Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Kola Boof is Getting Married


Kimora Lee Simmons can breath a sigh of relief. Author activist Kola Boof announces her impending marriage to Jason Appelbaum...

Bestselling novelist Kola Boof (44) has accepted a marriage proposal from air force pilot and businessman Jason Appelbaum (48). They have known each other for 12 years and were persuaded by Boof’s sons to consider getting married last week.
Jason calls Kola “fascinating, sexy and a great cook.” Kola calls Jason “calm, strong and there for me. He’s a great listener.” They met 12 years ago when Jason flew Kola to an event in New York City on a private plane. Jason has invested in Kola’s writing career.
They plan to be married in a secular ceremony in New York City in November 2013.
Given Kola's outspoken ideals on race many of her followers were shocked that she would marry a Jewish man. Kola explains her choice in part for Beyond Black and White,
I am not an “Afrocentric”…I am an Americanized writer, adopted from Omdurman, Sudan by Black Americans who is extremely proud of her Nilotic-Oromo heritage. Like most Blacks in America, I have been conflicted my whole life by race issues and identity.
I have never been against marrying a White man, I have been with several White men in the past…but I will admit that my preference (all my life) has been for Black men. It was always Black men who had the best chance with me.
However, for those who absolutely can’t understand why “Kola Boof” would marry a White man, I would like to share with Americans my true feelings….I live in America…I don’t feel loved by Black American men as a group…I feel betrayed by Black men…I don’t trust Black men.
Even though they are my preference (my first husband was Black)…I don’t think I could marry a Black man now at age 44 after everything I’ve witnessed as an American.
Read Kola's full statement on her marriage here.

87 comments:

Anonymous said...

In other words, I'm going to betray myself before I get betrayed...

Anonymous said...

Mr. Appelbaum, there are easier ways to commit suicide.

Anonymous said...

Very interesting how she preach this and preach that and she goes ahead and marry a jewish man of all things, which is fine... just don't be preaching all the damn time. Congrats to her sincerely.

Anonymous said...

Deeeeeaaaaddddd @ dis bitch getting married! I literally passed da fuck out @ the title of this thread! LMMFAO!!!

Anonymous said...

LOVE HAS NO COLOR! Congrats KOLA!

Anonymous said...

Black men and women need to stop using each other as an excuse of why they want to marry or date another race.

Anonymous said...

Self contradicting coo coo BIRD!!!
#sellout

Anonymous said...

Congrats kola! With ur crazy arse! Lol

Anonymous said...

All the Black men of the world would like to send out a sincere thunderous heartfelt thank you and long life to Jason, you have shouldered our greatest fear and nagging burden. Thank you.

Anonymous said...

I hope some jealous, vindictive, psychotic bitch comes along and wrecks her union the same way she wrecked Kimora's and Djimon's. #karma

Anonymous said...

Cosign 9:47

What ya'll complaining for, ya'll act like some African prince or some Black American dude would be interested in marrying her. Screwing her, yes, being legally tied to her, hell no. She cray,cray, and white people are crazy anyway. Match made in heaven.

Anonymous said...

Is she even a real person? Has anyone ever seen her actually speak? I suspect she is a persona someone has created.

Anonymous said...

I'm still blinking at the term "rainbeau". Is that what they're calling non-Black partners these days?

Anonymous said...

Congrats to her. I feel her totally!

Bee Gee said...

"But if life steps in and we do end up having a child, I would like it understood that our child will be considered “Biracial” and not Black. It’s very important to me that African-Americans understand that about me as an African woman."


Lmao. You can consider your child to be whatever race you want, lady, but the white world that you live will view that child to be as black as you are, regardless of how much white is in it. Contrats and PEACE!!

Anonymous said...

talkin' black & sleepin' white. ain't that usually how it goes?

Anonymous said...

Sounds like total bullshit to me FOH

Anonymous said...

ummm, I'm still stuck on the fact that she is ONLY 44. Gosh, life has been unkind. LOL.

Mad News said...

Sonmething smells fishy here...Hmmm.... I'm not convinced...

Anonymous said...

Either he's gay or she's doing some real freaky shit usually reserved for white girls are the only reasons for marrying her .

Anonymous said...

If she can find a man to wife her there's GOTTA be hope for me!

