Congratulations are in order to both families
Are they married?
Congrats to them!
Aww how sweet!!! Congrats 2 d both of them!! :)
I forgot that RWS is the home of Black baby mamas (unmarried). They rejoice on posts like this.
913am...does it make a difference??? Whether she is or not, she's having a baby. Question? Before you sleep with gave up your virginity. Where you married????
Congrats to her! Cheer up misery guts (9:44)!!
Dem Wayans men actually like black girls?
It seems only right that if you're the daughter of a Reverend, you would fall in love, get married and then have a baby. IJS
9:44, My husband was my first and will be my last. You whores have no morals, that's why having children out of wedlock is "normal" to you all. This is why more than half of you are single with several niggas' children running around.
9:48 comment was for the 1st 9:44.
Pastor's daughters are the biggest whores
@ 10:04AM Spoken with the class and eloquence of a drunken sailor. If your husband had any sense he'd run for the hills.
I was brought up with grandparents. I wanted to have two parents in the house hold. I don't feel its fair to a child to be raised with out the love of two parents to raise them and guide them through life's challenges. It's become too common for ppl to have kids out of wedlock. That's one of the reasons our society has lost a lot of our black youth to the streets.Being a bastard child is no way fair to anyone. Children are not toy dolls to love on nor are they pawns for women to force a man to marry or get alimony. Most men are not ready for a family until later in his years. Men mature mentally later than women. Women want love and to play house. That's what society has taught them from childhood. Young men want to poke holes in as many woman as possible. They think that's what makes them a man, Women have a short window to have kids. So they end up raising alone. Not fair to a child. Protect your uterus women. Not everyone is meant to have children. That's just a fact.
@9:44Mmph, Mmph.... Do I smell a whore??Based on the way you communicate, your first was more likely on a dirty mattress in an abandoned building with your "uncle" followed by a trip to the mall for new sneakers.
Awww congrats to Vanessa and Mike. I was wondering what was happening with Vanessa. You hardly see her on blogs, unlike Angela. Everytime i see Angela on blogs i wonder where Vanessa is. She's so lowkey, which is why this news is quite a shock... I've noticed that some of you can never say a simple congrats and keep it moving, without throwing a lil shade. Smh!
Wow....her an angela basically have the vip keys to the world, she has been afforded with the best education/ clothes/ shelter/ food that money can buy........and she picks this loser as a boyfriend, then she decides to become a Statistic...no there will no congratulations for bringing in an illegitimate/bastard. # whendidbeingababymammabecomecool
10:23, Nothing you said is "fact." You've just listed gender roles, which are socially constructed.
@10:45 actually they did state some facts...broken homes, single parent households, fathers missing does have a severe impact on a child.THAT IS A FACT...add in low income and your chances of making it out poverty become slim to none...THIS IS WHERE THE WHITE MAN IS BEATING US BLACK PEOPLE! Two parent household, with at least one parent having a degree..IF THE BLACK MAN WOULD UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS TO CREATE A CHILD, BE A PROVIDER, A FATHER, A HUSBAND.....MAN, WE WOULD BE UNSTOPPABLE AS A RACE.
Congrats, lets hope she takes after momma and grandma in the looks department, and not granddad.
Dirtydianna, like I said, nothing he/she mentioned was "fact." It's sad that Black Americans think that they have to conform to societal standards in order to compete, be like, or exceed their White peers. Plenty of White boys with married parents grow up to be menaces to society. Plenty of White girls with married parents grow up and do porn. Stop making a mockery out of Black children who are raised by one parent, one grandparent, an aunt, an uncle, etc. The "traditional" family is just another ploy for Whites to emphasize their patriarchal, social, racial, and cultural control of the unconscious (Black) population.Also, why does the Black man need to understand what it means to create a child, be a provider, father, husband, etc.? Why is it that Black women, most of them, are so quick to blame a Black man for their problems and their childrens' problems? Last time I checked, it takes a penis and a vagina to come together and create a child. Stop looking to Black men to either be your savior or enemy. How about Black men and Black women, as a collective, stop creating children when they're not prepared? To keep blaming Black men will never solve anything. And unless a woman was raped, human trafficked, and/or sexually assaulted, she is in control of her body and the pregnancy. Let's be real here. If no one forces a woman to open her legs, she willingly opened them. To only blame a man for the ills of a nationwide community is ridiculous at best.I'm a 27 year old Black woman with a BA and MA. I've never been pregnant and never have blamed a Black man for my issues. I see all sides and I analyze things from all angles, fairly.
