Maybe you should take a moment and evaluate yourself and find out how this might have happened.
What Confucius e-book did she copy & paste that quote from?Meeka needs to re-evaluate her life...preferably OFF twitter/social media.
Deion,Gabriel,Dwayne and even Usher. Thank god,there's Men who fight for their children.And for those guys who try but can't be with your because of their triflin' mommas using the child as a weapon or pawn,do better next time.#brothersstaystrong
i have never heard anything about her that suggested that she deserves this. It's sad, I feel bad for her. She lost a son and now Usher is taking the little one's...she doesn't deserve this..
Bullshit! Men with fame and long cash are wrongfully getting rights of custody to stop payments of child support to deserving mothers who should have custody of the kids!!! Our society is growing more and more fucked up by the court decisions!!!
some of you people are stupid if you think a judge and a court can't be bought. she should not have lost custody. They are as much her kids as they are his..
@4:40pm Deserving mothers have a way of spending that child support money on themselves. There is a big push on the courts to be more discerning in their rulings when it comes to child custody and support. I’m sure Usher can support those boys in high style for less than $8K per mo. Contrats, to Usher on his Victory!
Wow!!! I know this has got to be hard for Tameka, Losing one son in death and two more in a custody battle. May G_d be with this woman.I'm just praying that the boys will be happy and have a good life, no matter what parents has them.
Now she's gonna have to support herself like the rest of us....what a tragedy.
Bitch needs to stay off twitter, that's one of her problems right there!
@ 4:55pm - What's with the G_d? Afraid to spell out God on a public forum?
I feel bad for her, but did her ex buy custody of her other kids that she didn't have custody of as well? I mean, what's the story behind that?
I'm not 4:55. But I heard that the spelling is out of respect.
That's right black men take your children away from black women if you are not married to them and able to watch their asses. Strip all baby mommas of custody because 9 times out of 10 they are fucking up your children turning them into faggots and thugs and the girls are overweight sluts with babies. If you made the mistake of having a child with a black woman in 2012 make sure you stay on that ass. Fight for at least joint custody and have the children live with you during the week and make that bitch a weekend mom. Make her give up her weekends and make her PAY YOU. These black women have been getting away with 30 years of shitty mothering. Do not leave your child in the hands of the modern self-interested black woman. All they want is a check they can spend at the mall or on their hair.I am proud of Usher, Dwayne Wade and all the others who aren't willing to just roll over so these harpees can be happy. Usher was stupid, he should have NEVER married this thief and liar. Now he had to learn the hard way. She spends more time on fucking twitter than with her children. She is uneducated. She doesn't know anything about raising children. She just wanted to live "the life". Now she can try to find another sucker, she is down 3 kids so she may have more choices now. Womp.
@5:12wow. NUF SAID.
She doesn't need to have small children around her at this time, She just lost her son. Besides, if she had custody she would try and break Usher for every penny.
Gott Damn Baby, Not only do you bring home the beacon, you brought home the boys too. Mr. Usher you are about one Baaad Assss Man. Next time when you say jump, Tameka will say how high. Keep kicking the hood rat’s ass and don't stop until you run that bitch out of town. Teach the low life hoe some respect!
Still on Twitter......get a damn journal!!!
I would ve been on her side if she would ve had her other boys with her, but she seemed deadset on making Usher miserable and she was wrong. How the heck do u tell me that u need to know who is around my kid when u didn't have sense enough to find out who was around the son u just lost?
WOMEN HAVE GOTTEN OUT OF HAND THINKING THAT CHILD SUPPORT BELONGS TO THEM!Usher needs to b careful, I do believe this chick will kill him & his girlfriend.
This would be a perfect time for Usher to release a picture of him and his boys all together along with his NEW girlfriend.
@ 5:12, tell us how you really feel!
For all the posters encouraging Black men to take custody away from Black women here's some food for thought:Why not encourage Black men to marry our Black women and be fathers to their children, follow The Most High and restore our communities???*sips tea*
First Pilar,then Siovaugh...now. This.. definitely a SET BACK for women living off child support.#justsayin'
@5:12 there are bad mothers and FATHERS in every race so please get outta here with that racist "im secretly jealous of black women so im going to publicly hate them" talk...no one cares how u feel
@6:04The black women worthy marrying aren not having a problem getting married. Trust, there are black women worthy of marriage who niggas will not let get away. The rest of them are not worth it. These bitches cannot even date a nigga for 6 months without getting pregnant. They cannot WAIT to get pregnant and "have a family" with a man they barely know. I am not going to "encourage" black men to marry women who are dysfunctional. Either fuck them with a condom every time (and even that is risky because condoms break) or leave them alone. Do not fall for the okie doke because the "independent got my own" bitches be the FIRST to get knocked up and then want to look at you like where is my ring? Most men are not interested in marriage right away and if they are they will ASK YOU. If they have not asked, they don't want to. So why all the babies? Oh, because you want a family without first securing the man. Men do not want families until they feel they are ready and they found the right woman. Don't get me wrong, there are idiots out there like Chris Bosh and D. Wade who marry or impregnate women they really don't want deep down. This is why they have to learn the hard way. This is why they have to go through a lot of money on lawyers to right their wrongs. Average Joe's just give up and surrender and that is why they I said black men need to just get custody from jump. You know why she isn't wife material so why bother dealing with the inevitable bullshit of having to have her control when/how you can see your children? Cut out all the years of drama and just fight for custody. Let her explain to her next victim why she has kids that don't live with her. Too many black men out here simping. Laying up with these ratchet ass women, playing house and shit. Then when they get tired of it (and trust me. they all will at some point) and decide to leave she starts in with the bullshit. Everything is fine until you get some new woman and then forget about it. I have seen it time and time again. Baby momma's/ex-wives will not let you move on. They cannot accept that they are not wanted anymore. And they will use the child to get back at you. The "Most High" would tell black women to step into the modern world and protect themselves from pregnancy and STDs until they have been chosen for marriage. And once chosen do not turn into a shrew like Ms. Tameka Foster-Raymond. Learn how to be a good mother and if you didn't have one growing up read and talk to other women who are doing it right. A lot of you women don't realize that men judge you on your mothering. Even if we don't say shit, we still have opinions. A lot of y'all are failing and ruining your children in the process. You don't know everything about kids because you have a vagina.
co sign 604 to the thousandth percent..folx love to down black females as if the crisis in the black community is all women's fault..sorry ass black men are just as much at fault as black women are in the decline of the black family..blaming it on the woman goes back to Adam and Eve..face it, men stay making excuses and blame shifting for their failure to take responsibility for their own choices..its a male trait unfortunately..while women stay making poor decisions about who to open their legs to..thinking they can change a man or turning a blind eye to the obvious red flags...and even more so is the system to blame for wreaking havoc upon the black family....wise up people; probably most of the black woman bashing on blogs today is by white tea party TROLLS..Do better black folks..don't procreate with someone you don't want to be with for life. If you've already done so then put THE CHILDREN first, not your bitterness toward their other parent..who makes up half the DNA of your beloved child..think about it.
@6:09LOL everyone is "jealous" of black women. No one wants to date or marry the majority of you yet somehow everyone is jealous. This is why you bitches will continue to be left behind. You think any legitimate criticism is racist against black women. Keep turning a deaf ear to the shit men say about you. If you think shit is bad now, just wait. Even broke black men are dating outside the race. They would rather pinch pennies with a fat, ugly mexican woman with four kids from a previous relationship than deal with a single black woman with no kids. This is real talk. Black men will admit that these women are not their first choice but they would rather be happy and have less stress and be able to talk to a woman about his concerns without her having a fit and getting all in his face. Y'all keep thinking everyone is out to get you and you will stay alone.There are so many other women out there who are now showing genuine interest in black men of all class levels. It is not just the executives and ballers anymore. A damn post office clerk will have a southeast asian wife and a black baby momma.But yeah, I'm jealous of you....LOL.
6:19A little rough but you said what needed to be said. What kills me is they will all ways say I'm doing (or I did) the best I could as if they had a best to start with.
BTW, it's not clear that Tameka was "stripped of custody".. all we know is Usher will now have primary physical custody... Tameka might still have joint physical and legal custody but Usher will have the kids overnight more often then Tameka does now...........
in light of her recent tragedy the judge STILL ruled against her , that to me speaks volumesthat and the fact that she's illiterate , 'but in the end' is not a sentence.
627 Keep selling out and laughing about it... what's funny? Is the destruction of a race, and the impoverishment of people who look like your mama something good? Black women can be the sweetest women on earth..but no we will not put up with pure BS like some other females will PRETEND to do.. Black women will tell it like it is when your shit is raggedy..those other type bitches will smile in your face and keep suckin your jank alright....then they'll knife your ass in the back when you least expect it and take all your shit..all the while smiling and keeping their mouth closed...uh huh, OK...so go on to your white women FOOL..we don't want you any way..the majority of black men marry and date black women..do let us week you out so we don't waste our time.....and we will keep our black kings who are not standard-less, weak and self-absorbed and can indeed handle, cherish and respect his BLACK QUEEN
"WEED you out"
Justice has been served.
5:12 u have some interesting points but u shouldn't group all black Modern mothers together. There's good n bad parents in every race. N after all isn't YOUR mom black? Some of these young moms spend more on themselves cuz they grew up watching their mom go without so they could have something. Some weren't raised right themselves . Not an excuse just a reason.
Usher should take his name from her A.s.s,she's famous because of it
@ 6:27Shiiit,Black women are jealous of BLACK WOMEN.Don't believe me,ask Beyonce.