Also.....she's only 44? I thought she was about 10 yrs older than that.

Dirtydianna said...

I am still trying to figure out how in the hell did she hook up with former public enemy #1 osama bin laden....and @ 10:46 I'm with you, bc looks wise I got her beat by 1 million times....but I do Not want a white man, so I guess thats the catch.

Anonymous said...

@9:47AM, I agree 10,000,000% with your comment.

Anonymous said...

My preference is black men but I will date whoever treats me the way I want to be treated without making me disgusted.

Anonymous said...

LMBO@9:51 and 9:40!!! I'm rolling.

As for the "announcement" and the story, this is just some PR bullshit manipulation a la the Kumtrashians. No one in their right mind would wife this viper. And side eye at her sons having to "convince" them to marry. Whatever
WS

Anonymous said...

Congrats to Kola. You can have all the preferences you want, but the truth is, almost 50% of black women in this country have either NEVER been married or will NEVER get married. Those stats are shocking to me and it's because black women are waiting around for the perfect black man, which will never happen. We need to seriously open up our minds and dating pools to men of all races if we want a suitable mate. Black men are NOT sitting at home waiting for us - they bounced a long time ago. Men of all races like Black women so don't believe the hype the media tries to put out there about Black women. We're the ones who are choosing to stay loyal to our race when our men couldn't give less of a phuck.

MsDYS said...

This chick is a nut, point blank. She negates any and all valid points she makes by being so bat shit crazy. I wish she would just disappear. Immigration, is there any way to have this nutcase deported? We have enough home grown idiots

Anonymous said...

I had a very long exchange with Kola about the strong familial responsibility that the Jewish community tends to preserve, especially about the men. Granted, it's a blanketed statement but I think it stands in most cases. Therefore, considering the exchange Kola & I had I am not surprised.

Anonymous said...

What's the issue? Congrats Kola. I see the haters are out in full force as usual. You bitter Black bitches are just mad because no man has shown an interest in you. You bitches are always hollering about bad karma---do you like being so full of doom? Maybe if you starting to think optimistically, you'd live better.

Anonymous said...

that man looks happy as hell!

Anonymous said...

She better be careful of that fake jew bastard, they are the worst of the krakazoid clan. those filthy badtards will havebyou strung out on dope, molest the kids, divorce you and have you paying them child support, while you live in a homeless shelter. I worked in a homeless shelter and saw sistas who married the pefophile jew dogs. their history alonenon this planet nullifies any type of union with these beast. also she may wanna check DNA facts, them hoes got a ton of fucked up shit wrong with them genetically, you don't want to fuck around and breed with those mutants. I can't in all sincerity offer congrats, while what she said about black mdn is true. patrichy mind fucked those tragic hoes, not all but abot 70% of em aint worth a shit. watch him around hef boys too. read the book Original Sin, Ritual Child Rape and The Church by Dr. Hillman.

Anonymous said...

11:30AM Yes you (babymomma) are waiting with a house full of babies for that perfect black man to come along and make everything right. Out of all those thug baby daddies, not one was willing to make an honorable respectable woman out of you? Do not have any more babies while you are waiting for Mr. Right.

Anonymous said...

Hopefully someone won't sleep with her husband and tweet about their escapades on Twitter....

Anonymous said...

@12:14
Bitch, what you wrote is laughable. I am very happily married with no kids. Fuck ALL the way off cunt.

Anonymous said...

Man, don't you know she got P P'd on at Arsenio Hall's party in Alpharetta, GA. in front of ALL the guest. On second thought, you must be KINKY too. Y'all nadty.

Anonymous said...

11:59 you need a long vacation some meds and some therapy because you obviously have very little love in your life and too much hate in your heart
WS

Anonymous said...

the only fools are the ones that pay kola any attention. its her life, so let her live it.

Anonymous said...

If you have self hate and love them more than yourself, I don't care who you marry. You will past your self hate to your children and so on and so on. Learn self, then love self. That's what's more important. Biracial is the new way of passing.

Anonymous said...

Yes go in on these baby mamas. I do not have any kids and I will expand my options. Black women rather a baby mama or not date outside your race because brothers have no problems with kicking you to the curb and getting something else..

Anonymous said...

1:14 this is 1:15 and I disagree.

