Friday, August 24, 2012

Usher Wins Custody War


The bitter child custody battle between Usher and Tameka Raymond is over and Usher has been awarded primary custody of the kids...

From TMZ
Today, we're told a judge sided with the singer -- awarding Usher primary custody of the ex-couple's two sons, which means the children will be spending the majority of the time with their father.
Tameka still retains some custodial rights -- but the extent to which Tameka will be able to see her kids is unclear.

191 comments:

Anonymous said...

Stunned. How does this happen in America?

Anonymous said...

off topic but Usher looks cute in this pic.

Anonymous said...

Money talks. *coffee*

Anonymous said...

I know Grace is glad! Ready made babies! No ill fated tummy tucks like Tameka!

Anonymous said...

Yes, Can't stand Tameka. What goes around come back around

Anonymous said...

Now she has to get out of his house......

Anonymous said...

I know you've been through hell Tameka the past couple of weeks!!! But keep your head up and stay positive and focus on healing and being a great Mom to all of your children don't look at this like defeat, try to co-parent and be civil for everyone's sake......

Anonymous said...

Damn....

Anonymous said...

Congrats, usher a long hard fight but you persevered and won. Good Show....

Anonymous said...

Even though Tamika lose her son, which was terrible for her and her family, I am still happy that Usher won...from what i've seen from the media, that woman was a nightmare for usher so you reap what you sew....I just hope those kids grow up happy. I still feel sorry for her lose. I know she must be devistated at the outcome but Karma is very real and we really have to watch our ways in this life.

Anonymous said...

GOOD FOR YOU USHER!!!

Anonymous said...

I feel for her. I understand the decision that was made, but as a mother my heart goes out to her. Burying one child and then losing two others? That is going to kill her.

Anonymous said...

Uh oh..All of the dependent child support collecting hos hating....in 5 4 3 2....

Anonymous said...

NOW SHE CAN FOCUS ON ALL FOUR OF HER SONS...AND GET THEM EQUAL ATTENTION AND NOT JUST ON THE MONEY MAKERS !!!

OH THAT RIGHT SHE DO NOT HAVE CUSTODY OF THEM...SMH

Anonymous said...

There goes Tameka's child support

AnRnBThug said...

GOOD, She was too Gangsta on Twitter and during Her interviews Karma, Back to the G.H.E.T.T.O and conducting credit card schemes
you Gorilla Faced Bitch.
Damn, Usher Look Mad Suspect in that Picture…

Anonymous said...

What do you mean how does this happen in America, he's the biological father. He has rights too. And for him to win primary custody, Tameka must have been proven to be really unfit

Anonymous said...

i wonder does she have to pay him child support?

Anonymous said...

Tameka was never found to be an unfit mother
I guess usher won the popularity contest
Smh

Anonymous said...

Damn. You got to be a fucked up mother to lose primary custody of your kids. It is a lot more than money at stake. Tameka is just mad that she won't be able to gold dig. Katie Holmes did it right, taking a percentage that actually made some damn sense instead of just augmenting her shoe, clubbing and weave budget.

Anonymous said...

the nanny will be raising the kids either way.

dreadee said...

WOW. I bet now she will stay the hell off Twitter. It happens everyday though. Fathers will exercise their rights and break a broad down.

Anonymous said...

Why are people tripping? She didn't have custody of the other two..her e. husband did . She's a liar and a cheater. Now she won't have usher's money to take care of all those kids and oops no more red.bottoms

AnRnBThug said...

Usher Look Happier than a Dyke in a GYN Office
Usher Look Happier Than a Faggot in Boys Camp
Usher Look Happier Than a Pig in Shit
Usher Looked Happier Than 50 Cent Picking
Mayweather up at County
Usher Looked Happier Than a Priest in Boy’s Town

Keep it Going…..

Anonymous said...

Good for him :)

Anonymous said...

As if losing a son and custody of your children within a month's time isn't enough
Wait till them kids start calling Grace mommy
Meka gon lose her mind
I'ma pray for them

Anonymous said...

Can say I feel bad for Tameeka....giving that man hell cause he chooses to move on with his life and not be with her. Good for Grace ain't got to worry about Tameeka being all up in her business with her man.....having the baby mama gone is not a bad idea if you ask me.

Anonymous said...

When even your own BFF is testifying against you, then you that things will not end well for you.

Anonymous said...

Lmao.........

Anonymous said...

Usher seems like the better parent.

Anonymous said...

Usher is no better than Tameka, he just has a PR Team to clean up his mess. Usher only wants the kids so he doesnt have to pay her anything, he is going on tour so who will watch the kids?

Anonymous said...

Anyone who laughs at a woman getting her child taken are sick people and heartless... this is why the world is broken.

TRACY said...

Karma is a bitch! Tameka was married with children, divorce her husband married usher and that union was adulterous because her first husband is still living God do not like ugly it is written.

Anonymous said...

reading these comments...smdh. Ya'll talking about this case and this woman like you know her personally...ya'll miserable as hell. INTERNET LOSERS

Anonymous said...

I feel bad that this decision had to come after she lost her son, but it would have been better for the kids if she had agreed to a 50/50 split.

But when you get greedy, you usually end up with nothing. when her friend says she has her godson every weekend, what's the difference between a Nanny or a godmother . . . it's still notthemama!!!!

Sorry Tameka, but now you will be getting plenty of sympathy work and you will become rich and popular (you know like when Rihanna was wronged by a man), and the boys can grow up with their father and you can come visit . . . you know, like usual . . .

Like the father had the three boys when you got with Usher when he was with Chili . . .

um humm!!

I know plenty of parents who just make kids, but don't bond or take care of them at all . . . they just have them to keep the other parent in check . . .

Anonymous said...

@ 1st 4:57
THANK YOU

Anonymous said...

co sign

Why are people tripping? She didn't have custody of the other two..her e. husband did . She's a liar and a cheater. Now she won't have usher's money to take care of all those kids and oops no more red.bottoms
4:30 PM

TRACY said...

Karma is a bitch! Tameka was married with children, divorce her husband married usher and that union was adulterous because her first husband is still living God do not like ugly it is written.
4:57 PM


Hottestchick said...