@6:40MY momma is not impoverished and if women that look like her are, why should I assume they are deserving of something better? Because they are black and have vaginas? That is about the only thing these women come to the table with. Black skin and vaginas. They don't have the skills necessary to build a family. They drain and take away. Who wants that? Men want to get married because they want to build a future with a woman they feel can take them to greater heights. Ever hear the adage "Behind every strong man...."? That is what men want.Black women can be the sweetest women on earth..but no we will not put up with pure BS like some other females will PRETEND to do.. When are they the sweetest? When EVERYTHING goes their way and they get EVERYTHING they want? Is that when you become "sweet"? Well, that would explain why men rarely see that side because no one ever gets whatever they want. If all women placed their niceness on certain conditions no man anywhere would ever get married. Black women love to place conditions on their behavior. "If he is coming to the table with everything, then I will do blah blah blah" "If he ain't make me mad this week, I'll give him some." NEWSFLASH for you, most women DO NOT do that. I know heterosexual black women have never been with other women romantically so you may not know this. But most NORMAL women do not place conditions on their pleasantness. They realize that being pleasant is an easier way to get what they want. Which is why most of them are not impoverished like black women. Just saying. Black women will tell it like it is when your shit is raggedy..those other type bitches will smile in your face and keep suckin your jank alright....then they'll knife your ass in the back when you least expect it and take all your shit..all the while smiling and keeping their mouth closed...Why are you with men who are fucked up? Why do you even need to "tell" men anything. If he is a loser why in the FUCK are you with him? Oh, because non-loser men don't want you because you are not a quality woman. If you find yourself having to "tell it like it is" to a grown man, you done fucked up. Who are these women taking all this shit from black men? As if black women aren't out here dragging men in and out of court over $400 a month. LOL. If y'all could get a man with money you'd be "taking" too. Don't be mad Becky and Mei Ling are getting more than you. Notice how you only mention the bad traits in women of other races. Like black women never try to bankrupt a man. LOL. At least Becky will still raise a decent child after you break up. Becky's children (even with black men) are outranking your bastards with Ray-Ray and Peanut by a LARGE margin in nearly all areas. the majority of black men marry and date black women..do let us week you out so we don't waste our time.....and we will keep our black kings who are not standard-less, weak and self-absorbed and can indeed handle, cherish and respect his BLACK QUEENThe majority of black men do not marry. Only around 35% of all black men are married. And of the ones marrying, 1 out of 4 married a woman who is not black. That doesn't include black men with mixed race women who classify themselves as black. So that may put the numbers even further away from typical black women. In the next 20 years it will be 1 out of 2. Just watch. You are not weeding anything out but the best and brightest of black men. Who are you going to be left with? Ex-cons and down low gay. But whatever, keep thinking every black woman is some ~Queen~ and we just don't know how to "handle" y'all. Good luck with that.
@5:09 respect for whom? I don't see Muslims worried about respecting anyone, nor gays.
643Justice would be for the baby daddies of amerikkka to keep their dicks and nut out of women whose pussy they lied to get and who they knew from the jump they didn't really want.....and who, when the jump off predictably gets pregnant, decide in their little narrow numbskull that she trapped him into something and become bitter..some of these baby daddies by choice, will actually go into overdrive with some greedy lawyer trying to show the mother "unfit" so they take the child ONLY to save his wallet..not giving a damn about the child and only posing as such a good daddy..Follow the money!
6:19 PM I was with you until you said have sex with a dysfunctional woman, just wear a condom so she doesn't get pregnant. Why would any man in their right man even want to have sex with a dysfunctional woman?? This is the problem I have with people...all actions have a reaction. All of us want the pleasure but we don't want to accept the consequences. Anytime you have sex with someone whether you use protection or not, they run the risk of getting pregnant. I don't care how fine a brother is, how much money he has, his status...if he isn't right in the head, he's not getting anything from me. If I'm going to lay down with someone, it's going to be someone who I can atleast hold my head up high about or someone I have respect for. Men want to have fun with the eye candy and not stop to think the chick might be bat *ish crazy...but as long as her body's tight and she can ride it good or give like superhead, that's all that matters in the moment. People need to start thinking past the moment. These athletes and musicians lay up with all these girls knowing full well these women are just looking for a meal ticket, and then get mad when the chick proves to be trifling....smh. Don't put all the responsibility on the woman. Men need to be selective just as much as women do.
@7:02pm keep your legs closed then!
*I meant to say right mind
I say beside every strong man is a good woman n behind. Every weak man is a woman holding his ass up. Everything ur saying is true but also applies to other races besides blacks. Ur mother is black n so is hers n so is her mama n hers after n the one before that was probably a slave who was valued as nothing more than black skin n a vagina by her white master. U have good points but think on a larger scale and stop trying to make people feel like less than they are because of something they have no control over. We have no more control over being born black with vaginas than anyone else. Cuz if we did we wouldn't need weave or tanning salons... none the less I respect ur opinion. It makes for good conversation.
655I think you need therapy for your black woman hating issues. A lot of your post is pure ranting and there isn't a whole lot of logic behind your comments.Also you need to take your own advice and upgrade the class of black women you're dealing with. We aren't all on EBT waiting on the first of the month you know..There are a lot of black women who are good women..based on your comments, sounds like you need to look in the mirror and improve yourself so you can catch one of them..usually when you keep pulling losers in the game of love, it's because....you're a loser hun...keep hope alive! xoxoxoxoxoxo!
707My post was in response to 643, who's handle is "baby daddies of america" claiming that justice has been served by this decision against Tameka......no justice would have been served if Usher had never knocked up Tameka in the first place, much less TWICE, and now suddenly he needs to drop mega bucks to drag her through the mud........should kept his dick and nut in his pants......NOW THAT'S JUSTICE....toodles!
from the woman who fought to get her saks card back
@7:14 PM Now that I do agree with. I can't argue with you on that one.
She should use that SAKs-Fifth Ave card and see what it can buy, since she decided that was more important than her children, when she sought to argue over in court during a custody case. Dumb ass. Maybe it will buy her a ticket off of Twitter and every other attention whoring social media site. People please, it's a reason why this broad lost her other children to her CEO-of BOUNCE network hubby. Tameka got some skeletons in her closet she don't want revealed; cause she didn't seem to really fight for her sons. As if she already knew the verdict and decided to dwell on a damn Saks credit card. I don't feel sorry for her one bit. Also, I wonder where her baby was when she sneaked off to Brazil to have her surgery right after the baby was born. I remember reading she left that baby with someone and Usher had no idea she was out of the country and the baby was in the care of someone else. Well, Usher has his mom and Grace to help with those kids, so no! they will not be neglected.
@7:09I need therapy for what? For not kissing up to black women. There is too much other pussy out there, ladies. I don't need to stroke the black female ego to get through life. Niggas who do find that it is never enough. Black women are rarely happy. Even when they have a lot they are still not happy. Who wants to be with a woman who is miserable and uptight 95% of the time. I'm supposed to be happy the other 5% right? LOL. I don't think so.I have never dated a broke woman in my life - black or non black. Broke women are a man's dream jump off because she will accept anything but I do not like women with such low standards. So thank you for your concern but the "class" of women I deal with (or dealt with because I am married now) was never the EBT type. If you made poor choices, I ain't the clean-up man. I only dated women who could REALLY take care of themselves not just front like they can and then a few weeks later you notice the unpaid bills lying around and all the bill collectors calling. There are a HANDFUL of black women that are quality women worthy of marriage. Being "good" means nothing. Men want QUALITY - moral, honest, supportive, caring, nurturing, playful, pleasant, etc. If she looks good and can cook - HOT DAMN. We ain't goin' nowhere. LOL. A lot of women look good and a few can throw down in the kitchen but MOST lack the other qualities. MOST lack morals (and yes we expect your morals to remain intact for life not just to get a husband) lie, are not supportive unless it will lead to more money, do not care about their mates outside of what the mate does for them, have no nurturing skills, are bitter and unpleasant, place too many conditions on shit, etc. And this cuts across ALL races it is just that the MAJORITY of black women are like this. You grandmothers (well most of them) were not. But most of you learned this from your mothers and honestly think the way you are makes you a catch! LOL!
TAMEKA STILL HAS CUSTODY AND SUBSTANTIAL VISITATION..THE ORDER IS POSTED ON ON HIP HOP ENQUIRER...SHE WAS NOT "STRIPPED" OF CUSTODY IN ANY WAY AND WILL STILL HAVE HER BOYS CONSISTENTLY AND REGULARLY........HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My son is going thru something with his trifling bm who just moved with no stove/fridge/running water or food and she said he cant see his kids. I told him not to a)date her B)have multiple of 3 kids c)take cusotdy of his kids legally.He finally after 10 years with a no lady and fighting to get his kids.
@7:27WRONG. Before the case they both had joint custody and Usher took her to court for PRIMARY custody which he WON. He has control over most parenting decisions and will have the kids most of the time. She will still be able to see her children but she will no longer be able to claim she needs a certain standard because she has joint custody. He can sell the house and will pay her very little in child support because he is paying for EVERYTHING. Nice try, though.
723Maybe your problem is the area you live in, or perhaps you just have a negative mentality? Or maybe you're trying to pull women who are simply out of your league..and mad about your failures... because there is no such thing as what ALL black women are, or all of any race are, hunny bunny! We are not a monolith!! All of us are not the same!!And hey..maybe it's you!! If you're getting consistent complaints maybe that's the real problem here! When you point the finger, ever notice most of the fingers are pointing back your way? We could all accept criticism at times! But ok then you enjoy your exotic pussy! We'll keep enjoying our beautiful black kings in all their magnificence, as well as a few other lucky souls we may like AS PEOPLE, not because of their race, as well! God bless brotha and keep hope alive! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo!! Mwha!!
@7;27 MEEKA IS THAT YOU? YOUR FRIEND STATING YOU FLEW IN ON DIFFERENT FLIGHTS THAN YOUR KIDS BLEW ME AWAY. REAL MOTHERS WHO DONT HAVE OBLIGATED JOBS FLY WITH THEIR KIDS.
735Read the order.... it states that the parties will continue to share joint legal custody.. then goes on to outline the physical schedule.. NEVER stating that Usher received sole custody, that I could locate..baby daddy Ursh did receive primary physical custody...you are correct there... so Momma Tameka STILL HAS JOINT LEGAL AND PHYSICAL CUSTODY OF HER BOYS THAT SHE BIRTHED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HA!!!!!!!
