I never knew he was married let alone two kids, wowsers
Even a blind man gets tired of the same ol' pussy.
Oh, I see. Interesting.
I saw them on Oprah together and he was a grumpy old man, she got on every last one of his nerves
I guess his wife have spent all his money on her designer clothing line.
Shame, He paid for those Implants yet can’t see them #SMDH
JUDGE: and what is your side of the story Miss. Wonder, why do you want a divorce?KIA: This nigga wanna clap off the lights and shit to give me a beat down, no f*ck that, i at least deserve lights to fight back.
Well Stevie has ballooned and is no longer sexy. I bet she cheated on him. How do you believe a blind person who says you look beautiful.
irreconcilable differences = this muthafukka get's on my last nerve, so before I catch a case lets just dead this shit. I wonder what the tea is behind this split up.@2:31 PMMaybe this nigga didn't want to be brought up on charges clapping lights on and off issuing beatdown's imagine seeing his ass on the local police blotter with that caption smh.
yall stupid lmao. Stevie couldn't see this coming?
2:36 She cheated on him???? Stevie is a long time hoe. THIS is the reason I would NEVER help no man out with shit. Many women call up banks for their boyfriends to help straighten shit out and do other favors. FUCK THAT loyalty shit ladies. Men are the least loyal motherfuckers on earth. Be selfish heartless bitch and let it roll. HOLLA
Stevie couldn't see this coming?2:43 PM_Oohhhhhhh, no you didn't....
Nubian you speak Gullah? Where you from?
Shame, He paid for those Implants yet can’t see them #SMDH2:22 PM___________________________________________CAPPIN' on a BLIND MAN!!! #SMDH #
Why should he have to see it coming? Stevie filed for divorce.. backward asses..
I wonder how they hooked up...
...anyone who has tried to spill tea publicly on Steve has been shut down. Now that's real illuminati.
Now all the time that I was loving you,you were busy loving yourself, I would stop breathing if you told me tonow your busy loving someone else,Eleven I sacrificed and you can leave meat the drop of a dime swallow my tears stood by your side I should of left your ass a long time ago.
@!2:36 i fell sorry 4you...sum nigga hurt you so bad you became a hateful, selfish monster and you will be alone....I know yo dont care, you'll be that woman wit no man yelling down the basement to your son cause you heard a noise..stop holding on to that sis....
Even a blind man gets tired of the same ol' pussy.********************Spoken like a true niglet who grew up without a father and one who has no respect for women.There are many couples who stay together for 40/50 years and are still happy together. Men cry like babies that women won't let them run households when they don't even think like real men....childish mentality...one min a man don't want to stay with the same vagina, but want to tell you want to do with it....don't just offer sex, don't use it to get ahead...blah blah...black women need to get off this woe it's me ish and just date outside their race.
@4:09You reaching dear, no way did I get that from 2:36. If any thing it was a response to the young man who grew up without a father who said he didn't want to stay with the same pussy, where is the outrage there...quiet as it's kept women don't like when men age either over the years...belly over your dick, gray hairs and always eating. We get fed up too, since they don't want to be with the same pussy for life...we don't want y'all big stomach pork Rhine eating asses either.
I guess fucking your family members has ran its course,of course!
What is with this "dating outside our race" BULLSHIT that some black women are spreading? YOU can suck and fuck all the white dick you want. Quite frankly the very thought of having a dog smelling cave man next to me turns my fucking stomach. I'll stick to dating BLACK men. What you women need to do is stop tarring all black men with the same brush. They're not all the same and there are some good ones out there. Take your "date outside your race" mis-informed ass and stick your "advice" where the sun doesn't shine.
blind or not, Stevie can cum all in my pussy.
(corny joke)"I just don't see a future with you anymore.."--Stevie(/corny joke)
@4:47: I kno that's right!! I don't fall for that shit either. I LOVE black men. Before I married I was in a fucked up relationship w/ a black man. Now my hubby is a black man and we r perfect for each other. In 8 yrs I've never once found a #. No evidence of another bitch. He ain't never stayed out all night. He puts all the $$$ he makes in my hand. He has NO Kids out of wedlock a damn good provider and excellent father. So all black men ain't dogs. If the rest are mine ain't. Trust me I'm a cancer, DONT SHIT GET A PASS / OR PASS ME!!
lol@4:47 dog smelling cave man next to me turns my fucking stomach_______________________OKAY! They smell like old pennies and wet rust. ol burnt dish detergent smelling asses
marriage don't work
@4:47And no one wants to sleep next to a Old Spice/CK1 downlow fag either. With 4 baby mamas, driving a Impala with no health insurance or legit business swag. Instead of communicating like a adult he leaves you and your kids bitch. Have at a Black man u see the clowns we got on this site the very ones that tear you down... Ceily mentality around this bish.
If any one smell like wet dogs it's White women...I ain't never smelled a white man smelling like a wet dog and I am around them all the time. What does a old Black man smell like....not like money (corny) they smell like old monkey ass locked up in a Crown Royal bag.
Lol @ bee gee. My $.02"I'm seeing somebody else" Stevie
If I were her, I'd take all the clappers in the divorce.