Good! I think more fathers should be awarded primary and full custody! A man should be able to raise his kids if he wants to without the bitter ex using them as a pawn. Now he gets to raise his sons AND move on with his life like it should be without Tameka being all in his business worring about who he's with and who he's bringing around to pick up HIS kids at the house that HE is paying for smdh...

People should be happy a black man wants to be as involved as possible with the raising of his kids. Child support is not enough! At least he isn't humping around making more and he did try to do right by her by marrying her but we all know how that turned out.

I still wish her the best. I hope she has a good therapist (maybe a good Christian therapist if that is her faith base) who can help her to accept this and move on with her life. She has taken quite a few blows these last few years and I pray she can keep it together for the sake of wellbeing and her children. They still deserve to grow up with a well adjusted mother.

that's jusss me!! said...

Anonymous said...

Money talks. *coffee*
3:53 PM


and you know what walks *tea*

Anonymous said...

thank you @ 5:12 . . . and STAY YOUR BUTT OFF TWITTER, TAMEKA . . .

Somebody With Some Sense said . . . said...

Hottestchick said...

Good! I think more fathers should be awarded primary and full custody! A man should be able to raise his kids if he wants to without the bitter ex using them as a pawn. Now he gets to raise his sons AND move on with his life like it should be without Tameka being all in his business worring about who he's with and who he's bringing around to pick up HIS kids at the house that HE is paying for smdh...

People should be happy a black man wants to be as involved as possible with the raising of his kids. Child support is not enough! At least he isn't humping around making more and he did try to do right by her by marrying her but we all know how that turned out.

I still wish her the best. I hope she has a good therapist (maybe a good Christian therapist if that is her faith base) who can help her to accept this and move on with her life. She has taken quite a few blows these last few years and I pray she can keep it together for the sake of wellbeing and her children. They still deserve to grow up with a well adjusted mother.
5:12 PM

Anonymous said...

damn! she looses all her kids to her babydaddies

Anonymous said...

Somebody over there said:

If Usher is wrong, he will get his karma, but better to leave it in the Lord hands then try to seek revenge on your own. However at the same time, the Lord tells us you reap what you sow..so she left her husband for Usher, the hurt is coming back to you....lesson learn, keep it moving, find away to raise your kids together.

Anonymous said...

I wish I could have delivered the news to Tameka, just to see the expression on that Hood rat’s face. No more baby support money for her to use on herself. This is the end for a lot of Hoes out there trying to make a living on babies. Time for the hoes to get jobs and take care of yourself.

Anonymous said...

The fact she didn't have custody of her other kids spoke volumes. You have to be a real fucked up mother to not have custody of your own kids.

I told y'all Usher was D. Wade, Part II. I wouldn't be surprised to see them niggas in a photo-op in the near future.

As far as Tameka...watch out for her. She's about to go Glenn Close Fatal Attraction on Usher. Watch.

Anonymous said...

I hope Usher do not have to pay Tameka a lot of child support like Halle has to pay her gold digger baby daddy.

Anonymous said...

Anyone who laughs at a woman getting her child taken are sick people and heartless... this is why the world is broken.

4:57 PM

*************

Tameka, is that you? Get cho ass off twitter and gossip blogs. That's how you lost dem damn kids to begin with!

Anonymous said...

She made a bad choice to leave her son with an irresponsible dad,if her son was watched closer he would have not died.A good parent FROSEE'S an accident,MOST OF THE TIME.Why were her son and another kid playing in the water NEAR a motorboat,THAT LATER KILLED HIM?????The dad was not a watchful parent and Tameka should have known this...MOTHERS INSTINCT SHE SEEMS TO LACK...I'm glad she lost custody!

Anonymous said...

FROSEE'=FORSEE'S

Anonymous said...

reading these comments...smdh. Ya'll talking about this case and this woman like you know her personally...ya'll miserable as hell. INTERNET LOSERS
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She made a bad choice to leave her son with an irresponsible dad,if her son was watched closer he would have not died.A good parent FORSEE'S an accident,MOST OF THE TIME.Why were her son and another kid playing in the water NEAR a motorboat,THAT LATER KILLED HIM?????The dad was not a watchful parent and Tameka should have known this...MOTHERS INSTINCT SHE SEEMS TO LACK...I'm glad she lost custody!

plenty o querstions said...

Ok, yall i need some help because I am confused.

Is his name Usher or Ursher? Also is Tameka and Grace Miguel have a lesbo relationship and Ursher decided to go with Grace because her Kia Sephia was cuter than Tameka's Huyndai Sonata?

Anonymous said...

Anyone who laughs at a woman getting her child taken are sick people and heartless... this is why the world is broken.
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She made a bad choice to leave her son with an irresponsible dad,if her son was watched closer he would have not died.A good parent FORSEE'S an accident,MOST OF THE TIME.Why were her son and another kid playing in the water NEAR a motorboat,THAT LATER KILLED HIM?????The dad was not a watchful parent and Tameka should have known this...MOTHERS INSTINCT SHE SEEMS TO LACK...I'm glad she lost custody!

Anonymous said...

How you give primary custody to a parent that has a career where he's never home and probably will be raised by nannies?That's not the best childhood for the children.

Anonymous said...

Usher is no better than Tameka, he just has a PR Team to clean up his mess. Usher only wants the kids so he doesnt have to pay her anything, he is going on tour so who will watch the kids?
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So you're saying the judge was wrong or paid off?Nannies will watch the kids...dummy!

Anonymous said...

Tameka was never found to be an unfit mother
I guess usher won the popularity contest
Smh
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She made a bad choice to leave her son with an irresponsible dad,if her son was watched closer he would have not died.A good parent FORSEE'S an accident,MOST OF THE TIME.Why were her son and another kid playing in the water NEAR a motorboat,THAT LATER KILLED HIM?????The dad was not a watchful parent and Tameka should have known this...MOTHERS INSTINCT SHE SEEMS TO LACK...I'm glad she lost custody!

Anonymous said...

How you give primary custody to a parent that has a career where he's never home and probably will be raised by nannies?That's not the best childhood for the children.
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She made a bad choice to leave her son with an irresponsible dad,if her son was watched closer he would have not died.A good parent FORSEE'S an accident,MOST OF THE TIME.Why were her son and another kid playing in the water NEAR a motorboat,THAT LATER KILLED HIM?????The dad was not a watchful parent and Tameka should have known this...MOTHERS INSTINCT SHE SEEMS TO LACK...I'm glad she lost custody! ......so being raised by this kind of mother is?

