WTF is with these side chicks? So it's trendy now to be after someone else's man. All this crap could be avoided if people would stop jumping into relationships after a few good sex sessions and just DATE. Last I heard, Draya was single and mingling, now she has a man? I date men for 6 and 7 months straight and get told that I'm moving too fast when I'm ready for the"girlfriend" title. I guess looks are everything. This dude's side chick is probably the woman that he's been with, telling her he ain't looking for anything serious and now he's claiming Draya. Men! Finally, what's with the busted phone screen? Even I have Gorilla Glass on my phone and I don't make millions.
Good for her (Draya)! Hoes never really win.... You dummies need to know that !
Smoke and dinner sound like a good time to me! Throw some hard liquor and great sex in there and I'm down. Since he's a baller, a couple of dollars to keep me from posting all our biz all over social media would seal the deal. Yoo hoo Orlando! I'll chill with you whenever you have time you sexy man!!!
@1:41 PM it sounds like the hoes winning all the way around. Draya and the so-called side slut both got a rich NFL player acting like he wants them. I'd rather be in that number then stressed out by the bums that's chasing me!
Well, that phone has seen better days. Poor phone!
Um who cares about these THOT's
@1:43 PM is a shameless THOT!
Forget smoke and going to dinner. Orlando's side piece needs a new phone. If I'm screwing a baller and believe me I have, little things like that MUST be in order at all times. New phones, Grade 'A designer shoes, bags, hair and mani/pedi money if nothing else. That busted screen is a disgrace. I hope she dropped it while she was posting and got it fixed after that.
1:40, Side chicks are "after someone else's man?" Or are men always after other women? You can't blame one gender and not the other.
@1:59 Word! lolol. She is bad at being the side chick if her phone looks like that.
I just Googled Orlando and Draya. Draya is definitely winning. Orlando is fine, paid and from what I gather, taking care of her kids. Every pic I see Orlando, Draya and the kids looking fresh and living good. So @1:43 PM I hope side bishes like you are happy getting smoked and boned during NFL off season when nobody's looking while the main chick-Draya is going shopping and being flown around the world. Dummy!
He is on a losing team and she is a loser, match made in heaven! LMAO
The fact that some women are proud to be the 'main' chick while knowing of 'side' chicks is funny. At the end of the day, you both are sharing a man.
Dang - first she need to ask him for a new phone that busted hoodrat screenshot is not the biz and Draya should not be shocked they (Dude and Draya) were interviewed by some random show and Draya took the entire interview over I cringed myself watching him react to her - who was oblivious to the fact she was irritating the hell out of him even the reporter could see the angst on his face - Draya look ANTHEAD just kept running her mouth - she's out Like KIM K at Reggie's Superbowl Win#BYENOW
@dreadee 2:16 PM---What team are you and your lover on? Draya and Orlando showed up to The ESPY's looking like a real power couple. What did you and yours show up to the Madea premier looking like? Broke n-words always quick to call some damn body a loser.
I'm LMBAO about the comments on the phone, forget the story the comment got me rolling, rws y'all some fools!!!
They won't be together long, but yeah the phone should be1st priority on the next smoke, dinner and fuck date!
No one is winning. Winning would be, you are the only female he is with and claims you to the world. Winning would be not waking up to side chicks posting text messages from your man.... some of you have the lowest self esteem. Women only know their value as being nice shoes, handbags, and phones.
@2:07 PM When you lay down with a man knowing that he is in a relationship with another woman you are being a side chick and you are chasing. You are chasing and trying to destroy what that man has. No side piece is ever truly happy. If they were, we wouldn't have posts like this.
If you lay down with a married man and don't want a relationship that just makes you a woman who slept with a married man - not all females seek a relationship with a man who is already taken...The scenario is MAN AND WOMAN sleeping together but the chick is the side piece what does that make the man? And before one thinks I have a position on this I don't - I just want to know what the man who knows he married and sleeps with another woman is called?
No one is winning. Winning would be, you are the only female he is with and claims you to the world. ____________________________This is not winning my dear child not in the least but I will let yall have this post.
2:28, Those are your opinions and I disagree. And before you try to label me a 'side chick', please understand that I am married. But like I said, silly women like you stay blaming other women because you are in denial and you don't want to blame the man that is supposed to love you. It doesn't just take a man or a woman to cheat; it takes TWO, so to keep singling out other women just proves that you probably would keep your man, and blame everything on the other woman. And then you say, "...trying to destroy what that man has." LOL! So the man isn't trying to destroy what he has, but the woman is, all by herself? I see why so many of my sistas are single, broken, and lonely. You make NO sense when it comes to men and relationships.
Tippie---Co-sign on everything. Whew. You know these foolish women today are at an all-time low for sustaining common sense and high self-esteem.
co-sign to:tippie2:34ms lee
@ Tippy An adulterer
Tippie Toes...I'm not even the poster that put that, but you say a woman isn't winning if a man is only with one woman and claims her to the world? Then what is?There is obviously a reason you are on this site every day posting multiple times. One reasons is that you are a site administrator (doubt it) but the other more logical reason is that you enjoy posts like these so in your boredom, you can single other people out and try to bring them down. I noticed the other day you posted 'damn what happened to posting what you think and moving the hell on dont nobody want to see multiple posts from yall' and in the same thread, you had posted several responses yourself.If being an online bully is how you get your kicks then have at it but pick and choose your battles.