Co-sign 7:09. This is why "Black women worth marrying" are not marrying black men. They are marrying men that can be on their level instead of having to stoop down to some simple minded nigga who is jealous of her accomplishments and tries to hold her back instead of stepping up! There are more college educated black women than there are black men! No one wants a convict or a thug! This ain't the 90's lol! It kills me that people are mad at black women for not aborting their children and not giving them up for adoption but instead staying and raising their children sometimes under the worst of circumstances and raising them to be well! Take any top black athlete in the world today and ask him if his fathere was in the picture when he was growing up and he will probably tell you NO! We are doing our part and it's not our fault that most of you are NOT!Quit acting like the average black man is rich and the child support situations you read about on these blogs is the norm or average!! The average black woman is a WORKING SINGLE MOTHER! You can't get welfare AND child support! People log onto these blogs and can't tell the difference between the real world and the celebrity world!Most niggas are BROKE and when they do pay child support it's less than $250/mo IF THAT and he will go as far as quiting his job so that he doesn't have to pay child support....if he even has a job or the ability to get one!! 2/3 of all Black men are unemployed, convicted or dead! White women have been getting pregnant to get a man to marry them since the beginning of time. The only difference is it works for them so all you see is a "Married white woman". You don't know how she got to be that way. The others are having late term abortions when they realize it's not gonna work out that way for them and they won't get to party and bulshit anymore because most of their friends are single and childless. Why do you think they are all fighting so hard to keep Row vs Wade from being over turned???I went to school with upper middle class white bitches that had 5 ABORTIONS BEFORE GRADUATION DAY! Some of them 2 day, late term abortions! This is why they need IVF and surragates and shit when they finally do get married and wana have kids, because their womb isn't strong enough to carry a baby to term! They're weak to start with so that doesn't help!Bottom line is black women are raising their kids and black men are NOT! There is a whole website fatherhood.org commited to trying to get men (mostly BLACK men) to care enough to raise their kids which is a pathetic shame!
@7;23 YOU NEED A COOK NOT A WOMAN, THANK GOD YOU ARE MARRIED BC WOMAN I KNOW SUCH AS MYSELF DONT COOK. YOU MUST BE OLD TO BASED A RELATIONSHIP ON WHETHER SHE COOKS OR NOT, HOT DAMN GET A MAID!!!
Well, maybe not 2/3 of all black men are unemployed, convicted or dead but there is a large MAJORITY! I don't know the exact statistics anymore because they keep increasing but I do know there are more IN JAIL than OUT OF JAIL and a large majority of the ones out of jail don't make enough to be considred middle class income earners on their own.And by unemployed I mean even in a good economy because black men are a large part of the unskilled labor work force. It's more likely for a black woman to actually GRADUATE from college AND have a post graduate degree than black men! Black men enroll and then drop out!
happy with this. these kids can get away from that gold diggin heffa........she gonna have to move...and get a job.Target is hiring girl....ge them red shirts out!
@7:45LOL you bitches really live in La La land. Who are "quality" black women marrying that aren't black? WHite men? Hahahahahaha! LMAO. The percentage of white men with black wives is the smallest interracial pairing in America. Y'all can wish till your heart's content - white men DO NOT want black children and they are not marrying black women in any significant number. Less than 2%. Asian men? Latino men? White men want white looking children which is why they will at least marry asian women who can give them fair skinned children but even those kids look too non-white for most white people. White men invented and are heavily invested in white privlege. They are not going to water it down by marrying and procreating with black women. LOL y'all keep trying though!
@7:53I am a man, why do I care about the statistics of black men? I am not trying to marry a man. If all them niggas want to kill themselves, shoot up their hood and be broke oh well! I don't need to look to black men for happiness so why would I care what the stats are. I only care about women. Black men know there are a lot of bums out there. But we don't force you all to let them nut inside you so don't bring us the bullshit. We don't care how many black men don't finish college or are in jail. I'm not in jail and I finished college. I had the pick of pretty much any woman I wanted. I am not rich but I don't need to be to get the woman I wanted. Why do you black women always throw the piss poor state of black men in a black man's face when talking about relationships? LOL. Like this is going to somehow diminish our chances. Despite the poor image of black men in America a lot of women want to date/marry black men. We are not complaining about women. Some brothers may complain about a lack of opportunity or "the system" but as men they need make better choices. I don't feel any kinship to wayward niggas. That ain't my kin. And if they try to harm my wife or child they will be in serious trouble. As a man my job is to protect MY family, not worry about the stats of black men in jail. Those booty pirates will have no shortage of black women to fuck once they get out. Y'all need to worry about the state of black men since black men are the only men that will marry you.
@7:45THANK YOUIt been a he say she say since our foreparents got cast out of EdenBut the truth is that its never one sided as to why are men, women and children are out of controlDuring slavery Black men and women were divided.Then came a time when Black families were discouraged from having a man in the home if they wanted government aid that was necessary due to poverty and racism. Now we have most of the Black community out of order and chasing money. I wish we would stop with the blame game and look in the mirror cause thats where it starts. Black men and women need to take equal responsibility on our state as a people
I wonder if the Glover kids feel slighted that she fought tooth and nail for her kids from Usher but not for them? Yeah money CAN sway judges but her Twitter behavior hasn't helped this case at all.
Tameka, my cousin Grace has an opening in her Day Care Center and is willing to hold that position for you. Give us a shout out and we will follow up with some details. We figure that position will give you some experience with childcare. Then when you go back to court, you can use us for a reference. Let us know!
yep just like a bunch of ignorant niggas.. blame the black women.. i wonder what she did so wrong to deserve this.. the nigga paid someone point blank and simple.. you bitches just mad because she got a little dough.. his dumb ass can't raise no kids on the road.. think assholes the reason men have to resort to payoffs and lies bcause these men do not want their child for the right reason. they are either jealous,vindictive,, and don't wanna pay child support..thats the real reason behind judges giving the kids to mom.i hope tameka got the phone call on lock cause a nigga may be about to go down in a hell of fire.. if he really wanted his kids he would not have made that call.
@7:45PM & 8:05PM
@8:37, Glover only had two kids with Tameka, her oldest son is by some drug dealer in Oakland. She had that son before she met up with Glover. What an exciting life she has had thus far. As Her World Turns…
"There are a HANDFUL of black women that are quality women worthy of marriage. Being "good" means nothing. Men want QUALITY - moral, honest, supportive, caring, nurturing, playful, pleasant, etc. If she looks good and can cook - HOT DAMN. We ain't goin' nowhere. LOL. " All you mention and more is all right here.
7:56-That's a lie. It has always been black women never had it in them to date white men. NEVER ! However things are starting to change and we are just now getting use to the idea. It has NEVER been because white men don't date black women. White men love black women please believe. In the black community we are judged according to the paper bag test. However it's opposite for white men. Most of the time 98% of the time they only go for the women who can't past the paper bag test. They love real black women 10 times more than the black community both men and women ! How many black women throughout the history of our community have you ever heard saying " I want a white man" ? A white man really ? A white man come on now ! As I said things are changing as we get use to the thought. Before it's never been an option or up for discussion. A crusty white man really foh ? Now that nice committed, friendly, job having, respectful white man doesn't look so bad after all !
This union was a adulterous and God do not bless Adultery and sin.Tameka was a married woman with three kids when she started. fucking around with Usher, she divorced her husband and abandoned her kids so Karma is a bitch!.Karma will sneak up on these home wreckers next watch Alicia Keyes, Fantasia,and Gabreil Union.
@8:05:You seem to have a lot of VENOM towards black women, but my question is WHY?! According to your OWN acknowledgment, the MAJORITY of black women are bitter and have bad attitudes. Then you turn around and state that you've never dealt with these kinds of women. Isn't that a huge contradiction, in terms...if the MAJORITY of black women are damaged and you've never dealt with these types of women, then how can you speak on the state of women you've intentionally avoided? *Insert lame, predictable retort HERE*Before YOU state the obvious, let ME state it for you--no, I DON'T know you. But given the amount of BILE you have eating away at you, anyone with any sense of discernment can see your hatred for black women is deep seeded. So there goes your assertion that you've never dealt with a certain "type" of black women. Only you know the ROOT of your hatred for black women.And while you may think it makes you a man to lay the blame of the pitfalls of your community on it's women, let me assure you that you are the only "man" who feels this way. Since the beginning of civilization, the MAN has been considered the PROTECTOR, PROVIDER and LEADER of his women and children. And you can believe, wholeheartedly, that men of other races aren't blaming black women for the condition of the black community. But you can continue to do so if it makes you feel like more of a "man".Finally, from your use of the word bitch when a woman counters your effeminate dribble, to the use of the acronym 'LOL' in your posts, to the fact that you are a "man" who has nothing better to do with your time than to refresh posts on a blog to argue back-and-forth with women, I HIGHLY doubt you are married. Anyone can create the perfect, i.e. FAKE, life when typing anonymously on a blog. However, it is PAINFULLY OBVIOUS that NO woman looks at you as 1. masculine, 2. positive (you are as negative and bitter as the women you claim to despise)or 3. a role model for her child--that much is obvious; even when you think you have created a fool-proof(albeit predictable) persona on the internet. Nice try though...
thank u thank u thank u 4:40 #2!
Why not encourage Black men to marry our Black women and be fathers to their children, follow The Most High and restore our communities???________________THIS!!!!!
^^thank you,while many celebrate this is just another nail in the black family structure's coffin. Usher knew Tamika was crazy the day he married her just like she knew he was a pothead. They choose to go to court and she gambled ,ie the credit card and the denial of joint custody. She lost. I dont feel an ounce of pity for either one of them.But them little boys,I can see the headlines now from Tamika zapping out and taking them to Usher parading them like Wade does....in pics with sad faces.This is not a celebration for mother or fatherhood. This is a victory that likes when black families fall apart,this is a happytime for those who constantly say we black folks cant raise kids without issues. So laugh it up knuckleheads...the black family structure is slowly being destroyed piece by piece and you ,members of that next generation can do nothing but heckle. When its your own community that suffers. Crabs in the barrel,yup that would be you all.