Anonymous said...

Nannies will due....same as baby sitters yall use when you take your asses to work!

Anonymous said...

It was fair a JUDGE decided this...get over it..the kids are with the better parent!!!!

Anonymous said...

Damn. Meka ain't gonna be happy with this at all.

Anonymous said...

Tameeka has a BLACK CLOUD over her head...your payment for your greed is your now ,DEAD son!

Anonymous said...

Even the legal system is ruling against Hood Rats raising children. There must be some heavy dark clouds hanging over The Hood this evening. All the Hood Rats will be gathering tonight to discuss what to do next (another epic fail in the making). LOL

Anonymous said...

I don't feel sorry for you...one dead child and loosing 2 in a custody battle...you look so UNFIT right about now!!! lol

The Real Fedup said...

Although I feel bad for Tameka regarding the lost of her son, what comes around goes around. She should never brought a simple agreement between two adults get to this. I feel bad for the kids.

But more tea is here

http://sandrarose.com/2012/08/usher-raymond-wins-primary-custody-of-sons/

Apparently the reason Tameka lost the case is because court documents had proof of Tameka Mental illness. That is why the judge rule in Usher's side. Plus Judge order Tameka to move out of the mansion that Usher paying for.

Anonymous said...

someone on here is angry, I wish your mom lost custody because the way you were raised shows alot lacking.

TruthBeTold said...

LMAO @
Usher Look Happier than a Dyke in a GYN Office
Usher Look Happier Than a Faggot in Boys Camp
Usher Look Happier Than a Pig in Shit
Usher Looked Happier Than 50 Cent Picking
Mayweather up at County
Usher Looked Happier Than a Priest in Boy’s Town

Keep it Going…..

DAYUM

Usher look happier than Jill Scott at "Magic Mike-Dinner Theatre" edition


Well I guess the courts had some compelling evidence that these no good for notin' bloggers couldn't get us! Usher probably had something on the bitch !

Usher look ugly as fuck tho

Anonymous said...

@5:40PM: For the few that go into a workplace and pretend they are working. For the most part, lay up and wait for the first of the month (you know the deal) LOL

Anonymous said...

Lol some of you bitches on here are just M.A.D. No matter what! Y'all complain about how black men abandon their kids and aren't in their kids lives, and here Usher is fighting for his kids and he won and some of you still have a problem with it. Y'all acting like y'all know him personally and know what type of father he is. Obviously the courts found that he was a good enough father to have primary custody. If y'all have some type of hidden info that proves other wise then where are the receipts?

Anonymous said...

I don't see how a mother losing custody of her children is a good thing. Not sure why folks are laughing and taunting this woman at such a dark time in her life. We all make mistakes. Ours are not blasted all over the media for the world to see.

Apparently, some of y'all should've been held more in your childhood. Taking your bitter hatred for your own absent Mothers out on this woman will not work.

Anonymous said...

I feel for Tameka.

Anonymous said...

R&B Thug go suck on Mr. Marcus' syphilis-infested dick.

I cannot stand your woman hating ass. Everybody knows you take it up the ass and your hatred for the black woman cuz you wish you were her is so obvious.

TruthBeTold said...

^ Like I said, there MUST be something more to her than what we see, if the judge ruled in his favor she must be an unfit mother, because most of the time custody cases are won by women

I want the tea!

Anonymous said...

Usher has nannies and his mother to help him, who would help Tameka's unfit ass watch those kids if they were to go to her? She's so busy on twitter and on the blogs her ass dont care about those kids, just like her other kids she doesn't have custody of. She was looking for a check and she got one a reality check. Now she's going to have to get off her ass and go get a real job, just like everybody else!

Anonymous said...

I don't see how a mother losing custody of her children is a good thing. Not sure why folks are laughing and taunting this woman at such a dark time in her life. We all make mistakes. Ours are not blasted all over the media for the world to see.

Apparently, some of y'all should've been held more in your childhood. Taking your bitter hatred for your own absent Mothers out on this woman will not work.

*****

Oh, Honey Boo Boo, isn't it time for your nappy-poo?

Anonymous said...

So, Usher is going to hand the children off to the nannies and grandmothers to raise while he is on tour instead of their mother? Ok.

Anonymous said...

People have a problem with a mother losing full custody of her kids, yet fathers sometimes good fathers lose full custody of their kids everyday and yet no one has a problem with it, as a matter of fact it's looked at as the norm. Fathers have just as much rights to their kids as mothers. Obviously for one reason or another the court felt like the kids would be better off with their father. So case closed if yall don't like it too damn bad!

Anonymous said...

All is right with the world.
#Thirsty broads stay losing

Anonymous said...

@6:08PM Oh please. Tameka was doing the same thing. She ran through 11 nannies. Celeb mothers who are singers have to use nannies when they have to travel, why can't Usher?

Anonymous said...

How come Tameka didn't have full custody of her children from her first marriage? I know her first husband didn't have the type of money and fame that Usher does and yet he got full custody, that doesn't say something?!...

Anonymous said...

I feel bad that this decision had to come after she lost her son, but it would have been better for the kids if she had agreed to a 50/50 split.
________________

From what I understand, she did initially agree to an almost 50/50 split. He was to have the kids 12 days out of the month, she would have them 16 and the holidays would be divided.

I feel for Tamika. I haven't read of anything that she has done to make her an unfit mother. Yeah, she stays on twitter, but people who have done worse have kept their kids.

Anonymous said...

Sorry, but I believe this whole fight was purely for economical purposes on both sides. Why couldn't they agree to a 50/50 split? Too many people allow the courts to make these types of decisions for their families when it doesn't make any sense for the well-being of the children. When Usher goes on tour, his sons will be raised by the grandmother and nanny. How is that a better choice than their mother, who they have been with all along? The things money can buy you in this world..

Anonymous said...

6:20 I bet on top of the 50/50 split Tameka was still probably asking for a huge amount of child support which isn't fair if they were to split custody 50/50

Anonymous said...

