Friday, September 20, 2019

Fantasia's Husband Responds to Submission Backlash


This week R&B singer Fantasia Barrino sparked a debate on gender roles after saying most women cannot keep a man because they are not willing to submit [click here if you missed that]. 

Fantasia and her husband Kendall Taylor clarify Fanny's statement...

In a video posted online Kendall explains submitting is not necessarily about domination but mutual trust and that a man must lead his family with integrity and have financial literacy and knowledge about community issues concerning the family and a deep commitment to God and scripture.

 

39 comments:

Unknown said...

This dude is speaking truth. But unfortunately I cannot be submissive to my husband. Let me add that I would love to be, but he is unworthy of this for several reasons. He is terrible with finances, I tried to allow him to be in charge of paying bills but came home to our lights being cut off and bank accounts with over draft fees. He works and makes good money, but has very bad credit and bills in collection and doesn’t care to fix this. He is not my child and I refuse to do this for him. So I have taken on the tasks of keeping the bills on track, and have separated my credit, bank accounts from his. It’s a terrible way to live as husband and wife and seems more like roommates, but this is the only way to keep my family from falling apart. We have kids, so divorce is not an option at this point.

Anonymous said...

Mmmmm.......Very Interesting.

Anonymous said...

R in NYC says:

Let me see if this marriage makes it five more years before I take this dude serious. He reminds me of too many of those kneegrows who find religion in jail. Fanny was probably just elated dude was willing to marry her. After being used by Young Dro and that married TMobile dude, of course this man would seem heaven sent.

iketernr said...

Very intelligent people on Snitch this morning. Do tell, do tell.

Unknown said...

9:08 Good luck with that mess I couldn’t do it 🤦🏾‍♀️

Alma's Daughter said...

I bet they are walking this shit back. I never laughed so hard at the roasting they got—just on this board alone. I needed a laugh yesterday and the House of Snitch didn't disappoint.

Submit, indeed—har!

Niyabinghi/ObeahWomanWarrior said...

She should have kept that mess to herself, ain't nobody checking for no advice from these low self esteem phallus worshipers, who have yet to spend the time, to work on loving themselves and learning their self worth, too many use relationship as a distraction from working on themselves, and the fear of being alone, we are in an era where most women have their own money, place to live, car, job, education, the only thing a man serves at this point to an independent woman is companionship and the occasional peen. And if he does not have himself together she will happily be alone. I have had too many unhappily married friends and family members, who front on social media and are miserable in their unhappy marriages. I refuse to be unhappy with another person just for the sake of image or the fear of being alone. I cannot and will not compromise my peace of mind and health. The sensible women on the board yesterday said what needed to be said. It must be the season of fuckery from Cancers, from Wendy, Curtis, Lil Kim, Fanny and Tiny and her huzzand come the other day on the blog, she whining up on him chat bout dem ah celebrate 9 years "kiss teeth" chile please all the time yuh spen pon social media a bawl bout im ah cheet, knife up yuh self look bloodclaat crazy an him still caan keep im dick a yaad. If you all don't get thee entire fuck out of here with y'all fuckery. RWS is the wrong blog to come with fuckery, we don't cosign fuckery over here.

Anonymous said...

Fantasia HAS to be submissive because that would be the only thing that gave her a leg up over him choosing an actual baddie. Ugly women gotta do a little more.

Niyabinghi/ObeahWomanWarrior said...

11:18 AM
Shut the fuck up you asshole, Fantasia is not ugly, she is a beautiful Nubian Goddess, how ever dumb but beautiful nonetheless. Post your muthfukken picture I can read your energy and you ugly af. dusty ass. Foh with that tired ass baddie shit.

ms mac said...

The brother didn't say anything terrible but it certainly sounds contrived and scripted. That's that prison hustle he's spittin' but everything must have context. I wonder how he feels about those years he spent in prison submitting to wardens and corrections Officers.

The modern day woman who has her shit together has no reason to submit to a man. But women who don't know how to manage their own finances, oversee their households or create a life that's based on order, structure and organization think they do. Fantasia got this so twisted. I hope it works out for her but I could never take relationship advice from someone who would enter into marriage within three weeks and doesn't understand the difference between lust and love.

Anonymous said...

She looks like shes really really good in the sack, so she got that goin for her, hopefully she can cook...maybe be cool with an occasional 3some.

ms mac said...

Final thought and then I'm done with this whole topic because it's mostly falling on deaf ears to the Fantasia's of the world. Our people need to let go of that Submission word. It's played out an no longer applicable, purposeful or useful to the state of the Black Union. We need to try instituting these words instead: Cooperation, Collaboration, Commitment and Communion.

Niyabinghi/ObeahWomanWarrior said...

ms mac sis cosign to the 9th power.

Anonymous said...

With his financial literacy, how much $ did he bring into the marriage?

Tippie Hippie said...

Ha!. I refuse to listen to either one these questionables!!!!

Tippie Hippie said...

Ms Mac High 5

Anonymous said...

Facts single lonely broads!! Feminism is for yt women only...who have husband's by the way. The bible says the man is the Head under God then the woman. Women were made for men period not the other way around. Sorry. Women need to take back their soft ways and stop acting like the boss all the time. Nothing wrong with being submissive to your husband. That's why most of these moderm women say there are no good men. There are good men looking for women with wife material qualities not his homeboy.

Anonymous said...

Fancy and Phaedra give the same vibe.... like they would do the mostest in the sack. The things they could do with them liver lips they got, Baaaaby !!! And that hustling spirit they are every bums dream girl,

Anonymous said...

