Friday, January 25, 2013

Ciara Dealing with Extreme Baby Mama Drama


Things are REALLY starting to get messy between Ciara and her new boo, up and coming Atlanta rapper Future's baby mama...

Last week Future's baby mama shot a subliminal Tweet towards Ciara calling the crunk-star a has-been to which Ciara responded with a 'Bitch I'm fabulous' Instagram post [click here if you missed that].

Now Future's baby mama is going for the jugular and threatening to expose a few ugly truths.

Read from the bottom up.





Spotted @ Urban Belle

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Anonymous said...

Girl get over it. You laid down and got knocked up by this man without a ring, and now you're mad because he's with someone else? Collect the check and STFU.

Anonymous said...

There was a time when hood problems stayed in the hood, in the ghettos, in the HUD houses and at Big Pookie's Memorial Day Backyard BBQ. Now All the T-Bones and Shenaynays are on National TV polluting the airwaves with ratchet ass mess on Maury, First 48, VH1 and BET.

I'm tired of all of these chickenheads and the dusty ass thug niggas they are willing to spread their legs for!

Anonymous said...

12:02, What does a "ring" mean? I get so tired of dumb women pestering men for rings, like that will make the relationship perfect. Nowadays, most women want a ring so that they can be taken care of by way of alimony and child support. And no, I'm not a "baby mama", I'm a married Black woman. I'm just tired of hearing women say "get the ring". You're the type of woman to rush into a marriage for social status only. Dumb ass generation.

Anonymous said...

12:06, Thank you! Ugh! American women are so dumb and obsessed with marriage. Thanks to Disney and romance novels.

Anonymous said...

Oop! Yes hunty! This bitch better give me the shade and the TEAAAA!!! YESSS!!! Let me find out Ciara's "goodie" cabinet is like an arena full of seats for a show of hers...vacant and EMPTY!! Gurrlllll....*hands futures baby mama my tea cup as I selfishly deep my hand in the honey jar and lick it off my finger tips* YESSS GAWD!!! And Molly's ciara?!! :O Messyyyyyy...*throws bible and does praise dance in seat* no she DIDN'T!!!! She tried this, she tried that, she tried ITTTT!!!! Oop...*kicks back and crosses legs in anticipation for more*

Anonymous said...

Agree @12:07 & 12:06.

-Mi- said...

The only way Future's "ex" would know that Ciara pops mollies is because he told her. While most people are trying to shade his child's mother, please keep in mind that they will ALWAYS deal with each other just on the strength of their child alone. Please believe Future is pillow-talkin' with his "ex" about Ciara. You bitches are too gullible and I think the *only* reason people are on Ciara's side is because she used to be famous and we all know how dummies are celebrity obsessed.

Anonymous said...

Ciara you can do better but whatever

Anonymous said...

12:14 she talking about exposing future molly use.

-Mi- said...

12:20, So you think Ciara doesn't do anything?

TruthBeTold said...

urgh leave any kneegrow with baby mama drama behind!

bloop , throw him back in that sea and get back to fishin'

Anonymous said...

It's funny when women talk down on "baby mamas" and "baby daddys" like they weren't a product of the SAME situation.

Anonymous said...

@12:06 PM - doesnt sound like words of a "married Black woman". Most Black women who are actually married, usually promotes healthy family life.....are you NOt about that life???
LOL!!!

TRACY LOVE GOD 4 EVER .. said...

Ciara, We must practice what we lean from the gospel. "But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: for he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. (James 1:22-25). Jesus said, "Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven.
**
Practice What You Preach...We All Make Mistakes. Some people never seem to learn from their mistakes.

Igotchuboo!!!! said...

women always get salty when men move on; thing is they often take men for granted and when the men goes off and CHOOSES to be with another woman, the ex comes after the new chick.

well, if ya hadn't taken the man for granted, then it would be you still at his side . . .
and when they upgrade??! well, the ex goes off because they prolly thought they was the only one . . .

a woman cannot take a man that doesn't want to be taken.

as soon as the couple becomes an ex, since the attachment to his private parts is nearly impossible, they usually go for the reputation or the wallet . . .

no one heard of future baby mamma till he started dating Ciara . . .

sit you salty self down . . . and stop taking men for granted.

I know: HE ALWAYS LOOK BETTER IN SOMEONE ELSE'S ARMS . . .

Anonymous said...

@12:06 Bitch go suck your husband's dick and make him a sandwich if you feel that strongly about it. But in this day and age, who knows if you're really married to begin with. You could be one of those Manti Te'o bitches lying to save face. Dumb hoe.

Anonymous said...

At the second 12:26,
I'm about marriage for the right reasons: love, commitment, integrity, virtue, etc. Don't get married because you're pregnant or because society/other people think you should be pregnant. Like I said, most women nowadays are looking at marriage as a benefits package only (alimony and child support). The first comment said that basically, this rapper's "baby's mom" is mad because she got pregnant without a ring, as if a "ring" symbolizes a healthy and successful marriage. A ring is nothing but a material possession.

Anonymous said...

if I can interject 12:06 I believe it's just an expression. What I think she's saying is get a commitment, which is symbolized by the ring. Does it make sense now? If the man aint committed to you, why get mad when he finds someone new? If he aint married or actively Claiming his girl he's eligible. A promise ring can be just as good as a wedding ring OK?

Anonymous said...

12:33, Who or what raised you? So foul and ignorant. Get some help.

Anonymous said...

I'm dying at all of you relationship experts and black community spokespeople getting on your soapboxes when really this is just your everyday scorned baby mama (yes, she is a baby mama, stop sugarcoating this) mad that the homie moved on. It would be different if the dude was dragging the mother of his child through the mud as well, but he's not.

Anonymous said...

They did a joint remix to his hit "Turn up the lights" and it's jammin!

Anonymous said...

12:34, A ring is nothing but a material possession. They mean nothing. Not sure why you women think that a diamond ring = a happy, successful marriage. Commitment is the fusing of daily activities, finances, intimacy, personalities, thoughts, etc. If anything, the marriage license is more symbolic of that legal commitment versus the useless ring.

Anonymous said...



12:33, Who or what raised you? So foul and ignorant. Get some help.
12:35 PM

Get some help? Hoe, get some dick from your husband since you love him so much or else you'll end up like another one of these hottentot hoes mad cause you got left behind for the next hoodrat.

Anonymous said...

How many people in here were born within wedlock? I'll wait...

Case closed. YOU are the product of both a "baby mama" and a "baby daddy". And if you're a Black single woman in here, you too are probably a "baby mama".

Anonymous said...

@the first 12:37, it's really not that deep. When the poster said "get the ring," it was just a figure of speech. The ring symbolizes all that you just described, am I correct? Future and Baby Mama didn't have that so he's on to the next. Maybe Ciara will get the ring...oops, I'm sorry, maybe Ciara will get the fusing of daily activities and all that jazz.

Anonymous said...

Ciara has a pattern of dating these Men that have Baby Mamas and in the end they not only go back they Marry them.....

Ciara can do better and should do better. I have a crazy feeling she has met her match with this Baby Mama.

Fabulous is no competition for hood crazy.

Anonymous said...

12:37 # 1 stop projecting. "Not sure why you women think that a diamond ring "

Did u see the word 'diamond' in my post? Ok then, stop being mad cuz you probly will never even see even a cracker jack ring. Even a HOE knows how to get what she wants. Why can't the Baby Mama Brigade see the damn light?

Anonymous said...

Clearly 12:37 is the troll from Virginia (IP address) who was on the Beyonce post co-signing itself profusely.
*IGNORE
*SPRAYS INSECTICIDE

Anonymous said...

don't threaten, just go ahead and tell it all.

Anonymous said...

12:40 #2, Please be for real. Most women, YOU included, want diamond rings. Let a man bring you a plain silver band and you bitches will have an attitude like you have about everything else. Next.

Anonymous said...

Females always getting this shit twisted. The father has a lifetime commitment to the child, but not to your busted ass. Point blank period. Next time make sure the next nigga wraps it up or make sure your Depo shot is current.

Anonymous said...

and since the baby mamas up in here seem to be Fiending for advice, if u suck your man off every time he want it, he'll soon be yawning and looking for someone who will challenge him.

Stop being so easy and give him a challenge to look forward to OK? The next chick will. (and get that ring u fiending for too lol.)

Anonymous said...

Why do most women think that sucking a man's dick and cooking for him will keep him? You definitely got shit seriously twisted. Women want equal rights but always self-reduce themselves to "whore" figures and "mammy"/"servant" figures.

Anonymous said...


Women want equal rights but always self-reduce themselves to "whore" figures and "mammy"/"servant" figures.
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THIS THOUGH!

Anonymous said...

Baby mama got played!! Would have had a better chance had she used protection. What an Ass.

Anonymous said...

@12:39

I was. Parents married June 14, 1987, born May 15, 1989.

Anonymous said...