First off where do you live because there are many different races dating sisters.

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Kola! Afte Michelle got Barack, the best black man was taken!
Sisters DO NOT waste your loyalty on black men!
I can tell you from personal experience, White men are better educated, have more opportunities, and will treat you better than any "brotha" ever could!
That's my ongoing experience, and I standing by it!!

Anonymous said...

^^^After

Anonymous said...

Mellody Hobson has married her long-time partner - Star Wars director George Lucas - at Skywalker Ranch in Marin County. The ceremony went ahead on Saturday afternoon (June 29, 2013), with former New Jersey Senator Bill Bradley giving away the bride and George's son Jett serving as the best man. The director and producer's daughters Amanda and Katie served as bridesmaids, according to the movie mogul's spokesperson.

Anonymous said...

@2:35

Yes! A Classy Black woman!

If Kola Boof's ugly, long-faced, buffalo-faced, Mask-faced, crazy, dusty rusty tittied ass can get MARRIED then I can get married tomorrow!!!! Who wants to marry me?

This chick's pussy must shine like the sun for the amount of men she has pulled.

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Kola! Afte Michelle got Barack, the best black man was taken!
Sisters DO NOT waste your loyalty on black men!
I can tell you from personal experience, White men are better educated, have more opportunities, and will treat you better than any "brotha" ever could!
That's my ongoing experience, and I standing by it!!
2:14 PM


Gurl you making me want to date outside my race. I try so hard with loving my men. It be so hard.

Anonymous said...

Kola announces her impending marriage to Jason Applebaum...

yeah but does Jason knows he suppose to be marrying Koko?

Anonymous said...

To the poster who said if she can get wifed then theres hope for them. I am dying laughing and floored at your comment. Its true though cus its no beauty there.

Anonymous said...

I'm with @1:15. I don't listen to anyone who says you should only date this person or only date that person. As Black women we should keep options open & be more open to date the non-traditional men

Anonymous said...

@358 yesssssssssssss

This is why black women lose and every other race of women win. Its like black men will go to another race quick and I am the only girl with 3 brothers and I grew up around men and of course they were black and I listen to how they talk and they are so into other race women. I use to be like well damn but then i would see it even away from my family. theres nothing wrong with it. The only thing with black women they sit around and wait for a black man but black men love to date outside there race you better ask those successful ones. Im not being mean. Im stating straight facts from experiences. Get your life my beautiful black women and do not believe other races do not see us because they do.

Anonymous said...

question

how come Kola Boof is ugly but stays hooked up with a celebrity or a handsome fiance but you pretty women calling her ugly don't have anybody? Maybe she's not so ugly. She looks good to me.

Anonymous said...

They keep calling her ugly because she's very dark skinned in that photo and they're jealous. She got a FIOOOOONE white man! Kola always got a fine man, usually rich. I love that ranch with the lake her previous husband bought her. We should all be so ugly.

Anonymous said...

Snitch, what affiliation do you and other bloggers have with this LIAR? If you go back to the AALBC sites, u will find the same pic shes putting out of her fake fiance back in '06. There is no Jew fiance, just like there was no Jamal Lewis, no Mike Tyson, no Osama or DJIMON. STop the fucking nonsense and give us real celebrity gossip. Do u think we're fucking dumb? Damn.

Anonymous said...

white and light bitches going crazy. They dont want nothing great for a brown or dark. If yall was all that why some of you dont have shit but yet this woman is sitting with a RICH man. Bitches I need to say no more.

Anonymous said...

Snitch, are you also that nut Christelyn Karazin? If so, I was the bitch that left that message on your site last nite. Im so pissed with Black bloggers allowing that fraud to spread her lies. I was a newbie on the BB&W site until I realized u and Kola are both whack jobs!!

cns said...

Yes and to all the deep dark chocolate brown beauties that Black men pass on for other woman, there are plenty of White and other non-Black men that love a deep dark chocolate woman. And if you ask any White man or non-Black man that dates/marries Black women why they are attracted to Black women; they will tell you it is because of the Black women's fierce loyalty to their men. They see how the Black women are a ride or die for their ungrateful men.

White men say that White women are the most materialistic women and the least loyal when financial problems arise. So to Black women, the Rainbeaus are watching and they find our loyalty and dark melanin very appealing and they also believe in marriage first then children.

