Saturday, September 26, 2009

Word to Alicia Keys

The next time your lover's soon to be ex-wife tries to have a sit down with you, do it. That way she won't be reduced to airing y'all's dirty laundry out on Twitter. Last night Swizz Beats' estranged wife Mashonda wrote an open letter to Alicia Keys on TwitLonger and she aired that ass out.

Mashonda vows to Re-Tweet her diatribe everyday until she gets a response.

On Saturday 26th September 2009, @MashondaLoyal said:

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I've never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I've reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK's last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying " why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken". Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would've handled things more carefully. I'm not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don't have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what's real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the "people", this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don't understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I'm not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.

(image lifted from Whudat)


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ELove said...

DAMN you didn't know about that one...
SHE (Brit-Brit) use to get SO WASTED that she use to suck off her BG-Dancers after shows AND a couple of pics were on the net with Ole Boys THANG in HER Mouth (The ONE you just mentioned)

TRUST JT found out as well about these things

And DOES Swiss have on a PINK HAT ???
I Guess @BeeGee's name Swiss Treats is A Keeper

Wild Safari said...

Dang E-love! I used to like ole boy. Now I've lost respect. No, I never heard about that. Honestly, I have only been gossiping for a few years. LOL! I do remember how she used to proclaim her virginity to the skies. I knew it was all bull because at the same time she was gyrating and writhing like a Lolita. I refused to listen to her stuff and vowed my (future) children wouldn't either.

Anonymous said...

I saw a picture of Swizz and Mashonda with their son, Kasseem Jr., and little man looks just like his dad. I see why Mashonda's heart aches.

I'll never look at Alicia the same, and I'm glad that the one copy of her CD that I have was given to me. I will not support her music or her charities with my money. It's not hard to find other charitable causes to donate time and/or money to. I never really cared for her music, but have always admired her involvement in social-political causes.

Anonymous said...

I understand that there's a huge age range on RWS, but some of these comments reek of youth, lack of education, and in general the GHETTO.

I know of too many situation when children of former relationships are physically and mentally abused by the current woman. Mashonda has every right to ask AK to speak to her face to face, or she has to limit the time her son spends with the father. I can't even begin to describe to you the thousands of horrible child abuse cases I know of regarding kids in this situation that result in extreme physical injury, and even death. Even a small snide remark AK makes to that young child can do damage. SB is a punk and a coward, but Mashonda has every right to be concerned about AK being around her son.

SB does NOT have the right to take his son around any women he pleases. What kind of ghetto shit is that? After reading Mashonda's letter I see she is going to be very protective of her son when she starts dating again.

Y'all need to grow up and get educated.

krazy ass malika said...

9:34, i remember how my moms would just bring her new boyfriends home. she didn't introduce us, didn't tell us they were coming ahead of time, and ask how we'd feel. dudes would just show up. it wasn't a bunch of them or anything, but she did just move two dudes in, before she married the third one who wanted to maintain their his own crib till us kids were gone (which i understand and respect).
anyway, now that i have a son and his father and i are gonna separate soon, i see how bad the situations with my mom's dudes could have been. they could have been child molestors and all kinds of shit, but thankfully, they weren't they were still broke ass loser though).
i've got no plans to date anybody anytime soon, but now that i'm looking at the news and seeing these dudes killing a woman's whole family, i plan to be VERY cautious of who i have near my child. me and my son's father have also gotten into it big time when he tried to have one of his random hoes near my child, so he knows not to try that shit again. folks need to learn to be more careful about who and what they introduce their kids to. we all remember effed up stuff that we saw when we were kids, and as parents, we shouldn't want to pass on dangerous behavior.

Anonymous said...

@2:40 kfed and shar WAS the same as brit. so the fuck what brit had papers on him.. brit is the one who got fucked in the end. brit is the one all up in the media,losing her kids, walking around with no draws on thats just nasty. she's also a drug addict and she is crazy as a lark. it does not matter if you are married or not GOD DON"T LIKE UGLY. Kfed was living with shar playing house so he owed her and those kids something. check it out kfed thought he'd further his career by marrying brit. a blind man could see that. but what happened they both ended up getting the short end of the stick while shar is looking fabulous. shar STILL has her kids. she's not said to be a junkie and she's not all up in the media making a fool out of herself and her kids. don't get mad because shar came out on top and untouched. shar is great and still working.. get that money girl. kfed is still hanging around. everyone thought brit was the better woman because kfed married her. looks like kfed married the wrong woman.. HAHAHAHA.

Anonymous said...

@7:37 yeah i heard brit was a ho also. but people think she's so great because federline married her. men marry hoes everyday.jt found that shit out.

Wild Safari said...

@7:13AM Wait a minute now. Shar was all up and through the media slobberig and crying about how Britney stole her man, blah, blah, blah looking like a FOOL right after Korn Fed left her. She continued to play that card for the next couple of years. I agree she is looking like the best out of the three right now but that ain't saying much. I'm not downing her but she does get the side eye.

Janie Haney said...

Beat A. Keys ass!!

That mutt would have a major ass whippin coming from me. Just jump from behind a parked car one night and bust that slut upside that empty ass head.
slutty biatch.

Anonymous said...

@ I Support Mashonda:

"These half-breed whores do not respect the black woman. They think they are better than us and we don't deserve what they have."

You got some serious issues. Hopefully you don't have any children to pass your poison on to.

heights91 said...

Swizz and AK deserve each other. No integrity, all selfishness. Feel sorry for the boy. I'm feeling the letter. Sometimes you're so devastated you don't show restraint. But they did worse. Cheater, homewreckers, liars!

Anonymous said...

Leave Mo alone she just needs a hug come on everyone...GROUP HUG!

Anonymous said...

Leave Mo alone she just needs a hug...Come on everyone....GROUP HUG!!!!

Anonymous said...

Well said, It was said very tactful, and your choice of words were great. It's true, not to have vengence, but giving it to God. I commend you for your character. You sound like someone I can trust around my husband ; )

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