Saturday, September 22, 2012

Tameka's Turn to Talk


Usher Raymond sat down with Oprah to tell his side of the messy Raymond vs Raymond child custody battle with his ex-wife Tameka Raymond and now Tameka is going to have her say...

Tameka sits down for a three part interview with Entertainment Tonight starting Monday night and it's supposed to be no holds barred.

Tameka gives a tour of the home she shared with Usher, talks about the loss of her son Kile, and reveals information she believes could have swayed the child custody case in her favor had it come out in court.

Tameka is currently appealing the ruling that stripped her of primary custody of her two sons with Usher.

85 comments:

RubyNick said...

i truly wish this lady would have a row of seats. no one cares about u and Usher anymore boo. move on.

Anonymous said...

Oh no!!

Tracy said...

I'M not watching that bull! Usher and Tameka are both wicked, evil and liars.

YOU CAN NOT "TRUST" THESE KIND OF PEOPLE OR WHAT THEY SAY.

Anonymous said...

You all need to stfu, especially RubyNick. This woman's kids are involved and she need to get her side of the story out there. Oprah should have interview both, she would have got the same ratings had she done that. Don't be f*cking bias bitches

Anonymous said...

Thank you 8:46!

Anonymous said...

I don't see how you lose someone so close to you and just jump back into things as if nothing happened. Yes I am talking about tameka, rihanna and bobbi kris. I am starting to believe the sacrifice theory...

Anonymous said...

YAWN

Anonymous said...

@8:21 I care and you care bitch thats why your commenting

Anonymous said...

Really Tameka? Why does she not realize that she is a behind the scenes person? I could understand if she was an actor, singer, i.e. public persona celebrity. Why does she feel the need to broadcast her life to the world when nobody gives a fuck? Didn't she get enough evidence after the media sent condolences to Usher and not her.

Anonymous said...

You stankin funky dick sucking Hoes can go lick a Ass and suck a Dick. If you dumb lonely bitter bitches want to watch that bitch hoe watch it!!

Don't nobody give a flying fuck about this trick or her kids.

Anonymous said...

I'm starting to think Usher and Tameka were perfect for each other...if Usher were to go back to Tameka, she would accept him with open legs.

Anonymous said...

This needs to stop. What makes her think we need to hear her story. There are more pressing issues in the world like war, poverty, hunger and terrorism. Tameka's side of the the story isn't on Anybobies radar. She should have a seat and enjoy visitation with her boys and heal from her tragic
Loss.

Anonymous said...

Good. I'm glad she's able to tell her side of story and I'll be watching.

Anonymous said...

@8:46 pm. STFU.

Why weren't your ass on the sideline cheering for her when the judge ordered custody of her other kids to her 1 st husband?

And now she's lost custody to her 2 nd husband, this must tell us Tameka has a very deep dark secret in her closet. She's not telling all to Entertainment Tonight, fear of risking Usher leaking her secret

Anonymous said...

@8:46

Oprah doesn't have to do shit. Why would she waste her show on a NOBODY? She's in the business of ratings not fulfilling the wishes of basic bitches.

Anonymous said...

It's funny to me we were riding Tamekas ass into the ground all of these years all of a sudden now there is a Maneka Fan Club wilding out in every post.

Anonymous said...

RubyNick said...
i truly wish this lady would have a row of seats. no one cares about u and Usher anymore boo. move on.
8:21 PM
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Apparently Entertainment Tonight does.



Anonymous said...
I don't see how you lose someone so close to you and just jump back into things as if nothing happened. Yes I am talking about tameka, rihanna and bobbi kris. I am starting to believe the sacrifice theory...
9:41 PM
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And you know this how? I see...only what you see on Twitter, TV, and the internet constitutes these people's entire lives right? *rolls eyes*

Anonymous said...

It's funny to me we were riding Tamekas ass into the ground all of these years all of a sudden now there is a Maneka Fan Club wilding out in every post.
11:39 PM


Black people are extremely wishy washy and simple minded. They hate you one minute and stan for you the next. As a race they are the most inconsistent, inept and dysfunctional ethnicity on the face of the Earth.