Anonymous said...

KOLA @ 4:39 SHUT THE FUCK OUTTA HERE!

Anonymous said...

Damn Kola Boof! I need to find her & be friends so I can find out her secret. This bish stay with some fine ass men!

Anonymous said...

@ 4:36 PM

Wow! You sound irrational. She's known this man for 12 years and they used to go together. She already said this was an old photo of them. Did you read her article? You sound dumb and mad.

cns said...

@4:50, if you what to meet a rich man they hang out at upscale steakhouses. Rich men love and can afford nice steak dinners. Go during happy hour dressed in a LBD (little black dress) but not a miniskirt. They may think you’re hooker. Also wear stylish stilettos, not hooker pumps; again they may think you’re hooker. And go by yourself. Men will approach if you are alone. If nothing happens don’t give up just try a different night or a different restaurant just makes sure it’s upscale dining.

Anonymous said...

@4:45 bitch I struck a nerve didnt I. You are angry and broke and light but this woman has a man whos rich. Light dont impress me. Like i said if you are all that why yall stil lack and men still cheat. Bitch dont come for me unless I send. Let me have my fucking opinion.

Anonymous said...

Can someone give me advice. I always find the men I take care of and spoil. Lol @CNS give me advice. Lol

Anonymous said...

@2:14

BO is on the Down low

Delited said...

I don't get it. Sounds a bit like contradiction. Unless she's trying to imply that White men treat women better than Black men. Bitch betta not be sayin nat. But, who cares? It's Kola. She's nobody's hero but her kid's.

Anonymous said...

Say what you want.. she's intelligent, a very good writer

Anonymous said...

Congratulations! Much Love, Health & Happiness To The Beautiful Couple!!!

Anonymous said...

Yeah is sad but true black men left black women a long time ago(mainly the brown and dark skin ones). And the black men who want black women want to Fuck us all.....
I am just waiting for Jesus to come,and end this miserable world. I am a true Black Queen loyal to the end and no white man on earth deserves me. But I cannot deal with black men and their Evil Hateful Wicked ways anymore......
The Black Man was God Almighty GREATEST CREATION
BUT now, HE IS NOW GOD'S GREATEST DISAPPOINTMENT
The fools left, God the black women and child a long time ago.
JUDGEMENT IS COMMING FOR ALL OF US THANK GOD!!!!

cns said...

@ 6:02,
The 4P’s of a quality man (of any ethnicity) are Protector, Provider, and Producer and Problem solver. These are the top qualities of a good man. I learn a lot of my information from 3 books that I think is required reading for any woman including Black woman who are looking for a quality husband.

1. The Rules by Fein and Schneider shows women how to spot and user and manipulator. Also teaches women the do’s and don’ts to avoiding being a doormat to men. Quality men love to spoil their women not the other way around but they are only attracted to quality women.

2. Become your own matchmaker by Stanger tells you where to meet rich and successful men. Upscale steakhouses, Upscale sports bars, luxury car shows, boat shows, tech and financial conventions. FYI, Melody Hobson meet George Lucas at a financial convention. She also teaches women that dressing classy will attract quality men.

3. He’s just not that into you by Behrendt and Tuccillo teaches the signs and signal of men that are players who will never seriously commit to or marry you. He tells women the qualities that successful men are attracted to and how to get the man to marry you.

Anonymous said...

@cns thank you so much for the advice.

cns said...

You are welcome. Anytime.

Anonymous said...

As long as she's happy I don't really give a damn. She could marry a fuckin kangaroo if it floated her boat. Kola maybe crazy, but she's interesting. It seems as though men of ethnicity have only used her and most won't even claim her. Djimon Hounsou wouldn't even admit he touched her to scratch her and they had been knockin boots for awhile. Hope this works out for Kola, she could definitely do a lot worse.

Anonymous said...

@4:27pm because Kola knows how to seduce a man. She tells you on her blog. Basically she tells you to fuckem, feedem and be mysterious! She says women nowadays like to yapp too much and give away all their secrets to their man.She says that he should never see you doing certain things like putting on your makeup or see you doing your hair or know when you are going to the parlor. She also says you should be able to cook at least 40 of his favorite dishes.

Anonymous said...