@232Umm not sure what life you lead.BUt if your man is only with you and claims you as his and takes care of you that is winning... not him being with other women.
Yo! When I was in college at Clark Atlanta, my home girl gave me a book called "Mistresses" or something like that. It was a book about some mistresses and how like Tippie said, they weren't looking for stone cold "relationships" with the taken men. It was more of physical/financial attraction than anything.
Ms Lee did you and the engineer ever get married??
It does tatke two but, usually the "main" doesnt know about the side chicks until the side chicks start bragging about being with anothers man. Of course the man should be blamed as well, but females take pride in having someone else's man and bragging about it. I blame both the man and the female because the two of them know that there is an unknowing party involved. If one wants to cheat cheat, but tell the other person so they can make the decision to stay or go. Cheating is a character flaw so he will cheat on whoever he is with.
2:46, Cheating is not a character flaw and I wish people like you would stop repeating the same shit you've heard from your older family members. I had a friend who was messing around with some rich married man and she never told us about it until YEARS after she ended it, so to say that "females takes pride" and "brag" is incorrect because you aren't the spokesperson for all females who are in this situation. You sound like someone who has been cheated on repeatedly quite honestly. Read between the lines.
@250Your character is flawed if you dont think cheating is a character flaw. One doesnt cheat if its not their character. Cheating, Lying, Stealing, etc goes had in hand, if you would do one the others follow. Cheaters cannot control themselves, they indulge in what is wrong and most of the time get a high from doing something bad... its a personality trait. Question... Do you steal clothes, jewelry, etc? If not, thats not in your character to do so...
@250You kind of sound dumb. Character - The mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual.
2:55, Are you abreast of psychology, sociology, and nature? Probably not because your answers are so expected from an uneducated person. I personally think that most men (and women) are NOT monogamous by nature. Since this is what I believe, "cheating" is either natural or non-existent. It's only people like you who believe in monogamous behavior as being alpha that categorize "cheaters" based on your social (and probably religious) moral compass.I've cheated on a test before with one question (I asked my friend for the answer when the teacher stepped out), but I've never been a thief or a liar, so right there, your little infantile theory is flawed and inherently shattered.Perhaps "cheaters" don't need to "control" themselves because what they're doing is of natural instinct and not of socially-imposed instinct.I would honestly like to keep this conversation afloat with intellectuals like Ms. Lee and even Tippie because I already can tell that their minds are way more advanced and open than yours.
Co-sign on everything. Whew. You know these foolish women today are at an all-time low for sustaining common sense and high self-esteem._________________________Yes common sense - you see they up in arms because Im real about this shit. But I'm try to cover a couple a question becuz I'm headed into a meeting and I saw the jist of their inquiries to me.A man claiming you are his to the world doesn't mean you are WINNING because you don't know what he claims to those who are close to him. There is no such thing as WINNING in any relationship what occurs are triumphs over hard times, enduring the scariest of times and prevailing as a couple throughout all of it. Being called wife makes you no better than the next female who isn't called wife. A HUSBAND Claiming you to the world involves so much more than shouting it from a mountaintop he proves so in his actions and his regard for you, your family, and your home. The only reason I explored this further is because women fail to realize they need to specific when asking for what they want. He could claim you to the world doesn't mean he is loyal and faithful even tho he does come home every night--- BACK LATA
1. Humans are monogamous by nature.2. America is the main world power steadily forcing monogamy as the only way to love and legalize relationships.3. If monogamy actually worked, posts like these wouldn't exist.4. It's a waste of time trying to argue/rationalize with people who have been brainwashed by Christianity and society.
Oh boy now Tippie Toes is Iyanla Vanzant and giving lessons on what it means to be WINNING. Shaddup Tippie Toes!
@301If you cheated on a test that means you lied to the teacher about you knowing the answer. That makes you a liar because of how you got the answers...Use a better analogy.
If cheating were human nature and no problem with doing so then why lie to an unknowing partner. If cheating is celebrated because our natural insticts are to be in series of relationships then why so secretive? Maybe, because the person knows they are doing something wrong to another and dont want to be honest about it.. which in turns is a character flaw
Oh boy now Tippie Toes is Iyanla Vanzant and giving lessons on what it means to be WINNING. Shaddup Tippie Toes!__________________You ride the short yellow bus to school still don't you? Even in High School...
I just read at 2:42 and smdh on all the energy this chick put into my comments - yes allow me to distract from your real life issues chile pls been there done that and so glad I went thru it back then instead of now because stupidity amongst a lot of females are prevalent and they are so inexperienced to even be aware of how stupid they sound. Anyway ladies you all have your own journey to walk - enjoy!
