Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Ciara Hints at Trouble in Paradise?


For weeks there have been whispers that Ciara and Future might not make it down the aisle [click here if you missed that].

Did Ciara just hint that the rumors may be true..?

Ciara, who has not been spotted with Future once since the birth of their baby and who has also not been wearing her engagement ring, dropped a cryptic ass post about not being able to force people to do something they don't want to do or be someone they're not.


65 comments:

SinnNess said...

Silly ass-- to think he would change for you. He wouldn't man up for his last baby mama. Another single mother/fatherless home.

Anonymous said...

So let Furture be the father to his harem of baby mamas and let him go.

zeeedeee said...

Ciara sweetie when you know better you Do better..just do it girl!

Anonymous said...

Dreadlocks really suit her.

I hope that she finds peace and happiness and will enjoy motherhood. Good luck.

Anonymous said...

WHEN A MAN HAS 3 KIDS by 3 different women.

WHY THE HELL ARE YOU SURPRISED He Doesnt want to act like a responsible Father.

You are just ANOTHER BABY MAMA.....Damn when will we learn!

Anonymous said...

Ci ci if u reading this I'm no relationship expert but I don't think u should marry him in the 1st place!! U have 1 child he has many... It doesn't make sense to me.... Girl raise that boy best u could and keep it pushin...

Anonymous said...

I wonder if LA Reid smashes that from time to time..........

Anonymous said...

Ciara, get yourself together..and get a WHITE MAN in the FILM INDUSTRY. You need to be on the RUNWAY or in the MOVIES..
GET away from these "breeders".... Men who just drop their seed, and you end up having to raise a baby by yourself.

LADIES IF HE IS GONNA MARRY YOU..doi it before you get married, dont fall for this fiance bullshit!

Anonymous said...

@ 2:01 PM...Have you heard her voice lately? Buts believe she's working on it.

Anonymous said...

Ciara is one of the most unlucky women with love. Her and Halle Berry.

Cici always seems to be a rebound chick. Amare, 50, BowWow, and this fool. She needs to relax.

Anonymous said...

If Ciara gets locked up will she have to cut her dreads off???

Anonymous said...

YOU WILL LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES

Anonymous said...

Her and Farture will jump the broom I'm guessing.

Anonymous said...

if he didn't wife any of the other women he knocked up, that shoulda been a red flag he wasn't gonna wife her ass, either.

Anonymous said...

Girl BYE! No sympathy for simple minded broads who willingly has a baby by a dude with a gang of kids and multiple baby mama's... Girl what did you think was gonna happen...

Anonymous said...

Wow

Anonymous said...

2014 and women are still making the same kind of mistakes as they did throughout history. I'd like a few of you all to help me list of the do's and don'ts.

1. Never get with a man who has kid he doesn't take care of and expect him to care for your.

2. Having a baby for a man will not make him stay with you or make him faithful.

3. HIV and Aids is real. Protect yourself at all costs.

4. Date men who are on your level.

5. Gold diggers do not always win. They push aside their hopes, dreams, moral compass and common sense for a few bucks.

6. Do not totally neglect yourself to cater to someone else. Compromise doesn't mean total submission where you lose yourself, run yourself down and sacrifice your soul and self esteem for a man.

7. Have your own house and coins in order so that you can and will survive with or without that man.

8. Your child(ren) always come first, then you second and thirdly, then your man. A real man understands and respects this.

9. 10 Million ways to protect you from unwanted pregnancies...Pick one! Very rarely is getting pregnant a mistake when a vast variety is available to prevent pregnancies.

10. Unequally yoked couples rarely survive and if they do, it's usually an unhappy situation.

11. Don't rush into a relationship or marriage. You just may end up regretting it. Waking up and not knowing or liking the man laying next to you.

12. Keep boyfriend and step fathers away from your children and limit their time together. Too many perverts out here, cruising on boys and girls.

