Wednesday, May 07, 2014

T.I. Opens Up About Marriage Problems


For months the streets have known that T.I. and Tiny's marriage was on rocks.

T.I. confirms everything you've heard about Hip Hop's favorite ride-or-die couple on the remix for Jhen√© Aiko's 'The Worst…'

On the track T.I. spits,
Well maybe I’ma just go spend $4 mill on crib/All the kids wanna know where they little brother’s at/Got damn I ain’t even told my mother yet/Yeah, I know I was clowning/I know you wasn’t just going to take that laying down/and I’ll be the first to say it/I was dead wrong/But if it isn’t worth shooting me in the head don’t take to social media to try me/Putting folk all in our B/ all on IG/Nah, I don’t believe it/ I don’t wanna see it/Maybe I wake up tomorrow it’ll be deleted/You out the country in bikinis on beaches/While I’m in the studio doing features like…

71 comments:

Ms. Lee said...

The issue is that celebrities and non-celebrities, many of them, do not know how to refrain from posting every facet of their personal lives online. I believe that the key to a happy, solid marriage is to keep everything between the spouses.

Anonymous said...

Negro please.

Anonymous said...

If TI would've kept his dick between him and his wife, then there would be nothing to talk about.

Anonymous said...

If women would stop being pressed over monogamy and fairy tales, their feelings would stop getting hurt. LMAO

@MsLee niggas should be banned from all online activities. They cant handle it at all.

Anonymous said...

Ms. Lee is right GET OFF THE INTERNET!!! We don't need to know what is going on in your personal life and that goes for us regular people as well!

Anonymous said...

I give him 3 months he will be in jail . Watch.

Anonymous said...

He all up on tv try to act and talk like Bill Cosby . Sound all retard.

Nasir Saadiq said...

Tiny still tryna save fave cause they got a family oriented show to promote

Anonymous said...

Co-sign Ms Lee, 10:59 and 11:02 (the first one).

Listen up y'all...I have a cousin on IG who has posted over 2,000 pics. She's NOT a celebrity or anybody important. I'm not trying to be mean, but I don't care about her kids' games, what they ate, her new glasses, her being at the club with her girls, etc. Why do we as regular folk think that other people REALLY care about what we do in life everyday? Is this narcissism??

Anonymous said...

Your ass is going to be in jail

Anonymous said...

i'm with 10:56. whatever is clever.

Anonymous said...

if only there were a world-wide internet blackout like in that johnny depp movie 'transcendence'. it some aspects, it would suck, but at the same time, it would be a relief to not be privy to both regular people's and celebrities' narcissism.

Anonymous said...

It's a shame how black men treat women that they made commitments to in the presence of the Lord....

But then again, the Bible says A wicked man is given as a portion to a wicked woman...

They both wicked as hell, and their children ( king and major ) are just casualities of war.

It is what it is.

Anonymous said...

This is stupid. WhoCares! If people wouldn't be so obsessed to know what their favorites are doing and ignorant to wanting to publish all of their business, maybe then social media will go away.

Anonymous said...

@10:59
Spoken like a true bird. A wife is 'all in her feelings' if she expects her husband to remain faithful? You chicks are tragic thinking that it's the norm to share men and deal with side chicks and side babies. Your mindset is exactly what's wrong with Black America.

Don't even try to defend your low class, ghetto trash way of thinking. You are a hoodroach through and through. If Black America could exterminate hoodroaches, we would be better off but like a true ROACH you multiply and are a true nuisance on society.

Anonymous said...

Tiny knew exactly what she had before she married him. He was a dirty dick nigger before she married him and marriage was not going to change that.Hello, he had how many out side kids before they got married. Hello, he fucked Hoopz and dump Tiny and rumor has it he fucked Lauren London and Reegan Gomez from the Parenthood. Marriage will not change a dirty dick mofo because if he did it several times before the marriage, then he will continue to do it before the marriage. Marriage only ensures that I can take out and insurance policy out on you.

Anonymous said...