This is why black men don't respect black women and take them for granted. You give up your wombs too easily. A lot of black men don't like you but will still sleep with you without protection...the result....an out of wed lock baby whose parents can't stand each other. The Wayans men don't like black women. They have either divorced their wives or have babies by black women without a ring. Just watch their shows and their movies. They laugh at your natural hair, stereotype you and especially make fun of dark skin women.If this Mike Wayans were more successful he would have MARRIED a non black women, but instead he settled for "knocking up" a black woman. Black relationships are fucking PATHETIC!
11:21, So where is Vanessa to blame in all of this?
@11:29 girl vanessa is innocent according to these new generations hoes. its a man's fault that a woman gets pregnant. its his fault when everything in his womans and childs life goes wrong. a man is always to blame for EVERYTHING
11:29 Oh by NO means does she get a pass from me! She ought to be ashamed of herself! I understand that shit happens but what I don't understand with a lot of black women is why do you throw these elaborate baby showers, make these huge birth and pregnancy announcements and you are NOT MARRIED! How about throwing an engagement party for FUCKS SAKE! Announce your upcoming WEDDING without kids already in tow! Is getting black men to marry you without kids really that impossible for black women? When am I gonna see a famous black couple tie the knot with no bastard kids?The nonblack girls can do it---so what's the problem?
Great, another Wayans kid. That makes bout 450 of them muthafuggas now..
LOL - My my my anyway Congrats on the baby blessing Vanessa : ) #HappyTIMES
Dirtydianna, my age has nothing to do with my wisdom, experience, education, marital status, etc. It's funny that older people swear that because they were born earlier in the century, they are more enlightened and esteemed. Please. You can attempt to "go heavy" on me and I still wouldn't be phased. Anyway, without America's patriarchal and Christian system, would the man be held to such high esteem? Why is there so much pressure put on men? Why isn't the pressure equally distributed among both sexes? I understand you've probably seen and heard a lot due to your occupation, but that's expected in that particular line of work. You keep shouting that everything starts with the Black man, but you are mum on the Black woman. So basically, I gather that you are biased--and possibly bitter. You feel as though men are the beginning, the middle, and the end. They create and destroy, the world is thrust upon their shoulders. Sorry. Your archaic way of thinking is asinine. It takes TWO. It takes a MAN AND a WOMAN. As a woman, I would never intentionally lay up with a no good ass man and get pregnant, and then expect him to "change" and be productive and attentive when he was never that before the pregnancy. See how that works? Women need to stop fucking these men, period. If you're a woman and you're not demanding condoms and protecting yourself and that sacred womb, you are largely responsible for how your children will fare when you KNEW what you were getting yourself into before the children were conceived.Think smarter.
@11:16 YES!!! I agree with you all the way. It is sad people think you have to be what society says or you're wrong. I know plenty of white couples that are not married and have been together for years as if they are married. Black people are not the only couples "shacking" and raising children. I have a friend with a BA that is married to her son's father since before the child was born. In no way form of fashion would i suggest they raise anymore children together. He treats her like a dog even though she is the sweetest person. He has cheated, impregnated other women, and put his hands on her before. She stays because she wants her son raised in a 2 parent household. But the sad part is the child told his mom he likes it better when they go to stay at grandma's (which is about once a year when things get bad). He also told her his dad is much nicer to him when his mom isn't around. He told her they should leave his dad and move out. Now if your child is telling you the household isn't up to par then what do you do? Not stay married because you have a 2 parent household!! some people kill me to think just because both parents are in the home it is better for the kids.
Congrats to them, but isn't her father a "Rev.", shouldn't she be married first? j/k I'm sure me and a few others don't really take his title too serious. lol.
