Congratulations are in order. Internet chatter says singer Monica and Rocko had their baby on January 8th. They say it's a boy and he weighes 5 lbs 6 oz, and is 19.5 inches long. No word on his first name, but they say his middle name is Montez, after Monica's brother. This is Monica and Rock's second child. UPDATE: Baby's name is Romelo Montez
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ima do me
small in weight and tall in height.
Congrats!!!
Congrats my ass. We love to congrats when unwed black women have babies with any and every. hmph.
AND Monica is no longer rellevant. Cute but can't sing and is not sexxy. Nothing but a cute has-been baby-mama.
Agreed, why wont he marry her? I mean thats the manly thing to do. Fucking losers!
@ anon 11:18, I was thinking the same thing, such a small baby...
Congrats!!!
monica falls for dudes who were like her daddy.
hope they have her genes; cuz thats an ugly baby daddy right there.
Like Chewbacca fucked a gremlin after it was fed after midnight.
Why do people have to get married??? Do you think being married make your relationship automatically better/stronger? If two people are in a relationship and love each other, then they don't have to get married if they don't want to. Monica and her man have been together for many years now and this is their second child so obviously it's working for them.
Instead of being happy for them people start hating WTF?
It's one thing to critizize young women who are never in relationships, sleep around and have 3-4 kids and different baby fathers. Now that's a problem
And any person who think Monica can't sing really don't know what they're talking about. I'm not a big fan of Monica's music but one thing is for Monica DOES have a great voice you can't deny that?
Best wishes I am glad she is happy.
They make a nice looking couple
Monica was relevant about 5 yrs ago...Now she is just a baby mama like all the rest......
12:52 tell youself that ish if you want to be 'no man but a bunch of kids' for your whole life.
I want the TOTAL package. Husband that provides for me loves and enjoys me, and then the kids and extended family- gatherings and all. I don't want to land a guy by shooting in the dark and ending up preggo and wanting him to stay around. No sir-ree.
Having illegit babies for the population does not constitute inner happiness 12:52PM.
Also, why must we not stand together on things not against nature. This says something about you and your resistance of the natural occurances of life.
As for me, I'm not having a bunch of illigits with a man who won't commit, then end up doing it by myself.
Holla back if your're wit me.
@12:52PM
getting married is ideal because how do we get our daughters to keep family structure and values like most our grandparents and some of our parents had!
i am married now and true the way the world is it dont mean much to people NOW but thats the damn problem! i dont want my daughter to have kids by multiple niggas or or a nigga who dont think enough of her to want to wife her out and treat her like the queen she is!
back on topic: all these years and 2 kids later its time to show those boys of his what a family man is! and how to respect a woman! Monica deserves better even if she dont think so right now, it will hit her eventually you dont stay 25 forever!
That's how YOU want your future family to be like and that's fine but there's a lot of people in this world and marriage is not for every happy couple you know. "Inner happiness"? please define that...and are you saying that a family can't have "inner happiness" unless the parents are married? After reading your previous post it also seems like you think being married is some sort of guarantee that your man will always be by your side? Am I correct?
Every couple is different. If Monica and her man are happy (married or not) that's all that matters and congrats to them.
Congrats 2 them! U can't really dog a baby.. its mama.. WAMP WAMP..LOL.
i don't want to ever, ever get married. It seems like i have so much work to do in the marriage or i'm not doing my part. I don't want to cook, clean or have sex unless i feel like it. I don't want to work 8 hrs a day and still get treated like i stay home all day. I still want kids, i know that sounds crazy but i don't have the patience.
Is she married to this dude? Probally not, she needs to stop leting cats make a fool out of her. Most women know how men are, so why keep leting them do what they do to you. Every time a woman has a baby without a ring her value goes down.
Bronx, Ima get you for that comment. It is so cruel but true.
I dont know were to start????This is so sad america still think on pure stupity!!!Yes congrads to Monica and her Baby Daddy because thats all he is.Who wants to go around with a house full of kids still saying thats just my baby daddy.Dumn asses its not us that suffers its the children.Do u know how many fucked up heads in America
do to the fact there r so many broken homes. When u get done talking about I dont need or want to be married youre children are dying inside wanting a father,looking @ there friends dad wishing that was there father.why u are still around here having a baby by ever man u meet..Look down on this page and read what Tyra is saying about going home 2 an empty house. put your key in the door and there's no one there.That;s how kids feel when the schools r having family day or fathers day comes around.And shes rich and cant find the right man.But the only smart thing she did do was. NO HUSBAND NO BABY.No getting married wont make your relationship better,But u will get more respect.When a man have a baby by u. and not married to you believe you me he will be making babys with someone else soon.Some Men dont get marry because they feel if they cheat its not bad because there not married.But a good married man will at least think twice before he cheats and make a baby on the out side.Men do what they do to women because women let them.