If Tameka was a non-black woman you mf's would be crying foul on this verdict. TAMEKA KEEP YOUR HEAD & FAITH UP !
So yall are saying every ugly scum of the earth non-black woman will get a black man before the black woman?!FYI BLACK WOMEN ARE LOOKING TOWARDS THE WHITE MAN TO LOVE ,CONTROL US!Just like back in slavery times Massa was the only man to understand and love us in secret.No longer a secret the white man can have us..WHITE MAN PLEASE LOVE ME AND TAKE ME AWAY FROM THE BLACK BEAST!
@9:20, that sewer rat deserves worst that what she has been given. You obvious know nothing about who Tameka is and only root for her because she is a black woman like yourself. Unfortunately, black women have been striped of their veil, stand naked in the sunlight, and being judged for who she is. It isn’t pretty, and that is why you are feeling so much heat.
@9:59 wow things have really gotten bad when even your local street skunkweed-smoking thugs don't want you and now you cry to the white Massa to take you and hold you and make love to you. PSA the white man does not want you and has no regards for you. Well I guess you see you are stuck with nobody but your own evil selves. You brought this on yourselves and the world has no mercy for you....
White men invented and are heavily invested in white privlege. They are not going to water it down by marrying and procreating with black women.LOL y'all keep trying though! ...................White men EVENTUALLY will marry black women,because we realize white men like skinny women,so some of us black women are becoming thin...A white man won't even look at a thick woman,if you are really thin ,it's a shame,but he will look at you...Most white men prefer White white women,but we will work on then...times change..I rather put my effort into being avail for the white man than,date a poor black x con.,Rarely do I see a white man with a black woman,but I have been seeing more lately...Get thin ladies,low carb diets!
@9:59 wow things have really gotten bad when even your local street skunkweed-smoking thugs don't want you and now you cry to the white Massa to take you and hold you and make love to you. ...............I was being sarcastic so the black man making those nasty comments about black woman,on this blog,can see how he ,once again left his black women desperate for love....
@7:56 LOL @ these black women thinking that white want them. That is the biggest joke this year, this century. Black women are so delusional and uneducated and do not have a clue about what makes the world turn.
Its funny how this turn into a color issue, when this has nothing to do with Tameka losing her 2 boys. For all the people saying white men wont marry black women, I find that laughable. My husband of 6 years is WHITE.
@8:51 The white man may not look so bad but the problem is, you don't look that good. Wake up and accept the reality that you have created. You are living behind the Eight Ball.
Will we have to hear about this all week??????
@10:47 i hear you. that's because of the mixture of people on the blog. what started out as an interesting, self-directed cultural critique, with this custody case as an example, slowly morphed into race bashing, aided by trolls, people who respond to trolls, and other participants each for their own reasons. also keep in mind that some people are only here to derail the conversation by making inflammatory statements. personally, i thought the conversation about custody was much more interesting than the racial tangent, but both are telling.here's to another 6 years of marriage for you, and many more after that.
6:19 You better preach! Everything you said was the cold hard truth! And this is coming from a BLACK WOMAN!
@8:40 It is plain to see why your life is so screwed up with a lot of baby daddies running as far as they can from you. Sad part is that they left you with all those children only to be ruined by your lack of education and warped sense of logic. Just making your contribution to the doomed black generation.
From what I've seen, heard and been told by other races of people. The BLACK MAN is to blame for the sad condition of his race. These people don't blame the black woman because in the natural order of things, the male heads his woman and their household. The male is the protector, provider, and disciplinary to his seeds. This is how the world views black men. Especially black american men.It is only black men and a few of their non-black girlfriends/wives who blame black women for doing such a poor job in raising black children, when that same black woman was designed to be 1/2 of the parenting package that every child deserves. Black men neglected to do his part. So as the saying goes...Anything done out of the natural order of things has the strong possibility of being FUCKED UP!
@9:14Whether I am married or not (which I am but whatever) my comments on black women are valid. You can try to pick ME apart but you will still be a bitter, manless, frustrated black woman in a country that despises you and thinks you are ugly and masculine. You can call me "effeminate" and say that I am acting "like a woman" because I am commenting on a blog but you know I am right. That is why you wrote all that bullshit. As a black man I don't give two shits what white men think of me. They have been and always will be jealous of black men's natural and organic masculinity. They stole entire nations, killed of populations and continue to demonize people of color. They hate themselves. Just like black women which is why black women want to date/marry them now. Black women and white men are two peas and a pod. They cannot stand not being favored, they are bitter about anyone getting attention and highly insecure. If white men actually WANTED black women, you all would be natural partners. Not ALL black women but the majority. The black women who are proud of their race and heritage and consider themselves on par with other women (and ARE on par with other women) are not included in my comments. Like I said earlier, a handful of black women are quality women. The rest of you ain't shit but think you are. The world is laughing at you. Your fake bravado and sexuality is all you have. If sex wasn't a commodity black women would be even worse off. That is why you all brag about your asses and titties and hips. All you have is a body to fuck. You accuse black men of doing what you actually do - rely on your sexuality. You have ruined the legacy of your foremothers who had body AND THEN SOME but still realized they had much more to offer men.Have fun being a cum receptacle.
@7:56 pm"White men invented and are heavily invested in white privlege. They are not going to water it down by marrying and procreating with black women. "That is the coldest, hardest truth. Mixed kids are cut off from that full white privilege, even when they can sort of pass. A white Jewish man himself broke down white privilege to me. Louis CK(white comedian) has a whole routine on how great it is to be white. A viable white man with a white collar income with Brad Pitt looks will date a black woman but she has to be have both of the following:1. A banging body. No fatties. No rolls. No gut.2. A great POSITIVE attitude. White men shut down the angry white feminist a generation ago. No sense in dealing with an angry black woman after all that.#1 and #2 eliminate the bitter black women out the gate. Truth be told, if bitter black women left en mass for white men, most black men would be happy to have to deal with less anger and less resentment. Let the white boys deal with that bunch. And all of those hoodrat fights on reality television aren't doing much for black women's reputation either.
@11:33 Cosign. You are spitting some tough truths. The message is harsh but the reality is even worse. I meet single black women all the time who are delusional about why they are still single. They bring absolutely nothing to the table as a life partner, yet expect a baller as the Prince Charming.
@9:14pmYou are so right! I have read all these comments from this either white troll or self hating, "black man" and the pure hate for black women was just stunning. And since he claimed he has such a happy loving family life with a non black woman, I thoughtit odd that he spent so much time venting and hating with such venom against black women. I kept thinking why doesn't he just enjoy his happy family life, why must he make it his mission to try to dash ALL black women (good and bad, quality and less than) hopes and dreams of love and family happiness by stating that black women aren't deserving of, as though black women and their children should become extinct. The nigga sounded crazy and full of self loathing to the point of sickness. That is IF he really IS black and I have my doubts. He is need of prayer but really is just another brick in the wall when it comes to the black communities struggle so therefor, he is really a non factor.Anyway you spoke eloquently and pretty much hit the nail on the head. Thankyou for that and God bless you and yours.
@11:07Isn't it always like that though? I love when RWS commenters can get into it and have a debate of substance and possibly --dare I say it-- learn something about each other as modern-day black people. But it ALWAYS turns into some ignorant, skin color, light skinned vs dark skinned, black women ain't shit/black men ain't shit back and forth bashing it only keeps us further divided. I know we all really don't know each other but I get sick of it myself. There's an obvious insincerity on lumping all black women into bitter, self-hating, baby-making incubators collecting a check for the grand pimp aka government, or lumping all black men into a low-life, worthless, scumbags who can only offer some wood. No two people are alike let alone an entire ethnic group so all accounts taken into judgement should be looked at as a case-by-case. This mentality must stop, regardless of how many black men/women appear to fit these stereotypes.
11:39 I am a black woman and if you are trying to say there is NO truth to 11:33 comments, you must be living under a rock. Black men are to blame AS WELL. But he is talking about the woman right now. And he is actually helping women to take a hard look in the mirror at themselves. He made it clear he isnt referring to all black women. Folks (men and women) need to be more open to hearing the ugly truth about themselves, if they want to do better. He might be the biggest butthole in the world and could have a horrible personailty....but that doesn't change the fact that what he's saying does apply to many black women. The truth is the truth no matter who's speaking it.
11:33-7:56 when you come back to reality you will realize 97 % of white men do not look like Brad Pitt nor do they have millions on deck. Hell it's white people who don't get white privileged. Where do you all live where all the whites are loaded and look like Hedi & Brad ??2- First let me say I have a friend who dates white men only but she's crazy, and I came to realize a lot of white men like crazy ish. They date you for that strong personality, liked to be talked at, controlled 3- In most cases the loud, belligerent bw changes her attitude when she get's with John becoming the quiet church mouse4- Regardless to how we are portrayed on tv, face to face it's a different story. As a BLACK WOMAN my skin color has never stopped me from meeting and forming all sorts of relationship with other races. Stop living a false reality thinking you know.
This mentality must stop...11:46co-sign!
THE RAPTURE IS COMING SOON AND IN A MINUTE NONE OF THIS WILL MATTER. REPENT, SERVE GOD, AND LOVE ONE ANOTHER. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU.
@11:33 I co-sign 100% you are on the money. Well thought out and very well presented. Thank you
I thought Tameka Raymond and her Ex-husband had a joint custody agreement? Also, Her and Usher still have joint custody BUT the children live with him the majority of the time. With the joint custody agreement, I don't know if Usher will be allowed to take the children out of the state. Hopefully, both Usher and Tameaka Raymond can work together to raise their children. Also, I have never heard anything about Tameka Raymond being crazy. Society likes to label a woman crazy when she voices her opinion and is outspoken. Is Tameka Raymond a drug addict? Pedophile? Does she physically abuse her children? There are severe drug addicts, child molesters, etc that still have custody of their children. People are arguing about her wanting a Saks card back but we don't know if it was part of the divorce settlement that he maintain the card. She is a stylist so maybe she needs it for her business. I am tired of people putting down women (more so black women) for the most trivial of things. She likes to be on Twitter. Who cares! Unlike some of you on this message board, Tameka Raymond did things the correct way. She married first and THEN had her children, she knows where the father of her children are and she knows that they will always support her kids. How many of you can say that?
