Thursday, April 07, 2016

Monyetta Shaw Exposes Ne-Yo's Cruelty [Updated]


Two years ago R&B singer Ne-Yo's ex-fiancé and mother of his oldest son and daughter, Monyetta Shaw, tearfully admitted on national TV that she'd gotten her tubes tied at Ne-Yo's request [click here if you missed that].

Turns out Ne-Yo was supposed to undergo a sterilization procedure as well and Monyetta didn't find out that he never went through with it until his new wife turned up pregnant...

Excerpts from the piece written by Monyetta for the NY Post

...Sterilization was something Ne-Yo and I discussed thoroughly in the months leading up to the baby’s delivery. We had a daughter, Madilyn, in 2010, and two children seemed like more than enough for the both of us. Ne-Yo also agreed to undergo a vasectomy to show our mutual commitment to the relationship....
...I just assumed Ne-Yo had followed through and had gotten the vasectomy. I trusted him so much that it never even crossed my mind that he hadn’t gone through with it....

...in June 2013 — just two months before our August wedding — Ne-Yo called. 
“I don’t want to be monogamous anymore,” he told me — in other words, he wanted to break up. A week later, we had a deep conversation face to face. I was so hurt and distraught; my parents have been together for 44 years, and I always assumed our relationship would last for the rest of our lives. The thought of him and my kids not living under the same roof was devastating.
A week after our split, Ne-Yo posted the news on Instagram. It wasn’t long until VH1 producers called and asked me to join the reality show “Atlanta Exes,” which followed me along with other ex-wives of Hollywood stars, such as Tameka [Foster], Usher’s ex.
Then, in 2014, when Ne-Yo released his music video for “Money Can’t Buy,” I found out that he was dating the video’s vixen, Crystal Renay, known for posting racy photos on Instagram.
My world came crashing down all over again: I had tried to understand that he didn’t want to be monogamous, but then he went and found a different woman whom he was ready to be monogamous with?
It hurts to see them parade their love on social media. They recently married, on Feb. 20, and Crystal gave birth to their first son. She seems like a nice girl, but I would be worried if I were she. How does she know that he’s not going to do the same thing to her that he did to me?
Adding to the pain is knowing that if I find another man to love, I may not be able to start a family with him. I’m too scared to go to a doctor to find out if there’s anything they can do about it. Because I do want to get married someday, and if my future husband does not have kids, I will want to have his children....
Click here to read the entire piece

Update: Monyetta calls this article fraudulent [click here for the update]

32 comments:

Anonymous said...

Cautionary tale - don't act like a wife to a man who is not your husband.

Anonymous said...

Ladies never trust a man who tries to bring u to a scrip club for a date. If you do it's on you.

Anonymous said...

Let him have fun with his hood rat. He will be broke in 7 years.

Anonymous said...

For once I want to see the underdog win. This should read after monyetta made a billion dollars she exposed the cruelty of those who did not believe in her destiny. I'm not buying his music and not going to see him perform in concert due to how he treated monyetta.

Anonymous said...

Why are women so stupid. I just turned 30 and will be married this June to my boyfriend of 2 years. I never once thought about "playing house" and having babies for this man until the deal was sealed. I learned a great deal from watching my coworkers and girlfriends go through with their baby daddy's. I blame her for being so stupid and playing along with this nonsense. I think the lavish life had her head in a spin. FYI... you already have two kids, so stop worrying about if your next husband wants kids. he will probably already have some. Neo was wrong, but please stop with the petty party and move.

Anonymous said...

I knew she felt some kind of way about all of this, trying to act like she was okay. It's sad what people do for love

Anonymous said...

Why can't she just accept the fact that she played HERSELF and move on?

Anonymous said...

I thought she dating a rich man? She needs to move on. Even if she feels this way talk it out with your family. Why give Neyo and his WIFE this type of power over you? Now I believe you let your bitter feelings keep those kids from their father's wedding.

The best revenge is a successful relationship. If his new wife is indeed a whore then this ish is bond to fail. Just don't be there to welcome him back. If he even comes back.

Anonymous said...

@3:38 you think it can't happen to you? #staywoke

Anonymous said...

That makes you stupid why would you alter your body for some man who doesn't think enough of you to marry you just keep leaving sperm deposits - these broads stay doing dumb chit then pulling out the pity parade when the chit fall apart - he's gay you know it his new chick knows it and you're all hungry for fame or money or whatever you think aligning yourself with this bucket head chit packer will give you - just stop whining when you get played... uuuggghhhh

Anonymous said...

Sounds like a YOU problem, boo.

Anonymous said...

Ladies never fall for a lying queen with a tightly fitted hat.

Anonymous said...

She should sue him for breach of contract...she upheld her siide of the bargain but he didnt

Anonymous said...

