Friday, February 21, 2014

Ludacris Crying Broke


Rapper Ludacris claims he can't afford thousands of dollars in child support because the latest Fast and Furious film has been put on hold...

Last month it was revealed Ludacris had secretly fathered a child with former high school pal Tamika Fuller [click here if you missed that].

Now Tamika is demanding $15k a month in child support but Luda says it's just too much.

According to TMZ Ludacris showed up in court on Tuesday and explained to the judge that he was counting on his Fast and Furious 7 pay check to pay his child support but Paul Walker's death caused the film to be delayed.

Luda claims he only made $55k in 2013 and can only afford $1,800 a month.

The judge ordered Ludcris to pay $7k a month while his financial records are under review.

100 comments:

Anonymous said...

Got2Bkiddin says: A condom could have saved you a lot more dumbkopf

Anonymous said...

Really Chris!? you throw an already dead man under the !? How low can u go?? And what's up with/ these niggas gettin their own child the bare minimum!? What u wanna lose *tasha Mack voice* " ms med school (drop out )" spent more than 1700 on shoes this month!? Betts yet how much he trick off in magic city?? Or hosting one of his ALL DICK sleep ovals??

Please save the argument she should get a job blah, blah , blah and itching tale that much to support a child.

Takin care of the mother is takin care of the child. And in this case that baby deserves to live just as good as " 'ms med school dropout" ,if not BETTER . Who is BETTER than to invest in than it own child??
A condom cheaper than child support. #indeedludacrris

Anonymous said...

@8:15 Co-sign...I'm going to assume that most of these trifling negroes didnt grow up with their daddy's in the household.

Anonymous said...

I can't respect any man that doesn't "step up to the plate" before it gets to be a legal battle. A "real" man would've had his lawyers draft up an agreement to ensure the proper care. Especially, if they know the mother don't have shit. This is a continuous cycle of absentee fathers in our communities. FUCK Luda, Big Boi, etc
#BastardKidsmakeBastardBabies

Anonymous said...

Now I know this ninja aint saying he dont have any money due to Paul Walker passing? STFU & pay for your mistake! Happy Friday my hittas my hittas

Anonymous said...

"ATTENTION Atl hoes". Move to Cali before you file any papers. Backwards ass Georgia handing out $600 a month from niggas making millions. FOH

Anonymous said...

Well these celebs know that they can fake the funk. He claims he only made 55 k last year when this fool is seen flashing his worth. I remember when he made a song talking about he has an elevator in hi home. What a loser.

Anonymous said...

LIAR

Anonymous said...

This nigga ...

Bee Gee said...

Livin' up to his rapper name..

Anonymous said...

It takes two. That woman wasn't raped/assaulted/etc. Women are MORE in control of a pregnancy than ANY MAN. If Luda wants to cry broke, that's his prerogative.

Anonymous said...

Why does she need 15K a month to raise a baby.?!?!?! She saw a paycheck and that dumb judge gave her 7K for wht ?? How much did she raise her other kids on? I'm going to need a federal cap on child support.

It's funny how when these stories come out, women automatically assume no condom was used. Like we don't know some tricks to obtaining sperm trade. Shit Being Mary Jane just showed a bitch how to precure the condom and store the sperm. I've seen on Ray Donovan a J.O not swallow, spit it in a cup and put it on ice.

Anonymous said...

A federal cap on child support?!

dumbest comment to date...

Anonymous said...

According to legal documents on file at the Fulton County Courthouse, Tamika Fuller will not receive $7,000 a month in child support as was widely reported on Thursday.

According to the docs, Ludacris, 36, agreed to pay $2,750 a month in child support beginning this month. That amount takes into consideration the child support he is paying for his 12-year-old daughter, Karma Bridges, from a prior relationship.

The court ordered Luda to pay health insurance and all unreimbursed medical bills for the baby. In addition, Luda agreed to pay for baby expenses not normally required by law, such as private school and future college tuition, etc.

Right now Luda is not paying for day care, since Fuller is on maternity leave. Whenever she decides to go back to work as a waitress at Magic City strip club, Ludacris will pay up to a maximum of $1,700 per month to the Day care facility directly — much to Fuller’s dismay.

The court docs conflict with the sob story Fuller has been giving the blogs. She claims Ludacris does not want to see his baby. But the legal papers reveal that Ludacris has joint legal and joint physical custody of Cai. The docs indicate that Ludacris reached out to Tamika’s attorneys before Cai was born on Dec. 9, 2013, to “establish a parenting plan so that the Petitioner [Ludacris] can co-parent the parties’ minor child.”

After Cai was born — court docs reveal that Tamika refused Luda’s request to see the baby. And her lawyer sent Ludacris another letter demanding $7,500.

