Friday, September 23, 2022

Jesse Williams Branded Financially Abusive


Actor Jesse Williams and his ex-wife Aryn Drake Lee have been waging a bitter battle over child custody from the moment he got caught cheating with actress Minka Kelly and filed for divorce [click here if you missed that]. 

In emails submitted to the courts Aryn brands Jesse emotionally and financially abusive...

RadarOnline.com has obtained a series of messages that Jesse and Aryn exchanged in the months before the actor rushed to court.
The Grey’s Anatomy star has pleaded for the judge to step in and allow the children to visit him. He said he doesn’t want to miss a “precious” moment with the children.
Jesse said his girlfriend Ciarra Pardo would be able to travel with the kids from California to New York.
Aryn fired back in an explosive declaration, “I am not in agreement with a 7yr and 8yr old being asked to fly overnight red-eye flights on a regular basis, missing at least 2 days of school per month. This was a temporary solution given for a temporary situation the first time. This is now a request that covers 8 out of the 12 months of 2022.”
“[Williams] is establishing a pattern of requiring the children to endure undue stress and fatigue to accommodate his inconsistent employment calendar, resulting in frivolous adjudication in the courts,” Aryn added.
Now, both parties have submitted messages they exchanged in the months before Jesse ran to court. In the emails from late April/early May — the two are fighting over the kids traveling to New York.
Aryn tells Jesse, “as much as you suggest that your nanny having them without you is good for them, it isn’t. It is a rollercoaster of confusion, inconsistency, and disruption. And they shouldn’t have to endure it. Noting that your nanny has never answered a Facetime call of mine. Though I could have the wrong number again, since you gave me the wrong number previously.”
“I will not tolerate any more of your threats nor any more of your pressure while you fake being the victim.”
“I am being harassed and bullied. I am a single mom with no family in town doing my very best to care for myself and our children while rebuilding after being hit with an abrupt 84% reduction in my child support.”
“I do not have extra money nor time to continue in this way with you, the attorneys, and everything that goes along with it. I am reorganizing and borrowing against my assets to make sure I maintain enough cash flow while I rebuild."
“The audacity that you have, playing victim about your last minute plane tickets, that you could have bought weeks ago btw, is insane, As per 3 of the 13 bank accounts that you turned over, you have millions of dollars in the bank, And this is without consultation on the other 10 bank accounts you didn’t turn over. The way you’re engaging with me is financially and emotionally abusive. And it’s enough already.”
“The audacity that you have, playing victim about your last minute plane tickets, that you could have bought weeks ago btw, is insane, As per 3 of the 13 bank accounts that you turned over, you have millions of dollars in the bank, And this is without consultation on the other 10 bank accounts you didn’t turn over. The way you’re engaging with me is financially and emotionally abusive. And it’s enough already.”
Aryn hopes the messages will help her case when they go before the judge later this month.

Fun Fact: The girlfriend that Jesse mentions can escort their children cross country for visitation is a former longtime family friend [click here if you missed that].  

21 comments:

Anonymous said...

Typical banter.

Anonymous said...

Team Aryn all the way. Just wish she would stay away from social media.

R in NYC said...

This will never end until those kids are grown.

NyahbinghiObeahWomanWarrior said...

Is she paying this blog to be featured on here so much? damn I am tired of seeing her depressed ass, and her complaints on her ex husband and their issues. I see why he left her ass.

Anonymous said...

Not this shit again. There has to a judge with some integrity who will correct this craziness. Although it's only a couple of days a month, I'm not in agreement with kids that young having to fly across the country just to see their father. He needs to get a condo or apartment in the same town and fly in to see them. Why is he involving some girlfriend? The interaction should stay between the parents. Unless he's engaged, he should stop bringing all these new people around his kids.

Anonymous said...

Baby girl is getting $4k a month, tax free. She could easily live on that while starting a business. From what I'm seeing, they are BOTH petty. Why is he trying to have his new girlfriend get the kids, rather than anyone else?! He was trying to poke at her. These two miserable mofos deserve each other.

Anonymous said...

She displays narcissistic traits. She's not willing to compromise. It's her way or the highway.

Anonymous said...

I’m with Warrior Witch. Can’t believe I said that.
Aryn is supposed to be so smart. Yeah, right. She isn’t. She wasted her education. An extensive education that will no doubt earn her more money than that child support. Stupid arse can earn money from home. Who the h3ll learns so many different languages and have degrees to do absolutely NOTHING with it!
TikTok’ers are making more money being creative and she b!;ching about this man when she could easily show him what he missed. I’m starting to believe she catfished him.
Kudos to Monyetta Shaw for being a strong woman despite Ne-Yo’s mind games.

Anonymous said...

Is it true that his current girlfriend was once a close friend of hers?

Anonymous said...

That's not a lot of money if you are used to living off of or earning significantly more.

Anonymous said...

I'm sick of these two.

Anonymous said...

$4,000 a month is nothing if you’re living in the wealthy end of Southern CA.

Anonymous said...

Jesse, take care if your family and put some damn clothes on

Dee said...

PLEASE STOP posting about this. I feel like I'm being harassed by their custody battle issues and I'm not even in the relationshiop. 😣

Anonymous said...

This is uppity stuff. Give me hood divorce drama.

Anonymous said...

Hood divorce drama is the exact same sht. Lower tax bracket. Mo’ ratcheting. Mug shots.

Kedarbenjudah said...

Hell Hath No Fury Like A Women Scorned

Kedarbenjudah said...

Who said Minka Kelly ain't got a type
Shamar Moore better be careful
#TrevorNoah #DerekJeter #JessieWilliams

Anonymous said...

Women, please stop blaming her. Count and consider yourself fortunate that you did not have the displeasure of trusting/helping such a man only to be used, insulted and mentally abused by him. Jesse Williams is wicked. He will reap what he has sown, sadly, it will be well deserved.

Anonymous said...

Aryn is a gifted diligent soul who thought she was investing in her husband, their marriage, their children, their home and supposedly, a beautiful future to be proud of. It is her trusty labor that anchored Jesse Williams successful performing arts career. Sadly, need less to say, this break up seems rather deliberately constructively dismissed on the one obvious spouse's part.

The displayed level of cruelty on Jesse's end is now beyond shockingly reprehensible. How quickly his memory now fails him. What goes around, comes around. For his own sake, the earlier he does right by Aryn and ceases this unnecessary hurtful insolent charade, the better for his own life and times on this earth.

Anonymous said...

Someone said 4,000 per month is enough to live on. WHERE THEY LIVE?

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