11:58 the men are blamed because they are the patriarchal leaders and the aggressors. They run the show and always have. Since the beginning of time their roles have been that of leaders, providers and protectors and women are naturally designed to want that in a man. So I say that to say this. Men (especially black men) need to stop LYING, stop running game and quit making SEX top priority in a relationship. Within seconds of meeting him, he expects to fuck and will lie thru his teeth to get what he wants. As the leader, if he isn't right within, how on EARTH can his women and children be? Remember that when it all boils down---men choose the women they really want.
She is a pretty girl. But all I have to say is that this whole "baby mama cycle" has gotten out of control. Do niggas use condoms anymore? Do niggas know about STDs. Even though condoms and birth control are not 100% effective, they can still prevent unwanted pregnancy or STDs much better than doing it raw style. Remedial ass primitive thinking niggas who still believe in the rhythm method are one of the reason why the Black family structure is at an all time low.And you baby mamas in here getting angry at those who are tired of seeing illegitimate babies being born by the minute in the Black community are just misery looking for company. Babies are a blessing whether born to two parents or a single mother but CHILDREN NEED BOTH MOMMY AND DADDY. Children need TWO PARENTS that are healthy, decent, hard working and mature enough to care for them. I swear Black women stay getting knocked up by bootleg niggas and yet stay passing up the decent, God-fearing Black men who all because they are too preppy, too nerdy, or too soft. I am a Black woman and say this!
I don't judge anyone but when it comes to church people its always do as I say & not as I do. They are the bitter complaining baby mammas. Love God but its too much hypocrisy in the Church.
@11:16You are right about plenty of white boys being born menaces with both parents but you have to consider what kind of parents he have? Just because a child has two parents does not always mean that the parents are decent. There are children who have been sexually and physically abused in a two parent home. That is why I said, once again, Children need TWO PARENTS that are healthy, decent, hard working and mature enough to care for them.
So the PK is just another Baby Momma the cycle continues
A Wayans is the best she could do? Oh ok.....anyway congrats on becoming baby momma. Maybe someday if you press him enough he will marry you.
@11:16 SO YOU REALLY JUST WANTED TO LET PEOPLE KNOW YOU HAVE A DEGREE AND NO KIDS...YOU ARE 27, so you have been out of school for what 48 months? Well I am bit older than you, let me run down my profile before i start. I have a ba in social science...upon graduation I IMMEDIATELY BEGAN WORKING IN COMMUNITY CORRECTIONS AS A PROBATION OFFICER, went back to school at night got a masters in sociology, switched to a parole officer for the state, then moved to child protective services for the state...now, do you know how many homes i have been in, how many jails/county lockup/state prisons/camps....Do you have any idea how many children the state takes away from parents on a DAILY? For you to say that, a man missing from the household does not severely impact a child, there is too much evidence factually and real life to even debate you...i encourage you to sub at a inner city school for a month on your off days, or volunteer,..RATHER THE BLACK MAN WANTS TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE OR NOT, ITS A MANS WORLD,stop bringing white people in it, they can afford to fuck up, we CAN NOT...THE BLACK MAN MUST LEARN WHAT IT IS TO BE A MAN, A PROVIDER, WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A HUSBAND...THESE ARE ESSENTIALS TO BUILDING A FAMILY STRUCTURE...#fact....
@11:58 I covered the black woman ding bat in my first comment...SHE PICKED A LOSER...SHE HAS EDUCATION, MONEY, PRIVILEGE.....SO NO EXCUSE.....HOW ABOUT YOU GET SOME COGNITIVE THINKING, THEN ADD IN META COGNITIVE THINKING....
Congrats i know you will be a wonderful Mother xoxoxo.
I see the defensive baby mammas representing. Look at where all of this single parent stuff has gotten
Very well said 12:19. Men have always had the upper hand no matter which way you look at it.
If a woman is comfortable having a child out of wedlock, why do others care so much? Stop worrying about how other people want to live and focus on you. Being married don't make you better or worse than the next person and vice versa. Grown men and women arguing about how people should live smh.