Ok woo sah. I dont feel sorry for futures bm bcuz she got pregnant possibly to tey and "steal" him from the woman he was already in a relationship with. Personally i think that would make him more resentful towards her than anything. A baby doesn't substitute a relationship. Secondly marriage for the sake of being married to the childs father is WRONG. Yes i agree people SHOULD be atleast commited to one another prior to conceiving a child but lets be REAL. It doesn't always happen that way. Sometimes feelings change after the fact. So even if you do get "the ring" its not a guarantee that your marriage will work out. Its about maturity of the parents. That means being clear n concise about the terms of your relationship. Be honest and reasonable about what your expectations are. Not sleeping together just cuz u have a kid n confusing sex for love. Future is the one leading two women astray. Im pretty sure the woman didn't rape him n steal his sperm. Im pretty sure he is still in some ways "involved" wit the bm especially since the kid is a newborn. The chick is ratchet (god i hate that word) but i doubt she would be publicly lashing out if he is not leading her on. N as far as ci ci. She isn't wrong. She has nothing to do wit what came before her. Its HIS responsibility to tie uo his loose ends n close one book before opening another. BUT ci ci should see this as a red flag. The man has baggage n drama that she can either accept n stoop down to their level n be a part of the fuckery or she can tell homeboy i like u but not enough to deal wit YOUR drama. Handle your business then we can kick it. But she is accepting the nonsense so in my book sue is no better than sal n they all lose in this situation

Anonymous said...

This bitch need to shut up....she is a stripper who got pregnant by future when he was with his first babymomma ....what goes around come around...i

Anonymous said...

I look at situations like these like this: As easy as it is to get pregnant, it is even easier to NOT get pregnant. "Baby Mamas" become baby mamas by choice.

Anonymous said...

@PROUD PRODUCT OF MARRIED PARENTS.

PARENTS MARRIED IN IN THE 60'S I WAS BORN IN THE 80'S THEY STAYED MARRIED.

I AM A STRONG ADVOCATE FOR MARRIAGE. AS A FAMILY BEGINS WITH MARRIAGE.

THESE TWEETS BY THESE BLACK WOMEN IS WHY MANY MEN OF ALL RACES DO NOT RESPECT BLACK WOMEN.

IF A MAN LOVES YOU HE WILL HAVE NO PROBLEMS MARRYING YOU. HAVE MET MEN AT FIRST SIGHT WHO HAVE HINTED AT THE IDEA OF MARRIAGE EVEN BEFORE THEY GOT TO KNOW ME!

TRUST. THESE MEN KNOW WHO IS MARRIAGE MATERIAL AND WHO IS NOT

Anonymous said...

^ FOR 12:39

-Mi- said...

Why are women in these situations ALWAYS attacked? Wow. One comment says, "This bitch needs to shut up, she is a stripper who got pregnant, blah, blah, blah." Yet no one speaks on Future being more responsible with his penis. These double-standards and slandering of women are ridiculous.

Anonymous said...

@ 12:39 I was born in wedlock. My sister however was not...

Anonymous said...

Furthermore, how do women "get" pregnant? I guess we fuck ourselves and then, waa lah! Pregnancy. I have a home-girl with 3 kids and she hates her children's father because he has a fiance with no kids.

Anonymous said...

@12:39

That out of wedlock sh!t is for black Americans, not everyone who visits this site is black American! I can't tell you how many times I've seen white people out and about AS A FAMILY:

Mom

Dad

Katie

Steve

Zach

AND

doggy.

Katie is always along side daddy and Zach the youngest is with doggy and Steve is always near mommy.

REAL WORD SITUATIONS

Anonymous said...

@12:58 (Hi-5's You) EXACTLY!!!

Anonymous said...

1:01

That's because everyone knows that loser is a bum. One would think that an attractive and rich girl like Ciara WOULD KNOW BETTER. SMH

If I am someone who is attractive, rich and popular you better believe I am going for someone in that same threshold. As a matter let me rephrase those are the type of men I WILL ATTRACT by default.

If I was Ciara I would only date athletes exclusively. And expect an engagement with the first dude. The fact that she has been with multiple men none of which wanted to marry her SAYS A LOT ABOUT HER AS A WOMAN.

Look at Giselle, she was with Leo for a LONG TIME he didn't want to marry her SHE MOVED ON to TOM BRADY now married with TWO KIDS. She knows her worth. Tom is good looking, rich and popular just like she is.

Black women can't keep men for nothing. Sad but true.

Anonymous said...

Black Ladies, here's how it works.....when you are the child hood sweet heart or the baby mama of an up and coming entertainment or athlete be prepared to be dismissed or put on the back burner for someone that will increase his popularity and connections. Keep in mind that black male leeches usually take baby steps with blk women on his journey to fame and money...First he cheats or leaves the baby mother for a ”hotter” more popular blk chick. When he has no more use for the hotter blk chick and has accumulated more of a mainstream buzz, then its on to lighterskin groupies...Once his income bracket is in the millions, he marries a white or spanish chick, who DID absolutely NOTHING to help him achieve his fame, when meanwhile he is fighting his childs mother tooth and nail over 20 dollars a month in child support.
This baby mama and Ciarra both are beating a dead horse and BOTH will lose in the end!! When are blk chicks going to learn that blk men will not change and are an open book?
LEAVE THEM ALONE!

Anonymous said...

1:08, Are you serious? Athletes are notorious cheaters and baby-mama makers. Terrell Owens? Kobe Bryant? Please.

Anonymous said...

@ And you women get blamed and I say this as a woman because YOU ARE LOOSE.

This is where I respect white men. A white man if he sleeps with you and sees that you're EASY he will NOT MARRY YOU IN FACT HE WON'T EVEN RESPECT YOU AND WILL TELL ALL HIS BOY ABOUT YOU.

Look at Kim K for example she is NOT respected by white men. But black men. NO. They love these kinds of lose women because they are quick and as one black guy put it 'easy to bust a nut' LOL that's all these black guys see you women as a easy lay, they want nothing to do with you, and if you get pregnant for them it was an accident.

I know it may sound harsh but I hang around a lot of guys buddy buddy style and they tell me a lot of things about women. AND I AM A WOMAN.LOL sometimes they way they speak in front of me like I am one of the guys I have to remind them why you talking like that in front of me?

I hate to say it but because a lot of these 'whores' most guys don't respect women in general and if you don't believe me just listen to these rappers etc referring to you as bitches and hoes or a nut.

Anonymous said...

OMG!!! AFRICAN AMERICANS STOP ARGUING WITH THE POSERS AND TROLLS WHO PRETEND THEY ARE "AFRICAN AMERICANS" ( THOSE OF THE AFRICAN DIASPORA BORN IN THE U.S.A.) So many posers come on this site and degrade AFRICAN AMERICAN BORN WOMEN because they are jealous or simply have small minds and believe all of the negative BS THAT THEY SHOW ON TV WHO HAS NEVER STEP A FOOT ON AMERICAN SOIL. and for racist or self hating Americans especially those of who who are AFRICAN AMERICAN AND HATE YOUR LIFE BECAUSE YOU COME FROM THE GUTTER AND FUCKED UP LIVES-STOP SPREADING THE BS AND LIES AND AFRICAN AMERICANS- WE ARE STRONG AND BELIEVE IN FAMILY- FUCK THE HATERS AND LIARS.
STOP SUPPORTING THIS RACIST ASS SITES!!!

Anonymous said...

1:16, What about women who get pregnant by their husbands and then their husband leaves for another woman? Are those women "loose"? Or does it not matter because they were married?

Anonymous said...

Ciara, your career is too toilet bound for you to be getting yourself mixed up in shit like this! Leave this idiot and his baby mama drama and get yourself a NON BLACK man! You should be waaay past shit like this and working to save your career. Are you seriously that insecure? Are you seriously proud of yourself for interfering with a poor black family from the hood? Do you feel like a big, bad chick?

Anonymous said...

Anybody who is commenting on ENTIRE races or communities has lost all credibility bcuz ur mind is clearly confined to the box you refuse to think outside of. Its sad ppl are a part od the problem not the solution. N the things youre commenting on affect all races. If u cant even have an open minded adult conversation without attacking strangers on a blog then ur just as angry n bitter as the bm n really no better

Anonymous said...

1:01
Cosign
Ninjas lie too
He could be playing them both

Anonymous said...

SOME of you are FOOLs- this man NEVER SAID THEY WERE TOGETHER- His shit was all in code- Ciara and Future "relationship" is all about PUBLICITY for their INDIVIDUAL ALBUMS- THIS MESS WAS CREATED BY THEIR RECORD COMPANY!! Ciara did this shit with BOW-WOW REMEMBER?? REMEMBER THEIR FAKEASS RELATIONSHIP? NOW, the tables are turned. FUTURE is the "new hot artist" who needs publicity and CIARA is the veteran yet FADING star who needs a career boot. FAKE COUPLES ARE ALWAYS MADE UP IN HOLLYWOOD/ENTERTAINMENT- MOST OF YOU ARE DUMBASSES WHO BELIEVE ANYTHING!!

Anonymous said...

@1:18

You are a liar point blank. Many black Americans are born out of wedlock this is a fact. 80% of them so that whole family thing is a lie. No one is trying to degrade black women, black American women don't want to face the truth. Ciara was just with Amare he left her and MARRIED the baby mama what does that tell you?