13. Never hold the kids hostage for a ransom from their father.

Please continue to add on if you're tired of seeing women make the same stupid mistakes over and over again.

Anonymous said...

Simple. She was deceived and lied to. Happens all the time and NONE of us are immune. Quit acting like ur so smart

Anonymous said...

I am smart enough to at least care enough to try to help a sister out. You're probably one of those idiots that bash these black women every chance you get when they fall into any one of these situation. If you don't have anything to add to help women then STFU and move TF on because somewhere and someone could use this bit of information.

Anonymous said...

The problem is no matter how rotten or worthless a man is every woman thinks she's the one that he will change for. "Yea girl he aint marry dem other hoes but they aint me" DUMB DUMB DUMB

Anonymous said...

That list is too much like right.

WHY CRY NOW? said...

NOW SEE I TOLD CIARA ABOUT THE PR TOUR ANNOUNCING AND SHOWING OFF HER PREGANCY. I TOLD HER ABOUT THE BRAGGNG AND SHOWING OFF HER ENGAGEMENT RING ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

AND NOW LOOK. LOOK, WHY ARE YOU BACK ON TWITTER MAKING COMMENTS IF IT YOUR BUSINESS AND NONE OF OURS.

KEEP IT PRIVATE WE DONT NEED TO KNOW.

WHO IS YOUR TWITTER COMMENT ADDESSED TO. YOU COULDN'T CALL THEM OR TEXT THEM!

YOU PUT YOUR BUSINESS OUT THERE, DONT GET MAD AT THE PUBLIC FOR RESPONDING.

Anonymous said...

This is gross.

This is such a gross way to live.

Anonymous said...

For her image sake since she is in Entertainment . Ciara should have played coy about Future.

We make good Music together. We have good chemistry in the studio. Deny Deny Deny. Keep the fans in suspense.

Anonymous said...

2:54 PM...That should be the new caption on the RWS banner.

3:09 PM One problem, she got skeeted in and knocked up. How do you explain that to your "Goodies" fanbase?

Anonymous said...

No one believed the facade I have no idea why you would you put that out there.

Anonymous said...

If marriage worked for Bey and Jay, AK and Swizzy, Wiz and Khalifah, and Kaneye and Kim. Why can't it work for them?






Oh, I forgot about love...my bad, nevermind.

Anonymous said...

@3:18 she should have said it happened after a late night studio session, there good friends and they are are on good terms , you never know what the future may hold but right now they are focused on their but her careers.

Anonymous said...

@2:39, people already know these rules, buts its not about knowing rules, its about practicing these rules and living by it. A woman will not live by these rules until she is utterly hurt, broken down and in despair, only then will women start to wise up and make better decisions about relationships. Unfortunately, women in urban, poor, low income, low family culture households make the poorest decisions.

@2:39. Yup, she was decieved, played if you will, everybody has been played a time or two. Take the L, live successfully, thats the best revenge.

Anonymous said...

Ciara, you seem like a sweet person. Go holla at Jas Prince. I think you two would make a good couple. #No Shade

Anonymous said...

@2:39 No. 4 is what did it for me.

Men like Steve Harvey want to tell women with PhDs, JDs, MAs and MDs "to give the garbage man a chance." Fuck outta here with that bullshit. If you are a garbage man, that's cool. You would do better if you owned the garbage company. Why? Because you have AMBITION. If you don't have any ambition and you are not putting in work to make your goals real, then you are not on my level.

And, before you hoodlums start hollerin' "Bish, I bet your are single and bitter" please know I am happy, married and debt free. Boom!

Anonymous said...

@3:44PM But, keep in mind that she is an only child military brat who was raised in the south.

Shot gun wedding is what they specialize in down there. Especially if someone turns up preggers. Mix that with the fact that the real "Goodies" generation fanbase is between the ages of 16 and 23 now. So she probably views herself as a role model of sorts. Hell, the song Goodies was about a dude trying to hit and her being to ...Here is the lyrics to the song?
You're insinuating that I'm hot
But these goodies boy are not
Just for any of the many men that's tryna get on top.
No you can't call me later
And I don't want your number.
I'm not changin' stories
Just respect the play I'm callin'.