@6:08PM Oh please. Tameka was doing the same thing. She ran through 11 nannies. Celeb mothers who are singers have to use nannies when they have to travel, why can't Usher?
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So, tell me how that's a good thing for the children again? Your argument lacks logic. Nannies running in and out of the house disrupts the children's sense of safety and security. Those boys are young and need a stable environment filled with people that they know and trust. No nanny is a substitute for a parent.

Anonymous said...

Oh please and if Tamkea were to get full custody y'all actually think those kids wouldn't be raised by nannies? She would use her child support to hire nannies to watch her kids while she sat her ass on twitter and continued to stalk and trash talk Ushers. Give me a break. All the baby mama"s in Hollywood who get huge child support checks, sit on their ass while the help takes care of the home and kids. That's what Tameka was looking forward to, but oh we'll I guess she's gonna have to go get a real job.

Anonymous said...

Good for him, she wasn't keeping them anyway, either the nannies, or someone else would be.

She is mentally unstable, and is more concerned about her credit cards, than the kids.

Too bad she won't be getting that child support.

DON'T THINK FOR ONE MINUTE THIS PSYCHO BITCH WILL STAY OFF OF TWITTER!

Anonymous said...

Black men have turned out to be a bunch of bitter bastards. Stay away from them. They have brains the size of a pea.

Anonymous said...

I hope Usher do not have to pay Tameka a lot of child support like Halle has to pay her gold digger baby daddy.
@5:20 PM

----------------------------- ^^^

Are you retarded or just plane ignorant and stupid, Why would Usher pay that bitch child support for kids he has custody of.



I CAN TELL SOME OF YOU ON HERE DON'T READ WELL, NOR DID YOU FINISH OR GO TO SCHOOL.

Anonymous said...

Good for HIM!

Never ever in a million years thought I would be saying some shit like that.

She's too damn dumb--and WE don't need no mo black kids being raised by dummies who can't keep they black DUMB asses off Twitter, tweetin and beefin with the public at large. No judge in their right mind would have given her stupid ass primary custody--she on Twitter 24/7!

Anonymous said...

Tameka do not deserve any kids.

Hateful spitefull bitch.

I bet the judge saw what her nasty ass tweeted about Grace being BARREN.


Anonymous said...

@6:08 Not only other celebrities, but also many many other professions require parents to be away from their children. For example, truck drivers go on drives that take them away from home for days or weeks at a time, and people in the military get deployed and are away for months at a time. Some parents aren't away from home, but they work two shifts; I guess we should count them, too, as being away from the children.

People have to go to work, and most people I know who are working work hard and they work long hours. It really is an issue of the quality of the time parents and children spend together and the quality of the children's care.

Hats off to hard working parents everywhere who hold down demanding jobs AND take care of their kids..

Anonymous said...

I'm not on this let's-all-hate-Tameka-cuz-she's-a-bitter-bitch bandwagon that many of y'all are on. Do we really know what was happening between them behind closed doors? No. The truth is, she represents a lot of bitter and scorned bitches and since I know some of y'all are in the same boat as she is, why isn't there more support for Tameka?

Where's the love among the bitter bitches? Some of y'all sitting on here right now using your children as pawns against your baby daddies but are quick to judge Tameka for doing the same shit. Whatever.

Anonymous said...

@6:20PM My point didn't lack logic. You tried to imply that Tameka is a better choice, when it's been proven she uses nannies too. Her friend even testified she leaves her kids with other people for days at a time. So how are the kids better off with her? Since he has full custody now, his schedule may totally change. He has enough money and power to work as flexible as he wants to. It's not fair to assume the worst about Usher as a dad and think that nanny will raising his kids most of the time.

Anonymous said...

Well she won't be traveling to St. barts on Usher's dime anymore! I'm glad Usher got his boys. HAMeka sit.

Brando said...

Regardless of what I've heard about tameka I can't be happy about this. She lost her son and now her 2 boys ..I don't know all the details as none of us really do but I wish they could've agreed on the 50/50 thing smh

Anonymous said...

A lot of judges are no longer assuming that the mother should automatically get custody of children over a certain age. Ladies when you pick men to have children with please keep this in mind. If the man you've decided to bear children with plays video games 24/7, is lazy, smokes weed, and never contributes to the house hold maybe you should consider this because there's no guarantee you will get custody if your relationship doesn't last.

Anonymous said...

Excuse me I keep reading about how Tameka needs to go get a job. Isn't she was/is a top hair stylist? I remembered that she used to do Patti LaBelle's hair. When she was getting ready to marry Usher, Patti sent a very expensive necklace for her to wear on her wedding day?

Anonymous said...



A lot of judges are no longer assuming that the mother should automatically get custody of children over a certain age. Ladies when you pick men to have children with please keep this in mind. If the man you've decided to bear children with plays video games 24/7, is lazy, smokes weed, and never contributes to the house hold maybe you should consider this because there's no guarantee you will get custody if your relationship doesn't last.

EXACTLY...THEN THAT BUM WILL BE THE INFLUENCE IN YOUR CHILD'S LIFE...LOOK DEEP BEFORE YOU LEAP!

Anonymous said...

@7:11
I hear you but my stance is that a parent's love and affection will (should) trump a nanny's. Many households can't afford to have one parent stay home and raise the children, however, if they could, that would be ideal over allowing the nanny to do the job of a parent. I still think Tameka would be the better choice over leaving the boys with a nanny or grandparent.

Anonymous said...

I am burning all my usher cds. You can't take a child away from their mother after they just lost a child. He and the judge is a bitch.

IAINTMADATCHA said...

Something must be seriously wrong with Tameka. Judges very rarely take custody away from a mother. This is just sad on all kinds of levels. At least she got the Saks discount card. SMFH!

Anonymous said...

7:18 has Tameka worked since she was with usher though? I'm talking a real job

Anonymous said...

1st 7:30 you're a dummy, their custody battle started before Tameka's son died, what was Usher suppose to do? Just roll over and give up all his rights to Tameka because she just lost a child? How is that fair to him? Those are his kids too, he has just as much rights to them as Tameka did. Just because she's the mother doesn't mean she's more fit, and obviously the judge didn't think so.

Anonymous said...

KARMA BITCHES!!