@5:52, there goes your generalizing ass lumping all black men together. They're not all like that. What part of that can't you comprehend? You don't need to tear down all black men to justify selling out, i mean laying up with porkie. You can do you without slanging mud on black men. If those are the type of black men YOU attract, maybe you're the problem and not the men. Ain't no black man on here tearing ME down. My skins too thick for that. And the black men that blog on this site, don't count for all the black men in the world. Open your mind bitch. Or better yet get out the hood. I'd never in evers date outside my race. Especially not based on comments from "supposed" black men on a blog. There are too many fine, intelligent, hardworking black men out there for me to turn my back on my race. You sound like a weak minded, easily influenced individual. I find that it's weak black people that have trouble dating within their race. They tend to go for the "easy" option of dating a yt whilst tearing their own in the process. Smh!
Am I missing something or am I thee blind bitch, here? Who started off bashing black men on this thread to lead to all this outrage? But since we are on the topic, here goes: I applaud all bw who have a really good black guy. Really I do. But even the ones who avoided all the negative stereotypes and holding his own tend to REALLY arrogant and full of themselves because they know its at least 100 hundred women for every 1 of THEM. They are so busy feeling their own dicks, they really dont care how great of a woman you are. A lot of black men have kids, but they are rarely married. In fact, I barely even see black men hugging or kissing their black wives or girlfriends. White and Latino men are always hugging and kissing their children. Black men ( when you DO see them with their kids) they always look emotionally distant or like as if its a CHORE. Personally, Ive grown tired of Black men and feel that these days, theyve just finally crossed the line.I dont really learn much from them anyway, just the same old shit and dealing with all the negative energy they attract.Not saying that with white men its all paradise, Im just saying that we will never know unless we try new people. The problem is all I ever been with are black men. I dont have time to search the haystack for the so called good ones when plenty of GORGEOUS nonblack men are right in my face staring me down.
^Typo... Tearing *down
@7:14 The type of male you described in your comment is a nigga and not a black man. Maybe when you learn to separate and differentiate the two, you'll find your perspective and view of black men to be different. I've never come across so many negative black women in my life. There are gorgeous black men too. But sounds to me like you've already made your choice. Smh!
*Seems not Sounds
Black guys have sealed the deal and embarassed THE SHIT of the black race, by marrying and uplifting his enemys women over his own. If our own so call men demonstrate on a daily basis that white or light is right, then maybe it is!
@7:24 If they're an embarrassment, why would you want to follow their lead of dating outside your race? Why would you want to date someone whom you deem to be the "enemy?" Not only does that sound dangerous (which dating outside our race is) It makes no sense and sounds like an oxymoron. You'll need to do better than that. Again not all black men have uplifted and married outside of their race. Too much generalizing and not enough FACTS!
@721 PREACH!! 714 has obviously never experienced a black man that was a man. I cram to understand how so many of my fellow Afro American women on Rhymes are so clueless about black men. Close ur legs and open ur minds and you'd be surprised how many decent loving AVAILABLE brothers are there. We cant get out of our own way. Curse you, Jim Crow!
7:21 you are REALLY naive if you think that only applies to niggas and not black men in upper ranks of society. If a common black street bum thinks he is Gods gift to black women, can you imagine the few who are supposedly independant? The ones who dont fit the sterotypes tend to be the biggest pricks on earth, all because he can pay his bills by himself and has no children for you to help him babysit. But like I said, if you found a good one, then good for
You are doing the same thing you accuse me of....you called white men smelly dogs...I respect your dating preferences respect mine....I would never say never about a Black man...of course not...but I refuse to sit back and not see what else is out there because I want to remain loyal to men who aren't loyal to themselves let alone a Black woman. I agree with the poster who said that Black women can become arrogant when they find a needle in the haystack, you know damn well 80% of Black men ain't shit and the reason why you remain that way is because we place all the blame on women anyway...leaving no room for self improvement dysfunctional relationships are not normal. I agree we can become enablers because we don't know no better and scared to see what else is out there for fear of being judged or the truth fear of being loved because we not use to it....we use to being called out our names, not having a father, not being married and committed....its easier to accept failure with black men (Mimi) than to go out and have to work at being loved by someone of the opposite race.
Black women don't like to date outside their race because they are intimidated by White men....most of us grew up in dysfunctional homes....and yern to remain in them. Having 4 or 5 babies by a dude that didn't raise the first 3 he had before you. It must intimidate a woman to see a man who reads a book, gets up and goes to work everyday and talks about intelligent material instead of what happened on Maury. It's easier to be complacent accept failure and "hope" he will change that way you can have someone to blame instead of going out opening your mind and heart and finding a man of another race who is willing to work at love, you rather settle and pretend you happy knowing damn well you not.
@7:49 There ARE black men that like to read, who are socially aware and are socially conscious. A working black man doesn't have time to sit on his ass watching shows like Maury all day. You are stereotyping. I'm starting to wonder if some of these comments are really from black women. Black women intimidated by white men? You wish we were intimidated by you. Before labeling and stereotyping a group of people you should learn to spell the word "yearn". Black women don't need to open their minds and hearts to dating outside there race. They need to close their legs to niggas and start dating black men. @7:42 #1 What 7:14 described was a nigga. That was not a black man. A majority of black men are loving, caring, hardworking, intelligent, strong and educated. Don't call me naive i know what the hell I'm talking about. @7:42 #2 You're using Mimi as a reference to drive your negative point across. I'm done!