12:10/1 coughs 11:33- Stop playing co-signing yourself ! A black woman agreeing to such bull !You tripped co-signed a bunch of bitter insults ! Like he really gave a " free at last speech". It's says a lot about you that you were so easily impressed by such garbage. You really do need to pick up a book !Funny he claims black women are bitter although his comment had bitter written all over it ! And I know you aren't referring to 11:33 2. His comment was too basic to triple co-sign. His main point was white men and white privileged when that only apply to less than 5 %. Show me all these so called privileged white folks ????
lol yah crazy!!!!AND JESUS IS BLACK AND THE WOMAN THAT BIRTH HIM.
At 12:20 whether he's bitter or not....it's still the truth. And maybe it doesn't affect me like it does you because I'm not the woman he is referring to and you are! I have the wonderful husband and the wonderful kids! The life that many women aren't getting and now we see why. Even when someone gives them the truth they can't receive it cuz the truth hurts. I am easily impressed with someone who speaks the truth. And I am open to it, maybe that's why I have the life that I have! It only comes across as bitter to women who are bitter themselves! I'm not boo! Have no reason to be. So maybe you should get like me!
@12:20am don't bother.@1:05 is very typical of a LOT of black women.If they get chose they will throw ALL of black female humanity under the bus for their man.I've seen it with a lot of women.A lot of times they truly believe they are exempt from the hatred that these males spout off.I can name a laundry list of women that black men use on a daily basis to try and play against black women.The women they use to do their dirty work almost ALWAYS themselves face the wrath of these hateful fuckers.If I were you @12:20am I would get out/opt out while you still have a chance life is BETTER outside of black men.You will notice that these people rarely mention all of the DIVORCES and OOW children black men have with non black women.You will notice that they NEVER mention the fact that the biracial children of these women do better than black children because of those womens WHITE FATHERS.If it hadn't been for Barack Obama WHITE GRANDFATHER he wouldn't be the man he is today.I say if ALL black men went to white and non black women there would be a blessing in it for BLACK WOMEN if we were willing to accept it.I know I am.Black men don't belong to us black women and if we are smart we would not allow them to be OUR problem anymore.I say ADIOS GOODBYE to all the black men and their black male identified cheerleaders.They are NOT our problem anymore.Let us all rejoice and thank God.Don't have sex with them and don't have their children.Don't befriend them either.It's that simple.If they aren't attached to you they can do NOTHING to harm you.Say goodbye to them all INCLUDING non beneficial male relatives.Goodbye and Good riddance!
Tameka would not be subject to nearly as much harsh criticism if she had simply kept her paws off of Twitter.5:05 PM, If someone else won't spell it out I will: Allah...there you go.Men and women, leave baggage right where you found it. You'll be better off and happier with yourself in a long run.Why are you bringing babies to your mother's house? Get your own place. They don't want you around any more, much less the extras. People really need to stop bringing unwanted and illegitimate children, AKA bastards, into the world AND into other people's marriages and families. It is unfair to the bastards, the spouses and the rest of the family. Who wants their child(ren) to learn later in life that they were born a victim of such circumstances? Don't get pissed because they found out about it in the streets. You know everybody in town knows your business and it is not hard for your children to hear about or figure out certain things you probably should have told them all along. Why put yourself in position to have children you know you weren't prepared for in the first place? Get your hands out of the taxpayers' pockets. They can't stand your mere existence. The hospitals hate to see you and your no insurance having ass come, too. In fact, everybody in the grocery store hates you and your rude, snotty nose and pissy diaper wearing children between the first and fifth of the month. Every month. All year long. They hate you and your offspring so bad that they stock up and don't go anywhere near the grocery store again until after the 10th, all because of you...so does the cab driver and the people on the bus. Why would anyone willingly enter a situation where they pretty much know that they'll be stuck raising a child alone, especially if they have to use social services because they have an unstable, low-income housing situation that is unsuitable for rearing children in the first place? People are fed up with needy, struggling single parents and primarily women that could have used contraception or closed their legs. Your mama, your friends, your employer and coworkers if you have them, your neighbors, "the good white people", and people at church are sick of you and your single parent woes, even if they don't tell you they are. Stop expecting them to feel guilty for not wanting to help your sorry ass out. Shut up and quit looking for breaks and handouts.Men, stop laying up unprotected with random, broke ass birds and then get mad at them when the pregnancy test results turn out to be less than favorable. You knew pregnancy and child support as a result of pregnancy was a possibility, among other things. Not worth it. Why look to someone else's paycheck as a way to support your lifestyle when you should be making better choices and trying to get your own? The government is way too generous to you irresponsible motherfuckers and bitches with other people's money. Help break the multi-generational cycle of poverty in America, whatever race you are. You do not have to be in that position. Where are you going to go when the city tears down the projects and nobody wants to accept your Section 8 voucher for you and your 6 children from 5 and a possible different men?Men, stop looking to be the next sperm donor. If someone already left her with a child, don't follow their lead and do the same damn thing. Marry her or keep it moving. Otherwise you'll just be sperm donor number two and when she's done with your ass she'll just be looking for sperm donor number three, while you're sending checks to a household where you are no longer welcome.Women, the grandparents of only one of your children do not want to buy things for the rest of the brood that you had with someone else's sons. Stop expecting them to. That's why they cringe on holidays and birthdays and send gifts instead of bringing them.Women, having multiple children with one man is not going to make him want you more. Know when to cut your losses.
To the dude that is trying to drag African American women through this post. How is it that you know so much about what men of other nationalities want? You can only speak from your perspective as an African American male. I have dated men of different races, and one thing I can say for sure is each Caucasian guy from whatever background) loved African American women for the same "attitude" your using as a platform for hatred. One guy actually told me: I love how you are not afraid to speak your mind, you dont take crap from anyone. What you and your sorry counterparts loathe about us is appreciated in other races. Whats funny is that I used to be one of those women that would refuse to date out of my race, but since I have come across bitter men such as your self, you know the kind that is jealous b/c I have a college degree and will not carry the load for a grown man... I am now happily married to a Caucasian man. Ladies, especially if you are educated, stop waiting around for "them" to get their stuff together. And dont believe what this sad joker is saying. Check the statistics, interracial marriages are on the rise for women of color and other races. Unfortunately, for African American men married to Caucasian women divorce rates are on the rise. I guess Becky realized that they aren't shit either. If you guys like watching Judge Judy, every know and then you see Becky dragging Day Day ass in to court for mooching off her. smh
@1:37 AMTell it like it is!!!
@1:32...meanwhile, you advocate and stan for non-black males?Oh.
@1:37Omg. Amazing. Brilliant. Congratulations, you win.
1:32- I love black men and happily married to one, raised by one etc but I do know is coming up it was unheard of, un spoke of, not an option, laughable, not even up for discussion....any thing other than a black man. I said all to say maybe it's time to start rethinking such a frame of mind. I've always advocated for black love BUT only because that's how the majority of black women were raised. NOT because we can't get a non- black man stereo typed and all. Maybe it's not fair to us we only accept black men. If you can find black love EXCELLENT but don't close off half of the population doing so !
1:37 AMThat is nothing but the truth! I run for the hills whenever I see those ungodly women heading in my direction with a whole swarm of unwashed kids.
@1:51 no.I'm just telling it like it is.The ONLY reason why a lot of biracial children,especially the boys,will do well in life after their mother and father separate is because1.it was best that their black father leave so that they wouldn't continue to suffer any abuse2.due to white supremacy these children will have it easier in society than black children.EVEN black people treat biracial people better than they treat other black people.3.That non black woman that has children for a black man has the benefit of a FATHER to help her once she and her black boyfriend or husband separates.She will also have the courts on her side due to white supremacy so it won't be likely that she will lose her children to a black man.
and at 1:51 black men stan for non black women AND?I say black women leave black men alone altogether.I know that many of your lives will be better if you do.You have more important things to worry about.YOURSELF
Why do black women have so many babies, easy, to get welfare but black men are deadbeats, in prison, hanging out on street corners. The majority of bm and bw aren't shit. Face it, disgraceful. I know a bisexual black woman, she tried and tried with black women, she even gave up on them, damn shame when u can't even keep a woman. Bw are so angry, bitter and bogged down with kids, always broke, not ladylike, loud ignorant, uneducated, just doomed. U can't attract any race of man. Bm are lazy losers who try and live off women when they not in prison, making babies by all these baby mamas. The men and the women aren' shit.
I'm guessing 7:23, 11:33 and most of the other worthless comments are all from the same person. Hate is a strong word but I really hate people that co-sign on ignorance. I saw nothing truthful about his statements. Hopefully this man is not in a relationship because he needs some serious and intense counseling. He needs to work on himself before he complains about someone else being bitter. I have a co-worker (Black man) that says shit like black women have attitudes and white women are easier to deal with (he married a white woman). Yet the man is crazy. He stated that his only responsibility at home is to take out the garbage and "lay the pipe" while she works full-time, takes care of their daughter, cooks, cleans, etc. I asked him why he doesn't cook and he said it was a woman's job. Women (not just black women) should have better standards to weed out worthless men like my co-worker and the bitter poster on here. No woman should have to deal with men like this!
dont let the angry black man fool you..the old i dont desire you so no one else will desire you either game is dead tired. google african american women and white, asian and hawaiian/samoan men there are dating sites for those type of relationships. happy hunting ladies!
You black women need to stop taking your frustrations out on the world, it's not our fault that you choose to search sewers, dumpsters and landfills for men.
@2:28 please shut up! There are worthless men in ALL races. Women choose worthless men all the time. It's not just a black woman's issue. Stop race baiting and find something better to do with your time. Obviously you have to much of it on your hands!