Anonymous said...

I just see two nasty people going at each others throats. They deserve each other!

Anonymous said...

Tameka is a waste of flesh and air. She needs to go back to Oakland and be with her drug traffickers. There was no money, so she didn't fight for her other sons and gladly gave Ryan custody of them. She does not like children; she uses them for a meal ticket nothing more. Tameka is not fazed by Kiles death. She needs to be confined to a mental institution. How much of her illicit story is she going to share? Will she talk about how she committed adultery, her criminal record or how much money she collected thru the Kile Foundation? She’s a diabolical bottom feeder that should be put out of her misery.

Anonymous said...

I wish these "celebs" would stop publicizing their private and personal matters/issues.

She looks very pretty in that picture!

Anonymous said...

Ok shud b v intersting - the saga continues...

Anonymous said...

@ 8:46
The reason her kids are involed is because she continues to put them in the mix.
She didn't lose her kids,they mainly live with Usher.Tameka has access to her kids.As the story said,she'll give a tour of the house she once shared with Usher.
This is all about Tameka.

Bee Gee said...

"..talks about the loss of her son Kile.."

Tears of a crocodile in about 3..2..1..

Anonymous said...

@2:57 Very well said You Summed it up Perfectly!

Anonymous said...

Tameka has a right to fight for her kids. If usher was planning on doing things this way, then he should have had kids by a crack head. You just can't sue for full custody without a fight. If I went through what Tameka went through and then have to deal with Usher shit. That mother fucker wouldn't live to see the next day. Sounds like a bunch of bitter ass men and hateful women on this board.

Anonymous said...

I'll be watching!

Bee Gee said...

I think the children should be with their mother, but anybody that can't see Tameka has just as much interest (if not more) in fame and notoriety as she has in her children, probably needs to take a step back and look a her again. There's a genuine quality that's missing from her and most people see that shit with no problem. She's one of them moms that will tell their child "Well I have to have a damn life too!" when the child complains about wanting to spend time with mommy. All the tell-tale signs are there and many of her actions in the past wreak of the type of mother that she was painted to be in court. Why you think it was so easy to make the judge believe the profile they presented of her? The shit aint hard to see. Maybe in the future she can regain custody - but I honestly think that if those kids weren't the seed of a famous/wealthy celebrity like Ursher, Tameka wouldn't have nearly as much "fight". To each his own opinion - She got a lotta reptile (crocodile, snake, chameleon) in her IMHO..

Anonymous said...

I get what you saying. But, if Usher was sane he would never have put his kids through this. Tameka would never hurt those kids.

Anonymous said...

Maybe Usher will start a trend and more men will fight for their kids. It is not like she doesn't see them. They are boys and I think once boy children start talking they need to be with dad as much as possible.

What is wrong with a father having custody of his kids. If I were I would not trust that tv show. This could bite her in the ass. She just need to focus on herself for a minute.

Anonymous said...

10.29
i would trust the t.v. show more then i would you.
when did men become such bitches. you suppose to provide for your family not tear it apart.

Anonymous said...

I'm waiting on Snitch to post what Rohan Marley said in reply to Wyclef's fuckery and lies. Rohan should knock his lying ass out. I don't even like Rohan like that, but Wyclef is dragging Lauryn and her innocent son through mud to sell a wack ass book. Wyclef is the lowest of the low. Judging by The Sweetest Thing video, Lauryn knew exactly who the father of her child was/is at that time. Zion will grow up to read this mess one day, if he isn't internet savy already. I can't stand Wyclef, he's the true definition of a snake ass nigga. There was no need for him to put that bs out there for the world to know. Fuck Wyclef he can take his book and shove it up his funky ass!!!

Anonymous said...

^ Typos... *Is/was and *Savvy

Anonymous said...

TEAM FATHERHOOD! And I will be watching and commenting here as well.

Anonymous said...

