Thursday, November 08, 2012

Fabolous Explains Why He Won't Marry Emily


Emily Bustamante can wish all she wants but she and Fabolous are not getting married.

At least not for now...

Fab explains why marriage is not for him telling radio jock Combat Jack,
"I don't think marriage is in the future for me right now. I just really don't. And the thing about marriage is that, I believe in it but don't believe in it. I think sometimes people put on that ring and that paper, and it messes up a good thing sometimes, because now it's a different emphasis on your relationship because now you can say I'm married, I got this paper -- I like to just build on relationships and make sure you're in a happy relationship."

56 comments:

I Talk Reckless On the Internet said...

Sorry I stopped reading at the "I believe in it, I don't believe it." Logical teenage bullshit.

-moving on

Anonymous said...

He's just either immature or knows he's not the marrying type. Either way, he spends entirely too much time justifying it and trying to say that's not what he's doing. And she's still waiting for a ring that he has REPEATEDLY said he won't give. ridiculous on both their parts

Anonymous said...

Fab gets One big fat

#NiccAPlease... :/

Emily just can't take a hint huh?

Anonymous said...

One thing I can say is that what he says PROVES he's not ready to be married; he also said he's not ready to be married now. I applaud him for knowing that and not being afraid to say it. A lot of people get married when they not really ready or for the WRONG reason and then be mad when it don't work out.

Anonymous said...

Emily he is trying to tell you the best way that he can without breaking your heart in two. He does not want to be married, he would not be the type of husband that you want, he could not and would not give you all of himself. You might not like it, but you have to respect it. In other words...take him as he is or just let him continue to be there for his son. He can not and will not be that faithful dude who loves you and only you or how is willing to give up the strip club and come home at a respectful hour. It's not going to happen. So you have to now make a choice are you going to take him and all of his ways or are you going to pray that once you do get the ring things will change like you want? Do what is best for your sanity in the long run you have to start loving yourself first.

Tameka said...

I ain't even mad at him. Everybody is not marriage material and it's good when one realizes it and not bow in to the pressure.

society tells you to get married, then do everything under the sun to break up the marriage.

Brooklyn for Fabulous. Better to cancel a mistake then to live a lifetime of misery.

And women, know that your value is not tied into marriage. Nobody does it well; and most are unhappy.

Married people want to be single; single people want to be married. We all want what we don't have . . .

marriage is sooooo overrated because nobody respects it anyway!

ms mac said...

Shame when you have to explain to strangers why the woman who was good enough to impregnate and become the mother of your child isn't good enough to become your wife.

Anonymous said...

if it's a good marriage, two people put together BY GOD it cannot fail; too many thirsty people want another thirsty person to validate them; they get married, disrespect each other till one becomes a victim then the other leaves, then the marriage is over.

stop pressuring everybody to be married, dang! It's not for everybody.

Anonymous said...

That's cuz when he gets married she'll be entitled to half of everything when she tries to leave. He's got her in a corner having has his child but not married to her. Perfect set up.

Anonymous said...

What a crock of $#!@.

I don't feel bad for Emily or any woman who continues to deal with dudes like this, being in these one sided "relationships" for eons, hanging on string (cues up Loose Ends). SMH and the dude verbalizes bs like this on the reg. WOW

Anonymous said...

Fab is totally full of sh*t!

he has no intension of every marrying anyone least of all Emily. She will allow herself to be strung along until the cows come home.

I don't feel sorry for her.

Fab is very typical of immature non-committal males. Simply full of sh*t.

Anonymous said...

Men don't dream about getting married like women do. Men take longer to mature and when he's tired of having ass thrown at him left and right and he's ready to settle down, then he'll be ready. Until then enjoy life. Shouldn't got her pregnant though..might as well marry then.

Anonymous said...

How does anyone agree with his laughable "mature" stance on marriage but not him having children out of wedlock. Yeah he's sooo right !

Your surely not for marriage but you don't care one way or the other about bringing children into broken homes. Black men sometimes can be so backwards and the sisters that accept and support this non-sense is just as bad !