They need to close their legs to niggas and start dating black men. *********************It takes a man to raise a MAN. How many Black men can say they had a father to raise them?? Not many so how are they learning to be men??You are very arrogant and naive honey....of course their our Black men that are educated and loving....but do they want YOU over that Spanish looking exotic bish? Even our resident asshole RNB had something to say about the texture of our hair and lips...Gabrielle hair didn't look that bad to me, she looks completely different with her hair down and pressed. You got a Black "man" that can't even embraced the natural features of a Black woman so how could he ever love one....
Where are the adults on this thread? If these are adults responding in the comments section then I can see why the future of black America is doomed from the womb to the tomb.
@7:49, good post. A lot of women are used to abuse and crave it, if a good man came along they wouldn't want him. Black women need to better themselves and stop settling but when u have oow kids, u got to settle, they sabotage themselves and settle for thugs, the only men that will have them. I just witnessed a black woman clown the hell out of her black man, called him all kind of Niggas and bitches, whites and blacks were shaking their heads, this kind of behavior turns off all races of men. Act like a soft spoken lady instead of a loud uneducated heathen. And then u get mad cause brothas don't want u, when u don't have nothing to offer but a big ass and all kinds of baby daddys.
@7:49 Nope.White men ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO BLACK WOMEN. If black men are not attracted then what makes you think white men will be attracted to them?This is not to slight black women but it's just the facts.
this is why I only date white men , my ex did not cheat on me in our 6 year relationship
@7:49, the grass is always greener on the other side, or so you may think.I believe that one should not limit themselves relative to their dating pool, but you need to understand the social context of ANY male who you will look to as a potential mate.I was at a party where half of the women were Black and half were White. One of the Black women is happily married to a White man.Two of the Black women and one White woman were married to White men, yet are divorced and the divorces were bitter.One of the White women is still married to a White man who abandoned her with no warning. One day they were happily enjoying a nice date and the next he said he wanted out in order to "find himself".I also had a cousin who was married to a German and he begrudged her visiting her sick mother and sibling which eventually resulted in her divorcing him.The central theme is that everything is about THE MAN. If your mother child (not his) gets sick, if your sister gets sick, if your mother gets sick, you will have to choose between him and them, it can't be both. European White men, especially so.On the other hand, I've known some White men good husbands and father.I can say the same for some Black men I know too. Look at character rather than race (either Black or White) and that might get you farther.
8:20PM, you are a straight up lie.
7:49..excellent commentary. And I will be first to admit that most of my life, the thought of dating outside my race never even crossed my mind. I never looked at white guys and never even touched one other than a handshake and basically shrugged them off whenever they struck up a conversation that took longer than usual.My flavor was strictly, African American, West Indian and African.I believe its time for a change. I wont blame them or me for things not taking off as it should. Perhaps its just time to step out the bubble and maybe that special someone happens to be non black and thats why black men Ive dated just never clicked.Either way, its time to find out.
8:20White men are attracted to Black women because chances are they took time to get to know that woman with the fulls lips and blown out afro...it's intriguing and stylish. Black men aren't attracted because of self-hate..plain and simple. They been taught that the dark girl with the ruff edges is nappy headed unattractive ain't even got to know her name yet..and that the light brite jezebel is the standard of beauty...sadly some Black women still think that way too.
White men especially wealthy white men want someone who "HOT" black women are not seen as "hot" to top it off they are not cultured or educated. At least not the American ones. It's funny because I think deep down they know this but are in denial and by the way I am a black woman who is very observant saying this. Black women are not seen as wife material IN GENERAL unfortunate but it is the reality there are a few that break this mold but again it is few something like 35% and of those 35% they set their standards too high making them damaged goods in the long run i.e. after the age of 30.
First 8:24I know exactly how you feel I am not saying give up on a decent Black man if one ever comes your way...but there is nothing wrong with going out to see what else is out there....You only live once!!
8:28 is a PRIME example of what I have been saying 50/11 post!!! Throws hands up!!! Didn't I say it was easier to accept failure and stick with Black men just so we can have someone to blame instead of working hard at finding love even if it meant dating someone outside your race. 8:28 has to be the nastiest post ever written by a Black woman.
I am 8:20 and 8:28How did you guys comment so fast?!!? LOL. Okay are we speaking on HONESTY or INDENIAL. If anyone is willing to be HONEST TO THE COLD HARD FACTS HERE then we can have an interesting discussion. White men are NOT attracted to black women unless they are the "exotic" kind which means attractive + cultured + educated. This is the appeal that they can impress their families with, remember WHITE MEN LOVE TO SHOW OFF THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS TO THEIR FAMILIES, THEY NEED FAMILY APPROVAL. Black women in general are not viewed as "attractive" remember that study by the Asian Psychologist? everyone was mad but he was just reiterating what many people subconsciously believe. Men are VISUAL beings and they are attracted to the PHYSICAL aspects of a woman FIRST then personality etc comes afterwards. I am a black woman saying this and this is not about "self-hate" it's REALITY. I see these couples all the time and I make the link. See that's why I respect white women because they PREPARE themselves they'll go out scour the room and I.D. COMPETITION TAKE NOTES AND THEN GO IN FOR THE KILL LOL! Serioulsy! I am like that too when I go out I take notes I see the ones getting all of the attention, the ones happy etc and I say what makes them so appealing? 9/10 the girl is a) very attractive (takes care of herself)b) VERY CONFIDENTc) very jovial (looks happy, smiles a lot etc)How many times do we see these traits among black women? Black women often look angry, spiteful and jaded. No man is going to approach that. I'm just saying and I live in NYC so I've been to the ritzy places where I do my observations.
