Please. Ok yhen Im next! I will take her in a heartbeat!
Well I hope they can talk that out if it's meant to be. And if it's not meant to be then I hope they figure things out for a situation best for their son.
Hood chicks from Southside Chi don't get married, they just enjoy being baby mamas.
Look at what happened to her family by a trusted "lover" she may be afraid and that might pay off b/c I think punk is pushing this to get securely in her wallet so let him walk. Her son is looking more like her and needs a hair cut
She cant get married unless Clive Davis says so.
Why would he wanna marry her? All she cares for is the spotlight. Thirsty for attention, got a little money now and turned into a snob.She sold her soul. She'd do it again in a heartbeat.
Marriage is forever, if he knows in his heart that's his wife, then why break up if she's not ready to marry?! Whether legally married or not that's still his wife. Sounds like she knows in her heart she know that nigga gay, and don't wanna play herself in the long run....money wise that is, 'cause she already had a baby by dude..
...so does that mean he's going to stop financially supporting her too?!
Jennifer may be nervous about asking for a prenup. I'm sure she wants to protect her assets and that can be a touchy subject when you love a person.
It's not like she's doing anything else...damn, she should of been married a long time ago!
Two reasons: 1. she does not trust him. He could be cheating or behaving as if he's after her cash or doesn't 'bring enough to the table' financially or goals wise to warrant her trust.2. she doesn't need him. cliché as it may sound, women tend to marry for security. she doesn't need or rather doesn't feel like she needs him for security (financial or otherwise).
What's with Gay dudes always trying to marry?!?!I blame Obama.
I don't think she is in a rush since she lost the weight, it's gone straight to her head.When she was bigger, Hollywood was not looking at her...now she is getting attention and she lapping it up.
He already has the kid so that's some paper.If she PROMISED marriage,file suit for breach of promise and get that paper.File for child support...some other paper.Copyright that kid's name for future endorsements like blue ivy.He needs to consult with Gabriel Aubrey's lawyer to ensure his paper stays coming.
The fact she was getting married to a professional wrestler is laughable. They're on the road at least 250 days of the year. I still hope they can work it out and get married.
they are never getting married..you dont have to PLAN A WEDDING to get married, just need an officiant, witness and the spouse. so they are just stalling. hey jen : he is as good as it get for you, dont lose out.
Reasons she don't want to marry him:1. She's lost a lot of weight and has began to feel herself. "I'm a walking billboard" LMMFAO, bish please!!!2. She's now feeling confident and in her mind can do a whole lot better.Oscar, Grammy etc. Who remembers Rodney? She left him right after her first movie role. Just Wow!3. She probably don't trust him, even I think he really is a nice guy. I don't get gay, sorry.Feel free to add more.- Jamrock
What is with these guys wanting to get married so bad? I know it's the money. Hey Jen if you get married...one word PRENUP. You will thank me later.
A responsible man who knows his role in society has no issue with marriage.Get your mind right.
How much you wanna bet that if he made more than twice her salary, he would NOT be pressed for marriage. Its usually when they make significantly LESS money that they want to tie the knot.
@ 1:57 exactly. I don't know what's up with these people on here talking down about marriage. That's what grown ass people do. Not sit around and talk about why not to marry the father of your child. That's just silly.
@ What's with Gay dudes always trying to marry?!?! I blame Obama. 1:16 PMYYEESSSSS!!!! LOLOLOLOL. We might be broke and going to heaven with Mitt or Enabled and going to hell with Obama!
He doesn't need her money, he's worth 10 million and has a law degree from Harvard. He chose to go the entertainment route. By the way, what's wrong with getting married? That's what most people do when they're in love and want to spend the rest of their life with the person they love. Some of these commenters need to "get THEIR life" for real!
@1:16pmI bet you blame Obama for when it rains but not credit him for when the sun shines.I bet you blame Obama for noise but not credit him for quiet.I bet you blame Obama for the stink on your shit but not give him credit for staying away from your funky ass. Boo Hoo to your lot in life!
PULEEZE, as long as JHud got $$$ coming in that ninja ain't goin nowhere!!
@ 2:52 PM... A+ Response. Please proceed to the front of the class.
@ 2:52 F'DUCK hoe ass Obama not all of us are sheep just do me one favorDON'T DRINK THE KOOL-AID!!!
Oh and F'DUCK Romney as well
No one should be forced into marriage, but reading some of the comments here, it seems as though some people *have* to turn to marriage to feel "loved" and/or "accepted" by societal standards. They've already produced a child. At this point, it really doesn't matter if they marry or not. Do what works for you; not what works for everybody else.