Tameka...you are a horrible person, parent...and placed your claws in that young boy...and now..you loose you children who you wanted to be your meal ticket...HAAAAAAAAAAA

Anonymous said...

716 IS ON POINT.............

Anonymous said...

@5:54 Why the fuck you worried about what we complain about. It's a blog. Take your ass on over to CRISTIANSRUS & you dont have to read what we are complaining about. Fucking blog police up in err day starting to get on my last fucking NERVE!!

Anonymous said...

MEEEK where you at? No slick cryptic messages on twitter today? The judge done shut your shit down. Move the fuck out & don't take shit that you didn't pay for. KARMA HAS COME FOR YOU.

Anonymous said...

Does she still get to keep the Saks credit card?

Anonymous said...

Tameka are you there? This is the one time that we are waiting to here from you. Hurry up your 15 minutes just about over. KARMA Is waiting..........

Anonymous said...

Hey Meek, You think you first husband will take you back? NOT!!!! Do you have to pay him child support? Will you have to pay Ursh child support? If not, you should. Be a responsible parent & pay on time. You know, all the same shit that you were asking for. You get to give it. KARMA IS SUCH A MOTHERFUCKER

Soulwriter said...

When I was getting divorced from my son's father, my attorney told me that when the children are young, primary custody is typically awarded to the mother UNLESS she's proven unstable/unfit. In my case, I proved with medical evidence that his father suffered from recurring depression b/c he wouldn't take his medication regularly, among other issues, so I was given sole custody. He still gets the standard visitation access to school and medical records, etc., but he resides with me and cannot change school enrollment, give permission for surgery, take him out of state without prior notice. etc. From what I've seen of Tameka, she was being petty, bitter and vindictive and probably didn't follow a lot of the judge's orders/suggestions, so the father was given the custody rights. If she didn't heed her attorney's warnings or have enough sense to act like an adult, it was for the best as far as the children. Do I like seeing another mother suffer back-to-back losses? Of course not. But a lot of these wounds are self-inflicted and Tameka needs to stop licking them in public and get her act together. Money can only get one so far.

Anonymous said...

Lmao who cares about That chick karma is a beast and it bit her in the ass.

Anonymous said...

For all you haters, it has nothing to do with a better parent. It is politics. I saw my friend get caught up in it. Stop hating these are human beings that you are talking about. Someone's sister, mother, and friend.

Anonymous said...

Tameka, remember when you came on the Wendy Williams radio show to air out Usher's dirty laundry? Not to long after that he married you.
You thought you were the hustler and you made a big score. Uh uh baby girl you got hustled, big time.

Anonymous said...

Ok I'm back. I went over to AUNT SANDY'S on the advice of @ Fed up. AUNT SANDY thinks that Tamika will not have to pay support because she does not have any money.

Anonymous said...

@9:03 Who tha fuck you calling a hater? Take your ass on over to #CHRITIANSRUS. Tameka take your meds & leave s the fuck alone. Go tell that shit to the judge. You took the 50/50 agreement. You fucked up. & you know it.

Anonymous said...

I'm going over to the chicken wing post. Call me when Tameka putts out a tweet or kills herself.

Anonymous said...

7:08 YOU'RE the dummy. So trifling when idiots think they have sense. Don't forget they were MARRIED. She still has to take care of them to an extent. And she still has the right to an appeal. Get a CLUE and a grip.

Anonymous said...

Will some one go over to Aunt SANDY'S to see if her old tires ass is still up. Ask her, who is paying Tameka's legal fees? Aunt Sandy has the answers. I just can't put p with her geriatric crew over there all off topic & shit.

Anonymous said...

@9:40 why so upset? Did you lose your kids?

Anonymous said...

My spelling is a little off tonight. Blame it on the liquor

Anonymous said...

You have to admit. Those are some gorgeous little boys.

Anonymous said...

The money just left the building on Tameka. What a befitting name: Tameka.

Ratchet HoodRat said...

@9:49 yaasss bish, those hookers in sandy rose comment section STAY off topic!! its ok every once in a while to stray from the topic but those old ass moth ball smelling ass dykes get on my nerves with it. They be tawn' bout school clothes, cell phone bills, getting off work and all kinds of dumb shit.. UGH!! I rarely ever read her comment section but lets stay on topic, something the RWS family are very capable of

I think karma got this bitch right where it was supposed to. The universe is a muthafucka and it makes good on its promises. First, it took her son, and now her 2 boys. Usher also got the ruling to make tameka show the house so he can sell it. she will end up in an atlanta 900/month 2 bdrm apartment somewhere but i bet that bitch pay that internet bill so she can tweet all day.
Usher deserved custody, tameka is a callous, vindictive, evil bitch and trust bitches, I seen her in action! I was at the movies back when madea goes to jail or some dumb shit came out...cant even really remember which movie it was but tamkea was there with muthafuckin SECURITY and 2 friends, the line was hella long and this BITCH thought she was a celebrity and strolled her way to the front and i'll be damned if they didnt let her funky ass in and she paid at the window. Its not like she paid in advance to be able to hop like that, and that slut ass bitch did NOT need security, who checkin for that ugly ass broad? in the court documents usher did say tameka was seeking celebrity status and he aint NEVA lied about that

as for that card, who in the fuck is she styling, nobody wants to be styled by that ratchet ass, evil ass bitch!
I love me some karma yassss revenge is best served COLD!! YASSS!!

Ratchet HoodRat said...

@9:59 she still has her Kile fund, her other fund for teenagers, that rinky dink store, and her alimony may still be coming in..not sure about that but she will need to cut back hahahahahahahahah *points n laughs at tameka**LOL LOl

Anonymous said...

All u assholes talking aboout karma and never studied buddism or hinduism just talkin shit. How is Kyles death and her losing custody her karma. Kiles death was the worse for Kile he is the one that lost his life and he DID NOT deserve to die. Those little boys Urshers sons need their mother and don't forget they lost Kile too. Something about this verdict seems unfair and too much for one woman to deal with. Like James said "Dam dam dam dam dam!

Anonymous said...

This has me in tears, how much more can this woman go through? My heart aches for her and I hope she finds strength and comfort.

This is so sad....

Anonymous said...

I keep telling my brother to get full custudy of my niece she's been with him 3 months straight...long of the short fellas take care of your kids get full custody if a bicth aint shit but that's to much like right #slowbrain

Anonymous said...