In addition, the court docs state that Tamika refused to provide financial documentation pertaining to her income as required by the statute.

Anonymous said...

Jackpot! Both are trifling tho. Like attracts like.

Anonymous said...

First of all I find it funny that he is blaming fine Paul Walker's death RIP as if he doesn't have any other business venture gtfohwtbs. Now when these women are dating, married or having a baby are with the guys. You don't hear them telling these women to get a job or to go to school but as soon as a divorce or break up happens then she is money hungry or a gold digger. e.g. D Wade,Tyrese Usher and Big Boi etc

Anonymous said...

A woman is a gold digger once she has her child and the relationship is over and she demands 180,000 a year or 7,000 just for him to see his child.

Anonymous said...

Child support is for the support of the Child. The child will be more than ok with close to 3K in child support and the childs father providing private school and college tuition. What more does a mother need for her child. She has enough money to put a roof over the childs head, feed and clothe said child and don't have to worry about it's future.

Anonymous said...

Most men that I know are cool, chill, laid back, and straight to the point. When relationships and marriages start to crumble, 9 times out of 10, the female is talking shit, threatening, etc. I have heard so many women tell their men this: "That's why I'm going to file alimony and child support on your ass, nigga!" Those are war words, and I don't blame the men who fight it out in court with women who appear to be all about the money. If you and a man are breaking up, why do you even want anything else from him? Do you want a man's money because throughout your relationship/marriage, you exchanged sex, cleaning, and cooking? I mean, that's what it all boils down to. I popped out these babies, sucked your dick, cooked for you, and cleaned your clothes, now you owe me for my services.

Anonymous said...

He never said he was hurting for cash as a result of actor Paul Walker’s death, or that he couldn’t afford anything. Another complete fabrication is the lie that Ludacris claimed he only made $55K in 2013.

On Wednesday, Feb. 19, a judge ordered all financial documents and financial pleadings pertaining to the case sealed. So any financial information that you read on the blogs are lies.

Anonymous said...

Well you liberals keep wanting to separate sex from procreation so don't complain about the consequences now.

Let's look at the OOW birthrates before and after the "sexual revolution" and progressive views towards sex.

Now we have a system where judges and lawyers make millions per year (mostly Jewish lawyers who as a group have the lowest OOW birthrate in America, btw) helping hapless negroes and poor white trash come to "agreements" on how to care for the children they created.

Look around your local court house at a child support hearing. Who is up in there? NEGROES, LATINOS AND POOR WHITE TRASH.

Monogamy is ESSENTIAL for the poor and middle class yet these two groups are shunning it because they want to 'live it up'.

I have no sympathy for either party here as they had no business being in a sexual relationship to begin with.

Black people need to get right. 70%+ black kids born OOW, most to poor single mothers. We are regressing as a race. Single parenthood with a fat child support check is still single parenthood.

Anonymous said...

@9:35 : u said all that to say what #notshit . All of that means not SHIT.

The mere fact that this child is considered a "secret " or (my personal favorite) "on break baby" speaks VOLUMES of Chris's character. All that may hold wt in child support court. But what about MORAL COURT. What about , like some1 pointed out, have made proper arrangements and accommodation before it even came to this ?? Just plain sorry. Ppl love to believe that the woman just can't get "over him" . Please . If this child is just a come up for her, then why not take care of your OWN FLESH AND BLOOD. If she's as unreasonable and demanding he has KNOWN IT SINCE HIGH SCHOOL. So not only does he risk his life, he risks the child's life by leaving her with such a vicious character. Continuing a vicious cycle.

I guess I'm placing the majority of the blame on Luda because black men need to go back to tradition(s) as far taking full responsibility for themselves and being father IN THE HOME AND RAISING THEIR CHILDREN. If u ain't interested pass on it. Another statistic, another black family doomed, another innocent child suffers. Just sad

Anonymous said...

Wait a minute how long this knee grow been in the rap game????? He sound straight stupid right about now.

If you knew your cashflow was getting low and still decided to spread his seeds all over town then maybe he should have thought about getting into a different profession.....

You can tell he a triflin ass kneegrow blaming his financial situation on the death of a dead man. Well maybe when Paul was alive and you were talking on set you should have taken a page out of his book because his daughter is now set for life!

Anonymous said...

7k for a baby is ridiculous! It falls on dead ear talking to men about wearing condoms. So I must say to the women. To have a child for the sole purpose of a come up is utterly crazy. There are too many bastard children running around on this earth. Therefore, to just have a child to live a good life and not have to work is so disgusting. Be careful. We all know what happened to Juvenile baby and the baby momma. You can't expect anything good to come out of this situation!!

Anonymous said...

