Monday, July 08, 2013

Tamar Open Up About Life with Logan


New mom Tamar Braxton opens up about bonding with her new son Logan and admits it wasn't love at first sight...

Tamar tells Cocoa Fab, 
“Logan is everything. He is so yummy. Immediately everything changes but immediately you don’t fall in love. But I heard that you do, but they lied. Somebody lied. Just like you fall in love with a person, its just like that. They’re little people. He is so yummy.”

70 comments:

Anonymous said...

I guess it's different for every mom because my husband and I fell in love immediately with both of our children. When you are self absorbed like she is it's hard to fall in love with somebody else immediately.

Anonymous said...

I disagree she didn't fall in love but as a mother I fell in love with both of my children immediately. It also has to be something you want and it was obvious that Tamar had a child for her husband.

AnRnBThug said...

This bitch just said she ain't love her OWN SON at first. What the FUCK is wrong with people now? This bitch is so vain & superficial that it's CLEAR she married a Fag who aint really see NO PARTS of the pussy all for MONEY. I remember jill scott said she felt like throwing her son In the pool....

Anonymous said...

This is one UGLY woman! I don't know where Tonie Braxton came from but all of her sisters look like transvestites! Tamar's face looks so unnatural- she looked more tolerable before all the surg.

Anonymous said...

To each its own... I guess. I fell in love with my child from the moment I knew I was pregnant. I spent 9 months awaiting her arrival, and on the day she was born, I instantly achieved pure and unconditional love!

Anonymous said...

@ RnBTHUG Jill Scott said she was suffering from post pardom depression. Maybe that is what happened with Tamar. There is no way for a mother who gives birth and not fall instantly in love unless something is wrong with them. For me, the love began when I found out I was pregnant and it grew everyday, with evey kick, sonogram etc. once my children were born the love was already there I was just finally looking at the faces of the boys who I was already in love with.

Anonymous said...

I've heard her feelings are normal and a lot of moms won't admit it for fear of ridicule. Like another poster said I fell in love with my son while I was pregnant, but it's different for people. I applaud her honesty instead of saying what people want to hear she told her truth.

Anonymous said...

^^^ And there it is, 9:30. I was in love from the moment I knew I was pregnant, and fell more in love at his birth. I could not take my eyes or hands of my son and still find it difficult at 4. Postpartum depression is different, there is a sense of being overwhelmed but love is not in doubt. I suffered from it and completely understood when Jill Scott shared what she had been through. It's real and I'd venture many women have felt similar thoughts though they would never act on them. R&B I think your comments are generally spiteful and off point. I agree with much of what you said about this situation. But seriously, some things you cannot understand unless you make the choice to educate yourself.

Anonymous said...

WTF? I mean WTF?

Anonymous said...

Right after I pushed my son out I wasn't interested in holding him. I was so tired and hungry. The next day I totally fell in love with him. My husband and I are expecting again and I may feel too tired and hungry again.....lol

Anonymous said...

Wow... Me and my hubby fell in love with my daughter when she was in my womb and the first sight of her was amazing, wrinkly and all.

Anonymous said...

^lmao at wrinkly and all that's cute

Anonymous said...

Um it's funny how some of you are critiquing her PERSONAL emotions when she first gave birth...Like YOU said YOU fell in love at first sight. I remember when Phaedra said "Eww" when they initially showed her her son after her c-section, but clearly the woman loves her baby! I wouldn't say oh well she had him for Apollo. Hell the woman in Texas that drowned all her kids had post pardom, so all you moms on her felt like killing ur kids during post pardom? Isn't it nuts for me to assume that! Give the girl a break she's the baby of the family and spoiled so I can why her comment seem shallow. I have friends that took awhile to adjust to motherhood and they are amazing moms.

PS Rnb is a cunt and what he said abt Tamar he feels that way abt all you hoes.

Anonymous said...

why do people listen to what she says? She hasnt made a lick of sense to me ever.

Anonymous said...

I agree with 9:58... as soon as I felt my baby move I wished everyone could have felt what I was feeling but that bond with him was ours alone until he came out. That is such a beautiful feeling. Tamar may not be in touch with her affectionate side because even her description sounds like she is talking about one of her sister's kids or something, like you would see someone's baby and say, 'oh, how cute!'

dreadee said...

You carry a life for 40 weeks, how you not have a bond with them?! Whatever to this broad.

Gigi said...

I know with both of my boys I fell in love immediately! What is she talking about??? My last pregnancy I was not thrilled. Both of us were shocked with the second, but as soon as he came out, I IMMEDIATELY wanted my baby!!

Gigi said...

Not saying that Tamar didnt want her baby, I meant that the nurses were taking too long to hand him to me, and I was thinking to myself just give me my baby!!!