Custody

Anonymous said...

YOU DON'T NEED TO STUDY Buddhism to understand karma!!!!!That is so dumb !So I have to study politics to understand the law?????I have to study economics to understand the money in my wallet? lol

Anonymous said...


How is Kyles death and her losing custody her karma. Kiles death was the worse for Kile he is the one that lost his life and he DID NOT deserve to die.
........................
She made a bad choice to leave her son with an irresponsible dad,if her son was watched closer he would have not died.A good parent FORSEE'S an accident,MOST OF THE TIME.Why were her son and another kid playing in the water NEAR a motorboat,THAT LATER KILLED HIM?????The dad was not a watchful parent and Tameka should have known this...MOTHERS INSTINCT SHE SEEMS TO LACK...I'm glad she lost custody! ..NO ONE SAID KYLE DESERVED TO DIE!R.I.P.

Anonymous said...

Don't recall reading the name of the man pulling Tameka's son Kyle behind the boat. Still it was reckless behavior and Usher should fear for the safety of his two sons if Tameka allowed one of her male companions to exhibit this kind of behavior that led to the tragic death of her son. So glad Usher got custody of his sons since he has the ability to support them. Tameka's scheme to separate Usher from his money backfired big time.Maybe she'll have to do what the rest of us have to do....work!

Anonymous said...

R IN NYC SAYS:

WOW, I'm stunned. The look on Usher's face in that pic says it all.

Anonymous said...

Ha ha no child support... I didn't know she had two older sons taken from her as well. That itself should say something about her.

Anonymous said...

So what's next for Tameka......losing her house? running after another young dude to replace the money she's going to lose? a nervous breakdown?

stayed tuned.....

Anonymous said...

People have a problem with a mother losing full custody of her kids, yet fathers sometimes good fathers lose full custody of their kids everyday and yet no one has a problem with it, as a matter of fact it's looked at as the norm. Fathers have just as much rights to their kids as mothers. Obviously for one reason or another the court felt like the kids would be better off with their father. So case closed if yall don't like it too damn bad!
6:11 PM


I completely agree.

I find it kinda funny that Tameka's blog warriors are going around the black internets to chastise her detractors, when she barely ever publicly acknowledged her OTHER children from a previous marriage/relationship.

No it's nothing to be gleeful over (except maybe for the father's rights advocates) because she will always have all of her children, but she caused some of this mess. She STAYED on social media, twuggin' (twitter thuggin'), talking about what she shopping for, what her now ex is up to, when she SHOULD have been tending to her children and her "career" (WETF that is).

And what's the big deal over nannies? You can pretty much guarantee that nannies have been in the picture since the births so nannies will step in when Usher goes to work (touring), just like I'm sure nannies cared for the children when Tameka was "working".

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...
I am burning all my usher cds. You can't take a child away from their mother after they just lost a child. He and the judge is a bitch.
7:30 PM

******

You are seriously retarded. For real, for real. Are you Tameka? You're about as nutty as her bitch ass.

Anonymous said...

#TeamTameka - when you look in the mirror , thats called #BitterBitchFace

Anonymous said...

sad....sorry but as a Daddy,I would never ever take my kids from their mother. I get Tameka not the best,but in truth....alot of her shit is stuff he knew about when he laid down with her to make the kids. Usher only want them back because he see he gonna have to pay. Which is what Wade and alot of rich daddies is doing. Does it make the child better. Maybe ,maybe not.
But its just sad....this is further tramatizing the kids he claims he loves. Because you know he gonna play the games with her and her visitation rights. Using your kids as a pawn is not good.....yeah,Tameka did it. But it sounds like Usher getting ready to do it too,Just like that Manbitch Dwayne Wade. Dont make them good daddies,just shows that they cheap ass is more concerned with their pockets.I hope both of em live to regret their choices...because when the babies grow up....like Steve Harvey's rebelling son.....they gonna see them for what they really are.

Anonymous said...

Usher lookin Happier than a sissy in a hot dog factory...........

Anonymous said...

LMFAO @1:57 AM

Anonymous said...

Some of you people posting should read your statements. I.E. I would not take the kids from their mother no matter what. Even if the mother is a druggie, neglectful, uncaring, deranged, just out and out trifling or just simply a bad person. Therefore, the poor innocent children that enter the world through a bad person have to suffer because she is their mother. Why not you make statements based on some facts, logic, rhyme or reason and not just some dumb bullshit? It is just sickening reading some of some statements that make absolutely no sense. However, come to think of it, our community is in the shambles that it is based on this type of thinking. Our community needs to go to school and get some education. Based on what I read here it is worst than I thought.

Anonymous said...

money can buy you any judge/court and media. I am sorry she lost her kids..its so sad. I wish they could work out at least a 50/50 split. Why take her kids? Will they be on tour with him?

Anonymous said...

It is a well known fact, that fathers are a rarity in the black community, so a black father who actually wants to be a father should be commended.

Anonymous said...

I'm trying to understand how people think that just because a woman gives birth to a child means that the father is less capable to raise them? Apparently, in the black community, we feel that black men can't do sh@T! I feel bad that those who post who think they KNOW both parties personally are OBVIOUSLY biased on one side or the other... I know a few black men who have raised their children where the women were not capable, willing, or able to do so.... this is really sad cause the children are the ones who will bear the burdon of dumb @ss bloggers like the ones on here who truly could care less...THE JUDGE OBVIOUSLY FELT THAT HE DESERVED THEM OVER THE MOTHER....for women who like to spread their legs in hope of tying down a man...think about that ;)

Nola said...

OMG !!!!!! He's Money got him his Kids . I feel sorry for Tameka .

Anonymous said...

If Usher was a deadbeat who wanted nothing to do with his son's, some of you bitter bitches would be in here complaining about that. Usher can't win for losing. All you brand new Tameka stans explain to me this, how come she lost custody of her other son's to her ex husband who wasn't rich or famous?... Obviously theres more to this story that us public doesn't know about Tameka and her mothering skills or lack there of. Usher tried to do the right thing and have a 50/50 split custody but Tameka didn't want it, she wanted those child support checks instead.