Anonymous said...

http://voices.yahoo.com/why-sanctity-marriage-has-diminished-america-11823185.html?cat=41

Why the Sanctity of Marriage Has Diminished in America Today

Anonymous said...

This nigga... I stopped reading after he said he believe in marriage but dont O.o. Dont make her a Mother if you are NOT going to marry her. These females are dumb as a box of rocks. Opening their legs to any nigga and birth their bastard rugrats but cant even get the marriage or get close to even being called a wife. Marriage before Carriage bitches.

Anonymous said...

@ miss Mac: You better Preach!!!

Anonymous said...

Shyt he just don't want to marry "EMILY", thats just it, and one day she is going to have to swallow that shyt. He always disrespecting her publicly and saying lil macho king kong shyt publicly...but can't even claim this girl or confess his love for her publicly...this dude obviously has his priorities out of order, or he simply don't see Emily as valuable to him. He keeps her in her place tho. Soon as she thought she was getting somewhere with her lil 1 year boycott stunt...look, he checked her again....sent her yet another message via radio.."bytch don't get happy yet, i still ain marrying yo azz".

#HaveASeatEmily :(

Chrissy better get it together....she could've had an ol' disrespectful nobody azz nigga dissing her just like Emily, she needs to count her blessings...even if the blessing is simply being in love with someone who LOVES HER BACK..smh Then again...naw, I can't see Chrissy letting a man dawg her like that in this lifetime...less long the NEXT one.

#WakeUpEm

Anonymous said...

Men don't dream about getting married like women do. Men take longer to mature and when he's tired of having ass thrown at him left and right and he's ready to settle down, then he'll be ready. Until then enjoy life. Shouldn't got her pregnant though..might as well marry then.
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I don't know if your a man or a woman but I actually agree with this comment because its reality....still don't think it's right tho we blame welfare for ruining the Black family when you have clowns that don't want to step up to the plate because of selfishness plain and simple....FYI having a child with a woman is a bigger commitment than marriage....for you men out there

Anonymous said...

Agrees with 12:47 too!

Ms. Lee said...

I think a lot of people get married because of societal pressure. And honestly, there are no financial or sexual "perks" for men to marry, as my good friend Sebastian has told me before. And I agree with the person who said that men don't dream about marriage like women do. From childhood, women have been watching Disney films and other television mediums which tell them that they *must* grow up to be a wife and a mother. I think that because marriage and family is drilled into the minds of American women, they are obsessed with it and want it right away. Anyway, Fab, do you.

Anonymous said...

nobody said nothing bout children; if women are dumb enough to keep on getting pregnant no matter what other unmarried women have gone through before them, no matter how hard it is, no matter how hard it is to get child support, then whose fault is that?

women always wanna be a victim; but they ain't victim when they compete against their sister or step on her girlfriend's toes to get at her man.

No it's not right to father children if you are unmarried; neither is it right for women to mother unmarried. . . .GET OVER YOURSELVES . . WRONG IS WRONG, YOU JUST WANT WOMEN TO BE VICTIMS ALL THE TIME . . .

Anonymous said...

Why do women keep on getting pregnant if they are not married?

Gloria said...

He didn't even have to make that statement for everyone to know he's not ready for marriage. Emily needs to find an adult that will love and respect her. She deserves better.

Anonymous said...

In other words, he doesn't want to get married because not only will he be taxed more from the feds, ole girl will want a pre-nup and some entitlements.

Anonymous said...

NIGGAS.....WHATS NEW?

Anonymous said...

Even if what you said made sense it will still be stupid. Girl Bye miss me with that B.S. Just say what's real you don't want to be married now and Emily is not the one you will marry if you ever do. This is Kim Porter and Diddy ALLLLLL over again. Too bad Emily doesn't get it yet.

Anonymous said...

"Emily deserves better." I guess Emily was forced to keep opening her legs to Fab. Bitches love pity.