Ms. Lee said...

I'm not sure why Tamar is facing such ridicule for being honest about her son. There is NO blueprint on how a new mother "should" feel after giving birth.

Anonymous said...

Now all of a sudden, ALL of you bitches have husbands? LMAO. These comments are fun-ny.

Anonymous said...

Tamar wasn't in love because this child was not Concieve out of love. She had this child so she could hold on to Vince. If Vince decide to leave he will have to pay Tamar spousal and child support. This child is nothing more than a means to an end for Tamar.

AnRnBThug said...

@9:44
Listen, IT'S OK to feel a certain way...really it's ok. Just don't go on National TV talking about you wanted to KILL YOU SON. Somethings are better kept quite. Seek therapy for ya fat greasy pork grind eating ass. Funny shit is she's goes on TV talking about throwing her son in a pool (joking about it too) but won't go on TV and talk about her addiction to HoHos?
Makes Sense....
and Tamar need to go back to being a Street Running Bottom Bitch Coke Head

Anonymous said...

You people are silly. It happens. All because people aren't honest about it and she was it's not her fault and I have kids and know people who this has happened too and they are made to feel like they are crazy it happens with ALL mammals.

Anonymous said...

Tamara please Leave us alone.
Thanks

Anonymous said...

Co-sign Ms Lee and 10:44

The problem is most women are lying about their real feelings after giving birth. If you felt "love at first sonogram and sight", cool, but I know there are women who didn't feel this way at all.

Anonymous said...

Tamara,Tamara,Tamara she has to be speaking of the baby not loving her Miss Piggy looking behind he was terrified he was born to Muppets.

Anonymous said...

Tamara is her Real Name thats whaTS ON HER DRIVERS LICENSE THATS WHAT IM GONNA CALL HER THAT OR MISS PIGGY

Anonymous said...

@1030 am.....just because nobody wanted to marry your skank ass....don't get mad WHORE

Anonymous said...

11:08, Don't you get tired of calling people "whores"? Your IP and identity was revealed a long time ago. Damn. I hope your cyber stalking and cyber bullying report goes through so you can be officially banned. You have an obsession with whores because you are one. Stop telling on yourself with your guilty ass posts. Be gone, bitch.

Anonymous said...

10:30, Co-sign. These bitches are baby mamas living in a fantasy. Most Black men don't even fuck with Black women like that, so I know these hoes are lying.

Anonymous said...

11:10 you are a stupid bitch altough I'm not the original poster you always use reverse psychology to make other women feel low. Go seek therapy and ask for forgiveness then maybe you will feel ok for your sins you committed. I can sense your empty internally. You are always talking IP address to any woman who calls your long pussy out. Go take a bath and change those sheets bitch and I straight snatch your wig.

Moving on I love Tamar. Shes a DIVA!

Anonymous said...

I can't stand baby mamas they never prove the world wrong about them
#ijs

Anonymous said...

I didn't fall in love when I first saw my baby when I saw my baby for the first time I felt scared nervous because it was my first time and I didn't know what to expect. Just because you fell head over hills for your baby doesn't mean everyone goes through that same experience everyone is different.

Anonymous said...

I have been waiting for this BITCH to hit a headline. TAMAR Braxton is the most selfish, vain and inconsiderate dumb goldigga on reality TV. I can't stand that ugly plastic surgically created ho! Tamar ain't no good and her statement against her own newborn proves it! Only a complete azzhole will public admit to not feeling in love with an infant carried for nine months. The truth is that bitch was better off not having a baby. she is not mother material and said too many times on the show she was not ready for being a mother. the bitch never will be ready because she is too self-minded to be a good mother. now her sisters will enjoy watching her look a fool as a mother by making that statement and many more to come. The baby is likely not great looking coming Tamar ugly ass, but all babies are beautiful. Did anyone see the show with Tamar pulling her pants down trying to make her vocal coach sweat with nearly seeing her coochie hairs? Vince betta get a paternity test on that baby because Tamar and Terrancelee have been f**king! You can see the infidelity all over Tamar's muppet face on one episode. I knew that bitch ain't no good!

Anonymous said...

This is why new moms who suffer from post partum depression do so in SILENCE because of the ridicule and judgments from others. If you felt an immediate bond to your child, that is great, but that doesn't always happen with every new mother. I think it's extremely courageous for Tamar and Jill Scott to voice their true feelings.

Anonymous said...

11:35, Exactly. I can't stand women. If you think about it, they publicly cry and complain about every fucking thing. These bitches know damn well they felt some type of way when that baby ripped their pussies open, made them gain weight, etc. Like you said, if you loved your baby off rip, FINE, but that feeling isn't universal to ALL new mothers.

Anonymous said...