11:23, Kenya, I'm calling a spade a spade. Monogamy is extremely faulty. It gives false impressions of love and it displays partners as ownership, and that's why people are so heated and in their feelings all the time about "love." The percentage of faithful is probably around 10%. What's wrong with the Black community is their lack of accountability and responsibility, and the fact that they don't understand reality.

Bee Gee said...

@11:15am - Interesting thought. Personally, I think some people would riot in the streets if they lost network connectivity for a week or more. If we lose network connectivity here at work, these people lose their damned minds.. knowing they asses are mostly puttin work in on worldstar or mediatakeout.

Imagine the games the Martians could float over us and play on our asses today..

Anonymous said...

Ladies, let's be completely real. I got married at 23 (I'm 42 now and divorced). We graduated college together, had four beautiful children together, we traveled, dined, had great sex, and he cheated on me. He told me that his mistress had nothing to do with me, meaning that my prettiness, my cooking skills, my credit score, my college degrees, and my sex skills meant nothing. He simply wanted another woman. I'll never tell another woman that she'll be cheated on in her marriage because first, that's not my place and second that's not true for all women, but I will say that women need to stop being so blind to how men operate. If a man is going to cheat, he's going to do it and nothing you can do will stop him. And let's stop getting so bent out of shape when people say that monogamy and/or marriage is a joke. To some people, these things are jokes. I took my marriage seriously and played my role great, but my husband still had an affair. Am I bitter? No. Do I hate him? No. We're friends and we co-parent our kids. I have a boyfriend now and all is cool.

Anonymous said...

@10:26
I'm not Kenya. Nice try, though.

Anonymous said...

11:07
Not to be mean but that's the entire point of having IG. What's annoying is people putting 50 million memes up and one or 2 suspect pictures. Be happy she's not out here cat fishing people lol! I get what you're saying though!

As for TI, he can make another child with another woman while married, but have the audacity to be upset with his wife for posting pics in her bikini? Where's the logic in that?

Anonymous said...

11:15 that is a good meeting, you made a good point.

Anonymous said...

11:34, Either you are Kenya or you're just as demented as her because "you" and her sound the same. I see that your mind is so small that you couldn't address my reply to you. Your only concern was letting me know that "you" aren't Kenya. Good day, weirdo.

Anonymous said...

Instagram was for artistic purposes only. The hoodrats were allowed in, and now we've been subjected to seeing little Tyrone and Tameka's birthday parties, Keisha's food plates, Maria's 28 inch Malaysian bundles, etc. The point of IG is not to post EVERYTHING going on in your life.

Anonymous said...

deny, deny, deny...
Get on tv and deny some more...
Now Tiny Looks like a DAMN FOOL...

Do is this a "BREAK BABY" .. Nope you were MARRIED when you made this child out of WEDLOCK....
All these good ole " values" these reality shows are teaching!

Anonymous said...

Folks... All of these people need to get OFF social media,
And off TV.

dreadee said...

11:33am is on point...

Anonymous said...

I would rather be new school cool then an old school fool. Some relationships just bring out the worst in both people. Ride or die is played out and for hoodboogers.

Anonymous said...

If folks don't like instagram can't you not look at their pics...I don't know how it works because I don't do all those social media outlets...but if you don't like seeing their pics aren't you in control of that? Meaning aren't you the one following or clicking on their instagram?

On Topic:

TIP put it in a song and we are supposed to rush out and support his latest album. Boy Please - your star is fading boo-boo!

Anonymous said...

@11:33
They do not want to hear that in here. Trust and believe that the truth is very painful to some of these females. Happy you are in a better place now.

Anonymous said...

i dont give a fuck..TIP DEAD AZZ wrong for fucking her DUSTY ASS homegirl who been with her from XSCAPE days and that tramp was ALL TYPES of wrong KEEP these GHETTO JEALOUS BITCHES out your life ladies THEY WILL fuck your man and your daddy and anything else they can get their hands on ...and PLEASE PLEASE leave these DIRTY DICK NIGGAS ALONE

Anonymous said...