Wow! A lot of ignorant mofos posting on here. This woman lost her son and custody or her other two sons. She has every right to speak about the loses she has experienced. Everyone has a story to tell and she's very fortunate to have the platform to share hers. Usher is trife and if she wants the world to know then let her. Some of you fools obviously have never experienced any loses in your lives and if that's the case then consider yourselves lucky. It may be therapeutic for her to tell story and if you don't like it, don't watch it.

Anonymous said...

You made some good points BeeGee. No she aint innocent neither. But she aint the only selfish mom in the world. And they don't lost their kids. And Ush seems just as selfish. They should've gone for joint custody and called it a day. I think the 'primary' custody is what burns most folks, knowing how busy this man's schedule is.

Anonymous said...

Can someone please tell me, what makes this woman such a Devil?
Is because she did what millions of men do each and everyday by leaving her spouse for another? And why do ppl keep saying she gave up custody of her older sons? Didnt they live with her and Usher? How do we know it wasnt the kids choice to spend more time with their father? What else makes Tameka unfit?
Because she tweets alot? Because she has a Saks card?
From what I could see, her cute little boys were always well fed And dressed really nice. I never heard any stories of her partying And bringing strange men around her boys, never heard anything about them in danger or being neglected. In fact, isnt she keen And openly concerned about who her children are around and wanted their father drug tested? Please, Please PLEASE tell me why this woman deserved to have her children taken by a Father who is a traveling entertainer that cannot tend to them and give them the proper amount of parent time?
I despise Usher. This whole ordeal is just plain spiteful, it has nothing to do with him being a devoted father and those poor kids are already suffering in a way that material shit cannot fix

Anonymous said...

Oj Simpsons ex wife was a cocaine addict and a partygirl, yet her kids automatically stayed with her after the divorce.
So many women out there doing shameful things NEVER get their kids taken away......I wilk actually sit And wait for a good reason why this women deserved to lose primary custody.
And OH YES, I want to hear HER side of the story, she more than deserves that right.

Anonymous said...

@12:35, GTFOH Tameka abd STFU. How money have you collected from The Kile Foundation?

Anonymous said...

@8:38AM Seems like you posted before your First Hit!

Anonymous said...

1:36, No you STFU And have a __/
Anybody that doesnt side with you animals to attack this woman must be Tameka? Child Please!
And btw Tameka is not the only person in the world who set up a fund for a deceased loved one. Cant you come any better than that? I am still waiting to hear what makes her so evil and unfit to raise her children. When anyone of you can come up with a real answer then by all means lets hear it.
I am not Tameka but I am curious and so far no one can answer the question without railroading the subject

Anonymous said...

12:35

Tameka did not "lose" her children. I don't know why people keep saying that. Usher just has PRIMARY custody. She will see them just as much as she did prior to the court debacle. And what's wrong with his kids traveling with him? Celebrity parents take their children with them everywhere all the time.

Anonymous said...

I have no problem with Tamika. I don't know her to judge her the way the majority judge her as if they once lived with her and toured with Usher, but I truly hope she does not go on tv all bitter and angry. She has every right to tell her story but if it's going to make matters worse just leave it alone. Usher did not dog Tamika on Oprah. He even said he married Tamika because he loved her ( not because she was pregnant) and idk if I believe that. Point is she should have been able to come to peace with that and move on with her life. If she feels she just have to tell her story so be it. I just hope she isn't setting herself up to be crucified making herself look crazy and I hope it is not her intentions to drag Usher through the mud even if he's all she says he is! Grow up people !

Anonymous said...

@12:43

You know what that's true; and do you know why? There are a lot of fathers who don't request that the court give them custody. It could be that they assume that the court is going to give the mother custody or they can't afford a lawyer. But you have many fathers who don't want to be burdened with their children. They would much rather the mother be responsible for them ultimately even if they have 20, 30, or 40% custody. They'll just call the mother and say they can't pick them up that week and weeks turn into months worth of time. They start another family with a new set of kids and walk away from their child from a previous relationship.