@10:01 All that was said to say how the story is being reported by TMZ is not the facts. It appears per the court documents, and not TMZ's version of the facts, that he went above and beyond to co parent and all she wanted was the cash. Yes a certain level of responsibility is placed on him but his responsibility is to his child.

Anonymous said...

9:59, You are presenting some facts, but majority of your comment is your opinion. Why is monogamy essential for the poor? Marriage does not guarantee that children will be raised 'better.'

Anonymous said...

Bring back shame! The problem with this country is that we no longer shame people like this. A high school dropout rapper and a stripper have an OOW child - SHUN THEM. No press, no interviews, no endorsements, NOTHING. These people are immoral and should be treated as such.

But no, we have been fed the lie that shunning just "hurts the child" and is unfair. SO what? We all pay for the sins of our parents in one way or another. Some benefit from the right their parents did as well. Black people have been embracing this sick culture for decades now. And celebrity culture has only made it worse. Now the idiots we "idolize" are perpetuating the myth that making babies OOW is ok as long as you can pay for it.

Want to see all this ghetto baby mama/baby daddy culture go away. Start shunning these fools from mainstream society.

Black people accept too much. I don't allow my kids to associate with children from single parent homes. Why? Because that is not the values we possess in MY home. My kids are raised to believe that children come from a mom and a dad who were married PRIOR to their birth. I want my daughters to believe this is the ONLY way to have a family - not a lifestyle choice.

I also do not associate with relatives who are baby mamas/baby daddies (and yes I have quite a few) and do not participate in the baby showers/celebrations of such births. People come on the internet and lament about how wrong OOW birth is but they will sit up there and support it in real life. Not I.

So I don't care how much money Luda has or if he is lying or if the woman is a gold digger or whatever. They are straight TRASH and belong in the garbage dump with their baby!

Anonymous said...

10:11, You are a very angry and confused person.

Anonymous said...

@10:10

Monogamy is essential for the poor because the poor cannot afford to support children on their own - male or female. The poorer you are, the less sex out of marriage you can have. It's just the facts. Poor people need to get married and stay married to give their children even the smallest chance at escaping poverty. Same with middle class people. Children need stability and marriage provides that. When a man chooses to marry a woman he is making a choice that will result in far more sacrifice from him than the woman. This is why women should not "trick' men into marrying them by getting pregnant first. When a man makes the choice without trickery or coercion he is more likely to remain committed to the marriage. When he feels trapped or like he had no choice it sets the marriage off on bad footing..

Every study points to marriage being absolutely beneficial to children. It also teaches them values like compromise. Being raised by one person and only hearing one person's thought and opinions is not healthy. Or only being around one gender like many black children are.

Stop denying your children their BIRTHRIGHT of marriage between their mother and father and a COMMITMENT to raising them in a functional household.

Anonymous said...

@10:16

And you are a lowlife baby mama, I am sure. You mad?

Anonymous said...

I do agree with the sentiment that Blacks have regressed as a race. It seems that these days, some Blacks have adopted a perpetual victim/scapegoating attitude, and rather than try to empower themselves, they'd rather blame something or someone else for the bad decisions they've chosen to make in their lives. And if you say anything about it, you have the liberal types, who are more often than not just as ratchet as the folks they're caping for, spouting off about "slut-shaming", "respectability politics", "internalized racism", "White-identified", yadda yadda yadda. Basically, they think Black folks should be as irresponsible and ratchet as they want without any consequences, because to punish them would be "engaging in respectability politics" and "policing" their behavior and "nobody says anything when White people do the same thing", etc. I don't care what White people do. I want my own people to prosper and to best the very best they can be. Some will get left behind, either by choice or survival of the fittest. You can't save everyone, but we should at least TRY to better ourselves instead of settling for and aspiring to be bottom-of-the-barrel.

Anonymous said...

All those flowers he buys his girlfriend Doxycycline? All those trips he takes? Luda bettter start scheduling some DJ gigs and have his Conjure contract reviewed, cause it looks like he's going to have to start paying out the ( Y )

Anonymous said...

10:19, Ms. Lee is one of the regulars here and is a professor and she once talked what you are speaking about now. I don't really remember everything she said, but she basically said that poorer people tend to have more children and that richer people tend to not have a lot of children.

Anonymous said...

I don’t know why people think that shit is sweeter in a two parent household. Some of the most dysfunctional people I know came from 2 parent households.

Anonymous said...

10:21, I have no children. Matter of fact, I've never even been pregnant. But like I said, you're angry and confused. You hurt and shame comes from a deep and personal place. You're probably the product of an OOW birth and because it embarrasses you so much, you try to shield your children from it. The funny thing is, in your rant you sound unbalanced and strange. You're going to fuck your kids and their minds up with your HATRED for innocent children born out of a marital union.