I can't for the life of me understand why black American women are comfortable being baby mama's????????????????????????????????????

Anonymous said...

1:25, Why you so mad though?

Anonymous said...

IM 1:18- SHUT THE FUCK UP HATER- YOUR THE DUMB FUCK WHO WAS BORN OUT OF WEDLOCK IN A TRAILER- YOUR WHITE MAMA IS HOOKED ON METH AND YOUR DAD IS FUCKING YOUR SISTER- WHILE YOUR LIL BROTHER IS PLANNING TO KILL 50 AMERICANS AT YOUR LOCAL WALMART....GO GET A FUCKING LIFE- YOU WISH YOU WERE AFRICAN AMERICAN TROLLING ALL THE SITES...

Anonymous said...

@1:19

I am glad you said that! These 'men' that leave their wives and children for another woman are low lifes. They have failed in life and have been reduced to a philander status. Any man that commits adultery is already in violation. For the wife it is unfortunate but it is not an excuse to have multiple children by multiple men.

Anonymous said...

If ur making assumptions about an entire race then YOU are bitter. How do u read this story and equate it to an entire race? Unless ur bitter n cant get over it. You dont have to like black ppl. Hell u can hate them if u want vut the fact that u go out of ur way to attack disparage n give a negative opinion bout all black people bcuz of what one did says alot about YOU. I dont like fried chicken. U think im going to organize a protest every time i walk past kfc? Nope bcuz i dont care. But u only exert energy on something like that if its really deeply affecting u. Its sad u go out of ur way to anonymously attack black people wen u can sinply keep it moving. But u cant bcuz its obviously bothering u.

Anonymous said...

@ 1:21 agree with that, Ciara needs to ditch the like a boy back up dancer look and grow up already. Get them feet fixed and go sit down and have a few meals. She is so 2004.

Anonymous said...

@1:28

Are you a female and really that angry? Sounds like you may have way too much TESTERONE, more than you can handle you may want to get that checked with a Health Care Professional. Women by nature are not volatile creatures so if you have low levels of estrogen that may be contributing to your lack of restraint.

My entire generation has been married. I can trace my family tree 4 generations back AND THEY WERE ALL MARRIED on both sides (mum and dad) Both my parents are married, all of my siblings are married and it will continue that way. I have been engaged once and have no children, now I know if I wanted to have a child I would have to be married first. Imagine someone asking my little one where is mom and dad and he shrugs his shoulders I THINK NOT. FYI I am not a troll, and not white.

Anonymous said...

1:08 sad to say that I have to agree with you! Not only are most white and nonblack men with their families which includes WIVES but he is showing affection to them.
We see a blk man posing in a picture with his child that he decided to dust off and take on a field trip and most ppl are glad for that!
Pathetic! And ppl always say, ”How nice, he's spending time with his child” WTF? Its a crying shame that blk men are applauded for something that other races do and equate with breathing?

Anonymous said...

Y'ALL SOME ANGRY HOES.

Anonymous said...

1:35, You've been endoctrined by European regime though. So you mean to tell me that you need to government to recognize your commitment to your man by law?

Anonymous said...

Even your king Bey know if u like it put a ring on it. Is it rocket science?

Anonymous said...

It's getting HOT up in here! I need some AC.

Anonymous said...

Why is it that when some one points out facts about black Americans they are racist? Black people need to stop this seriously.

Minaj was mad about a comment Steven Tyler made about plantation but is she not the same person that refer to black women as nappy headed hoes, and monkeys? I don't get it? Oh and when that all white H.S. had that skit wit Chris Brown and they had black face to portray Chris Brown (they painted their face black) and everyone was in an uproar, but isn't this the same Chris Brown who humiliated blogger Sandra Rose by calling her 'black' and 'crispy' and darkie? So why the double standard?

Anonymous said...

@1:36

Right!?!?! Exactly. It really is a crying shame. And I agree with you about the affection part. White people LOVE TO SHOW affection to one another. They hold hands, kiss hell they even make out in front every one. But black men don't.

Anonymous said...

@1:38

Bey is the King of lies and terrible example for ANY woman. What married women parades around in a leotard for every man to see. How is a married woman comfortable with giving other men erections unless she is some kind of whore?

Anonymous said...

But, can someone please answer me WHY we need the government to make our relationships legal? Why does love have lawful content attached to it? Marriage seems to be a business between two people.

Anonymous said...

1:41 Okay but technically Chris Brown doesnt have a black face, he is closer to a white persons color but I get your drift.
Lightskin and biracial pp usually get a rude awakening, thinking they are above darker skin blacks, believing they are immune to racial slurs and profiling.
One thing I have learned to do, is NEVER EVER get up in arms about certain blks, latins, asians being victims of white racism because a lot of those same fuckers are racist towards other minority groups, themselves and they are minorities.
I laugh when these same whites they try to impress, gives their asses a ruuuuude awakening!

Anonymous said...

@1:35-YOU MAY NOT BE WHITE, SO WHAT ARE YOU JEWISH,LATINO, ASIAN, MIDDLE EASTERN OR A AFRICAN LIVING IN LONDON OR GHANA OR A AFRICAN WHO MOVED TO AMERICA SO NOW YOU THINK YOU THINK YOU "UNDERSTAND AND KNOW ABOUT "AFRICAN AMERICANS"?? OR ARE YOU A AFRICAN AMERICAN WHO THINK YOU ARE ABOVE THE RACIST TAUNTS AND JABS?IF YOU ARE- THE RACIST PEOPLE ARE STILL TALKING ABOUT "YOU" REGARDLESS- OTHER THEN THAT.....

SHUT THE FUCK UP-NO 1 CARES ABOUT YOU- I CAN VENT MY FRUSTRATION ABOUT THE RACIST ASS PEOPLE ON THIS SITE THE WAY I CHOOSE TOO. PEOPLE WHO SHOOT PEOPLE AND PHYSICALLY HURT PEOPLE NEED TO SEEK HEALTH CARE YOU ARROGANT "I COME FROM PERFECTION" NARCISSIST-
BTW, I AM AFRICAN AMERICAN WHO COME FROM A LINAGE OF COLLEGE EDUCATED AFRICAN AMERICANS WHERE MARRIAGE AND FAMILY STEMS BACK GENERATIONS REGARDLESS OF HATERS WHO STAY TRYING TO UNDERMINE THE LOVE OF BLACK PEOPLE IN AMERICA.
SO many fake ass people (FOREIGNERS, RACISTS, SELF HATERS, JUVENILE/YOUNG/IMMATURE MINDS) Come to this site and degrade AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN EVERYDAY- AND IM TIRED OF IT!! African Americans stop believing the blogs and go pick up a real book! STOP BELIEVING AND BUYING INTO THESE RACIST BLOGS WHICH ARE ACTUALLY OWNED BY RACIST NON AFRICAN AMERICAN PEOPLE. this site is owned by a poser who is in love with the AFRICAN AMERICAN CULTURE YET THEY HATE US PEOPLE THEY AINT US....SMH- START READING BETWEEN THE LINES PEOPLE-

Anonymous said...

Some of yall are posting just to get a reaction. Any SANE ADULT with half a brain is able to hold a conversation without attacking n degrading people even if they disagree. N most of u aren't even HONEST...i was born in wedlock n my mother stayed married for 20 years....MISERABLE. just so we would grow up in a 2 family home. My child was born oow.By choice. For ME personally i wanted my child but turned down the engagement. N my child has a great relationship with both his father and i. Feelings change. Parenthood is forever n a truly mature adult can understand that. Different strokes for different folks. Everything aint for everybody n as long as the child has a stable healthy relationship with both parents n the parents have a stable healthy relationship with one another i really dont see why they have to conform to anyone's standards to please a society of strangers who dont take care of them or their child. Now the problem isnt marriage. If u ask me the problem is SOME women have babies to keep a man n things dont work out after the kid is born. That really has nothing to do wit marriage per se. Just my two cents. N if u cant respond with sense dont expect a reply.

Anonymous said...

LOL @ 12:05! I concur......

Anonymous said...

1:44 not only that, but most blk men with their kids look worn out and MISERABLE like being with his children is an unwanted chore or a task! Its like he cant wait to drop the little bastards off at his babymama house and get to his next piece of ass!
SMFH!!! White and nonblack men are even seen hugging and kissing their half blk children!

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha only WHITE COUPLES ( MEN) SHOW AFFECTION AND BLACK MEN/COUPLES DON'T? WOW STOP WITH THE LIES!!! IF YOU ARE A AFRICAN AMERICAN MAN OR WOMEN WHO SAID THAT YOU MUST COME FROM A BAD STOCK OF BLACK LOVE...GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE!!
BLACK LOVE RULES!!

STOP BELIEVING THE LIES- If your black and didn't see BLACK LOVE blame your parents and your OWN FAMILY and KILL THAT CURSE ON YOUR FAMILY AND DO BETTER THEN THEY DID-...and for the racist ass people spewing this hate-go get a life losers-

Anonymous said...