@2:03/@2:06IJS you preach to the high heavens about how great the "white" man is, as if they are without flaws. A black man help create you, so what's with your (self)hatred?There are numerous White genocide/Save the Aryan race websites popping all over the internet advocating for the preservation of white people, meanwhile demonizing all people of color (including people like you). An e-KKK if you will.When a white guy says he likes you for your sassy style and "tell it like is" attitude, they stan for your stereotype, not for who you truly are. Any woman can act this way, but yt knows (or assume to know) that the blackie he's with will be "down", and "hood", and "ghetto" (whether this white guy will admit it to your face depends on the type of narcissist/racist he is).Granted, there are low-down black men, there are self-hating black men. But those men who date interracially rarely encourage their counterparts to "dump" the black woman on the wayward side and swoop up a Becky or Maria Con Queso or a Sooyoung. I do however hear them offer bitter truths about their ethnic halves (although improperly executed and never really propose any solutions).You present this absolution as if all black women gain no benefits being with a black man when you cannot and DO NOT know every single Black woman and what they go through. If you are happy with your white guy then all praises but lets not act like yt is Yah's Salvation (even though Christianity sometimes may act like it). Many of us like our Black men. So deal.
Damn, i thought we were commenting on a custody case, not the state of black America. We need unity more than ever now, never forget that.
I agree, you black women should learn the skill of keeping their legs closed. It is ridiculous, you women are busier than a highway, have some self respect.
I have a co-worker (Black woman) that says shit like black men are tired and lazy and white men are easier to deal with (she married a white man). Yet the woman is crazy. She stated that her only responsibility is to spend all the cash while he works full-time, mow the grass, clean the gutters, cooks cleans and waits on her hand and foot. I asked her why she doesn't cook and she said she never learned (like a lot of millennial generation women). Men (not just black men) should have better standards to weed out bitter and abusive women like my co-worker and the bitter black man-bashing posters on here. No man should have to deal with women like this!
Granted, there are low-down black men, there are self-hating black men. But those men who date interracially rarely encourage their counterparts to "dump" the black woman on the wayward side and swoop up a Becky or Maria Con Queso or a SooyoungTHis IS a LIE.Not only do they do that they try to encourage other men,non black men to show hatred for black women collectively."I do however hear them offer bitter truths about their ethnic halves (although improperly executed and never really propose any solutions)."Black men NEED to stop being full of themselves.They NEED to worry about their relationships with NON black women and FOCUS on WHY those not only FAIL but do so horribly.Black women should NOT worry about black men at all and should focus on themselves.Black men and what they think about black women collectively is IRRELEVANT.No ONE CARES.Less and Less black children are born everyday in America.Things will continue to go in that direction.Black women need to let the dead bury the dead and focus on themselves ALONE.Black and their cheerleaders are NOT our problem.More and more of them will be with non black women and I don't want to stop them.It's PAST TIME for black women collectively to let them go.
@2:36 Thats good that you do, but as you can see from the many postings above, MANY do not like you. The way African American women are treated its obvious they are not here for you. I didn't say my husband was my savior. I said I was happy. I finally am with a man that appreciates who I am w/o berating me. I am finally w/ someone that is on my same level intellectually and not jealous of the fact that I have an education. I dont hate African American men. But I hate the way they operate. WHO NEEDS THE GAMES? WHO NEEDS THE LAZINESS? WHO NEEDS THE ALPHA MALE JERK ATTITUDE? And as a matter of fact..the word savior...Shit I am tired of African American men thinking I'm supposed to be their savior. It's not my fault school was not cool for you, or having a job (if they were lucky to get one or not to lazy to get one) and not a career that is going some where. I'm not demonize any one the proof is in the pudding. This is not the only blog that you see the degradation of African American women by their own men. Have you not been to Bossip?! So while you going to bat for these men they are doing the same for you. If you don't take a good hard look at your strong loyalty to them..you might end up alone and old waiting on your Mandigo king to sweep you off your feet. And I would be an idiot including yourself that just b/c their are interracial marriages that doesn't mean racial hatred in others (not limited to Caucasians) is going to end. All I'm trying to do is let other women such as yourself to wake up and broaden your horizons.
^I'm not demonizing
^their=there..man im going to sleep lol
2:46 AM No man should have to deal with women like this! That man is NOT a prisoner.He can leave any time.It seems to me you're just upset that that woman has the life that she wantsBlack men like women that don't want their money,who are light,who don't express any opinion that is opposite to what they think and they go to look for this in non black women and NO ONE CARES.It is OBVIOUS at this point that MANY black men and black women are absolutely NOT compatible or friends so if they can find what they want from other non black men and women they should go get it.I'm not angry or upset about black men being with non black women.But black women need to move on and forward like 45 years ago.So good for your co-worker for finding what she really wants in a non black man.
I have heard that 95% of black men are on the down-low and I'm afraid so I am now seeking a non-black man.
Black men NEED to stop being full of themselves.They NEED to worry about their relationships with NON black women and FOCUS on WHY those not only FAIL but do so horribly.Black women should NOT worry about black men at all and should focus on themselves.Black men and what they think about black women collectively is IRRELEVANT.But,like, cant the same be said for black women and advising others (read: getting into other women's business) to look for greener (or whiter, or browner, or yellower) pastures?No ONE CARES.Less and Less black children are born everyday in America.Things will continue to go in that direction.Black women need to let the dead bury the dead and focus on themselves ALONE.Actually you can thank Margaret Sanger and her "planned parenthood" creation for the 20+ million abortions of black children.Can't call it a receipt, but it's definitely Ginseng:http://www.politicsdaily.com/2009/07/22/ginsburgs-remark-stirs-an-old-debate-abortion-eugenics-and-th/I dont hate African American men. But I hate the way they operate.I don't hate black men either. But I don't make them out to be the worst living creatures on this planet like some commentators have. Have you not been to Bossip?! So while you going to bat for these men they are doing the same for you. Yes, I have been to Bossip. The degredation goes both ways and it's sickening. And I don't know about you, but the black men in my life have been good to me because I've been good to them. The black men that have been in my life are not in my life and they are not to be talked about. In fact ALL people that have not been good to me are not in my life regardless of their skin color. That's about the company you keep.There's no excuse for demonizing each other because some men and women are absolutely worthless, and it's tragedy. IMO if this topic is going to continue there needs to be a balance; we need to focus on the positives and negatives of black men and women or, like you said (and I'm more apt to agree at this point) worry about your own personal relationships with your significant others.
Meant to say:"I don't like how some black men operate either. But I don't make them out to be the worst living creatures on this planet like some commentators have."
Ugh! Also:"The black men that have not been good to me are not in my life and they are not to be talked about."I know, PROOFreading is fundamental.
Yes, I have been to Bossip. The degredation goes both ways and it's sickening. And I don't know about you, but the black men in my life have been good to me because I've been good to themI have found that most black women who claim to have a good black men or that black men are good to them don't even know the meaning of good .These black women have been treated like un-women by black men and others for so long that they make a big deal of the smallest non personal things that black men have done for them and they grade black men on a curve for simply being black.they judge other men more harshly for the same thing.
"But,like, cant the same be said for black women and advising others (read: getting into other women's business) to look for greener (or whiter, or browner, or yellower) pastures?"If a woman is going through it and expresses as much she will have someone tell her to get out.Women that tell other black women that they should get away from black men are doing nothing more than what MANY other people do every day.Giving advice to someone who needs it.I personally don't suggest for black women to search for greener pastures in only non black men.I think black women should be anywhere there is peace.And they should be willing to have peace and love even if it means doing so without black men.MOST of the time it will.I think black women should either date,sex,marry,and have children with non black men OR be lesbian,OR be nuns than to put up with MOST black men.This is about the personal happiness of black women and since many of them state and show they are NOT happy with the treatment they are getting from black men they should go else where.Some women should go inward and just be alone that's fine too.So long as they are where the peace and real love is I'm happy for them
@ 3:31 Amen!
Actually you can thank Margaret Sanger and her "planned parenthood" creation for the 20+ million abortions of black children.Actually I thank the millions of women that fought for the right to abort.No sense in black women burdening their selves with children the fathers don't want.I think life will get better for black women once they STOP giving sex,children,and anything else to black men.Black women just stop having sex with them period.Some of you already have but for the rest of you take care of yourself.you don't want to pay for your mistake.no matter how close or in love you thinnk you are with dude once there is a disease or a baby you will be alone in facing the consequences.Never believe the lies they feed you.Most of them really don't love themselves,they can't love you.let SOMEONE ELSE be their baby mothers,booty calls,mistresses.
Wow... What a sad bunch of brown people Fighting on a blog.Usher was about to be exposed as a celebrated homosexual when suddenly,he marries his close friend " the stylist ". What you've just witnessed is homosexual solidarity and all you young and Ole retards bigging this thing up, he and people like him are your gods, continue to bow down because intelligent ,educated Great Moms and Wonderful Wives will continue to use your empty heads to step on as we rise to the top of the "Boss of Me Club"know what I'm talkin'bout ?? This is not about money, this is about power. There is a movement against black woman with regard to "Flaming gays " P.S. they want to be women . Someone once told me ," see what you girls get for protecting these mother fuckers in school? They laughing at you, should have let us kick thier asses then". Now we couldn't do that and I don't advocate gay violence .However, to defened yourself as a mother , a Woman with all the God given tool that Only women have against a "Gay man, linked to other gay wealthy men and to then have so called real men to celebrate a Mother's children being taken away, after the death of a child proves that this kind of Hate against black woman is spreading.Same"real men" let a another man suck his Dick in jail then go home and let his girl, wife suck is vile dick. Smh...*Switches Team of tolerance* to God created Adam and Eve, Not Adam an Steve.
And in my * Ving Rhames Voice* cause You think my shit was a Book, "Fuck! Y'all!
THE RATH OF GOD ALMIGHTY IS AGAINST ALL YOU HATEFUL EVIL NEGRO'SAND USHER'S DOWNLOW ASS TOO...
@1:37 ALL TRUTH!!!!
@1:37 Thanks, seems like your improving with meds. Maybe we'll up the dosage to see if " your thoughts of how people perceive You subside".@5:26 the need to respond to self will also subside at about 6:10 when you take your meds.