Anonymous said...

10:24, One of my friends told me that she and her brother were BEGGING their parents to divorce because the parents constantly argued.

Bee Gee said...

^ That's messed up

Anonymous said...

How come dudes come up with every excuse in the book to get out of taking care of their kids?

Anonymous said...

10:24 Not all 2 parent households are like that though.

Anonymous said...

@Bee Gee, yes. She said that her and her brother were so happy when their parents divorced because the parents were happier being split up. It just irks me when people make broad generalizations about "married" households as if they are magical, whimsical, and perfect. I know plenty of people from double and single parent homes who came out great, average, and then bad.

Anonymous said...

Your personal anecdotes do not trump decades of research and social science. Marriage is a stabilizer for children and produces healthier adults than single parent/divorced families. And yes, divorce is a scourge on this nation as well. People do not understand why they are in a marriage and cannot see the big picture. Divorce rates so high because people think marriage is about personal fulfillment when it is not.

Anyway, all roads point to marriage being better for children despite the bad marriages that exist. If you look at most success stories (especially for children who were born poor or lower middle class) their parents' marriage played a big role in their success.

Your family life is the first place you learn about human relationships and socialization. Only having 50% of that piece (and even less if your single parent is poor and struggling) is setting you up for failure.

Yes, there are bad marriages out there and horrible people who have come from bad marriages but that does not take away from the REAL and TANGIBLE benefits of marriage for children.

Anonymous said...

There should be a limit on how many kids poor people can have.

Get rid of welfare. As long as people know they can rely on the government for handouts they have no incentive to NOT have a bunch of kids they can't afford. Make them get jobs to pay for their own shit instead of getting a free ride. Otherwise they'll just have to be homeless. Maybe that will give them the kick in the ass they need to stop being so damn irresponsible.

Anonymous said...

@10:33 Oh I know. I'm one of those OWW kids but my child isn't and my husband and I have a functional family. My husband is the product of a 2 parent household and is a GREAT father and husband. His brother on the other hand has multiple kids by multiple woman and they came up the exact same way.

Anonymous said...

You sanctimonious, overly judgmental 'people' on this particular thread are incredibly nauseating, yet laughable at the same damn time. You are ranting so hard for the set-up of this world that has been created, established, fulfilled, and beneficial to White people only.

The primary reason that marriage is looked upon as the quintessential relationship status in this country is because of its moralistic stronghold intertwined with religion. Christianity has led you to believe that one can not function, be, and prosper without its teaching, yet these 'Christian' marriages are the ones continuously ending in divorce. Morals, religion, and social sciences go out the window when married parties end up in divorce court, huh?

There are amazing people from all walks of life in this country and in this world. To denounce those who were born without married parents shows a personal and internal struggle and deficiency of those arguing so vehemently against these people.

Anonymous said...

This is a continuous cycle of absentee fathers in our communities.
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@8:34
Truth.

Anonymous said...

@10:47

People will say you want to "punish innocent children," but I agree. Being born to poor or irresponsible people is just part of the lottery of life. But for many poor women especially their children are their only accomplishment in life. No education, no marriage - just babies.

Bee Gee said...

@10:38am - So true.

Anonymous said...

LOL @ 10:55

Uhm, marriage is looked at as quintessential and beneficial because IT WORKS - duh! Show me a human society that has survived and thrived WITHOUT marriage as its foundation. Go ahead, please find one.

And where has ANYBODY mentioned Christianity? Nearly every religion supports marriage as the foundation for raising families - not just Christianity.

Divorce rates are the highest among black people in America - something like 63% of marriages among two black people end in divorce. Is Christianity to blame for that? Or a lack of preparation for the long road of marriage? Or loose morals?

No one is arguing that OOW children can't grow up to be good people but we have to stop normalizing these relationships.

Bee Gee said...

The pic of homie standing on the side of the whip, private jet in the background, says so much.. Nice visual "statement" @ Snitch

Anonymous said...

Lowlife. @10:47 Truth. Don't let hip hop & the promisciuty, violence, misogeny it promotes influence & brainwash your children. If you have a son buy flowers & tell him to give each flower to a relatibe or little girl. All children should be taught their bodies is only for their spouses enjoyment & pleasure. When you have sex to soon with people, you find out you are not compatible, that is why people'divorce or don't stay together

Anonymous said...

11:09, You are so dense. Incredibly. Which is it, bitch? In one argument, you claim that Black people are having children WITHOUT BEING MARRIED in record numbers, and then you say that 63% of Black marriages are ending in divorce? You make no sense with your flawed ass 'facts,' 'reports,' and 'studies.'