1:56, Thank you SO much. I agree with you 1000% (yes, one-thousand percent.) The reason I agree with you so strongly is because as American women (I can only speak for "American" women because I was born and raised here in America and I'm a woman), we have been told, from childhood (through cartoons, Disney films, etc.) that we *MUST* grow up and becomes wives first and mothers second. While that format may work amazingly well for *some* women, that format isn't universal. I get so tired of feeling pressured by family and society to "get married". I think that a lot of American women and men are in miserable marriages, but are saving face to uphold a certain social status. My daughters Tatiana and Natalia, and my son Nicholas, are all by the same man. Their father and I chose to not get married. It works for us.

Anonymous said...

I cant speak for anyone else but i call ppl racist when they point out the problems of an entire race of ppl n make judgements n assumptions about the entire race based on feelings n personal opinions. Not to mention they only point out the problem to be judgemental n not to help solve the problem. And sometimes the way you express yourself will determine the way ppl will perceive you. To me some of u are solely commenting out of hatred jealousy n spite n to make yourself feel better by putting others down. Truth and honesty can be taken as fact. Whether good or bad and mature adults can accept that. But when ur only being "honest" to be judgemental rather than helpful....you should understand how that might be "misconstrued" as racism. So dont play like you dont understand why ppl are offended by you being offensive.

Anonymous said...

These comments are hilarious its- so funny that black people can't shoot off stereotypes just like any other race without being called JUDGE MENTAL yet when "others" do it against black people everything they say is TRUE...

Anonymous said...

I find it funny that when the truth is being told about SOME Blacks, the person or persons telling the truth are "racists" and/or "trolls". Black folks hate to take accountability and responsibility for their cultural dysfunction--and YES, I'm Black and telling it like it is.

Anonymous said...

umm people- this is a PUBLICITY RELATIONSHIP" Ciara has them all of the time...she had one with BOW WOW, 50 Cent, and now this Guy...their "relationship" will be over in about a month...btw, FUTURE never actually siad that they were in a "committed relationship" he just said she was nice, and they had chemistry...there was no confession about a relationship...

Anonymous said...

You can tell the spiritual and moral state of our culture when people use excuses like we don't need the government in our relationships(legal) or marriage is antiquated
Marriage is a covenant between Man, Woman, and The Most High
It also protects the family lineage, assets and rightful heirs etc.
The devil is a liar if anyone truly believes that ice cream man money and Jordans money twice a year is just fine

TruthBeTold said...

Im gonna say the ring does mean something , it means he loves you enough to drop 10K on a ring for YOU and make sure you say YES when he drops down on one knee
Of course there has to be in the beginning, if it comes from a regular 9 to 5er it means even more because you know that took him a while to save up for!

TruthBeTold said...

^ there has to be love

Anonymous said...

2:21, What about gays who marry? I'll wait. You're clearly generalizing those of us who have differing opinions of marriage.

Anonymous said...

@TruthBeTold,
Bitch please shut the fuck up. Only a dumb ass, hood-rich nigga spends 10k on a ring for a bitch.

Anonymous said...

there is never any balance about AFRICAN AMERICAN LOVE ON MOST OF THESE BLogs...the attacks are so thick...especially against black women...SMH- marriage is america is on a decline and besides that JUST BECAUSE YOU GET MARRIED DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU ARE READY FOR IT- ITS NOT A CURE FOR A "COUPLE PROBLEMS" IF PEOPLE UNDERSTOOD THIS MArriage would be respected and many divorces won't happen REGARDLESS OF RACE

Anonymous said...

@2:24
My statement only applies to the definition of marriage in the bible and not what our government (Man) defines as a marriage

Anonymous said...

2:28, And you're a Christian by default. Most Black Americans are. What if I were Muslim or Buddhist? Again, generalizations.

Anonymous said...

OMG at 2:31 CHRISTIANITY IS A PERSONAL BELIEF...your not a CHRISTIAN JUST BECAUSE YOUR WERE "BORN INTO IT" YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE IT IN YOUR MIND AND HEART...SMH- WITH THE "MOST AFRICAN AMERICANS ARE" YOU SOUND IGNORANT

Anonymous said...

2:35, Sorry. I wasn't trying to sound ignorant, but can you turn your CAPS lock off and be for real? Most American people celebrate holidays, practice Christianity, etc. because of tradition.

Anonymous said...

People on here are so dumb. Most people are robots. They have been taught, over and over again, how to live their lives. If society says blue is for boys and pink is for girls, 99% of people will abide by that. If society says you have to wear white wedding dresses and black tuxes to your wedding, 99% of people will abide by that. I'm not sure why people in here are saying otherwise.

Anonymous said...

Black people truly are demented. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if the theory of Black Americans being the lost tribe of Israel turned out to be true.

If there was ever a "lost" people, we're certainly IT.

Anonymous said...

2:42, Please elaborate on why you think we're lost. I agree. Just want to hear other insight.

Anonymous said...

@2:41 I agree, even though I do believe in certain social constructs, but it's sad that many Americans don't even bother to think about WHY they do the things they do. They just go with the flow, go along to get along, which is why this country is in a crisis that looks like we won't get out of.

Anonymous said...



You can tell the spiritual and moral state of our culture when people use excuses like we don't need the government in our relationships(legal) or marriage is antiquated
Marriage is a covenant between Man, Woman, and The Most High
It also protects the family lineage, assets and rightful heirs etc.
The devil is a liar if anyone truly believes that ice cream man money and Jordans money twice a year is just fine
2:21 PM

__________________________________

THIS COMMENT GAVE ME CHILLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


TELL THEM SIS! BLACK PEOPLE CONTINUE TO LET THE DEVIL TROUNCE ON THEM. WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU DON'T NEED MARRIAGE? SMH. BLACK PEOPLE I TELL YOU AND WATCH PEOPLE THAT TELL IT LIKE IT IS GET CALLED 'RACIST' 'UNCLE TOM'. THAT'S WHY OTHER CULTURES DO NOT RESPECT US CAN YOU BLAME THEM?

Anonymous said...

2:47, What other social constructs do you believe in?

Anonymous said...

2:25 Is a perfect example why black Americans are not respected. Who talks to people like that? BLACK PEOPLE DO and think it's normal?

Anonymous said...

The Jews are the Israelites please stop spreading lies.

Anonymous said...

According to people on here, if you don't want to get married, you're an outcast to society. You're also pathetic, unworthy, etc.

Anonymous said...

I AGREE WITH TRUTH BE TOLD.

RING MEANS SOMETHING. IF ANOTHER MAN APPROACHES YOU AND YOU HAVE A RING YOU CAN SAY I AM HAPPILY MARRIED. RING = PROTECTION + RESPECT.

It doesn't have to cost that much though it could be $900

Anonymous said...

Am I wrong for thinking Ciara could do better? E

BLACK WOMEN AND GIRLS WHEN YOU HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE AND GET PREGNANT YOU ARE A SINGLE PARENT. SO DO NOT COMPLAIN ABOUT IT.

Anonymous said...

Can I ask a serious question? To the Black American people who are in this post, WHY do YOU believe in marriage? Is it something you were taught to believe in? Do you know WHY you believe it? And why are YOU so quick to insult, ridicule and judge those who don't want to be married?

Anonymous said...

Most people who flash their rings aren't happily married.

Anonymous said...

Oh and for the person who claims I am racist. Ugh There was this GORGEOUS black American doctor who treated me at the ER. He was funny, nice AND handsome. See people like him is what the black race needs to restore their integrity. But sadly someone like him is a dime a dozen

Anonymous said...

OKAY, SO THIS BITCH POSTED HER PHONE NUMBER ON TWITTER- LMAO! I WILL BE SURE TO HAVE MY LITTLE SISTER CRANK CALL YO ASS AT LEAST 10458852247 TIMES- LOL!!
SHE IS SUCH A DUMB THIRSTY BITCH!

SOOOOO, SPEAKING TO YO BABYDADDY IN PERSON WAS JUST TOO.....?????????????????

#BITCH,WEDONTCAREABOUTYOUDOTORG

Anonymous said...

I dont date men with kids, I cant stand baby mamas they are annoying.

alrighty then said...

Or lets put it another way. WHITE PEOPLE are evil bcuz since the beginning of time they have been raping and pillaging n conquering lands that were already inhabited by others. They are evil bcuz they enslaved an entire race of people AFTER said people taught them EVERYTHING THEY KNOW. (Music, math, language,science etc n this is FACT not opinion. Do your research) then put limits on how people were allowed to use their own skills and intelligence as a way to keep power over them bcuz they know that true equality might possibly lead to us realizing our own strengths n gaining back some of our power. Who the fuck do u think invented money? We had no use for that shit. N were just fine without it. The media is owned controlled n manipulated by white men so yes the way we are portrayed is exactly the way they want us to be portrayed. In the 60s n 70s we were starting to realize our strength in numbers n fought for civil rights, which they had to be FORCED to give us. Those racists didn't disappear when the law changed. They became our employers, teachers, congress men etc. So what happens? They teach our kids what they want them to know in the public school systems. 9/11 was in textbooks the year after it happened i have yet to see anything about lynching or any of the REAL things blacks endured in their textbooks. The blacks who are powerful enough to do something wont for fear that they will lose what power they do have (see mj). Yes black people have problems but FOR THE MOST PART we make the best of what we have as best as we can. We are much stronger than other races give us credit for. Ask yourself do u think white people could have endured all that we have without crumbling? I

Anonymous said...