Usher did what many men won't do so whether Tameka should have had her custody reduced is a mute point. I would think women would be happy that he had the presence of mind to fight for his children when so many men won't. Usher is their father and has just as much right for full custody as she does. She travels for work just like he does.

Anonymous said...

Tameka didn't lose her kids she has 49% custody the issue at hand is she's probably lost all or part of her child support. They both have nearly equal custody it's just that the State of Georgia considers even 51% custody to be full custody. Is it about her being able to see the kids more often or the fact that she won't be getting any or less child support???

Anonymous said...

2.14
make sense when you fighting for your kids. You both had fun making the kids, why can't you share the kids. Their is nothing great about what Usher is doing.

Anonymous said...

2:14- Usher did what MANY men with MONEY do. Fight for the children to keep the baby mommas from cashing out. He doesn't, or they don't love their kids any more or less than the next dad but they do LOVE their money and will fight you tooth and nail for it ! Let you all tell it they are fighting for the kids...lol jk right ?

Anonymous said...

Tameka is going to give a tour of the house that she will soon be leaving. The court has given her instructions and a time. What does this have to do with the custody case? Tameka can no longer use the guise that she needs the house for the boys. Like Pilar, laying up and spitting out a few babies does not entitle you to the fortune of a man. If you women want so much, why not prepare yourself to compete in the big arena for your own share of the pie. So many of these greedy non-working women look to jump on a man’s back and ride him into the ground. Why have babies, keep your legs closed and work for your own life style and answer to no one. I hope that the judge in this case is sending out a new message to all the hoes looking to rack up from baby spitting. If you have babies, you will raise them according to the lifestyle that you can provide. How hurtful it will be for these children later on when they realize that they were conceived solely for the lifestyle of their loveless mother. I think that 76+% of single parent household speak volumes. Of that 76% apprx. 95+% are on public assistance and living under the poverty line. The fact Tameka reigns as your heroine, tells us about the moral values that speaks here. The word mother does not automatically translate into a loving nurturing caring parent.

Anonymous said...

1:59 pm sure there is nothing wrong with taking your kids in the road but as a single parent that has 85% of his time on an airplane, doing interviews, making numerous appearances, fans, entourage, groupies, etc---why would a judge reward primary custody to this when the mother is much more stable and available?
It makes absolutely NO sense if Tameka is not proven beyond a doubt to be unfit and physically/mentally unable to to have primary custody. She carried those children, she nursed them and birthed them.....children BELONG WITH THIER MOTHER unless proven otherwise. I understand if one parent isnt available or there is no other choice for children forced to live life on the road..then I could understand.
But that is not a grounded, healthy lifestyle for the children and Usher is gonna pay (no pun intended) dearly for his cunt antics.

Anonymous said...

10:07 PM relax hoe, not that serious !!!!

Anonymous said...

10:39 PM big dummy husband never primary custody

Anonymous said...

TEAM FATHERHOOD FOREVER! OH HAPPY DAY!

Anonymous said...

But then And again, what makes Tameka an uncaring parent who should not have primary custody of children she carried?
Is anyone gonna answer my question? What makes her such an evil monster, that a highly busy entertainer with an unstable lifestyle gets PRIMARY custody of 2 small children under 8 yrs of age??

Anonymous said...

2:34 What I get from your comments is that women get knocked for the sole purpose of getting a check, who does that?
Do you really believe that women WANT to be stuck alone for the rest of their lives raising children? Nobody gets into a relationship with the intent to divorce or break up, especially women.
Being a wife and mother is a full time job, primary focus SHOULD BE raising healthy well adjusted children and caring for your man, but if things dont work out, the father should always make sure his family is well taken care of but that doesnt mean fighting for primary custody when you know you have a hectic and busy schedule and cant spent quality time making sure their emotional needs are met.

Anonymous said...

Women should keep their legs closed and Blk men need to stop trying smash everything that moves. You guys dont even take time to get to know someone, your main priority is getting a chick alone somewhere to fuck. I hate when you assholes try to play innocent, you know that part of your manhood is based on virility and planting your seed, you subconciosly plan these children and when the deed is done, you get bored and want to move on to the next chick to try and ruin her life. You deserve to have the courts on your ass to make you pay thru your teeth, because you are selfish and irresponsible.