@3:11pm Kola cant blame black men for the way she allowed herself to be treated! Why would Djimon admit to sleeping with her when she let someone urinate on her at a party? She slept with Djimon to get revenge on Kimora. She has serious cray cray problems and any man will tell you that sex with a crazy woman is fabulous but that doesnt mean they want to marry her.

cns said...


@3:27, yes she also tells woman to learn how to cook different types of food very well. Don’t try and cook his childhood favorites because you probabley won’t cook them better than his mother, so he won’t be impressed. And yes, be mysterious. Just because he is your man doesn’t mean he wants to see all of your beauty routines. He just wants you to look good; he doesn’t care how you got that way.

@3:38, this is her 2nd marriage so she's doing something right.

Anonymous said...

Shout out to @4:36, another old-timer from Thumpers Corner who remembers this photo as just one of Kola's cray-zee lies on that board. Here's the story she told about that photo in 2004: http://www.thumperscorner.com/discus/messages/5051/1698.html.

Anonymous said...

Woo-hoo! Another fake Kola boyfriend. In 2006, she tried to pass off a news photo of Baltimore Ravens player Jamal Lewis as her boyfriend "Clifford Kennison...a line producer at Columbia Pictures Diversity department." Busted bad by the football fans on the board.

http://www.thumperscorner.com/discus/messages/11222/14006.html

Anonymous said...

The real Kola Boof never posted on that board. They're so desperate for publicity at Thumper's Corner they made up all these fake postings. Kola was impersonated by so many trolls on the internet.

Anonymous said...

That's what I thinking.

I remember hearing that haters went around impersonating Kola Boof on these message boards.

Anonymous said...

Does anyone notice that she's "getting married" to someone in one of the same ten photos that she's been circulating on the internet for years? This shit is so stupid.

Anonymous said...

Exactly. But Christelyn bought into Kola Boof's nonsense all the way. She can't afford now to ask any questions, like, why is there no evidence of California Air Force pilot Jason Appelbaum's existence? Check Anywho, WhitePages, LinkedIn, Facebook. Only Jason Appelbaums listed in California on those sites are a 25-year-old tv sports producer and a 44-year-old software engineer whose Twitter says he got married last month. Neither of them look anything like the guy in Kola's 10-year-old photo (of course).

Just Me said...

Who really cares one way or the other.... Tired of stupid, and damn stupid at that. Get a life, live your own life, and don't worry about what other people do....your life will be over sooner than later.

Anonymous said...

THANK YOU FOR TAKING HER OFF OUR HANDS.

Anonymous said...

kola lies like hobama

has anyone proven this???

kola posted years ago on her own blog that this very same man was just a random pilot/fan

are they really marrid now??

shame!!!!!!!

what horrid karma kola has!!!!

http://aliciabanks.xanga.com/2010/11/28/on-the-real-kola-boof-hoaxes-hypocrisies-and-hobama-nazis/

Anonymous said...

Read the whole story. LMFAO. That shit about Kimora's bubblegum vagina got me

Anonymous said...

This Dumb ass African Sudanese marrying a Jew White men, what a surprise, now she can stop blaming the so-called Black Men of all her troubles, and she love scandal it figures, and as a White men Fuck you and your Half breed Baby! White Power

Harry Holmes said...

People believe anything huh' where are the other photos of Mr Jason Applebaum, do you wanna know how long Kola Boof has had that photo close to ten years she posted on the thumper's corner forum a few years ago talking a whole another story, I really feel for the poor white dude that just happen to take a picture with her, now his image is posted all over the internet, someone needs to tell her fans aka (dumb west African phenotyped women) to be careful when taking pictures with her they do not know where those photos might end up in 10 years time I know for a fact she uses different internet ‘stock images’ of west african featured children and passes them off as her own.
Give it six months and she will be saying the engagement is off, or he was killed in battle or abducted my aliens whilst never giving her 'fans' a new picture of him. Kola Boof is not engaged/married she just a 'failed so*******' pimping west african phenotyped women.

Harry Holmes said...

http://www.thumperscorner.com/discus/messages/5051/1698.html.

Anonymous said...

She" had security issues over the years, so showing her actual children and husband might be something she feels is a security risk for them-if all else she says is true, then she's actually doing the logical thing...protecting her loved ones.

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