Anonymous said...

I don't wish that on anyone. It's not easy being a single mother. Having the father present then disappear is a great discomfort also. I hope she rises greatly from this.

Why niggas feel the need to lie on blogs said...

@3:55 PM
You can be anything you want on the internet so..........

Anonymous said...

Everyone but Ciara could see that this would not end well. A man's true character is pretty much set by the time he's an adult making the likelihood of him changing slim to none. Three baby mamas by three different women was Ciara's red flag and she didn't adhere. Now she'll be a single mother like Jill Scott and so many other black women who are raising children alone…with or without money. Damn shame. You can't confuse the lust of good dick with love, commitment and loyalty. Believe me. I've been there…where the D is so good you don't even think you can live without it. I do believe that Future and Ciara had that unbelievable sexual chemistry that makes love children but he's still an irresponsible Father. If Future had integrity the marriage would have come before the carriage.

Anonymous said...

Beyonce and Jay these Ciara and Future will never be...

Anonymous said...

Yall r so dumb. Don't u see they are milking this for the publicity and the money the "Kim K" way. And guess what I don't blame em. The haters are truly motivating your own sorry lives. It's obvious.

Anonymous said...

I don't know why any woman would want to sleep with a man who has multiple baby mamas. I really don't but I guess they slick with those lines to get em so eh. I like Ciara, I hope she finds her way.

Co-sign 2:54

Anonymous said...

5:16 PM Nice try, but you ain't milking shit but your tits when a newborn baby is involved. They STILL are not married. Those are facts.

Anonymous said...

@ 2:50 **APPLAUSE**
There are some really bitter chicks on here. Fronting like they're so much better and they have all the answers. In truth, happy people don't say the foul ish the people on here do (the males AND females, I won't dare call them men and women).

The great thing is, I know there are more folks who wish her the best than try to tear her down. The pollution in these blogs. smh.

And I'm not even a fan. At all.

Anonymous said...

@4:57 You ain't neva lied!! I bet it got a PHD like Ms Lee too. lmao!

Anonymous said...

And I'm not even a fan. At all.
6:08 PM

So explain to me why it is that you are commenting on this blog again?

Anonymous said...

You should have realised that before you procreated with him honey, you thought u were so special that he was gonna change for you? lool Now your left to tend to Future Jr while the pappy is off in the club popping champagne and chilling with your arch nemesis Rihanna ......womp womp

Anonymous said...

Those aren't locs...anyhow, poor dumb Ciara. If Future was going to marry you and be one happy family, it would be done. Raise your son and close your legs until you meet your real (future) husband.

Anonymous said...

Character should be No. #1 but its usually the last thing. He's cute, He's nice (at first) & then we are all in. Because of our self-esteem & worthiness issues we settle for anything that comes along. If Ciara had any kind of self esteem she would have never had tried to talk to him let alone have a baby no matter how long she'd been single. You don't get that desperate

Anonymous said...

Well why didn't she eat this food for thought 9 months ago when everyone was trying to feed it to her?

Anonymous said...

@2:06 pm but Halle has no probably marrying them. She's been married at least twice and has no problem getting a man, unlike CiCi. I wouldn't put them in the same sentence. Also Halle has no problem taking care of her babies.

Haterade said...

So this dumb slut decides to have a baby with a demon who has children all over the place. Then is disappointed when the jig won't marry her. Of course the end result is another child being raised in a single family home without the father around. Black folks think nothing of child raising anymore. Just screw like dogs and deal with the results afterwards.

Anonymous said...

@6:18 because I can, blog police. Dumb question answered. Any others?

Anonymous said...

This is what can happen when the cart is put before the horse.

Delited said...