LOL @ Chic Noir
Bring it sweetie
*HUGS*
I have a questions why does Iman look like Mr. T's sister in that pic. She's a stunning woman, but that must have been a bad day.
Lets face it 70 percent of black children are brought into this world by unwed mothers.. its just sad.. you dont see arab women, asian women etc having babies without a ring on their finger..say what you want, but marriage is what keeps communities and families together..and lets face it..i am not ruining my body and sacrificing my life to bring a child into this world for a man that i cant get half of everything or have legal rights to..sorry.i am worth more than that..that gives him MORE lee way to leave and us the women are stuck carrying the brood.. i am worth more than breeding..
Rocko is handsome but he looks tired in that pic though
@5:47 hopefully you think of yourself as more than a commodity, marriage as more than a transaction, and your children as more than just offspring because that is how it sounds here.
CHIC NOIR said... "Every time a woman has a baby without a ring her value goes down."
^^^That was an ignorant assed comment. Once again, here in the United States of America women are more than chattel and women are not defined solely by their ties to men (ie. daughter of..wife of..). Your comment was insulting to single mothers everywhere. Not every unwed mother is in that situation by choice. Even if they are, it is their choice to make.
Having said all that, I do believe that a stable loving marriage between two mature, commited adults is the ideal situation in which to raise children. Monica should have gotten married before having the first child, but certainly before having the second one. At least she isn't a pregnant teenager like what's her name.
Yall hating ass bitches need to STFU like yall are living like the Virgin Mary, knowing damn well somebody is fucking you that is not even your man! GTFOH!
Congrats Monica...looking forward to the CD!
Because yes that Chick can Sing! And whoever said she can't must be jealous and want her man! Bird head bitches!
You the STUPID ASS BITCH!!!!11:09pm
Who in the fuck Jealous of Monica. Yes I would Love to have her money, but damn if i want her 2 children out of wedlock and end up raising them by myself..like she will end up doing.Every man she dates she put his name on her body like they belong to her and they leave her ass.Thats why women like her need a husband and need to be married.Luckly she dont have any girls because that is a sorry ass way to raise your kids by branding your body with a mans name.her kids be like mommy who is this one. she be like this the nigga i use to date,this the nigga i use 2 talk 2,and this the one i use to fuck..that is so damn tacky.And yes she can SANG not sing because the girl is bad,I give her that. She's just dumb as a box of rocks when it comes to men.AND WHO WANTS HER MAN DAMN HE WONT EVEN MARRY HER ASS WHAT U THINK HE'LL DO WITH THE NEXT DUMMY.AND NO ONE IS SAYING THEY'RE LIVING LIKE THE Virgin Mary.you talking about fucking we are talking about having kids and not being married.SORRY BITCH YOU'RE on the wrong page, HOLLA WHEN U CATCH UP
YES WILD SAFARI I AM MORE THAN A COMMODITY THAT IS WHY I WONT GIVE A MAN A CHILD WITHOUT A COMMITMENT SIGNED IN PAPER!! PERIOD... THIS IS A TRANSACTION..MARRIAGE IS B ETTER FOR THE CHILD PERIOD YOU CANT TELL ME MOMMY DOING ALL THE WORK IS FAIR WHILE THE MAN JUST LAYS HIS SEED, FOOL ME ONCE SHAME ON ME BUT FOOL ME TWICE SHAME ON ME.. THAT IS WHY BLACK FAMILIES ARE SO TORN APART, WE KEEP RATIONALIZING IT AS OK TO HAVE KIDS OUTTA WEDLOCK AND IT IS NOT OKAY.PERIOD...
^^^^5:10am I so agree with you.When u keep having all these babys out of wedlock when you really want a husband who in the hell will want you with a big ass ready made family.Youre very lucky 2 get a man willing 2 take care of 1 child thats not he's.let alone 2,3,4.
now a days most marriages end in divorce, because alot of women are so damn desperate to get married. MOst women don't even know the man they married, so they have 3 and 4 kids by him just say i married my baby and you didn't, then they divorced and left with 4 or 5 kids. stop thinking that a man is going to be the answer to your problem, i see women with all these lazy ass cheating men just to say i have a husband and in reality you don't have shit.
Exactly 11:05 marriage don't mean a damn thing. Black women love to run around talking about I got a Husband as if this validates them or something. A womans worth is not synonomus with having a damn husband. I know plenty of married women who's husband's are still someone's baby fucking daddy. So please stop acting like a man can make a proper woman out of you. You make you a woman single, with a kid, without a kid. Know your own value ladies and it has nothing to do with a FUCKING HUSBAND>lol Some of you broads sound strait up out of the 50's its a new day. Great if you get married but don't try to shit on others who don't want to be bothered with the legal aspect of marriage. (marriage) Easy as hell to get into HARD as hell to get out of.