Dirtydianna, I never once said that a man missing from the household doesn't impact the child. Stop putting words in my mouth. What I DID say, however, was for you to stop making a mockery out of Black children who are raised by one adult. These children are already stigmatized and they don't need your "grown" and "older" ass to constantly ridicule them for their parents' deficiencies. I'm an eloquent speaker and communicator on my own. Thanks, but no thanks. Also, your profile is suspect. For you to have academia under your belt, your sentences and overall expressive communication is very poor and incorrect.
Dirtydianna,You are unruly and all of your posts are ghetto and ignorant. I highly doubt you have any degrees. You constantly use profanity and you are constantly insulting people when they have different opinions. Instead of arguing back and forth on this blog, how about you go help some Black kids in need?
12:19, Ho please. Stop blaming men for why your pussy is ran through and your kids are unwanted. I hate a ho like you.
i'm actually more offended she's having a baby by a wayans. they are the most unfunny/colorstruck lot. and not great track record with women. good luck to her/her baby...
@ Both 12:27’s agreed! Those Wayans men are nothing to want to procreate with. I did meet Shawn at a mall and he is even better looking in person and was a super nice to anyone that approached him. I was apprehensive about approaching him being an average looking Black woman but he was really nice. With that said I just think that with her “so-called” Christian upbringing, above average looks and a classy and pleasant persona that she would have access to meeting higher quality men, i.e. stock broker, real estate or software tycoon, a celebrity chef or restaurateur. Anything but an out-of- work (according to is IMDb page he has worked since 2009) for 4 years Wayans. Talk about scraping the bottom of the barrel. I am disappointed. I assumed she would do better. I got a feeling Black twitter in not going to let her live this down.
CNS, you are too pressed. Why are you disappointed in Vanessa and Mike's choice to have a baby? They don't even know your lonely ass. Go back to Jacky Jasper.
@2:02, JMO. As I already stated, I’m disappointed because I felt that Vanessa could date better than an out of work Wayans. Again, JMO. LOL.
CNS, Who gives a fuck though? Why are you worried about a person who doesn't know you? You are one weird ass lonely bitch. Fuck out of here.
1004am..u appear to angry for that to be the truth...be careful when u find out ur man has been sleeping with someone else. U r going to lose ur damn mind. It's only a matter of time..especially if you think ur man has only been with u his whole life...silly girl...silly..silly girl
@2:15, anyone can say the same about you and why do you care about my opinion? Is it okay to assume you care since you targeted on my comment when others have said worst? Or are you one off those bloggers paid per comment? Just curious?
First 2:24, Please shut up. My husband is not a cheater. I will not be cheated on because I am all that he needs in a woman. Cooking, cleaning, companionship, conversation, great sex, etc.
@2:35pm I am not the poster you are responding to but you are naive and a fool if you think you are this superwoman that has the pussy of the gods !!! Sit down clown. That man done had his dick sucked or got in somebody else's pants besides yours- unless your man looks like Tamar's husband Vince. Wake up
2:51, I am not concerned. I was a virgin when I got married. My husband wasn't, but we have been married a LONG time and I know he's not cheating nor will he ever cheat. You are an idiot bitch. I mentioned sex last in my list of why my husband won't cheat.
All im gonna say is congrats. A baby is a blessing =).
Son: Dad, what's it like to be married?Dad: Delete every song off of your iPod except one.---Lol. This still gets me every time.
@2:58 ignorance is bliss. I guess racism doesn't exist and I know if I believe hard enough I will hit that $300 million jackpot.
3:22, Why do you think her husband will cheat on her? Please explain.
This comments are so sick. Why these scorn women desire to see other women man cheat? @9:44 these women hate others who did it the right way. They stay dragging me just because I refuse to be a baby mama and my fiance will be my first as well. I never wanted that regret of so many men having me. Ladies please stop hating on women who have did it the right way. Look at all these baby mamas with so many daddies and the daddies are locked up or no where to be found. What real woman want that. When you saved yourself your man views you as a prize. On the other hand I am happy for Vanessa because overall she is a good girl and this is her first baby not her 4th or 5th out of wed.
^These, ^with so many baby daddies
No one cares who y'all marry and I'm man and I posted some comments. Y'all swear some woman wants to hate on you. No one cares who you let between your legs- believe me, none of you chicken heads are that important.