@4:15

At least I cans ay I attempted to bring my children into as table environment by marrying first. I meet so many women who are secretly bitter and angry when a black woman refuses to "play house" or get in line to be baby mama #500. Her parents were married for 40 years, so she has a good example. She played along with him and got messed up. He wasn't her husband, just the father of her two children.She gave him everything, and he wasn't even worthy.

Anonymous said...

Wait...she got her tubes tied and then just assumed he got fixed? No follow up? No going to appts together? I thought this was a joint decision to show dedication to the decision or whatever.

My opinion said...

I call BS Monyetta is a grown ass women who is very capable of making her own decisions. @5:42 I'm with you this is your FIANCE and you are not going with him to the hospital? GTFOH she played herself big time and now is crying foul. We have heard this story before and the ending is still the same. WAIT until you are married before you start reproducing. @ 5:3 I commend you for trying to do it the correct way I too know way to may bitter Betty's crying over the dude who knocked them up and left when they realized you are not the person I want to be with for the rest of my life. Take your time fall in love actually GET Married and then have kids. It may or may not work out but at least you and the children will have the same last name.................... this only happens to dumb asses who rush into things with out thinking them all the way through

My opinion said...

I call BS Monyetta is a grown ass women who is very capable of making her own decisions. @5:42 I'm with you this is your FIANCE and you are not going with him to the hospital? GTFOH she played herself big time and now is crying foul. We have heard this story before and the ending is still the same. WAIT until you are married before you start reproducing. @ 5:3 I commend you for trying to do it the correct way I too know way to may bitter Betty's crying over the dude who knocked them up and left when they realized you are not the person I want to be with for the rest of my life. Take your time fall in love actually GET Married and then have kids. It may or may not work out but at least you and the children will have the same last name.................... this only happens to dumb asses who rush into things with out thinking them all the way through

Anonymous said...

Dear Monyetta...never let a man talk u into getting your tubes tied.. YOU BIG DUMMY! THAT'S YOUR BODY..now youre feeling stupid...And who in hell would be JEALOUS of sum video vixen...GURL............BYE!

Cherrybomb said...

@3:22 that's pretty much it

Anonymous said...

Before you undergo a tubal ligation you must sit with a psychiatrist Monyetta! They will determine if you agreed to do this for someone else or is this our decision? It appears you did not tell them your BOYFRIEND AND YOU discussed that we are going to do this sterile ligation as team! So shut the fuck up with you lies! YOU DECIDED TO DO THIS ON YOUR OWN. So your appointed psychiatrist approved your surgery. People as dumb as you in this thought process to do this because YOUR nigga...Not your husband requested this procedure. Should stop having kids!

Anonymous said...

why are these bitches fighting and whinning about having kids for this black-demon-niggr....he don't make cute kids no way.

ThatBKChick said...

Whatever the case, people seemed to lose the point that dude called weeks before they were due to be married and canned everything....I am sure like most women, she got the ring, the house and had the wedding date set and NeYo threw her, his family and children under the train for a IG Thot that has been known to sleep around. Yeah,yeah say she should've could've but it appears she was trying to do it the right way...He shitted on her weeks before the wedding with his nasty triffling ass self! Ever since this his record sales have been down anyway. NeYo's accountant ran off with his money about two years ago and karma is meyootch! Bottom line you can't make no man stay if he wants to stray...look at Peter and Dumb ass Amina..she got the ring and he's still doing dirt! Find a man that has principles and a track record. Take your time and don't be in a rush. If he's meant for you, his ass will be there each and everyday married or not!

Anonymous said...

The bigger issues HE'S GAY or BI! She wouldn't go for that but the NEW HOOD RAT is going right along with it for the CASH!

Anonymous said...

I would be embarrass to tell anyone that tale. God bless her

Anonymous said...

I would be embarrass to tell that tale.

Anonymous said...

4:15pm
Your comment is right on point and so true!!! A 30 year old talking like she has been here for 70 years. LMAO!!! We all live and learn.

Anonymous said...


@9:22

Please, it's old fashioned to have morals and stop being a cum bucket for every nicca that give you a baby. Keep playing a fool. That's why nobody feels sorry for this chick. That wasn't her husband and she gave up her ability to reproduce. STUPID!

Anonymous said...

Hoes love being baby moms. They got something to be bitter about for the next 18 years.

Anonymous said...

Let me go play the violin while I read this shit. She need to move on.

Anonymous said...

The break up details are par for the course but the sterilization aspect is strange and cruel. I've never heard of the other Black male entertainers pressuring their women to get tubal ligations. Monyetta made a bad decision but she does have 2 beautiful kids - a daughter and a son. Hopefully she will make peace with this reproductive issue. She still has a good chance of being pregnant in the future. I like Monyetta and her spunk. I would focus on meeting the right partner/future husband - a honest man with genuine character and integrity.

Anonymous said...

Thank you 7:15. Bearding and birthing for suspects.

Ron said...

Love yourself first.

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