David is a controlling, manipulating, OPPORTUNIST.Jennifer wake up !David doesn't feel he needs to sign a pre nup, < THATS A RED FLAG!
He is the only guy I know of that is in a hurry to marry, WHY!?
Whoever wrote David Otunga is worth $10 mil is right. I just read it. Therefore, he doesn't need her money or her his. However, I still think they need a prenup if they get married. I think Jen may have some psychological fears about marriage and maybe rightly so. I hope they work things out amicably.
I could see if the dude was sitting around trying to live off of her money. Then the whole opportunist turned male gold-digger profile may apply. But he has a Law Degree from Harvard no less and a successful career as a Wrestler. Although the Wrestling will bring him quick notoriety and money, he will always have his law degree to sustain he and his family. I pray they are able to resolve their internal issues so that they can provide a loving two-parent household for their son. Tash
Jenifer take your time marriage is a "big step" if David is the right man then he will give you space and time to make that decision. Love is patient and if David really love you he will respect your feelings and be patient.What does the Bible say about Marriage? 160 Bible Verses aboutMarriage... 1 Corinthians 7:1-40 ESV Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ...1 Corinthians 13:4-7 ESV Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.Ephesians 5:22-33 ESVWives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, ...Proverbs 21:9 ESV It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.Hebrews 13:4 ESV Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.Ephesians 5:25-33 ESV Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, ...Proverbs 18:22 ESV He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.Genesis 2:24 ESV Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.1 Corinthians 7:39 ESVA wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.1 Corinthians 13:4-10 ESV Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. ...Proverbs 19:14 ESV House and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.2 Corinthians 6:14 ESV Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
12:58 PM, A couple is either legally married or not at all - unless it is a common law situation. What's in their hearts won't hold up in court.
Blame Obama...that's funny. They blame him for everything else bad in the world. So why not blame him for this pathetic situation too.
she betta marry him..she isn't pretty, so she will have a hard time finding another man that doesn't want her for her money only...
I can see him being ready to call it quits. J-Hud is ANNOYING for the few moments she's being herself in media interviews and shows, I can click the station but old boy has to live with it, UGH.J-huds "weight loss face" is ape-like, her mouth is very monkey-like and her speaking voice is UGH and she has the nerve to be extra sassy. David should run while he can, damn trying to be a good guy and prove to everybody that it was always love and never that Oscar for that whack movie that I didn't enjoy AT ALL
@ 3:31 PM... Sheep, really?? SMH! I'll keep drinking the democratic kool-aid, but sounds like you drank the anti-freeze.
Not going to try to spectulate what's going on in their relationship but I agree that you shouldn't be forced into marrying someone if you're not ready.
When she was bigger, Hollywood was not looking at her...now she is getting attention and she lapping it up. 1:24 PM--------------------THEY STLL NOT CHECKING FOR HER. HER ZLISTED-STRAIGHT TO DVD MOVIES. YEAH RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!
@1:16pmI bet you blame Obama for when it rains but not credit him for when the sun shines.I bet you blame Obama for noise but not credit him for quiet.I bet you blame Obama for the stink on your shit but not give him credit for staying away from your funky ass. Boo Hoo to your lot in life!2:52 PM_________________________________________________Sun shining,peace and quiet???That credit goes to Jesus.Never ever put Man (Obama,LeBron,Oprah,Beyonce,Tebow,your pastor,momma,etc) on a pedestal because they will stumble everytime.Role models are one thing,hero worship/false idols are another and dangerous.
Marriage is forever. If she feels a certsin way it might be cause of all the life she has gone through OR she es something in him she isnt feeling him at the moment but either way its admirable thst she is trying to-Dotty
all i have to say is....that man is TOO damn fine for her not to hold on to him!!!! a educated, rich, and beautiful looking black man who actually wanted her when she was thickums and wants to MARRY her? wtf is wrong with this picture?!! he even said that he liked her better when she was thicker?! maaannn hell i will take him off of her hands.
dying to get into some of that money for real, dont do it this nigga was named punk by a fake ass girl, so I'd drag my feet too
11:53 I AGREE. I WILL GLADLY TAKE HIM OFF OF HER HANDS IF SHE DOESN'T WANT HIM. BUT UGH THE THOUGHT OF HAVING TO DEAL WITH JENNIFER & ALL THE BABY MAMA DRAMA SHE WILL SURELY BRING IF HE DATES ANYONE ELSE. SMH. HE IS FINE AS HELL, EDUCATED, WELL GROOMED, & CRAZY ENOUGH TO WRESTLE SO HE ISN'T ALL STIFF & BORING. WHAT MORE DOES SHE NEED? I WANTED HIM BACK WHEN HE WAS ON I LOVE NEW YORK. I THOUGHT SHE WAS A FOOL FOR NOT CHOOSING HIM. DAVID CALL ME SWEETIE. JENNIFER IS ON SOME BULLSHIT.