They are perfect for East other. They look like the typical couple I used to see in my high school years. He males a lot of sense but that’s what I would expect to hear. It’s a over and over thought out analysis that’s been repeated by men who changed their lives. I give him kudos for changing his life. The question is how long will he stay changed. Fanny is a come up for him. Let’s be real.

Anonymous said...

**each**

Anonymous said...

Some of you jealous ugmo's are not even fit or talented enough to keep a man let alone get a legal husband. This is the same reason I stopped posting public pics with mine years ago bcos the chronically single womens got the most advice and critical things to say like shown here. Turn your testosterone down just bcos no one has ever publicly claimed you. Go Fanny!!!

5:06 Bitch you need more people said...

5:06 PM
Bitch you stopped posting yo shit cause no one was buying what you selling, you sound like the typical woman who settled for some bum, then want to style on the so called chronically single, some single women have standards, and trying to be out here with no jail bird, bad credit, 10 babies mama, multiple felonies and chronically unemployed. You sound like you married one of those. 98% of married women are miserable in their marriage because they settled out of loneliness and low self esteem, go sit yo ass down somewhere you need more people and yo shit been been read.

Mybidness said...

Lost all y'all a lost generation

Unknown said...

Well, my sexy chocolate Fannie Mae, you did the damn thing. That album should be coming out any day. Good plug beforehand.

Anonymous said...

@ 5:17 Yes you are a single AF bitter one! I will send you a dildo boo. I know you're frustrated nobody has touched your ass since the doctor slapped it out ya mama's womb. I bet your right hand is strong AF! ��

Anonymous said...

Black people are so lost. No wonder everything seem dumb down. I don't agree with the word submit. So, I came across a viewers Vlog by the name of Vicki Dillard. She commended a young gifted entrepreneur (Ben X)about the subject; he vocalized in a manner that it's 100% facts. I've been married for over 24 years and that is his age in which he has grown into a wise man. I wish more of this generation will step into this kind of wisdom with some education.

Anonymous said...

Lies. But I bet his mistress submits.

6:15 PM is 5:06 hit dog hollering said...

Save the dilo for your husband's boyfriend, you know the one he married in prison, bitch don't get mad cause you claim chronically single women had something to say about your union. Why they had something to say? unless you one of the many "unhappily married" woman who complain to your single friends what a no good piece of shit your huzzban is but don't have the self worth to leave, when my now ex husband thought I signed up for years of fuckery I chucked him duces took my children and left, never looked back and been happy ever since, you just enraged your single friends you complain to ain't riding with your lonely low self esteem shit, why would they have shit to say unless you complain, get the entire fuck out of here with your miserable unhappily married ass, don't nobody envy the misery you wake up to everyday. That's why yo ass overweight, unhappy, unhealthy and look old af run tell that.

Anonymous said...

It's incredible how people on here telling complete strangers what their household looking like and who's married and who's single and who's lonely and who's marriage sucks. What the entire fuck!

Anonymous said...

I hope he is not attracted to managing HER MONEY more than her...Well I guess its his money now too...Why does it seem he saying she can't manage her finances?I hope he's not a user...Question,would he be married to her is she were poor?

Anonymous said...

*if

Pusspusd said...

@11:01 gal almost blind herself and the man still disrespectful and disloyal as ever. Any time him buckmup a sweet pussay persistent little pretty bytch it over for Tiny. Fanny can't read or write so she get a pass, a dunce bat dat, now she can add man mascot too her credentials

WGforreal said...

At some point WOMEN must set aside their EGOS and own the reality and or truth, that it's OK to love a man who may not earn as much as she does." I believe" that's where our people are failing. Allowing your man shouldn't mean, being submissive, it should not mean having him be "the boss" of you. It's about strength, trust, security and RESPECT for each other. Most of all love. The love that keeps you thriving after the hormones calm down. REAL LOVE that's about what you give, not what you take. Commitment!

Anonymous said...

submitting..? Naw family, more like mutual and equal respect for one another.

WiserWords2 said...

Anonymous said...
Facts single lonely broads!! Feminism is for yt women only...who have husband's by the way. The bible says the man is the Head under God then the woman. Women were made for men period not the other way around. Sorry. Women need to take back their soft ways and stop acting like the boss all the time. Nothing wrong with being submissive to your husband. That's why most of these moderm women say there are no good men. There are good men looking for women with wife material qualities not his homeboy.

2:33 PM
_--------------------------------------------
Equal pay for equal work is only for white women?
Black women shouldn't have the right to have credit in their own names?
I suggest you educate yourself on what life was like for ALL women before "feminism". Ignorance is a CHOICE.

Anonymous said...

Ain't no way in hell imma listen to a bitch in her 30's just now learning how to read aaaannnnnddd was about to commit suicide over someone elses damn husband. Stick to singin " Tay'Tay aka Tasia" just sing that's your expertise.

Anonymous said...

I don't get why she is being called unattractive, she is a beautiful black woman, please stop the hateful remarks it's an ugly look for you actually.

Anonymous said...

8:35 girl i was busy squirting all over my BBC to respond to your hateful ass. But being that you are chronically single we all know you got time.

Unknown said...

Fantasia, needed this man in her life. You critics don't no a decent man. I like what I see. Keep up the good work. May you marriage be on one accord with God. He his Blessing you both. Submission is for woman and men who truly love each other. I am happy for you. He's and she"s a keeper.

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