Sighs at 8:37
@8:33 How so? I just gave you a sound explanation and I am not trying to be negative. I feel that the truth is important.
@ That old broadI actually like your post even tho I don't see you post that often...I will say this yes there are bad seeds in every race...for every dating scenario you named with a white man I can say the same thing about a Black man... a)up and left his wife or b) was in a bitter divorce....what I am saying is that when it comes to dating Black men alot of them are socially mature to deal with relationships. Alot of them aren't raised by men or have mothers who enable them and don't allow them to be a MAN... (lil Scrappy and Mama D) They raise men to be irresponsible, not hold down a job and chase women well into their 50's!!! They raise men to be criminally minded get over on anybody ...esp if it's their own kind. They raise their daughters to be independent rather then to spend time to raise their sons to be a leader and a provider...those who beat the stereotype do marry Black women BUT most don't!!
@8:41, 8:33YOU JUST DON'T GET IT!As a woman you should NEVER APPROACH A MAN! Stop saying black men this that etc. JUST STOP! I am the one making comments about black women and white women (I am 8:20 etc) and I am trying TO HELP YOU ALL OUT. A man is going to go after who he is ATTRACTED TO. The way you all say a black men is this that it is like YOU ARE TRYING TO CONTROL BLACK MEN AND WHAT THEY LIKE YOU DON'T DO THAT TO A MAN! Black women ARE TOO MASCULINE. This is a HUGE TURN-OFF. Stop being MASCULINE!! You may think i'm racist when I already told you that I am BLACK! I know why many of you are probably ANGRY because you have to do everything by yourself and that SUCKS because it's not the way it's supposed to be. Stop with all this independent strong black women bullcrap WHEN YOU KNOW IT SUCKS BIGTIME as a woman to have to "do it all" it's okay to admit I know I have and it felt better. Please this is not to spite you this is like a forum where we need to share ideas and stop being GHETTO about it. I have 3 older brothers I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. I am daddy's girl and was spoiled by my dad so I have no issues. I am trying to give advice and you all are getting mad, see this is why no one wants to help you .
I wonder if it's money or something like that. They separation came as the fashion line was about to takeoff. She was about to blow up then suddenly the doors were closed. Was Stevie her bank? They seemed so happy .
^ I am a relationship expert! LOL take my advice I guarantee I can get any of you married withing 6months - a 1year frame. You all will see me on OWN network dishing out advice, just watch!
@7:49 aint nobody intimidated by a punk ass crakkka, we aren't attracted to y'all pale ugly asses.@8:08 I agree 100%!!!There sure are a lot of house niggers and sellouts on this thread. White men are very unattractive and they stink when the rain hits them. I will never date or find them attractive. I LOVE my BLACK men.
^ this was for 8:50.I will admit the quality of men is LOW across the board black , white, green etc. This is because this new crop of men for the most part have turned from gentleman (40's, 50's,60's) to douche bags! So I am not putting all the blame on women namely black women.
8:50Men in general don't have a problem with women approaching them because it takes the pressure off of them. Ask any man. I don't believe that Black women are masculine, I do believe that many have a chip on their shoulder because of past hurt. However that still doesn't equate to masculine.How are u helping us White lady, when you called us masculine and unattractive, the one who needs help is YOU.Your comments are completely off base and superficial....Being superficial is what kills alot of possible decent relationships between a Black man and woman. You say we shouldn't control what a man likes, aren't you doing the same controlling what a Black woman likes?If we are masculine then some Black men are effeminate or too thuggy. See how that works both ways.
@8:59 1st oneYour comment is EXACTLY WHY BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT GETTING MARRIED. Your comment is ATROCIOUS VERY UN-LADY LIKE AND I AM WILLING TO BET $500 YOU ARE A STATISTIC.
@8:08I agree 100%!!!There sure are a lot of house niggers and sellouts on this thread. White men are very unattractive and they stink when the rain hits them. I will never date or find them attractive. I LOVE my BLACK men. *********************I bet another Black man is saying this....snap for the kids!! Oh yeah the new kind of Black man of today gone are the thug dudes with sagging pants...replaced with skinny jeans, jail birds and pink sweaters with boy p***y looking sweeter than maple syrup.
@8:50 Nah I don't think your black. I think your white or some other race. You damn sure aint black. Take that shit some place else. Black women are masculine??? LOL that's the funniest shit I read all day.SN: you type like a white boy!
@9:01 Yo momma's a statistic whitey!
If we are house niggers and sellouts than you bum bitches are in denial and complacent.
@9:00No no no you don't get it! LOL SMHI am not "superficial" (well I hope i'm not!) but successful wealthy men ARE! Men who are "successful" ARE VERY SUPERFICIAL. You all keep saying that it's not true.Look at all of these "successful" black men and in America for a man to be successful that means i.e rich, wealthy, famous and the like, now that we have established this take a look at all of these men... (using RWS celebs lol and I am NOT a fan of any of these men btw)Floyd Mayweather50 centChis BoshKobe BryantTiger WoodsMichael JordanCharles BarkleyReggie BushTiki BarberNFL athletes (can think of many well I'll say Cam Newton etc)They all have "trophy" partners i.e. very attractive, feminine women. okay?I think those men who don't have a problem with women approaching them are men looking for one night stands and not a wife that is just my belief. BLACK WOMEN ARE MASCULINE just read through these comments 9/10 you could differentiate from whether the comments where from a black woman or a black man because BLACK WOMEN HAVE A TENDENCY TO BE SO CALLOUS JUST LOOK AT 8:59 FOR EXAMPLE. What true feminine woman CURSES like that? LOL even when angry they won't curse like that? SMH this is just the tip of the iceberg!Okay.I am NOT a white lady why would you say that? SMH if you all enjoy being 80% OOW then I guess that's on you.