3:03, She's dumb for posting her number, but you're going to have your little sister prank her? And SHE'S the dumb one?

alrighty then said...

Its only natural that some not all black ppl have issues after hundreds, maybe thousands of years of adversity n oppression from other humans who fail to realize that if u turn us inside out we ALL look the same. So i would think it may take a little longer than 50 or so years to undo the Negative effects of all those years of struggle. How many of you have ever talked to a black person who lived before we had civil rights? How many of u REALLY know about the struggle you speak of? How many of u REALLY know the full plight of the ENTIRE race of ppl that ur so freely judging from behind a computer screen? N this is coming from someone who is black n can admit we have faults no better or worse than any other race. Its easy to point out the problem while conveniently ignoring the root of the problem n other contributing factors. But that makes u not racist? Yeah right. Thats like me saying all whites are serial killers n cannibals n mass murderers bcuz of all the crazy things some white folks did. Or calling all middle easterners terrorists. Do u REALLY want to compare notes on the problems in black society vs the thousands of years of evil (excuse me "democracy") of white men? Who btw are the ones who control damn near everything in amerikkka? Really? Id rather be a black baby mama all day than a slave master or anything like that

Anonymous said...

@2:45

Firstly, I meant to add in the word "some" to my post at 2:42 because I know there's no one representation of all Black people.

But I find many black people to glorify and embrace ignorance and dysfunction with pride. It's as if the generation at the climax of the Civil Rights Era never existed. I know Black people gleefully wait by the mailbox at the first of the month for a government check. I know (of) Black people who still think furthering your education beyond high school is lame and sounding out the '-ing' at the end of a word means you're talking "white".

@2:50

I grew up in I guess what you would call a "traditional" family home. My Father and Mother were married before me and my sister were conceived. My Father was extremely disciplined with money so my Mother had the option of not working (in fact he insisted on it), but as we got older she decided to get a part-time job. So yeah I still believe in things like the nuclear family and clear gender roles where men be gentlemen and women act like ladies.

Anonymous said...

@2:56 PM- Marriage provides family security, morals and values. Its the proper way to go. Having 2 parents in the home teaching respect and family values goes a lot further than a single parent anyday. Also, 2 incomes in the home is also the way to go ...that is IF you plan on owning something and sending your kids off to college AND having a life...at the same damn time!!!

any human that wants to raise a child alone and bare the responsibility is retarded! Trust me, your child WANTS a father..they ALL DO!!
and kids WANT TO SEE THEIR FATHER LOVE THEIR MOTHER!!

so, either never have kids and be single forever, or consider someone else's feelings and wellbeing before your own, like all parents SHOULD do!

alrighty then said...

Do u think its a coincidence that crack n heroine became an epidemic when we started coming together as a people. How is it possible that illegal guns are such a problem n cant be controlled but a satellite in outer space can tell you what color your poop was after u ate dinner last night. Tell the whole truth since we being so honest. N i know some of u are white bcuz just like ur ancestors u point out black ppl faults while conveniently sweeping yours under the rug. FUCK OUTTA HERE WIT THAT BUUUUUULLLLLLSHAT! N on the black blogs at that. Maybe if u could stop trying to keep us down u might be able to finally figure out how WE built the pyramids in Egypt. We are STILL great despite everything. N that is what some (not all) "others" hate the most about us. Its really sad bcuz the world would be a better place if we were all truly equal. But mafuckas would rather destroy the planet and its natural resources n build weapons that can kill us all rather than work together so we can all survive. Humans i tell ya

Anonymous said...

3:06, You're ranting about White people, but I bet you follow the White man's doctrine: Marriage, holidays, paying taxes, etc. So really, you need to just shut the fuck up. Fake ass hypocritical activist.

Anonymous said...

@3:06 PM - my little sister is 7- LOL- she's actually very smart, but she does get bored , like most kids her age...I'm having to babysit her..so I'll give her something "fun" to do LOL

alrighty then said...

N yes i posted a damn essay but atleast its about something. If the trolls can post comments to themselves all day race baiting n bashing folk i can certainly express how i feel about MY race. If u dont like it dont read feel free to comment or ask questions but all ignorance will be ignored

Anonymous said...

@2:54

You need to read this:

http://www.angelfire.com/ill/hebrewisrael/printpages/jewstrad.html

The Ancient Israelites did not describe themselves as "Jews". In fact, there is no "J" sound in ancient of modern Hebrew and the English letter "J" was formed until the mid 17th century.

Anonymous said...

3:09, Where did the idea of marriage in America originate from? This is a serious question. You have a good argument, but I just want to know who or what influenced your argument.

Anonymous said...

@2:57 PM - most people that I know that are unhappily married DONT even wear a ring.

A ring is just a symbol of love given to a wife from a husband. Women like to flaunt it because they know that not all women will be propsed to, let alone married.

some woman rather have the baby, welfare and section 8, than the security of a husband....go figure

Bee Gee said...

I wanna read all the house nigga black men bashing posts on here, but I aint got time. Besides, I reading one pretty much means I read them all. I adore you, black woman. But for you ones that love to stereotype and generalize black men whenever a potential dead beat daddy post gets put up on the forum... I find it highly ironic that it's normally you willie lynchette ass "sistas" that CAN NOT STAND simple ass black men stereotype and generalize black women based on a post that features some ignorant sista celebrity.

You are a walking contradiction and you stand for nothing because you're too busy falling for everything negative put out there about black men. Black men don't show affection to their loved ones in public? Where are you dumbass broads posting from, Iceland?

Anonymous said...

@2;56 I am no holy roly christian. I can't quote Bible Scriptures and I can't tell you when I went to Church. But I do try to live my life within the context of the Bible. Because of that I have not fell into the trappings and difficulties a lot of women face. I want to give my body to my husband, the person I stand before God to. And if he doesn't want me, thats fine, but as long as I live within the word, I don't worry what the next man or woman does

Anonymous said...

African-Americans, to me, are a very lost group of people. I understand that our ancestors were brought here, totally stripped of their names, identities, religions, customs, etc., but what troubles me is that fact that 99% of African-Americans do NOT seek their African roots. Most African-Americans are "white-washed", totally bamboozled by European standards of beauty, relationships, etc. That is SO evident with some of the replies here on this topic. While this is a very engaging and invigorating post, I can sense the confusion and unconsciousness here as well.
We, as African-Americans, frown our noses up at Africa and African culture. We call polygamous African relationships "weird" and "not normal". We are still attached to our slave masters' names by way of our last names. I could go on and on, but my point is: How dare YOU denounce and not seek YOUR REAL CULTURE, but you'll embrace EVERYTHING about European-ass America? I'm done.

Anonymous said...

@3:14 PM - I was influenced by my parents, actually.. and my grandparents. who are all still married to this day. I dont want to be one of shawty low's babymomma's LOL. I'd rather have a REAL family. People born to single mothers are normally traumatized by the hardships produced by single adults. e.i, dating, financial hardtimes, poverty ect.

Anonymous said...

@3:21 PM - THIS IS JUST ANOTHER EXCUSE FOR YOU ALL TO CONTINUE TO FUCK EACHOTHER AND PRODUCE BASTARD BLACK KIDS THAT NO ONE LOVES. GET NEUTERED FIRST, YOU FILTY SEX SLAVE ANIMALS!

Anonymous said...

I know its hard to move on and not be spiteful. A lot of people say dnt be a baby mama,all she wants to do is be on welfare blah blah same shit. These people have no idea. Believe it or not its not just the baby that makes women feel men are obligated. Its just the fact that you guys did something out of love that produced something even moreif beautiful. Welfare, child support, section 8. No one aspires for that. But regardless she's hurt. Maybe money and fame changed him idk. But what I do know is when I got pregnant this is how I felt. And if I was left soon after I would be hurt too. And no I wasnt married.

Anonymous said...

3:28, I hope you seek treatment. I'm an African-American. The point of my post was to identify how we, as BLACKS, are so quick to shun the Motherland., but embrace America. African kids aren't considered "Black", sorry. You seem angry, hurt, lost and confused. Thank you so very much for proving my post at 3:21 to be true. Bamboozled fool.

Anonymous said...

@3:21 PM 100% of the black people I know has never been to nor plan on going to Africa. so STFU! were in America... people need to know how to live HERE, unless youre planning to take ya ass BACK to africa- lmao

Anonymous said...

@3:36 PM
- I THINK YOU SHOULD GO TO AFRICA- LOL- CUZ DONT NOBODY GIVE A FUCK ABOUT AFRICA OR AFRICANS

WE ARE GONNA STAY HERE IN AMERICA, AND LIVE AS AMERICANS

GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR BOAT TRIP O-o

alrighty then said...