^^^and I'm a man^^
Stop lying you are a woman and you do care.
@6:07 no I just got out the shower and I'm looking at 2 balls and a big dick
@9:44 AM You don't have to get pregnant just because you gave up your virginity (doubt if she's been a virgin for many many yrs). A good question asked, is she married, has she made that announcement? So funny how all the heauxs are sending their congrats as they slap around their five bastard kids sitting in their filthy section 8 apts.
@1:09 BUT YOU READ ALL MY POST, SO IF AM SO GHETTO, UNRULY, y on earth would u spend your time TROLLING ME BITCH....WHEN YOU HAVE MADE ENOUGH TO SPONSOR A LITTLE LEAGUE, TALK TO ME BITCH, OR PASS OUT SCHOOL SUPPLIES, LIBRARY CARD APPLICATIONS, COLLEGE BROCHURES, HOLD NEIGHBORHOOD WATCH MEETINGS, HOST CLEANUP GROUPS...BITCH WHEN YOU ARE DOING THIS IN YOUR COMMUNITY, THEN YOU CAN TELL ME SOME SHIT.....BECAUSE THIS IS WHAT THE FUCK I AM DOING ON A DAILY MOTHERFUCKING BASIS...
@12:20 YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK............
Who Wants To Be A Bastard?
@1:06 who gives a flying fuck how well you speak, because you speaking about shit you know nothing about...go work in the trenches, in your community, at the jail, in the urban school system so you can see whats really going on in the world/ society before you comment...instead of bragging about your degree, use it to help otherS. THAT WOULD MEAN LITTLE OR NO PAY...you either build or destroy remember that....to make an assessment of someones education based on comments from gossip blog tells your age without you having to...lol enjoy your time being young and dumb, eventually life will SMARTEN YOU UP.
@Dirty (whatever your real name is) I am glad that you been called out. You are nobody but a gutter chicken. Its all in the way you speak. Its obvious you did not get educated.
LMFAO@ 8:32am!!!! You are wrong for that and I'm even worse for laughing! LOLOLOLOLOL!
@8:35 as long as i am not a statistic WHICH IS A BABYMAMMA, CONVICTED FELON, HIGHSCHOOL DROPOUT, WAITING FOR A HANDOUT FROM THE STATE, DRUG ADDICT. IS THIS TOPIC ABOUT EDUCATION? Or is it about having bastards? Make sure you are not a statistic BITCH BEFORE YOU BEGAN THE NAME CALLING....YOUR HAPPY ABOUT ME BEING CALLED OUT??? You must be miserable, coward.
@8:32 EXACTLY, @ 3:32am PREACH IT!
Whats a good birth control method? Shots and Pills make me deathly ill and the spermicide on condoms are bad for the vagina. Not only that but the condoms break, they slip off and they are not as effective. I abstain for now but even when I meet the right man and get married Im still not trying to start a family so soon. I want to enjoy married life first. This older woman said that if you fill an applicator with Vaseline and shoot it up your cooch, it is very effective. She said that is better and safer than anything out there. Anyone else heard of this?#TeamNOBastardkids#
@9:11, I would visit with a gynecologist to get information on effective birth control that works for you. What works for others may not be a good choice for you and vice versa. If you don't have health insurance then visit your local Planned Parenthood location. They also give out free birth control.
9:11, Condoms are very effective. I've never gotten pregnant and they are my only choice of birth control.
@Dirty(whatever your real name is) I am none of that either. I have no kids, second year of college, I have my high school diploma and I will be married when I have kids. So come again. Like I said I once thought you were smart but you are dumb. You try to act above people yet you speak so low. Get your class up. Then come for me because I do not speak as average woman speak.
9:32, There's no need to argue with Dusty/Dirty Dianna. She is beyond ignorant and I highly doubt that she has a Master's degree. Do you see the way that she writes? All she does is use profanity, incorrect sentence structures, and argues with people who have a different opinion than her. I think she's fronting. She's too passionate about disadvantaged Black youth, but then talks shit about them on the next go round. She's probably a single mother mad at her children's fathers for making her and their children "statistics." And then you see how she depends on "statistics" to support her argument? Any EDUCATED person knows that statistics are always slanted and biased. Statistics don't even represent the full population. This "chick" is a fraud.