Blah, blah, effin blah...I'm so tired of posts about Ciara and her baby daddy. When did this become newsworthy RWS? Go look in the mirror, alone, and ask yourself that. Please. And thank you.

Anonymous said...

Ciara,

Your old now in industry years. Its Too late now for a music Career
Raise your son and stay out of the limelight . STAY off social media PLEASE. Be happy and be blessed with what you have STOP chasing Stardom! !!!!

Scrumptous Bomb Diggidy Darn Good Honey Buns said...

In life you can't force people to...blah blah bloopidy blah fucking bloop
BITCH you can't force nobody on anything but who the fuck FORCED you to marry this fool and make him your problem???? You can't change him , but you can't NOT chose him....next time.think twice boo and you won't need no proverb

Scrumptous Bomb Diggidy Darn Good Honey Buns said...

^ you can not chose him*

Scrumptous Bomb Diggidy Darn Good Honey Buns said...

@ 8:oo bitch you stole my line LOL

Delited said...

Nah, ho, looks like you stole mine ;)

Scrumptous Bomb Diggidy Darn Good Honey Buns said...

good ol' hos think alike

Anonymous said...

his last album flopped of course theres trouble

Anonymous said...

Poor Ciara ! :-(
Even the singer Nivea got wifed up 2x and Chrisina Milian 1 and a half times

Anonymous said...

@2:39
You did that also
#14- Get away from those who wants to use your head
for a punching bag.
#15-Leave the wannabe players, who want to tap them all.
#16-Don't be used, and stop being door mats to these slime balls.
#17-Stop getting mad with the other woman, over his sorry butt
#18-Stop playing second fiddle to these dogs
#19-Stop acting like your behind is Desoerate
#20-Stop being mad with the other woman, because he's acting
out.
#21-Get your work on and make it a point to make as much paper
are more paper than him
#22-Show the ba stars you never needed him in the first place
#-23-Ciara you already knew,better, now look in the mirror and s
Slap yourself, because you should never let your feeling tell
you to become yet another baby mamma, my.
#-24- Dig in to your work, now show Future that he's not the prize
Unless you want to help him keep up his payments to them
all them other baby mamas.
#25- Learn how to be your own Woman, and stop reading the
mess people say on the Tabloids and blogs. You can love a
rich man as well as a broke, wanna be player anyway.
#26- Stop worrying about what people are saying and get out
there and kick it in gear.
#27- People will say you need a man, but you done need a man
to define who you are and what you stand for.
#28- Many women are Married, in name Only,
#29- Learn to stand on your own feet, not any dread wearing man
#30- Hang in there and see if you can rise above it all.
Learn that we live and we learn, but at the end of the day its your happiness that count. Now let us see your boss lady statue. Take care of your son, but Future, is acting the same way he did toward all his other baby mamas.

Anonymous said...

Dummy! I don't think a white woman would be this simple.

Anonymous said...

Wait, did this bitch think Future was going to marry her. Did he marry his other baby mamas? Hoe have a seat. Next.

Anonymous said...

Having a baby by Cierror is Futures meal ticket (and his baby mommas too). She'll pay just like Halle is paying for Aubrey and she better get back to work. She's a c-lister just like he's a d-lister.

Anonymous said...

ciara is a dumb hefer- no career, no marriage,she is done, future showed what the future will look like the joke is on her ass

SoDamnSick said...

Um... Im amazed how everyone is jumping to conclusions (well not really). Her post said Nothing about Future. She could be speaking about a family member or a false friend etc.

She should have known better than to post anything --- because people would (of course) think it is about her relationship. I hate Twitter - that ish is dumb.

I hope everything works out for her though. But no way in the hell would I have gotten pregnant before marriage and then accept a proposal. And wait on a marriage at some later date.

No sweetie. We are engaged so lets go to the courthouse now before i get huge and make it official Now - since you lub me so much.

I dont understand waiting til baby is here - then fight off the fat - to fit the wedding dress and impress everyone else with all that money spent for one day. But that just me.

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