@11:33am I think what the other poster is saying is that only a certain type of person is willing to PUT UP with a man cheating. Yes many men do cheat, & women as well, but like you, why should the wife put up with it?

Sexually transmitted diseases are REAL! I m not dealing with ANYBODY who thinks its cool to sleep around. I dont even keep female friends who sleep around. REPUTATION IS EVERYTHING!

The sexiest type of man is the type that doesnt sleep around.

Anonymous said...

What kills me about celebrity men is their superficiality. They d rather have a beautiful DUMB WOMAN WHO DOESNT COOK OR CLEAN VS. a Tiny, who may not be beautiful outside, but is beautiful inside. Then when they get sick, the airhead beauty is out screwing her next catch. They 80/20 rule is not a game.

Anonymous said...

@11:43
You can kiss my entire black ass. I didn't respond to your comment because I didn't care to read it in it's entirety. Moving right along...

Anonymous said...

12:23, It has nothing to do with "putting up with a man who cheats." My husband's affair was 10 years and I never knew until HE TOLD ME ABOUT IT. There are millions of women being cheated on right now, but because they don't know, they stay. Very simple. My point is: Just because you see no signs of cheating doesn't mean it's not happening.

Anonymous said...

@12:54's comment
*Scratches head* But you just...never mind.

Anonymous said...

Humans are not managomous by nature. We all got here by means of sex. Every single one of us. Marrige was designed in the eyes of God. The ONLY way a marriage can survive "successfully" is to keep God all up and in it! That simple. Godless marriages don't end well. Most of us put each other in a box when we get married. They put partners in an unrealistic category like marriage makes the natural sexual instinct human experience non existant.

Anonymous said...

Monogamy and marriage were created by man. LOL

Anonymous said...

She's seeing somebody else and so is he. They don't even look happy together anymore and living separate lives. That's what open marriage does it destroys. if you wanna do that shit, keep your ass single. That simple

Bee Gee said...

You don't need god not to fuck around on your spouse. You just need conviction, trust, and perspective, among other things. Same things you probably need if god is in your marriage.

I'm not knockin' anybody in particular, but supposedly "god-fearing" people commit more than their fair share of fuckery. Especially "god fearing" men. I'm in English class right NOW with this brotha who is a minister and an empowerment speaker, comin' at me with Proverbs and offers of fellowship and study weekly. Every time the class takes a break and I come back from break early, he spittin' lame at some butter rican female.

And on some extra real shit, the religious man is often more devious and one you need to really keep a gps tracker on, because that nigga will use his faith to justify ALL OF HIS BULLSHIT, and use "brotha I am not perfect, God is still working on me" to excuse himself from his episode of fuckery.

If two people wanna be married and stay married, they'll do what it takes to make that happen. That's my religion, as it applies to marriage. Actions speak louder than any proverb will ever have the power to. My opinion.

Anonymous said...

Marriage was NOT created by man NOR was monogamy. People NATURALLY came together to form a unit. If we were naturally polygamous by nature then it would be evident. All the laws and rules could be abolished right this minute. Do yall think people would NATURALLY become polygamists?.....HELL NO.

Anonymous said...

@BeeGee

That "minister" you speak of is NOT of God. Don't be fooled by appearances. But I agree with you that if people want to make a marriage work they can.

@1:15

While I understand your point about people cheating if they want to, the fact of the matter is your husband didn't want to be married to you anymore. Affairs can be bypassed if there is a real issue in the relationship. I believe your hubby just grew apart from you.

Bee Gee said...

@2:12pm - Yeh I understand that, but I'm also curious. How is it that you go about determining whether or not some one is "of God?"

Anonymous said...

@BeeGee

You have to use discernment. I'm not even Christian but I know God when I see it. It's something I can just feel. I don't see how anyone cannot believe in God.

Niyabinghi Warrior said...