Anonymous said...

#TEAM FATHERHOOD! Criminals do not get custody of their kids.

Anonymous said...

^^^apparently criminals get married and knocked up, though.
Where is the outrage in that? Criminals apparently can get rich blk to marry them, while decent, women are overlooked or not exciting enough. SMH

Anonymous said...

I really dislike the person that goes on about team fatherhood on here. It is team parent hood. In other words both parents are involved in the upbringing of their children. Who ever you are I can tell that you grew up in a single parent household.

Team motherhood because no one can understand the bond between mother child except for mother and child. Team fatherhood because a household is that much stronger with a strong, loving and supportive father and husband. TEAM MOTHER and FATHERHOOD.

Stop being bitter.

Anonymous said...

There are so may reasons this adulterous crook lost custody of her kids but i will just name a few. Every body is not apart of some kind of Conspiracy against this trick.

There was court testimony reported from the Associated Press that this bitch was doing excessive drinking and drugs after a lipo surgery oh i guess the Associated Press is in on the conspiracy too.

A court appointed Guardian AD LITEM testified that Tameka was unfit and unstable to have primary custody of the boys.

11 nannies testified against this skank parental skills and one nannie testified that this hoe left her and the boys in a hot car for 3 hours while Tamonkey was in side at a NBA GAME what a loser! other nannies testified that Tameka stayed in her room all the time and was not caring for the boys on a emotional level etc.

A court appointed "Child Psychologist"
testified that the boys would be in a better and stable environment with their father.

This bitch is unstable and unfit and Usher ani't shit either this bitch was going around telling people that he did not know she had3 kids before he married her or maybe he didn't know because the bitch abandon her kids to get with usher.

THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO TESTIFIED AGAINST THIS MONKEY BITCH AND ALL THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT LYING ON THIS GOLD DIGGING MONKEY.

Anonymous said...

Why would a married woman out there tricking get pregnant for another man? Only Tameka and Patty Baena (Arnold Schwarzenegger broke down jump off) pull this kind of wretched shit. There is a seven yr. difference between Kile and Usher's 1st son and then a one yr. difference between the last two boys. Did Tameka become fertile all of a sudden or was she looking for a new life style. Most crazy women don't make good mothers. You women out there supporting Tameka just make yourselves look low life. It is one thing to support a person but you still have to acknowledge their shortcomings before the world can take you seriously. Supporting blindly sounds like Jim Jones and that Kool Aid drinking crowd.

Anonymous said...

4:18, NEVER EVER heard such nonsense! You must be part of Ushers PR team. When you have money you can buy lies and ppl to get your way. Not buying your drivel for one minute. Sorry.

Anonymous said...

If she is such a bad person than Usher is an even bigger piece of shit than I thought. All the millions of thirsty ass, young women out there to choose from, he chose a middle aged married woman with a past and many miles on her. Thats who he married and thats who he had his firstborn with. He KNEW what he was dealing with.

Anonymous said...

Lol@ Tamonkey! Now thats some funny shit.

TruthBeTold said...

this story is sooooooooo played out

it needed 3 posts total it got about 15 , snitch is reaching

TruthBeTold said...

5:17 men truly are dumb, the sad part is many people probably told him otherwise and his stubborn , proud ass would not listen

Anonymous said...

This bitch shopped around until somebody took pity on her ass.

SHE'S TRYING TO GET EVEN!!

Anonymous said...

The best revenge an ex can get is to be successful without the ex. It's called moving forward and beyond. You can't expect to make a new life crying to Oprah about the life you help burn up. There are no innocent adults involved in this sad tale. There are only innocent children. Strangely enough, she doesn't have custody of any. Notice a pattern? We all heal differently. In the end, I hope she finds her peace after she gets done telling one side of the story to Oprah.

Anonymous said...