Its important for young boys to have their fathers in their lives anyway, its not like Tameka will never ever see her son's ever again she still has some rights, but Usher has full custody.

Anonymous said...

THE CUSTODY BATTLE WAS RIGGED.....
USHER PUT UP SOME BIG MONEY FOR THIS WIN...
I WOULD NOT BE SURPRISED IF HE HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH TEMEKA'S OTHER LOSS....

Nola said...

@3:52pm Stunned , How does this happen in America?
_________________________________________

From reading the testimony given against Tameka ..I did not read any clear cut case of her being an Unfit mother are abusive or neglectful in anyway ....All the testimony given by everyone on the stand , they all seemed to be taken by Usher's celcebrity. An were quick to turn on the mother in court .

Tameka must be an emotional wreck . WoW one parent having more money can get your kids taken from you . Those kids are going to cry when they realize , they're not seeing there mother everyday .

Money... that's all i can say about this .

Anonymous said...

Good. Usher just got tired of this elderly hoodrat using him as an ATM.
WTF does Tameka need nannies for???? WTF does she need to live in a mansion for???
She duped Usher by having his FIRST kids (thats right Tameka, he WILL have other kids) so she thought she ran things...wrong b*tch.
Now move on Tameka and get a JOB. You thought you could live off Usher, with yo ugly, crunch, Black ass--WRONG. YOu just got served!!

Anonymous said...

crunchy^^^

Anonymous said...

Tameka just ran around having random babies and didnt care about any of them-------until she hit the jackpot (or so she thought) with Usher.
Now all of a sudden shes mother of the year?
GTFOH. If she loved kids so much, why didnt she sue the other fathers for a mansion, Saks card, etc?
She's a money hungry, over the hill, ugly woman who got what she deserved. God took her 1 child, but she's so money hungry, she didn't want time off to greive.
Karma is a B**ch.
Congrats Usher.

Anonymous said...

Tameka looks like a wilderbeast. She styles others, but can't style herself???
Your money train has made its last stop Tameka, now you have to work for a living.
sucks being you!

Anonymous said...

Tameka thinks that Cecil B. DeMille will be calling her for some close-up shots. She is one of the most delusional women that I have read about in a long time. All you have to do is tell some lies here and then you fake out this person there and then you get pregnant, have a baby and then you can be rich and famous. Her whole way of thinking is turned upside down and wrong. She truly is a sociopath. Boys need their father, look at the recent harvest all these single mothers have turned out lately. More than 55% of young black male do not even finish high school in this high tech world that we live in today. Our community has the highest percentage ratings in all the negative categories in today’s world. Tameka has no experience in raising children, why should Usher leave his sons lives to chance. Congrats, to you Usher!

Anonymous said...

I see Usher's paid bloggers are working it!!!

j. said...

@3:50am All Y'all Bit@h's on here are GROUPIE FANS OF USHER'S AN WERE SICK WITH JEALOUSY OF TAMEKA....BEAUSE ALL OF YOU SOME MEN INCLUDED WISH YOU COULD GET WITH HIM . YOU ARE THE ONES THAT ARE DELUSIONAL.

And all this about Usher will have more kids..Well he better watch out ....because all these..other woman including....the woman he is dating now ....All want Tameka's lifestyle ...there just going to game on Usher to HAVE A CHILD FOR A CHECK . Tameka was his wife and the mother of his kids ..that does not constitute her as a golddigger !

Anonymous said...

NO MATTER WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF TEMEKA, SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE LOST FULL CUSTODY OF HER KIDS.
ITS CLEAR THAT USHER GOT FULL CUSTODY BECAUSE HE PULLED SOME STRINGS. PAY OFF'S CONNECTIONS.
LETS NOT FOR GET THE FACTS THAT USHER IS PART OF THE DOWNLOW-ILLUMINATI CLICK
TAMEKA WAS FIGHTING AGAINST FORCES TOO STRONG FOR HER
AND THE SAME FORCES GUIDED BY USHER ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR TAMEKA'S OTHER LOSS...

Anonymous said...

FRET NOT THEYSELF BECAUSE OF EVILDOERS, NEITHER BE THOU ENVIOUS AGAINST THE WORKERS OF INIQUITY. FOR THEY SHALL SOON BE CUT DOWN LIKE THE GRASS, AND WITHER AS THE GREEN HERB.

IF ANY OF THIS IS TRUE THE RATH OF GOD ALMIGHTY WILL SURELY PUNISH THE WICKED PARTY...

TAMEKA GOD ALMIGHT IS THE LAST JUDGE AND JURY
STOP FIGHTING BY YOURSELF AND CALL ON THE MOST HIGH IN JESUS NAME!!!!!

YOU WILL GET YOUR CHILDREN BACK.

BLUEBUNNY said...

The first husband has custody of the children, of course, because she abandoned them for Usher. She got pregnant by Usher for the lifestyle perks and to collect checks if things didn't work out. She thought she was all that and her true ugliness came out and Usher left that shit. All that boasting on twitter about how many stacks she gets in child support and the Grace debacle, CAUSED USHER TO MAN UP and decide not to be used as a pawn.
If the dummy was smart, during the divorce proceedings she should've negotiated a home that she owns to rear the children.Also she should've taken the primary custody and a moderate increase in child support offer from Usher after Kyle's death. When you get too greedy, you end up with nothing.

Anonymous said...

Well what is also sad .Is Tameka's kids will be around Grace all the time more then her . Grace the woman that had an affair with Usher an played the friend to Tameka while they were married .

Anonymous said...

Does that mean Tameka still get's child support????????

Anonymous said...

@1:51,

That is because you are a REAL MAN and not too many of those left.

nola said...

@1:51am My the church say ...Amen !

Anonymous said...

@7:58am typo... may

STOP SHAWN said...



Most woman don't respect the bible or koran thoroughly, they still manage to forget (order), a five letter word above a curse. without order you will be blessed with curses. PEACE, LOVE and Happiness.

Anonymous said...

Black people are the reason why the race has so many issues. I could never support usher music. i can't even look at this clown. Just another example of why the race is sooo fucked up. you can't even trust your black coworkers. you out for one day and the blacks work on trying to screw you over. all you can do if make them look like the haters that they are.

Anonymous said...