So out of everything i wrote the most ppl can respond with is ignorance n negativity. Reading without COMPREHENSION is a moot point. The point was to play devils advocate n point out the entire issue not just part of it. But if it makes u feel better to be negative go right ahead. Continue to make a fool of yourself while trying to make others look foolish. Ignorance is bliss indeed. N well some if yall are reeeeeal happy around here. Btw ur assumption about what traditions i follow is not relevant to the argument. Doesn't matter what my customs are the facts still stand

Anonymous said...

@3:36 PM - make better decisions regarding your pussy- end of story! not all men are bad, but if you keep finding the ones that are.. something is terribly wrong with the message you're sending into the universe LOL

however, have you noticed that women that actually HAVE a father is far less likely to become some body's sperm container?????

give your child a chance, find her daddy and make a fucking family. Of course, he doesnt love you, but he should love his seed enough to watch it grow onto something useful, and not just one of shawty low's side piece pussy- LOL

Anonymous said...

Damn, it's been real hard in the black celebrity streets since Ciara lost Missy/Jazzy Pha and tried to become a sex seller.
Ciara put a lot of effort into getting her body overly toned so she could win the public over with her sexiness and she ain't been nothing but rejected. I don't think I've ever seen someone who was once A-list get thrown away like this
not even Chris Brown, slutty got Keri Hilson some movie guest spots and a Forever 21 promotion, and Kim K, well.
why did Ciara's slutty go so wrong
CRAZY

Anonymous said...

@3:40 PM - SHOULDNT YOU BE GETTING FUCKED RIGHT NOW???? I MEAN, THAT IS YOUR POINT, RIGHT? BLACK PEOPLE SHOULD FUCK EACHOTHER WITHOUT CONSEQUENCE, OR MORAL RESPONSIBILITY BECAUSE ITS YOUR FILTHY CULTURE, RIGHT?

Anonymous said...

3:40, Exactly. It's pointless to try to talk with sensibility on this post. Most people here are ignorant and White-washed, like the people in here talking bad about Africa. America doesn't give a FUCK about their Black asses, which is why they JUST gave us CIVIL RIGHTS in 1964. How are you praising a country that hung Black men from their penises and necks on trees? How are you praising a country that sent out postcards and telegrams to invite people to see Black people get lynched, like it was entertainment?

Anonymous said...

@3:46 PM -youre kidding? Ciara is 27 and worth over 10 million dollars...I'd say, this chick won- lmao

Anonymous said...

@3:53 PM - bitch dont nobody give a fuck about yester-years- Im in a fucking condo- driving a fuckuin range at 28- in America! fuck what you talking about- LOL

bitch! Im at the fucking strip club making it rain on them hoes...in America! Oh, but first Ima stop by Mr Chow's on my way...you know thats in America too, right?? LOL

Anonymous said...

ONLY BROKE ASS PEOPLE TALK ABOUT HOW "GOOD AFRICA IS. IF ITS SOOOO DAMN GOOD, WHY ALL THE FUCKING AFRICANS COME OUT HERE TO BE A FUCKING CAB DRIVER????????????? AMERICA BEEEEEEN WINNING. AND YOU CAN MAKE WHATEVER LIFE YOU WANT AND HOW MUCH MONEY YOU WANT..ONLY IN AMERICA
#SHIMMERDAT- ALL THE WAY TO MY IRA ACCOUNT BITCHES!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Are Black bitches on here defending America, when they're still rocking the last name of their slave masters? LMFAO!

Anonymous said...

Black bitches are defending America? The same country that calls their dumb asses "undesired", "ugly" and "nappy-headed"? LMFAO

Anonymous said...

Can I ask a serious question? To the Black American people who are in this post, WHY do YOU believe in marriage? Is it something you were taught to believe in? Do you know WHY you believe it? And why are YOU so quick to insult, ridicule and judge those who don't want to be married?
2:56 PM


If you notice, a lot of these commenters have a warped idea of what marriage is. Nobody is wasting $10K on a fucking RING... smart people will spend $1,000 on both rings (combined), and take the other $9,000 and invest it, save it, or spend some of it on a luxury vacation.

If you've never really been exposed to a successful or stable married couple, of course you are not really going to know what it takes to make a marriage work. These people are always talking about the material things that come with getting married, but they never talk about the important stuff that goes along with marriage (companionship, raising children together, romantic relationship).

A ring is just a symbol of love given to a wife from a husband. Women like to flaunt it because they know that not all women will be propsed to, let alone married.
3:16 PM


Actually, a ring is a symbol of OWNERSHIP. Until recently, most men did not wear a wedding ring, because the purpose of the ring was to show that a woman is the PROPERTY of her husband.


Anonymous said...

Yes I'm going to be honest our Black Culture is filth, garbage. But Africa isn't better. The entire is full of corrupt leaders, murderous rebels. You have untold riches but you have let others take them. Had your continent did like Arabs and stuck together, you and kept your wealth you wouldn't be begging. Now who is dumb?

Anonymous said...

I'm not saying its right but girl got pregnant by him while he was with his other chils mom. So she is just getting karma he left her for ciara. But future giving community dick and that's not cool but she is the one going on twitter throwing shots at ciara when she lost him the way she got him all I'm saying....

Anonymous said...

Co-sign to WHO EVER is calling Black women out for shading Africa but then stanning for America. America been told Black women that they weren't shit. 72% of them WILL NEVER get married.

Anonymous said...

At the first 4:10, Thank you so much for your SENSIBLE, RATIONAL AND INTELLIGENT COMMENT.

Anonymous said...

BEEGEE YOU DERANGED APE YOU HAVE NO SAY. YOU SAY THE N WORD ALL THE TIME.

AFRICA IS A SUPERB CONTINENT. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS 'AFRICAN-AMERICAN' AND AFRICAN AMERICAN WOULD BE AN AMERICAN BORN TO AFRICAN IMMIGRANTS WHO IS NOT A DESCENDANT OF A SLAVE AND HAS AN AFRICAN LAST NAME BUT AN AMERICAN BIRTH CERTIFICATE. GOT IT? GOOD.

alrighty then said...

So many ppl lying n fronting. Ur so happy n have this n that n still take time out to try to put other ppl down. Please ur not doing anything bcuz if u were u would be able to have an intelligent conversation without being angry n facetious. It shows all in ur post regardless of who u pretend to be n wat u pretend to have. N no i shouldnt be "getting fucked" YOUR people did enough of that to our culture. What i need is to understand when did white ppl who raped pillaged n conquered lands that pp already lived on become the pillar of morality? If white ppl wanted the problems they complain about in regards to black ppl to disappear they would make things equal. But they wont. Would u rather be a black baby mama or a slave master? N if your best response to a legitimate respectfully posed question is anything angry or insulting then YOU are part of the problem too. If ur so called better then y let someone elses personal choices bother u enough to argue n be vile wit strangers on a black blog.....furthermore y are u even here? White ppl were such proud n strong racists so y did they wear a hood to hide their faces? Cuz they wish they were black or probably raped black women n fathered black kids n some of u on here pretending to hate black ppl are no different. U really hate yourself. N nothing black ppl do today or yester year as u say is as bad as what some evil white ppl have been doing since the beginning of time. Children out of wedlock compared to slavery n segregation is apples to oranges. N those of u calling ppl lost for being intelligent honest n mature are the lost ones. Idc wat u drive n where u live if u stood in line next to a bm wit 6 kids n no man n a racist white man walked by he would look down on both of yall not just the bm. Think of the bigger picture ppl. Its really sad so many ppl areso proud of their ignorance n stupidity

Anonymous said...

@12:39, I was born in wedlock. My parents were married for 3 years before they have me their first born. Not ever Black child is an OOW baby. I know that’s hard to believe. I even had a former friend challenge me regarding my parents’ marriage. She tried to say that because my parents didn't have wedding photos that they really weren't married. I soon after that started distancing myself from her.

Anonymous said...

4:10 yeah and that ownership goes both ways. which is why men are wearing them now as opposed to way back in the day.

Anonymous said...

'alrighty then is a RACIST and a LIAR' if you believe anything it says you are not bright in the head

Anonymous said...

I'm Black; not African-American. My ancestors were American Black slaves. I however think that Africa is very superb continent, home to diamonds, silver, titanium and other natural resources. While Africa does have many problems within its countries, Africa is still herald as "The Motherland"--and it is called that for a reason. While I was born in America, I live in America, work in America, drive an American car, etc., that gives me no right to talk shit about Africa. I think it's funny and insane that there are ignorant NIGGERS on this thread trying to praise America--a country that does NOT care about YOUR Black ass.

Anonymous said...

You still have people getting married for the wrong reasons. I know a guy who married his girlfriend because she got pregnant. He didn't want to marry her, because he found out she gave him an STD, and people tried to talk him out of it, but he married her anyway.

They were not engaged before she got pregnant, and he hadn't even taken her to meet his family yet, so everyone knows he only married her because of the baby. He is really resentful and he makes slick comments about her all the time. And he has told all his family and friends that this girl gave him an STD.