LURKER @ 2:42 - I applaud you and I couldn't have said it better, so I'll go ahead and repost for the he/she who has ruined my beloved gossip site - Tippie wished death upon me and my unborn kids over a Rhianna post. I'm still surprised someone could be so.....petty:Tippie Toes...I'm not even the poster that put that, but you say a woman isn't winning if a man is only with one woman and claims her to the world? Then what is?There is obviously a reason you are on this site every day posting multiple times. One reasons is that you are a site administrator (doubt it) but the other more logical reason is that you enjoy posts like these so in your boredom, you can single other people out and try to bring them down. I noticed the other day you posted 'damn what happened to posting what you think and moving the hell on dont nobody want to see multiple posts from yall' and in the same thread, you had posted several responses yourself.If being an online bully is how you get your kicks then have at it but pick and choose your battles.
I'm new to this but I have to say something. Cheating is a choice not an instinct. I hear all the time people saying "it's the man too". If you ever been in this situation then best believe the man gets it from his wife/ woman everyday constantly on what he did to him/her. At some point you start to focus on the other person involved and you can't blast the other man/woman everyday unless you are some psycho and constantly call them. So when people go in on the jumpoff, side chic whoever it's not because they totally blame him or her it's because they don't see or talk to them everyday and there are things that they want to say so they vent in blogs or where ever they can be heard.
I think she needs the link for OTTER BOX!http://www.otterbox.com/Get yourself a new screen and then protect your phone with a case please! I know you can afford a new screen and phone protector! Hello! ;o)
Tippie wished death upon me and my unborn kids over a Rhianna post. I'm still surprised someone could be so_______________________LOL man you have posted this several times so I gather it affected you in some way - now what even dumber is that I actually have to explain to you that I didn't say that becuz of Rihanna it was said to you becuz something was said about my son... I hope this helps you sleep better at night or at least when you see me here you can feel uncompelled to mention it again. If you weren't acting an azz on here to me I wouldn't even be explaining this to you. Don't start with me and I won't have to finish you- Funny you call me the bully but hey IDGAF about name calling - just remember you come for me and I will be right here!
Wow @these "keyboard" gangsta chicks.
Everybody on this post carrying like Draya and this football player are married. This dude is NOT her husband. When you have a boyfriend, it's open season. If I screw someone's husband and that man's WIFE confronts me in anger then it is understood. If some friggin GIRLFRIEND calls me crying about how I'm giving it to her man...Girl bye!
Anonymous said... 1:40, Side chicks are "after someone else's man?" Or are men always after other women? You can't blame one gender and not the other. 2:07 PM ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Yup, that's why chicks always getting messed over because they think this way. And the men just love stupid women like that because they can get away with murder.Saying shit like..."Awww, Baby, It's not your fault. She's the one who forced her V-jay-jay on your penis."
@5:59, I used to think like you, but its more than just cheating, it's about a disrespect of boundaries and playing with others emotions, they may not be married, but if you knowingly help hurt another woman's heart then yours will get played with and trampled on when you find the boyfriend of your dreams.Some believe that monogamy is unrealistic, then why are women called hoes when they sleep with many men? You know, since monogamy is so unnatural and all.If a man claims you in public and in private, then its a WIN situation, don't let the morons on this site tell you diffferent, if he is not willing to commit to you and only you, move on, don't marry him, cause I promise you,, a man will drop you like a bad habbit if you cheat on him, don't commit to him, or don't claim him as your man. Men don't play that, they demand respect, and thus GET IT.
Every last one of you are some fucked-in-the-head chicken birds.
I JUST CAN'T WITH THIS ISH....This nucca is messing with broke bishes....this bish had the nerve to take pictures with a cracked up ass iphone? This nucca ain't ish and Draya should've realized that ain't no nucca EVER going to respect a glorified groupie reality stint hoe....she will always be chasing side chicks, because no man is ever going to totally put her on as his main chick/wifey....SMDH!
Draya's boyfriend...LOLHanging out and Sleeping with Draya, Kim k. Amber Rose, Love and Hip hop cast is just fun times for athletes, they probably share notes and laugh together about their different adventures. I doubt he considers Draya his girlfriend in the traditional sense.Draya is his fun time girl for the season
This clumsy nigga check his hoes about as poorly as he check opposing WRs. Cowboys back on they bullshit 5-5 and poised to fuck up another holiday season. We bigger hoes than Draya, the fuckin Deadskins and E-gals tryna hand us the NFC East.
high school chilrens
Here is the thing....u are exactly that a side piece. Know your place and keep it movin.....u messin with a football player u could have at least got a new phone out the deal.....stupid
Damn there used to be some shame associated with dealing with someone elses man. A chick would lie her ass off to protect her reputation. These new schools ho tho...they WANNA be found out about and known and what not. I dont get it.
@1:41 PM it sounds like the hoes winning all the way around. Draya and the so-called side slut both got a rich NFL player acting like he wants them. I'd rather be in that number then stressed out by the bums that's chasing me! -----------------------Which is sad. All these fools co-signing infidelity. If you don't expect faithfulness you sure as hell won't get it. No wonder hoes like Draya have a place in the public eye.
7:46 and 9:24, thanks for confirming that there's some intelligence strolling the blogs. I was worried for a minute.
When you have a boyfriend, it's open season.---------------------Ladies and Gentlemen, leader of the Ronnie Hoe Quotes.