At 512pm

Men should not have primary custody of kids. It is unnatural. Don't believe me? Get educated: http://dastardlydads.blogspot.com/

"Contrary to fathers' rights propaganda, father perpetrators (along with stepdads and caretaker boyfrends) dominate the most vicious crimes against children: sexual assault, abusive head trauma, murder-suicides, crimes involving gun violence, and other similar forms of physically violent/fatal child abuse. And as more dads are providing child care (either because mom is working and can't find other care, or because dads are increasingly getting unsupervised visitation/custody through the family courts), more dads are are being found guilty of basic child abuse and neglect as well."

Anonymous said...

You can still be a father w/o full custody. Yes Karma is real and all the Bitter Betty's who are happy to see someone else suffer -- it's already coming back on ya. As far as we know she has not been proven unfit, abusive or neglectful. Bet your broke asses will be in a worst position next year. And 9:52 I have something called COMPASSION. Do you???

Anonymous said...

@12:09 there was a lot of negligence by adults out there on that water that fateful day, but no one is talking about it.

Anonymous said...

Anyone who laughs at a woman getting her child taken are sick people and heartless... this is why the world is broken ________________________________________________
Don't be mad at Usher be mad at yourself and home girls. Republicans are tired of taking care of lazy ass women. They feel if a man wants his children and can prove he is wordy of caring for them why not give him the kids. That way the tax payer don't have to pay for a lot of government funding program. I got custody of my kids. I founght long and hard for them but my ex-wife was contend with collecting a check. I on the other hand worked 2 jobs and a partime student. I paid day care and insurance. I never ask to be on any program offered by the government, so I was looked at as being an assect to the system rather than a libility. So women it may not happen to you yet but you better believe it will happen to someone you know. Everyday day men are fighting for their kids and winning.

Anonymous said...

10.13
stfu and grow some balls. you sound like a typical bitch ass black man. White people can't wait to hang your black ass from a tree and i'm starting to not care.

Anonymous said...

Whatever, Tameka. Meet another celebrity, make more babies.

Anonymous said...

Can someone get a honest interview with Tameka....about all of this .

Anonymous said...

...Republicans are tired of taking care of lazy ass women. 10:13 AM

^You're right. They prefer corporate welfare recipients.

Anonymous said...

She must be mad right now ..an crying up a storm .

Anonymous said...

@10:13 am
cosign. everyone keeps pointing at black men and blaming them for all of the problems in the black community. So when the court sees an economically stable black man willing to pour a lot of money into getting his kids, ESPECIALLY if they are BOYS, the court will take that into consideration. The courts rather that the father raise the sons into being responsible. A mother can raise a good son but only another man can teach him how to be a leader and a father.

A good friend of mine, black man, got full custody of his kids without a fuss from his ex-wife. She preferred to party anyway. He is raising 4 children on his own. They started with joint custody and because she messed up during the divorce proceedings by trying to be slick, she got nothing.

Anonymous said...

10:13 I'm far from the grammar police but not only do u not make sense you can't spell "can prove he is wordy" (worthy is the correct term)

Stop worrying about what Republicans think and get u an education. They probably don't think too highly of dumb folk. It takes a village to raise a child, not one busy touring parent.

Anonymous said...

Men should not have primary custody of kids. It is unnatural. Don't believe me? Get educated: http://dastardlydads.blogspot.com/

"Contrary to fathers' rights propaganda,

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Like THIS isn't propaganda to demonize all fathers? Mothers can be just as cruel, decapitating their childrens' heads, locking them in hot cars, strapping them in cars and driving them into lakes. The list goes on...

This is the biggest bunch of bullshit I've every read. People up in here are too emotional (and delusional) over people they don't know.

Anonymous said...

Can She appeal the ruling based on the Usher “recording” and find that they ruled unfairly?

Anonymous said...

6:32 AM, Please stop it with that foolishness. She already had children, but apparently they weren't good enough for her because their father's name isn't Usher Raymond. She turned her back on them and bed, bred, and wed with Usher. Her choices came with a price that was out of reach for her. That's almost like leasing a new car instead of appreciating the old one you own and is still in good shape.

Anonymous said...

Nobody knows for sure what happened in her first relationship. Not a Tameka fan but everybody is looking for love, everybody. When she found Usher she did what many fools in love do, she went for it. To judge her when u woulda probly done the same is shameful.

Anonymous said...

i spreads my legs and i gives away my kids to they daddies cause i dont gots no paitents to deal with them at lease i dont abort them.

Anonymous said...

12:05 I hope these men took DNA tests before you gave them the kids.

Anonymous said...

@11:03 zing!

Anonymous said...

I keep telling women to stay away from these sorry ass black men. They are very abusive towards their own race. They have no sense of family. You give them losers a dollar and they will destroy the world. I will never vote for a black man president in my life.

Anonymous said...

Maybe now Tameka will keep her gangsta ass off Twitter.

Have y'all forgot her first husband had won custody of her other sons? So why are y'all feeling sorry for an unfit repeat mother? Now will someone spill the tea about why she lost custody of her older kids.

She'll find anither hustle soon....like a white man.

Anonymous said...

9:24 did you just say its not natural for men to have full custody and raise their kids? WTF I can't even deal with that statement

yeah because all mothers are great parents and providers and never do wrong yeah ok does the name Casey Anthony ring a bell.

Anonymous said...

@12:26 Oh shut the hell up troll, on how abusive black men are. White men abused an whole nation. Go get some psychotherapy on your issues.

Anonymous said...

Bitch stays losing, she lost all her kids in a matter of months!

Anonymous said...

All those black hood rat mothers do is curse, beat their children something terrible, and beg their baby daddies to come for a sleep over. Stay losing, the only game they know. Then they have the audacity to talk about a mother's love. FOH

Anonymous said...

to 3:52.....
this happens in America b/c we have a very good court system. she has mental problems and should not be raising kids. Usher is the better parent so he got them....some judges just think all kids should be with the mama...not all mamas are good.....susan smith comes to mind...not saying she is like susan smith ,....just that all moms should not have the kids just b/c they are a woman!!!

Anonymous said...

A loving mother just decapitated her beautiful son. Is there any mother's love around this situation?

Anonymous said...

@3:00 Thank you. In fact, there are abusive men AND women of all races.

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