Anonymous said...

I wonder if he believes in marriage...just not in marriage to Emily?

Because that's what it sounded like.

Anonymous said...

Hell it ain about the baby to me, shyt Emily make her own money so fukk that!!...im mad she still want to be with this niccah when he continuously disrespects her publicly...like why would you even say that shyt knowing that everyone is going to call her the silly fool again??...he knows how everyone will react and he doesn't care...bytch you could have said "no comment" or "i ain answering dem questions"...but he had to let her know again that she don't mean shyt!

#ChipToothAzz

and why the HELL she want FAB anyway?? At this moment he is ONLY RELEVANT because of her role on reality shows! Get'cho fukk azz back in the studio and marry a fukking microphone.

Anonymous said...

Black bitter buffoon blog bitches be pressed about the lives and relationship statuses of other basic bitches. The Black bitches on here are critiquing Fab's comment, like they have husbands and happy homes.

Anonymous said...

*smooches* @2:43 Thanks for the love boo...

let me guess

#SumPrudeBytchHidingBehindAKeyboard??
#HoodBytchPlayingClassy
#OrSomebodyWhoKnowsBlogBytchesDontGiveAFukkAndSaySumAnyway??

Anonymous said...

2:43 I guess you one of dem bytches who share dyck like Emily and looking to justify some shyt...nobody is a fool on purpose bytch...they get played, but NOT voluntarily...so let me speak my piece

#B4WeWereSoRudelyInterupted
#FukkYoHappyHome

Anonymous said...

@ 2:47, aka 2:50, aka the Pressed Bitch Who Was Defending Chris Brown's Costume, My comment was directed to no bitch in particular. However, seeing that your ass was the ONLY one to reply, I'm sure my comment applies to you. Hit hoes will holler. Peace.

Anonymous said...

Do we really need Twitter hash-tags on here? People are so irritating. *Next Post*

Anonymous said...

I bet most of these comment's are by women. But either way alot of women in these day and age's are not marrying material, so are alot of these men. Women think that putting a ring on they finger is going change shit but it's really not. Most women want control and try to force nigga's to marrying them all the while they schemeing on that big pay off. You can't trust these bitche's or men now or day's. Too much gold diggin and whoreing going around.

Anonymous said...

Hit hoes will holler. Peace.
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bytch imma holler just cause i can....LMAO!!

#NowHollaBack

I love you hoes on this site...i ain never went thru a workday so fast

#DontStopPopDatPopDat ;)

Anonymous said...

Any woman who has marriage on her mind and sticks around with a negro who speaks like this would do best to heed his warning and move the fuck on...

But knowing her, she will stick around, trying to be a perfect wife/girlfriend, HOPING he will change while he benefits from the best of what she gives him... and if she does manage to get him to drag his feet down the aisle, I don't think it'll be worth shit because there's a highly likely chance of infidelity, abuse, etc. But I do not know everything, I just don't like shit like this. Maybe she is in it for the money.

I agree that black women, or any woman of color, needs to be more choosy about who they hook up with, who they choose as a life long partner. I myself have no room to talk, having slummed it with a few grimy bastards myself, but it pains me when I see a young woman my age (20's) with kids and no decent, and even non-existent father in sight. And it is so common. I may not be perfect, but I thank GOD I have never been pregnant thus far by any of the men I chose... I now have the ability to exercise better decisions as a result of my worse ones.

Anonymous said...

I also co-sign 2:30 PM...
He will marry when he meets the *RIGHT* one, who is most likely not her.

Dome Pieces said...

She's an ordinary latin piece of ass. He is clearly bored with her. But I would not part with a convenient piece of trim if I was son either.

Anonymous said...

that's because emily is "needy" as hell
she doesn't know every man she gets will treat her the same way! until she knows her "Worth"
Good Luck to her and the others that accept this foolishness

Anonymous said...

Dude, you betta thank God for your money and your fame, because without it "Marriage" wouldn't come so easy to you and the whole topic would be a non MothaFuckin' factor for you. Ugly ass, shady ass, bitch ass, Yuck Mouth Troll nigga!

