Thursday, April 29, 2021

Mendeecees Betrays Yandy's Loyalty


On the current cycle of 'Couples Retreat' on VH1 Mendeecees tells Yandy if the roles were reversed he's not sure he would hold her down the way she held him down while he was locked up...

26 comments:

Anonymous said...

the things that cause MAJOR problems in relationships:

Going to Prison for a long time
Committing Adultery
Mishandling/or not having Money
Constant Nagging

^^^^ these are the main things I see that can destroy a relationship

Anonymous said...

He didn't betray her loyalty, Yandy is upset bc he told the TRUTH in front of the world. One of his kids mom's already said a long time ago that he told her he was only with Yandy bc she was on tv. Yandy knows what time it is. I don't doubt that he loves her but he's definitely not in to her like that bc if he was he would've said what she wanted to hear. I used to rlly like her but I do see now that she lies and puts on fronts. And besides all that if you have to ask or wonder whether your partner would support you during a tough time like incarceration you already know the answer. Period.

Unknown said...

Yeah she already knew how he truly felt, she just thought he would have been grateful enough to lie on camera. It was in that moment she realized how much he doesn't like her.

Anonymous said...

@10:01 AM Exactly.

Unknown said...

Welp that shows this nigha in jail that he would hold it down for it seems 💀💀😂😂

Anonymous said...

You can't expect someone else to make the same life choices you do just because you feel it's the right thing to do. They are not you and may not share the same perspective. No two people think exactly the same.

Ella M Nopea said...

She faked a marriage for attention so I don't put anything pass her. She held him down for a storyline on the show just like she planned a wedding special and never signed the papers. If Mona wasn't following her while he was in prison would she still have held him down?

Anonymous said...

@9:27am - Add : Losing a child to that list.

There was a time I did not think my husband and I would make it after our week old passed. We made a choice to push through and heal together, but that shit was WORK. The work is worth it....

That had to hurt to hear because she has known the answer all along. She's not my favorite, but she sure did seem to do her best for a man with many character flaws....

Anonymous said...

I respect him for telling her the truth, no matter how painful it might be. Most women won't admit that they really want men to lie to them and get mad when they find out the truth. What this says to me is Yandy didn't get a chance to find out what Mendeecees's core values really are. Perhaps she really knew deep down inside that he didn't care about her in that way and just ignored it, hoping eventually he could. I believe Yandy lives in a fantasy because she was so focused on competing with his babymommas and showing them that in some way she won. My advice, get to know your man and especially if you decide to marry him. Determine if his values line up with yours and don't be in such a rush.

NiyabinghiWerewolfObeahWoman said...

I know not these fools, other than seeing them on RWS. Of course he would not hold her down, if the roles were reversed. These hoes ain't loyal. Black women burn your captain save a hoe capes. I burned mine.

Anonymous said...

What All y'all said....Any person who asks their partner to do a bid with them is beyond Selfish. They are not married...This ni66a came home & still didn't commit to her. That alone, says everything. Hopefully, Yandy sees this shit for what it is & change the narrative on his ass....
Every man aint a Papoose...

Anonymous said...

His name still sounds like a disease. If she ever grows a real spine, he'll be another homeless negro.

Anonymous said...

Women better learn to stop doing for these men what they wouldn't do for them. Aint no real man gonna sit around waiting on a woman to get out of prison. Women and beta males are the only fools who do sh*t like that.

R in NYC said...

Yandy is smart in artist management and in not marrying dat fool since NY state counts all the household income to determine child support (She wasnt trying to have her money garnished for his other children) but she is DUMB as hell when it comes to that man.
He has NEVER been as into her as she has been into him. They just don't have that chemistry. He liked the fact she was a hustler like him. That goes a long way with NYC niggas.

Anonymous said...

Lol. I remember at one reunion Yandy told Samantha and Erica that they were jealous of her because he proposed to her instead. What a damn Fool she was and is.

Anonymous said...

Ummmmm yes! He needed someone to put money on his books, so he married his ATM....selfish indeed.

Unknown said...

This right here is why I'm so hesitant to commit now. These dudes will scream from the top of their lungs "these hoes ain't loyal" but will use you for a come up and disappear the second you need them for any kind of support. Of course he used her for a come up. We wouldn't even know his name if he hadn't dicked her down.

Anonymous said...

●●Yandy thought her & Mandeecee were like Remi & Pap. Pap had (has) REAL LOVE for his real wife; not just for tv.

ms mac said...

Yandy's one of those women who from the outside seems very confident and acts like she has it all figured out, but deep down she's quite fragile and has extremely low self-esteem. This is the only reason she would put up with a man who undervalues her, criticizes her while he's behind bars, tells her she can move on anytime she want to, and then says he's unsure he would be as loyal as she was. It would probably take her seeing him in bed with another woman for her to figure out he's just not that into her. But even then I suspect she'd still try to work it out "for the sake of their family." I'm not even going to dog her out because she seems very slow on the uptake. But we all have to learn our own way and in our own time.

Unknown said...

If you have to ask, then you already know the answer...

This is why you keep your relationship off television and social media. Some nuccas are nothing more than clout chasers and ain't built for the long haul or long-term relationship. It's hurtful to find out on tv that your nucca ain't shit when you were down during his bid, but, at least you know and now you can pack up your self-esteem and bounce.

Anonymous said...

*hugs to you 10:37*

Anonymous said...

Yandy doesn't care nigga. That is why she catfished the wedding. Deep down she knows and is ashamed of his alleged deviant behavior with that young girl Queen of Harlems daughter and once a perve always a perve. He is disgusting and I don't even watch the show. Yandy stop. Drop. Run.

Anonymous said...

Watch her Uncensored episode on TV One. That will tell you who she is.
This dude has been in the streets all his life because of his crackhead parents.
Yandy wanted him because he's cute to her and he sweet talked her into believing he wanted her. He dug her out some baby's and she thinks thats love.
He continued to cheat on her during the Love and Hip Hop show.
He's a fuk boi. He has no skills?. What job can he perform?
His mama is jealous of his relationship. No man wants her fat ugly crack ass including her crabs in the barrel mentality.

Anonymous said...

@Niya,

Since you like doing readings. Do one on him and watch his interactions with his daughter...Yeah well..

Anonymous said...

Stop attacking Yandy for Mandeeces gaslighting manipulation and lies. Rah ali said he had micro penis. That is the sexual version of napoleon comlex plus he has been accused of being a molester. Yandy is doing what the old black female mules of yester year hwve told her. A little piece of a man is better than none at all. Just so happens the piece she got is a piece of shit. She may be delusional bet she not as foolish as yall think. The girl is very business savy. She needs therapy.

Anonymous said...

Many thanks, 4:32....hugs right back

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