@9:03Bitch I'm a woman that LOVES black men. Why the hell is that so surprising??? I don't want your kind no black woman does because your kind is stank and unattractive.
@9:14Yet I could tell yo ass is WHITE and I could differentiate your comments to that of the black posters on here. Aint that some shit!!! Take your whitewash campaign some place else cracker!
^ meant to say you couldn't differentiate from the men and women on this post. I type like a white boy? LOL, really is it because I didn't say it like this.You fucking hoes is mad grimey son. That's why u bitches stay bitter and shit. No nigga is going to wife up ya used up hoes cause a nigga want a bitch who know what it do...LOL I felt filthy even writing that garbage SORRY but my parents RAISED ME BETTER THAN THAT THEN TO SPEAK THAT WAY. I just can't besides I have little ones looking up to me and would be mortified if they ever saw or heard me speak that way.
the men in the 50's were NOT any better , they were worse in fact! Watch Madmen , I think women need to wait for men to evolve their minds, it is getting easier for us. We think we have it bad but look at our mothers, I know mine put up with some major bullshit because raising us did not leave her with penny of her own.Look at how women have been treated through the history , its not just black men its MEN in general , read some feminist theory , men are intimidated and scared of women . As a stronger and fairer sex they have been keeping us down, men are very Weak especially when they are in love thats why most act out when they catch feelings. I don't know what the answer is, but remember that HOLLYWIERD is not REAL LIFE. these men do not represent the regular guy .
@9:14All them fags you named aren't lookers them self's and half of them either gay, overweight or ugly so they need not to down Black women ...real talk.These men date exotic women because they have been groomed to do so by the public...esp Black women...we are the first to criticize the way a woman looks therefore putting the pressure on these men to look outside their race. Leaving decent Black women with the %80 of no good Black women to deal with...if you like me you say no way in hell and look elsewhere for a PEACE of mind and happiness.
9:19Is a gay Black dude!! Why am I not surprised.
9:11 Yo mommas a bum bitch aint that right white dick chasing hoe!!!
Meant to say no good Black men
You fucking hoes is mad grimey son. That's why u bitches stay bitter and shit. No nigga is going to wife up ya used up hoes cause a nigga want a bitch who know what it do...-----------BITCH YOU ARE A CRACKER!!!!!!
@TruthbetoldDo you realize you just contradicted yourself by saying men from the 50's are worst just look at Mad Men as an example and then you said don't look at Hollweird as an example of men in real life?
@9:23Coming after my mother, you are the masculine bitch that they white lady/black fag was talking about. That's why you refuse to date outside your race you and Black men are ONE IN THE SAME with that filthy mouth of yours.
That poster stay picking poor representations of black folks to make baseless points. Try again bitch!
^^That poster stay in denial because of her low self esteem to justify staying and making baseless pts with a no good Black man...."just cause he Black".....you try again bitch.
@9:30 Bitch you ARE the white ladyboy. There is no black fag, just yo ass posing as one dumb bitch!!!!When all else fails attack my decision to date black men. As long as I'm not dating your kind and doing a genocide on my race it's all good CRACKER!
I am NOT white and I am NOT a black homosexual. It's really sad that you all can't see the TRUTH. I mean seriously I feel bad for you children, your daughter not only are they probably being groomed to be a statistic right now, they will never fully grasp what it means to be a women with so called black women like yourselves raising them. I am a child advocate and I see little black girls all the time with BAD ATTITUDES and I know exactly where they got it from. Then I see little white girls very smart and intellectual and feminine all at the tender age of 8. I work with the little black girls and I try to work within their personality but at the same time let them know that they are young and should have fun but how much of this can I really do when the parents (or should I say parent as most of them come from single parent homes)are going to get upset.I was working with this one young black girl and I liked her as I do with all of the kids and she took me as her older sister. She told her mom about me when I met her mom the first thing her mom said "So this is the one you keep talking about"! Anyway the point I am trying to make here is I really hate the way these girls are being raised "to do it all" a little girl should be spoiled by her dad and guided by her mom. These girls are missing out and then it turn grow up to be these MASCULINE angry black women you see in this post.
To the poster who keeps saying that you love black men THAT IS NOT THE ISSUE THE ISSUE HERE IS DO BLACK MEN LOVE YOU? BECAUSE THEY DON'T IF YOU HAVE NO ENGAGEMENT RING ON THE 4 FINGER TO THE RIGHT ON YOUR RIGHT HAND THEN THE ANSWER IS A RESOUNDING NO.
@9:35 Bitch you don't know me so what the fuck are you talking about? The only person with low self esteem is your dizzy ass hence your need to push your short comings onto me. I date black men because that's my preference you stupid hoe. Ever heard of the word preference dunce???
How are you doing a genocide on your race for dating outside your race...What do you call the Black men who date outside their race then?? You sound like Bessie Coleman this is 2012 stop living in a fantasy and face the facts...your precious Black men aren't thinking about you as you shouldn't be thinking about them and focus on doing you.