I like Jennifer an him together they look like a grreat couple . And he is smart to didn't he go to Harvard ?
Isn't he an African? maybe he is trying to get citizenship or a green card...or..more importantly-trying not to get deported.I'd marry a nugg, with his fine arse.Hip Hop(e) Writer
I read he is from Chicago area, both parents teachers, got A's in school, got undergrad degree in psychology, worked at Columbia Univ. for a while, got accepted to law school, passed the bar in IL, got bored and became a pro wrestler. Seems to me he's smart, confident, and used to being successful at what he does, doesn't hesitate once he makes up his mind, and doesn't mind taking risks. I don't know what kind of personality he has, except that he probably doesn't like to sit around waiting and waiting for something to happen.
@ 1:14 co-sign girl! women feel more secure single these days, get yo money , get yo life don't need to nicca messing it up
Jennifer is not dumb! David does not want to sign a pre-nup and he wants access to her money and future earnings and royalties. Why doesnt he just sign ? Jennifer knows that in reality that David would have never wanted her if she were still a fat girl from Chi-town working at Burger King. I am actually surprised Jennifer is this smart!
MARRIAGE HAS NO AGE!! DO IT WHEN YOUR READY NOT ACCORDING TO EVERYONE ELSE'S TIME TABLE. WHEN PEOPLE MARRY UNDER DURESS OR BECAUSE PEOPLE WANT THEM TO IT EITHER ENDS UP IN CHEATING OR DIVORCE!! TAKE YOUR TIME...YOUNG DUMB MINDS!!
David used to be a lawyer & is against a prenup. Jen has asked for one but since he's against it & not willing to compromise, I understand the hesitation on her part. Her child should have come after marriage but I hope that he doesn't use the child to further complicate things. After losing family members in such a violent matter, I hope he doesn't try & take their son away. Give her time or walk away.
Jennifer is to busy trying to be the new whitney which will neverrrrrr happen! Not saying she doesnt have the talent, just saying that times have changed gurllllll you better karate chop clive davis ol ass hands out yo damn pocket!
Let him walk s***I agree he's an opportunist.
Y'all know what?I think he caught Jennifer on the rebound fresh out of her relationship with her childhood sweetheart. Both of them had a whirlwind romance, she got pregnant, and then the horrible murder of her family members happened. He was there for her.But guess what?............I don't think Jennifer really loves him like that. I saw it in the beginning. She fell for his looks and his education and pedigree because it's everything she didn't have. How many men like that get with women born and raised in the deepest Ghettos and 'Hoods, unless there money or fame (or both) involved?I mean, for Jennifer there's still an opportunity to social climb for herself, through him. No, Hollywood doesn't count when it comes to the educated elite and legacy......And then all of that novelty wore off, and she was left with actually loving a human being. And that love in the way a person is suppose to love their spouse, is not there (love but not IN love. No passion.).Jennifer doesn't really love Otunga like that. What did Destiny's Child sing? "I wanna SOLDIA!!! Where Dey At?, Where Dey aaat?!".... I'm telling you......Jennifer wants a soldier. Not a cartoon wrestler from the Bougeoisie.
@1:16 PM Where's the link to article that said this guy is gay? What makes you think he's gay?
@2:23 PM & @1:57 I agree with both of you. I don't understand the people that are posting against marriage. Shacking up isn't cool and it certainly isn't biblical. This guy fathered this child and it's very evident that he wants to marry Jennifer and have a stable home for their son. Has anyone of you read the latest statistic on single black women having children? The last stat I heard was 70%. Black men need to be in the home raising their children and teaching their sons and daughters to be productive men and women in society. If more black men were in the home, it will lessen the school drop out rate, the amount of young black males being incarcerated and joining gangs and teenage pregnancy.
I'm surprised that ya'll don't support marriage. Given the state of the Black community, we need everybody to get married. They already did it backwards by having a child first, something that will bind them forever, so might as well make it official and get married. As for biblical, well, if they followed the Bible, they would already be married.
David,Before you give up on your relationship with Jennifer,seek counseling together.Both of you are fantastic people and deserve happiness.Keep in mind that both of you are responsible for raising a black male child.He deserves happiness too. Work it out.Both of you were in the entertainment industry prior to meeting each other,thus, you knew the impact this would have on your relationship. Work it out. Good luck.