In African villages, Muslim communities, and Indian tribes for example, several relationships arrangements have been shown to be prosperous and beneficial to their civilizations. You think the entire world and its people just survived from time's beginning because everyone was married? It is quite obvious that you have not traveled or studied different and international cultures extensively.

My aunt and her long-time boyfriend never married, and raised their children together, but they both had their own homes. It's funny that my cousins (their children) are both college-educated and successful. One is a lawyer and the other is a senator. Damn, a lawyer and senator, with their ol' out-of-wedlock born asses, shame on their unmarried parents for producing two bright, law-abiding citizens making six figures.

You need to be concerned with your own relationship(s). The fact that you have been on this blog all morning trying to dictate how other people should live and have their children is evident that you are projecting. And who is 'normalizing' said relationships like this one here with Ludacris and his baby's mother? These relationships are reported on all of the time, but I have yet to see TIME Magazine and CNN, for example, reporting that 'Hooray! Out of wedlock births and unmarried partners should be celebrated!'

Like I said, sanctimonious and overly-judgmental bitches like you are the laughing stocks. Go research a little bit more. Go find real live data, and that regurgitated shit that some outdated publication and corporation has fed you.

Anonymous said...

Go research a little bit more. Go find real live data, and *NOT that regurgitated shit that some outdated publication and corporation has fed you.

Anonymous said...

@10:47: u do realize that if it wasn't for WHITE WOMEN( the majority of recipients) there would be NONE .

I just wanted to put that out there. Black women are the original queens. WHITE WOMEN are the welfare

Proceed

Anonymous said...

@11:37, I caught how at first she was saying that Black people have regressed and are constantly having out of wedlock kids & then she went on to say that 63% of Black people are divorcing, lmao. She doesnt know what she's talking about at all because the last time I checked, 72% of Black women were single mothers, lmaooooooooooo.

Anonymous said...

11:44, Black women are queens, but stay twerking, wearing White women's hair, fighting in public, and being side hoes? LMAO

Anonymous said...

@11:37

Dense? Both statements are FACTUAL. Black people have a high rate of OOW birth and LOW rate of marriage. Of those marriages the majority still end in divorce, dummy.

Now let's take your ridiculous claim that polyamorous relationships and matriarchy in Africa, India and Muslim communities have been beneficial to these groups. Where is the data proving this? Even among African nations, the countries with the most stable GDPs and lowest rate of violence follow traditional western cultural scripts including MARRIAGE. India? You mean the country of mass rape? How are the children in India fearing under all that rape? Most muslim nations cannot afford to feed their own people and have unemployment rates as high as 50%. I asked you to show me examples of surviving and THRIVING not just existing.

Your aunt and her baby daddy prove nothing. Why people keep tossing out these personal anecdotes as proof that marriage doesn't matter is beyond me, For every alleged couple like your aunt and her baby daddy, there are scores of failures. Look at the stats. Go to your local county lock-up. Go to your local adult education program, Go to your local welfare office. Go to your local WIC office. Do a poll of how many of those people were raised in a married household. This is not some smoke and mirrors trick to get people to shame OOW births - it is reality.

What business of it is yours how I spend my time? What else should I be doing according to you since I have no right to express my opinions about a real and legitimate social issue. And issue that affects me and my children because we live in a country where people keep trying to push OOW births as normal and acceptable. You have no right to tell me how to spend my time just as you claim I have no right to tell people how to live their lives.

Come back when you have a real argument - not your family tree and examples of countries where the poverty rate and rape of violence against women and children are abhorrent.

Marriage works. End of story.

Anonymous said...

11:47:

Those statements are not factual at all. What is factual, however, is that White women leading in terms of abortions and out of wedlock children. They are also leading in the dynamics of relying on government assistance. It is obvious that you have a personal vendetta against Black people in this country. You are trying so hard to hide behind flawed statistics against the Black community in order to prove your callous point(s). The World Health Organization, the CDC, and various Department of Human Services around the country are always reporting falsely on the disparaging numbers regarding OOW births and poverty rates as they relate, solely, to both White and Latino American communities.

Anonymous said...

It's quite obvious that the broad in here writing novels about everything that's wrong with the Black community is suffering from self-hate. I bet she's unmarried and a mother to several children, hence her hate and disdain for unmarried women with children. She's projecting her personal failures onto an entire community of Black people. She's also White-washed and upholding Eurocentric regimes. She's also unemployed because as stated before, she's been on this thread since it was created, arguing with people, trying to personalize THEIR lives based on what she believes. Delusional.

Anonymous said...