So sick of society pushing out of wedlock kids and the gay agenda
@9:40 I DO HAVE KIDS, 4 to be exact... THEIR NAMES ARE NEIMAN, SAKS, BLOOMS, AND APPLE....I LOVE THEM WITH ALL MY HEART. #SINGLEWITHNOKIDSANDLOVING.IT!I see my fan base is increasing. Lmao
@9:40 YES I am 9:32 and I agree with all you said.
@9:40, Tell that story about statistics to the families who have to bury their dead loved ones when they become a victim of these "so-called" slanted and biased statistics. I suggest you start with the City of Chicago last weekend. Matter of fact why don’t you check out the rate of shooting and murders in that city alone the year. If you don’t live in high crime rate neighborhoods nor is exposed to the murders and violence then it is not thoughtless for you to suggest that the static is are slanted or untrue. Your comments are heartless and insensitive. You also undermine the pain and suffering of the people who are actually stuck in these violent communities. A mother or father that has loss an innocent child to violence does not need to hear from some “hard- heart harpy” talk about bias statics.
@11:18 Give them a pass, because if you do not work in social services or live in a neighborhood/ city such as chicago( southside 87th to bronzeville, or the westside) or working in the school system (urban where 98"% of the kids are on free lunch) the majority of folks have absolutely no idea whats REALLY going on..when you on the crime scene when they are putting a white sheet over a 13 year old kid, or at the county hospital telling a mother, due to her meconium testing positive for cocaine you have to take her newborn, or at county lockup and seeing 40 plus black man butt naked in holding cell waiting to get processed, or had to bury a family member bc OF SLANTED STATISTICS, the general public ( civilians) really do not know whats happening.
11:18, My comment stands. Like I said, if you've ever taken an collegiate level statistics course, you will see the way in which statistics are created and counted. Get out of your feelings. Since you're so concerned and passionate, hop the fuck off this blog and go save Chicago. You're reaching and you make no sense.
Who or what is forcing Black men and women to keep having kids out of wedlock? Who or what is forcing Black men to shoot each other? Who or what is forcing Black men and women use drugs? No one but themselves. Keep giving niggas "pity" when we all free will. Statistics or not, NO ONE is forcing Black people to act, behave, and think the way that they do.
9:11 AM, Unfortunately you were given bad advice. Vaseline is a harsh, petroleum product and unhealthy for the genitals for both male and female if it is not formulated for the vagina, because it does not easily dissolve. If there happens to be a problem with natural lubrication, KY Jelly or a similar product would be a better choice. A more appropriate product won't linger around the vagina long after it is no longer needed and would be easier to remove from the vaginal cavity than heavy petroleum. If it is not designed for vaginal use, it probably doesn't belong there. Do research. Always read labels. Be cautious when taking personal advice from non-professionals, and even professionals, and of course anybody on the Internet. You can be knowledgeable and experienced, too.
@11:46, you’re correct, these special kinds of Black Snowflakes who are fortunate to have loving parents that have shielded them for crime and violence by making sure they live in safe neighborhoods attend good schools and get an opportunities to get a college education. IMO, these are the worst type of Black people because they truly lack empathy for the Black people and children that are victims in these violent communities.
@11:49 please see comment above. It describes Black people like you. Once again you missed the point. Why do you find my empathy for Black parents whom have lost their innocent child to violence appalling? Does your taking a statics course at an university automatically undue all violent deaths? It is all a conspiracy, when the local and national news reports on gun violence? Are all the new outlets in on the conspiracy? When the mothers are on the news crying about their dead child are they just faking it for the camera? You Sir or madam is out of touch with reality and should also take your own advice. Since you are completely indifferent to what’s going on in the Black Community, maybe you should kept your thoughtless comments to yourself. You, the Special Black Snowflake are the worst type of Black person. You make George Zimmerman look like Mahatma Gandhi.
10.27, "She is so lowkey" Yeah, you see where why she was so lowkey, she was busy phucqing and did not have time to say hello to the world. Lowkey and dumb.ijs