Marriage is not for everyone one, and it's not for every situation. Their relationship already has a lot of negativity in it due to the lack of trust, and they are bringing a baby into that poisonous atmosphere. SMH.

Anonymous said...

There are no white racist on this site. NONE OF THESE COMMENTS ARE RACIST YOU MORONS. NOW WHAT IS RACIST IS THAT DERANGED STAN CALLING YOU ALL DARK BUTTS AND MAMMIES NOW THAT IS RACIST AND THAT STAN IS BLACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK.

Anonymous said...

Okay, I have never heard of this guy. Is he rich and talented? because he sho is ugly. Why is he news?

Anonymous said...

4:10 yeah and that ownership goes both ways. which is why men are wearing them now as opposed to way back in the day.
4:18 PM


Owning another human being is SLAVERY, not marriage. Marriage is a PARTNERSHIP between two people, not two people owning each other.

You own a cow, or a car, or your dog... not your husband or your wife.

Anonymous said...

I know that only 1% of people commenting here are actually married. No man or woman in their right mind will marry ANY of these ghetto ass trolls up in here.

alrighty then said...

N y is there a comparison of countries going on. Black is black period. No matter where u go in the world. N as a WHOLE we need to do better but it wont happen if ppl fail to realize the source of the problem n that this same source complaining about black ppl (african, Caribbean, american, martian or whatever else) is the same source creating n enabling the decline of black culture period. We would do a lot better if we come together instead of trying to think one black person is better than the other when they judge us ALL the same way.....just a thought

Anonymous said...

^ But YOU are a LIAR so what you say is totally unreliable.

Anonymous said...

Marriage is still very patriarchal (European) and it still hints at ownership. Think of women taking their husband's last name. Taking a man's last name is a social construct symbolizing that this woman BELONGS to this man, and that HE is entitled to her body. (Don't believe me? Please research.) Now, I know that some women do the hyphenated-name thing, but all in all, marriage, for the most part, is VERY patriarchal and controlling.

Anonymous said...

4:25, Africa isn't a country. What you meant to ask is: "Why is there a comparison of Africa and America?"

alrighty then said...

No im not a racist. N please feel free to point out my lies! N if ppl can debate for a year about whether or not beyonce was really pregnant then surely i can RESPECTFULLY (unlike you) add my two cents to this racial debate. Feel free to skip over my font if it bothers u so much. But u wont bcuz its truth and u need to put out ignorance n negativity to try n distract mature adults from commenting on the TRUTH. Fyi i have nothing against any race bcuz unlike u i understand that one or two ppl dont represent an entire race. Im speaking solely to the racists. If it dont apply let it fly. But a liar n a thief will always identify himself like u just did by taking a general statement so personally.

Anonymous said...

BOTH 3:09 DESERVES COMMENT OF THE YEAR AWARDS


ROUND OF APPLAUSE

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Anonymous said...



Marriage is still very patriarchal (European) and it still hints at ownership. Think of women taking their husband's last name. Taking a man's last name is a social construct symbolizing that this woman BELONGS to this man, and that HE is entitled to her body. (Don't believe me? Please research.) Now, I know that some women do the hyphenated-name thing, but all in all, marriage, for the most part, is VERY patriarchal and controlling.
4:28 PM
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I know a man who took his wife's last name when they got married. Their kids have her last name, too.

Anonymous said...

@4:32

'alrighty then'

YOU are a LIAR that is why you are offended but what I said. You are stan? so it all makes sense. Your entire rant was a LIE you say white people did this, and that WHO IN PARTICULAR? NAME THEM. WHO PILFERAGE GIVE NAMES AND DATES. You weren't there you don't know sh!t other then what someone told you. Everything you say is a rumor or a myth until proven otherwise. And you are racist because you font like a racist and you are probably the same person telling the lies about blacks being 'Hebrews' when there is not such thing as race in spirituality/religion ONLY ethnic tribes.

Anonymous said...

Why is living within the context of the Bible "frontin'"? Why is not being a single mother considered wrong?

alrighty then said...

Thank u. Ur right Africa is a continent n the usa is a country. See i admit when im wrong or make a mistake.


Furthermore im not insulting anyone or putting anyone down. N despite being called a liar ive yet to have those accusing me tp point out the lies. Only way a person would be offended by what im saying is if it applies to you. So u RACISTS (n not all of u are racists some of u are just simply stupid n ignorant) keep identifying yourselves

Anonymous said...

4:35, That's cool if the fam took the wife's last name. Wow.

Anonymous said...

@Alrighty Then,
Thanks for what you said about the malice behavior of some White people in America. But, how do you feel about Black Americans defending America, but talking trash about Africa?

Anonymous said...

Marriage and Singleness is a gift. Why people who have no intentions of are getting married trying to discourage others from marriage. If you prefer singleness, then do you and leave other people who want to get married alone. How does a married person’s lifestyle affect you? Btw, did you know that married people get higher tax breaks single people?

Anonymous said...

@3:39

PROOF YOU DON'T TRAVEL. BY BOAT? THAT'S HOW YOU GOT HERE. AFRICANS TRAVEL BY PLANE JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE.

Anonymous said...

Again. Most Black Americans are "Christian" by default, meaning that they practice some form of Christianity based on family tradition, etc. When a person chooses to debate OR question something that a person has been taught, that person gets offended. Case and point: The Black Americans who identify as Christians on this blog are both offended AND attacking those who have different views on marriage. Some Christians have a reputation for being judgmental and hypocritical.

alrighty then said...

Lol so by your logic the holocaust never happened bcuz none of us were there to see it. Go read a book about medgar evers mlk malcolm x etc. View footage of black children being hosed down spit on n attacked by dogs at the hands of white adults. Look at the us constitution. How could slavery have been abolished if it never existed? Like i said point out how much of a problem black children being born oow is but BLATANTLY LIE AND DENY what was done to black people in africa America n worldwide. Attack me if u must. Its just words n ur just an anonymous poster. But i will continue to be truthful n offer my opinion....STILL respectfully without attacking or insulting anyone. If u dont like it dont read n dont respond. Prove im lying. Slavery n segregation n racism is NOT a rumor dear. N im ONLY posting as alrighty then no need tp cosign myself. Just being truthful n not stooping to your level with cuss words n insults is good enuf for me

Anonymous said...

@4:43

LET BLACK AMERICANS TALK TRASH ABOUT AFRICA THEY HAVE NO IDENTITY PERIOD. HIP-HOP? LOL IS THIS SOMETHING TO BE PROUD OF.


CHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHYIAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!



LOVE AFRICAN CULTURE AND IF I COULD CHOOSE WOULD CHOOSE AFRICAN OR MIDDLE EASTERN NOT WHITE.

Anonymous said...

@4:46, Who cares about a tax break? You are just proving our points. People get married for the most ridiculous and asinine reasons. People MOSTLY get married because the woman is pregnant, they are pressured by family, friends and society or they see marriage as a financial benefit.

Anonymous said...

it's hard to imagine these are adults acting this way.

alrighty then said...

4:43 see 4:25

Anonymous said...

@the first 4:50, I actually agree with you. Most Black Americans are very dumb, lost and only relate to ghetto ass "Hip Hop" culture.

Anonymous said...

@ 'alrighty then'

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH PERIOD.

Anonymous said...

Is 'alrighty then' ANOTHER bey STAN TROLL posting under MULTIPLE ANON? Me thinks so.

Anonymous said...

How can you meet a man FALL IN LOVE with that man and NOT want to get MARRIED and start a family? that is just common sense.

And 'alrighty then' is a troll who brought Africa and White People into the mix to incite a 'race war' do not respond to it

alrighty then said...

4:56 so tell me the truth dear? Im listening. Teach me something. Lets debate this wit facts like adults do. Prove me wrong wit FACTS n not just ur insults n opinions. If u prove me wrong i can live with that. But its going to take more than cuss words n CAPS LOCK to do that

Anonymous said...

I don't think "Alrighty Then" is a troll or a stan. Whenever a person comes in here and tells the truth, you morons call them a "troll" or a "stan".

Anonymous said...

I know a couple who got married so the guy could get medical benefits from his girlfriend's job. They had been living together for 10 years, they got married for the medical, and separated 4 years later.

Anonymous said...

5:00, Sweetie, actually, most people are in LUST with each other, not LOVE. If people were in REAL LOVE with one another, there would be no need for divorces and past relationships. THAT is common sense. Once people learn to separate LUST from LOVE, they will understand. Until then, people will continue to *think* that they are in LOVE with a person.
Very rarely do couples stay married for 60 years. I'd say that those people are in LOVE. Nowadays, people are getting married because society tells them so and they *think* they are in LOVE, only to divorce right after.

Anonymous said...

@4:50, most black women don't get married because they are pregnant because if that were true the OOW birth in the Black community would not be at 80% and climbing.

If you prefer Singleness that fine too but if others want to get married how that affects your life adversely.

I also believe that most hard working tax paying citizens would not scoff at a tax break. If they riches people in the country are trying to cut their taxes why would other hard working people want a tax break as well.

Anonymous said...

Co-sign to 5:04. People REALLY are in LUST instead of in LOVE.

alrighty then said...