We as Blacks focus too much on Whites & what they do & not on our own faults and failings. White people are protected. Hiweber the Black woman is not. Welfare was the worse thing to happen to Blacks in America. Instead of relying on each other we relied on the govt. Splintered & weakened the communuty & families & we were too weak & dumb to realize it. We fell for it. Welfare was created to keep Blacks voting Democrat. "
I'll have these n*ggers voting Democratic for the next 200 years"-LBJ according to book. You can google other quotes. Black people wake up stop being promiscious and get yourselves together. Quit blaming others for the failings.

Anonymous said...

*However*

Anonymous said...

@12:01

LOL here come the same stale arguments. Whenever anyone tells the truth about black Americans they must be hiding something or self-loathing about their blackness.

I couldn't care less if black women continue to ruin their culture and legacy by breeding irresponsibly. Hey, if y'all want to make this shit the norm - go right ahead. If y'all wanna hold up single black motherhood as a badge of honor when in reality it is an early death sentence go right ahead.

The apathy and lack of concern about this issue speaks volumes about the state of black America. It's always about what white people are doing or not doing, how statistics are biased, how marriage is not necessary, how plenty of people *I* know did find in a single parent home, etc. So much excuse making and obfuscating yet our collective gets worse and worse and poorer and poorer.

But y'all got it alllllll figured out. In the end we will see who is right. 20 more years of this and blacks will be unable to rise to any respectable level in this country again. African immigrants will replace black Americans as they are already doing in higher education. Funny enough, African immigrants have a very high rate of marriage, low rate of OOW births and low divorce rate. Could that be why their children are succeeding? Nah, must be because white people are allowing it to happen. That is the only way you can get ahead in this world.

Anonymous said...

Jesus Christ was an out of wedlock child!

dreadee said...

So basically 9:35am cleared up everything.

Anonymous said...

All this caping and blame-shifting is the reason why the Black community is getting left behind. Instead of making our people take responsiblity we give them an easy way out by blaming racism on everything. Yes, racism exists, but that's no reason to lower our standards and settle for mediocrity or worse. Blacks have become so comfortable with learned helplessness that they can't wrap their minds around anything that has to do with getting off their butts and at least TRYING to to pull themselves out of the gutter. It's much easier and takes less effort to just wallow in the muck and complain about how the white man is holding them down, and keep making poor decisions in life that only worsen their situation.

Anonymous said...

lolololol @12:21 ....

Anonymous said...

The Black community would be better off without these Captain-Save-A-Hos swooping down and rescuing Blacks from taking personal responsibility.

Anonymous said...

You have sex with the first boy that pays you any attention, get pregnant & he spljts but you blame White people for that. Wake up Black people. Watch all of the ones that did this get mad. Ni one is puttung you down. But don't complain about being a baby momma when you do baby moma or baby daddy things.. The concept is not that hard to figure out.

Anonymous said...

"Black women are twerking"


Yet white women are emulating the so called twerks


"Wearing white women's hair"

Yet Asian, hispanisic, african, and Indian women have hair as well so why is the hair thing solely under white women?


Black women are queens. I just wish that the black women in america could see that and make better life decisions.


I always take statistics from white institutions with a grain of salt. Racism is not about skin color, its about power, and white people in general want to keep that power, so naturally they will say and do nothing that perpetuates black people from all walks of life in a negative light, and one of their weapons of power is the number game, so called statistics. They sample 2 people in a population then print journals on how 98% of black people only have one arm, mind you, out of 3 billion blacks roaming the earth. That's white statistics for you. I'll pass.

Anonymous said...

@12:54 If you don't know that 96% of weave is from Brazil and India, what do you know. Chris Rock did a whole movie about it

Anonymous said...

@12:54 ... Not you per say, but the people you are talking about

Anonymous said...

1. Some of these trifling men will waste stacks of dough on strippers, jump offs, escorts, etc., but as soon as he is threatened with loss of control on how much money he dishes out (i.e.: divorce, child support, alimony), all of a sudden, the same women he was willing to spend thousands of dollars a WEEK on is suddenly a scheming golddigger who is not worth a can of paint.

2. People who keep saying that all children born OOW will grow up to be failures are WORSE than the racist whites, because you as black people are doing the white man's work for him, by participating in the "soft bigotry of low expectations".

3. While marriage has been shown to be a stabilizing force for families, we all know that the majority of marriage end in divorce, and that some of the marriages that stay intact are not the ideal situations. Children growing up with parents who are in a shitty marriage is not necessarily any better than children growing up with single parents.

4. People who are always whining that X amount of $$ is "too much" for child support always seem to apply this to black women, but white, asian, or latina women in the same situation get cheered on to "GET THAT MONEY!". As if black children are worth less than kids of other races, and black women do not deserve to receive an adequate amount of support to raise their children.

5. If black women can be constantly criticized for laying up with bum-ass losers or otherwise unworthy men, black men should also be criticized for carelessly dealing the dick to women who they would never consider marrying or raising a child with.