Tameka is one crazy bitch and she won't stop, only death will stop her. There are many powerful people invested in Usher and they are not about to let this crazy woman destroy their investment. There is no hope for her, she is too far-gone and beyond help. You can bet your last dollar on the fact that she will be stopped, one way or the other. You have no clue as to the people standing behind Usher; people’s lively hood depends on his success. Tameka is playing with people far out of her league. She will be stopped…

Anonymous said...

@7:32 PM:

I agree, and I wonder how much security is involved, cause crazy don't care about anyone. Crazy kills it's own young and anything in between them. They feel justified in the end. I doubt she quits, and will seek satisfaction in anyway possible.

Anonymous said...

LMAOOO @ TAMONKEY!! YOU ARE SO WRONG FOR THAT!

Anonymous said...

Tameka didn't have custody of her other kids. That is a fact. The woman had five children and doesn't have custody of any of them (RIP Kile). There's something not mentally right with her. For a mother to lose primary custody of her children speaks volumes.

Anyone who can't see that must have their heads checked.

Anonymous said...

@10:28
Here's two suggestions:
1. Don't watch the interview.
2. Search the Cable listings in the TV guide for shows like 'Save the Children' and 'Meet The Press' These news shows broacast poverty, hunger, and terrorism all day long.
1. Pop some popcorn and have a seat.


Anonymous said...

Ok, I didn't proof read before hitting the submit button for my 8:32 post. Here are the corrections:

I meant Broadcast not broacast.
I meant to type 3 instead of 1 for the last suggestion.

Anonymous said...

@4:18

You ain't shit for "Tamonkey". You really ain't.

@5:17

Co-sign.

Anonymous said...

@2:20

No there is nothing great about what Usher is doing but the norm is that most men don't want primary custody and some of those who do are not in a situation to get it anyway.

Anonymous said...

@2:24

Many men who? How many male celebrities do you know that are fighting for primary custody of their children? Most of them don't want to have shit to do with the baby mother and would rather pay to have mother and child stay out of their way.

Anonymous said...

And all of you haters will tune in!!!!

Get him Tameka!! usher ole flamboyant lying @$$ sat on Oprah straight selling fairy tales!!!

If he can tell his side, she should too! Hell his manless mother even was able to tell her side so what is the problem??????

Anonymous said...

Usher is clearly HOT!!!!

Anonymous said...

@8:05 The problem is that there are way too many Hood Rats around running loose on the internet. Your queen Tameka needs a private convention so that the rest of us do not have play audience.

Anonymous said...

in most African cultures, when there is a divorce, the MAN takes the children with him...he takes the money also and the woman is left to start all over again, its not a problem for the mother to see the children, but most men remarry quickly, so a mother figure will be there. I dont see anything wrong with it. it makes sense, instead of trying to get money, they man should just take the children...US is backwards in its thinking like mostly everything else.

Anonymous said...

thats why the aids population is so big. because africa is back wards. why would a women go through all the pain of carrying a child just to give it to the man. who breast feeds. african men treat you like DIRT. so shut u.

Anonymous said...

@ 11:58, Your system is a good one. Don't be fooled by the American black woman, as long as a husband or any man is there bringing in dollars, she is willing to play the loving mother but once the man leaves and the cash flow stops all the loving motherhood cease to exist. She is only interested as long as money flows otherwise she wants to be out there finger popping and hoeing with the rest of her sisters.

Anonymous said...

@2:23 PM Stop stereotyping! This isn't a 'black' woman thing. There's women in other races who act the same way.

You sound like a bro who was in a bad relationship with a black woman that had all of those characteristics that you described in your post and now you're labeling "All" black women. You're such a loser.

You haven't dated "All" the black women in the world and you haven't fathered children with "All" the black women in the world, so therefore, your statement makes no sense.

Maybe you should be more careful with who you chose to lay down with or who you date.

If you like the African customs so much why don't you move to Africa? This is America. We go by American customs.

Anonymous said...

Get yo babies Tameka....fck usher....dont mess with a womans kids

Anonymous said...

That niga knws he doesnt have tme fr his kids he just selfish

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