Saturday, November 24, 2018

Trouble in Paradise for Fantasia and Kendall?


Earlier this month Rock & Soul singer Fantasia Barrino raised eyebrows after suffering a serious injury for the second time in just over a year [click here if you missed that].

Is something deeper going on...?

Just days after Fantasia announced her finger had been broken the married singer made a cryptic post about failing relationships.


20 comments:

Anonymous said...

fanny always going to have problems with men because she keeps downgrading instead of upgrading. i will never understand celebrity black women still picking basic men. mary got ripped off. cici got knocked up by a serial babymama making machine. jill scott got ripped off as well. tiny stay getting used like a doormat. i don't get it.

Anonymous said...

Who cares. Pattern of dumb mate choosing and then whining about dumb decisions online for sympathy and support. Shit's old, especially from her ass

Anonymous said...

Pretty pic

Anonymous said...

If you don't truly love yourself and can live your life without yearning for someone to complete you...you will continue to make bad choices in relationships.

Niyabinghi/ObeahWomanWarrior said...

Fanny you too old for this shit. what 3:38 PM said and cosign to the 9th power.

Unknown said...

@3:38 pm and 4:16 pm

ITA!!!!!!! 100%

Anonymous said...

Beautiful sentiment. Worth posting whether problems in paradise. Damn. Fanny not the only one going through this in Hollyweird or beyond. She has tried & failed. Values, boundaries and moral code has all but eroded in most relationships. My heart goes out to Fanny & those with mates who fail to be able to get on the same page with each other.

I never believed music movies and entertainment could help push the black family into oblivion. But in such a short time the glorification of all these vices are the main criteria for modern day relationships. More to it of course..but a very defined & straight line can be drawn from the continued bombardment / glorification of a materialistic, sexually driven, soulless narcissism that has infected our community.

We could give a fuck about each other & it shows.

I believe all our hate, jealousy, resentment & lack of support in our community contributes energetically to the fires, pestilence & disasters, natural or otherwise. Our energy towards one another is part of the problem. "Their" contribution to this current shitshow is a whole other post.

Yes. Many of these things were given to us as spiritual / emotional diseases by "them". But we are well aware, so why we still falling for the okey doke & breaking each other down??? This is not who we are. Dr. Cress-Welsing wrote about it. Explaining "them" to us & to "them" too. Coates gave it to us again. And here we type- shitting on Fanny & other individuals instead of supporting & putting good energy out there for ourselves & our community.

We speak on the bible so much & kill our neighbor with bad words & wishes.

Remember the music & even the sentiment of entertainment in the 90's? More innocent, forgiving & courageous. Now a lot of violence, ignorance & devil worship. No good energy now. Which leads us back to relationships in the black community. Where are her examples? We are one feather touch away from being broken on all levels; as the ancestors are crying out.

Fanny has a very deep deep soul manifested in the way she sings. Imagine if she had the same tutelage as a Nina Simone. She didn't! Wish Fanny well. Wish all our people well. Y'all steady yelling "Wakanda Forever" & fell asleep in the theatre.

Not a fan of Fanny. Really only know about her personal life & saw her on an awards show or two. She has a good heart & just wants love & acceptance. Damn. Can nobody relate to that???? Those without sin cast the first stone. Our sisters & brothers are out here angels with broken wings wanting to be loved & understood. Sometimes we benefit by falling back into prayer / good energy instead of the hate. It boomerangs. Much love to you all.

Anonymous said...

Your first teacher of love is you. If you are clueless about what it takes to love you, please don't expect someone to drop from the sky and show you how it's done. It won't happen. Learn to love yourself, learn to know yourself, so when you find someone who doesn't fit into the pieces of your puzzle, you won't try and force it and you'll recognize that's a piece for another puzzle. Time is the key, take your time and when you learn yourself, you won't second guess yourself.

Good luck to you Fantasia!

Anonymous said...

5:12 I'm sure you posted some deep, insightful shit, but that's way too much text for me to consider reading on a gossip blog!

Tia said...

Looking like a bag of money; I see you Fanny! Looking real gorgeous. Especially, in the love department I want Fantasia to win. She is definitely a treasure and very deserving. Hell, we all are! She does have a penchant and weakness for these light skin brothers ( I love 'em all.) If it's not right, get out Fantasia. Married or dating, these relationships aint no punk. It takes work. Then on top of that, some of these folks out here are bat shit crazy. Sometimes, you don't find out until after the fact. But it's never too late to chunk the deuces. It's better to be single, drama free, have peace of mind than being partnered up and being miserable and walking on egg shells. Hope all is well with Fantasia.

Anonymous said...

3:38 You better tell it!

Wholeness and high self esteem is better than any makeup, degrees, money and accolades

Oow wee! When you know who you are and who made you that is an instant repellent to toxic and abusive people cause you won't stand for their bullshit

Don balee me juh watch said...

So what does she want us to do about it?

Anonymous said...

5:12 pm, your statement was indeed deep, and insightful and very truthful. You really should post it on other areas on social media where it can be possibly read by more of the masses. The yt man says, if you want to hide it from black people put it in writing. Your statement basically exemplifies the causes and effects of what's crippling our community. Take Fannie's name out and you could be talking about many others. If she's suffering, and I hope she's not, she should reach out for help. If this relationship doesn't work out, I hope that she takes the time to heal, and get to know herself. She needs recognize and nurture all that she has to offer, before she jumps into another relationship.

Anonymous said...

@5:37 EXACTLY...Brevity is key

And just in case you didn't know
6:56 is really 5:12 co-signing THEMSELVES

Anonymous said...

Barbara Streisand said once that if her mother had paid attention to her, she might not have become a singer. The point i sm making is...most artists are flawed. The more talented...the bigger or more flawed. These women confuse attention for love. That's all.

Anonymous said...

Good luck Fannypack.

Don balee me juh watch said...

@8:06 pm I agree. They clearly are the same person. I don’t even know what point he/she was trying to make. Lol

Anonymous said...

Praying for you Fannie Mae. Be encouraged.

☛☢Twitter☺Fingers☢☚ said...

A broken finger sounds to me as if someone attempted to rip off her wedding ring from her hand.

Anonymous said...

Very well said 5:12

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