Anonymous said...

"I always take statistics from white institutions with a grain of salt."

Exactly my point.

Anonymous said...

1:00, weaves are from brazil and India, so what? What about it? maybe you should put it on your resume as alist of things you do know. Chile please.

Anonymous said...

1:08, THANK YOU!

Anonymous said...

@12:54 we are talking about black people, not whites, asians, hispanics, let them worry about their communities & what they do.

@1:08 There are always double standards & responsibilities. Its not fair but its the woman that bears the brunt of the responsibliy. It is the woman that us in control. Don't keep giving sex so easy. If a man or boy is promicious, pushing sex, it doesn't mean you have spread the legs to keep him. The concept is simple. If you have easy sex or without formal commitment don't complain about being single orraising children on your own

Anonymous said...

7k for a baby is totally reasonable while daddy is spending 3X as much trying to get the next chix panties. Round and round we go.

Anonymous said...

@1:08 There are always double standards & responsibilities. Its not fair but its the woman that bears the brunt of the responsibliy. It is the woman that us in control. Don't keep giving sex so easy. If a man or boy is promicious, pushing sex, it doesn't mean you have spread the legs to keep him. The concept is simple. If you have easy sex or without formal commitment don't complain about being single orraising children on your own
1:20 PM


The same thing goes for men.

Some men would stick their dick in any hole just for the promise of 5 minutes of suction and an orgasm at the end.

You would think they had more respect for themselves and their health (and their bank accounts) than to keep indiscriminately having unprotected sex with women they don't respect or don't want to settle down with.

And stop pretending that every child with single parents came into the world from a one-night stand between Boomqueeshia and JuVontay.

Most of these kids parents were are either divorced or separated from each other, or are just shacked up together without a marriage certificate.

Anonymous said...

@1:20, you have to keep up with the dialogue, that was a comment made in regards to what black women do compared to whites and a rebuttal was given, don't try to dictate the dialogue on what we can or can't discuss. Blacks live in a global planet along with Asians, Indians, whites, Hispanics, what they do affects our community because we have 0 power, but that's a topic for another day, its funny how you weren't complaining when other comments were bashing your community, you one of those that get an orgasim and salivate at the mouth when the topic is negative.

Anonymous said...

These comments, mainly written by women, are why I, a woman, hate majority of women. Besides federal and/or state taxes, I can not see how a single woman with out of wedlock children have 'affected' me in a negative way. I am married and I have no children yet, but when I do become a mother, I will teach my children to love all people and to help all people. Declaring single mothers and their children as 'trash' is nothing but a devilish social reject would spew. Not letting your children play with children who are products of single homes is beyond arrogant and reeks of mental illness. Some of the strongest women are single mothers. Some of the most brilliant people were products of single homes.

Since marriage is the end all, be all of everything, let's look at a family family that have two elderly parents who are still married: The Jacksons. Highly talented and attractive (before the cosmetic surgeries, of course) family, but highly dysfunctional and socially inept.

Anonymous said...

LOL @ 5 minutes of suction. I especially hate when black women are branded as hoes by rappers yet they are quick to engage secretive activities like down low nasty homo sex, they stick their peens in anything.

Anonymous said...

NO WEDDING, NO WOMB!

Anonymous said...

@2:03 ....lololo. That made me Holla. Make T-Shirts!

Anonymous said...

@1:36 I never worry or care what others or who marriages are successful or not successful. If IT were married o Joe Jackson then I'M would probably say marriage doesn't work but if Iwere married to Ossie Davis, Jackie Robinson, Barack Obama then I 'd think a certain way. Just because a marriage didn't work out for someone doesn't mean it wouldn't work out for you & completely vice versa.

Anonymous said...

All of these comments for Ludacris? Wow! they're off-topic but still.

Anonymous said...

No Wedding No Womb is a primary call directed to the black community to take action against the rampant births of children who are born without physical, financial and emotional protection. It is a call for accountability for both MEN and WOMEN to be mindful of the huge responsibility and privilege they have when bringing a child into the world...NWNW calls for both MEN and WOMEN to put the needs of children first, and advocates that couples abstain from having children until they are emotionally, physically and financially able to care for them.

http://www.noweddingnowomb.com/about/

Anonymous said...

How many FATF movies there gonna be? I didn't know they was already up to #7!

