writing and job fairs and not one person signed up....the only thing they came to get before the rooster woke up was a utility check. #nigga shit

Hoodrats always want to be a victim....the real victims are the working poor, mothers who do work and college students who don't get shit from the government...u other MF can kiss my ass including you 4:03.

Anonymous said...

@Mona 1:59

AGREED! These black Americans don't understand the words Marriage!

Anonymous said...

All poor ppl do is have sex all day...you sound like a damn hillbilly....I doubt there is a White Liberal or Republican alive that wouldn't do everything in their power to kill Black babies so they can stop relying on the system so damn much....you remain ignorant cause YOU WANT TO BE. No one is forcing you to have sex and create a baby..you want to be a statistic so ppl can feel sorry for u....well we don't.

Anonymous said...

he just posted a rebuttal on his twitter...saying that he gonna let haters bask in their stupidity.....his daughter is never hungry or wants for anything....and something about kicking out 10 stacks a month...a person went at him and he said they need to understand his daughter get money,not her broke ass relatives....LOL

Black Man, PLEASE Get It Together said...

Queens,

We have been dealing with THIS (BLACK dead beat men and fathers) for a LONG TIME. The Black woman has had to take on so many roles. Man, talk about a TRUE QUEEN :)

There are many (not all) black men that have forsaken us. Let's pray that these type of brothers get it together fast! They've allowed the white man to conquer mass areas of the world and enslave us on our own lands.

Black man, PLEASE WAKE UP BROTHA! Pretty please!

Black love!

Black Woman, You Are Envied By Many said...

There are way too many BLACK children that are fatherless. PLEASE, BLACK MAN GET IT TOGETHER!!! *tears* *on my knees praying*

Black Love!

Anonymous said...

are you a queen because you take on so many roles or r u a queen because you know ur worth an carry yourselves to a higher standard?

If you had kids, mom, it's your JOB to take care of them and give them the world. The same goes for black men who want to call themselves kings. Basically, are you doing what you're supposed to do or going extraordinarily above n beyond? huge difference.

You know yall niglets love titles and claiming shit. To one of the posters above. I too feel like black people dont take advantage of programs and opportunities presented. I leave my house for work crack of dawn. Some days I come home and it looks the way it did when I left - dark. In addition, most of the same cars are still in the same spots. The bitch neighbor who sits outside all fuckin day is still just sitting out.

I looked at myself the other day in the mirror and thought 'it's time to go.' In my mind you must be renters cuz the homeowners are only out to mow the fuckin lawn or are otherwise too damn tired to straddle the front porch all day cuz they've been at work. nigger shit I can not participate in. no i'm not better than you, but I choose to do better than you by making decent choices for the life I want.

I left for work yesterday and the bitch was up bright and early. I was stunned. And then I remembred it was the first of the month. Heffa aint never up that early.

Anonymous said...

@6:39 preach, sister.

jay_llie said...

Dead@6:39, That is sad as hell... I know people like that..But, my daddy calls them rif raffs...

Anonymous said...

4:31 pm.....i understand that marriage should come first...but what about the divorced mom whose ex husband becomes a deadbeat...then what?

Haterade said...

The slut accepted the demon seed...now she must live with the consequences.

Anonymous said...

@639 I like ur post but ur knocking ppl that do what they r supposed to do. I'm a queen because I take care of my king, our children, and our domain. I don't feel I need to go above and beyond (whatever that is) to earn that title. Whites do what they're supposed to do and earn respectable status, why is it that blacks have to go above and beyond to be given that same level of respect. So I definitely disagree with you there.

Anonymous said...

@6:39

Damn I was getting ready to beat the shit out of my neighbor. Dumb witch work me up in the middle of night talking about her food stamps wasn't on her card! I was so tired I had spit on the side of my face.

Damn they think they are entitled! Get a damn job!

Anonymous said...

This chick needs to stay in her lane. Be the best aunt you can be & stay off twitter with this bs. You only expose yourself as messy. MYOB

Anonymous said...

@12:36 PM Good man? How about a mature man. A mature man knows what he wants and when he's ready to have children he'll pick out a wife and have them.

Anonymous said...

It's easy to think she's seeking attention by posting it online. But I'm in the same situation. I have an incredible nephew who has a loser dad/ dad's family who aren't involved at all. It's infuriating for me that they won't step up. If my ranting on twitter would call some attention to it and get some change on behalf of my nephew I would do it in a heart beat. Everyone always talks about how hard it is to be a single parent while the other parent won't step up... But they don't mention being an aunt/uncle. You're in the same situation, watching the same injustice being done to your niece/nephew, except you don't have the legal right to do anything about it. Being an aunt to a child who has parents who just won't grow up or step up is agony.

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