I don't know why she's surprised, he was a dirty dick nigga with a long felony rap sheet, an informant for the FBI among other things. she's also to blame why marry someone like this? and cosign three way to keep him happy girl bye and read a book or two about learning to love your self, respect self and get counseling that ride of die fuckery for these nasty filthy, crumb bum niggas is outdated HIV and stds' are real!!

Bee Gee said...

@2:45pm - I don't know god, I have no relationship with god, and any relationship I ever claimed to have consisted of me going through repetitive motions hoping to feel something. I can talk to a person and observe them and say without question that I know this person believes and has a deep belief and faith in god. But I don't think I'm equipped to determine whether or not someone is of god or not because god isn't real to me.

Anonymous said...

It's something I can just feel.
_________________
Preach!

Anonymous said...

God doesn't exist. God is in the same category as Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy, the Great Pumpkin, etc., etc. I would say some folks will be mighty disappointed when they die and discover that there is no heaven, no afterlife, but they'll be dead and totally unknowing of the fact that they spent their entire lives believing a fairy tale, and it was all for naught, because when you die, you become worm food, and that's it.

Anonymous said...

Wow, no wonder you're always so angry Bee-Gee...you need SOME kind of spiritual serenity.

@3:29

There is an afterlife according to whatever you believe. I believe that we all have a soul.

I am not very religious but I do believe in God as a spirit of all things positive, healthy and well-being.

Bee-Gee you are negative as fuck. Everything you spurt out your mouth is negative or degrading to a woman. You never have anything positive to say about anybody. I know people live to drag on here but even in the most positive posts, you don't show up. You only show up when there is hell to raise. You seem bitter and angry about something and you need something positive in your life besides some sex and food.



Anonymous said...

@2:45

I agree.

Anonymous said...

@BeeGee

I'm sorry you feel that way. I can't explain to you how i've felt him but i have. My initial point was that just because someone is in or of the "Church" doesn't mean that they are of God. The Black Church serves as an indoctrination camp and has for many centuries. It served its purpose back in the day because blacks needed a common place to convene. It's no longer needed. But GOD? To me God is more realer than ever especially in these increasingly demonic times.

Anonymous said...

@3:45

The Black Church is not what it historically used to be anymore. The Black church was a place for African-Americans that were not allowed in some of the white churches in the South. Now the Black church has become a huge fashion show full of show offs, pulpit pimps, desperate single Black women looking for a man to fix, an excuse to dress to the nines and competition between the old church hags and the young malleable church women, and a reason to hound on childless married couples on why they don't have or want children.

I am good just believing in God and allowing him to guide me to whatever spiritual journey.

Anonymous said...

@2:05
COSIGN BEEGEE 100%
RELIGIOUS FANATICISM HAS BEEN THE CURSE OF BLACK PEOPLE IN AMERICA FOR TOO MANY YEARS.
IT'S TIME TO TAKE PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY BASED ON COURAGE, CONVICTION AND JUST DOING THE RIGHT THING BECAUSE IT'S THE RIGHT THING TO DO.
THATS WHAT'S UP ABOUT SCHOOL ALSO, CONTINUE TO EDUCATE YOURSELF BROTHER BEEGEE AND LET THESE GOD-FEARING TYPES KEEP WAITING FOR GOD TO PUT IN THE ELBOW GREASE.

Anonymous said...

Damn, I didn't realize there were so many atheists on RWS. Sad.

I believe most people need something to believe in, whether you call it God, the Universe or whatever. There is a divine order to things, in my opinion. I don't believe that life is random and that things happen by coincidence or chance.

I believe that each human being has a contract with God to do whatever life's work or mission here on Earth that you were sent to do. There are no big or small jobs or tasks. Every task is significant and every life is significant. A child who dies at 5 years old isn't worth less than someone who lives to be 90 years old. Maybe that 5 year old was sent to teach a very valuable lesson to his/her parents that they needed to experience.

Anonymous said...

Remember: Last year Tiny wanted a baby,so he basically "shot" her down. Now! This Knee grow have the nerve to put in a song that not only he cheated he didn't have the decency enough to wrap it up. Now~ a permanent "break" baby as a reminder

Anonymous said...