Reds4real2006 said...

amen@9:52
Most Women are hypocrites
When they decide to have an abortion(against the mans will), they are making wise decision.
But when they decide to have the child (against the mans will), MEN SHOULD STEP IT UP.
I am amazed how these black hoodrats flood this blog/topic with the usual STANK comments....NIGGAS AINT SHIT, MAN UP NIGGAS, TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD, u got the idea
Its been mentioned already how these females manipulate condoms to get pregrant which means the VARGINA is the new SOCIAL SECURITY CHECK.
If LUDA was a bartendar, bus driver or garbage collector, they would have that abotion real quick.
Yet these HOODRATS would stay silent on these tricks and mouth-off about what NIGGAS aint doing

THE HYPOCRISY

Reds4real2006 said...

amen@9:52

Most Women are hypocrites
When they decide to have an abortion(against the mans will), they are making wise decision.
But when they decide to have the child (against the mans will), MEN SHOULD STEP IT UP.


I am amazed how these black hoodrats flood this blog/topic with the usual STANK comments....NIGGAS AINT SHIT, MAN UP NIGGAS, TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD, u got the idea


Its been mentioned already how these females manipulate condoms to get pregnant which means the VARGINA is the new SOCIAL SECURITY CHECK.

If LUDA was a bartender, bus driver or garbage collector, they would have that abortion real quick.

Yet these HOOD RATS would stay silent on these tricks and mouth-off about what NIGGAS aint doing

THE HYPOCRISY

Anonymous said...

Co-sign 4:00/4:02.

KenyaDoll said...

Real Black women don't marry rappers.

Anonymous said...

More unwanted bastards that will populate the prison system. And/or become another rapper that will add to the pollution and denigration of young black minds.

Anonymous said...

@ 1:36 don't be dense. Unless you want to live in a bubble, You will be affected by the product of oow union. They will be your kids classmate, their friends. They will be the ones teaching your children about porn at 6 yrs old, How to have sex at 10, lying and stealing at 14 and doing drugs at 15. These kids are growing up with a single mother who either can't be bothered to monitor what their kids are doing or is working 20 hours a day and doesn't have time to monitor what they're kids are doing. Go ahead and tell your child to love everyone the way they are and you will have a delinquent on your hand before your child is a teenager.

Anonymous said...

^
You must live on a self-contained commune if you can successfully segregate your family from all the so-called OOW riff-raff out there.

Black folks need to be wary of people like you.

We expect whites to say racist, stereotypical things like @5:19, but when black people do it, it's more insidious, because you are probably the type to smile in someone's face and tell your kids nasty lies about them behind their backs.

I hope your kids are old enough to see your bullshit for what it is, and to know that their mother is delusional and needs some psychological help.

MizIron Box said...

In my Porsha Stewart voice:
Bye Ashy!

Anonymous said...

This will be an ongoing battle that you and I should never have to to make points or gender bang because we will never prove right or wrong for our particular side. Because as a men and women no side is innocent and no side is solely guilty. Why the fuck are women here putting all men in the triffling no good category and why the fuck are men saying that all women are gold diggers when the fact of the matter is you are sitting here wasting time because nothing is ever proven because everybody is right. Some of these dudes are dead beats and some of these chicks are gold diggers. Now if anyone can look in the mirror and say that's not true is crazy as hell. But it's hard to believe that anyone here taking a hard stance either way can realistically have a heathy relationship with the opposite sex because you are automatically biased and more than likely have some underlying issues that they are not aware of. If you have been constantly hurt by the opposite sex, it's ok baby, a lot of us have, but don't let that drive your life, get some help for it, I did........lol. But the reaction to this thread is disturbing. To many people here making sense of their own personal issues. And all the talk about marriage making good people is just more propagated craziness. Don't get me wrong I'm all for a marriage and a two parent house hold but the when it comes to kids, it's still a crap shoot. You still have far too many outside influences that weigh in heavily. But black me and black women will continue to drift apart as Long as we come here and voluntarily jump in this sparing match. From the outside looking in, this shit resembles a pitbull fight. Female dogs vs Male dogs, fighting to the death on behalf of someone else not really even knowing why. But we have been placed against each other for so long (black men and black women). I guess the game is fun cause so many play it, but no matter how fun it is I won't enter the game. Oh, I forgot, when we talk about marriage being good and healthy for a child's growth, does that include same sex marriages? Thanks and Peace and blessings to all y'all.

Anonymous said...

@ 7:08 little girl, stay out of grown folks conversation. Your ass is obviously too stupid to comprehend the basics. You grown enough to open up your legs to aint shit niggas you grown enough to hear the truth. You want someone to tell you that white man forced you to have kids for ain't shit men? get your ass off the damn internet.

Anonymous said...

Isn't this the same nigga who rapped about getting checks from 4 different record labels???

Anonymous said...

This entire thread that all Blacks know is complete dysfunction. They see at home, school, work. The majority of us have never seen a healthy Black relationship without fighting, arguing, cheating

Anonymous said...

I don't believe Luda. He just bought a mansion for $4.8 million in Calif.

Anonymous said...

#100

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