Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Tamar and David Declare Their Love


Tamar Braxton and David Adefeso profess their love for each other very publicly....



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When I met my @tamarbraxton 12 months ago she was angry, distraught and almost-completely broken. She'd lost her family, her friends, her job and was estranged from her mom and sisters who she loves so much. While her behavior was a significant cause of these misfortunes, it took me a while to recognize that there were other equally valid causes, including being repeatedly assaulted by men in her life she trusted (first physically as a child, then emotionally later on in life by deeply aggressive and utterly controlling romantic relationships); finally culminating in the continuing psychological damage brought on by working on a TV show she feels utterly shackled to due to contract terms. This is what I inherited so I had a choice: to continue the emotional and psychological abuse she had endured for almost 3 decades by being aggressively controlling and manipulative or to be a kind, gentle and loving friend and lover to the woman I love- Well, I chose the latter, and the results have been outstanding! With few exceptions the anger has been replaced by joy, the despair has morphed into a need to help the abused (check out #NoNeedTBShame), and the kind, gentle, beautiful and self-assured woman that is my @tamarbraxton is now on full display (check out our social media activities over the past 3 months since the show was shot and see the new Tamar)! A word to our strong black men who are in relationships with our beautiful black women- when you make a commitment to love that sista, it is your duty and responsibility to STAND BY YOUR WOMAN. PERIOD! Irrespective of wealth, power or fame, many of our women have endured the same challenges that my Tamar has, including physical and emotional abuse, endemic marginalization, controlling romantic relationships and desertion by black men. Some of what many have condescendingly coined as #AngryBlackWoman is simply a reflection of, and reaction to, the life experiences of our beautiful black women. So gentlemen, we DO NOT abandon our sistas when things get tough, and especially when they need us the most. We love them through it, we support them through it, and we protect them through it! #BlackMenStandUpForBlackWomen
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14 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dick can be a hell of a drug!!! +/-

Anonymous said...

I hope he really likes her and not looking to be on TV for fame.

anonymous said...

The new Milli Vanilli

Anonymous said...

Tamar is scum, bottom line. This bytch is disrespectful AF. She pops off at everybody in her family but cries on TV because Kandi B. laughed at her while they were talking or because K Michelle called her Muppet. I don't have any pity on the way Vince treated her. She let him disrespect her mother; she gets no sympathy here.

Tippie Hippie said...

Okayyyyy!!! but haven't they been declaring their love. This ish isn't even funny because it will end badly, she's going to be smirking at herself. Too much too soon!

Anonymous said...

Work on yourself from within is all I'd say.

Indi_flo said...

He made her glue on some hair

Niyabinghi/ObeahWomanWarrior said...

It's pathetic when you see grown ass "adults" acting like thirsty ass teenagers, who never got enough attention from their parents or peers. This shit is all levels of creepy and cringe worthy. Hoe's sit down!!!

Anonymous said...

30 years ago, an old revival preacher said never trust a man who wears shades indoors because he is hiding something and doesn't want you looking in his eyes.

Anonymous said...

Tippie Dippie10:49am
STFU! You just were over on Wendell's post licking his balls. Congratulating him on dating.

Tippie Hippie said...

1:49pm it's time to go off yourself Fuk outta my face you trolling azz obsessed PIG! Fuk you worried about me for DUMB BITCH! Keep fuking around thinking I'm going rise above your low vibrating azz bitch I could fuckin kneel down and still be above you FUK YOU HOE!

Anonymous said...

Tippie Dippie2:12pm
This is rich bitch coming from a mentally deranged troll who had at least 10 sock puppets on RWS. Go take you meds before your sock puppets show up again. WEIRDO!

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☛☢Twitter☺Fingers☢☚ said...

People don't need to know that your love, just the two of you.

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