^ Bessie Coleman is world renowned Aviator so that was a very poor example you used.
I date black men because that's my preference you stupid hoe. Ever heard of the word preference dunce??? ********************If we are talking about preferences why the fuck did you take the time to start this argument with me? Dunce! You like what you like hoodrat, I like what I like....done deal.
9:45I take that back....meant to say Ceily....better? She is renowned too I guess.
@8:50,Unfortunately, most women are not taught to look at and examine the character of a man nor understand his history and his context. That will tell you VOLUMES about what his behavior will be because YOU CANNOT CHANGE HIM! Nor can your Pootnany. A man is what he is.Romantic love is all good and fine, but will it get you through when heavy weather is blowing?And yes, Black women tend to have that "raise the daughter, love the son" mentality. But so do Italian women. Those men are such mama's boys that they live at home no matter the level of education or income and allow their mother's the priveledge of waiting on them hand and foot. Then, when the men get to be in their 30's, they want to get married and have their working wives do the same.As a result, there is now a new generation of Italian women who REFUSE to marry these men. These women simply buy their homes, get them some from the mama's boy and send them home for their mother's to pick up after them.There are other cultures who have men who are pampered and they expect their wives to be slaves.
^ lol whatevs.
At 9:37Your ass is too white so hush, answer these questions then?What color kool-laid do Black folks like?What relaxer do some Black women prefer?Olive OilPink LustersAfrican PrideWhat rapper would most Black women prefer?Drake or 50 centTell me what the ratio is when selling foodstamps on the street?
Umm yeah it me again 8:20 I posted about a half of the last quarter of a comments and so far I have been accused of being a "white boy" "white lady" and "gay black man" so ugh what I would like right now is for the BLACK MEN on this forum to speak up and vouch for what I said because you know it's true. I know you black men are tired of these MASCULINE black women speaking for you lol as if that was ever in style. So um yeah it would be nice to hear from the perspective of a black mans preferably a successful black man since that is the one in questionAnd no black women trolls pretending to be black men doesn't count.
@9:56 Are you serious! LOL I am flabbergasted. This post is just unreal.
9:58I am just trying to see if the poster is Black I will even accept alternative answers to question 1 and 2. But she better nail questions 3 and 4.
@9:47 You're DUMB ass is on a black blog trying to "school" black women on dating outside their race, whilst belittling us and putting us down. You're imposing your negative views of black men and women onto us, yet trying to get us to see things your way. Trying to get us to change. Just like a typical CRACKER trying to "save the blacks". And, hillbilly hoe, I aint no fucking hoodrat. I strongly dislike your kind. And dislike the fact that we as black people can't have anything for ourselves without the likes of you people ruining it. Fuck off and take your save the black race tangent somewhere else. I date and love black men your wet dog smelling ass aint gonna change that BITCH.
You got me mixed up with the white lady, I didn't belittle Black women, you belittle me with masculine attitude sir!! That white lady pretending to be Black hell you proving her point.
Black women wear too much fake hair, don't work out, have too many kids, and are too damned loud for a quality man to look at them, so of course the low budget ones on TANF will get the energy they put out....If the shoe doesn't fit you won't be offended. And for the record you should never initiate anything with a man, if he is interested he will jump through hoops to talk with you and chase you.
@9:56/10:02, 9:57 and 9:58 is that dumb white hoe @9:37, Shims ass can't answer those questions hence her dumbass being "flabbergasted" ie dumbstruck.
I AM NOT WHITE!!!!!!!!! STOP IT ALREADY. @ 9:56 As stupid as your questions are I will answer themRed (Cherry)I will say pink oill although Olive Oil has become more popular recently due to the switching to organic trend but I remember clearly as a child Just for me and Pink Oil Luster's perms were popular, Dark and Lovely too.50 centand that last question is too stupid for me to answer.
This dumb hoe @10:10 is still on here playing cap-n-save-a-nigga. Bitch fuck you and yo advice.
10:02White folks don't have to sit back and ruin anything we willingly do it ourself. You heard it hear first just today I heard a black man refer to a 16 year old lips as an otter, she is very cute with her hair down I promise you on top of that he said she had naps...well I did some digging and she is raised by a White family who they call a "host" so that should explain her hair a tad bit but it doesn't look that bad to me. We tear each other down so stop blaming white ppl. Only time we come together is over sports or racial injustice done by whites when we should assimilate period but we don't cause Black men always got an agenda...use u up until they don't need you and what y'all do let them come back over and over again to save face....
@10:13 yea, because you can't find the answer to the last question on Google can you WHITEY!!!!!
Still not convinced you went and called one of your Black clients and ask them in return you offered to buy foodstamps from em....yep!I can hear em now, now Ms. Sally I can't give you this information for free you gone have to hook me up with some bling bling now or buy some stamps of me.
@10:06 yes yo ass did ladyboy!
@10:16 LOL how pathetic of you.I did not google anything this ghetto Jeopardy is a farce and an insult to my intelligence. This thread is clearly not for adults and as such I will be exiting but before I go I just wanted to say WHITE WOMEN ROCK and they are sooooooooooooUber fab like mmkay? Either you deal with it or you'll be left back in the trenches!T
White women are okay but Spanish and Arab women are gorgeous.