@ BeeGee, I'm behind you bro. I never see you as being negative. I see you communicating things from your own perspective and enjoy your comments. If you don't believe in God, then that's YOUR business. I'm not here to judge.

I'm not a Christian either but do believe in a higher power and in my own spirituality. If others don't agree, I don't care. You do you and I'll do me and if somewhere we meet in the middle, then cool. If not, I'm totally secure in my beliefs that I don't need affirmation from others.

Anonymous said...

I watched Tiny on Arsenio show recently ,and he asked her why she didn't have her ring ..she stuttered ...put her head down...rubbed her fingers.. Arsenio "picked" up on it and went easy on her and changed the subject.

I noticed that on the show TIny's daughter wasn't feeling TI at all..no matter how much they tried to front for the camera's it was obvious that she didn't like him......... Tiny keep your head up! You looking good these days too.

Bee Gee said...

@3:38pm - I have no interest in listening to your delusional babble about your visions of who I am. Goodbye.

@3:45pm - I understand what you're saying, and thanks for sharing.

@4:03pm - I appreciate that. Take care.

@4:10pm - I don't know if I'm an atheist, infidel, agnostic, or whatever people who don't believe are labeled. I just know how I feel inside. I do believe that there's a possibility that a god or greater power exists, but that's more rooted in my belief of possibility than my belief that a god or higher power created the world and everything in it. I do know that I do not believe in the story of the bible, and that I have personally never had a feeling that I was in the presence or being watched over by god or a higher power. I simply don't know.

I don't want a "sign" that is left up to my own interpretation or another human being's interpretation (i.e. "You know that God made this possible, don't you??"). That's just it. No I don't know and I have no way of knowing. And I can't fathom dedicating my life to something that has not made itself real to me, just because an ancient scripture says that I'll burn in hell if I do not do so. I honestly found real peace and freedom when I stopped faking the funk to appease people that love me and wanted me in the church/word/fellowship. Talk about a big relief..

Bee Gee said...

@4:17pm - Peace, family. That's real.

Ms. Lee said...

Bee Gee---

Religion controls people and it negates critical thinking; hence its very public and historical battle with Science. Some religious texts age the Earth at around 2,000 or some years old. Science says that the Earth is millions of years old, while the Universe may be billions of years old.

I look at you as 'one of them who got away,' and I say this because the church, its doctrines, and its theatrics are heavily ingrained into the lives of many, many Black people. You 'got away' and started to critically think and you are not afraid to elaborate on your truth; the very ways in which you feel about religion, God, etc.

I definitely believe in a Supreme Being; however I think that this Being is too large and complex for religion, so in turn, religion sort of reduces this Being to whatever preachers and popes lecture on. How is it that these preachers and popes are mere men (and/or women), like you and I, yet they have all of this 'divine' wisdom and knowledge (that they thus translate into power to control the masses) as 'imperfect' souls?

The Earth, the Universe, and nature are too brilliant to be reduced to Christianity, Judaism, Islam, etc.

Anonymous said...

To me God is more realer than ever especially in these increasingly demonic times.
___________________
Nods Head!

Bee Gee said...

Peace @ Ms. Lee and thanks for the insight. My very best friend more/less echoes your entire post. I definitely agree with your first statement. I often refer to religion as arguably the most powerful form of government in existence. Peace, sister. Gotta make this drive home..

Anonymous said...

@Ms. Lee

You do know that the Bible is highly allegorical right? The year discrepancies are really just a coincidence. For example, the Bible speaks of "beasts" and "dragons". They aren't necessarily referring to literal beasts, they are referring to superpowers such as civilizations or countries. Preachers don't have "divine" wisdom, and if you heard that from them then they were lying. All they did was study the texts and felt bold enough to accept the position. Popes are supposedly descendants of Peter of the Bible, which is why they are considered to have "divine" power. It's certainly debatable on whether the Papacy is even relevant considering most Christians don't even recognize it. But to Catholics they are everything.

Anonymous said...