I'm sorry, Romelo did you say? I just got a huge kick out of that. sigh.
11:05 AM
Good post!
But when all 3 of u get threw talking all those marriages that ended in divorce.they can say they did try and do the right thing.And as for everybody getting married the clebs take it to another level.they get married to damn much.and they always end in divorce because they marry after dating 3 to 4 months.But really children need 2 parents in the same home so they can grow up feeling stable.I notice how some keep saying they dont want to be married.It's really not about you.we are talking about what children need.Not what you cant get. You probably never been asked.You cant tell me u get a really good man and he ask to marry u, U wont jump and do it. b dumb. if u wont marry him some other women will.
2.19 yes children need two parents in the home and i need a million dollars, but it's not going to happen.
ALL YOUR ANSWERS FOR THIS TOPIC IS IN THE BIBLE
Who the hell "gives" a man a child? A woman should have a child because she wants one, because she and her partner want to create and raise a life TOGETHER. I also agree having papers on a man doesn't mean a damn thing if that man isn't worth a damn. Husband or not, if he isn't a good mate your union is worthless.
I'll say it again, parenting is easier and usually better (not always) with two parents in the household. It can be done well with one parent or with the parents working together but living apart. All kinds of scenarios can result in healthy, happy, well-adjusted children.
Some folks on here sound desperate to be Mrs. Anybody and to trap a dude into marrying them so they can show off the ring and flaunt their "status" and "worth." Get a life.
They both must like the drama, they're still together.
Lets all leave this blog alone!!!!!It started from Monica having a baby 2 the BIBLE.Congrads Monica Do what u do.Shit everybody do what you do.Cant nobody judge u but god.
You gon say only God can judge her? What you think God gon say about them out of wedlock babies? If you gon bring God into it, then the hoe need to get married. You shoulda just kept it at "Monica do what you do." Cause trying to bring God into it, you'll have that poor girl burning in hell.
^^^^^
AMEN
@ oh No You did'int! said!!! 11:03am. Dummy did u read what i said. I said {It started from Monica having a baby 2 the BIBLE}That was what i was saying leave god out it..People always got something to say about somebody elses blog, when you dont know what the fuck youre talking about.everbody has an opinion and that was mine.So fuck u.. Move on Bizotch>>>>>>>>.You must didnt read no one elses blog but mine because everybody was talking about god.. thats why i made my comment,But I didnt address no one personally.
I just don't understand what the big deal is about the marriage thing...people are talking like just because they are not married YET that their kids lives are ruined... She had the first baby and he didn't go no where, Marriage doesn't all of a sudden make everything okay. Just because they are not married does not mean that he is any less of a father to his kids...they are still together..remember that...The problem with marriage is that people see Kids as an excuse to get married, which can ultimately hurt the kids more if it ends in divorce which most do. Let them have their relationship, when marriage is relevant to them, when they've come to that point where they can see forever together in their future they will tackle that. The worst thing to do is be in a marriage that is unstable with your kids wishing you would divorce...If its working for them now i don't see the problem. Kids or not, a family is not defined by the marriage license you sign, its deeper than that, they will figure it out when they are ready...2 kids and he's still around...thats a blessing in the black community...Congrats to Monica and her baby daddy..Do you and not what everybody else thinks you should...Everyones relationships are different...
some of yal on here talkin mad smack! if you fucking there is a chance you can have a baby...yal keep saying yal won't do this and yal won't do that but damn shit happens, and if it happens to you, which let me remind you it can, yal gon be some hush mouth guzzies! Everyone knows the convential way of a family is marriage then kids, but times are changing and that is not always possible...Some women can't find suitable mates to be married because dudes don't want to be tied down to one chick...does this mean that this woman should not be able to be blessed with a child if she wants one? (this has absolutely nothing to do with monica, just the topic at hand) It's hard enough to find a decent boyfriend, thats why so many of yal have had im sure more than 2 or 3 serious relationships, because they don't always work...whats makes you think you can wake up the next morning and find a husband...Children are a blessing wether they are out of wedlock or not...Obviously its in God's plan for her...and if someone else mentions burning in hell, i will send you there myself...Sin is sin..we are humans, we all do it...no sin is bigger than the other..remember that...Focus on your own lives instead of criticizing everybody elses because YOU don't agree with it...Life is life, and in life shit happens...but what can you do but deal with it and move on...? absolutely nothing...
my bad i meant to say conventional* not covential
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