White women are okay but Spanish and Arab women are gorgeous.********************Welp you heard it hear first, why can't Black women be seen as gorgeous, y'all steady taking up for Black men we should of been first of that list of what is attractive cause I know I am beautiful.
@10:10 If that's the case why is that your problem? White, latina and asian women wear weaves too, and??? You've gone from trying to get us to date outside our race to attacking our looks and stereotyping us Again. Confused hoe! Knew yo ass was WHITE....BITCH!!!
@10:21 That poster blew your cover with all them (simple) questions huh? Now your covers been blown your scared ass is running away. GOOD RIDDANCE BITCH! Btw, White women stink just like white men!
10:10 is not the same person dearThere is one lady pretending to be Black but putting us down at the same time saying we aren't cultured and beautiful like white women :/Then there is me the Black woman just standing my ground on why I am open minded when it comes to dating ...thus your arguing with me thinking I am the white lady who pretends to be Black...
10:23 You don't actually think a black man said that do you??? C'mon now, just look at this thread... Yes us black women are very beautiful..
Of course I think a Black man said that....There is one Black guy that thinks dark women have purple p****y, nappy hair, big lips and stay praising redbones...Arab and Latinas are clearly redbones right...so of course I think a Black man made that statement above, if you only knew the secret self hate they spew to them boys about "us"
@ 9:29 I meant celebrities in Hollywierd and Madmen is based on fact , so no I did not contradict myself.
Why didn't that white broad answer that last question abt the foodstamp ratio even when I was a kid I knew that answer..I thought so!
where is the love?
To that poster masking as a black woman spewing all that fuckery.....The gig is up...you are a jealous black man that cant bear the thought of no longer having your personal doormats, that you can emotionally leech from. Smart black women are OVER your reverse psychology and mental abuse. Bitch just go on and quote Mister from The Color Purple....”Ya black...Ya ugly....Ya shaped funny.....Ya nothing at all”......It wont change a thing. The world is evolving and your bullshit stats on what nonblack men like only further proves your jealousy and insecurity. Trust you are NOT a Black woman. You have slipped and blown your cover numerous times in the heat of your bogus rants.
”Nobody wants you, you are ugly, mean and jaded”What black woman or ANY woman with sense would say that about her own race and gender? And notice, this poster came hard right at the heat of a topic that strikes a nerve with them! Now Im,startin to wonder if you bastards abuse and run thru black women on purpose for this very reason: Seeing a gorgeous black woman on the arm of a nonblack man has always been the ultimate
GUESS WHAT I'M BACK AND I AM BLACK! LOL! Seriously look at what you all did, you took my innocent advice and turned it into a shoving match. I AM BLACK my hair is natural even (curly) but natural! I was giving advice to black women to stop being masculine and then I was given the middle finger by the majority of you. I said I was leaving and that white women rock (and they so do) I also said that Spanish and Arab women are gorgeous which they are so what's the biggie? That is my personal preference. I've seen some beautiful black women but they weren't black American they were African and West Indian anyway WHO CARES unless your a man it shouldn't matter to you!White people do not smell black people actually smell worst lol (I hate to join in on your hatred party so that will be the only thing being said)I AM A BLACK WOMAN SO I CAN SAY THESE THINGS BECAUSE AS A BLACK WOMAN THIS IS WHAT IS GOING ON. I am 8:20 and I am apart of the 1% lol jk but seriously though this has got to stop but who am I kidding it won't. I AM A BLACK WOMAN AND I CAN PROVE IT.I said my hair is natural.I know that black people love ObamaThese posts are always racial this post is about my fave Stevie (love Stevie) and his unfortunate divorce.
@11:11 I apologize if that is what you got from my comments, I apologize to everyone who got that idea from my comments. I did not mean to say black women are ugly and all of that. What I was trying to say is that they are MASCULINE and this is an ugly trait within black women. I AM A BLACK WOMAN so I could delve into this topic which I did and I explained what I meant by that. I did not mean to hurt anyone's feelings. I don't think it's right that you all speak so negatively about white people when they are some of the most fascinating people that I have encountered.I was just giving relationship advice particularly to black women and it went off the handle. I did not say anything that was racist everything well most of what I said is true!
All these black women bashing brothers...y'allthe reason why niggas run to each other.
^NO and stop doing that, that is a detestable thing
Continued from 11:11......dealbreaker. You bastards really believe you have nonblack men figured out and know what they like deep down? Stay in your lane, Boy, and worry about the black women who are still willing to ride it out with you. Dont worry about who men like or dont like. They are the most respected men, because NO MATTER WHAT, they value their women no matter if they date an asian, latina, or black.
Co-sign 10:59That is why I am openly to see what else is out there in the dating pool honey...cause enough is enough.
11:12 Your PREFERENCE??? Are you a self loathing black LESBIAN?Keep telling and talking to yourself, jealous black BOY! You are dismissed and GOODNITE! I am on my phone so I cant paste key proof of your masking.Get lost, Asshole.
@11:47 preference as in what I think is beautiful. I AM NOT THE LESBIAN TYPE. LESBIANS ARE REJECTED INDIVIDUALS. I am a woman idiot and it's spelled goodnight and I am not dismissed because some jealous idiot says it lol. What's wrong couldn't afford a laptop so you had to use your crummy phone. SAVE IT FOR SOMEONE WHO CARES.