@11:19 am...I am the original poster and 11:10 is a retard. I barely post on here...so she is a delusional nut case. As I said she is an angry bird who is mad no one wanted to marry her SKANK ASS.

Anonymous said...

That was a crazy thing to say but different strokes for different folks I guess. I fell in love with my son when I found out I was pregnant. It grew when I started feeling him move and even more when he was finally born. I cant fathom not being in instant love with your own creation. Even people who adopt fall in love instantly. This bitch carried and birthed the baby herself.

Anonymous said...

11:57, Your birthing experience is unique to YOU only. What are you bitches not understanding about this?

Anonymous said...

11:56 yes she is stupid she says certain things on other post and I learn what she is about a dragged her. she cannot stand any woman with dignity and class.

Anonymous said...

tamar need to take care of that baby & STFU! The baby is only a few weeks old-even Jill Scott's baby was older when she said that-plus she did not think she would ever have a baby! tamar always talked about not wanting or having a baby on the show (REMEMBER?) tamar is selfish & immature (there are teens that act better than tamar) I will bet that tamar & kim k.'s babies will be raised by nannies or grannies!

Anonymous said...

Not every woman wants children and that's perfectly fine. I get so tired of being placed into these cookie cutter categories by other women. If Tamar really didn't want a child, she should have never had one, but she was probably forced and had loads of societal and familial pressure to get pregnant. Most women never travel and really get to know themselves before popping out a baby. There is more to life than being a wife and a mother. My husband and I have traveled across the globe and have a few more things on our list to do before we even think about having a child.

Anonymous said...

Ugh! RnB Thug shut the FUCK UPPPPPP!!!!
At the end of the day, your not a women!
Your existence in this post should be EXTINCT!!!
Go away FOREVER with your undercover brother bottom feeding Ru Paul worshipping Oprah watching ass!!
Ain't nobody got time for you anymore you disrespectful excuse for a man!
If your married, I can just imagine what your Wife is dealing with.
Hell, I can only imagine what your MOTHER was dealing with raising you.
She probably wanted to throw to ass in the pool too after birth and everyday in your natural born life.

Anonymous said...

Wow!! I can remember peeing on the stick and when we saw 2 lines, my husband and I instantly fell in love with our son!!! While you're pregnant, you begin to call your baby by his or her name as soon as you have one picked out. It puts everything into perspective and everything becomes so real. I don't know how you wouldn't fall in love instantly.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry but something is wrong with any woman who carries a life for 40 weeks and isn't already bonded with that life. At first it doesn't feel real because there are no signs of life but once the baby starts moving its very real .... When that child is born its a love that you've never experienced before. I have no idea what men feel because they only deposit the Sperm . R and B could speak to that . If a woman feels nothing or no love or no attachment to her child when it's born then something seriously wrong and I seriously doubt that those feeling will never develop kinda like a deadbeat dad..

Anonymous said...

ya child might get on your nerves but it is usually LOVE at FIRST DAMN KICK.

Anonymous said...

I feel in love with nieces and my nephews straight off Tamar is selfish.

Anonymous said...

fell^

Anonymous said...

You bitches have been hard-wired and brain-washed to believe that if you experience depression from child-birth, something is "wrong" with you. Whatever.

Anonymous said...

i dont get some of you. talking like its normal to not at all care for your child. that's strange and it says something about her character. we are ll familiar with what depression is you dont have to keep saying it over an over, tamar didnt express any depression or sadness. she simply said she did not love her son and she had to LEARN to love her son wtf

Anonymous said...

well i loved my son from the beginning. he is mine and his father's greatest creation. how could u not love your child from the start unless you are insane in the membrane?

Anonymous said...

She never said she doesn't love her son. She just said she didn't immediately fall in love with her son, which may happen, particularly since it is her first pregnancy and a difficult one at that. Get off the judgment train and let's be honest, having kids is difficult. Every woman has different feelings about it but they all love their kids in the end.

Anonymous said...

@2:19 is damn right. I personally think bitches who sympathize for a bitch whining that she didn't have a bond with her newborn are the same type of women like Tamar, ghettoass hoodrats who are materialistic and not maternal. If a bitch had a baby and didn't feel an instant bond with the baby the bitch had no business getting pregnant because she damn for sure had those same feelings before pregnancy. This bitch couldn't have said anything more telling of her true character immediately after childbirth. I have never heard a bitch use the word "yummy" to describe her infant. I swear somebody shoulda beat Tamar's ass when they had a chance. She is a stone bitch who will be catching hell and possibly a divorce because Vince will be seeing signs that she doesn't enjoy being a mother. That bitch will leave the baby one time too many with the nanny because her sisters will not be keen on helping her out. On the downlow, Tamar's own sisters can't stand her.

Anonymous said...