Tameka!! Tell the truth, tell the world how you were paid to help a gay man hide! Fuck that!! No protection for these dogs killing our womb.
Wow, the Bottom Feeders (Sewer Rats) are in frenzy…
@6:08 Is your womb the sum total of your being?
Boycott!!! He's no man!!!! Men, you gonna let him represent you??!?? Not the men in my life you don't!! Ladies, you gonna let him sing them songs and show off his oily muscles he uses to tighten his ass when he's on the bottom with Diddy??what real man would call himself diddy?? These same homosexuals will pick up the phone and collectively shut you down. From now on, any woman that bashes this women this mother and giver of life in favor of the man lover , when Tiger's wife knew he was sleeping around with tons of prostitutes yet let her take damn near half and let her have children knowing all along. Now living a life she was accustom to in peace??!! Hell naw!! Who's crying foul for those kids?? She's no victim .You are the problem.
@6:28 it's what brought Your ass here!! Cock Sucker! Respect!!
@6:28 question the womb ??!!??fucking Hershey highway lovin fuck dog!! Born out of a jackal's ass!! so fuck you speaking on?!!?? Enough!!!
@6:32 A hood rat like Tameka will feel more comfortable in a section eight apt. next door to you. Even you know that this hood rat is out of place in a mansion. She needs to get the hell out of there like asap, today and take only what she brought with her (clothes on her back). FOH…
@6:32 P.S. It seems like you just got off the pipe.
The money she got the court to award her for a NANNY didn't keep her son alive. That is the truth and justice was served when she lost custody!
@6:32, Usher did not take the boys from Tameka. He presented their situation to the Legal System of this country and they decided that the boys would be in a more loving nurturing and secure environment in Usher’s care. They stated that they have concerns about her mental health (crazy as a loon, sociopath). Therefore, the boys are where they belong, with their loving father away from that light-fingered psycho.
damn the disrespect amongst women and men in the black community is way out of hand, its like the biggest domestic dispute amongst everybodyI can't with this shit , this is just too sad
Some of yall know the REAL truth up in here, not blinded by the smoke & mirrors of the industry and media. Makes me feel good that not everybody is a damn sheep.
I can't even continue to follow the Tameka story any more. IF black men think that the answer is to strip a child from his mother, then he is just as sick as I always knew he was. It doesn't matter to me any more. I wouldn't date a black man to save my life.
listen tameka you lost your son and that is horrible and now your ex has taken 2 more under false pretenses.. God does not like ugly.. the best revenge you can give usher is to move on and live well.. let him keep those kids.. i know its easier saids than done but men have been sticking us with babies since time began.. once he sees you living well,dating, and having a ball he will get pissed. he will regret ever snatching those children.. just make sure you are still a mother first.. but that nigga keep the kids he wanted so badly.. His mam is gonna raise them anyway.. if he wants support from you he can't get much because you already have other children and he makes more than you i bet.. believe me th ekids will see the light later an dyou will be vindicated..go live your life an dmake these haters hate more.. take it from me my dad did my mom the same way.. we ended up back with her because he could not handle being a single dad and my mother was not beat for him.. she moved on and had freedom dad was so mad..
i meant mama will be raising them anyhow..... let her old ass get tied down to 2 little boys..
@ 10:31 lay down the crack pipe bish
10.31why she telling the truth. typos and all.
Ok ok. We get it dude. Several black women told you your dick was small & you're horrible in bed. Now you're mad at all black women and that's why you're married to Becky. Take a laxative and get all of that shit out of your system.
if tameka went about her business usher would probably have her back into court. This has nothing to do with the kids. I hope she move on with her life. The only way usher will win is if Tameka play his controlling game. he will eventually go after the visitation. usher is a sick little bastard. But you lay down with dogs you get fleas.
CASSIE GETTING DIDDY'S OLD ARTISS AND BIGGIE'S KIDS MONEY ON HER BDAY!!
WOW, I can't believe I read all these comments. I will jus pretend that people say crazy shit on the internet because it is mostly anonymous. Having said that, here are my conclusions:1. The MAJORITY of white people in America are racist. They deeply and strongly hold beliefs of white superiority and black inferiority. Good, successful blacks are the exception while bad whites are a statistical rarity. Despite what appears to be "tons" of white women dating black men, the actual percentage of white women dating black men is very small. There are just many, many more white women in the US. Most white women, like most white men are racist and even money will not allow them to see blacks as equal for partnership. Material gain/status is only a by-product of white supremacy. Whiteness >> money.2. Usher Raymond is on a slow end of his career as an aging artist. In order to cement his legacy he needs a "personal narrative" to endear him to his fans. ALL the lasting artists do this. Elton John, Madonna, The Beatles, Diana Ross, etc. They all allow just enough of their struggle to become public for sympathy. Usher was planning on being a single dad the entire time. He wants his image to be of the globetrotting devoted Dad. It works because black men are often see as un-fatherly and shunning their fatherly responsibilities.3. Whites care more about black men being fathers than they care about black men being husbands. They do not care about black women being unmarried and alone because in their eyes black women are not "real women" anyway. So Usher getting divorces from a typical-looking black woman actually works in his favor. Why would any man with status want to be married to a black woman who doesn't look at least mixed or east African or has keen features? So he wins again by being DIVORCED.4. I really think Usher planned this all along and chose Tameka because he knew she was unsympathetic. He aided her narcissism and delusions by "defending" her publicly but privately cheating on her and planning his exit. He has learned a lot from Diddy. 5. Her losing custody is a nod to the men's rights movement that doesn't want the women who cheated on them with men of color and divorced them and took their money to raise children who may not view white men as the dominant world male. Men's Rights' is rooted in racism and white supremacy which is why I don't understand why simple-minded negroes are following it. Your issue with your baby mama is NOT the same as Bob's issue with Becky. Bob loathes Becky for not upholding the white contract. You hate Lakisha because she is annoying and unkempt and you wish you didn't get her pregnant but you were too thirsty and lazy to choose better.6. Black women - white men do not and will not consider enough of you for marriage and legitimate families. You will not be able to improve your lot without the working class/middle class black male. He is still here waiting for a black woman to build with. But you all are so stuck on stupid. Not having it now does not mean he never will. And having a woman who truly believes in him (because his Momma really didn't, let's be real) can do wonders for a man. Not all black men are waiting to get paid to leave black women behind. Most, STILL, despite black women saying it isn't true, want to marry black women and make them honorable wives and support them as mothers.7. If you are not attractive as a woman, you are at a disadvantage but that does not mean no one wants you. It just means your pool may be a bit smaller. Despite our insistence that "all black is beautiful" we know that isn't true. Some black women are just ugly and no amount of whining about preferences is going to change that. Plenty of ugly white women have to accept the white beauty standard and try to fit in where they can. Black women need to do the same.
8:28 AM, If money for a nanny was awarded to her as a result of a dispute between she and Usher, it should have gone towards care for the children she had with Usher. If the other men want her to have a nanny to help raise their children, let them pay for it. Her days of using Usher as an ATM are about to cease.
@11:59Yea ugly white women have options...they're called black and mexican men.
How about people just stop listening to the media's portrayal of the relationship between black men and women. They will never give us any examples of a positive black relationship because they don't want us together. I'm sure most of the bitter posters have never had a positive black relationship in their life. I would like to know how the topic of Usher and Tameka Raymond's custody battle turned into a race baiting topic anyway? @8:34 people always try and paint a woman as being crazy when it comes to situations like this. I have not heard of anything crazy that warranted Tameka Raymond losing primary physical custody of her children. People keep saying that she argues with people on Twitter but that is nothing serious. Is she a drug addict, child molester? Does she Physically abuse her children? Is her mental state so bad that she is unable to care for herself or her children i.e feed them, bathe them, clean her house, go to work, etc? I agree with 10:31am I would not agree that she do it solely to get Usher pissed but to better herself. She should take the extra time she has now to properly grieve for her son, get a better education, job, travel, make more money, etc. It would've been nice if her attorney made a stipulation that no one other than Usher be allowed to care for the boys. This way he would see how hard it is raising boys without the help of other people. He complained about the boys being with a Nanny but I'm sure they will be with nannies, his girlfriend and mother while he's on the road. women should take this situation as to why they should never dedicate their entire lives to their husbands. They should have things to fall back on just in case the relationship does not work out.
I hope you gay ass black men like usher music. You are about the only ones who will be listening to him. Probably a few dumb ass black women that enjoying seeing another black women suffer.
@12:23And ugly black women have options, lower income black men. It's just that ugly black women feel entitled to a man with money and good looks. Ugly white women will never get the kind of men attractive white women have access to. Sure they can get some black men with a little change but they lose a lot by being with that black man so it kind of balances out.Ugly black women want access to the same men attractive black and mixed race women have. That is never going to happen because those men have a certain standard they will not dip below. It is part of the ethos that made them successful in the first place. So in the end, ugly black women need to just look at what ugly women of other cultures do. Date the lower class of men or date outside the race. The problem is none of the rejects from other races want black women until they are MUCH, MUCH older. So ugly black women in their prime will need to date/marry older men. At least their age will be an advantage. Sometimes life just isn't fair.
WRONG; she didn't fight for custody of her other kids when she left their father for Usher. Judges have granted custody to the broke mom of celebrities before and make the celebrity pay for the babymommaexwifeetc to continue taking care of the kids. She simply was an unfit mother. She left her kids to go clean across the country to almost end her life with surgery. What kind of momma is that?
LMAO 11:25And yeah, how did race and so-called ugly women get into this? Summa yall are just plain dumb. The ugly girl u throw away gets the good looking white boy. Look at Tia and Tamara's mom. Some folks would say she's not attractive (I don't) but she found a cute white boy and had some beautiful talented children.AND YOUR POINT IS?????