Boi Wonder sounds familiar another Black fag as if Hoodrat and RNB aren't enough to deal with....I bet Boi wonder was behind the his womanhood smelling post a few days ago too. Black fag pretending to be a woman...how not surprising. Black men are running to each other because they lack morals and manhood....the most selfish creatures you will ever meet. They steal, kill and sell dope to their own kind just to buy some Jordans and an Imapala with no car insurance attached to it.
^ why are you co-signing yourself 11:51?desperado much?
Is it safe to say the type of people that come to this site are the ones that have "no life" i.e. no job and no social life? Because I know when I had it all job, boyfriend, etc I did not even know this blog existed.
The gnarliest fashion magazine to hit the web since ELLE will be launching soon....
^ can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
^^^So you dissing us but clearly you in the same boat right, cause you said "when you had it all" implying you have it no more. We come here for shits and giggles regardless of what is going on in our personal lives....
11:12pm and all the others by this person are SOHO NY! It is so obvious from the self-hatred and projected loathing.@planet_jacksonwww.planetjackson.net
And I'm sorry to hear about the demise of Stevland's marriage. This must be very painful for him and his seven kids. I hope it is an amicable divorce.@planet_jacksonwww.planetjackson.net
@8:50, thanks for the shout out! I've been kind of busy but I comment now and again when I can.
SloeHoe ny is Queen Of New Castle/Tyne and Wear/Haitian born in Haiti living in California no living in England it is OBSESSED with black women and is actually a black male.A very sick one at that.It feels that it's posts inflict pain on black women and force black women to stay with black American men because who else could possibly want black American women.The poster has been kicked off Clutch magazine/Madame Noire and many other sites as well.It is a truly sick individual.What it does is tell black American women that they are inferior and can't go anywhere other than being with black American men (Much like Mister did to Celie in the movie color purple).For some reason it wishes us to be stuck together.I think not.Anyhow same old shit just a different day with the Sloe How/Queen of New Castle/whateverIt spouts off no one wants black women,especially dark ones everywhere.It even believes in Nazi science that says black women are inferior
I agree with the being too independent thing, men need to be useful , if you can do it all yourself he won't feel like a man
it's called a troll people. a troll will pretend to be black or gay and post 50 comments in a row under different names in other words from comment #30 to 145 are all TROLLS, A trolls comment are always meaningless. this thread was going so good with the stevie wonder jokes until the trolls came in. Do you see what you caused Stievie
@8:24 There was only one Troll on this thread, and that Troll goes by the name of SLOW HOE!!!In more important news, Serena won the Olympic Tennis Champions, yayyyy!!!
8:20 Sorry boo boo u have been misinformed white men love black women boo sorry you couldn't get one. Real talk I have a house in my name due to a white man I'm only 29 and a brand new car, white man. The last man I was with didn't have a pot to piss in yet I had his back. He gave me his ass to kiss so I moved on. I like to be treated like a queen, I'm not saying a black man can't do it, but why when they do have a good woman they tend to fuck it up? Cheating, not stepping up to the plate? Real talk the average black man doesn't want a good down to earth black woman, they want the beyonces and Nikkis of the world.
@11:57, Correction; niggas don't want a REAL down to earth black woman. And ewwww rather you than me fucking with a white dude. I'd rather be cute and broke (i mean this in the figurative sense) than be with a white man. That's how much i despise them. But then to each his own.
Oh please modern day slaves stop glorifying the so called white man, his greed and oppression is what bought this society down. You get caught up with him if you want retribution is coming after his ass.
He probably found out she mixed up with the broad and her husband who was trying to extort him. See ya, loser!!!
You need to stop glorifying the NEW OPPRESSOR, the Black man. It's a known fact Blacks sold their own kind into slavery. Black men are the most unloyal and unloving men I have ever run into. They have a superiority complex, low self esteem and are criminally minded and abusive. They usually battling drugs or alcohol too. I am so disconnected to Black men that I would take up for the retched hood chick with 15 baby daddies while she sleeping with a marry man before I ever take up for a Black man....the only reason Trayvon got my support is because he was a child and was clearly stalked and killed for no reason....let something happen to any other Black man and I ain't marching or protesting about shit...if there is a good Black man out there THEY ARE TAKEN ...betta believe it.
I'm just fucking disgusted with the comments about Black people from Black people. As much as we have overcome, how dare y'all ??? I have two future kings...#onsomeothershit
Yall need to stop, no one is self hating, just because they observe a pattern with (certain types) of black women.....EVER see WSHH? No Wharton grad wants that....but they want him. It's ok, just be you, and expect to get back what you put out. Men don't like loud, rude, 5 babies, and fake hair. At least not the ones I want. So if believing that you are OK acting and portraying yourself that way, then that only cuts down on my competition. (In theory). Can you see Theo huxtable bringing home a girl that behaved in the way we see bw behaving on a regular. Seriously. Just like Theo wasn't bringing home nobody's babymomma 3 times over.Stop defending tacky, rude, ratchett behavior. Instead lets correct our community.
^ EXACTLY and Thank You!
Well duh they been separated since 2009 it's time he did something if the shit ain't working. I must say I was shocked cause this was a blindsided divorce announcement!!!!
All this long time they were acting like they were a couple.........see how these celebrities put on fronts! LOL even though I love me some Stevie!I am sure homegirl was cheating! She got her clothing line and connects and now she is outta of there..smh! Stevie just stay single!
@8:20 What do you know about facts???????? Please do not talk from experience but statistics thx