ThatBKChick said...

Emily needs to move the hell on and talk to Misha Hilton Brim, Diddy's first BM who is a stylist and moved the hell on and is happier without that piece of turd!!!....THE BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS AND MOVING UP AND THE HELL ON!!!

Anonymous said...

This guy is really dumb. He can't articulate that he's not ready to get married. He has a pretty whacked up view of marriage anyway. This young lady should not waste her time waiting for him to propose to her. I hope both of them are using protection. Lord knows the black community doesn't need another fatherless child.

Anonymous said...

Welp like a couple sisters on here have said, ”we will see who is really the issue here when nonblack women are sittin on someone's couch playing the bitter woman circuit, complaining about these trifflin ass, immature, scared of commitment black men.”
Trust me it is getting there! Reggie Bush apparently knocked up his nonblack girlfriend without a ring or any form of engagement, you nonblack hoes love talking shit like your nigga will treat you special because you arent black? Okay Bitch, welcome to your karma!
Enjoy! Every thing you have boasted and bragged about, talking shit about blk women, is coming back to bite you in your injected asses! You will be manless and on welfare with your half blk kids.
No one else will want you. You will be fat and bald from stress.
Be prepared to get your ass whopped and cheated on.
Enjoy your blk man!

Anonymous said...

Lol@7:41
PREACH!!!!

Anonymous said...

why is her chest ridin' all up on her neck?

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...
HAS ANYBODY HEARD ANYTHING ABOUT RICK ROSS POSING TOPLESS FOR PLAYGIRL? MY COUSIN TOLD ME BUT SHE STAY LYIN
10:02 PM

Tracy...Love God 4/Ever! said...

That BKChick said...
Emily needs to move the hell on and talk to Misha Hilton Brim, Diddy's first BM who is a stylist and moved the hell on and is happier without that piece of turd!!!....THE BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS AND MOVING UP AND THE HELL ON!!!
6:46 PM......
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I AGREE WITH THIS COMMENT 100% BECAUSE OF MANY REASONS, BUT ONE REASON IS THAT WHEN THIS GUY FABOLOUS USE THIS LADY UP HE IS GOING TO MOVE ON TO THE NEXT. THIS LADY WILL HAVE NOTHING TO SHOW FOR THE WASTED TIME AND YOUTH THAT SHE CAN NOT GET BACK IN HER LIFE. PEOPLE CAN LIVE THEIR LIVES THE WAY THEY WANT.

Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free?

Anonymous said...

Fabulous didn't buy her! She decide to have unprotected sex with him (maybe to trap him)and he wasn't the one to try and manipulate. He has been CLEAR, 100% clear on how he feels about her and marriage.
Why do we women refuse to listen to a brotha?Men usually tell you all you need to know about them in the first 3 dates. If we listened to what they really say,watched what they do and stopped trying to force a round peg into a square hole we would save ourselves a gang of kids,many rivers of tears,bags full of money and a broken heart.

Anonymous said...

THINK he just wants to be a whore and she can do better pretty girl dont play yourself

Anonymous said...

Lol I can't even lie.. @ 7:41 say that sh* t!!!

Anonymous said...

Pahahahah! Emily big dumb @$$ will sit and wait like good dummy should!

Ole instagram celebrity airhead!

LMMFAO! Meanwhile Fab will be doing him with that big amazon looking girl sanniyah!

Anonymous said...

All these big booty chicks with no men/husbands...talking about "they bad"

Well I guess yall are not "bad" enough to get wifed!
DFL

Anonymous said...

Sad that she wasting her time cause once that nigga ready to get married, he aint gon marry her, smh.. Baby just let it go....

Anonymous said...

7:41, say that!... here, take two of em !lol

Anonymous said...

She needs to walk and leave him lonely, sometimes we gotta loose someone to realize what we want

she needs to show him life without her, and if he's cool with it...move on

-TBT

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