@5:01 thank you. Im no stan but if i was i still dont see how that negates anything i said? I guess i am kinda trolling this post tho but so is everyone else commenting back n forth. Maybe if i turn on my caps my questions will be answered instead of deflected wit stupid accusations about my identity on a blog. WHAT DID I SAY THATS NOT TRUTHFUL? IVE YET TO INSULT ANYONE. AND IF IM LYING PROVE ME WRONG. DONT CHANGE THE SUBJECT. BACK UP YOUR STATEMENT WITH FACTS NOT INSULTS N ACCUSATIONS.....there lets see if i can get a mature response now

Anonymous said...

Look black Americans you don't get it WE ARE TRYING TO HELP YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There was one black American guy he was sooooooo cute but he looked soooooooooo angry and I just wanted to tell him it's ok to smile!!!!!! SMH black Americans don't get it. You think that we are racist or trolls but truth is we want to see improvement. Actually, you know what forget it.

Anonymous said...

I know a guy who married his high school sweetheart right out of school, they broke up (but never got a divorce) a few months later.

He moved in with some woman with 3 kids and had a kid with her, and they stayed together for 20 years as an unmarried couple.

Anonymous said...

Picture this: You’ve got all your ducks in a row. You’ve graduated high school and got accepted to the college of your choice. You have a career goal, so you’ve decided putting off having kids until you’re emotionally and financially prepared. However, your boyfriend dropped out of high school and is less than thrilled you’ll be going away to university. You never have sex without a condom, which your boyfriend usually has handy. Little do you know that when it’s pitch dark in the room, he’s slipping it off, riding bareback, and ejaculating inside you. Two weeks before you’re to go off to college, you find out you’re pregnant. Your boyfriend insists you stay put because he has a right to raise his child with you living in the same town/neighborhood. You stay. Opt for a few community college classes, have the baby. Then…he bails, leaving you with a baby you have to raise alone, no college degree, and stuck in a neighborhood you tried your best to escape.

alrighty then said...

If u were reading AND comprehending wat ur reading u would see that i didnt even start commenting til halfway thru the post. Nor am i the one who started the Africa debate. In fact i am the one who said black is black no matter wat part of the world. N yeah i spoke on what SOME {not all) white ppl did just like ppl are talking about black ppl. So what? Whats your point? In fact im one of the only few posters NOT attacking insulting n belittling ppl. So dont try to call me out as a troll or stan for being HONEST n furthermore i believe i stated if u dont like it dont read n dont respond so wats ur point of trying to get ppl to ignore me? I mean you didnt so y tell others to ignore me......bcuz YOU are the racist n the troll trying to deflect ppl from truth

Anonymous said...

Look if you are MIDDLE CLASS and want a nice home with a decent mortgage YOU NEED TO BE MARRIED in order to stand out. What bank is going to finance a home for a single mom nor divorcee? That's what's wrong with black Americans they never think about the future.

alrighty then said...

N the same one calling me a liar racist troll stan is the same one saying slavery was a myth n a rumor (see 4:38) so ummmm yeah

Anonymous said...

5:09 the new wife should demand more. if he wins the lotto or dies his current wife gets all and her kids maybe nothing.

5:11 please tell what is the main idea? summarize it woncha?

Anonymous said...

@5:14, Agreed. Urban folks always complaining about how tough life is but they engage in reckless behavoir, like have a bunch of OOW children. Black men abandoning their children like they have the plague and you wonder why most of the Black kids are going to prison faster that to college. If Black men would raise their sons properly people wouldn't have to worry about gang rapes and random shoot outs.

Anonymous said...

"make better decisions regarding your pussy..."

^^For whatever reason this line tickled me. LOL

Anonymous said...

@ 'alrighty then'

I CALL YOUR BLUFF.

Here is the run down. First off when you say white be more specific. For example you see how some of the posters here say BLACK AMERICANS instead of BLACKS? Because they are smart enough to know the difference.

These whites you are referring to are EUROPEAN WHITES who were pilfering EVERYONE INCLUDING OTHER WHITES MMMMMMKAY?

Let's see you have the British (WHITE EUROPEANS) who were ENSLAVING the IRISH and the SCOTTISH whom they saw were beneath them. Then they decided to switch it up because they felt sort of bad and TURN IT INTO INDENTURE SERVITUDE but the feelings to stayed the same.

Then the British (WHITE EUROPEANS) decided to go on a MISSION AND CONQUER THE WORLD so they set sail to the Americas and COLONIZED AMERICA (NORTH AMERICA I.E. THE US) and then decided to do the same to the following nations: (You know the list is too long to put in this space) But the Brits colonized over 60% of the world's population INCLUDING OTHER WHITES. FOUGHT MANY WARS AS A RESULT. YOU KNOW THE AMERICAN REVOLUTION? That was about America's freedom from the Brits, right?

The French (White Europeans) WERE JEALOUS Of the Brits WANTED THEIR PIECE OF THE PIE SO THEY TOO BEGAN TO EXPLORE. COLONIZED MANY COUNTRIES (NOT AS MANY AS THE BRITISH BUT STILL A LOT)That is how you have these FRENCH SPEAKING COUNTRIES (FRANCOPHONE) before you. But wait the Brits and the French were going at it. MEANWHILE IN AFRICA (THE AFRICANS WERE ALREADY AMASSING SLAVES OF THEIR OWN AND BUYING AND SELLING WITH OTHER AFRICANS AS WELL AS THE ARABS) THE PORTUGUESE SEE WHAT'S GOING ON THEIR JEALOUS OF THE FRENCH AND THE BRITISH, THEY WANT THEIR POWER THEY WANT THEIR ROYAL HOUSES LACED LIKE THE FRENCH AND BRITISH

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Anonymous said...

Even the bible says that in the last days people will see evil as good and good as evil When did the "family" with all members intact become outdated and unecessary? Really?
Smh

alrighty then said...

Ok maybe i didnt ask the question right the first time. Do u think that if every black baby born in America from today until the end of time was born in wedlock that all our problems as a race would just disappear? I personally believe that oow babies n shacking up IS a problem for a lot of black ppl in America bcuz of the struggles n stigmas you face as a single parent. If you are a single mom who is mature enough and prepared financially and mentally to raise a child alone or as a co parent with the father without all the drama n emotions then hats off to you. That i can respect bcuz every person is different. But the truth is the majority of oow relationships DONT happen that way n thats y its such an issue. Not enough women and men are truly prepared n willing to face parenthood AFTER the child is born. Now u have cases of rape, molestation or sheer confusion n immaturity that result in parenthood. So u cant group all oow parents together. On the same note marriage is not a recipe for a happy family bcuz feelings change n just as ppl marry they also divorce. Ppl need to figure out whats best for them n their relationship before they have kids but that doesn't necessarily mean marriage

Anonymous said...

So they decide to go into AFRICA (THIS IS CRUCIAL TO YOU UNDERSTANDING SO PAY ATTENTION TO THIS SHOCKER)

THE AFRICANS ALREADY HAD SLAVES! I REPEAT THE AFRICANS ALREADY HAD SLAVES! THE ROYAL HOUSES IN AFRICA (SHOCKER I KNOW!YOU MEAN LIKE THE FRENCH AND THE BRITISH THE AFRICANS ALSO HAD MONARCHIES? WOW)THE KINGS AND QUEENS HAD SLAVES JUST LIKE THE BRITS AND FRENCH DID. PORTUGUESE COMES IN AND SAYS 'LOOK YOU GIVE ME SOME SLAVES I'LL GIVE YOU WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE' WE HAVE SOME COLONIES THAT WE NEED SLAVES TO CULTIVATE. SO WE WILL SHARE THE CROPS AND PRODUCE FROM THE COLONIES IF YOU PROVIDE THE LABOR AND WE WILL ALSO GIVE YOU GUNS, RUM AND OTHER GOODS. DEAL? THE AFRICAN KINGS WERE LIKE YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! (Lol sorry that's not funny but I don't know) Anyway they were like you mean all we have to do is give you these people (WHO MOST WERE ALREADY CRIMINALS ANWYAY) AWAY TO YOU IN EXCHANGE FOR GOODS? GAME.

SO UPON AGREEMENT THE PORTUGUESE BUILD FORTS SLAVE FORTS OF THE COAST OF AFRICA
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^ DEAD GIVEAWAY THE FORTS

SO YOU MEAN TO TELL ME THE AFRICANS WOULD ALLOW SOME STRANGER TO COME INTO THEIR LAND AND BUILT FORTS? ROFL............ THEY AGREED WITH THE PORTUGUESE TO BUILD AND IN FACT HELP TO BUILD THESE FORTS TO GET THE PROCESS MOVING.


THE KINGS HAD NO IDEA WHAT THE PORTUGUESE WERE GOING TO DO WITH THE SLAVES THEY THOUGHT THEY WERE GOING TO BE WORKING AND PRODUCING CROPS FOR TRADE. WHAT THE SLAVE OWNERS DID ONCE THE AFRICANS LEFT THE SHORES WERE NO LONGER IN THEIR HANDS

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