The problem is none of the rejects from other races want black women until they are MUCH, MUCH olderYou need to travel outside the U.S! All OVER the Netherlands, Paris, Sweden, etc are young, well to do cool ass white guys with black and biracial women. The white London bad-boy Brits and the Black British fly girls are now suddenly on the rise. I just love how you clowns constantly try to down and down us and sleep on our skills. It's BLACK WOMEN in this country who are repulsed and unattracted to white men. They are loyal to you shitty black men and see it as a great dishonor to themselves, their ancestors and YOUto ever lay down with white men. You ask the average black woman have they ever dated or been with a white man, the answer is a general NO! Especially black women of generation X and previous generations. Not too many black woman can actually get moist at the thought of getting it on with a man who looks like the cop that killed, jailed and beat up her father, brother, boyfriend, etc. Certainly not the man that harasses her, is her shitty racist boss, or the white man that makes racist, sarcastic, underhanded remarks about black people. She is so turned off by turned off by white men in general that she will not even concieve the thought of considering the kind, cool white guy that likes her who is NONE of those things.But thankfully, slowly but SURELY there is an energy shift happening. More of us are beginning to realize that holding on to fear, anger and negativity only draws MORE of those things our way and as a result we remain unfulfilled and frustrated.Black men and their insistance that other races don't want us, sounds a bit like fear, that's why it really doesn't bother me at all. They keep saying it like as if it's the law of the Universe or written in stone.They are about to get the shock of their lives.Let's hope THEY can accept it even when they claim not to care.
@1:15 PM EVERYTHING YOU SAID! And with divorce rates being up with white couples. alot of 2nd timers are going for African American women too. I have met a few middle age interracial couples and they are so happy.
Then again, as for the older white man remark, I think Tameka should hook up with an established, older white gentleman. An Italian man would be PERFECT FOR HER, they love her type of fire and Tameka would most likely ROCK HIS WORLD and recharge his batteries when they're in the sack! There is SOMETHING about this woman why she's been consistently wifed back to back by successful black men that have kept her pregnant with their children. She's not a whore, she has been a WIFE most of her life it seems,even though you bastards out there, paint her to be the biggest monster/bastard ever. I say she should let Usher and her first husband have their kids, and she moves on with her life.She obviously has some great velvet pussy and an older white man will spoil her for it and they would make great companions!
In response to the discussion on Beauty:Beauty is only skin deep. Physical beauty fades with age. Fake beauty (makeup, injections, implants, surgery, weaves, etc.) is expensive and sometimes dangerous, and it, too, fades.Inner beauty increases with age. Find someone with inner beauty; they will become more beautiful to you as time passes.Beauty is overrated. I don't care how beautiful my surgeon, or the pilot flying the jet, or my economics professor is. I do care about their intellectual and emotional competence, though.Good health and physical fitness are more important than physical beauty.
^^^The white gentlema won't give a shit about her past either, if anything to him it makes her more of an interesting person.LOL@ these immature ass black men that think they know white men so well! LOL
SOME OF YOU BITCHES NEED TO GET THE FUCK OFF OF HERE AND TAKE CARE OF YOU HOME AND KIDS, ALL THESE LONG ASS POSTS ARE A FUCKING SHAME.TAMEKA YOU TRIBAL BITCH IF THIS IS YOU WITH ALL THESE MESSAGES, DIE BITCH DIE.SOME OF YOU ARE COMPLETELY IGNORANT............
Tameka, bitch stay your mentally unstable ass off of twitter and I'm glad you LOST custody!
@12:35Your response has nothing to do with my observation. Since a large number of black men only have a small amount of change. I have black male friends who date white and hispanic women and most of the shit they say is something silly like some black girl made fun of him in Jr. High or they didn't want to date a woman who looked like his mother or sisters. Some won't fully admit it but they are intimated by black women and do not feel that black women will allow them to slack off. Of course I'm not talking about male or female hoodrats because they don't hang in my circle.
@1:36pm Being happy about someone else being in pain is disgusting. Hopefully nothing bad ever happens to you. @1:35 you say some people are completely ignorant, yet you wish death upon someone you probably don't even know. Be careful about what you say on the internet because you really are not that anonymous.
WOW all of this cause Usher won a court case over that chick which 99% of everyone on here don't even know one or the other personally...lol.
1:36 So I guess anyone that doesn't rip and taunt a mother for having her kids either die in their father's care or get snatched away for NO REASON is Tameka? Because I'm not about to sit there and make hurtful, humiliating remarks and cheer on a mother's suffering, that means I'm her? You are an asshole. Yes some of us black women DO stand up for each other. Funny, when we don't, we are every hateful thing in the book and when we do, we are lesbian feminists, we just can't catch a break with you fools! You are so tired and predictable and I'm so glad there's a bigger world out there.Black women please use condoms and plenty of birth control. Get your passports. I recommend all of you get one. Travel the world and don't look back.
I'm not really sure what she's trying to say, but Tameka sure does love Twitter.
I don't get why anyone is ride or dying for Tameka on here. She didn't have primary custody of her older children. So I guess she's only willing to take care of her kids if she's being paid top dollar to do it. Even then she needed a Nanny as if she was doing anything else. When did you all last year about her styling anyone?? If I blame Usher for anything it would be for hooking up with her to begin with. If he's gay and she was his beard of the year he should have picked better.
3:06 she had SHARED custody.STFU
These comments about dating white men are funny, like they are really checking for black women like that.
Looks like some of the Conservative Tree House people are on this thread. Shameful, but hey if SNITCH condones this bullshit I guess this hate speech will continue.
"But in the end, truth and goodness will prevail". Hey Tameka, pay attention, that is exactly what happened. At the end of your custody battle , truth and goodness prevailed for Usher. Tameka you should stay away from these kind of quotes because your profile is not the inspiration of the author.
Once again, Tameka's ass is on twitter. She needs to keep silent and keep it movin'.Bitch is talking about her career but she stay on twitter 24/7.
I hope you gay ass black men like usher music. You are about the only ones who will be listening to him. Probably a few dumb ass black women that enjoying seeing another black women suffer.12:29 PMYou are beyond muthafuckin' retarded. Seriously. All that cum you swallowed must've fucked up your brain cells. Go have another 40, low-rent bitch.
I agree, you black women should learn the skill of keeping their legs closed. It is ridiculous, you women are busier than a highway, have some self respect.2:42 AMWhat's funny is you're probably black yourself, saying all that shit. Don't forget you have enough money on your EBT card next Saturday, boo-boo.
Drop the last name, you are no longer married to Usher, so drop the Raymond name...u r an embarrassment to good black women everywhere....
...NONE, NADA, ZILCH, NULL sympathy for this BROOM-RIDER: she should have played it SMART and let DISCRETION be the better part of VALOR! this chick came in trying to tear this man down and what did her SCORCHED-EARTH policy get her?: JACK-SHIT! she could've played it smart, cool and collected (emphasis on COLLECTED) by not putting every one of his words on a golden scale and not "eating all the soup as hot as it was cooked!". instead, she loses custody of her children, thus not be able to generate child-support for umpteen years and thus BROKE she will go...! let's see how far her great business acumen will take her once those UIV checks stop rolling in. quite frankly, this could not have happened to a nicer gal...!!!
bitches writing ESSAYS up in here! Lets keep it to short clever digs cuz I ain't got time chile
UPDATE: T.O. Gets Cut by the SeahawksTerrell Owens' NFL return lasted less than three weeks.Owens was released by the Seattle Seahawks on Sunday, part of the league-mandated roster reductions from 90 to 75 players.The 38-year-old posted a message on his Twitter account shortly before 11 a.m. PDT that he had been released and the Seahawks made the move official later in the afternoon.''I'm no longer a Seahawk. I THANK the organization 4 the opportunity, I'm truly blessed beyond belief. My FAITH is intact & will NOT waiver.''Owens wasn't the only veteran to get cut by the Seahawks. Offensive linemen Deuce Lutui and Alex Barron both had their veteran contracts terminated, while Seattle waived/injured defensive back Roy Lewis (knee), tight end Cameron Morrah (toe), defensive tackle Pep Levingston (knee) and linebacker Jamison Konz (shoulder).Owens signed a one-year deal with Seattle (No. 22 in APPro32) on Aug. 7, following a sterling workout that had coaches and Seahawks staff raving about how good he looked for having not played an NFL game in more than 18 months.He signed just before Seattle's first preseason game and made his debut in the second week against Denver.But his preseason performance was more notable for the passes he dropped than anything he caught.Owens dropped a potential 46-yard touchdown against Denver on a perfect throw from Matt Flynn. He failed to make a catch in any of his five targets against the Broncos and then had another glaring drop against Kansas City on Friday night.He finished the preseason with just two receptions - a 40-yard catch from Russell Wilson where Owens had to slow down and lean back to haul in the pass and a 1-yard reception on a screen.For as impressive as his long catch was in Seattle's 44-14 win over the Chiefs, it served as Owens' only highlight in a Seahawks uniform.Owens was trying to make a comeback after not playing since Week 15 of the 2010 season while with Cincinnati. He sat out the entire 2011 season following surgery on his left knee and failed to receive any offers.
**I don't get why anyone is ride or dying for Tameka on here. She didn't have primary custody of her older children. So I guess she's only willing to take care of her kids if she's being paid top dollar to do it.**------Google Kile's(father) please! I forgot his name but if you go on one of those search engines you will find out. This man may be wealthier than Usher! What are you talking about? Tameka and Usher worked closely together, they bonded, fell in lust/love with one another and took it from there--I don't get this gold-digging thing you're talking about. So because she got rings from two different rich black men and left one for the other, it all adds up to her being nothing more than a gold-digger? She was just a cougar who fell for a hot, younger R&B sex symbol, I HIGHLY doubt she was after his money like that, some of you are just hateful, judgemental assholes. Being the big Usher stans that you are, you would leave your man for Usher too if he wanted your tired ass.
You hate her because she's a black woman that was able to do what most of you old cows could never do in your wildest dreams: Snag a young hot, rich sexy black man. You were seething with such poisonous envy and rage that you refused to support Usher's music and created blogs filled comments tearing down her looks and their marriage before it ever had a chance.Even with all her mileage she did what you can never do. So stay mad, keep wishing ill and predicting your own karma.