I really wish R&BThug would shut his fucking dick sucker in here bitching about Tamar yet in the 50 cent thread PRAISING his disgusting ass for cursing his son out and disowning him!! R&BThug clearly hates women with his bisexual bipolar ass!! Makes me want to projectile VOMIT!!

Anonymous said...

First of all, when did Tamar EVER say that she didn't love her son?

Second of all, about half of you hoes are lying. You know damn well you bitches got pregnant on accident and just kept the babies. Quit talking like your children were planned with your *husband* (the amount of all-of-a-sudden married RWS female posters is hilarious) and you had an instant bond. How many of you bitches had to blood test more than one nigga anyway?

Anonymous said...

@2:55 is a fool. The same kinda fool who thinks children are not abused by their parents. Tamar is likely not to be a good mother. But because she has put herself out there as a public figure, she will be faking to be appear to be a good mother and in the process may learn to become a good mother. I am not down for bashing to bash. It offends good mothers when a bitch has a baby and makes a stupid public statement against a newborn. Some shit you keep to yourself. I don't give a damn if bitches with disorders are made to feel they should not speak out because they shouldn't publicly express the feelings Tamar did. Take that shit behind closed doors to your nearest psychiatrist and get medication. That's what a bitch needs if she is making public statements against her newborn. That shit is foul and inexcusable! I feel sorry for the baby! Tamar will suffer the consequences. You can't achieve "superstardom" saying things like that. The bitch can't sing that great anyway. Tamar is much too full of herself and it shows on screen. Reality tv does show some truth about people.

Anonymous said...

3:08 speak for yourself.

Anonymous said...

3:08 stop getting abortions that is low.

Anonymous said...

I love me some Tamar. But I have no idea whats she's talking about. I fell in love with both my kids as soon as I laid eyes on them.

Anonymous said...

3:08 PM LOL!!! girl, you need to be on a reality show!!! LOL. that sounds like that new show,babymommas of Richmond LOL!! too funny!!!

Anonymous said...

@4:06 PM...hilarious...3:08 is speaking from experience. Lol....at these raggedy tricks that actually think people don't get married or plan their children. She is the typical chick who let all type of dudes skeet in her. Who would think of someone having to test multiple me unless they were in that boat before. 3:08....needs to sew that vagina up before something falls out.

AnRnBThug said...

@12:30 @3:03
You might want to work on your grammar

Anonymous said...

Now all of a sudden, ALL of you bitches have husbands? LMAO. These comments are fun-ny.
_______________________________________
Why I logs into RWS everyday.....ctfu

Anonymous said...

6:31pm
The only bitches commenting on RWS is you and your fat black greasy momma.

Anonymous said...

All yall are tired hoes. Stop playing the SIDEPIECE

Anonymous said...

12:02...fuck you first and foremost. I cant stand a simple bitch that cant read between the lines. I didnt say how she SHOULD feel, I said I cant fathom how she could feel the way she does. All your lil comment said to me was your mother hated you when she had you and still does. Continue to swallow or spit you heartless bitch. Dont ever have kids.

Anonymous said...

lmao @ 8:16 pm....RWS comments are too funny!!!

Anonymous said...

I was a johnny come lately... I got pregnant at 29 had my son at 30, and let me tell you from my experience after the morning sickness, the pregnancy was fine I fell in love with my baby carrying him and watching the stages of the pregnancy. After I had him it was another story, it took bout close to a year for my motherly instincts to kick in! Where the hell all of the lovely dovey feelings went I don't know. When the fevers, sickness and Dr's appts kicked in that motherly instinct came on full swing. Everybody's experience is different. People are intitled to the way that they feel, and you can't knock someone for that. I was selfish because all I had to think about was ME, MYSELF and I... I can REALLY relate to Tamar!

Anonymous said...

URR UMM, seems possible to not fall immediately in love with your child if you didn't really, truly, honestly want the child to begin with.
Not saying it's her but um.

I hear women who had big plans career or party plans, whatever it may be, do get a little resentful towards the poor baby because it's affecting their work schedule. If a female in "in love" with a dream they had for their career or party life is it not possible that love for that dream is making them be selfish/stupid and shut the baby out that spot?
A married women may like the idea or just the look of being married and building a family, but that don't mean the man or baby are loved. Have y'all never encountered a hateful women who talks to her husband and kids like they're property and she's cold a*s hell to them, no affection, and you be like "why the hell that man marry her and then get her mean a*s pregnant, all she do is keep those kids scared and on lock down and all she do is yell at him, what the hell?"
Y'all never met a family like that? People who build families just because it's the traditional thing to do, it makes them look good to their co-workers, business partners, friends, etc.

Anonymous said...

1029 Lol you said a Johnny come lately.

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