@1059... you sound super wack with those black gums and all. (Selena voice) monogamy isn't a fairytale..it's a promise you make during your marriage ceremony dumb ass. Nobody held one of t.I.s many guns to his head and make him promise to cherish live and protect his family. He's an ungrateful idiot

Anonymous said...

@329 PM
Speak for yourself, that analogy applies to krakkas they have no soul only a spirit, which is why they are pissed at a supreme being and envy the Nubian race who has a soul and who goes to an afterlife to be reborn again and again, we are the true immortal's. when your soulless ass dies your body become worm wood and your spirit stays here being a restless poltergeist, your ass is the original poltergeist until your tormented, restless in tranquil spirit burns out. get it right krakka

Anonymous said...

They're divorcing because of her Face... Let's keep it real.

The "Christian" commenters sound so mystical and childish when read their fairy tales on the blogs.
It's just sad...

Anonymous said...

I agree that men are just going to be men. Not all men cheat, but a great number of them do. As one poster said, you could be the best wife on the face of the earth - you can't compete with a man's need for just wanting something different.

Having said that, as a woman i have a HUGE problem with men cheating and having unprotected sex with other women. Men, If you're going to cheat at least wear protection. No need for you to catch something then give it to your wife - that's just adding insult to injury. You may get lucky and nothing will happen, but what side chick doesn't have more than one man? and that other man probably has at least 2 , usually more women they're sleeping with regularly and those women likely have other men, so basically going raw in 'side chick' means you're sleeping with what? 15 20 people at once?

There's just no sense in going raw up in someone you're not engaged or married to. Plus - it ain't that easy to get pregnant. pretty sure tip wasn't raw dogging just once.

Anonymous said...

@BeeGee2:41 PM A person who claims to be 'saved' and living for Christ, will not only talk the talk but also walk the walk.Granted, no one is perfect, but your actions and conduct defines the real you.

Anonymous said...

This comment is for 11:33am.

I am curious about your situation. I would like to know more if you dont mind sharing.

1. Did your husband ever cheat before you were married?
2. Was this "ten years" with the same woman as mistress?
3. Why did he tell you about the affair? Did he feel guilty? Did he want to be with the mistress?
4. How old were your children when you found out?
5. Did you guys seperate right away or did you guys attempt to work it out?
6. How long were you married?
7. Was the mistress someone he worked with? How did he have time to carry on a ten year affair with four children and a wife?

I know these questions may be asked too much. I appreciate your response if you feel so inclined to provide one. If not thanks for sharing what you have already. It is not easy to leave a cheating husband/ father of your children. Props to you.

For all the non believers...

God, Jehovah, Yahweh is real.
Jesus Christ is real.
Dont like the Bible, pick up a history book. Everytime I look at my daughter I know God is real. His love and grace are everything.

I did not proof read this.

Anonymous said...

7:55, Hi.

1. I don't know if my husband cheated before we got married because I never found out.

2. Yes, he was with the same younger woman for a decade.

3. He told because he said he wanted to be honest about her. He said that he loved both us, but the love was different.

4. Our children were 8, 13, and 15. (We have a set of twins).

5. We didn't really "attempt" anything. We just grew apart honestly and divorced.

6. I was married for 15 years.

7. His mistress, now his girlfriend, was a librarian at the library he would study at and check out books.

My divorce actually was easy and I'm not bitter.

Anonymous said...

@BG, If you come back in here, to know someone is 'of God', they will show it by their actions, not by their words. Jesus asked his disciples "Who do the people say I am?' and then asked them, "Who do they (disciples) say I am?" He question them, because he wanted to know, do they believe. I am not here to judge you or to say that you are going to burn in hell, because that is not place. However, I will say this, as I read your answer to @4:10pm, you have had encounter with God, you just didn't know it. I can also say this from a stranger to a stranger, you have a whole lot of love in you, more than the so-say Christians that is attacking you.

God will reveal himself to you again, all I am asking that you open yourself to him and not reject him.

IMNOT!

Post a Comment